#Ply Gay

[doomsdayradio]

i love you mspec lesbians and bi lesbians and pan lesbians and omni lesbians and ply lesbians and abro lesbians and mspec gays and bi gays and pan gays and omni gays and ply gays and abro gays and mspec straights and bi straights and pan straights and omni straights and ply straights and abro straights and abros and gaybians and lesboys and trans man lesbians and turigirls and trans woman gays and enbyhets and aplatonics/aplspecs

#words words words !! #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #omni lesbian #ply lesbian #mspec gay #bi gay #pan gay #omni gay #ply gay #mspec straight #bi straight #pan straight #omni straight #ply straight #gaybian #lesboy #trans man lesbian #turigirl #trans woman gay #enbyhet #aplatonic #aplspec #aplatonic spectrum #!

[bi-lesbian]

#mspec lesbian #mspec gay #bi lesbian #bi gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #ply lesbian #ply gay #omni lesbian #omni gay #inclusionist #userbox #banner #flags #my flags #flag art #queer #feel free to use or just reblog!

[rouge-the-bat]

happy pride reminder mspec lesbians and gays are the coolest (proof: i am one)

#mspec lesbian #mspec gay #bi lesbian #bi gay #pan lesbian #pan gay #ply lesbian #ply gay #omni lesbian #omni gay #pride month

[yourfavismspechomohet]

love, there’s no such thing as a “bi lesbian.” someone can’t be bi and a lesbian. Coming from a lesbian myself it just doesn’t happen that way. Being a bisexual means that you like BOTH, being a lesbian means you ONLY like non men. It’s a mockery of real lesbians, it’s not a real sexuality.

Let’s take this apart separately, shall we?

“There’s no such thing as a Bi Lesbian”

Tell that to all the Bi Lesbians that follow me, and like my posts, and request for posts.

Tell that to the Bi Lesbians I reblog from and talk to occasionally.

Tell that to the older queers that identify as Bi Lesbians.

I guess apparently they don’t exist then. 🤷

“Someone can’t be Bi and a Lesbian”

Ah, this is a very popular one on this blog that I keep getting. I could link you to those, but I won’t. Here’s some ways you can be Bi and a Lesbian at the same time:

Biromantic Homosexuals

Homoromantic Bisexuals

Bi people who label themselves as Lesbians, to reclaim queer history. Because ALL Sapphics, regardless of if they were attracted to men or not, were referred to as Lesbians.

Bi people may also label themselves as Lesbians to reclaim being called a Lesbian by Biphobes trying to get them to pick one.

Bi people who lean more towards women, may call themselves Bi Lesbians.

Abroromantics/Abrosexuals may label themselves as Bi Lesbians because their orientation only swings back and forth between those two.

“Coming from a Lesbian myself, it just doesn’t happen that way.”

Well, for the second part, “It doesn’t happen that way”, just go back to the previous comments on “Someone can’t be Bi and a Lesbian”. It does and can happen.

Now for the first part “Coming from a Lesbian myself”. I hear this a lot. Not just from Lesbians, not just from queer people, but people of all different communities, one thing I hear all the time is “Coming from a [Blank] myself”. You need to understand that you are not the only Lesbian on earth. And Lesbians are not a hive-mind. You’re not all the same, and you’re not all going to have the same opinions. If that were the case, all Lesbians would look, talk, act the same way, and have the same views. But you don’t, because you’re not a hive-mind. Simply implying that all people of the same sexuality should have the same opinions is wrong. Believe it or not, I’ve seen all different kinds of lesbians who were Pro-Mspec Lesbian, who were Anti-Mspec Lesbian, and were neutral on Mspec Lesbians. And if all Lesbians had the same opinions, you would not be separated on these different opinions.

“Being a bisexual means that you like BOTH, being a lesbian means you ONLY like non men.”

Being Bi means that you could just about like any gender. It doesn’t just mean both, as in men and women. Bi people could definitely just be attracted to women and men, but they’re also Bi people attracted to all different kinds of genders under the Nonbinary umbrella.

As for being a Lesbian, it means that you’re attracted to women and Nonbinary people. And if we can agree on that, we also have to agree that there are other Nonbinary genders where one identifies as a woman AND a man, that you may also be attracted to. Saying that Lesbians don’t like men excludes Multigender people. Even if that’s not how you mean for it to sound, I can tell you that a lot of Multigender people feel that way.

Also, a common misconception is that Non-Men and Non-Women is okay to use for Gay and Lesbian definitions. It’s not. What you probably didn’t know, is that the terms have racist origins. Black and indigenous queer people have literally been talking about this since this definition was coined. “Non-Men” and “Non-Women” are terms that have been historically used to describe the degendering of black people.

Forcing these terms for queer definitions is Anti-Black, I could forgive you if you didn’t know that and stop using those definitions after now knowing the origins.

But if you still use these definitions even after knowing this, congratulations! You’re racist! Pretty sure there was a book about this, “Bad faith and anti-black racism” by Lewis R. Gordon.

“It’s a mockery of real lesbians, it’s not a real sexuality.”

Mspecs have just as big a part in Lesbian history as Lesbians.

All sapphics were Lesbians regardless of if they liked men.

The term “Bi Lesbian” has been around since the 70s. I’d like to see you try and tell an older queer Bi Lesbian, that they’re “mocking” Lesbians and that their sexuality isn’t real. They probably accomplished more than you have in your entire life, because you want to fight with people on queer labels that you think are and aren’t valid because apparently no queer identity is acceptable unless you agree with it.

Love, wether you like it or not, Bi Lesbians and even male Lesbians have always existed and will continue existing. And they don’t need your permission to be themselves.

#mspec lesbian #mspec gay #mspec straight #mspec mono #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #bi gay #pan gay #ply gay #omni gay #bi straight #pan straight #ply straight #omni straight #contradictory labels #straight gay #straight lesbian #lesboy #turigirl #male lesbian #female gay #split attraction model #bi #pan #ply #omni #lesbian #gay

[loveasappho]

hello mogai radinclus community!!

im making this post in order to get some answers to my questions! im currently doing research about various topics, and today im going to start with: good faith identities and contradictory labels!!

so my question is; What do you consider to be good faith identities and contradictory labels?

im genuinely only making this post because i cant find ANY resources about them, so i'll probably make my own definition resource rentry, so i need a lot of opinions :3 if you are going to reblog and answer, please be specific with your answer!! please and thank you!! and also, you can talk about your own experiences with complex gender/orientation/etc as well !!

For example, I personally consider good faith identities the following:

Good faith identities and Contradictory Labels can include:

Mspec Monos such as Mspec Lesbians/Gays/Bis/Straights (but not limited to them)

Sapphileans, Gaybians

queerhets, cisqueers (including straightbians/straightvincians, etc)

afab transfem and amab transmasc (of any sex)

Lesboys/Lesbois

Turigirls/Veldigirls

and many more!!

perhaps you can add non-lesbian butches/futches/femmes and non-gay bears/twinks/otters/etc ??

tag list for reach & boost! you are more than free to ignore!! i will only tag those who are openly pro good faith and contradictory labels!!

-> @genderstarbucks @neopronouns @haunted-thing @caeliangel @sage-writes-n-coins-mogai (i cant find anyone else DAMN)

even if you're not tagged and you're seeing this, feel free to reblog and respond!!

i could've never guessed tagging people would be so stressing

#tags for reach!! -> #mogai #liom #liom community #mogai community #mogai blog #liom safe #mogai safe #liomogai #rad inclus #randinclu #radically inclusive #queer #lesboy #lesboys #turigirl #turigirls #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #abro lesbian #mspec gay #bi gay #pan gay #omni gay #ply gay #abro gay #contradictory labels

[aholotte]

There’s an mspec gay week? I didn’t know that! Anyways

I love you mspec gays I love you bi gays I love you pan gays I love you omni gays I love you ply gays I love you trans mspec gays I love you female mspec gays I love you aspec mspec gays I love you bear mspec gays I love you twink mspec gays I love you butch mspec gays I love you femme mspec gays I love us we are so kool

#mspec gay #bi gay #pan gay #ply gay #omni gay #gaygirl #turigirl #vincigirl #veldigirl

[joestarkisser]

Hey m-spec gays and lesbians did you know... your F/O is inclusive and respects your "weird" or "bad" queer identity.. it's true... they just told me about it....

#selfship community #selfship #proship selfship #self ship #proselfship #selfship positivity #a dash of sunlight #Inclus #Inclusivity #rad inclus #Bi gay #Bi lesbian #Pan gay #Pan lesbian #Ply gay #Ply lesbian #Omni gay #Omni lesbian #mspec lesbian #mspec gay

[genderstarbucks]

MspecgayVS / MspeclesbianVS Terms!!

BigayVS is a term for when you feel like your gay and bisexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

BilesbianVS is a term for when you feel like your lesbian and bisexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

PolygayVS is a term for when you feel like your gay and polysexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

PolylesbianVS is a term for when you feel like your lesbian and polysexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

PangayVS is a term for when you feel like your gay and pansexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

PanlesbianVS is a term for when you feel like your lesbian and pansexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

OmnigayVS is a term for when you feel like your gay and omnisexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

OmnilesbianVS is a term for when you feel like your lesbian and omnisexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

AbrogayVS is a term for when you feel like your gay and abrosexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

AbrolesbianVS is a term for when you feel like your lesbian and abrosexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

Yeah it's called the gendervs system but this is personally how I experience my bi/abro gayness, they're fucking fighting each other in a boxing ring

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #mspec gay #mspec gay man #mspec lesbian #bi gay #bi gay man #bi lesbian #poly gay #poly gay man #poly lesbian #ply gay #ply gay man #ply lesbian #pan gay #pan gay man #pan lesbian #omni gay #omni gay man #omni lesbian #abro gay #abro gay man #abro lesbian

[dead-dog-dont-eat]

Mspec Gay/Turian Fire Banners!

Will do gaybian and straight next. Reblog on some suggestions!

#gay #gay pride #turian #veldian #mspec #bisexual #pansexual #polysexual #omnisexual #abrosexual #mspec gay #bi gay #pan gay #ply gay #omni gay #abro gay #gifs #lgbtqia #mogai #queer

[1tz-4ll-m3]

I love you Lesbians! I love you Bi Lesbians! I love you Pan Lesbians! I love you Ply Lesbians! I love you Omni Lesbians! I love you Straight Lesbians!

I love you Gays! I love you Bi Gays! I love you Pan Gays! I love you Ply Gays! I love you Omni Gays! I love you Straight Gays!

I love you Straights! I love you Bi Straights! I love you Pan Straights! I love you Ply Straights! I love you Omni Straights!

#lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #straight lesbian #gay #bi gay #pan gay #ply gay #omni gay #straight gay #straight ally #bi straight #pan straight #ply straight #omni straight #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #mspec straight #sapphic #achillean #wlw #wlnb #mlm #mlnb #mspec lesbian positivity #mspec gay positivity #mspec straight positivity

[jacks-genders]

Mspecgaylexic // Bigaylexic

Pangaylexic // Omnigaylexic

Abrogaylexic // Plygaylexic

Mspecgaylexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "mspec gay"

Bigaylexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "bi gay"

Pangaylexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "pan gay"

Omnigaylexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "omni gay"

Abrogaylexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "abro gay"

Plygaylexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "ply gay"

Tagging @genderstarbucks and @mogai-sunflowers

#mspecgaylexic #bigaylexic #pangaylexic #omnigaylexic #abrogaylexic #plygaylexic #ply gay #mspec gay #bi gay #pan gay #omni gay #abro gay #lexegender #lexic #mogaireal #coining #liom gender #mogai #liom coining #liom #xenogender

[yourfavismspechomohet]

@e-upe

A Bi Lesbian can be someone who is:

1. Biromantic Homosexual

2. Homoromantic Bisexual

3. It can be someone who fits under a Bi definition, but labels themselves as a Lesbian. (One of the many reasons for this is because all sapphics used to be called Lesbians.

4. An Abroromantic/Abrosexual whose identity constantly switches back and forth between being Bi and being a Lesbian.

So, yes, it is entirely possible to be both Bi and a Lesbian.

You calling me homophobic when the whole point of homophobia is to be someone who dislikes ANY and ALL queer people is ironic, because it awfully sounds like YOU’RE the one who’s homophobic.

Bashing on ANY queer identity, even the ones you don’t like, is homophobia. Exclusionists and gatekeepers don’t belong in the LGBTQIA+ Community.

In your tags you also said “LGB drop the T”, so it looks like you’re really living up to you being exclusionary. One of the first people who ended up giving us Pride Month was Marsha P. Johnson who was a Trans rights activist.

You also implied that I was straight in the tags, like it or not, but there are other queer people that are allies to Mspec Lesbians not including Mspec Lesbians.

And the term “Bi Lesbian” has been around since the 90s and maybe even longer than that.

Also comparing Queer identities that you don’t like to Nazi’s and KKK is gross. Because you sound like the same people who compare queer people to pedophiles or zoophiles.

Mspec Lesbians people are not pushing out Lesbians and Bi people, they’re trying to find a place in this community to fit in. JUST like how queer people tried to do with straight people. All queer identities INCLUDING ones that you don’t like is homophobia, and it doesn’t make you any better than straight homophobes just because you’re also queer. This community started as ALL queer people loving ALL queer people. Exclusionary is so stupid and defeats one of the most important reasons on why Pride exists. Because Queer people are supposed to support each other.

To deconstruct gender, you must also deconstruct sexuality.

#mspec lesbian #mspec gay #mspec gay man #mspec straight #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #bi gay #pan gay #ply gay #omni gay #bi straight #pan straight #ply straight #omni straight #straight lesbian #straightbian #straight gay #lesboy #turigirl #lesgay #gaybian #cistrans #xenogenders #neopronouns #queerhet #mspec mono #anti exclusionist #eyestrain

[the-gentleman-of-the-dark]

Radinclusive gay/turian flag

So, i just wanted to make a gay flag that will be absolutely inclusive for every gay person.

purple stripe represents gays who identify with man, male or masculine genders;

red pink stripe represents gays who identify with woman, female or feminine genders;

yellow stripe represents gays who are non binary, androgynous, multigender or intersex gays;

white stripe represents inclusivity, mspec gays and turigirls positivity;

turquoise stripe represents queer attraction to men in any form and shape.

This flag can be used by everyone who identifies with term "gay" in any way and who feels queer attraction to men!

#gay #queer #mspec gay #turigirl #gay flag #mspec gays are valid #turigirls too!! #queer community #bi gay #omni gay #pan gay #ply gay #radinclus

[neopronouns]

flag id: two flags with 5 stripes. the left flag's stripes are red-pink, light pink, dark pink-red, red, and soft orangish-red. the right flag's stripes are light sandy brown, pale tan, dark brown-grey, brown-grey, and light grey. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

priapus ply gay | chinchilla ply gay

priapus ply gay: a ply gay person with a more sexual nature, who is more interested in sexual activities than non-sexual activities, etc.

chinchilla ply gay: a ply gay person who prefers cuddles, kisses, etc. over sex

[pt: priapus ply gay: a ply gay person with a more sexual nature, who is more interested in sexual activities than non-sexual activities, etc.

chinchilla ply gay: a ply gay person who prefers cuddles, kisses, etc. over sex. end pt]

for anon! these are ply gay (gay in the general sense, not the gay man sense) versions of priapus ply and chinchilla ply.

tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @orientation-archive, @narcette, @genderstarbucks, @kiruliom, @sugar-and-vice-mogai | dni link

#priapus ply gay #chinchilla ply gay #ply gay #my flags #my terms #new flag #new term #mogai flag #mogai term #mogai

[joestarkisser]

Bi lesbian? Your F/O loves you!

Bi gay? Your F/O loves you!

Pan lesbian? Your F/O loves you!

Pan gay? Your F/O loves you!

Ply lesbian? Your F/O loves you!

Ply gay? Your F/O loves you!

Omni lesbian? Your F/O loves you!

Omni gay? Your F/O loves you!

Straight lesbian? Your F/O loves you!

Straight gay? Your F/O loves you!

Your F/O thinks your "unconventional" identities are so so cool! They know you owe no one an explanation for your identity, and support you all the way!

#selfship community #selfship #self ship #proship selfship #proselfship #selfship positivity #a dash of sunlight #Bi lesbian #Bi gay #Pan lesbian #Pan gay #Omni lesbian #Omni gay #Ply lesbian #Ply gay #Straight lesbian #Straight gay

[genderstarbucks]

Mspec Gay Genderfuckoff!!

Bigayfuckoff is a term under the genderfuckoff system that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing you to tell them you tell them "fuck off!" being bi gay and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as bi gay and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being bi gay and being done explaining yourself.

Poly/plygayfuckoff is a term under the genderfuckoff system that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing you to tell them you tell them "fuck off!" being poly/ply gay and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as poly/ply gay and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being poly/ply gay and being done explaining yourself.

Pangayfuckoff is a term under the genderfuckoff system that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing you to tell them you tell them "fuck off!" being pan gay and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as pan gay and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being pan gay and being done explaining yourself.

Omnigayfuckoff is a term under the genderfuckoff system that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing you to tell them you tell them "fuck off!" being omni gay and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as omni gay and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being omni gay and being done explaining yourself.

Abrogayfuckoff is a term under the genderfuckoff system that is related to not wanting to explain yourself to anyone and if they keep pushing you to tell them you tell them "fuck off!" being abro gay and wanting people to fuck off, identifying as abro gay and not wanting to have to explain yourself, liking being abro gay and being done explaining yourself.

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #genderfuckoff #bi gay #poly gay #ply gay #pan gay #omni gay #abro gay