#gross behaviour

[furiousgoldfish]

How many of these 'rules for thee but not for me' have your abusive parents enforced on you?

I am allowed to criticize you, insult you, humiliate you and put you down in front of others. If you ever as much as imply I do anything wrong, or make me look bad in front of anyone, I will end you.

I am allowed to be aggressive, loud, intimidating, forceful and violent. You're not allowed to use force even in self defense, otherwise you are the abusive one, and how dare you.

I am allowed to need attention, comfort, appreciation, admiration, praise, reassurance, resources, time, energy, and everyone's support, at all times. If you ever need any of this, not only you are a burden but you're taking away attention that could have been mine and I need it more than you do. You do not deserve any of it.

I am allowed to make mistakes, to do harm with 'good intentions', to make human error and do things completely wrong. Everyone needs to give me a benefit of the doubt and forgive me immediately. If you ever make something I decide is a mistake, not only I will assume you had the worst intentions, but I will punish you severely for it and make you feel like you're the worst failure ever born.

I am allowed to control you completely. I can forbid and deny you anything, even food. I say what you do and when you do it, and you have to do it regardless of how rude I am asking it. If you ever even ask me to do something you need me to do, I will act like you are unreasonable, selfish and trying to take something away from me.

I am allowed to be emotional, whiny, complain, rant, threaten, wallow and cry. You are not allowed to show any emotions or you're spoiled, whiny, insufferable and unworthy of human society.

I am allowed to be seen as human and reasonable, all my actions excusable, and nobody is ever allowed to forget that I have emotions and that it's wrong to blame me for anything. You are not allowed any of this, you don't get to be taken seriously, and all of your actions are inexcusable. I can forget you're human and that you have emotions and it still makes me better than you.

I am allowed to hurt you if you do anything that irritates or annoys me even a little, even if you did it unknowingly and were just being a human. If you ever hurt me, even accidentally, you are a demon, worst child alive, and deserve to burn in hell forever.

I can take any revenge against you and it's justified. If you even consider any kind of revenge, you're evil.

I can forget that you exist and not care at all how my decisions affect you and your life. If you ever make a decision without considering my feelings first, you are the most selfish, disgusting, deprived and evil person who lives only to cause me harm.

My anger directed at you is righteous. Your anger directed at me is selfish, ungrateful, spoiled, deranged, out of control, disgusting, dangerous, makes you evil.

If I ever show contempt at you, you are supposed to still rationalize it as 'love'. If you ever as much as look at me wrong, I will take it as an expression of utter unreasonable hatred and disrespect.

I deserve respect, regardless of what I do to you. You don't deserve respect, and you never will, regardless of what you do for the rest of your life.

I am intelligent, and my every decision is superior to any of yours. You will never be intelligent, your every decision will be considered stupid until you do exactly as I tell you to.

I decide who you are and how are you to be treated. You don't get to decide, not for yourself, not for me. You will perceive me how I tell you to perceive me. I will perceive you as unlovable and awful no matter what you do, and you must perceive yourself this way too.

You must center me in your life. You are completely irrelevant to me and exist solely to make me look good, give me benefits of labour and love and to avoid making any trouble for me. If you try to do otherwise I will attack you as if you are the worst creature existing who is a burden to everyone alive.

Guests and relatives are here to give attention to me. You are not allowed attention and should instead be there as a servant/make me look good.

It is never my fault how I react to you, or even for what I do to you unprovoked. It is always your fault how you react to me, and you are further responsible for all of my actions and emotions as well. Nobody is responsible for your emotions, you might as well not have any.

I am not responsible for my own violence. You are responsible for my violence, and for violence of other people towards you.

I deserve everything I ever wanted from parenthood and raising a child, and only good parts too. If anyone tries to make me go through any unpleasant part, they're stupid or evil. You do not deserve even the basics of a normal childhood, instead you need to be the toughest kid alive if you want to survive.

I can be sensitive to every little hint, implication or face expression. You are not allowed to be sensitive even to the most crude and humiliating remarks or insults. You are not allowed to even have a problem with threats, blackmail or violence.

Whatever bothers me is a real and serious issue. Whatever bothers you is superficial, unimportant, made-up, you dramatizing and you seeking attention. Your problems are not real.

I cannot be compared to anyone for I am unique and special. You can be compared to the most despicable monsters, criminals, predators, and other groups of people that I consider disgusting.

If I am sick, it's a tragedy. If you are sick, stop pretending and get to work. And it's also your own fault and how dare you be sick only to force me to tolerate you being in bed and otherwise ignore you. You've done this on purpose to make me worry.

If I'm hurt, no measure is big enough to comfort me, bring justice back into the world, ensure revenge and correct whatever evil hurt me. If you're hurt, you deserved it, and you're probably just making it up anyway.

Taking care of me is your responsibility. Taking care of you is nobody's chore and you're selfish for wanting it.

My problem are your problems, and you are responsible for fixing them, even when you can't possibly do anything about them. Your problems are irrelevant and nobody cares.

You have to make me look good even at the price of truth, free will, and your own sanity. I can make you look bad in front of others for fun and amusement.

If you're inconvenient to me, I have every right to hate you, hurt you and do anything in the world to force you to change whatever is bothering me. If I'm inconvenient to you, adjust, and keep silent.

#rules for thee but not for me #abusive parents #toxic parents #child abuse #parentification #child neglect #hypocrisy #double standards #double bind #ending up in pain no matter what #because they rigged the entire basis of your upbringing #to always be against you #so you're always neglected and hurt and it's always your fault #and you can't even do anything #gross behaviour #narcissistic parents #narcissistic abuse

[hurremshiv]

Just showing up at Armin's home and CLIMBING INTO HER ROOM is TERRIFYING.

#gross behaviour #anti bali bey #magnificent century #el sultán #muhteşem yüzyıl

[dervampireprince]

to the anon who just sent me two asks. i am not publishing them so i am addressing you here. stop. yes you are crossing a line. yes you are making me uncomfortable. i didn't ask for help or advise. i am very uncomfortable with being given unsolicited advise. you do not know me. you do not know my situation. doesn't matter what i've shared about myself online, you don't know me. do not come into my ask box to offer me serious life advise. if this happens again i'll just not share anything anymore. do not assume things about my life, or assume worse things about my life than what i've shared. i'm not a fictional character, nor your friend. you do not know me. no matter what i share about me or my personal life, you do not know me nor do you know the details or everything that's going on in my personal life. i do not share most of my personal life because it's personal and private.

i'm sure in your mind you had good intentions, but that was so incredibly inappropriate.

#i feel so gross now #i know people getting parasocial is just a risk of being online but guys really? #the vampire vents #this sort of behaviour makes me want to close my ask box. #i feel so gross #wish i hadnt opened the askbox right before bed #going to be sharing less of me going forwards #or i'll keep it to twitch and not talk about it over here since i feel like i cant trust you guys

[feralsteddie]

I feel like we don’t embrace the fact that Steve and Eddie are teenage/barely not teenage boys enough

#steve harrington #eddie munson #steddie #like Steve is very clearly a bit prissy about things #i mean the man wears lip gloss and probably spends an unholy amount of time on his hair #(and before anyone says anything there is so way he wasn’t wearing lipgloss in s3) #and Eddie clearly cares for things ie we see the little repairs in his jacket and stuff #but they’re like 19/20 #they’re going to be gross #they probably make minimum five dick jokes a day #Eddie gives his friends wet willies #Steve shoves tampons up his nose bc he thinks it’s funny #like I love reading fic but I feel like no one leans in on true young dude behaviour enough #pyreposting

[seungkwan-s]

due to recent events, i will not be posting or creating any content for woozi, taeyong, mingi or soobin for a long ass time.

i can't put it into words how disgusted i am.

#gross behaviour.

[apostate-in-an-alcove]

Watching cishet couples and their brand of "relationship humour" on TikTok like 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢.

#my first mistake was having a tiktok account in the first place #tiktok #the cishets are at it again #they always pass off really gross and toxic behaviour as funny or endearing #sorry a man constantly groping his wife whether she wants him to or not isn't funny #her husband sounds like a borderline rapist #so much of the issues of their relationships if they actually communicated and listened and had mutal respect #but nah #make a jokey tiktok about it and then get ass mad when people rightfully callout your gross behaviour

[kavehater]

AAAH I have a mutual who’s 18 and he sorta kinda is flirting with this one guy who is a minor as a joke of course ( to which a concerned anon said that it’s weird ) but I can’t help but flashback to er*s

#granted the er*s situation was thoroughly complex and the reason she did those things was her copism with not being able to pull ( LLLLLLL ) #and ik that guy doesn’t mean any harm etc etc he’s not messed up like some ppl #BUT I DUNNO STILL #sobbing #they’re pretty sweet so #hes* #OH AND HES IRAQI TOO I LEGIT COULDNT BELIEVE THAT #dora daily #lowkey kinda sorta sad that a whole anon was more concerned than ppl i knew and who knew my age #and freely saw it happen so readily #and everyone else on that blog #genuinely and utterly disappointed #it’s always protect minors until the minors need protecting goddamn #this is especially directed at rhy yeah I’m not censoring that #🤷‍♀️ #too busy simping over minor characters who don’t have a time skip in canon and aging them up then complaining about it when ppl call out #the brain deadery of that behaviour #girl pls #you did not care about minors from the beginning literally bye #e[redacted] literally ruined my brain chemistry to say the least I will never go into how what she did absolutely muddled my brain never #told anyone and I don’t think I can ever tell someone ever #not to mention practically hyperventilating being unable to breath literally going into madness and ppl think that I’m overreacting and #telling me to shut up about it and blaming me for the situation as if I wanted any of this #lmaolmaolmao #all that and I was expected to do uni girl byeeee I need a good century to recover at least ☠️ #the only thing I DID want is friends but clearly that was a hard ask when ppl can get friends just by existing on this god forsaken app #atp I don’t even know what to say literally just wth #yall say mdni with your dumbass banners and decorate it like something special when yall are the ones to keep from minors you disgusting #wastes of clean oxygen 😭 mdni my foot gross ass adults should’ve never trusted them #the way I’d give them therapy to their complex traumas ☠️ imagine relying on a minor for therapy

[armoralor]

I love the same folks that cry over fictional lesbians being “toxic” and “abusive” buddy up with real life people that send actual homophobic hate. We see y’all laughing and having fun with the same losers that have been jumping on queer peoples posts saying we’re ruining Star Wars. You’re welcome to play the purity police and pretend to be the holiest & friendliest bunch on the internet, but we see you.

#the ahsoka tags have been FILLED with gross hate yet yall are chilling with those same people now #the queer & sapphic bubbles on here won’t hesitate to block a TERF or bigot #yet fans of cishet ships LOVE to excuse anything people do as long as they *also* like the ship #do whatever you want with your life but don’t pretend you are some perfect angel that rejects all “toxic” and “problematic” behaviour #when you are LITERALLY supporting real world examples of it #media consumption is NOT activism #enjoying fucked up characters and plots does NOT make you fucked up #but being comfortable with actual real people who do actual real bigotry is fucked #do you see the difference? #text #mine

[4st7lbss]

My personal goal:

Be so skinny my thighs don't hang over the toilet seat

#honestly its so gross to see i hate it #biggest trigger for me tbh #@nor3×14 #@na vent #@na tips #@n0r3xia #@tw edd #tw ed diet #ed not sheeren #ed not ed sheeran #an0rec1a #ana tricks #anatumblr #ana trigger #ana meal #notpr0justtags #notprojustusingthetags #ed bllog #edblrr #ed behaviour tw #ed twt #ed meals #ed not sherran #tw ed but not sheeran #tw edtwt

[furiousgoldfish]

abusers will go 'it makes me feel sooo upset when you live your life the way you want to and do the things you want to do, actually what you're doing is victimizing me by not existing only as a support and validation to me you are so abusive and selfish and you should think more about how your sense of freedom and boundaries is negatively effecting me'

#psychological abuse #emotional manipulation #reverse victim and offender #emotional abuse #victim shaming #trying to convince victims that they're at fault for not existing only how the abuser demands them to exist #emotional exploitation #you're not abusing anyone by wanting freedom and boundaries #nobody has the right to take that away from you #not your parents not your partner not anyone #you do not exist for them #and you never will #and if they cry abuse at that #they can simply find someone else to control and manipulate #gross behaviour

[need2bthin4himx]

HUGE TMI WARNING!!!!! and ed discussion tw

im warning you it's really disgusting

yall be careful with laxatives im shitting out whole chunks of completely undigested food, this feeling is awful my stomach is churning. ofc im used to it by now but omg. just PLEASE be careful ik im a hypocrite but theyre so bad for you and dangerous aswell. i only did this because i binged to bad it was causing me intense physical pain and mental distress. i took about 20 tablets, the recommended is 1-3. SERIOUSLY, do not do this.

#tw ed diet #i want to be weightless #tw self destructive behavior #i wish i was weightless #disordered eating thoughts #tw ana rant #grossspo #tw gross #gr0ssp0 #ed but not sheeran #tw ed vent #ed behaviour tw #ed not ed sheeran #tw ed descussion #edblrr #ed vent #tw ed implied #tw restrictive ed #tw ed sheeran

[gregoftom]

they’re my best friends actually

#tomgreg #cant get over how tom can split from awww logan :((( to lmfaooo bitch was trying to fish his phone outta shit #and he can get a jab back at karl for what he said earlier to his bestie and mistress #i LOVE two bitches at a funeral <3 #as travis touchdown would say; some people fuck at funerals #these two would be those people. freakasses <33333 #also greg's face journey is so fucking funny #this was so fhkjdmlsfkj SO fuckign funny. Thank You #also lmaooo at greg talking about dicks and tom i fuck like a bullet train satisfied babe??? wambsgans is like #don't be gross greg. THEYRE RIDICULOUS LOL #married behaviour

[loupettes]

the bullying in the dw fandom recently i mean honestly

#people are gross and im so mad about it #I just feel so sorry for the people who have different takes #when did dw become so hostile? #I see posts getting shared and people adding their *ahem ACTUALLY*s and it makes me so mad #just #leave people alone #just because its 'canon' doesn't validate your dickish behaviour towards other people

[dteamain]

so like when are we going to stop entertaining bullies in this fandom like when do we stop and say no i won't stand by and let someone blantantly mock someone's appearance on twitter.com and act like that is okay in any circumstance y'all mad that people hate dream stans but then dream stans act like that

#gross ass behaviour

[trentskis]

im so burnt out help i feel like a vessel..

#and on top of that. some guy used our bathroom shit his pants and left his shitty pants stuffed behind our toilet. so. u know. help #one more day and then four days off i can do this.. #feel like i should tag this for shitty pants man but idk with what #if anyone needs it tagged lmk bcus i understand its gross and stinky behaviour. literally and figuratively