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tomcatyowls · 11 hours
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“there should be a new face for DID online”
hey so full offence LOL but to choose one person to be the “figurehead/face/image” for DID is so fucking tone deaf my ears are bleeding.
do you really think one person can be the sole representative of this disorder?
do you honestly think one person could entirely portray every experience under the umbrella of “101 ways to fuck a child up” ?
do you really honestly think having one person with DID being the ENTIRE image for OSDD, DID, PF-DID, TBMC DID, P-DID is whats good for everyone?
just one motherfucker we’re all supposed to place extreme guidance in what a system can present as & what healing is supposed to be ? really .
for gods sake . the reason why there isnt a face to autism is because autism can happen to everyone. you know what can also happen to anyone? chronic & repeated childhood abuse. 
there should not be ONE face per community. a community is made up of several bodies who all manage to cover the entire scale of experience. to claim the face of OSDDID should be one person takes this away from ALL OF US.
theres NO reason for there to be one person defining the experiences of OSDDID, bc simply put NO ONE could experience the whole scale of OSDDID and know everything under the sun that can hurt a child.
its not fair to make the face of OSDDID one person. you could not understand the experience everyone holds in their own significant, detailed life.
people need to see people who understand them culturally, ethnically, religiously, and disorder wise- simply because we all have the right to know We are not alone in our lived experiences. that there are people out there who look like us and talk like us and heal like us.
we dont need one face for OSDDID community, we need multiple.
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delphientropy · 19 days
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have you ever felt so blurry and dissociative you ignore all system shit simply to exist but Simply Existing hurts because ears ringing head hurts everything is tingly nothing is real and everyone i interact with feels like a stranger and a friend at the same time to the point where people interacting with me and talking to me like they know and are close with me is weird but i also dont feel like someone else and people who dont know youre a system arent even aware you Dont Feel Real so you feel gross whenever they look at you and i feel like nothing and everything andOh hey is that the solar eclipse
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chemicalcarousel · 8 months
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It's fucking funny when you start to notice the "tells" of certain alters, such as speech patterns, posture, voice pitch, accent, hand gestures, ect.
Like "wait a minute... why am I fucking man spreading like a fucking clown.... oh.... oh it's him."
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b1gr4tm4n · 3 months
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pretty much
– Elliot
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Shoutout to systems/plurals who have unusual experiences or beliefs about their system/plurality!
You think you were born plural? Hell yeah!
You have a mostly or entirely non-humanoid system? That’s so cool, friends!
You don’t feel like you spilt so much as individuals souls gathered in your body? That’s so valid!
You consciously made your system? Good for you!
Your system has lots of non-introjects with extensive backstory, trauma, and disorders that the body doesn’t have? I hope you’re all doing well!
You’re all introjects? Super dope!
You have a ton of inner world relationships? That’s adorable!
You have no inner world? That’s so interesting!
You have any other non-standard experience? You’re valid and I believe you!
Plurality is incredibly complex and I doubt we’ll ever fully understand it. As much as we try to put rules on the plural experience, minds and souls (if you believe in them) are not interested in complying. I think it’s important to remember that mental diagnoses aren’t biological truths, they’re portions of patterns we see repeated. No two experiences will be the same, and the experiences that fit into that pattern aren’t the only ones. Being plural isn’t a chemical process like ATP production. There aren’t chemical components and structures that facilitate it the same way every time. The way our brains work are as unique as our DNA and our environments. We will never succeed in labeling everything they do. What we can do is believe the people who don’t fit into a box.
I love you, you’re so incredibly valid!
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chaos-in-one · 1 year
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Anyways I love you all systems
Especially the ones who get a lot of shit for how you are
I love you large & polyfragmented systems
I love you introject heavy systems
I love you systems with no intention to work towards final fusion
I love you self diagnosed & undiagnosed systems
I love you systems who aren't sure yet what kind of system you are
I love you systems who want to be seen as separate individuals rather than parts of a whole
I love you young systems
I love you nonhuman heavy systems
I love you systems with a lot of lgbtq alters
I love you systems who don't use the more mainstream language to refer to yourselves
I love you systems with no host & with multiple hosts
I love you systems who formed through trauma that isn't as well recognized
I love you systems who feel your system *is* linked to other disorders you have
I love you psychotic systems and systems with MaDD
I love you non-white systems
I love you physically disabled systems
I love you systems who don't remember their trauma at all
I love you systems with complicated identities
I love you systems who do fit in stereotypes about systems, and ones who fit in none of them
I love you systems who are loud about who and what you are
I love you systems who worry you're faking
I love you systems from religious and ethnic minorities (ex: Muslim systems, Jewish systems, Celtic systems, Tibetan systems, etc.)
I love you all <3
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a-place-to-exist · 11 months
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i know a lot of systems form because of abuse but. i wish there was somewhere i could read about systems who didn't. and i don't mean non-traumagenic systems but just systems whose trauma wasn't mainly abuse. i want to find people i can relate to
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delphientropy · 1 month
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mmm another term...behe
THIS TERM CAN NOT BE USED OR CLAIMED BY ENDOS, THIS IS AN ANTI-ENDO/NONTRAUMAGENIC TERM >:/
edit: since i saw a pro endo reblog and passive aggressively say that they "aren't going past thr boundry" and tagging this as syscourse, PRO ENDOS CANNOT USE THIS TERM. youre on our DNI anyway???? fuck off.
keyhost
term and flag made by me!
a keyhost is a host in which they are the "main alter" and rarely can leave front. oftentimes whenever they do leave they always come back in a short amount of time, as if they are bound to the front room/control room. this is similar to being permanently frontstuck, though not quite.
other alters tend to have to control the body through the keyhost, so outwordly it can seem like the keyhost is doing or saying something, when really it is another alter.
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without key symbol
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i havent seen any terms like this, other than an antiendo one that has some similarities so i made my own thing! tell me if this has already been done aha..
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chemicalcarousel · 1 year
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cyberconstellations · 2 months
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★Cyber Constellations★
An 18+ Dissociative Disorder System Server
Hello! We're looking for members to join our server! It's a server for anyone over the age of 18 who has DID, OSDD, UDD, P-DID, or any other dissociative disorders, and considers themselves a system/plural!
★More Server Information★
Self-diagnosis friendly.
Kin & past life friendly. (we have specific channels for discussion about kin sources!)
Any form of sys/.tem dis/.course is prohibited. The staff here do not engage with it at all.
System responsibility is expected of all of our members.
The join link is on our carrd, so please read the server rules there (and optionally this post) before joining! And please, feel free to reblog so we can get more members! Thank you~!
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pawphobia · 2 months
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hai . paws at ur door
cann we req a sysbox that says " this host loves their singlet partner " if yu can ,,,,,
-💥
Ofc!!! I made some different versions aswell :>
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tismtay · 7 days
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everyone is "born plural" dipshit it came free with your fucking human development
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