#its better that way

[meirisuu]

after meeting their generous client...

#rich #generous #genshin impact #ningguang #beidou #kaedehara kazuha #i like to think the and client who gave beidou and kazuha the cadillacs is ningguang lol #its better that way #beiguang

[dumblr]

I grew up without sharing my problems with my parents.

#quotes #parents #emotions #feelings #sad but true #sad thoughts #life quotes #thoughtful #its alright #its better that way #grew up #social problems #sharing #stay strong #dumblr

[haahka]

*experiences peak devastation*

#xeed #xeednetwork #xeededit #roni #bao #mygif #im just not gonna say anything okay #its better that way #444

[anadorablekiwi]

I… think i should go to bed maybe

#kiwi rambles #✨depression✨ #vent incoming #i dont know if tumblr is broke or if no one likes it #so im just gonna pretend i never posted it to begin with #its better that way

[tazmiilly]

typing posts in here and then deleting them before I post it just to get my thoughts somewhere

#some stuff stays in the drafts #its better that way

[chaoticpicturesofjanedouglas]

#outsidexbox #oxbox #outsidextra #oxboxtra #jane douglas #ellen rose #i do not remember the context for this one #its better that way #drink 4 bench

[thebestestdancers]

why should palestinians have to leave behind their land because israel wont stop killing them. why should anyone have to leave behind their life and memories and sentimental value just because an aggressor is left unchallenged. please think this sentiment through and delete it from your thoughts. instead of blaming an oppressed people for living in a hostile land, ask who is making that land hostile to live in.

#this is vaguely worded except the first part because ive seen thsi sentiment time and time again #when the trans genocide began everyoen started blaming trans peopel for living in florida isntead of the people making it unlivable #every timw a cop kills a person of color everyones told to just move somewehre w better cops (doesnt exist) > #< rather rhan examine who gave the cops such pwoer and what use the cops are anyways #i know its rasier to blame the victims of this kind of thing. the oppressors deisgn it taht way and encourage that sentiment #but oleeeeeease im begging u. navajo peopel should not just give up their reservation bc it sucks. whyd the us put them there?

[vampire-bite]

Take the blood brush away from me take it away. I can't be trusted also I don't know where the dot came from either.

#blood tw #diabolik lovers #id tag this with the fandom these characters are inspired by but HOLY SHIT that would be a bad idea and embarrassing #just imagine its pink hair azusa and blonde yuma #its better that way

[nebuvoid]

you ever see something dumb, type an answer for 10 minutes, only to go 'what the hell am i doing here' and just close the window.y eah

#nebu talks #its better that way

[bigfatbreak]

Birds of a Feather previous / next

#my art #feralnette au #birds of a feather #long tags #sorry I went apeshit in the tags #LETS SAY IT ALL TOGETHER NOW #I - M - A - G - OOOOOOOOO #its fun drawing marinette's back to Alya and having her appear stout and unstoppable and totally logical #and then you see her face and she's like two seconds from completely snapping and is keeping it together by a thread #as a note just because mari feels very certainly abt smth doesnt mean she's right. feelings can be valid and also irrational #in the throes of grief she decided it was better to be alone than to lose someone again so she started pulling away #and lila made pulling away very very very easy to do #shes also vaguely aware she's being unfair in pinning this on alya which is why she started spinning the drain on cockmoth again #legitimately all the shit that's happened to her wouldn't have been so catastrophic if he was never in the picture and she knows it #but the bitterness of her bestie choosing a fantastic liar over her at the worst of times stiiiiiings #alya's personal timing was bad but lila really took advantage of the fact that marinette had been acting off and weird #she basically clocked marinette as being unstable from SOMETHING and made up a lie about her #knowing she wouldn't have the strength to defend herself #between her social life going tachy bc of lila and losing fu in a way that felt like personhood death marinette was really put on the spot #and alya doing her thing of busting in there and assuming her bias is correct was a terrible combo #essentially marinette is highly unstable and alya is just realizing that #busting in and giving her a lecture when she's slightly hysterical and definitely delirious from exhaustion is NOT the way #to show her she's self sabotaging #cuz thats just gonna make her double down on self sabotaging. bc marinette will not accept that she is also a CHIIIIILD

[othercrossee]

You know what, giving denzel an elaborate scheme is stupid

#z rambles #^ just drsfted like 5 posts about it #i might just go back to denzel is somehow half demon half human anf no one fucking kmows why #its better that way #i got a bit too silly and it got reslly. reslly messy fast #anyways denzel is so similar to zelk i decided to cimbine zelk with another ic now theyre kelkyu #illz and azazel r safe cuz theyre pretty neat #azazel defs due in forna redesign but theyre the same overall #kelkyus ginns be more aligned with theur witch upbringing

[whalesfall]

btw. your search for the most morally upright and ethical piece of media that has the most correct “representation” will destroy your ability to find the most profound and beautiful and human of stories. and may even destroy the stories themselves before they are created. if you even care.

#the search for the Ideal Representation is both unattainable and soul-crushing. childrens cartoons moral codes are not #the best way to judge a piece of media #and the stories created by the very people in the communities that are most silenced are always the first ones to be #targeted for their Problematic Factors #as if any story can properly encapsulate the breadth of every complex human experience in one go #something isn't inherently deserving of being reduced to Irredeemable Media status just because you cannot personally relate to it #on the other hand approaching every single story as if its only value is its Shipping Status and how you can #incorporate it into your identity (and stake your Moral Uprightness based on how Ethically you consume said media) #is not necessarily any better. but different post is needed. #aughhhh bite bite chomp kill

[charlottan]

im like always resisting the urge in conversation to go "can you perceive me? are you perceiving me? do i feel like a real person to you? am i fully a person? what does it feel like to talk to me? how do you think about my place in your interpretation of the world? what do i mean to you? do i seem put together? do i seem like i know what im doing? do i seem competent? what is the version of me inside your head like?"

#its so weird to be a person perceived by anybody else. i feel like im different in a bad way. i dont know how to put it better than that #journ

[danwithouttheplan]

The grocery store update comes with dynamic environment. The cooler doors now fog up when you open and close them.

#grocery store gamer collection #danblab #i like how im using this tag as though the grocery store is both the game the retailer the creator and the producer all in one #its better that way

[striving-artist]

Tumblr skews young, so let me just share this.

The worst thing you can do in a job is not be bad at something. It's to say you are great at something while being bad at something. If you need to improve and you're upfront that you're not the best, people will probably help or teach or explain. They will sympathize when you get put on a task you're not qualified for.

If you claim to be awesome at something when you demonstrably suck at it, all of that good will and sympathy is gone and it will not come back.

Confident is good. Stand up for yourself, know your skills.

But the other side of this is to Know your Faults.

This message brought to you by the 23yo who bragged about how he was great at X and had the best program for it, and I spent the weekend doing his job for him because he is so so bad at it, and only about 5% of what he did is salvageable.

#real life #can't overstate this #you're in better shape if you say you're not certain #if you go 'hey can you walk me through exactly what you want' #even if its just you saying 'I have never done this HERE can you help me be sure I'm doing it the way you want?' #confidence will get you the job #but if you lied? #its going to be years before we trust you again #and yes I work in a teeny tiny industry #so we will gossip and ruin your chances for a longgggg time #but even in larger fields #office jobs love to gossip

[whollyjoly]

i want the whole SEASON of bucktommy

i want buck being wooed - flowers and being taken out and a little protective hand on the small of his back

i want to hear all the soft ways tommy can say evan and the look on buck's face when he does

i want to see them at tommy's karaoke trivia place because holy shit buck would love it (and didnt oliver say that we're getting buck singing this season cause uhhhhh)

i love that this is such a fling, such a happy thing for buck - he is finally feeling that puzzle piece click into place and it is freeing

and i cant wait to see all the small ways we see that play out!!!

let buck be happy challenge 2k24!!!!

#i'll never shut up about this i fear #i am just SO happy to see a happy bi!buck exploring what his feelings mean!! #just getting to be!! and grow!! and flirt and have FUN!!! #god that euphoria when you realize that its okay that you dont have to choose you can just *be* #its so fucking real and i cant believe i get to see it through the eyes of my favorite character #is this?? real life?? #fuck me up man #otp: better ways to get your attention #bucktommy #kinkley #tuck #? #evan buckley #tommy kinard #911 spoilers #911 abc #911 on abc #im just so fucking shook i cant believe it #its REAL #em speaks #mine