#addressing hate

[cemetaryvampire]

:(

(for context I started posting my art on Reddit, only my pb object design, lb design, and my balloon pride art, and got like twice as many hate comments than encouraging comments)

Hate Reddit

#vin shitpost #vin speaks #hate comments #addressing hate #stop hate #stop spreading hate #keep it to yourself

[eugeniedanglars]

the way i see it, colin has three options for handling the repercussions of kissing michael on the pitch in front of everyone:

gatekeep: by some miracle no one caught the kiss on camera so colin's sexuality is kept between him and any fans who happened to be on the pitch near him. the safest option.

girlboss: keeley gets the pr challenge of a lifetime handling the story of the first active premier league player to come out as gay. rebecca is tall and powerful and intimidating in the press room making it clear that richmond stands behind colin one thousand percent. the most realistic option.

gaslight: straight-up blatantly lying. not because he's ashamed or because he thinks he can actually convince anyone that the kiss didn't happen, but just because he refuses to let it be a big deal. acts like he has no idea what anyone is talking about if asked anything related to his sexuality. he doesn't claim to be straight, mind you, he just pretends to be extremely confused about why they're asking because he never kissed anyone in the middle of a football pitch at the end of an internationally-televised game? when presented with photo and video proof of the kiss he says that was some other richmond player named hughes who wears a number 12 jersey. you don't know him, he goes to another school. the funniest option.

#colin literally standing in front of michaels house unloading a moving truck: i have no idea who that man who kissed that richmond player is #weird that he looks exactly like the guy standing in the doorway behind me! oh well life is full of mysteries #the tabloid reporter who ambushed colin goes home that night and contemplates a change of career #ted lasso #ted lasso spoilers #the more i think about it the less bothered i am by them not addressing the repercussions in the episode #because i love open endings and hate flash-forward endings that give you all the answers (part of why i hated the montage) #and i'm having so much fun imagining all the ways the aftermath of The Kiss could have played out #over 1k

[pretty--in--purple]

the GALL of leaving a trail of tantalising breadcrumbs of jeremy knox’s tragic backstory/fucked up home life and NOT EXPANDING ON IT?!?!?!?!? i need DETAILS NORA

#GIVE ME NAMES #receipts dates addresses #like do we hate his stepdad for normal reasons or aftg reasons? #what happened to his sibling? #his dad’s in the army question mark? #I! NEED! DETAILS!!!! #catch me making a fuckin pepe silvia wall with the hints this book gave #the sunshine court #jeremy knox #the sunshine court spoilers

[ayspec]

i hate it when people call me their friend or think that we’re friends after two seconds; even people that call me “bestie” ironically make me sick. on top of this, when i ask them to stop, everyone thinks i’m the asshole for being uncomfortable

here’s a reminder: friendship is just like any other relationship, and as such requires consent. don’t call strangers “bestie.” don’t call strangers your “friend.” it’s the same as someone you just met calling you their “boy/girlfriend” or “husband/wife.” it makes me feel sick, makes me feel like my consent doesn’t matter (because to you it doesn’t since friendship is the “lesser than” relationship), and i’d very much like you to dismantle your platonormativity and amatonormativity

#aplatonic #aplphobia #platonormativity #✨ #also kinda unrelated but i saw someone calling strangers “pookie” one time and oh my god please stop #i hate people that give me nicknames/pet names especially when idk them #like jesus christ can you just address me by my name and NOT add the pet names at the end #like i know you’re talking to me you don’t need to address me with degrading names

[ladeldee]

Uuh yeah we’re just gonna skip over this one

#Dream Smp #dsmp spoilers #Slimecicle #dsmp slimecicle #as soon as that happened my first thought was oh Slime is gonna hate this. Surprised it wasnt directly addressed #though probably summed up in Q's shittiness #dsmp quackity

[birdcatt]

love whatever's going on in her life. go girl give us hate and misery!

(context: there are 2 eos heroes, one amnesiac and the other non-amnesiac. the pictured leafeon is the non-amnesiac hero. the 2 heroes are siblings, and also grovyle who they've assimilated into their sibling gang long ago)

#art tag #pokemon #pmd #pokemon mystery dungeon #oc: leaf (pmd) #leafeon #spinda #the others are so small... im gonna leave off on tagging them #i gotta write stuff for her shes sooo full of hate #she feels like shes being left behind by everyone she knows and shes obsolete now that the whole time crisis is over #she also felt that way even before the time crisis was over! she felt inadequate esp compared to her siblings #the other hero who has the dimensional scream and grovyle who is like their protector #and then theres her. what can she do? #and then she never addresses those feelings until after the post game

[starlightseraph]

#hate crimes md #house md #hugh laurie #hilson #now to address each part of this: #he’s a cripple with aspd #ppth nightmare malpractice yep pretty much #the guy that’s vexed (a black man) wilson sad australian transboy and trauma queen traumatiser cameron #yep he never used the medicine drug cause only stupid people use the medicine drug #help he’s not a predator lmao #he finds lupus eventually #he administers rats no matter what the illness is #yeah except it’s more like wilson cheating on his wives with house #r/okbuddyvicodin #starlightseraph’s brainrot

[blowingoffsteam2]

Truly I think I can count on a single hand the number of sorikus I’ve encountered that actually “hate Kairi because she gets in the way of the ship”. It’s an extremely uncharitable accusation that gets slung around at every soriku that doesn’t just absolutely love her though. I mean I understand wanting people to like the character you like, because maybe they have traits you relate to- so that when people dislike or just don’t care about them it can feel personal. But especially for a character who is almost universally agreed to have been written disappointingly, no one is obligated to love or enjoy them (and I think even if Kairi’s lack of development was intentional the execution has never been very good- that is a problem with writing).

#I forgot what else I wanted to say about this I’m just tired #also every time a soriku talks about Kairi’s flaws people think it’s hate?? no??? flaws are what makes a character interesting #Kairi being a flawed person is honestly the only surefire way to get me invested in her as a character #I should say- those flaws being explored #because we have those vague hints of flaws but they have never been addressed in a satisfying way

[benbamboozled]

The thing is that DC’s consistent choice to have Jason Todd blame himself for his own murder comes across less as maturity (the intent) and more like his self-esteem is so far down the toilet it’s been filtered through the Gotham water treatment facility and is currently being sprayed over Wayne Manor’s lawn.

#jason todd #robin #red hood #i really fucking hate that nobody addresses this. #like it would be a nice bit of characterization IF THE INTENT WERENT FOR US TO AGREE WITH HIM.

[worstloki]

AU where Loki doesn’t interfere with Thor’s banishment at all and it takes Thor years to prove himself worthy and when he returns to Asgard everything is just. The same. Nothing seems to have changed at all and everyone greets him like his absence was a minor obstacle that didn’t fundamentally change Thor and the worst part is Loki stepped down from the place as regent without any delay and Thor can’t help but feel there’s something underlaying the way his brother looks at him now and won’t let him touch him and Thor doesn’t know what he could have missed because he doesn’t think he would have found anything wrong with the things around him and how everyone behaves if he hadn’t spent time on Earth reflecting.

#the warriors 4 not being interested in anything Thor ‘learnt’ at all #and making it clear that Thor was punished unfairly and the AllFather’s decision had been harsh #Loki saying he’s happy for Thor and Thor sees the way the smiles are forced and he sees the way Loki avoids any touch #Thor hating the way Frigga talks about Loki’s short regency and Thor’s absence like it wasn’t two whole decades or something #like she’s so grateful to have her other son back without ever addressing why he was gone #Thor just. growing during his time on earth and being much more aware of the behaviour around him #he learns to be critical and assess why people around him may act a certain way #once he realises that it’s possible for him or anyone else to be fallible and make mistakes it’s over for Asgard for him I think #Thor returns and Loki gives him the throne and everyone expects him to obviously have the throne #and Odin is sleeping and Thor isn’t comfortable with the way everyone accepts him as king regent after the banishment #Loki who either never lashed out against Jotunheim or did and it was brushed away and no one thinks about it as anything #but Loki is still deeply affected and acts the way he always would have but Thor can feel it’s not the same #he knows something is wrong and Loki won’t say anything about it and Thor doesn’t know how to bring it up #Thor sees Loki metaphorically receding into the shadows to become a nonpresence so loud Thor hears it even after returning from decades away #Thor goes to Earth and gets his priorities in order gets a new worldview learns not to take what he has for granted #and finds out he actually despised Asgard #he’s been back a week and he can’t stand it

[nonpoppie]

kaeyavember day 12-13: kaeya and some guy (late again :’^))

#chaeya #kaeya alberich #Childe #genshin impact #my art dump #im only addressing childe as someguy bc its kaeyavember ok i dont hate him i promise #childe: me and the bad bitch i pulled by being goofy and silly #sorry im late i took a week off for irl reasons and now im paying the price (kaeya deficiency)

[melrosing]

just discovered there is a newborn Frey named after Jaime with a twin named Tywin and an older sister named Cersei like idk if I’m more sorry for the Lannisters or the baby Freys

#imagine a family u hate names a baby after you and they name the twin after the dad u hate #trauma of ​this needs to be addressed in his pov

[uncanny-tranny]

Passing as a trans man is a nuanced and complex topic, but one thing I have been noticing as somebody who is a cis-passing (white) trans man is the way I'm treated when there is conflict.

I've noticed that in conflict, people are almost meek around me, willing for me to try working with them up until a woman is involved. When a woman (or, really, anybody who the other party assumes is one) is part of the conflict, they direct all their anger and rage to them. It's fucking insane the way a woman is treated when there is conflict, even if it isn't her fucking fault. These people are fundamental cowards for seeing my manhood as the only reason they can't be openly hostile to me, but it reveals a lot about how a misogynist thinks on an almost primal level.

I'm watching the women and people around me I care about being torn apart by people, and that's unacceptable. I can't sit around to watch it, and I don't want to do that. I need other people to perhaps read this and remember to not stand by if there is something that you can tangibly do to help, even if it's to lend a listening ear or let the person vent.

#feminism #misogyny #misogyny tw #before writing this i was worried about my blood pressure because i'm fucking angry #i hate the way cowards will look at me and see a man and be scared of me until they see a woman they feel strong enough to abuse #and i have faced my own experiences with misogyny and abuse now that i have transitioned and am recognized as male... #...like i had NEVER been catcalled until i medically transitioned. and now that i'm much more male i have been catcalled MULTIPLE times... #...which is why this topic is nuanced and complex and i hate this idea that we can bulldoze it down flat to 'make it make sense' #i want to always believe in people but i'm not a fool. i am not willing to stand around and just pretend like this shit doesn't happen #i WATCH this shit happen. i WITNESS it and HEAR it and i try to find some way to help the woman and/or person in question #and i know there's this aspect of white privilege in this where my white manhood is seen as a lesser threat #i can absolutely imaging a Black or otherwise MoC trans person not being given this level of grace from the get-go #i'm angry right now and i hope that my words are making sense. i want to address as much as possible but i'm sure you understand

[callisteios]

would you like to be a god? take this uquiz to find out what sort of god you'd be

#yeah okay let's address it i already made a quiz with this exact premise #and sequels are gross and uncreative #have you considered that i am feeling kind of gross and uncreative at the moment #also this is more like a part of the original #as many of these results come from the first round i literally just did not have the will to assign any more personalities at the time #anyway #have fun #tag yourself #etc #there ARE some really good ones here i think #new rooms might be my fav #quiz #uquiz #callisteios #personality quiz #i am NOT trying to be funny but wow i did not expect googling 'wound' to be so graphic. the things i do for you people #by the way ABBIE #i spent like an hour making that damn awful photoshop of the fucking saw bathroom i hate that you made that a thing #i don't think you understand how much basic photo editing knowledge i lack #how do get the images transparaent #how move #layers? #awful #im sleepy therea re like 10 more to add in the morning

[xabura]

Kataang shippers getting mad that Zutara shippers wish their ship was canon as if they don't always brag about how Kataang is canon and have been harassing the NATLA writers because they think they won't make Kataang canon.

#zutara #anti kataang #the hypocrisy with kataang shippers is unreal #i've never really cared if zutara became canon because i don't trust bryke with romance #some people wish their ship was canon while others don't and that's fine because different people have different approaches to their ships #like whatever bro #just don't attack real people over it #kataang shippers don't understand this since they're harrassing the natla writers right now and even doxxed people over fucking ships #remember that kataanger called japanese who had a blog called “badzutarafanart” which was literally dedicated to #reposting zutara fanart without permission and insulting it? #remember when kataangcaps was sending anon hate to other bloggers and then left tumblr when people were able to track her ip address #and find out it was her? lmaoo

[sweetfirebird]

I hate watching anything about serial killers, particularly with those who target women, because it always ends up with "experts" wondering why these (mostly) male killers do it, when the answer is pretty straightforward: these killers hate women. They feel entitled to women's bodies. And the powers that be at the time allowed them to operate because those killed were a low priority for them.

But they never want to say that because a clever but fucked up individual sounds better than a fucked up (probably not that clever) individual in a fucked up system.

#like that society also hates women and/or sex workers and/or queer people and/or children #and so on #but they do not want to address that even slightly