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ink-flavored · 3 days
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65 Question OC Polycule Ask Game
Do you have a bunch of OCs in a polycule? Do you have the burning desire to answer questions about them? Look no further for an excuse to talk about it!   There are footnotes under the cut to explain some potentially unfamiliar terminology. Remember to send an ask to the person you reblog it from to make sure everyone gets to play!
How many members are in the polycule? How are they related to each other? Feel free to draw a flow chart.
Did the relationship start polyamorous, or was it a monogamous relationship that eventually opened?
If it started monogamous, how did the process of opening the relationship go?
Are there any mono-poly1 relationships in the polycule?
What “shape” is the polycule? A triad, a “V”, a straight line of metamours2, or incomprehensible?
Where do each of the members land on the “solo poly” to “entwined” spectrum?3
Where do each of the members land on the “free agent” to “community oriented” spectrum?4
How did each member realize they were polyamorous? Did they always know, or was there some sort of epiphany?
Do any of the current members practice hierarchical polyamory5? Who are the primary partners?
If the polycule is hierarchical, what differs in the boundaries set for primary vs secondary partners? Tertiary partners?
Have any of the members been in a hierarchical polycule before?
Have any of the members been in a non-hierarchical polycule before?
Do any of the members have a preference between hierarchical and non-hierarchical polyamory?
What’s the craziest polycule drama they’ve experienced so far?
Have any of the members been the unicorn6 of a relationship?
Have any of the members been unicorn hunters7 in the past? Were they successful?
How does each member like to engage with their metamours? Do they want to meet every potential addition, or do they not care at all?
What are their “vetoes” for potential metamours? Do they have any at all?
Which of the members want to live with their partner(s), and which prefer to live alone?
How do each of the members deal with jealousy? How intense is the feeling?
How intense does each member feel compersion8 toward their partners and metamours?
Who has the strongest communication skills in the group? Who has the weakest?
Who does the most scheduling out of all the members?
How do they deal with feelings of loneliness if their partner(s) are spending time with their other partner(s)?
Does the polycule ever have get-togethers or dates where everyone is present? What are they like?
Of the members who live together, what are the household dynamics like? How do they split chores, manage finances, etc.?
Of the members who live together, do they all sleep in one bed too? All separate bedrooms? Something in-between?
What are their sexual dynamics like? Is group sex frequent, or is it purely one-on-one?
Do boundaries shift depending on which partners are involved in sex or romance?
What kind of boundaries exist outside of a romantic dynamic? Are friends-with-benefits considered metamours? Hook-ups?
Are any of the polycule members aromantic? How does that influence their relationship boundaries and their relationship to polyamory in general?
Are any of the polycule members asexual? How does that influence their relationship boundaries and their relationship to polyamory in general?
Do any of the polycule members consider their relationship(s) to be queerplatonic? How does that influence their relationship boundaries and their relationship to polyamory in general?
How have their members’ respective family relationships influenced their polyamorous dynamics?
Were any of the members raised in a polyamorous family?
Are any of the polycule members parents? How many kids do they have?
If there aren’t any kids yet, will there ever be?
How would the polycule deal with one member wanting kids, but another member never wanting kids?
If the relationship opened up after children were already in the picture, how was the change explained to them? Was it explained at all?
Do all members of the polycule raise children together, or are there designated “parent” members?
How does being in a polyamorous relationship influence how boundaries are taught to their kids?
How do the kids feel about their parent(s) being polyamorous? Are they supportive, indifferent, or actively opposed?
Have cultural dynamics played a part in how the polycule operates?
Are any of the members keeping their polyamory a secret? Why?
For mono-poly relationships, how does the monogamous partner see and experience their relationship with a polyamorous person? Their relationships with their metamours?
How did any monogamous partners deal with the idea of opening up a previously closed relationship? Was it a difficult change?
Did any monogamous partners discover they were polyamorous after the relationship opened up? How did they find out?
Do any monogamous partners still struggle to cope with polyamory? What gets them through the hard times?
Were any monogamous partners completely fine with polyamory from the beginning?
How do the polyamorous halves of the mono-poly relationships feel about dating a monogamous person? Is it a unique struggle or smooth sailing?
Do the mono-poly relationships have different boundaries than the poly-poly-poly-poly-etc. relationships?
How well do the metamours get along? Do they even know each other?
Do any of the metamours dislike each other? How does that impact their shared partner(s)?
Do any of the metamours hang out when their shared partner(s) aren’t around?
Do any of the metamours have specific dynamics and/or boundaries with each other? Why?
How do the members feel about marriage? Do they live in a society that recognizes polyamorous marriage at all? If marriage isn’t an option, what about legal protections?
What do any monogamous members think about their polyamorous partner potentially marrying someone else (either in addition to or instead of them)?
How does the polycule celebrate anniversaries?
How does the polycule celebrate birthdays?
If one of the members gets sick, who takes care of them? Is there a rotation of caretakers lining up, or designated partner(s)?
Has anyone experienced a particularly messy break-up while in the polycule? How did everyone handle it?
Which of the members, if any, would be happy in a monogamous relationship if having a polycule wasn’t possible? Would any rather be single than monogamous?
How insecure was each member when starting their polyamorous journey? In what ways?
How did each member overcome their insecurities about relationships? Have they at all?
Wild card! Ask anything you can imagine!
[1] Mono-poly: a relationship that contains both a monogamous and polyamorous person; the monogamous person is only dating one polyamorous partner, but that partner might have other partners in addition to their monogamous partner.
[2] Metamour: the members of a polycule who are dating the same person or people, but aren’t dating each other.
[3] Solo: presents to the world as single at first glance; may not want to live with any partner, or if they do, they may not choose to share finances or property.
Entwined: prefers relationships that are more entwined practically, financially, or both; values sharing living space, spending time in close proximity, sharing financial or household obligations, etc.; may see themselves as part of a unit, a single family that shares responsibilities together and approaches life together.
Definitions taken from “More Than Two” by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert
[4] Free Agent: values personal autonomy highly, places importance on the ability to make their own decisions, and presents to the world as able to act without requiring permission from others; places responsibility for decision-making, and for bearing the consequences, on each person individually.
Community Oriented: focuses on the interconnectedness of their relationships and their community; decisions are made with an eye toward how they might fit with the others.
Definitions taken from “More Than Two” by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert
[5] Hierarchical Polyamory: a kind of polyamory in which the members of the polycule are split into “primary” partners, “secondary” partners, “tertiary” partners, and so on. The higher “ranked” members are given more priority when it comes to spending time together, living arrangements, major life decisions, and overall have more control over the state of the polycule than the lower ranked members. This is in contrast to non-hierarchical polyamory, in which there is no ranking system, all relationships are treated with equal weight, and decisions are made as a group. There is no one proper way to practice polyamory, and both methods can be fulfilling for people who have different needs for their relationships.
[6] Unicorn: stereotypically, a young bisexual woman that is equally attracted to both primary members of a hierarchical polycule or a recently opened monogamous relationship, agrees to give both members equal attention, and agrees to have no additional partners. Referred to as “unicorns” because these strict requirements for a dynamic are basically impossible to find.
[7] Unicorn Hunter(s): stereotypically, the primary members of a hierarchical polycule or a recently opened monogamous relationship who relentlessly search for a “unicorn” to perfect their ideal polyamorous dynamic. Often have very strict requirements of their unicorn, which is why they’re constantly hunting for someone who can fulfill them.
[8] Compersion: the opposite of jealousy; the feeling of joy experienced when seeing your partner happy with their other partner(s).
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puppycheesecake · 5 months
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OC Connections CAS Challenge 👥
Looking to populate your world? Flesh out your character? Are you just bored and want to fuck around in CAS? Then have I got a challenge for you!
Pick an OC and then make their:
👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Mom and/or Dad
👺 Evil Twin
👯 (Non-Evil) Fraternal Twin
💕 Best Friend
🔪 Mortal Enemy
🍎 Favorite Teacher
🏠 Least Favorite Neighbor
💍 Crush (past or present)
💼 Coworker
🐈 Pet
🎸 Favorite Musician
🦄 Childhood Imaginary Friend
👷‍♀️ Worker They Say Hi To Everyday (mailman, barista, etc.)
📺 Star Of Their Favorite TV Show
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creation-help · 1 year
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Alright pals rb with the favorite oc names you have! Not necessarily favorite ocs, just the fav names you've given (a) character(s) :]
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cerasus--flores · 1 year
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Wedding ask game for your newly (and not so newly) wed OTP
(made mainly with couples in mind, feel free to adapt to as many people as you want)
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Who first brought up the option of marriage? Was it an easy topic?
Which one proposed? Was it grand and public? Discreet and private? Was it expected?
Show us their engagement and/or wedding rings!
Did they plan the wedding by themselves, with help, or with a professional planner?
Was the planning and time up til the wedding stressful?
Who were the first people to find out about the engagement? How did they react?
Who are the maids of honor and/or best men? Why and how were they chosen?
Was there any drama whatsoever regarding the guest list?
Show us a mood/stimboard of their wedding's general aesthetic.
Do they get married through court? Church? Third secret option?
When do they get married? Night or day? Any specific reason for either?
Do either of them play music while walking down the aisle (if they do at all)? If yes, show us their song.
Show us their outfits!
Do they follow any familiar, cultural, and/or religious traditions at any point of the wedding?
Who was the ringbearer?
Who married them?
Show us their vows. Did either of them tear up at them?
Did anyone oppose the marriage? Did they speak then, or did they just forever hold their peace?
What was the ceremony like? Any highlights?
Did anyone pass out from a food/alcohol coma?
Do they have a honeymoon? Where to? How soon after?
Do they renew their vows? Remarry, even?
If the couple could describe their wedding in a sentence, how would they?
If you could describe their wedding in a sentence, how would you?
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memesforcreators · 1 year
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If my OC was Canon what God Awful Fandom Hot Takes would their be for them?
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griseldabanks · 1 year
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I made an OC bingo because I wasn't satisfied with any of the ones I'd found. Use for characters in your original fiction, or OCs in fanfics!
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missatan · 22 days
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Tagged by: @salemsimss ty, my love!!! <333
⊱ EMOTIONS/FEELINGS
Disoriented / Lustful / Ashamed / Light-hearted
⊱ COLOURS
Sage Green / Cherry Red / Baby Pink / Rustic Brown
⊱ SCENTS
Lavender + Lemon
⊱ OBJECTS
Denim / Crosses / Lamb / Cherry Red Lipstick / Cigarettes
⊱ BODY LANGUAGE
Hands on hips / Awkward Smiles / Wide Eyes / Furrowed Eyebrows
⊱ AESTHETICS
Grunge Fairycore / Whismigoth / Farmer's Daughter / Coquette
tagging: @diactrl, @crsentfairy, @nepotisim, @veone, @mattodore, @blackskorpi0n, @yuauaua, @vampiremilfs, @rhdweauni0, @bbrrambo, @skaterboisims, and whoever wishes to join in! just say i tagged you <3
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inafieldofdaisies · 3 months
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OC picrew | Featured: Deputy Sabrina Donovan / Mercedes "Mercy" Sibley / Oakley Moore
Tagging, @socially-awkward-skeleton @corvosattano @voidika @strangefable @finding-comfort-in-rain @florbelles @thesingularityseries @la-grosse-patate @carlosoliveiraa @theelderhazelnut @aceghosts @macs-babies @marivenah @captastra @josephslittledeputy @josephseedismyfather @trench-rot @cloudofbutterflies92 @cassietrn @direwombat @nightbloodbix @jackiesarch @shellibisshe @onehornedbeast @adelaidedrubman @g0dspeeed @dumbassdep @wrathfulrook @the-silver-chronicles and anyone that would like to do the tag <3
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katwritesshit · 23 days
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character voice game
taking the open tag from @kaylinalexanderbooks !!
The phrase is "I have an itch in my back that I can't reach."
im gonna do the 🗺TFV gang because I've only rlly posted about Rosa before!!
Ashton :: *double jointed. he can reach it.*
Naomi :: Rosieee, my back itchessss
Michael :: my back is FUCKING killing me- Ash, I'll pay you to scratch it for me.
Eclipse :: whoever itches my back first gets my dessert tonight.
Rosa :: help a girl out and scratch my back?
these are. not thta good but whatevs!!! thses guys are silly and i love them
Tagging anyone who wants to play!
Your line is "I fucked up, I need your help."
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ir0n-moon · 8 months
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People whose ocs are like a sixth member of the band. Pspspspsps look. you could put your little freak over there
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creation-help · 8 months
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Does your oc experience sleepwalking / talking / night terrors / other strange in-sleep activity? Are they aware of this (being told or figuring out on their own)? How do the characters around them react to it? Has it led to any interesting situations?
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emmettland · 19 days
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that cry post has got me thinking...tell me how your oc cries.
i'll start:
Logan: almost always a silent crier, bites his lip and lets his shoulders shake while the tears start coming out without a sound. but when he DOES make sound, it's LOUD. it's like a dam bursting, years of repressed crying coming out and he can't stop. he feels exhausted afterwards.
Derek: sobbing-in-his-hands kinda guy. he'll try to fight it, but he usually breaks down, and you just see his body DEFLATE, like his strings have been cut. probably some hiccupping as well.
Dirk: bro cannot SEE when he cries. the tears make his eyelashes itch and then his eyes start burning real bad, he has to wipe at them or just squeeze them shut. definitely a hysterical laughter kind of crier.
Teddy: rarely ever cries, tries to let nobody SEE him cry, but when he does, he gets such a runny nose and it's so embarrassing for him to not only be crying but SNOTTING everywhere.
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masterfuldoodler · 1 month
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Ok so you know the idea of an author and their characters being little bits of themselves they write? Well I propose the idea of all the characters controlling the author. Teaming up to be a functioning human, more or less. Inside out but ocs
Okay so reblog and tell me how your OCS are doing it, who has what jobs?
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eyezdrawz · 10 days
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alright folks, I'm creating an OC, he's a guy and that's all that I have for him rn, so In the reblogs and/or comments say anything about this guy and i will make it canon and over time I will have a full fledge real OC! (Only limits are is that it can't be inappropriate, so other than that, go crazy! Give me his race, his name, describe his hair, give me his hair color, give him quirks, give him illnesses, whateva!)
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523rdrebel · 5 months
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This is CT-6161, Siren. Make some assumptions 👀
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shittyysimblr · 3 months
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OC Connections Build Challenge
So this idea is fully inspired by @puppycheesecake's CAS version which can find here and should totally do along side this btw
Want to make your world feel more lived in? Want to have places that are actually tied to your sims in a meaningful way?? Want to just fuck around in build mode for a few hours?? I've got exactly what you need!
Pick an OC (or use the one from the post linked) and then make their:
👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Childhood Home
👺 Sworn Enemies House
👯 Best Friends House
💕 Childhood Crushes House
🔪 Neighbourhood Rival's House
🍎 Go To Restaurant
🏠 Current Home
💍 Current Crushes House
💼 Work Place
🐈 Cozy Hangout
🎸 Party Place
🦄 Dream House
👷‍♀️ Everyday Must Stop
📺 Teen Hangout
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