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adhbabey · 9 months

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Let's talk about some lesser known symptoms of autism! Maybe this will help some of you get a broader perspective on what this can be like. There is a whole grab bag of symptoms of autism, but here are some ones you may not know that you have.

Focus on truth

What does this mean? Well glad you asked. This is the focus on facts and logic rather than anything else. People have shown this as autistic people may refusing to lie because it goes against what they find as true. But that's not always the case.

Have you ever used logic to try and figure out your emotions?

Are you someone who doesn't understand why others may speculate when the current knowledge is right there? (such as subtext versus canon knowledge or theoretical arguments)

Do you find it frustrating when others avoid their problems as a way to avoid figuring out negative things? (such as avoiding conflict in a friend group)

Is it easy for you to talk about your strengths and flaws? Do you know your likes, dislikes and limits pretty well?

High context communication

This is preference on details and the full context of any situation. Often going into great detail and backstory to anything.

Do you feel as though you need to overexplain to give the person everything they need to know?

Have you ever apologized to someone by explaining the deep and meaningful reasons of why you did it, before you said you were sorry? And maybe even felt upset or confused why they reacted badly?

Have you ever felt stressed out because you wanted to give others full detail but they either interrupted you or cut you off?

Are you stressed out by people who tell you what to do and not why they want you to do it?

Are you ever told that you talk back a lot?

Do you prefer recipes versus verbal/vague instructions? (All the things that you need such as ingredients, measurements, prep time, etc.)

Do you really like watching deep dives and knowing about the whole history of something you're even vaguely interested in?

Identity diffusion

This is not everyone's experience, and it is common in a variety of other disorders such as DID and BPD. However, it is when you do not know who you are in regards to others. This is also known as identity disturbance.

Have you ever felt like an outsider without knowing why?

Are you deeply interested on what other people think of you? Especially if it's all the time?

Do you really like taking personality tests and quizzes? Are you interested in horoscopes?

Do you feel like you don't fit in any one specific group? Either being a loner, or hopping in between many different groups?

Do you ever feel weirder than the "weird kids" group? Do you not really get along or feel like you belong with them?

Do you have low self esteem when it comes to comparing yourself to your friends? Do you feel like they're better or more capable than you?

Do you feel drastically unimportant and not as interesting or cool as everyone else?

Have you ever related to narratives surrounding a character that is the last of their kind?

Do you feel like your identity is a vast and gaping void, that even if you learn a little bit, that you'll never know everything?

Internalized repetition

This is one of those traits that not every autistic person experiences, but that some might. You could say that for all autistic traits, but hey, good to know regardless. Because of internalized repetition, you may not do many external stims, besides vocal.

Do you listen to a song over and over again? Perhaps having a playlist on repeat?

When stressed out, do you type the same word or phrase over and over again?

Do you like looking at the same things, such as the same color or the same artist's works?

Do you really like certain patterns, crystals or aesthetics?

Do you enjoy games with recognizable fighting patterns? (Such as character rotation, boss battle rotation, etc.)

Struggling to connect to others *

This is something that's been characterized by struggling to connect to others through their emotions, but the opposite is actually true for many autistic people. *I will be talking about those who struggle to connect to others who are emotionally distant or unavailable. Being emotionally distant or not showing emotions externally is a trait that many autistic people share, but for those without alexithymia, they may struggle to understand why anyone wouldn't like to talk about their emotions. I don't know the specific symptom term for this, so please bare with me. If anyone would like to inform me about what this is called, please tell me.

Do you struggle to talk with dry texters, or tend to over-examine people's tone through text?

Do you have anxious attachment?

Do you feel disconnected with many other autistic people and struggle to make friends or talk to them?

Do you feel embarrassment or shame with being emotionally sensitive?

Have you fallen down the rabbit hole of things like starseeds, star children or empaths?

Do you want to talk about serious emotions a lot, even when its not appropriate?

Do you trauma dump or wish people would become more emotionally intimate with you? Do you enjoy it when people share their deep traumas with you, even if it's triggering?

Are you constantly reassurance seeking?

There is plenty more symptoms out there, and these are just a few that stood out to me, because I think I may be autistic. I've always related somewhat, but never connected the dots. But there are reasons for that, such as identity diffusion and thinking I'm different from everyone else no matter what. I struggled because I didn't seem to have a lot of the outward and visible symptoms that were often talked about. I thought every autistic person had alexithymia, when that's just not true. My best friend, who has similar symptoms to me, along with another close friend of mine, have a similar presentation of autism. And it's taken quite a bit for me to accept or process. I feel like I'm faking my experiences just because I've self diagnosed before. And I'm angry that ADHD isn't given enough significance.

But I think I might be autistic, and this article that I based this post off of, confirmed it. So here's my post informing and coming out on that. You can be autistic and highly masking without actually knowing what's going on is masking. You can be autistic and have a spectrum of verbality, you can be autistic and struggle to connect to anyone who isn't immediately emotionally intimate with you. You can be autistic and not relate at all to other autistic people.

You're not alone.

#babey posts #actually autistic #audhd #autism #autism spectrum disorder #i know its a spectrum disorder but bro it doesn't feel like it #its broader than you might realize #you can be autistic and struggle to accept it #this has been the most frustrating and painful realization #i just. i feel a lot of negative feelings at myself about this #but i want to curate a place for people to exist without judgement #and before the anti self dx ppl come in here. this has never been the blog for you.#if youre like this. you belong here.#and if you just understand this. you also belong here.#you're not alone

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14dayswithyou · 2 months

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[18 May 2022] after playing the game, i have gained the great misfortune of having Ren haunt my every waking moment. i simply saw pink boy on itch.io and thought "wowie" and then proceeded to cry when i found out that he actually looks like an e-boy and all I could think was "WOWOW HE SO NICE TO LOOK AT AYO???? 😳😳" either way, i actually wanted to ask if Ren could dance? and if so, does he have any preference? that and even if he couldn't, is he okay with MC just randomly grabbing him to dance with them in the apartment because they just like bonding with him like that? (honestly speaking all thoughts i have of this e-boy dweebus are domestic fluff bits, so while he has questionable hobbies, i would like for him to know he's lovely and that i wanna hold him gently like hamborgor 😔)

JFAFKSAFKA PLEASE "I HAVE GAINED THE GREAT MISFORTUNE OF HAVING REN HAUNT MY EVERY WAKING MOMENT" SENT ME 💀

But omg?? If you took his hand and just pulled him into some kind of dance, then he'd probably just crumble on the spot. Physically? he's chill and here dancing with you underneath the glow of your refrigerator light. Mentally? He's in another plain of existence just screaming into the void because "oh my god they're touching me?? we're dancing together???? they're so close????? i don't want to step on their feet???????? they smell so good??? im—"

#Looking back at my old art and realising.... Yeah babey was NOT drawing men back then dkggksgs #I was in it for the women and da women only!!!#And then 2023 ended up being the year where I only drew men/Ren T_T oghhhh #I hate it here /silly /pos #🧡 — curious cat archive.#💖 — about ren.#💖 — 14 days with queue.#💜 — blog canon.#🖤 — gallery.

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carnivalcarriondiscarded · 2 months

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Is Welcome Home website already open or it moved? I try to open it but it only give me a error or something like that.

its Gone! she was taken out back and shot <3

#real answer: no yeah she's down and gone #clown is moving it to a different hosting site entirely!#so the og? the wix one? gone forever babey!#the only remnants are in screenshots and archives (like theneighborhoodwatch's!)#so the link clown is probably gonna drop will be our First and Only access to the shiny new site!#make sure to check their blog <3 #rambles from the bog

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000marie198 · 4 months

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BABEY

#he looked so babey in the entire chase sequence #i adore my little son #sonic the hedgehog #sonic #sth #prime sonic #sonic prime #sonic prime spoilers #sonic prime s3 spoilers #sonic prime s3 #sonic prime sonic #sonic prime season 3 #sonic prime season three #sonic live blog

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skellydun · 10 months

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starting to realize why I never used twitter or reddit after my carefully cultivated internet enclosure gets broken into

#christ alive we sure do cultivate our own internet experiences huh #and now i feel my enclosure has been busted into by an annoying pack of wolves #from one annoying person to another its ok not to add a comment on every post someone makes ❤️ u can even use the tags #im the most annoying person in the tags #i know theres been a billion if youre new to tumbly wumbly this is what u do posts #this sounds passive aggressive and mean but its not im just venting on me own blog babey #this mainly about posts i make and seeing people just put big ol paragraphs about how they disagree w the post like babey do not reblog it

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waterdeep · 4 months

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rivensbane ➵ waterdeep

#url change #will queue a few times just as an fyi #we're back babey #time for a new layout methinks #oh god i need to update the 182732932 links on my blog now

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picerd · 1 year

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i have feelings for them

#odo #quark #ds9 quark #ds9 odo #ds9 #deep space nine #star trek #star trek ds9 #star trek deep space nine #quodo #hi welcome i'm just going to post my scribbles i have nowhere else to put. star trek blog commence babey #drawing squeaky quarkwas so fun

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weaponizedmoth · 23 days

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Hook sketch.

#I'm gonna get to the art request I got but I was finishing this up #I love my art style when it's just this but I can never prevent myself from painting #I should cause I'm not good at it #but ye #most classic wmp style #thick black lines dead eyes babey #captain hook #peter pan #how do I even tag this #like this is obviously insp by Jason Isaacs' Hook cause he had a grip on me #I always think that if you scroll through my personal blog you'll definitely think I'm a lesbian but here #this man is the most beautiful man in the world and I am unfortunately not a lesbian #anyway #my art #art #illustration #fanart #artists on tumblr

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starheirxero · 5 months

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I'm ngl the show is feeling a leetol salty with the BM redemption truthers but what they haven't considered is the diehard Bloodmoon Crimes supporters.

Like oh okay, he's gunna get worse? He's gunna kill more people? He's gunna hurt more main characters? Do it. Do it to such a point it's nearly excessive I dare you. Lemme see that boy rip someone's batteries out with his teeth or some shit and I promise you--no matter how hard the show tries to spin it as "look he's evil so you should hate him!"--I will eat that shit up.

Can't make me hate a blorbo for being violent if the whole reason I liked them to begin with was because of the violence, boy!!!!!

#xero says things #xero thoughts and rambles #even if like.#this all turns out to be intentional writing and we're meant to use it to look at sun and bm and rodrick under new lenses #and it isn't the showrunners making jabs #i will STILL sit here with the biggest widest grin on my face whenever Bloodmoon does something horrible HAHAHA #i literally have a side blog where i giggle and twirl my hair abt bloodmoon's crimes. no none of you are allowed to see it #but its there!!! i have that!!! i'm a bloodmoon violence enabler til death babey!!!!! /silly #robot gore #literally like 1 sentence but idk if any1 is super squicked by that LOL #sun and moon show #the sun and moon show #tsams #sams bloodmoon #bloodmoon

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secondstar-acorn · 5 months

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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHGGGGGHGGHHHGHGHHHVHGJFXHXNXJFIEYSEYYOHKHKFOGOHKBH<<<<< thinking about the lighting change from blue to pink in “cool as I think I am reprise” when steph and pete sing “if I loved you” and the way they yank each other in

#GODDDDD GOD IT MAKES ME INSANE #FAV LAUTSKI MOMENT #this blog used to be for multiple things once upon a time…#I used to post about other shit.#NOT ANYMORE BABEY #starkid #npmd #nerdy prudes must die #lautski #stephanie lauter #peter spankoffski

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wrathful--artist · 9 months

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Getting Boba with Leon!

No particular version but i’ve only played RE2R so.. take that how you will ahha. I still suck at writing but I wanted to let this thought run wild

You off-handedly remark that, “god i’d die for some boba right now” while on the couch with Leon watching something random and uninteresting, there just for noise ya’know?

He turns to look at you with a look that just screams ‘what?’ before asking out loud to you;

“What’s boba?”

you turn to him with an incredulous look, like ‘huh???’. you swear you’ve talking about the miracle drink that is boba tea to leon at least once before.

you tell him that and he just shrugs, so you describe the drink and he gives a response like “sound weird, eh.”

so you decide something then and there-

“we’re gonna get boba together for our adventure of the day!!”

So you grab him and drag him to nearest boba/coffee shop and sit him at a table while going up to order some boba

You get two boba drinks, a sweet chocolate milk tea with chocolate boba and a blueberry fruit tea with rainbow boba and mango jellies in the shape of stars with luster dust (both of these are based on bobas from a boba cafe in my town!) so he can choose which one he likes better

you get to the table and put both drinks down with the straws “pick one!”

He takes a bit but he picks the chocolate one, and then tries to peel the top off

you stop him, obviously, and tell him that you’re supposed to poke a hole with the straw, you demonstrate with yours, using a moderate amount of strength you use the straw to poke the top

he watches and then tries it himself

unfortunately, he forgot his own strength and the drink splatters a bit on him and yourself

you both chuckle and he apologizes

after a bit you offer to trade drinks so he can try the fruit tea, he accepts and you swap drinks

you’re about ask him how he likes the fruit tea and you see he’s nearly finished it

“oh.” *chuckle*

you both finish your boba drinks and go back home, you’re content that you got to share something with leon and he seemed to like it :D

BONUS ART! (I did my best to make the reader gender neutral..)