#don’t involve real people

[dogrotpdf]

to the people who are putting my poetry of my brothers suicide over photos of ice hockey teams: don’t? do that?

#and K-pop members #literally hate that I have to say that #don’t involve real people #it’s fucking weird

[sophfandoms53]

The team calling out how overused the Eggman announcement joke has become, I respect that😭

#don’t get me wrong I still laugh at the joke #but I do agree it’s become annoying #the fact people bring it up unprompted and always ask Alfred about it too #ppl just act like that’s the only joke in this dub series and it’s not #like yeah it’s iconic but always bringing it up in a regular SA2 discussion isn’t needed #there’s an actual plot in SA2 that doesn’t involve the announcement #sonic the hedgehog #shadow the hedgehog fandub #sonic fandub #snapcube #real time fandub

[itspileofgoodthings]

like. Nina listens to Taylor, moderately keeps up with the front-facing aspects of her life, enjoys her quality, has her minor critiques, recognizes her place in the current culture, can set her down and do other things when she wants to, and most importantly knows who Taylor is through her art.

#you cannot engage with Taylor completely casually it doesn’t work #you won’t get to know her #you have to let her in. go on a sunset walk with your headphones in and open your heart to her and just HEAR her #and then once you know who she is you can go from there #but there absolutely is this level of refusing to get to know her #and I am truly (once again) not addressing people who have that door simply closed (my mom! my older sister!) #people whose opinions matter so much to me #but I am talking to the people who wrestle and want to love her but actually hate her and idk. I feel that it is something where—- #well it’s like people isn’t it. you have to get to know her without judgment #and without bias #you have to know her FROM her #(which does not involve Easter eggs OR celebrity headlines if you hate both of those things #and then if you don’t like her you do in fact have to leave without making that other people’s problem #especially Taylor’s! #I am thinking of this girlboss journalist who wrote a piece on Taylor the other day #that was LIVID with Taylor for sharing only positive reviews on her insta story #(as is not only Taylor’s right but literally normal behavior??????????) #and was practically foaming at the mouth about how Taylor’s level of power was getting scary #and it’s like. I’m so sorry for swearing but BITCH #a lot of the numbers are out of Taylor’s control and also NOT REAL. Taylor also DESERVES her success and is simply doing her job very well #and riding the waves of virality she knows how to create in ADDITION to that #also stop worshipping power and money!!!! the way you clearly do!!!!!!! #Taylor is not doing anything with it except her job!!!!!!!!!!!!! #she is also CLEARLY a human being who suffers #SEE HER AS SUCH #and end it THERE #INSANE #turning off reblogs for this one #because I have gotten carried away but wow

[funhouse-mirror-barbie]

Random question but like, does anyone know if V(aggie) is still El Salvadoran? I remember reading somewhere that she was supposed to be from El Salvador originally, and how the creator was really proud to have Vee representing her culture/heritage or something similar. What ever happened to that?

Wondering genuinely, just didn’t know if it was still canon or had been thrown out the window. I don’t know enough Spanish but did Stephanie Beatriz speak with a Salvadoran dialect or accent when she voiced Vee’s Spanish lines?

I don’t know enough about regional/country dialects to know what hat that would sound like, and I guess we don’t know how the Exterminator angels come to be or if they were humans at some point.

I would think if they were formally human that they would keep their human names and not allow themselves to be renamed after genitalia??? Anyway, would be interested if anyone knows if that’s still a thing or still canon or no?

#hazbin hotel critical #media critique #hazbin hotel critique #funhouse convo #media criticism #hazbin hotel criticism #not a real critique #but sometimes just asking questions can get you harassment in the Hh fandom #and while the critical tag can be filled with a lot of hatred that I don’t agree with #it’s usually the best place to get answers #probably b/c a lot of the people who are more critical of Hh and hb #either still are or used to be very involved in the fandom and were fans of the series themselves

[fellhellion]

“Miguel cheats on Xina and is so callous in his explanation of said act because it comes from a place of self sabotage” is one of those readings where I really like it’s implications and agree it’s plausible for Miguel to do that, but also think it’s harder to textually support.

The difference in Miguel’s reaction between Xina vs how he handles Gabriel is. Incredibly stark.

I think reading self sabotage here with Xina only really works with the cruelty of mocking Xina as she leaves or making a face at her that doesn’t seem to hint at remorse if you read that self sabotage as being either unconscious, or a deeply suppressed. Which are plausible for the character as I’ve said; but I’d argue aren’t supported within the textual presentation we are offered here into Miguel’s supposed emotional state.

Compare and contrast to the confrontation with Gabriel. Miguel is still being a dick, but it’s not the active aggravation like towards Xina, more a sense of condescending pity.

Most critically, you have the time to taken to offer small insight into Miguel feeling guilt at Gabriel trying to forgive him and retreating from that. It’s a reaction no one other than Miguel is privy to and hints at that feeling being aggravated and then suppressed. Most notably, it’s just. Not something we see replicated in his interaction with Xina.

I don’t think any of this particular reading I’m offering here negates the obvious regrets Miguel holds regarding Xina into the future of 2099 though.

Like regardless of whether you choose to read it as active disregard or an unconscious self sabotage (or both), it’s very obvious Miguel holds a lot of regret regarding tarnishing that friendship (and the unspoken love that was present there) and this manifests in one of the most notable ways through the ambiguity to his reaction to Lyla’s confession.

Like. You can essentially read quite a plurality into Miguel’s deflection/bemusement here. From his deeply complicated relationship to love and self hatred, to the fact that Xina becomes retroactively intrinsic to Lyla and that aspect offering the scene a completely new dimension, tinged with palpable regret.

I think it’s entirely plausible, given the ambiguity where Miguel’s reaction comes from to argue for that being present within this scene given not only its presentation, but that guilt over Xina is something we see present in Miguel.

#I don’t know if this is anything I’ve just been mulling over it #tldr I like the self sabotage reading and think it’s in character but I have my doubts about it being something you can substantially #evidence in the text #it’s weird because like. I think PAD’s authorial intent of Miguel just being a misogynist here actually makes the most sense w the #way the scene is presented. but because PAD is so allergic to having people criticise Dana the SINGULAR time Miguel verbally condescends #abt Dana is trying to bait Xina’s pride where he essentially implies she’s always been leagues smarter than Dana #which like. okay. but why wouldn’t that pattern of behaviour and thinking manifest literally anywhere else in that relationship #if you’re intending me to read this as a critical aspect to why Miguel is involved w Dana in the first place #(real reason seems to be just. this bizarre aversion 2099 has with actually having the cast react to Dana’s actions as more than #those of a hapless ingenue #) I’d like to be yknow. shown it more???? #so you’re just sitting there going why tf was Miguel so needlessly cruel to Xina because you just don’t. imo. get that much of a tangible #establishment of condescension being a cornerstone to Miguel/Dana’s relationship #so ur just like well that was needlessly cruel. and bizarrely so given how palpable Miguel’s regrets are now #so ur just left there w a scene that is structured in such a way as to characterise Miguel as supposedly #being genuinely callous to his ex lover and best friend #BUT because the condescension isn’t reinforced at all beyond that one line #appears like a bizarre one off that hints at deeper if unacknowledged feeling in Miguel #and it’s THAT tension imo between the authorial intent and it not being that well executed that actually provides the most fertile soil #as it were. for the reading that it’s a self sabotage #which again let me be clear I do enjoy and think is plausible #I just think PAD fell ass backwards into creating the circumstances that imply it sbxhxjcjc #tunes talks 2099 #long post

[artemispt]

If you didn't want to answer you wouldn't have. Instead you decided to post an ask implying he has a beard because you think he's fucking Lando.

One thing is reading and writing fan fiction, seeing posts of them and thinking it's cute knowing it's fantasy. Most people here do it, and that's OK. Another one is thinking his relationship is fake because he's in love with Lando. That's deranged behavior.

Your asks are good for me to learn new words. I was so confused when I read “beard”, I was like “yes he has a beard, but why this is relevant” (I’m wondering why this word is also applied that way) 😂

If you read my answer to that ask, you saw (I hope) that I tried to “oh but see, it’s normal to a guy to be with a friend…”. If you want to talk to that anon, try to find their IP or idk. Using me as an intermediary isn’t cool.

But yes, now I’ll definitely think twice before answering an ask mentioning any wag.

#also I don’t judge anyone (if they think Carlando is a real thing or not) as long as they keep their thoughts on safe shipping spaces… #… not harassing the involved people #and like I said yesterday is ok if you unfollow me #inbox

[genshinjourney]

Some things about Clavia, my Genshin OC, part of my Genshinverse that all my fics are currently set in. So a lot of headcanon and filling in gaps to my liking.

(I made her with the Miscellany Picrew which is really nice for Genshin OCs, I will link it here! https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/1235129)

The little template thingy below is made by me.

—she’s an extreme history nerd and is very fascinated with Teyvat history

—she read in secret as a child, as knowledge of Teyvat was forbidden in Khaenri’ah

—she has a tendency to break her glasses

—she is very autistic

—she can speak Mondstadtian pretty well when she goes there since she has taught herself languages

—she knows ancient Khaenri’ahn

—she has light powers but they’re considerably weaker than Dain’s and not developed + she has to hide them

—at first she does not understand the concept of adoption since her parents are bloodline maniacs and she talks about adoption as infiltrating someone’s family. Kaeya feels like he’s a burden on the Ragnvindrs so this is totally not helpful and she and Diluc also want to murder each other for a bit. They figure it out, but then she’s jealous because Kaeya got taken in by a loving family and she didn’t.

—she saw pictures of Raiden Makoto in a history book and that was her lesbian awakening

—her younger sister Alina works for the Abyss Order and was doing a commission for them in Liyue and she brought back a women’s fashion magazine. Clavia pointed out on of the girls she thought was pretty and Alina told her not to steal all the women. Alina seems to have a thing for Liyuan girls (which is like totally scandalous because the Alberiches (at this point) are pureblood maniacs + they act like Caribert just didn’t happen lmao).

—Clavia applied for the Akydemia but wasn’t accepted. They said she isn’t ready but she thinks they just don’t want her because she’s Khaenri’ahn. She’s decided rules are bad anyway.

—she stayed with Kaeya for a month after arriving in Mond but he kicked her out because Dain was using the guest room.

—Lisa lets her stay in a spare room for free as long as she does work for her like cleaning since Lisa is lazy. It’s the same place that Kaeya stayed when he was homeless (because that happened)

—she does odd jobs for the knights but isn’t an official member. She’s definitely fence sitting on that lol because Diluc would kill her if she joined + she doesn’t like rules.

—she got blackout drunk in Sumeru when Kaeya challenged her to a drinking contest. She liked the taste but did not like the affects of it so she doesn’t drink since. She’d also probably say it would impair her focus or something.

—she wants to open her own school in Mondstandt or northern Liyue because she doesn’t fuck with three Akydemia anyway.

—also this has nothing to do with Clavia but Dain forgot his last name (I’m getting around the fact that he doesn’t have one) and he’s also Kaeya’s roommate and like a house husband (they aren’t married) but yeah lmao. So hee and Diluc come over one time I forget why but yeah Clavia talks about hating her family blah blah blah. She says she’s a freak and then basically Diluc says he’s also not normal lol. Then she jokingly refers to everyone as the Ragnvindr-Alberich-Navatii-Dainsleif-with-no-last-name-family” (Navatii is Kaeya’s mothers name in the my fanfic universe, she was a badass Eremite lol. He was gonna take her name but Jean said it wouldn’t go over well with diplomatic meetings so he changed back to Ragnvindr again, bro has had four name changes atp lmao [him and Diluc are reconciled at this point in the fic so yeah]).

—she kinda accidentally became a therapist to Kaeya and tried to offer him some emotional support but she’s bad at feelings

—she says the Knights need a counseling service lmao.

—even after months of being in Mond, the sun still hurts her eyes. She needs glasses to see well anyway.

—the only person who cared for her growing up was her maternal grandmother who died when she was thirteen.

—she likes Jean but is intimidated by her.

—Lisa is sort of a mother figure to her

—I’m pretty sure her light powers come from her mom’s side even thought the trait itself hasn’t shown up in generations. I haven’t decided who Albina is but maybe she’s related to Dain somehow. I’m writing my own Dainsleif lore since they won’t give it to us heheh. The Abyssal powers (Abyss blood, it makes you cold blooded and it’s basically dark energy vs. light energy, yeah totally headcanon) but Kaeya has Abyss powers and Clavia has light powers.

—this is also not related to anything but Dain and Kaeya are sort of a couple in this fanfic universe. If that bothers anyone please don’t read. But it’s slow burn and I don’t write smut anyway.

—gosh there’s so much context. You could read my 70k word fanfic with her. I have some short fics in the same universe but they kinda spoil the longfic but everything is explained in there hehe. Anyway I’ll link my AO3 if anyone is curious. No obligation hah. It not letting me copy paste but it is RiahWrites02 and the main fic is linked in my intro post.

#oc #picrew #genshin oc #my fanfic universe #genshin fanfic #genshin headcanons #if my fanfic makes me mad then don’t read it lol #people get way too pissed #like the person who told me I was messed up for the illegitimate child Kaeya headcanon which involved racism #just because I write about something doesn’t mean I condone it #some people need to get a grip #like it’s fanfic it’s a headcanon #that being said I try to handle real life issues with care #genshin impact #kaeya #Kaeya’s sister #anyway yeah #I wanna write her more in the future

[coyoxxtl]

tumblr centrist liberals stop acting like voting is the most influential and important political activity you can participate in challenge

#me donating to mutual aid posts on tumblr and donating esims to people in gaza has done worlds more influence than any vote i ever did #people who risk their lives in protests do more than voting #i firmly believe that #this isnt a Voting is Pointless post this is Voting is the Barest Minimum #voting is easy. when there’s no outside barriers its so fucking easy. #you fill in a card and call it a day. its easy to feel like you made a difference when all you did is fill in some dots. #yall barely even follow up on who you vote for or even Care if the people you vote for fail you #its the perfect thing for weak liberals to attach to #treat it like the be all end all with activism and you have the easiest get out of real political action card #no need to get your hands dirty if you did all you needed to #as someone who DOES vote. voting is the easiest political thing i engage with. everything else is a risk. or at least a sacrifice. #voting is barely anything to me. i dont feel like i do Anything with it. but donating. making political art. THATS something. thats REAL. #i would go to big protests if i lived somewhere with them #like i understand. wanting voting to be enough. im a heavily depressed bitch who feels like they cant engage with anything big or important #i know tumblr is full of those types. yall dont want to do anything. yall dont want to be uncomfortable or upset or anything negative. #personal comfort above all else. thats what tumblr is. thats what centrist liberals are. there’s no real desire to break out- #of the comfort zone or status quo respectively. yall are scared to get Involved. and i am too. but with how current events are going… #i can see that i don’t want to be that anymore. i know i need to be more than that. its hard and risky but i Need to. #and so do yall. yall NEED to engage with activism outside of voting. or you’re doing nothing. #txt

[artificial-condition]

I’m going to lose it I fucking hate working full time

#my thoughts #there’s already drama and I don’t! want! to! be! involved! #I feel like I’m in a tug of war between two people at my work who keep advising me not to let the other bully me into doing what the other #wants #they keep trying to get me to pick the desk THEY think I should pick #I DONT CARE ABOUT THE DESKS #STOPPPPP #also my free time is gone and I’m doing work that I don’t find deeply fulfilling #somehow I am passionate about the library but not passionate about doing it full time #you know what nevermind it’s not that hard to get. I hate the 40 hour workweek #literally fantasizing about quitting #no but for real I can’t do this the rest of my life #so I’m taking steps to starting a home bakery #I find cooking and baking deeply fulfilling #I applied for my home based processor license and I’m scoping out farmers markets to sell at #gotta look into the business aspect of it (starting an LLC) #also just so sad #I want to cry a lot #I feel caged inside like an animal #I want to go outside and work outside

[designernishiki]

bro kiryu is a terrible parent. he may be happiest when he's surrounded by the kids at the orphanage but what kind of genuine happiness has he given THEM? the dude provides them no stability and haruka is the one that actually looked after them the whole time while he runs off to fix up the tojo again and again. it's better that he stays away from them. even kiryu finally sees that. it's why he chose to do what he did at the end of 6. i hope he continues to leave them the hell alone.

park mirei is that you????

I really don’t think it’s that simple. I don’t think he’s a bad parent and I don’t think he’s a perfectly good one either. I think some of the things that make him a “bad” parent are actually his fault, while other things haven’t been, and are instead more of an inevitable product of the shady world him and haruka both were born into.

TLDR: it’s literally factually incorrect to say he didn’t/barely raised his kids and instead just left haruka to do it (most of 2007-2011 he was fully present and solely devoted to raising them, no other job, no other intentions), and he absolutely has done a lot for them and their happiness. however, he’s made some bad choices as well and has his fair share of flaws as a parent. most importantly, his past does tend to find him in one way or another regardless of what he does, which is not something that’s easy to solve. taking himself out of the picture hurts the kids tremendously, while staying in the picture potentially endangers/hinders the kids. I can’t say what the “right” thing to do would be, because it’s not black and white. all I can say for sure is that he did have an important and positive impact on their childhoods, and they care about him just as much as he cares about them.

(more in depth version below)

the idea that he hasn’t done anything for his kids and didn’t actually raise them is something I wholeheartedly disagree with and is just factually untrue. before he starts getting threatened and manipulated by various groups/people to get him to leave, for several years (most of 2007-2011) he was a caring parent who devoted all of his time and effort to raising those kids and it shows from how much they love and miss him when he’s gone, and in the personal problems he helps each of them with whenever he can in y3. On top of love in general, he provides them with stability, a sense of family and home, and helps some of the more traumatized kids regain the ability to trust and overcome survivor’s guilt. he’s responsible for the years of those kids’ lives they would almost undoubtedly all consider the best of their childhoods. “what kind of happiness has he given them?” a whole damn lot, frankly.

kiryu never goes back to deal with shit in the tojo clan fully voluntarily. it’s basically always because something is threatening the orphanage and the kids’ wellbeing, or because there are people he cares about in the clan, which makes for a lot of potential issues but– considering he’s not heartless and can’t just turn off the bonds he has with certain people– can’t be avoided, considering the closest people he had to family were yakuza/yakuza-adjacent, and cutting all of them (that he has left) off completely isn’t as easy as you make it seem. when daigo– who’s like a son to him in his own right– gets shot and very nearly dies in y3, no shit he’s gonna be concerned. and he’s deeply conflicted at first on what to do (or not do) about it. it’s really really really not as black and white as him being a good person or a bad person for being dragged back into clan ordeals– much of the time it’s not his fault at all. by all accounts he feels guilty and horrible for his past endangering the kids, and it’s a HUGE recurring theme/conflict that contributes heavily to his distancing in y5, and further distancing in y6.

HOWEVER. he has absolutely made some iffy choices and I’d never say he’s a perfect parent. for one, I definitely think haruka was allowed to be more parentified than she should’ve been– he needed the extra help, considering one adult raising that many kids isn’t easy, but he should’ve gotten that help via employing another adult (I was hoping mikiyo from y3 would do this, but he doesn’t get mentioned after y3 for whatever reason sadly), not relying on her for more responsibility than a kid should have.

moreover, despite her parentification, there’s several times where he makes huge decisions for haruka (and the kids in general to some extent) without her input / against her wishes, and recklessly puts himself in grave danger despite having kids who rely on him to take into consideration. it absolutely baffled me at the beginning of y6 to see that there wasn’t any real adult put in kiryu’s place while he was in prison, and that it’d just been the older kids seemingly who acted as caretakers for the household. that was a horrible oversight and I think he should’ve known better– yeah, he didn’t have much time to find someone to fill the role, but he was in contact with haruka and he could’ve had her get help from one of kiryu’s friends to find someone. there were definitely options and I’m not gonna make any excuses there. he’s not infallible, no doubt.

Shit gets really complicated when it comes to him leaving the way he does a number of times. He does it in the hopes that it protects the kids from his past that keeps springing up and endangering their futures, but the issue with this is that BECAUSE he did, in fact, lovingly raise these kids for the most fundamental years of their lives and become their father figure, ripping himself out of their lives can’t be good for them– especially considering they’re orphans who have already had parents ripped from their lives and undoubtedly have abandonment issues as it is. this is terribly complicated and doesn’t have a black or white answer at all– leaving them has the huge emotional repercussions I just mentioned, and staying potentially endangers them and their futures. there is no easy way to slice it, and even the best parent on earth would be torn if put in that scenario.

personally I can’t help but hope he gets to reunite with his family, as I know they’d want that as much as he would; but it’s for the best at this point that they don’t have to fully rely on him and him alone. kiryu needs other adults to lean on in his life, and so do the kids. I think the kids are capable of this– of building new bonds and broader support systems– but kiryu has got a ways to go.

#but damn bro I’ve never heard anyone be this aggressive in their hatred for kiryu as a parent bchfhdbdbdb….. #like I’ve heard people saying he’s a bad parent and making decent points about it but. this sounds like some kinda personal beef ngl #kiryu is not real and he can not hurt you. it’s okay #interesting to contrast kiryu’s predicament with majima’s whole reason for avoiding a ‘normal’ family #family life or what have you. he’s made it clear that once you’re involved in the yakuza you’re ‘stained black for life’ and thus he’d made #it a point to avoid dragging anyone else down with him even if it means sacrificing his own happiness or potential shot at a more fulfilling #life. which is interesting because like. I don’t think either of them have made a /better/ choice than the other #kiryu tried and (arguably) failed- where as majima chose not to try at all in the hopes that it’d save people who’d potentially bond with #him some grief and suffering. I don’t think it’s wrong that kiryu tried to live a fulfilling life and give kids the parental backbone #he didn’t really have when he himself was an orphaned kid. it’s just the difference between an initially optimistic outlook and a nihilistic #(on a personal level) outlook. #god what I wouldn’t give to get a heart to heart beteeen those two on this topic man………… #anyway. yeah. I spent way too much time answering this lmao #kiryu #rambling #asks #long post

[sunglassesmish]

okay im relatively new to fandom (only seriously got into it a couple years ago, this is my first year on tumblr) and maybe im overthinking this but like. i dont know i get weird about anything involving real people and i almost feel … bad ? for being a /hj cockles & jenmisheel fan. just checking that im either a) not alone or b) overthinking this and it’s absolutely fine

you are not alone in it. they are real people and no matter how much we interact with them at cons or on social media we aren’t their friends and speculating and discussing their personal lives will always feel a little weird. but i know i would never confront any of them with my theories or speculation or questions or anything. all the things that they say and do in front of hundreds of fans is what i perceive. i know at the end of the day that i’m not their friend, i don’t know them personally and anything i say or think stays on this app. so i wouldn’t say you’re over thinking it, but just know there are so many other people who feel the same but are happy to perceive their relationship(s), whatever the nature of them is, as just a show of love. all we do here is celebrate the love and respect they have for each other.

#anon #ask #i hope this makes sense #just don’t bring any of this to the real people involved and stay respectful if you happen to meet them #and it’s okay (imo)

[letstrywritingmaybe]

I ramble way too much but also not nearly enough to write long fics. The June prompts are almost at 2k now and I really thought I would be done before that? Silly me, I forget I get on tangents and just keep going when I plan out my fics. Why am I like this. But I swear I’m almost done then we can move on. But I made the mistake of going into my fic ideas doc and now I’m like oh I want to know more about this verse, but I have so many things that I should prioritize! I’m also watching another kdrama and wondering how shinshi would fit into this and the answer is they don’t but my brain is trying to make it work and I don’t like it. I don’t need more ideas I won’t write

#cynful babbles #I’m also overworked but it’s fine cause I get to go home for my birthday. that’s all I’m looking forward to #but anyways I was thinking about a fic where shinichi tries to use Shiho to get rid of the org #but the problem with this is I can’t see Shiho not knowing she’s involved with bad people. like she’s not oblivious she’s too smart #so then she knows she’s being played? but thinks it’s entertaining and is okay with him using her cause he’s cute? #it’s just annoying cause the drama is a childhood friends to lover ship which automatically makes me not ship it #I have issues with the drama and I’m annoyed but I’m gonna finish it cause I don’t like quitting #plus I can focus on the other stuff Aka more fic ideas that I don’t need #anyways idk how to make it end well in my head for them #look I love a good cliché but I’m just not feeling the whole he falls for her and she accepts him for real #obviously he loves her cause this is my fic but I’m like must my queen keep suffering? #okay it’s time for bed. I can dream about this and sort it out or maybe plot the rest of my WIPs

[altschmerzes]

okay actually post by a friend has me thinking about this now and i do gotta say while idk how i really feel about the donor arc on this season of 911 what i DO know is there’s a whole lot of people in posts ive seen talking in an extremely implicitly or explicitly derogatory way about the concept and function of assisted reproduction and that is something id really prefer the fandom as a whole sit with for a second and examine their biases about and where that’s coming from before making their snarky text posts perhaps

#gav gab #do i have an elevated stake in this conversation bc my family planning involves assisted reproduction? yes #but that’s the point #some people’s do and like you don’t have to feel a certain way about a fictional character making a fictional choice #because writers decided to have him do that #but you DO gotta be aware that when you’re talking about sperm donation and AR #you ARE talking about a real situation that effects real people #and when you make it clear in your snarky little text post that you have some uh #WILDLY weird views of AR and donation #you’re telling those people (myself included) what you think of their current and future families #and how those families came to be. Be Aware Of It. #911 spoilers

[polysyndetonaddictsupportgroup]

in my defense, i was like 90% sure u already knew what banana fish was and i thought u would call me out on my bs right away. i did have a moment of panic when it turned out that u didn’t so 🥺

Hahaha it’s totally fine. I’ve actually never heard of it before today but I did start watching it because of this because I was curious. I like it so far

#I don’t personally mind dark or serious content matter #it’s never really affected me. I dunno why. i refuse to fuck with the supernatural because Irish but anything real world doesn’t really #bother me all that much. I don’t have many triggers #granted I work in criminal law and my day to day involves a lot of like. face stabbings. #banana fish isn’t triggering for me #but yeah I’d never actually heard of it before today #it’s definitely interesting and I like it so far so solid rec #but it is so not slice of life comfy anime lol #but it deals in a lot of serious subject matter so people who will be triggered by it should definitely not try it it will not be comfy #no harm no foul with me I just want to make sure no one following me takes the rec and gets accidentally triggered #not gonna lie my friend has been telling me to watch an anime for ages that’s called ‘something something -fish’ that I know for a fact is #slice of life anime about an awkward girl who likes jellyfish and a boy son of a politician who crossdresses and I thought it was that #i googled that is princess jellyfish it is very much not banana fish #it’s supposedly very cute and comforting I’ve been meaning to watch it forever #I knew there was a fish somewhere in the title I knew that much

[spicy-gf-archive]

sorry, if it’s out of the blue. but guys, is it silly to not want to interact with people because they ship with your IRL? (Kin)

#my reasoning is: the thought of *actually* dating other. real. flesh and bone people just makes me cringe for whatever reason… (<- aroace) #in a sense. my IRLs are me! they’re literally me! not a joke or anything! straight up me! #and the thought of someone selfshipping with me/my IRLs… just… makes me uncomfortable. sorry guys :( #so far. i haven’t seen any tamari selfshippers yet. but I did a few folk who selfship with gf. and boy i did not like it!! 0_0 #so. I’d rather not have them interact. sorry ^_^;; #idk. might be my past trauma involving my kins and IRL biting me in the ass. lol… #btw. this is talking about *romantic* selfshipping. not the platonic/familial kind! #if you f/o me. in a platonic/familial-sense. then i’m absolutely okay with it! #and honestly? i’d be honoured that you would see me as a friend/family member to you! absolutely! #it’s just that i don’t like folks dating me… sorry. ^_^;; #⛈️

[seilon]

hhh hyuna…………girl

#really disappointing dude….really disappointing #like I can’t think of a way she could rationalize the situation she’s just flat out dating a man involved (albeit remotely) with a sex #trafficking ring. like idk man I believe in people hack my the ability to better themselves and learn #but. I don’t know it doesn’t particularly seem like he’s done that at least publicly. donated to the victims or to charities related. idk #anything like that. but. that doesn’t seem like the case here #so just………………..girl what are you doing. like genuinely how on earth are you ignoring the. videos of trafficked women. he would watch. #yeesh. uhh I guess we’ll see what comes from this imma be real I didnt know she broke it off with dawn until now #kibumblabs