The thing I mostly love about Tumblr and the main difference with all the other "social networks" (a dying beast in 2023, if you ask me, but take it as you will) is that people mostly share their "good" side on Instagram and Facebook - actually, that's mostly on Insta, as FB is nowadays a spam/ad fest and toxic commentary; there's this race to show the world how cool, how strong, how functioning we are, with carefully crafted pictures, good light angles, motivational texts; then there's Tumblr where basically discourse boils to: hey, strangers, this is my trauma, I appreciate being informed about yours, y'all are still valid and I love you no matter what, please take a shitpost meme or two but keep a little space on your dashboard for this incredibly convoluted meditation on the meaning of life I had at 3 a.m. while crying over my life going into pieces.
And I love it.
if there's anything i've learned from the current state of social media it's that this is one of the worst possible notifications you can receive upon opening an app
the post: everything has a right to exist in fiction, even if it's fucked up
the comments: i was going to reblog this until i realized op likes fucked up stuff in fiction. this is a common dogwhistle phrase for people who like fucked up stuff in fiction. they have to talk in code to trick people into agreeing with them. stay safe out there!
for anyone too young to know this: watching The Truman Show is a vastly different experience now, compared to how it was before youtube and social media influencers became normal
before it was like, "what a horrifying thing to do to a human being! to take away their autonomy and privacy, all for the sake of profits! to create fake scenarios for them to react to, just to retain viewership! to ruin their happiness just so some corporate entity could harvest money from their very humanity! how could anyone do something so evil?"
and now it's like, "ah, yeah. this is still deeply fucked up, but it's pretty much what every influencer has been doing to their kids for a decade now. probably bad that we've normalized this experience"
Every now and then I'm reminded Real People with Actual Jobs use tumblr and I've always been legitimately curious what all you weird adults are up to when you're not on this site and with tumblr's New Poll Feature I can finally get an answer! (or the closest approximation of an answer possible with only 10 available options h a)