Now I just feel sick to my stomach... like thinking what if I get top surgery and it doesn't fix me? Obviously it's not going to fix me, why would I even think that. It's something I've wanted so badly for so long that I don't know what's going to happen afterwards. I have problems unrelated to this and they aren't going away any time soon.
I just already feel bad, like I don't deserve this. I didn't earn this. I feel like I'm supposed to be happy and excited and satisfied about it/after it... but what if I'm not? I'm not scared that I'm making a mistake or that this isn't something I want- I'm fully certain that is- I'm just scared that there's something inherently broken inside of me. Something that I don't deserve to complain about. Something that I don't deserve to involve other people in.
I feel like I should just be grateful but what if I can't be? Is that justified or am I a bad person? I know that I want this more than I think I've ever wanted any single thing for myself... but what if it isn't even worth it? What if nothing ever is
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Funny little story about me and nimona: i was just a kid when the prints arrived in a couple bookstores in my country. Very much coincidentally, a way smaller version of me picked it up and showed to her mom. Very much coincidentally, she bought it, and it became my favourite book for years. Not even kidding, that book brought me so much comfort when i didnt even speak this language, when i half a world away from where the first panel was drawn, and when i didnt even know half the things about myself than i do now. thanks nimona, love u tons
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Kicking off 2024 by being very brave and doing two things i didnt wanna.
Set a boundary with my boss and she was a little rude about it but i think it will be better all things considered.
Scheduled a doctors appointment for symptoms that I've been dealing with but getting worse. I hate the doctor/hospitals but I'm sick of living in pain/with symptoms and I know that American medicine/being a woman is going to get me shrugged off and be made to jump through hoops to get help but I'm doing it anyway.
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I know that like . various official art shows Dorian with long straight hair but I'm begging everyone to give this man some waves .... his beautiful curls.... please my life depends on them
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