#lesb matters

[lesbianspeedy]

1, 2, 6 and 20 for Mia!

1. Why do you like or dislike this character?

[writes essay] i just think shes neat. hmmm how do i compile 5 years of loving mia as a character into one reason. she's just a good egg idk. love a girlie doing her best

2. Favorite canon thing about this character?

her hope and determination. she doesn't give up ever. its everything. also she takes meds daily and idk thats just such a reaffirming character thing for me

6. What's something you have in common with this character?

lesb- i have anxiety too. and the meds thing again. daddy issues

20. Which other character is the ideal best friend for this character, the amount of screentime they share doesn't matter?

i fear im sooo bad at knowing this kinda stuff when i rarely read outside of the family. but i love her and bart's thing they had going on tt03. little mustard and ketchup losers. (also i wanna see her become besties with emi but i also honestly dont think they'd mesh very well immediately)

[theliterarywolf]

I've seen a few youtubers be all googly eyed for that Netflix vampire lesb show... it's kinda annoying how people will throw all brains out the window for shoddy rep. Or rather, shoddy writing.

Say the line, Tumblr~!

"y’all really recommend books like: title, there are gay characters, enemies to lovers, young adult, written by poc not once do i ever see a summary"

"What more info do you need?"

"A SUMMARY"

"WHAT DO U MENA SUMMARY WHAT ELSE MATTERS ITS GAY POC AND ENEMIES TO LOVERS HOW OFTEN DO U CONE ACROSS THAT"

"i want to know what its about mainly. is it a romance? is there plot besides the romance? is it realistic fiction? sci fi? fantasy? historical? future? alternate history? whats the tone? what are the themes? what are the main characters’ NAMES?"

"I- it’s gay the gay"

#the fact that I can always point to that thread #as the quintessential evidence of #'you can feed slop to the masses; just douse it in sprinkles'

[redheadbigshoes]

hello… i can’t tell if i’m a bisex with a hyuge preference for women, or a lesb. i’ve had crushes on guys before, but i tend to crush on every male i come across (i went to an all girls school so they were few and far between), plus i only saw these males irl for at MOST 14 days, usually only about 3 days, the rest was online, and i didn’t see them. i’ve been very internalized misogyny and homophobic and always been afraid of/disdainful of lesbians because of falling down the alt right pipeline when i was 10 (out of that now thank gawd). last time i thought i was a lesbian i cried because it made me so upset… but being with a woman long term is sooo much more right than being with a male. this being said, i’ve found a journal entry from when i was 14 detailing how i loved men and how they dress… of course, this was before i got my sex drive (at which time my affection for women became unavoidable), but i do remember feeling very intense admiration writing that. im just… confused. i don’t want to appropriate lesbianism but at the same time i recently had my first kiss with a male (currently a freshman in college), and once i realized he really liked me i just… got so bored. there was nothing wrong with him beyond his pretentiousness and boringness but like. bleh. nothing compared to the girl i like now. i just hate males. sorry, but i do! i cant help it! i’ve had all positive male role models growing up, but i just don’t like to be around most of them long term. but when i am i get obsessed with quite a few them/start “crushing” immediately. what does it all mean ?!?!? im so lost, and afraid of being a lesbian, but disturbed by being a bisexual. it just doesn’t feel right!? but also i am biphobic which complicates everything. argh. ik it doesn’t matter but it does stress me out a little bit (a lot).

Hi. I think you should first question if all those crushes were actually crushes. From what you said it makes sense you (without realizing it) choosing every guy you meet to be your crush, because 1) you were probably taught that girls are supposed to like boys 2) considering you used to go to an all-girls school it also makes sense you immediately trying to find boys you like.

The second question you should ask yourself is: when you think about guys you think you like, whenever you think about them do you feel something positive? Like you feel you could date them, kiss them, perhaps have sex with them? Or maybe you feel a kind of nervousness that doesn’t make you feel uncomfortable? If the answer to all those questions is no, you’re probably mistaking finding men attractive with actual attraction.

I went through the same experience you mentioned about the guy you kissed. Whenever I tried dating men the second they showed interest I’d “lose” that interest.

You should read the bisexual manifesto and see if you relate to the experiences there. Try reading the lesbian masterdoc as well (it’s on my pinned post). I posted some videos of a girl talking about comphet and other lesbian experiences here, to watch the other videos you just have to click on the tag #source: patronsaintoflesbians

#stephanie answers #anon #long post

[miyakuli]

Hi.....Do you mind if I ask you some random thing? I used to love shounen and shoujo manga equally....But ever since I found BL manga 3 years ago, my interest in shoujosei (especially het romance) decrese a lot, and what I search for is just the dynamic between mc (male) and male lead...I don't want to read mc (female) and male lead or mc (male) and female lead...And what I want to read mostly are just mlm or wlw stories....

What do you think is happening to me? Is it really weird?

Hello anon ! oh that's such a peculiar question there.

I think that the shipping experience can be very different from a person to another. Personally I ship both gay and hetero ships bcs the gender doesn't really matter to me but it's true that I tend to ship gay/lesb ships more easily because imo I think the dynamic is often more interesting not all the time oc and I used to read only shoujo when I was young so I can compare xD

I don't know what interest you in a ship but I really don't think you should worry about that ; maybe you just found something more appealing to you through the BL or GL dynamics(?) and that's totally fine. As long you don't demonize straight ships or fetishise gay relationships, and that you ship in a respectful way, feel free to enjoy the love of your ships whatever they are <3

#kinda hard to reply bcs like I said the experience is different for each people #but shipping is basically loving the love of two persons so there will never be anything wrong with that as long it's healthy and respectfu #I hope I could help a bit with your question #ask #anon

[lesbian-so-queer]

Witnessed lesbian Twitter harassing bi/pan lesbians on top of the usual trans minor off the platform this whole month, am seeing them proclaim july as our pride month when it’s already Disability Pride Month because they have a goddamn victim complex and cried they suffered the most (yes more than trans black women they said), had a mental breakdown, am now creating a Discord server for inclusive lesbians only. DM for the link, I need to check if you’re safe for gnc and m-spec lesbians first. No terf-fed separatists in my goddamn house.

#lgbtqiap #lesb matters #personal takes #pls boost and thanks you

[tinybabeycloud]

I love that I’ve seen one (1) post about how the creator of the original lesbian flag is a terf and biphobe and IMMEDIATELY since I haven’t seen that flag and instead I’ve been seeing the other one. You know, the pretty one with the orange.

One of the few times I’ve been super proud of this hell site. Happy pride y’all

#warms my lesb heart #pride #lbgtqia #lgbt #lgbt + #lesbian #gay #transgender #bisexual #trans rights #trans lives matter #pride month

[bugsongs]

not to be the way that i am fundamentally, but cass from bap is named after castaspella from she ra and she ra is made of lesbians so what i’m saying is cass wizard is a wuhluhwuh and dating toast, a known lesbian

#well toast could also be bi but its my headcanon so... lesb #anyway it doesn't really matter either way they r both gay :^)

[golddustdyke]

a few years ago I remember reblogging a post that said something along the lines of “as much as I talk about all the things i want to do with my life before i settle down, I know i’ll just immediately end up with a man that i kinda love and settle down in the suburbs and have a few kids and be a pta mom” and the thing is... is that even though i really fucking hated the idea of that, i had thought the same exact thing for years, almost word for word. I absolutely dreaded the idea of it but I believed that it was the only future I could have, partly because I was so set on NOT being with a woman, and partly because I think most women have ideas placed on them of what they’re supposed to do with their lives, even if it’s not what they want, and it’s hard to let go of that expectation without feeling wrong and guilty.

like... i’d just really love to tell younger me that if the idea of a certain future was giving me so much anxiety and was making me so upset, then maybe that future wasn’t supposed to be my future. i just wish i had known earlier that the expectations of my future that were placed on me didn’t have to be met if I didn’t want to meet them.

#i really have so much tenderness for my younger self ... she just ... did not know .. but she did her best #and i know that there were straight women and bi women and lesb ians who didn't know that they were lesbi ans yet #who reblogged it and dreaded it like i did #and i hope that they know that they don't have to settle for a life that they don't want #no matter what it is! #and like ..p lease don't think this is me saying that having this future is bad and isn't desirable #it is if you want it #but the entire post was set up to say 'i don't want this but i know it's my future' and that's ....so awful #to feel like you have a future waiting for you that you don't want #also... i'd like to tell past me that there's a reason she feels like that around men that ask her out .. it's not because she has a crush #it's because she's a dyke ! she's a bit slow up the uptake tho #text

[mango-bango-bby]

mango if I may.. I love jealousy prompts but, when the darling is jealous that the attention is being taken away and then they get all needy and clingy cause listen “this yandere is mine 😤” is such a warm feeling. Aizawa and Hawks with a cute jealous darling maybe..? I feel any yandere would adore that jealous attention tbh

♡ Late ♡

(A/N: I also love jealous darlings!! It’s always so cute 💖 I think all yanderes would love that possessive attention or any attention for that matter lol!!! Enjoy 💖💖)

Content Warning ⚠️: Yandere, jealousy, bit of of insecurity

Summary: You stay up because you miss Aizawa and you’re jealous he haven’t been with you as much (Yan!Aizawa x GN!reader)

Masterlist ➸ ♡

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You shouldn’t want Shouta to be with you. You shouldn’t feel jealous over him! But you did, you felt as if he wasn’t giving you enough attention. Then the insecure thoughts came, you started wondering if he had fallen for someone else.

He fell for you in a short amount of time so who are you to say he won’t do it again! But there’s a part of you that tells you that’s not true, you know that Shouta loves you. You know he wouldn’t lesbe you, but you’re still jealous!

You sit on the couch trying to distract yourself as you wait for Shouta to get home. You just want him to spend more time home with you, you want him to hug you and you want to hug him back. You’re supposed to be in bed by now but you stayed up waiting for him.

You yawn, laying down on the couch. There’s no harm in laying down while you wait for him to get home. You don’t even notice your eyelids starting to feel heavy until you eventually let them fall and you drift off to sleep.

♡ ♡ ♡

“You’re a mess” Shouta jokingly mumbles, watching your eyes gently blink open.

“Why are you staring at me while I sleep?” You ask chuckling, noticing that he’s still in his hero outfit so he must’ve just gotten home. “Well why were you sleeping on the couch?” Shouta asks you back, not answering your question.

“I was waiting for you” you mumble, closing your eyes again as you’re still tired and wanting to sleep. However hopefully he’ll go to sleep with you tonight. Shouta just raises an eyebrow at your words.

“You were waiting up for me?” He asks, watching you nod your head against the couch cushion.

“Mhm, I was waiting for you to get home so I could spend more time with you” You mumble before continuing, spilling out all of your feelings in your sleepy state. “I was worrying you were with someone else” you say, still muffled.

Shouta just rolls his eyes and can’t help but chuckle a bit at your words. “As if I even like anyone else but you” he says, watching you sleepily hum. “I know, I’m sorry” you mumble, grabbing onto him to hold him in a hug.

“I was just jealous” you mumble, pulling away to lay back down on the couch. Shouta can’t help but smile a bit. Yes you were jealous which would make you upset, but this also meant you loved him back.

“You don’t need to worry about that I promise” Shouta says “Now you need to get in bed because you’re not sleeping on the couch”

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#yandere bnha #soft yandere #yandere shouta #yandere shouta x reader #yandere shouta aizawa #yandere aizawa #yandere!aizawa #yandere aizawa x reader

[vyneatsthepolicy]

Although we are all relieved that Chauvin was found guilty on all counts, remember that this is not justice. The trial ran for three weeks. It took three weeks to determine whether a MURDERER was guilty of a crime the entire world saw. This is accountability in its simplest form. And there’s a part in us that knows if he wasn’t found guilty, this country would see mass unrest like never before. The verdict of ONE cop is not enough when there are THOUSANDS of lives that have been lost and just pushed aside like they don’t matter.

Justice would be George Floyd being alive and being able to raise his daughter. Justice is him being able to be with his family and friends. Justice would be Chauvin losing his breath.

At almost the same time Chauvin was declared guilty, the police shot a 16 year old girl, Ma’khia Bryant. She got into an altercation and had a knife for self defense. Ma’khia is the one who called the police. You can clearly see that the police did not ask questions and just shot her. She was not a threat. A bullet is a lot faster than a knife. If you are a police officer with a GUN and you cannot deescalate a situation where a 16 year old girl has a knife, you shouldn’t be a police officer. She was not a “young woman” she was a child. Her life mattered and it still does. She did not deserve to die.

The very people who are supposed to “protect and serve” are murdering bipoc in cold blood. Police are taught to fire 2 warning shots to the chest and if that does not work, they’re told to shoot in the head. Police officers are taught to murder, not to deescalate.

I don’t want to read or hear anyone question why we are still protesting, why we are still rioting. Derek Chauvin is going to jail but George Floyd is still dead. There are still killer cops out there who got away scot-free. If every city has to be burned to the ground then so be it.

And a special rot in hell to everyone saying George Floyd’s death was a sacrifice.

they said it best-

“george floyd did not die to better your city, your state, or this country. no speaker pelosi, george floyd did not sacrifice his life for justice. he died for no person, place, or movement. he died for nothing. he did not have to die. his death was a direct result of white supremacy and those that perpetuate it. to frame george floyd as your ‘sacrificial lamb’ or reduce him to dehumanize him to make him seem like he was a trinket and a chess piece to be moved in your little game of white supremacy? disgusting and depraved. he is not jesus, his purpose was not to die for your white sins. and then you call him a sacrifice. sacrifice in the case that he was killed for an exchange of justice. that his death was needed. his death did not need to happen. justice would’ve been george floyd still playing with his daughter and talking to his girlfriend. justice is not a dead black man with a killer racist cop alive.”

Black Lives Fucking Matter and anyone who disagrees can argue with the wall.

here are some go fund me’s you should all donate to and share. if anybody has more please feel free to reblog with them.

#blacklivesmatter #justiceforgeorgefloyd #justice for black lives #dismantlewhitesupremacy #justiceforma’khiabryant

[binch-i-might-be]

hello hello I just got back from running some errands (yes, one of those errands was just to get energy drinks✨) and I had some Thoughts in the car, hope y’all are excited lmao

so. I’m german.

and I really wish we had some more umbrella terms regarding the lgbtq community, plus inclusive language. every fucking word here is gendered! and we don’t really have neutral pronouns just “occuring” in the language, like “they/them” in english.

that’s not what I want to talk about, tho.

if you know me, you know I go on about being a lesbian all the time lmao

I... don’t like that label in german.

I only say I’m lesbian in english, even though I actually still prefer to say I’m gay.

I rarely ever use “Lesbe” and “lesbisch” in german, I mostly say I like women, or I’m homo, and I wish I had another option.

I wish we had an umbrella term like “gay”, but we only really have “schwul”, which is for mlm, and “lesbisch”, which is for wlw.

both of those have been used as slurs, or just to be derogatory, similarly to how “gay” was used for a long time, and while “schwul” was used to describe annoying and stupid things, “lesbisch”, well...

honestly, that was mostly a term used to attack a girl not performing femininity properly. being told as a gender/sexuality confused twelve year old that “oh, you don’t like that piece of media or that traditionally female hobby? bist du ne Lesbe oder was?” is uh not great!

it’s othering.

kids and teens used that term to shame female presenting individuals who weren’t about their specific flavour of femininity, and adults just blatantly sexualised it.

the sheer amount of times I’ve been to parties or gatherings and met some dudes, came out to them in one way or the other, mostly to discourage any flirting, and have them go,

“Ooooh ne Lesbe ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)🥵” is staggering tbh

like sir. avert your disgusting male gaze. wlw are not here for you to lust after.

also - Kampflesbe. translates directly to “fight lesbian” (sorry lmao I’m trying my best here)

that’s basically a term for butch women, or just, you know, women that seem intimidating. doesn’t matter if you know her sexual orientation or not.

I’ve never heard that used in a positive context, and I don’t know if anyone has reclaimed it?

I guess it would be similar to “dyke”. I wouldn’t mind being called that! if anyone ever unironically called me a fucking Kampflesbe I think I would throw hands tho lol

my friends have called me that jokingly, and it’s funny! because I’m gay and ready to throw down!

but anyway. this is super rambly and I apologise. I guess I just wanted to get it off my chest :)

tl,dr: the german language doesn’t have a lot of terms for the lgbtq community, and many of the terms it does have are tainted for some people.

#me? having a thought? incredible #what even is this #ray going off about labels? #german labels #gay #lesbian #lgbtq #rayrambles #this is really rambly lol

[hseulies]

Hello dear :) I saw a lot of people getting asks about which KPop idols they associate with their moots (giving off a similar vibe, similar character, whatever comes to mind) and I thought maybe you'd like to do that too? 👉👈 But no pressure 🥰

@enchantedwishess: Jennie, bc she’s literally the baddest bitch I have met who won’t take shit from ANYBODY but she is also the SWEETEST and most caring friend I’ve ever had. ALSO,,, she’s adorable? 😤

@gyya: Nayeon. Ummm, THE CONFIDENCE??? But also, she’s adorable. G is literally chubby cheeked up on a Thursday 🍑

@pumpkinchaewon: Gowon, need this be explained? Ray is literally a RAY of sunshine and brightens my life every single day just like Chaewonnie~ 🦋

@yoojeongyeonnie: You’d think it’d be Jeongyeon, but actually I think Chaeryeong! She is just one of the sweetest people I’ve ever met and treats everyone with the softest of kindness 💓

@wheezing-pterodactyl: JiU! Orla is one of the most genuine people I’ve met on here and is just so easy to get along with. When I first messaged her we bonded instantly and she was so nice to me! Not to mention she also laughs at every single thing, just like Minji uwu 🥰

@heejinsdeepvoice: Jisoo! She’s just so chill and seems to be just vibing her way thru life half the time. V easy to get along with and makes my day by randomly popping in my ask box 💚

@orbitsthesomnia: Handong, and I honestly don’t know why??? She just gives me Handong vibes~ Cute and sweet af 😖👉🏻👈🏻

@yerimyah: Lua, bc she doesn’t seem to care what anyone thinks of her blog and posts whatever the hell she wants which is 1000% of the time highly entertaining random thoughts and also she is a meme 😌

@lesb-yeon: Jihyo, bc she has taken such good care of me in the times that I needed it most. This is tmi but when I felt like I couldn’t be alive anymore she kept checking up on me and even sent me links and resources to help. Just v caring friend energy overall 🥺

@tbluecherry: Okay, hear me out, Dahyun. She is so so so cute and sweet and such a good friend but she can have her crackhead moments in the dms. Like this one time she just sent me pics of different flavored jelly that her dad bought and I was like yes girl go off let’s stan your dad 🤪

@seuljin: Yeri, bc she is baby and no matter how grown up she may become over the years, Lily will ALWAYS be my baby and I will ALWAYS throw hands for her 🥊

Sorry this was so long but there’s so many ppl I adore and I didn’t wanna leave any1 out but if I by any chance DID leave u out send me an ask and I will tell u! 🥰❤️

#anon #mootsies #enchantedwishess 🔮 #gyya 💜 #pumpkinchaewon 🐥 #yoojeongyeonnie 🥺 #wheezing pterodactyl 🦖 #heejinsdeepvoice 💚 #orbitstheinsomnia 🧜🏻‍♀️ #yerimyah 🙈 #lesb yeon 🍙 #tbluecherry 🍒 #seuljin 🌸

[mai-i-please]

well. that took an ungodly amount of time.

🌈happy pride month everyone!🌈

n.b. i tried to make as many of these as i possibly could but lesbe honest here. i got bored and tired. and lazy. besides they were taking ages bc i colored each individual one according to a flag and it took centuries. however if you’d like a specific flag that’s not already been done, feel free to request it and i’ll try my hardest to get it done for u :> just remember to credit guys 

with that said, 

❤️💛💚💙💜go crazy, gays.❤️💛💚💙💜 i love you all so much and i hope you remember what an absolute unit you are, no matter what you identify as or who you love <3

yours faithfully,  mai

#brie larson #said gay rights #my art #the unicorn store #captain marvel #pride #gay pride #lgbt pride #pride month #pride icons #pride flag #brie #love yall #art #hope your month is as gay as i am