#bestie *i* need therapy

[chaosgremlim]

I’ll be completely honestly. I will judge you based on how you view Lottie Mathews. If you watch Yellowjackets and go calling her “psycho” “crazy” and judge her abhorent and manipulative for literally just having symptoms of her psychosis while UNMEDICATED IN THE MIDDLE OF THE FUCKING WILDERNESS, I won’t trust you for shit.

#like #I get the girls thinking that #because they are in the wilderness with her going through the same stress in the freaking 90’s #and her delusions had serious impacts in their lifes and in their survival there #and the mysticism they formed around her and those delusions had a lasting impact #but you won’t see Lottie going around saying that her visions are the Word of God #heck #she spends almost the entirety of season two sitting by the window praying for the best #and what she does she does because in her mind those things are helping people #and it’s not her wicca tea sending people into murderous cannibalistic rampages #bestie needs actual therapy #and to go back to taking her meds #and KEEP HER AWAY FROM ELECTROCONVULSIVE THERAPY #That shit is barbaric #I feel very strongly about lottie matthews #particularly because I struggle with similar shit and really get her #yellowjackets #yjposting #lottie yellowjackets #lottie matthews #lottie did nothing wrong #i support womens wrongs

[biblicalhorror]

Aroace Riz real but also Fabian is SO clearly in love with him and Riz has no idea

#honestly fabian might not even fully know yet #a core part of fabians character is that he is so deeply afraid of rejection that he is never going to pursue the people he actually wants #i do think he likes Maezy a lot but i think he only knows how to pursue hot toxic women that will discard him at a moments notice #which in a way protects him from ever actually dealing with heartbreak #is he a gay man dealing with comphet? ehh maybe #i could see that #but I think the vibe i get is more about how he has these platonic friends he completely adores and is fully devoted to #and then in another category he has the people that he does not have any actual attachment to that he will allow himself to pursue #and crossing the boundaries in between those two categories or allowing himself to pursue someone he really cares for #would require a level of vulnerability he is in no way prepared for #in his home life he has an emotionally detached mother who is well liked but kind of floats through interactions on a surface level #and a father who is extremely concerned with fame and glory and attention but doesnt seem to have ever stopped moving in his life #genuinely fabian does not know what a safe loving partnership would look like #and we see him constantly oscillating between emulating his mother and his father in relationships #but just beneath the surface is a little boy who wants so badly to cling to his loved ones so tight and be squeezed right back #with no way of knowing how to even ask for that if he wanted #and riz is his best friend in the world and he knows on some level that riz is simply not interested in having that kind of relationship #not on the level fabian needs #but that also makes riz a safe target for these feelings of devotion #theyre just friends! just besties! fabian never has to reckon with his own loneliness or harmful patterns #if he channels all of his yearning for closeness onto his best friend #anyway! this boy needs therapy #fhjy #fhjy spoilers #fabriz

[nadiawritessomething]

I already said this once in one of my old posts, but I won't stop until my concepts are noticed.

Since I've always found the contrast between Earth 42 and 1610 to be interesting, I think we're missing out a bit by focusing solely on the Miles.

Because - listen to me - a duo of 1610 and 42 Rio would be something incredible. As would their analyses and comparisons.

They're similar, very similar, to the point where Miles couldn't tell the two apart in the beginning until he realized he was in the wrong universe. Because Rio is an adult, and certain traumatic events affect the character and behavior of adults differently than they do teenagers.

But we cannot say that they are the same. Because traumatic events still influence adults.

1610 Rio is actually a healthy and happy person, wife and mother. She has some worries about her son, how he is growing up and the changes in his character and the people he meets along the way.

42Rio, at the same time, is a completely different story. She is a widow and a single mother who is still dealing with the death of her husband and working much more than she should. Because she is the only person left in the family who can earn money at all. She also cares about Miles (for different reasons, yes) because Miles is the only family she has left.

She's just the most tired woman alive.

And I just need them to sit down in the kitchen with tea, discussing their children for the next three hours in the form of a therapy session.

#everyone on E42 needs therapy #Rio too #That's not even a debate #I found it funny that while both Mileses have their fair amount of trauma they could share #Contrasts beetwen versions of Rio are like unmatched #there a✨good happy a lil bit strict & worried about her child's future but still can find comfort and happiness and overall don't complain✨ #and also there's s *works three shifts a day mentally ill constantly worried about her child who can day every say just because it's E42* #😭😭 #across the spiderverse #atsv #miles morales #miles 42 #prowler miles #miles g morales #earth 42 miles #rio morales #rio morales 42 #BUT THEY'RE GONNA BE BESTIES #SISTERS‼️‼️

[trashhole]

Companion piece to the shut up starscream sketch because starbee are funny and I need them in earthspark

#i am manifesting #manifesting so hard for tfe starbee #i need them to be eachothers therapy dogs #they could bond over their love for the terrans #they put their differences aside to protect the kids #besties who have war trauma together stay together #star could put the L in family #bee could put the i in family #starbee #starscream #bumblebee #tfe bumblebee #tfe starscream #kinda he’s really an amalgamation #tfe #tf earthspark #earthspark #transformers #maccadam #hanaes scrapheap

[gxlden-angels]

Bro I hate fundamentalists and culturally-fundie parents they'll say shit like "spare the rod spoil the child am I right haha yea my parents used to have to beat my ass with a switch almost everyday but I sure did learn my lesson" but like??? no you didn't??? you were hit multiple times for something you very obviously did not, in fact, learn

Like studies about how harmful even lightly spanking children is aside, you're literally contradicting yourself?? Some even admitted they got worse as they got older cause they wanted to see how far they could push their parents before they got punished

And studies not aside, you're gonna get child raising advice from the same book that tells you to stone your wife if her hymen doesn't break on your wedding night instead of the decades of research we have now?? Just say you're a bad parent and move on my guy. Skill issue

#bro I had a coworker go 'unpopular opinion I think some kids really do need beatings' and I'm like???? #unprompted???? what's going on there???? #well anyways I ended up going 'yea so I plan on specializing in play therapy with autistic children so I've been learning about talking #to children and the ways their parents and environment affects them' #and they're like hmmm but beating this kid with a stick after they broke something or I upset them to the point of yelling is good actually #had a boss say it taught him and his kids respect cause they were hard-headed #and I'm like?? that's fear not respect! they fear punishment! they do not act out of respect for you! #he's a conservative christian black man tho so he's like 'But Authority!' like bro I don't even respect you what are you on about #'You don't respect police and their authority?' Nope! I fear them! I do not respect cops and every cop/cop-adjacent person I personally know #has reinforced that for me #'We'll agree to disagree' Cool! Doesn't mean you're not wrong! I could believe trees aren't real but that is in fact incorrect #then he pulled out the bible verse and I was like ah okay I forgot you like 'here's how to treat slaves' book you're so right bestie #I'm totally wrong now and so sorry for doubting you and your 2000+ year old book I don't believe in <3 #They'd go 'well I turned out fine!' then say something that directly contradicts that #anyways I need christians to get their grubby little hands off the current state of Child Protection and Rights in the U.S. #So we can actually start working on helping kids without the force of christian hands suffocating them #cause homeschooling and child raising by evangelicals are so fucked up bro I'm tired of this shit #I'd only stay in my current state to help children get out of that cycle since I'm in the bible belt #ex christian #religious trauma #child abuse tw

[tobisiksi]

the parallels between Shun&Toki relationship and Kusuke&Kusuo relationship always get me

Toki is way 'better' than Shun (at least physically)

and Kusuo is way 'better' than kusuke( in every single thing)

the younger sib surpasses the older, but shun knew better and didn't take it too personal, yea it kinda sucks bc toki can fight pretty well and I can't, but oh well he's still my little brother

while kusuke couldn't handle it, he let his jealousy take over him in the worst way, yea he still loves kusuo with all his heart but he just can't stop feeling despise towards him for being better

I blame their parents tho, I don't think that kurumi or kuniharu ever had a little talk with ku-kun about how little sibs often copy the older bc they feel admiration towards them

aaaaghh I'm thinkiiiiigngnngieif it huuuuuurtssz

#as an older brother i feel obligated to talk abt them #if kaido looked closely to saiki's brothers relationship he would totally noticed all the weird and toxic behaviour #kaido as kusuo's older brother when💥⁉️💥⁉️💥 #dont think that i hate kusuke or anything btw #i have a love-hate relationship with him #mostly because i relate a lot to his stupid ass #but anyway i was thinking about kusuke going to therapy and then i came up with this #i need him in therapy with a daily doses of antidepressants #Kusuke needs to learn to vent his masochistic tendencies stemming from his low self-esteem disguised with egocentrism in some way other than #almost killing his brother with a cat-shaped tank while taking his little brother's bestie as an hostage #saiki k #the disastrous life of saiki k #kusuo saiki #saiki kusou no psi nan #kaido shun #kusuke saiki #kaido toki #thinking thinking thinking

[saltyb0ba]

"you always beat the level before me, but i had fun anyways!"

AU/prediction for S5. MK goes beserk in his kaiju form and mei shows him a drawing he made of him and mei back in S1 MK runs to mei to knock her out but he stops just a few feet in front of her when he sees what she's holding.

more AU since i don't think this will happen but there's always a chance!

#i just think it'd be sweet but also would make me cry really hard #knowing uhh LMK it's probably more 10 kings of the underworld focused than MK himself #but you can't just give us the bigass kaiju form capable of fighting off the literal god of the universe and do nothing else with it #mei deserves to save MK after he showed compassion to her in the moments she hurt the most #he showed her love now she must show him love #you can tell im normal about these two as friends. ohhh my god soulmates but in platonic besties way #shaking hands having something inside of them that is capable of wild amounts of energy #therapy also. send them both to therapy they need it #lego monkie kid #lmk #lmk MK #lmk MK kaiju #lmk mei #lego monkie kid MK #lego monkie kid mei #lego monkie kid fanart #lego monkie kid MK fanart #my art #bobasalt

[warringwarrioridiot]

I just got done fucking bawling my eyes out.

Okay, So:

My best friend, @demiboyenmu , and I were on a call

Everything was normal, he said he had to go eat and I said Alright.

I never expected his mom to start screaming at him to give her his phone.

I sat there thinking "What the hell..?"

I was used to his mother's dramatic and abusive behavior.

Anywizzle, I heard rustling noises, like there was a struggle.

And then it went silent.

Just pure, agonizingly loud silence.

I ran to the living room and demanded we call the police and tell them what happened.

My brother was hauling hay, and my sister was at work, so it was just me and my parents.

After I frantically explained the situation, my mother just replied apathetically.

I don't remember the specific words, but all I can remember is my anxiety and rage skyrocketing.

I started yelling at her, out of fearful anger.

She called my dad in the room, like she usually does

My father came in and saw my emotional state, and comforted me, all while my mother acted bitchy.

Today I got on my phone praying to see that Ike was okay, but only to have my hopes shattered:

I'll try to update as much as possible.

Ciao!

@p1n34ppl3-c4t24 @frosty-lycanthropy @th3-unw4nt3d-curs3 @cheezestick @i-can-smell-colors @bellissima-rose @doma-uppertwo @warringwarrioridiotig

#i need therapy #demon slayer #kny #warringwarrioridiot #thank you #im scared #my bestie #idk what else to tag

[shays-shack]

Clara and Kirio: bug time

based off this cc I got

#mairimashita! iruma kun #clara valac #ami kirio #they would've been besties i just know it #either clara needs to return to origins or kirio needs to get therapy cuz i want this friendship to be real #anyways epic bug moment #this post was brought to you by someone who is terrified of bugs ✌️😎✌️

[stealingpotatoes]

Since you finished JFO

opinions on each mantis crewmember?

cal: baby. baby boy. i love him so much i'm holding him so tight he's been through so much and his whole story before and during JFO's so interesting and so cool very fun to have a jedi who was just Hiding not trying to fight at first

bd-1: baby baby baby best friend baby

cere: director said cut but whoever made the characters for JFO heard 'serve cunt' and thats why they managed to one up Cal with such a complex and interesting character

greez: the only way I can describe him is he's an Uncle. uncle greez <3 i love him he's so good. he doesn't know what's happening w all this jedi malarkey but he's trying his best and i love him and he loves cal and this funky lil found family <3

merrin: [borat voice] mai wiiiife

that one boggle whatever the fuck it was called: why did i need this to get the full crew achievement. like sure its adorable but why

#ok but being serious abt merrin she's so cool i loved dathomir so much and her story's so Wow and i love how she parallels cal #and how their journeys r the same #thanks for the ask! #i cant tell if i want them to be best friends or kiss #cal gives me bisexual in a gay way vibes and merrin gives me bisexual in a lesbian way vibes. do u know what i mean #i think i want them to be besties but also both of them need therapy or a good shag and i dont think either of them r gonna get therapy soo

[lycoris-artcorner]

Can I get mad on how Skids final arc went for a second?

Thanks, cause Skids is not only dead, but Nautica, with who he had an absolutely wonderful platonic dynamic, doesn't care about him anymore. Way to go, thanks for stomping on everyone's heart

Here I thought that duo can't get any more tragic. One is dead out of blue, and the other doesn't understand why she even cared about him. Way to sink deep bonds they shared and then show in your face how happy they were. I'm not sad, I'm disappointed. Imagine you died and your bff literally says she don't get what was so special about you. I'm sorry that's a bit too much

This mini arc shouldn't have to exist on the first place, it's just sad for the sake of sad, come on

Ahh, you loved this character? Let's destroy his legacy cuz because, like death wasn't enough

They deserved better, Okey?

Lost Light really didn't have to do all that silly stuff. Were that really that necessary?

Sorry, I love it, overally I truly do, but man the devil is in details and those writing decisions eat me alive. Writing sad for the sake of sad is betrayal of your reader

MTMTE felt natural and genuine, that's what story is about after all. About bunch of misfits who make their way in life. And that's beautiful. While in Lost Light suffering is not a natural part of the story, but the story itself. It wants to make reader suffer. While in MTMTE that was mere byproduct. They been doing it since first issue no surprise. The story as whole is a big chunk of suffering, that's a fact

And don't say it's been planned all along. Cuz what Nautica did contradicts previously established situation and very out of character for her. But that's for another day

#I'll need therapy after this comics I swear why #Don't talk to me I'm angry #Skids deserved better than this #they were so happy #Frag it #he's not dead #he's resting and everything in fact is fine #Better be delusional #Also Nightbeat #Wtf was his death #I ranted this to my bestie and now it's here #sorry not sorry #incoherent thoughts #mtmte #tf mtmte #transformers #lost light #mtmte skids #skids #mtmte nautica #nautica #idw nautica #tf nautica #Skids and Nautica #And I still didn't finish reading Lost Light

[seariii]

Hum...

#im just thinking... im okay tho /gen #just thinking about the words the bestie said to me after I told him about my mental health... #particularly a phrase... he just said 'you are already committed' and when i asked what he meant he said 'to life' #its just... idk... it was impressive and had such a weird feeling... sadly i guess i am committed........ 'sadly' huh.... #sigh another important thing was that it was crucial i went back to therapy... i dont really want to tho... #but 'youve been feeling like this for a long time you need help' ... sigh... what i need is... #the future is so scary... sigh... okay #ill put an alarm to wake up earlier tomorrow and work on that! #seari talks #what i need is adderall- jsjsjsjsjs yeah... alr im sleepy time to mimir #tomorrow ill catch up with everything i missed too #also if anyone reads this dont worry pretty person! i got a bit scared/upset up there but its okay #im quite stable right now! at least enough to survive for a couple days! so yup! #miiiight have to look up a new therapist tho... since aside from help i wanna get a diagnosis.... #sigh... but okay that's not for rn seari it's for future seari. rn seari has to go mimir because shes tired #a mimir a mimir pat pat pat

[torchickentacos]

I feel like some more realistic positive affirmations would be "Actually, everyone doesn't hate you" and "The entirety of the walmart is not hyperfocused on your awkward encounter right now" and "You are not an evil capitalist for buying something for yourself" and "You can talk about your interests without apologizing for it, actually". Where's my aesthetic pinterest homescreens with those. Do I have to make them myself?

#ok to rb #half joking but my anxiety is not being NICE TO ME RIGHT NOW #so i am socially quarantining until my brain can behave! we don't do that bestie. pull it together #the weirdest therapy tip i've gotten that works for me is like #viewing my anxiety as a separate entity that i need to calm down sometimes #like shhhhh hey it is okay. we don't need to be doing all of that right now. shhhh

[trashhole]

I love umlrbee. also kobd movie date but breakdown is so tiny

#the new earthspark episodes have me conniving about star and bee #they could fight so much while hashtag is like bruh both y’all need therapy #but then they actually really care about eachother through the power of family #also I just think it’s funny when bee tells star to stfu #like someone had to say it #besties who get war ptsd together slay together #also I love kobd idk how to draw KO but I love them #they deserve all the drive in theater dates #bumblebee #transformers bumblebee #tfe bumblebee #earthspark bumblebee #tf earthspark #transformers #earthspark #tfe #maccdam #hanaes scrapheap

[my-beloved-lakes]

I see a lot of people I knew from school posting pictures on their social medias with all their friends doing various fun things together. Meanwhile, I'm sitting at home wishing I could take a group photo with all my Tumblr mutuals to post so I can brag about having the best friends.

#too much of my social life is based on Tumblr but i really don't get out much since I don't have a job and i made like 1 friend in school #so i don't really know anyone to hangout with other than my siblings and my one friend #and i don't go out much exept for occasionally to the library or the store so i don't get the chance to meet new people #i used to have all 5 of my sisters at home and that was all the company i needed #but now they've all moved out except for my younger sister and im realizing that im very deeply lonely #i need to get a social life! but how! #Also i think this is part of the reason I jumped into things too quickly with my ex gf now my best friend #like I was so excited that i had found someone who was just as interested in being friends with me as i was with her #that i misstook my feelings for her as romantic ones cuz i was so lonely and she was such a good friend #and i was so scared to tell her cuz I didn't want to ruin our relationship. it didn't. we're still besties. #but i think im so lonely idk if I'll be able to know the difference between platonic and romantic feelings #and part of that definitely comes from being ace as well #anyways there's my tangent for the night about why I need a better social life and maybe a bit of therapy too #haha that got super personal oops 😬 #might delete these tags later

[shythefox]

When someone who’s close to you starts bashing into (talking bad about) something you’re passionate about, it hurts, and they don’t even realize they’re doing it to you.

I know many of us have experienced this, and if I ever accidentally start doing it please let me know! So I’ll stop, I don’t ever want to hurt anyone like that. Don’t just keep letting them do it, speak up, or just walk away.

(I’m fine, just felt like venting, this came upon my mind.)

#Vent #opinion #mental health #support #i am not a therapist #but I need therapy #I love my besties