#This Or That

[pollsforpondering]

#this or that #this or that polls #polls #tumblr polls

[xiaoderyy]

#kpop #kpop games #kpop bg #this or that #bts #stray kids #nct u #nct dream #skz #lucas nct #nct #nct 127 #ateez #seventeen #jake enhypen #enhypen #enha #txt moa #tomorrow x together #got7 #got7 jinyoung

[astroyongie]

What are you choosing ?

Note: hey everyone! This is  little something that I have constructed in a way for you to see if you really know yourself but also as a way to heal and understand your inner desires and needs. This is a part of what we call shadow working, hopefully it will help. you are free to do this quietly, or if you want to share with me, feel free to do so <3

How it works?: please choose one option between the two and try to argument within yourself why you chose that 

This or that ?

Question 1

an apology from your father 

a hug from your mother

Question 2

being loved

being able to love

Question 3

your father choosing family over work

holding your childhood pet one last time 

Question 4

a good night kiss

your hair getting brushed and braided

Question 5

the ability to forgive yourself 

finally being heard and understood in your family 

Question 6

“i am proud of you” from your mother

“i love you” from your father

Question 7

reading you favorite childhood book for the first time

a letter from that one friend you one day never heard from again

Question 8

crying in your mother’s arms 

yelling at her all the things you were too afraid to speak out loud

Question 9

not feeling constantly lonely

 not feeling constantly misunderstood

now please choose one number between 1-6. pick the one that you are currently feeling most attracted to. and read your message: 

1- Yeshe Tsogyal: you will be able to overcome all of the obstacles you are currently facing. allow your spiritual guides to guide you through this and trust the process, the path that you are in. surround yourself with the people you know bring you only light into your life, allow yourself to trust them more and to trust yourself as well. by working on your spiritual side you will be able to overcome your shadow self.

2- Yogoni: Of course there’s a lot of changes happening in your life at the moment, but keep in mind that sometimes a door will close in order for another to be opened. trust your path and tell yourself if thighs aren't meant to be because life is trying to limit the pains in your life. stay faithful to yourself and your healing oath, as long as you stay authentic to yourself, you will be able to overcome things 

3- Terra Mater: your mental and spiritual path does not unfold like most people, it is taking a different way but you need to trust the process, as your spiritual guides love you unconditionally and they will help you find peace of mind. follow the new ideas and accept the changement that is happening in your life. your manifestation is strong, use it wisely. you know that goal you have? grasp it. Even if people say that it's stupid and impossible for you to have it, don't let it go and fight for your desires.

4- Beatitude: don't be afraid to show the true you. The only way to heal your inner conflicts and the pain is by accepting and loving who you are. even when things seem so hard to reach, keep walking down the rightful path and trust life. all the difficulties are going to bring you to wisdom and the right path.  

5- Biche: You are only a child that has been hurt. I am so sorry that you had to go through this hard thing. but your energy is able to overcome all of this negativity. you don't need to become something that you are not, your spiritual light is already warm and soft. keep yourself true to your inner core and things will become easier 

6- Volva: your spiritual power can heal your dark self way better than what you think. It's time for you to travel through the spiritual world and engage yourself more. don't try to control what is happening and allow it to unfold before you. instead work on something tangible, on something that will help you healing from all the pain you have suffered

#this or that #psychology

[therandomestwriter]

Just something fun to do…

#this or that #cottagecore #get to know me #quiz time

[lothmoth]

and, i think i like who i am, who i’m becoming, and even who i’ve been for the first time since i was 4 feet nothing and never wore shoes

#this or that

[lipslikethegardensofbabylon]

Guilty as Sin or False God? I Can Fix Him (No Really I Can) or cowboy like me? Who’s Afraid Of Little Old Me or mad woman? loml or peace? I Can Do It With A Broken Heart or mirrorball? The Albatross or Anti-Hero? The Lucky One or Clara Bow? So Long, London or my tears ricochet? Down Bad or “Slut!”The Manuscript or tolerate it? I Look In People’s Windows or the 1? The Tortured Poets Department or Maroon? But Daddy I Love Him or the lakes?

#this or that #words of mine

[bonnieventure]

THIS or THAT pt. 30

BUS STOP 🚏 or TRAIN STATION 🚉 TIRAMISU 🍰 or CANNOLI 🌯 FRENCH BULLDOG 🐶 or FRENCH POODLE 🐩 BLINK 😑 or WINK 😉 WOOD BURNING 🖋 or WATER MARBLING 💧 BLACK ⚫ or BLUE 🔵 PUNCHING BAG 🥊 or BATTING CAGE ⚾ MOSS BALL 🟢 or AIR PLANT 🌿 STRAWBERRY 🍓 or WATERMELON 🍉 BAMBI 🦌 or DUMBO 🐘 TREEHOUSE 🌳 or PILLOW FORT ⛺ SOLAR ECLIPSE 🌑 or LUNAR ECLIPSE 🌕 CANCER ♋ or AQUARIUS ♒ MINNIE MOUSE 🐀 or DAISY DUCK 🦢 WASHER 🌀 or DRYER ♨ POPEYES LA KITCHEN 🐓 or KENTUCKY FRIED CHICKEN 🍗 EASTER EGG 🥚 or EASTER BUNNY 🐰 KING 👑 or PRINCE 🤴 FAST FOOD 🍟 or STREET FOOD 🍢

#this or that #reblog games #reply games #tag games #mine were... #🚏🍰🐩😑💧🔵⚾🟢🍓🐘⛺🌑♒🐀🌀🍗🥚🤴🍟

[pollsforpondering]

#this or that #this or that polls #multiple choice #multiple choice polls #polls #tumblr polls

[michaelworthy25]

This and That

#this #that #this or that #yield

[xiaoderyy]

#kpop #kpop games #kpop bg #this or that #xikers #ab6ix #cix #oneus #n.flying #nugu group

[heretherebedork]

This or that! Pinning for your best friend trope OR Younger pursuer/seme(?) trope 👀?

Oooo, damn.

I think I gotta go for pining for your best friend trope. It's SO close but I just truly love friendship over love relationship where they are ride or die and in love but they're MORE ride or die than in love. It's just GREAT. I love when the power of friendship makes love stronger but also that fear of losing a friendship is just so powerful to see. So I gotta, I just gotta, for all I adore younger pursuer.

(Although it does depend on the origin of the BL, I don't think Japan has ever done a convincing version of the friendship over love trope so it would change but overall, definitely pining besties.)

#asked and answered #this or that #like payos and potae are gonna kill me #because they're the best kind #if the bts ep 0 is to be trusted #because they are gonna start truly one-sided #and i am gonna DIE #please let that be true #let the love grow in the show

[pillbugstudios]

This or That? Pillbug edition ✨🪲

#this or that #small artist #art #charms #polymer clay #pins #flowers #small business

[taking-a-lunar-vacation]

G.L.A.M. - This or That

This Or That (Single) - 2023

instagram/twitter/tiktok: @ glamishere

#G.L.A.M. #This or That #2023 #music video #Youtube