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marvelling-at-marvel-blog · 3 months

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The thing about S1 Jamie that I think is interesting is I think on rewatch there is some insight as to why Jamie went so hard on the bullying of Sam. (Not gonna be defending Jamie's treatment of Sam just looking into maybe why). Because out of all of the things Jamie did is season one. The one that seems hardest to understand or really forgive is his treatment of Sam. The first time around, you couldn't understand it. Sam is legitimately the kindest man in existence. (I know as a stroyteller it was the easiest way to really get us to dislike Jamie and really make us more understanding of Roy's treatment of Jamie which to be frank is not great and understand Ted's fruatrations with him) and Sam just keeps trying with Jamie.

But know I think it far to say thay S1 Jamie was jealous of Sam and his easy going, happy, postive nature. I dont think he was aware of it though.

Season 1 Jamie is so interesting because on paper, he had everything he thought he wanted. But I dint think he was overally happy. But yeah it seemed to be all his way

1. He played for the team he grew up supporting and dreamed of playing for. I imagine his first time stepping on that fiels in that uniform would have been monumental. Sure, maybe he wasn't a starter, but he got some minutes and the unspken agreement that in a few years, he would be a star.

2. I imagine he was initially disappointed to be loaned out, but then he learns he is being loaned to Richmond. Yeah they suck, but he gets to play a full 90 minutes, is basically going to be the best player, kick most of thier goals and he gets to be team mates with Roy Kent (he dreamed of playing against him one day, with him is a dream come true, I really think pre show Jamie would have been so excited to play with Roy Kent and was so disappointed in how it turned out). Plus, it has the added advantage of getting him away from his dad. And once his done his loan, he can come back to Manchester. This is his chance to get away from it for a while and be the star

3. He meets and gets to date Keely Jones who his always had a crush on. Dhe is literally a dream girl for him

So he should be happy right. His got everything he wanted, but it's not going the way he expected because.....

1. Roy Kent hates him (in my mind Roy was standoffish from the start, heres come this whizkid who was everything he used to be and slowly losing. I think Jamie came in at 100% and immediatley put Roy on the back foot). Jamie tries with Roy but the more it doesnt work the more Jamie goes OK, if I cant make him like me I will show him I am better than him. Hence the beginning of that relationship.

2. Yeah his away from his dad and his killing it at Richmond, scoring their goals, winning them matches but it only seems to be winning over half the team (he can't see yet his attitude is what is stopping the other guys from liking him). And the team still isn't doing great even with him. Plus he may be away from his Dad but his relationship with his mum feels like it in a werid place which sucks cause she is his favourite person ever.

3. And Keeley seems to be where its going right but sometimes it feels like his a bit of a project for her. And I think he has heard people (like Roy) question why she is with him.

And let's face it, he is still likely hearing from his dad when he doesn't perform up to his standards.

And then heres Sam. Who (at this point in time) isn't playing well, isn't scoring goals, not massively contributing to thier wins and yet he seems so genuinely happy all the time and everyone loves him, Roy Kent seems to like him and is friendly with him, complimenting him (which he has never done to Jamie). Sam is so open and kind he has probably talked about his dad in the locker room, and his relationship with his family seems perfect and that must gnaw at Jamie because all he ever wanted is to make his dad proud and his pretty sure he will never achieve it because the man is a d***k who is impossoble to please, yet Jamie never stops trying and things are werid with his mum which he hates. But all he hears when its brought up from Sam is how great his family is.

Then along comes the new gaffer who Jamie can't even understand why he is coaching, but he also seems to love Sam and wants him to be the decoy so Sam can kick the goal. Even though Jamie knows if he kicks it, it will go in.

Now we all know the reason Sam is liked is because he is an amazing, kind hearted, dedicated person, but I think S1 Jamie is so jealous and does not even know it.

Because S1 Jamie is still living with the notion that being the best in the most important thing ( thank you James Tartt Sr) so to Jamie he is out here busting his ass at training to be the best, scoring all the goals yet Sam seems to be the one who is living what he thought his dream time at Richmond was going to be. And I know I mention it but I think it is a big thing for Jamie, the harder he tries the more Roy seems to despise him, and take enjoyment in his embarrassment.

And S1 Jamie in all maturity handles his jealously by trying to make Sam feel as bad as he is feeling. Which Jamie, baby. That's kindergarten mentality. And poor Sam actually thinks Jamie is a great player and would love to learn from him in the beginning and isnt having a great time either.

But yeah. I dont think Jamie ever disliked Sam. I think he was insanly jealous of him all the time and didn't know how to handle that or even admit it himself.

Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk. Apologies for my rambles.

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ratsoh-writes · 9 months

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*big booty lady: dhe doesnt have to know~

Noir: B*TCH- LEARN TO SPELL BEFORE YOU CAN EVEN THINK ABOUT PICKING UP STRANGERS, AND THATS A NO! F*CK OFF!

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failcringegf · 2 years

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i dont get the people that dislike kids. like, i get the crying and screaming but like... thats the only way they know HOW to react. they havent had 20+ years of experience because they havent lived that long. i saw one mom from my daycare say her three year old crying was manipulative. like. what. maam your child doesnt know what that word means. ugh.

im so happy you get to know the joys of children. theyre the best !! :D

DUDE kids are AMAZINGGG, like right before my shift ended i was sitting with these two boys and one of them went to a bike and the other was like ‘hes going to work’ (very seriously) so i was like oh where does he work and he thought about it for a sec and was like ‘tesla’ <- bc selling cool cars is the best job ever for a 2 year old

also like saying youd hate any child regardless of what theyre like totally just ignorer that kids are soooo full of personality, like theres this one girl that Looooves speaking, she has to say something at all times problem is she cant pronounce words (im not sure she understandd most of them either). so she will just run up to you and go bababababa and you have to like make up the conversation youre having with her until she feels like she said everything she could and runs off again

calling a child manipulative is EVILLL but credit where credit is due, kids can and will trick you into doing their bidding. there was this one girl that started a couple months ago and in the beginning she Hateddd being away from her parents, she needed to be carried at all times but of course no one had the time, capability or like. want. to carry her through the entire day. she did however find a solution to this, if dhe asked for a paper to blow her nose one of us would get up and shed demand to be lifted up once again, it took like 2 days until we figured out that was what she was doing

anwyays i looove my job sm even though im always so tired after

#.ask

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rntdry7896 · 1 year

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Im back again with another vent, i dont know if its the accumulated small thing or no but this friend triggered me so easily now.

Will be very vague because i want to kept it hidden but i was active on sns lately, because were supposed to be a set/pair i kept asking them to do their part, its been like 6 month since the stuff need to be worked on. Yet they kept saying they have no time is busy etc and dont rush her etc.

Lately i decided okkkayy... ill do my own sns work then posting this and that and shes 'lowkey' controlling, like mentioning why are you doing this, its bad etc etc. Why are you posting so much.. I know its not that good long term but i do really need to get my name kinda out there? Just because shes the extroverted one and always update (personal life sns) stuff she talk with much more people and get more opportunities, (she get a job offer the other day because dhe posted a reel, wearing my clothes) of course i do envy her because we both put effort into this. Like i took her sns pic and stuff too, i styled and assisted her on her post but ofc the cameraman doesnt get as much credit. Its the norm, i will just be unreasonable if i blame people and friends for not knowing/supporting me when she dont even say anything about what i do. Thats why i decided hey ill just do my stuff myself then, ill post some of my old/solo work, and.... she is really unhappy...

After she kept asking why are you doing this, its better if you do this, if you do it like now its bad later etc etc.. i ...because i literally have nothing to lose? I mean if i was 0 and i got like 30 people now to follow my sns and they became a ghost follower later its still better that i have that number, i mean which is more trustworthy? A 0 post 0 followers person or just 30 followers but actively post once a month ish? Of course i dont elaborate so much because she will literally argue about this too so i just say yeah i want to do it like this even if its not effective and stuff, keeping the tone polite and friendly ofc... and she literally goes, "okay" "suit yourself" "k" man... is it my fault youve passed the deadline like 6 mo? If it isnt so long i wont be doing this either but yeah of course im the egoistical prick, lately its so hard to be civil with her....

Edit : hah how funny she mention how can split the work stuff and yeah i say sure you take care of your stuff ill take care of the online stuff, we can exchange and she goes 'oh but youll die if you need to reply to so many people haha" like im the problem...? I can type just fine i wont die but i hate people wasting my time talking about unnecessary stuff. She make it look like im so incompetent while she kept saying tahts hes the one that cant do my work part, even dares ask me to come help her. If we split why should i help you? You wont even pay me fair 8:2 and you me to dirtch my day job and eork for 12hr for you? Funny

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kiranerysismyhero · 5 years

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Shipping Quodo, for me, is like if I had gay uncles. I'm very invested in their healthy relationship because I love them both and want them to be happy. And I do not need, nor want, to know,, nor probably could conceive of, how they fucm

#quodo #is there a tag for grey ace genderqueer trekkies who can pretty much only stand lemons when its wlw #and even then im more invested in their connection and the physical is an extension of that #hope it doesnt need saying but trans headcanons absoluteky make wlw wlw #im in love w the idea of jem t kirk #who doesnt even know dhe's trans until she's an admiral #for the second time?

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twunkhector · 6 years

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#lol so i havent like formally ever come out to my father on either sexuality or gender ever #but im also not exactly subtle about much of it so jokingly me and my friends have said that he probably knows something #which is likely vaguely true #but whenever my friends *cough* straight friends *cough* say that in an attempt to comfort me about coming out eventually #it low key doesnt because some of the shit he says about 'gay people' or 'trans people' is not comforting and aggressive #and if he does have 'some idea' or whatever that i am not cishet then the fact that he says that shit still #like hes not even one of those thats gonna put in the fucking effort after his kid is 'one of them' i guess #i guess it'll just always be one of those things we try to ignore or never talk about an dhe just goes on not giving a fuck about how i feel #and thats the emotional rant of the night gn lads #e.txt

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yamilethxz · 2 years

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FASELY ACCUSED - SPENCER REID X Y/N (Chapter 7)

Tw: Guns, Gun shots, Police, fbi, bau, injuries, guns, drugs

Master List

Rossi picks up his phone calling Hotch. "We know where a unsub lives!" Rossi says as the pair get into the van.

"A? There is more than one?" Reid hears hotch ask as Rossi put his phine on speaker phone. In the car ride reid does up his bulletproof vest.

"Y/N's older brother, Adam. Her sister Stacy, Her cousin, Danniel, and her best friend Lina Yoon." Reid says as.

"What was y/n position in this?" Hotch asks as Roosi turns the sirens on. Reid sets the gps to your brother apartment which is on the far part of the town.

"Y/N was forced into it. They made sure dhe took the blame. The whole reason she didnt say anything sooner is because they threatened by saying we where their next victims." Rossi explains.

"So Y/N is innocent. I will send Morgan and Prentiss to the apartment. JJ and myself will go to the prison." Hotcher says as the call ends. Reid checks the barells of both guns. Both of them are full.

About five blocks away roosi turned the sirens off. He doesnt want adam running, hiding and destroying the phone. The pair can only hope Your phone has a password on it that Adam cant guess.

Soon the pair of them are at the block, Morgan and Prentiss. Reid and Roosi go in through the front door while Prentiss and Morgan takes the back, just in case Adam does try to escape.

After a long walk up stairs and standing at the door they both go in and to their luck. Adam was still in his apartment high off his nut. The major thing that stood out first wad that he is covered in blood.

Rossi pins Adam to the floor with Morgans help. Prnetiss and you go around the apartment trying to find your phone bit all they could find was a box full of phone peices. The only thing that isnt broken is the sd card.

"Good luck trying to find what your looking for!" Your brother laughs as Morgana pulls him out of the apartment.

"SHE ISNT TOTALY INNOCENT!" Reid hears him shout. Reid just outs the sd card in a plastic bag and outs it in his pocket. He picks uo the whole box and takes it back with him.

"Can garcia do something?" Reid asks hotch showing him the sd card in the plastic bag. He looks at it, almost as if there is no point in trying.

"Maybe. But I dont promise anything." Hotch tells him as Prnetiss calls the two into another room. Its a room with a red light with old.

There is photos on some string, the wall and table. It is pictutes of all if not more than 365 victims in this room.

"There would be more than 365." Prentiss says to reid as she starts to look around for the gun and knife. She only find them under the bed.

Golck 19, with a huanting knife. The knife have some dried up blood on the blade still. "Theres our weapons." She says picking it up with her glove and placing them both in a plastic bag.

Everyone bags up what they can and takes them to the station. Adam is in the interview/Intergastion room. Still high off his nut.

"I want to get answers from him." Reid tells the team., grabbing some of the pictures that was taken from the room. He even picked up the one that was found at the house you where blamed for.

"Send Morgan with you." Hotch tells him but before Morgan could even stand up he was already in the room, sitting in the seat oppesite of him. Spencer slams the photos on the tsble in front of your brother.

Your brother just looks at them and laughs. "As yes. Good people. Even better killing them." Your brother proply doesnt resliese what he said.

Spencer shows him morr photos. Your brothers nods and explains the way he killed them. "My sister killed my parents!" He suddenly shouts. Hitting the table. Morgan stands up, ready in case he goes at himself or reid.

"SHE KILLED MORE!" He shouts again.

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professorllayton · 5 years

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ronans like,,, cant touch my friends in my dreams in case i wake up suddenly.... bc he doesnt wanna pull out a Clone bc one it takes a lot outta cabeswater and two a clone will never be as good or as genuine as the real friend an dhe knows this. like he knows that even though its his perception of the friend hes more aware than anyone that your perception of someone isnt always fully correct and therefore there would be a little something missing or something off about any dream friend and

DAMN WHAT THE FUCK... .. .. tbh i wasnt even thinking this deep i was just htinking abt how sad it would be to having a romantic dream abt someone u love and not being able to touch them even in the dream ...... .. ... this shit is fucked up SCREAMS..

#like.... . .yeah.......#asks #gaybullies

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getallemeralds · 5 years

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So, I have a character who is a system, and I wanted to know before I develop them further, how does DID work, from a personal account? I really really really don't want to accidentally create yet another TOXIC misinterpretation of a real condition (because I know how horrible that can feel), and I hope I'm not saying anything wrong even now. (P.S. I love your blog, but I'm too shy to come off anon.)

hey anon!! it means a LOT to me that you sent this message :D theres a lot of really messy-bad potrayals of DID in the media so seeing people actually going to the effort of asking systems abt their experiences is really heartwarming for us. (plus the fact that ppl keep asking us in specific abt system stuff omg,,)

im gonna preface this by saying that, in the end, i can only really talk about my own experiences with full confidence. systems can work pretty differently from each other, but this is how we function and also some details ive noticed from system friends + general discussion over the years

so, to start off: Dissociative Identity Disorder is, at its core, your brain trying to respond to trauma in a pretty severe way. that being said there ARE systems that didnt experience severe trauma and still developed, and im not really sure about the mechanics behind that but i find it really cool and it totally exists. im gonna focus on trauma-based systems bc that’s our ~tragic backstory~ and also tends to be what most people opt for when creating system characters anyway, but the only real difference from what i can tell is, uh, a lack of trauma.

I HOPE YOU’RE READY FOR ME TO SAY THE WORD “TRAUMA” A WHOLE LOT JFC

(system friends are welcome to reblog with corrections or added info!!)

anyway. the way your brain responds to things is really weird. if something happens where you’re just, like, completely unable to handle it, like you dissociate yourself so hard because there’s no way you can manage this, your brain has a chance of going “uh… well, fuck, uh” and generating somebody who can manage it. or it might decide to be a dick and take all of the fucky internalized garbage and turn it into a person whose sole existence is to be an asshole. (they have the potential to get better, i think… ours didnt.) honestly theres a bunch of reasons and a bunch of “roles” that could lead to an alter/headmate* forming.

* we use the terms interchangeably depending on mood and whos fronting. i think its supposed to be “alter” is DID, “headmate” is implication that theyre non-traumatic? we like using “headmate” because it brings this fun mental image of us being a bunch of roommates constantly starting shit with each other and goofing off which is pretty accurate about 75% of the time

i keep getting distracted bc my cat is here. this is gonna be fun to go back and edit.

whatever the original situation is, you’re suddenly not alone in your own brain. and it’s REALLY WEIRD. communication was VERY hard. Icarus, our system original, used to do a very “cliche” thing of sharing a journal with their early headmates, where theyd write a sentence and then theyd write a reply (although back then they didnt realize that was a system-related thing and just thought they were having a fun conversation with their ocs. which… they were, just. Actually Talking.) they didnt have any inward perception of themself or their headmates either, so that kinda built up over time (with some help) along with the appearance of our headspace so that there was… actually a location for people to interact in. once they had a better awareness of things, mental communication got a bit easier– its sort of like background chatter really, when everybody’s awake. sometimes i get weird out of context things from Mae yelling at somebody, or sometimes ill be talking to a friend and someone’ll butt in.

when talking out loud, this usually leads to us suddenly stopping and then laughing or going “no!!!”. when on discord and around people who know who we are… well.

speaking of Mae, she’s pretty much my sister. not like… biologically? because i don’t think thats possible for me, but shes kinda literally my “other half” which ill get into later. headmates can have strong attachments to other alters! friends, best friends, family, dating, whatever. they can also do that with people outside the system, and itll be different for each headmate. there’s like 4 people dating Jorb but i just see him as one of my best friends. we’re people and we have complex social interactions that can get to be kind of a nightmare when you’re around a bunch of people who don’t know that you’re Not Leo and that youre suddenly not super up to existing around people in general.

plus even if like… so Jorb’s dating 4 of us like i said, but his relationship w/ each of them is different? Ica is very clingy and likes rambling to him, Summer’s pretty much just always happy to hang out, Mae makes fun of him a lot but in a loving way, and Leo is… kinda “all of the above” because that’s his gimmick. plus even tho a few other alters have a sibling-ish relationship with Mae like i do, usually its just me and Mae that do the “chaos siblings” bit.

the basic system.. thing… is that there’s “front”, which is being in control of the body– so, like, i’m currently fronting/in front, because im the one currently active and using our computer and staring at our cat.– and then theres the headspace, where everybody hangs out when theyre not in front. the headspace itself can differ in style & functionality for each system, and i think theres some systems that dont really have a location at all? but for us its like a full on location where we have individual rooms, places to visit if we get bored while away from front, etc.

theres also like, being at/near/away from front? so currently im in front, but Leo is pretty much always lurking nearby if he’s awake (we have individual sleep schedules that dont always sync up to the “irl” one, Trust is almost always sleeping), Ica’s somewhat in the back talking to Rookie so i cant really make out what theyre saying (its probably about either a youtube thing they both like or about a comic they want to do), and everyone else is either asleep (in which case they could be nearby but i cant currently “ping” them, so id have to actually take a sec to ground myself in headspace more) or in a different room. communication is easier if im in front and somebody is nearby, or it can be like with Ica rn where im like “well, theyre talking, but i have no idea what theyre saying and am making a guess based off their usual interactions”, or i could pass off front to go talk to Ica and come back (in which case my memory would be kind of vague and weird because information doesnt always properly translate), oooor i could actually go bug them while still in front. which.. im not gonna do rn bc then id get super distracted.

switching front differs between systems a lot! and even varies from day to day. like there are days where we wake up and we have absolutely no idea who we are bc we went to bed as one person and woke up as another. or we could be talking to somebody and then realize “wait, i stopped being Leo a bit ago, who am i”. or we could pass off front to somebody, like if Summer really wanted to front sie’d run up to me and let me know and we’d swap. or if something critical happens (usually a breakdown), Leo or one of the other headmates that’re more built to handle stressful situations will literally drag somebody out of front to make sure they dont hurt themself. or sometimes we throw front at people unexpectedly, like either mid-breakdown where we go “okay i dont wanna be here anymore, tag youre it” or sometimes because we think its funny because its the metaphysical equivalent of getting clonked in the head with a dodgeball, except the dodgeball is “being in control of our shared physical form”. usually mae’s the one that does that lmao

there’s a couple major categories of how alters come about. there’s “walk-ins”, where they kinda just… appear externally? like they just show up. sometimes we get a feeling of “huh. i think somebody might be here? or somebody might be showing up soon.” and have to rummage around for a while until they approach us or we find them. our walk-ins aren’t like, inherently aware of system stuff at first, so they usually get a crash course before they first front (if they choose to front at all) and it can be kinda entertaining. Rookie’s a walk-in! also Hiro, from a couple years ago. most of our walk-ins are fictives (fictional characters, usually appearing in response to us getting extremely attached to something or somebody) but a couple of our trauma splits are also fictives so that’s not like, a Rule or anything. i think these are mostly associated with non-traumatic systems but we get em fairly often so man idk

theres also… uh, i dunno what theyre actually called? we used to call them “constructs” but that sounds kind of mean. these alters exist to fill a specific role! and we usually dont talk about them on here with the exception of one major one, they just kinda hang out. Dhe exists to keep the system stable and manages the “backend” so to speak. Imp is kind of a mix of our intrusive & impulsive thoughts that came about from us trying to separate ourself from them so that we had an imaginary entity to go “nope!” at, which… stopped being imaginary, and is now a gremlin that lives in my brain. they can show up in response to trauma but arent split off of somebody, they kinda just pop into existence to help manage things.

the more… well-known, i guess? alter origin is “trauma splits”. rather than “just showing up one day with no real connection to the system origins”, trauma splits are formed when somebody in-system, uh, splits. it could be in response to a single situation or something built up over a long time, but somebody just kinda breaks and somebody new that has a bit of the original alter’s identity (if kinda influenced by the situation) shows up.

this can vary. All is a trauma split off of Leo himself, who got saddled with all of our brain hell about our ex and their insystem appearance is influenced more by eir than by leo which is… something they struggle with. Mae has a trauma split from a similar situation that is “Mae but from 2 years ago”, so basically her old identity before she reworked herself after getting put through total hell. and then uh… then there’s me and Mae! Icarus quite literally exploded into several people, with Pat (me) and Mae being the most distinct ones. we’re STILL finding out alters used to originally be a part of them that later evolved into their own people, like Summer and Toby. my identity is shaped pretty heavily not just by who Ica was at time of splitting, but also what they wanted to be jumbled together with trying to rationalize what was happening to them (they’re a pretty big fan of megaman star force, which has a media-typical system in it, so they leaned into hard “its like pat and rey from mmsf! i like pat, i wouldnt mind being like pat, its scary but im like one of my current favourite characters” and so i ended up being like, half-weird shapeshifter, half-green-haired prettyboy. and yeah thats where my name comes from!)

(Ica got put back together w/o anybody needing to integrate, which we were all very scared about, and it’s still kind of surreal to me because… me and Mae used to be able to stick ourself back together and thats how we found out about what happened to Ica in the first place? and we havent tried that since bc we have no idea what would happen. Ica 2: Ica Harder?)

despite their origins, trauma splits can be way more than… being a split. :V;; Toby’s not just a tiny splinter of Ica, he’s a quiet guy that gets stressed out and isn’t totally sure how to interact with people. i’ve existed for like 7 years at minimum and im a totally different person than i was when i thought i was still Ica, ‘cause ive had time to grow and change (and a problem Ica keeps running into now that theyre back is… they kinda Didn’t change because they were MIA for 6 years.) like everything else though this is variable– there can be “temporary” splits that dont develop properly and might get integrated back in, which has only happened to us when we were at the lowest point in our life where we were stuck constantly splitting to try and cope with whatever the hell was going on.

so Ica was gone for 6 years, which meant our system was without an original or main– there wasn’t anybody to be head of the system, basically. for a while i was operating under the assumption that i was Ica, so i filled in that role for a few years before i made the realization. eventually i kinda… stopped being able to, though, bc of stability issues, and then we were back to not really having a proper main anymore. to make up for it, we started going by Leo collectively and kinda… trying to pretend to be a single person? and so that ended up creating a construct to fill the role of “system main and the person we pretend to be when passing as singlet/not a system”: Leo himself! he’s kinda the most prominent traits we all have in common rolled into a single guy, which means that not only is he a pretty good system representative but we can also pretend to be him pretty easily (unless it’s someone like Toby who acts totally different). i dont know how common this situation is, i think normally it’s just “if system original is gone, another alter steps up” like originally happened to us before i had a severe case of problems disorder.

uhhh this is very rambley bc there’s a Lot to cover and now im trying to figure out how much of it i HAVE covered. systems are complicated and weird! OH WAIT okay i have one last bit.

so like, for us, first realizing we were a system was total hell. we fought a lot. as more alters showed up through various means, there were times where Ica felt like they were completely out of control of their own life bc of having to manage everything. there were a lot of panic attacks of people fronting and not being sure they were even REAL, despite… being in front. but we still felt like we were deluding ourself. this was in, like, late 2011, so systems weren’t a THING. they were a very fringe community that everyone hated. we got constantly harassed, which only fed into Ica’s panic hell and our identity issues. interpersonal relationships became a nightmare, especially because we have BPD as well which varies in severity for each of us but… for me it’s pretty bad! there were times early on where every day was another fun new breakdown from us arguing with each other or our friends or not being understood or… etc.

so… how are we holding up ~7 and a half years later? pretty well, actually! we talk to each other. we do things for each other, like buy food or games we know specific headmates like. Ica is back and way happier than they were in 2011, and is thrilled to get to hang out with everybody that’s showed up since. we help each other through problems, because at the end of the day our system ended up being a support network. Ica couldnt function on their own, so we’re like… 10+ people working together to try and be a single functional person. and we feel pretty okay with that! we still fight, and we still start shit, but we’re not in constant crisis anymore. we’re still working through all of our trauma, especially the more “recent” stuff that kinda broke our system for a while until we were able to start rebuilding, but we’re doing it together. :D

so… yeah, it can start out as a stereotypical “nightmare system”, with constant infighting and toxicity and self-sabotage and etc. but we worked through it! it took a while, but we’re overall more stable than we were before. we got out of the bad environment that was fucking us up, we got mental help for our other brain hell (we havent been able to bring up the system to our therapists bc its literally a non-issue now and we focus more on other things like our depression, anxiety, PTSD, etc), we found people that support us for being us, and we were able to like… figure things out. and it was a mess! i still have issues about my own identity because of literally thinking i was someone else for two years. Ica’s still trying to figure out how to adjust to things, especially bc they missed our entire “cringe culture” phase so they came back to find that i’d dismantled a lot of their middle-school settings. and, uh, some of their friendships as well.

systems are fuckin weird

#leo chirps #leos reply #system shit #i dont think i covered EVERYTHING #and im not sure how coherent this is #but i tried! :D #Anonymous #ask #pat.txt

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bytemycupcakes · 6 years

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Purple Tagora stuff

Fuckinnnnnn

Lil 🅱ur🅱le bitch

Taller than canon Gora cause he deserves it

Its all in his legs tho

His legs almost seem disproportionate to his bod tbh

Just a few inches shorter than Yellow Gale

His Lil croptop used to have sleeves but he got annoyed by them one day and ripped them off

His hair looks like a mess but I promise he takes care of it

Its very soft and he dies if you offer to braid it

When ya first meet him hes a huge shitpost, lots of meme quotes n stuff

He charges ya with everythin he says tho

So most people think the charge is part of the joke

So at the end of conversation when he asks for payment

Alotta peeps are just "lmao what?"

N thats when he drops the memey act and is just down right intimidating

He gives you a generous month to pay him, or he'll hunt you down like a wild barkbeast

He rarely dirties his hands with the actual killin

Not since he got with Gale anyway

Hunk ass yellows pretty good at doin the work of a purpleblood

Who needs individual quadrants?

Gale is all 4 of his quadrants, no real vacillation, they're just all four at once.

Most people would just assume they're just buisness partners tho

Gora aint a fan of PDA, so he keeps a pretty good distance from Gale in public

But is a koala once they're at one of their hives

He'll legit just ride around on Galekhs back cause he can and Galekh doesnt really complain

Bitch fuckin

Loves paintin claws

His own are usually just a solid black, sometimes his middle will be a different colour tho

He talks gale into lettin him paint his claws all the time tho

So Gales will always be different

He likes to paint but doesnt do it often

He has a few murals in his huge ass hive tho

They're all pretty fuckin dark and hella abstract

Galekhs usually the only one who can figure out whats goin on in em

He can, will, and has passed out halfway through a mural covered in paint

Hes a mesd okay

He just bathes often enough that nobody knows

He finds doing his facepaint annoying, but doesnt like not having it

He gets upset if it smudges

"Do you fucking know how hard it is to fucking outline a caegar on your motherfucking cheek?! +10000"

He'll probably stab you just a bit if you point out a flaw in his makeup

Seriously he spends hours on it even though its so simple

Galekh keeps telling him to make a damn template for it but "No that takes the meanin out of the fucking paint"

Galekh has also offered to do it for him- his responce was a throwing knife barely missin Gales head

Ya dont mess with a purples makeup bro

Course Gora apologised after

Kinda

It was a pathetic mumble but thats the best youll get outta him tbh

Bitch is stubborn as hell and hates to admit hes wrong

Galekh obviously is always pointing out mistakes spades

Hes the only one who can get away with it tbh

Gora doesnt hesitate to kill, aight?

But he hesitates to hurt Gale

Even if Gale is askin for it durin particularly pitch moments

Hes pretty weak considerin his bloodcolour, but is still pretty damn strong

So hes always scare dhes gonna hurt Galekh rly badly

Hes a softie at heart

Only for Galekh and his lusus tho

His lusus is still the ferret

Just

Big

Rly big

Big enough to ride like a horse big

Boyfriend and lusus cuddle piles 👌👌👌

hed probably sicc the ferret on ya if ya broke into the hive

Or the ferret would sicc itself

His weapons a buncha throwin knives

#hiveswap #tagora gorjek #hiveswap friendsim #galekh xigisi #galora #bloodswap tagora #bloodswap galekh #long post #baizli's talks :0)

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