shout out to clumsy people.
shout out to people with coordination issues.
shout out to people with dyspraxia.
shout out to people with apraxia.
shout out to people with muscle weakness.
shout out to people with paresis.
shout out to people with paralysis.
shout out to people with arthritis n/or joint deformities.
shout out to people with chronic pain whose pain makes it hard to control their movements.
shout out to people with chronic fatigue whose fatigue makes them hard to control their movements.
shout out to people with balance issues.
shout out to people with other conditions that make hard to control body n/or movements.
shout out to people who are undiagnosed n struggling with control movements.
it's not your fault. it's not your carelessness. you deserve support n accommodations. you shouldn't be judged or mocked. you deserve respect. your struggles deserve respect.
2K notes
·
View notes
I have dyspraxia. It’s linked directly to my coordination problems.
I’m a messy eater, I get food ALL over myself. It’s just who I am, and I’ve been that way for as long as I can remember. All my life I got teased for the way I’m such a messy eater. It isn’t my fault, I can’t help it. I can’t grip a fork right because of my dyspraxia, making it so I eat more messy.
I do the best I can, and it’s embarrassing to eat in front of others. I wish that more people weren’t so judgmental. I wish that more people were understanding. I wish that more people weren’t mean about it. I do the best that I can, and that matters.
118 notes
·
View notes
Oddly specific but shout out to disabled people who play rhythm games but can't do them well. Regardless of why I applaud you for trying these games!
54 notes
·
View notes
Thinking about how my fine motor skills/manual dexterity are fairly good (relatively fast touch typist, ok at many types of art, envied by peers for my onion-dicing abilities) but my gross motor skills & proprioception are less good and feel significantly degraded by joint problems with EDS (historically bad at sports, often knock things over especially when using a cane, was horrible at throwing/catching objects until Something Changed in 2019). World's least graceful artist
7 notes
·
View notes
(Mildly) dyspraxic Barty Crouch Jr HC is back (I’m dyspraxic btw) and like just
dyspraxic Barty being secretly really insecure abt eating in public bc he knows he’s a rlly messy eater but he tries like rlly hard and then one time Evan wants to go to like a restaurant and he’s like having internal panic about it bc that’s like horrifying but he goes anyway bc yk he’s in love w Evan so
and yeah that’s it lol
17 notes
·
View notes
one of my favourite ask a manager posts is this question by a person who struggles significantly with organisation and yet was staying in a career where that is the main skill required. not because they loved the work but because they felt like they should. like there was something redeeming and important about that struggle
and alison replies like hey. you are being very unkind to yourself. you don't have to keep making yourself suffer. you don't have to keep trying to jam yourself into a round hole as a square peg
and then OP updates to say they got fired and that was great actually because alison was right, they were being needlessly cruel to themselves and also now they're on adderall and everything is better
idk I just think about it a lot. that self-punishment. the relief of someone saying this insane level of work to try and be like everyone else isn't noble or necessary. you can just go somewhere easier
20 notes
·
View notes
What is the difference between speech difficulties from Autism and speech difficulties from Dyspraxia?
(Yes I could google this but I probably wouldn't understand the answer)
29 notes
·
View notes
Headcanon: adult Dawn has very high expectations for herself. Think "Surface Pressure" from Encanto, except she doesn't have any siblings. I think part of it is the nepotism, and it also doesn't help that she placed in 2nd at her first ever grand festival.
She's always on the go. She's either laser-focused on strategies and techniques for her upcoming contests, or she's just being whimsical and letting the moment take her where it pleases. There's no in between; both modes sustain each other. She's a natural morning person, no coffee needed. She loves being around people and Pokémon as often as possible, and her instinct is to talk a lot (preferably to someone, but sometimes herself) or to play with an object in her hands.
Wallowing isn't in her vocabulary; she will "no need to worry" herself and her friends into oblivion. Failing that, she either throws herself into new situations in the hopes that they'll distract her; or, if it's not too intimidating, she searches for a way to squash that worry on-sight. She will not go to bed until she's worry-free, and if she needs to wake someone up in the middle of the night to talk through a problem, then she absolutely will.
She often gets tunnel vision - she'll take action without anticipating the full impact, and it takes her awhile to recognize her harmful behaviors and patterns. However, once she does recognize them, her first question is a sincere and neutral "What can I do better?" (She'll still clap back at petty insults all day long, though.)
This also applies to her relationships - if a loved one is going through something, she will stop at nothing to find a solution. In fact, especially in her romantic relationships, she sometimes puts too much pressure on herself to fix others' problems, not quite understanding that others have different ways of coping, or that no one person can be *everything* for someone else.
Going back to my first point, Dawn's greatest fear is failure. And to her, failure is anything less than the very best - be it in her career, or in her ability to show up for those she cares about. I saw someone else post about how Dawn's offscreen character development into JN is about learning to enjoy contests for the experience and not for the pressure of achieving the same legacy that her mom did, and I absolutely love that! I'm not sure if *my* Dawn is there yet (even if she's gotten used to losing multiple grand festivals), but that would be an essential hurdle for her to overcome for sure!
41 notes
·
View notes