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RELATIONSHIPS ➕ Your next friendship

"[...] and then she knew that you could become homesick for people too."

[3 piles] ・ [6 decks] ・ [12 cards for each pile] ・ [letters, songs]

Hello friends, we will investigate who your next friend is in this reading. What is their personality, and how will you guys meet? All these questions will be explored within this reading. I wish you and your upcoming blossoming connections all the very best. ♡♡

Painting: The Triumph of Venus - François Boucher (1740)

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PILE 01 ➕

Disclaimer: All Tarot readings on this blog are meant for entertainment purposes only. My Pick-a-card readings are based on my knowledge of the tarot and my intuition. Tarot is a divination tool and should not be considered a replacement for medical or professional guidance. It is not intended to be used as such, and any choices made in response to my readings are your own responsibility. All interpretations are speculative, and whether you believe in it is your choice. Readings are for self-reflection purposes only; take what resonates, and leave the rest. My readings are timeless unless stated otherwise.

CONFIRMATION

Signs and confirmation that this is your pile. This can be anything from your initials, astrological placements, significant messages or signs, places, songs, etc. Please use your discernment.

C, U, R, E, L, G, Aries, 2nd House, Jupiter

Song: Water - KREAM, ZOHARA

YOUR NEXT FRIENDSHIP

Tarot: 3 of swords, the world, page of wands, (5 of pentacles)

Oracle: seeker rx, humpback whale, occupation, mule, fly, boot, broken ring, don't make plans

Their Personality

Hello, Pile 01, and welcome to your reading! Your next friend is someone who has a keen eye for warning signs. I feel like this person has experienced their fair share of trauma and heartbreak, which makes them a great detector of red flags. Your friend is someone who might very well still be in a grieving process when you guys meet. They might have recently experienced a loss, and generally, I do feel like your friend might be leaning toward the realistic/pessimistic side. Some of their behavior might be strange to you too, given that they were coming out of a difficult situation. The world card is all about completion, success, clarity, celebration, and travel. Your new friend is an accomplished person—someone who has achieved their fair share of success. I do think that your new friend is aware of things and can discern situations accurately. In this specific deck, this card is associated with fans. This is a cheerleader—someone who loves seeing other people win. This new friend of yours will live through your highs and lows with you, and they will continuously cheer you on and support you. They might also be the type to motivate you to celebrate small wins. They might send you gifts and flowers for your achievements, no matter how little they are. A genuine supporter. They are also well-traveled, or they might be from another part of the world. Either way, they are cultured and can adapt to new circumstances and surroundings. We are looking at someone who is curious and shows genuine interest in others. Your new friend is also creative; they might be involved in the arts in one way or another. I do think that this is a fun friend—someone with whom you can go on spontaneous adventures and someone who inspires you to be more confident and to follow your intuition. With this friend, the sky is the limit, honestly. They will be on board with the wildest ideas and support you through them. This is someone who is free-spirited. They have broken free from society's expectations. It's the type of friend that, if you like it, they will love it! We are looking at a confident person here, or at least at someone who appears to be this way. Again, your new friend has experienced their fair share of trauma and heartbreak, and I do think that based on their past, they do tend to struggle with a pessimistic outlook at times, especially in areas regarding security and safety, aka. money. They might have a lack-mindset, but again, it feels mostly related to jobs and food security (there is an apple on the woman's head in this particular deck). I also feel like this is someone who struggles to commit. Again, this does not relate to your friendship but more to areas where your friend struggles with a lack-mindset. Anything that promises security is something they struggle to trust, so they might be the type to do job-hopping, etc. Your friend could have a beautiful and soothing voice. They might even be a great singer. What's certain, though, is that we are looking at a truly wise person here, someone whose words can soothe one's soul. Your friend is a great guide, especially because of their own life experience. They have learned a lot of lessons and accumulated tons of valuable and life-changing wisdom. Again, their words have the power to touch one's soul. They are determined. Even if they are capricious, especially when it comes to their work, they are clear on what they want. They have direction, and they are true go-getters. Their approach is just unconventional. Your new friend is someone with a purpose, and they are doing their best to follow it and be worthy of it. So in essence, this is a person who takes their roles seriously. They try their utmost to be deserving of their titles (be it a friend, a position at work, etc.).

How will you meet?

You guys will meet at work, that is for certain. I feel like the person who is new to the job will be you, given the sequence of the cards. The mule card shows us that there is a situation that seems hopeless; this most likely relates to a person who is stubborn and unwilling to change. This will lead to a period of bad health and even a depressive period for you. You might be struggling at your previous job. These circumstances will lead to you looking for new positions and eventually severing ties with your previous employer. This all seems unplanned; this change was not something you expected or even planned for, but something that was inspired by your experience with this stubborn person. And wherever your career journey leads you, that is where you will meet your new friend.

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PILE 02 ➕

CONFIRMATION

Signs and confirmation that this is your pile. This can be anything from your initials, astrological placements, significant messages or signs, places, songs, etc. Please use your discernment.

A, D, I, E, U, A, 1st house, Gemini, Pluto

Song: Hate Myself - Tate McRae

YOUR NEXT FRIENDSHIP

Tarot: the moon, 7 of pentacles, queen of wands, (wheel of fortune)

Oracle: judge rx, tiger, mature man, forest, pig, eye, camel, arms

Their Personality

Hello, Pile 02, and welcome to your reading! Your next new friend is someone who holds a lot of depth. They might feel magical and maybe even a bit unreal to you. It's a person who religiously follows their intuition and is just really good at picking up subtle signs and changes. Your new friend might struggle with anxiety, though, as they tend to overthink a lot. But yes, this person is hard to read and hard to decipher. Your friend's motivations are often honorable. They tend to do the things they do for the right reasons, usually to uplift others and improve given circumstances. They are a hard worker, someone who is constantly learning, growing, and changing, and has a lot of stamina. They persevere, and their hard work usually pays off well. Everything they achieve, they deserve. They also pay attention to what they do and what they invest their time in. Your new friend is an intentional person; they always know why they are doing something. This by no means indicates a calculated person, but rather someone who is present and mindful. Your new friend is confident and courageous. They are truly independent and get along well with the people around them. Again, we are looking at a driven person, someone who does not shy away from hard work. They are determined to achieve what they set their minds to. With the wheel of fortune as their bottom deck, they might feel like someone who is quite lucky at times. Yes, they work for what they achieve, but their achievements might come with extra benefits, etc. They might be coming from a privileged background. This is genuinely a kind and good person, and they are always teachable. This is not the type of person to get their ego in their way when it comes to criticism, etc. They remain teachable because they know they are not always right, which just brings them a lot of good karma. I do think, though, that they can be harsh with their words. This is a pragmatic person—a person with reason. They never do anything without intention, so their criticism might sometimes appear destructive to others as they apply their values and their idea of the world to their judgment. They are not the most sensitive and delicate with their words. Again, this is a fiery and driven person. They appear to be unstoppable. Their passion is their driving force and their power, and they are bold and brave. Things always seem to work out for them, honestly, because their force is so powerful that everything just seems to align for them. They put their money where their mouth is. How will you meet?

You might meet your new friend through a mutual connection—most likely a mature man. This could indicate someone who is in their 50s or upwards, someone who is just simply older than you, or someone who is more mature or has more experience. I feel like this person will connect you two during a time when you are confused. When you might not see clearly and when your values are all over the place. I do feel like you will follow your intuition here. You might reach out to this mutual connection in hopes of help or guidance, and they will connect you to your new friend. Again, you are reaching out for help to overcome a problem in your life. It might not be the easiest journey to one another, but in the end, you guys will embrace each other, and I do feel like your new friend will be more than willing to help you; they will be welcoming.

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PILE 03 ➕

CONFIRMATION

Signs and confirmation that this is your pile. This can be anything from your initials, astrological placements, significant messages or signs, places, songs, etc. Please use your discernment.

B, I, N, G, O, H, I, Libra, 8th House, Saturn

Song: Me & U - AleksSounds

YOUR NEXT FRIENDSHIP

Tarot: the high priestess, 5 of cups, the magician, (9 of wands)

Oracle: angel rx, swan, house, fair woman, broom, may, mountain road, back

Their Personality

Hello, Pile 03, and welcome to your reading! Your new friend is a wise and intuitive person. Someone who is in alignment with their subconscious mind and who can read others easily. This person might seem magical to you, but in a way, they might be hard to read, and they might seem unpredictable. Sometimes their actions might be without rhyme or reason, but there is always consistency behind them, which is them following their intuition. Your friend might have experienced some losses in their life, and there might still be situations that are eating away at their conscience because they are regretful. The past might still be hunting them, and I do think that they struggle with letting go, especially when they know that they failed a situation or someone. Your new friend is truly resourceful, and they know how to wield what they have to achieve their goals. They are great at manifesting and achieving their desires. This, to me, feels like someone who is lowkey a perfectionist. They struggle with failure and they struggle with loss, and when experiencing it, they might be pessimistic about it. Your new friend is a powerful person; they are unique and authentic, and again, they follow their intuition. The only action your new friend takes is inspired action. They are resilient, for sure, and extremely courageous. They fight for what they want and protect their loved ones fiercely. This is not the type of person to give up easily; they are persistent and also great at setting, keeping, and respecting boundaries. I do not think that they are easily approachable in the sense that they are guarded. They are protective of themselves and the people in their lives, but once you are in, you are in for good. I feel like your friend's first impression can be misleading. They might appear innocent and angelic at first, but they are quite the opposite. Again, this is a strong person, but it might not be evident in their appearance. First impressions are misleading here, and they usually tend to use this to their advantage as they are aware of others's perceptions of them. Your friend is quite graceful. They hold so much wisdom, and it feels like the way they go through life is just effortless. They are a great teacher, especially when it comes to elegance and grace. They inspire with dignity, and I do think that they have a great eye for beauty and aesthetics. This seems like a truly classy person. How will you meet?

You guys will meet at someone's home. This is either the housewarming of someone you both know, or you might be moving to a new neighborhood or a new home, and they might be living in the same apartment complex or on the same street. Either way, a fair woman is involved; this specifically describes their hair color, which ranges from blonde to gray and white. Whatever it is, it will most likely happen in May or start in May. Your move or your way there might not be easy, and there might have been a few hiccups along the way, but eventually, you are getting there, starting a new life and a new path. I do think that this person is meant to support you through your new chapter in life. You might even share a home, perhaps? For some of you, this could indicate a roommate, etc. For others, it's a neighbor, and for a small group of you, it's the housewarming of a close friend. But what all of you in this group share is the fact that you will meet this person during a new chapter in your life. And May does play a role in one way or another. It could be either timing, someone's birthday, or hold another meaning. Take what resonates, and leave the rest.

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punkeccentricenigma · 6 months

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Can I pretty please request the rise boys having a significant other that knows how to mimic their comfort characters voices? Like a voice impressionist <333

Rise!Boys with Reader, who can mimic voices.

Relationship status: Romantic

Reader prounouns: They/Them

TW: Some grammatical errors because english is not my first language, Handling stress in an unhealthy way in the parts with Raph and Leo

A/N:

I'm sorry for the long wait! Lately, I've been under a lot of stress, and I tend to overthink to the point that, while writing, I also translate text, watch YouTube, and anime to replace my thoughts with something better. I apologize again! And I'm sorry if these headcanons suck! And don't worry, I'll fulfill all orders! I won't forget any of them! Please be patient!

Leonardo

◇Let's be honest, after the Kraang invasion, he's traumatized, or at least has many moments of weakness where he needs comfort.

◇During those times, he often immerses himself in various comics or shows to forget what happened.

◇So one day, as he slowly began to stress over memories and didn't have access to the aforementioned things, you stepped in.

◇It's not like Leo didn't know your skills; he heard often and even insisted that you imitate his brothers to make fun of them.

◇Which kind of annoyed Donatello a bit; he didn't like being mocked that way.

◇Anyway, you started by imitating Jupiter Jim's voice, knowing he's one of the boy's parental figures.

"My boy! Don't give up yet! Furry creatures are attacking our base!"

◇Expect a shocked face, and then a wide smile.

"You didn't tell me you could imitate these type of voices!!"

◇He was really impressed.

◇After that, you just started role-playing for fun because why not? Lmao

◇Thanks to that, the boy felt much better <33

Raphael

◇Let's not kid ourselves, Raph didn't handle stress very well when he was the leader of the Mad Dogs.

◇He just didn't want to let his brothers down! His father! April, or definitely you! He wouldn't forgive himself if something happened to you because of his incompetence.

◇That's why he often buried all those negative emotions deep within himself to replace them with fake joy or a smile.

◇But since you've been in a relationship with him for some time, and you've known him even longer, you knew something was bothering him.

◇So you often tried to talk to him about it, but the response was always the same.

"Oh, I'm fine! Really, you don't have to worry about me."

◇You didn't want to give up, but was there any way out of this situation? What could you do? You decided to take a break from it.

◇Finally, it came to a boiling point when you started playing Jenga in his room.

◇During the game, you could feel the scent of stress coming from him. You should get him deodorant sometime... Do deodorants work on reptiles??

◇In the end, Raphael lost, but he reacted differently than usual. He wasn't sulky, he wasn't embarrassed, and fired up for the next round... he was aggressive.

◇And he scattered the remaining blocks around his room, cursing.

"Screw this, I've had enough!"

◇You immediately reacted, calling his name in a firm tone.

"Raph! What are you doing!? It's just a game!"

◇He looked at you with a stunningly negative expression, accentuated by furrowed brow bones, and then all of that turned into a suffocating sight of sadness, with transparent tears soaking the red mask. He cracked; he finally cracked.

◇In a slow voice, he began to apologize, burying his head in shame between his spiky arms.

◇Finally, you started talking about what was bothering him, accompanied by his crying at some words. You tried to listen to him, hug him, comfort him with kind words, but you felt that in this situation, it might be too little, much too little.

◇So you looked around, and a risky but interesting idea came to your mind.

◇After a moment of searching through Raph's drawers, you stood in front of him in a proud pose, wearing on your wrists the distinctive spiked bracelets that were definitely too big for you.

"What are you doing?" Raphael asked in a sluggish tone, tilting his head slightly to the side. Emotionally, he had no strength for anything; he just wanted to sleep. [Y.N] had a satisfying smile on their lips.

"Hear this! I will kidnap Peach OVER and OVER until I pull it off! And no one can stop me! Losing is not an option! And neither is giving up!"

◇On his face, just like Leo, a painted shock appeared. You never boasted about being able to imitate voices! Amazing.

◇He's genuinely thrilled with this discovery.

"Oh, here you are, princess! Accept my love, or I'll kidnap you and lock you in my fortress forever!"

◇A genuine laugh escaped from the boy's lips, causing a blush of satisfaction on your face. Even though Bowser was Raphael's favorite comfort character, Peach was second, so why not play out such a scene?

◇And so, for the rest of the evening, you chased each other around the Lair, playing your roles, and incidentally involving the others in the fun.

◇Raph felt at least momentarily free from unhealthy stress, and he's grateful to you for that.

Donatello

◇"Oh fuck, damn it, I'm about to smash this thing--!"

◇Yes, this string of curses was uttered by none other than the teenage genius Donatello Hamato. And why? It's simple; he was trying to improve one of his battle shells, but for the past few hours, he couldn't get anything done.

◇His mind was exhausted, and his three-fingered hands ached every time he took one of his screwdrivers. He couldn't take it anymore!

◇Finally, Mikey suggested he take a break from it all, so Donnie put on his favorite purple hoodie and left the house. Where could he go? Simple.

"Oh, hey D, what's up?" [Y.N]'s voice echoed through their room as they noticed the window opening out of the corner of their eye. Soft-shell didn't respond, and if anything, he snorted softly as he closed the entrance and sat down next to the teenager who was currently sitting on the floor, leaning against their bed while watching an anime he wasn't familiar with yet. "Everything okay?" They asked, this time giving theri full attention to the boy next to them. His face indicated negative emotions, which worried [Y.N.] a bit.

"Not really." that's all that came out of the boy's mouth as he tucked his hands into his pockets and rested his head on their shoulder.

"Do you want to talk about it?"

"I don't know."

◇Now you were quite worried about your boyfriend. Something must have happened, and Donnie needed comfort.

◇You suggested rewatching his favorite series where Atomic Lass appeared, and the boy agreed.

◇You knew that this character was his childhood idol, and knowing from your experiences, every child would want to hear something nice from their favorite character, so you decided to take a risk.

"You can do it, Donnie!"

◇You felt the boy shudder, and he immediately pulled away to look at you with disbelief written on those artificial eyebrows. He had known about your skills for a long time, but usually, they were used for ordinary jokes.

◇You smiled slightly, leaning closer to the turtle.

"Now, will you tell me what happened?"

◇And miraculously, it worked. Your boyfriend struggled a bit, but he finally shared what was bothering him, allowing you to support him.

◇And then there was fun with voice imitations again.

"Oh, oh! Do Dio! Or Gojo!"

Michelangelo

◇Mikey knew from the very beginning of your relationship that you had excellent voice imitation skills.

◇He even used that (with your permission, of course) to dub his webcomics!

◇However, other than that, you didn't use this skill until now.

◇Because your boyfriend was going through a slight breakdown related to drawing, specifically facing an art block.

◇So when he once again threw his pencil and started acting like a sulking child over the lack of a lollipop, you decided to step in.

◇Knowing that one of his comfort characters is Yatora Yaguchi, you decided to imitate him right then.

"Give yourself some time, Mikey!"

◇He looked at you slightly surprised from behind his shoulders, and a moment later, he smiled warmly.

◇Honestly, comforting Mikey is the easiest thing, so after a while, he took a break to spend time with you.

#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #rottmnt #rise donnie x reader #teenage mutant ninja turtles #rottmnt x y/n #rottmnt x you #rise leo x reader #rise mikey x reader #rise raph x reader #rottmnt x reader #headcanons

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sleepingdeath-light · 11 months

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relationship hcs ; shirou

requested by ; 🐜 anon (14/06/23) [1/2]

fandom(s) ; brand new animal

fandom masterlist(s) ; here

character(s) ; shirou ogami

outline ; “🐜 anon because i love BNA and 100% wasnt the person to recommend it whaaaat.... .

Shirou Ogami relationship and smut hcs?

also i accidentally typed shitou Ogami for a second there 😭”

warning(s) ; canon typical references to violence/discrimination/etc

it takes a long time for shirou to trust someone enough to get close to them — like of course he cares for all beastmen and will protect them but that doesn’t mean he’s close to them by default, he’s actually incredibly guarded and private

so this would only ever work on a basis of acquaintances -> friends -> lovers — and it would be a lengthy process to move from one step to the next

or, in other words: he’s not someone who rushes into things so any sort of relationship progression with him is going to be slow and steady at the best of times

but even once you are in a relationship with him, things aren’t exactly cut and dry

he’s protective over you, of course, and will always keep an eye (or, more aptly, nose) out for you to make sure that you’re safe when you’re away from him

he makes sure that you take care of yourself — whether that’s resting and eating enough, taking any medications you need or keeping you from overworking yourself (depending on what your habits are)

like he’ll start off by gruffly reminding you to take a break or rest or eat, and if that doesn’t work he’ll pick you up and do everything shy of actively forcing you to do some self care

will lend you his coat if you mention being cold, but it’s always in a sort of dismissive way — though he does appreciate the sight of you wearing his clothes, even if he doesn’t show it

not very big on physical affection and can get overwhelmed by it if you’re too forward — prefers to show his love through acts of service instead

he’ll substitute cuddling for breakfast in bed, or replace public kissing with date nights spent on rooftops discussing history and the stars

the furthest he’ll go with physical affection in public is a peck on the lips or a kiss on the back of your hand — in private he’s a bit more affectionate but not by much

flusters under praise and genuine compliments but will occasionally praise/compliment you in return in a roundabout casual way — e.g. ‘good job’, ‘not bad’ or ‘nice shirt, when did you buy it?’

has a possessive/territorial streak and will intimidate the hell out of anyone who tries to flirt with you — especially if they’re human — but will vehemently deny any and all accusations of jealousy

has an excellent memory and keeps track of things like anniversaries and birthdays with ease — but he also makes sure that you keep on top of things like medication and appointments when you’re due for them (be that something minor like a checkup or hay-fever, or something more significant like physiotherapy or painkillers)

loves hearing you talk about your passions/interests/hobbies and will quietly listen and ask questions where appropriate — but even if you’re not talking to him, you can catch him staring at you out of the corner of your eye

if you’re the type of partner who steals his clothes (a hermit crab, basically) then he’ll quickly become accustomed to it and will even set aside some of his shirts and jumpers for you to wear — namely so that you stop ‘borrowing’ his work clothes

if you joke about being in the world’s largest age gap relationship then he’ll just shake his head and sigh — you’re not wrong but he’s not going to encourage you with a proper response

though they’re not as frequent as they used to be, shirou does occasionally suffer from nightmares — reliving the last few days he spent in nirvasyl as well as how he died and the lives he took in the aftermath

this is the only time you’ll see him cry and you’re the only person who gets to see him be vulnerable in this way — he won’t seek you out for comfort but he won’t push you away if you try to give it to him (just don’t bring it up afterwards as he’d rather not think about it)

doesn’t talk about his past often but he will teach you innocent things like dances, songs and how to prepare some of the dishes he grew up with — things that aren’t linked to the fall but instead the cultural core of nirvasyl

doesn’t explicitly tell anyone that he’s in a relationship because he prefers to keep his private and professional lives separate, but michiru, gem, melissa and mayor rose all know you — with michiru in particular always asking about you and teasing shirou about being ‘whipped’ for you

if you’re a beastman like him then he constantly worries about your safety — especially if you travel outside of anima city

he’s all too aware of the dangers faced by your kind and, unlike him, you’re very much so mortal and at risk of losing your life to an anti beastman group — and he can’t imagine losing you so soon

in his more animalistic form he’s much worse at hiding his emotions and will give some not-so-subtle tells that he’s happy to see you — namely wagging his tail (no matter how much he tries to stop it)

he’s a living space heater so sharing a bed is only really viable in the winter because otherwise there is a really good chance that you’ll overheat — especially since he does somewhat cling to you in his sleep and has a strong enough grip that there is little to no chance of you getting out before he wakes up

usually just calls you by your name over any sort of pet name — unless he’s introducing you to someone else at which point you’ll gain a suffix denoting your relationship (e.g. ‘this is (name), my —‘)

so partner if you’re dating (he finds girlfriend and boyfriend to be a bit childish)

fiancé/fiancée if you’re engaged

wife/husband/spouse if you’re married

but yeah that’s the closest you’ll get because he isn’t really the type to use cutesy nicknames with his spouse

#sleepingdeath #🐜 anon #gender neutral reader #fluff #fluff hcs #bna fluff #bna x reader #brand new animal fluff #brand new animal x reader #shirou ogami x reader #shirou ogami fluff

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ghastlybin · 1 year

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hi there! i wanted to request a dreamcatcher sua x 8th member scenario: ok this is super cheesy but whatever, basically all of the dc members are dating someone and sua and 8th member are the only single ones. Since reader is the latest addition to the group compared to other, they didn't think much of it but on the other hand, sua has been feeling kinda lonely and touch starved, so she's happy when a new member arrived that way shes not that lonely anymore. they both start becoming very affectionate with eachother (always huging or having any kind of physical contact) until they both develop feelings for eachother? (a little angst at first but lots of fluff pls)

Thank you for the request! I hope I added enough fluff, otherwise please let me know if you’d like me to edit with more!! I tried my best without being overly cheesy or overly angsty (actually tried to keep it subtle lol)

Pairing: Sua x (Gender neutral) Reader

Word count: 939

Genre/contents: Dreamcatchers 8th member! Reader x Sua, a lil angst but way more fluffy (I hope)

Note: is “co-members” even a fcking word LMAO but uhhh I don’t really have much of a note this time? Just that I will finally admit that maybe I am not very good with fluff but hey, I still love it. Too cheesy? A little cheesy? Good thing I like cheese amiright?? :,) Someday I will be good at writing the fluffiest fluff imaginable.

Can she just reject me already so I can move on? Or like… Yk, give me a CHANCE :,((((

Sua was happy for them, seeing the girls with their significant others. She was happy they found someone who treated them with respect and cared for them.

But with that happiness on their behalf, also came a sense of longing. Loneliness that couldn’t be eased.

When you were added into the group’s lineup, she was glad to find out you were single as she would no longer be the only one in the group without a significant other.

She was just glad to have someone to hang out with without being third wheeled or feel as if she were intruding in the girls’ relationship.

With you, Sua felt less alone. Neither of you had a special someone to spend your free time with, thus spending it with each other by watching movies, eating at a small restaurant together, visit the karaoke bar- Anything that could be done with another person, there you and Sua were, having the time of your lives.

The only people that didn’t think you two were a couple- with the amount of time you’ve both spent together- were you and Sua.

“A new bakery shop opened up down the street,” Sua raised an eyebrow at you expectantly, “wanna come?”

You had already started to walk towards the door, where Sua stood.

“You had me at bakery.”

Sua grinned, linking her arm around your elbow and skipping out of the door and down the street with you.

The bakery had a few people already there to check it out, but there were plenty of tables for you and Sua to sit down together while enjoying one of the baked goods they sold.

“How did you find this place?” You asked, covering your mouth so she wouldn’t see you talking with your mouth full.

Sua smiled, “just in the neighborhood and saw the ‘grand opening’ sign.”

You took a short break from eating the pastry you had ordered, seeing how most of the customers were together- most notably, they were couples, holding each other’s hands, laughing with each other, one couple was even sharing a milkshake.

“Aw, are you going to replace me?“ Sua joked, seeing you were looking at all of the couples in the bakery. She felt a pang in her heart when she said that, thinking of the possibility.

You shook your head in response, finishing the pastry.

“No, never.” You replied, swallowing before continuing, “I do, someday, want to go on a date- An actual date.”

“What’s wrong with the dates we go on now?” Sua asked, although she was joking again, she was afraid of what you’d answer.

“I mean as a couple type of date, not a friend date.” You smiled, pushing your empty plate forward as you leaned back into the chair.

Sua felt that familiar ache in her chest. The longing and loneliness she felt when she saw the other members with their significant others.

She didn’t understand why it pained her to hear you say that or why it bothered her deep down when you called your time together, ‘friend dates’.

You noticed she had zoned out, staring at you with a soft frown. You brushed it off, though, and stacked her empty plate on top of yours.

“Besides, I don’t know if I want to date right now.” You spoke, seeing she was still staring at you with the same expression. “You know, with group promotions and all.”

Sua blinked after so long, forcing a smile, “yeah…Me too.”

You raised your eyebrows, unconvinced.

“I’m joking.” You smiled. Sua didn’t know what the joke was. She just figured you were going to find someone else to spend all of your time with and be clingy as you and Sua were with each other.

Sua realized that her pain wasn’t because she didn’t like the thought of you replacing her as a friend because she’d be lonely.

It was because she just didn’t like the thought of seeing you with someone else.

“I want you.”

You froze at her sudden words, grinning when she started to get flustered, her face turning red and her hands flying up to her face to ‘hide’ from you.

“I mean, I like you.” Sua clarified, still not meeting your gaze.

You reached across the table, taking her hands into yours, the grin still on your face.

“I was hoping you’d be the first to say that,” you chuckled. “I was terrified of what you’d say if I confessed first.”

Sua readjusted her hands in order for her to be able to rub her thumbs on the back of your hands.

“I was hoping you would be the first to confess.” Sua seemed less flustered at this point, her once flustered eyes were now focused solely on you.

“Does this count as an actual date now?” You scrunched your nose, half-joking.

A part of you wished she would say yes.

The other part of you wanted to restart on a different date, only officially as a couple and not as ‘friends’ or ‘co-members’.

“No,” Sua let go of your hands, standing up and grabbing the plates when she did. You followed her, hoping she’d clarify more. Sua set the plates under the sign where guests have been asked to set used dishes.

Sua looked at you, cupping your worried face and planted a kiss on your forehead.

“We will go on an official date.”

You felt relief wash over you, smiling happily as the two of you walked out the same way you both walked in.

Sua’s arm linked around your elbow.

Only this time it was as more than friends.

#dreamcatcher imagines #dreamcatcher x reader #dreamcatcher sua #dreamcatcher sua x reader #I will admit I am down bad for this woman but YALL GET IT #I think most of my followers ARE InSomnia lol I love it

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31, 32, and 35 for Blanca and Toki if you would be so kind!

answered 31 here so i'll do 30!

30. describe how one character would cheer the other up after a hard day

they're porkin watching cartoons! if toki had a bad day, blanca stops everything she's doing asap and they're watching moomin, spongebob, whatever he wants. she only gets up for snacks and to bring in silje and lalo for extra cuddles, and they're making biscuits. if he doesn't wanna talk about it too much at first she won't pry but she'll be concerned and just be there in the pile of blankets with him for comfort. she's bringing down the good markers and crayons so they can color together.

32. can they communicate private thoughts whilst in company? if so, how?

blanca's face is way too expressive for her own good !! definitely without a doubt toki can read her thoughts/mood if they're in a setting where they can't vocalize what they want to. he can tell if she wants to leave, if she thinks the conversation is bullshit, etc. all by the way her eyes widen or thin.

35. how does each significant other view any exes and former relationships?

toki: I'S SHOULDA BEENS YOUR FOIRST KISS

blanca: YOU WERE IN NORWAY !!

HAHA OK NO FOR REAL

blanca: the insecurity jumps out a little even though he's not friends with any exes. she totally expected that he would be given how friendly he is, but he blocks his exes out of his mind once he's onto something new because the new relationship is right in front of him and holding his attention. she worries about things like body type and attitude since, again bad habit of expecting the worst and reading things wrong, she assumes she's too rough around the edges. eventually she'll learn to stop comparing herself and just be happy, but for now that's where she is.

toki: a little crumpled because he's way cooler than any of the un-brutal dweebs she was with before! he's glad blanca's gotten rid of things her exes have given her and he'll even go out of his way to find better replacements if it was something like nice art supplies. she doesn't know it but he gets a bit insecure too and he hopes he's doing better than her previous partners did.

#asks #answered #blanca tennebris #toca

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count-alucard-tepes · 1 year

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Headcanons : The type of significant other they would have…

Kizaru💫

He probably married someone he met while on duty on an island when he was in his 30s. He doesn’t really care about race or body type, anyone in front of him would really look tiny anyway…unless of course they were tall too! He probably would be separated from his significant other due to his job and he probably has a few women he has flings with in and out of the Navy. I think he would prefer someone who is younger than him but otherwise it’s more of a connection he has with the person. He’s a lot of handle and if you can keep up…you’ve caught his eye.

Akainu🌋

He would probably marry the daughter of someone in the World government or a higher up in the Marines. He probably got married in his late 30s to mid 40s as he is very career driven. His significant other would be levelheaded and a calm presence to be around and she would be from 30 to 35 years old or if she’s younger, she has a mature personality. They would share common interests such as gardening and cooking meals together. He is loyal to his wife and has no need for affairs or other such distracts.

Sir Crocodile🐊

He enjoys someone who isn’t overbearing and clingy, they need to be independent and have their own thing going on rather than someone who constantly needs affection from him. He likes a strong woman, physically and mentally. She would be in her late 20s and older with a strong devil fruit ability. He’s loyal to just her as that’s all he needs really, someone to talk with, make love to and even raise a child with. He doesn’t have a wandering eye and nor does she. The loyalty between them is unquestionable.

Doflamingo Donquixote 🦩

He doesn’t have just one significant one, he has multiple women that he has around him when he at his palace. He likes them to be petite and preferably without any devil fruit abilities. The younger the better (but of legal age of course). Women flock to him because well he’s powerful and rich, he takes good care of them as long as they dance to his tune and don’t get on his bad side. Women come and go to him and he doesn’t really care, they’re free to go as there will always be someone to replace them but don’t think you can run back to him once you’re gone. Once you’re part of his harem, don’t fuck it up….even talking to some guy will get you in a lot of trouble.

Benn Beckmann🔫

He always favored younger women who were humble and not pirates. He doesn’t want to find a lady that he had an entanglement with. Also, he’s not husband material according to himself, he just doesn’t want the expectations to be a good husband even though he’d be a good one! He likes a woman who stands up for herself and someone who is confident but not a clingy, emotionally unstable woman…he feels it’s too much for him to deal with and would move on if he’s not happy with the relationship they have. He definitely likes strong women and if you can dominate him in the bedroom, that’s all he needs. Physical appearance doesn’t really matter to him.

Katakuri Charlotte 🍡

His preferred partner would be someone who is strong so she can take care of herself when he’s away and she would most likely be a pirate that joined the Big Mom crew. She would share his love for sweets and probably brought him sweet treats often which he is why he took a liking to her. It took him months before he revealed his face to her and when she accepted him, he was completely smitten and asked her to marry him on the spot. He stands up for her and doesn’t let anyone disrespect his wife.

Killer🔪

His significant other would be someone that he met on his many travels with his crew probably while he was out training on his own or at a bar. He is shy when it comes to someone who he attracted to so the person would really have to pull him out of his shell. He likes confident and strong people who are emotionally mature and definitely wants that in his significant other. Age, gender and race doesn’t matter to him but being loyal and genuinely caring for him is something that pulls this heartstrings. Their spontaneous nature would be appealing to him as he is a more calculated and level headed person but he does like the adrenaline rush of a spur of the moment activity.

Kaido🐉

His significant other would have definitely been one of the same race as him as he prefers this and she has to be physically strong. She had a very similar appearance to Yamato and this hurts Kaido deeply as his son grew up because it was a constant reminder of his lost wife. She was a calm figure around him and always kept him grounded and even somewhat humble. They probably met after he left the Rocks Pirates and conceived Yamato but she died shortly after giving birth. Even though Kaido has several flings with numerous women, he can never fill the void that developed after his wife’s death….but liquor somewhat helps.

King👑

He found his significant other in the skies as he enjoys flying high to clear his mind and one day, met the love of his life. She probably ate a devil fruit that allows her to fly and this is how they spend most of their time together. She eases his mind and her calm presence makes it easier to be himself and allow himself to vent if he needs to. Her looks or race doesn’t matter to him, personality means a lot to him. He doesn’t care if she’s not that strong, he’d protect her. He likes a witty woman that isn’t shallow.

Queen👑

He’s pretty picky with his harem of women that he keeps around him. Got to have a cute face, a nice figure and nice titties to get his attention even though he doesn’t care much about his appearance or the fact that he isn’t the hottest guy. In his mind, he’s God’s gift to women. Queen is egotistic af and knows ladies love being around him or at his side. He probably doesn’t even know all the names of the women around him and would probably just call them ‘sweety’ or ‘angel’ just to seem cool. He is not the loyal type and doesn’t give a fuck if you are either! He always swarmed by women and he loves every moment of it.

#ooc #one piece akainu #doffy one piece #one piece #one piece crocodile #sir crocodile #doflamingo donquixote #doflamingo #one piece kizaru #kizaru borsalino #akainu sakazuki #katakuri charlotte #king one piece #queen one piece #benn beckman #kaido one piece #donquixote doflamingo

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fictoromanticism · 1 year

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hi! im someone who's just getting into selfshipping- do you have any terms beginners should know?

i don’t think selfshipping is too vocabulary-intensive; there aren’t a whole lot of terms involved and they’re often pretty self-explanatory. these are the ones that come to mind:

f/o is short for fictional other, a play on the term significant other. f/o on its own usually denotes a romantic relationship because of the play on significant other, but it’s become somewhat shorthand for ANY type of relationship with a character, so people often add a modifier, for example as in “platonic f/o” (meaning a character one considers a friend).

self-inserts are generally OCs used for selfshipping. they can vary from being literally the author written into the fictional universe as if they were transported there magically to a character who barely resembles the author beyond that they’re there for the author to project on to fulfill the relationship. not every selfshipper uses a self-insert, though!

imagines are posts designed to present a pleasing circumstance or prompt further exploration of a scenario in the reader’s mind; for example, “imagine brushing your long-haired f/o’s hair and putting it in a plait or ponytail”. they are similar to but distinct from reader-insert fanfiction because they’re very short-form and in the context of the selfship community typically don’t center around a specific character (although those sorts of imagines also exist).

reader-insert fanfiction (or “x readers”) are more long-form and sometimes fairly specific written works in the same vein as imagines. it’s possible to find more vague “insert-character-here x reader” fiction, but typically the character is pre-established. these usually have any mentions of important details like names written out with terms intended to be replaced in a word processor or with a browser extension, such as “(Y/N)” for the reader’s name. they’re usually written in second person.

a lot of people will talk about changing or updating their lists, which is just shorthand for lists of f/os for those who have multiple. people who have a lot may also have a sort of ranking system or system of categories in their list, which varies from person to person but often takes the form of a main f/o, secondary f/os, and crushes (characters a person may like but who they don’t really selfship with actively).

if anyone would like to add some vocabulary they think is necessary that i haven't addressed in the replies, please feel free!

-mod moon

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The Peculiarities of Big Five Personality Traits Across Sexual Orientations: A Peter Pan Analogy

I always come back to watch the childhood movies. Art, it’s very rich and full of meaning. You can come back and see something else, because you are new, changed, fluid or “older”. Let use the five-factor model, commonly known as the Big Five, to help capture the essence of human androgynous personality through five broad traits: openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism (John, Naumann, & Soto, 2008). These traits persist across gender and sexual orientation borders, yet they manifest differently among individuals. I’ll reflect on the art and story of Peterpan to reexamine who this guy is and why he’s an androgyne. Those born male but posses both feminine and masculine traits and characteristics.

Let's take a journey to Neverland to understand how these traits play out using the Peter Pan narrative as an analogy. We all know who the PeterPan’s are, they are the bottoms, the feminine but born male, you know? The King of the “Lost Boys”, because of the androgen is too perfect, they need no one. The term "Peter Pan Syndrome" was actually coined by psychologist Dr. Dan Kiley in his book, "The Peter Pan Syndrome: Men Who Have Never Grown Up," published in 1983. The syndrome is not officially recognized by the medical or psychological communities, nor is it found in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5).

The concept refers to adults, usually men, who are socially immature. Such individuals often avoid responsibilities associated with adulthood and seek to remain in the carefree, adventurous stage of childhood, much like the fictional character Peter Pan. No doubt, this was a stereotype, but how and why?

Well, going back in time Sigmund Freud, explored themes of childhood and development in his works, but the specific term "Peter Pan Syndrome" did not originate from Freud's theories. Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis, had complex and evolving views on homosexuality. Freud did not focus specifically on "Peter Pan-like" homosexuals or fixation on specific physical attributes. His views on homosexuality were more nuanced and related to psychosexual development and the concept of "fixation" at different stages. He spent a lot of time theorizing about these “types of homosexuals”, that they were children who experiences a significant event during a particular stage of psychosexual development, they could become "fixated" or stuck in that stage, leading to specific personality traits in adulthood. However, he didn't directly associate this concept of fixation with homosexuality.

In his 1905 work "Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality," Freud suggested that all humans were innately bisexual and that they become heterosexual or homosexual as a result of their experiences. Later, Freud rejected the notion that homosexuality is a pathology or illness. In a letter to a mother who wrote to him seeking treatment for her son's homosexuality, Freud wrote, "Homosexuality is assuredly no advantage, but it is nothing to be ashamed of, no vice, no degradation; it cannot be classified as an illness."

Freud's views on homosexuality were considered progressive for his time but are now outdated and have been largely replaced by more empirical and less stigmatizing views in the field of psychology.

The personal sexual orientation of Sigmund Freud, is a topic of speculation and debate among scholars. While some biographers suggest that Freud might have had both heterosexual and homosexual inclinations, it's critical to note that such claims are speculative, as Freud himself never publicly identified as bisexual or any other sexual orientation. These speculations are based on interpretations of his letters, writings, and relationships. I have read his work, and I think some of his observations are indeed more of that of a “Top, and bisexual”.

His views on homosexuality, in Freud's perspective was complex and nuanced. Again, in "Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality," Freud suggested that all humans were innately bisexual, becoming either heterosexual or homosexual due to their experiences and interactions. Freud did not consider homosexuality a disease or an aberration, but rather a variation of sexual orientation - a progressive viewpoint for his time.

But it is his views on the so-called "Oedipus complex" in male homosexuals, that makes me believe he’s a “Top and Bisexual”, Freud theorized that a young boy's identification with his mother could lead to homosexuality. This mental distancing, infatuation too, probably is also his projection, because while it’s related to peterpan syndrome, what Freud really did tied gender and orientation together in this theory and based the Oedipus complex, on a psychoanalytic concept where a homosexual child feels desire for the parent of the opposite sex. He sees them as kind of the same. So Freud hypothesized that a boy who identifies strongly with his mother might become homosexual. Basically, the Peterpans of the world, the bottom and the differing gender Id in male sex is just one package: “male dependency”. . They need man, they must grow up and stop being so dependent, really. About what makes the androgyne, Peterpans, a dependent ?

The Flight to Neverland: Big Five Traits in Men

Openness and the Adventurous Spirit

Peter Pan, the boy who never grows up, epitomizes openness. His curious nature and eagerness for new experiences mirror men with high openness scores. This trait aligns with the adventurous spirit, imagination, and inquisitiveness found in males with Peter Pan syndrome, who resist the conventional route of growing up and instead, opt for a life of endless exploration (Kiley, 1983).

Conscientiousness and the Lost Boys

The Lost Boys, who rely on Peter for guidance, depict conscientiousness. They value order, hard work, and responsibility, traits inherent in men who score high on conscientiousness. However, without the openness embodied by Peter, their world is limited to the confines of Neverland, reflecting the challenges of conscientiousness without openness.

Extraversion and Social Interactions

In Neverland, social interactions are abundant. The outgoing and socially adept Peter Pan exemplifies extraversion. His charisma and adventurous spirit attract others, similar to men who score high on extraversion. However, an abundance of options may lead to a Peter Pan-like refusal to commit, reflecting the double-edged sword of extraversion.

Agreeableness and Ethical Battles

Peter Pan's battles against Captain Hook reflect the trait of agreeableness. Peter stands for fairness and cooperation, fighting against those who threaten these values. Men high in agreeableness are like Peter, cooperative, likable, and considerate, sustaining the balance in their social interactions.

Neuroticism and Emotional Battles

Neuroticism, characterized by emotional instability, anxiety, and moodiness, is seen in Peter's fear of losing his youthful spirit. Men with high neuroticism may experience similar fears and anxieties. However, the introspective process can help manage these emotions, reducing neuroticism.

Concluding Thoughts

The Big Five personality traits, while universally applicable, can manifest differently in individuals, influenced by diverse factors such as gender and sexual orientation. The Peter Pan analogy provides a unique perspective, offering a deeper understanding of personality dynamics in the male sex.

However, it's essential to remember that these traits and their manifestations are a personality, and that is a complex interplay of multiple factors, and the Big Five is just one framework to understand this diversity.

References

John, O. P., Naumann, L. P., & Soto, C. J. (2008). Paradigm shift to the integrative big five trait taxonomy. Handbook of personality: Theory and research, 3(2), 114-158.

Kiley, D. (1983). The Peter Pan Syndrome: Men Who Have Never Grown Up. Avon Books.

John, O. P., Naumann, L. P., & Soto, C. J. (2008). Paradigm shift to the integrative big five trait taxonomy: History, measurement, and conceptual issues. In O. P. John, R. W. Robins, & L. A. Pervin (Eds.), Handbook of personality: Theory and research (pp. 114-158). Guilford Press.

Freud, S. (1905). Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality. In J. Strachey (Ed. and Trans.), The Standard Edition of the Complete Psychological Works of Sigmund Freud (Vol. 7, pp. 123–246). Hogarth Press. (Original work published 1905)

American Psychological Association. (2009). APA Statement on Sexual Orientation. https://www.apa.org/about/policy/booklet.pdf

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Question 1: lying

I’m wondering why being forced to lie makes me uncomfortable? As an ESFJ 6w7, i’m not sure that there’s anything in my stacking which would indicate that lying is something I’d be uncomfortable with. For instance, I know other Fe-users and attachment types who don’t mind others asking them to lie. [...] Summary: can Fe-user attachment types feel a lot of weirdness around lying, like it’s antithetical to their being? That always struck me as more of an Fi thing.

I think showing a discomfort with lying just shows you have a concern with authenticity and want to live a life of honor and sincerity in your relationships. Not everyone feels that lying is wrong for them, and many of them may coach it in other terms (lying to protect people's feelings, etc). But there's an element of 6 that wants to strive for honesty and trust in their relationships, which you can't maintain when you deceive others. Inevitably, lies come to the surface and can cause harm, which a 6 might consider before employing deceit. Fi users are no more honest than Fe users. Everyone has reasons for what they do, and not all of them are explained by your type. It's very 6ish to want a type to explain everything about your personality, but as I've learned over many years of being one -- it doesn't, lol.

Question 2: deliberate socializing

I’ve also been thinking about mindfulness around socializing lately. I have an easy time initiating somewhat spontaneous social time these days—it keeps the demons away (literally, since I find that feelings of depression and anxiety tend to be pushed to the background when I’m focused on someone else.) While spending my time socially is better than being alone and doing something un-mindful like scrolling on social media, I find that I come out of a lot of my conversations feeling neutral and not remembering a lot. I might be happy/having fun in the moment, but the time spent doesn’t feel incredibly meaningful. (It can also be a way of procrastinating my more boring, but meaningful, responsibilities.)

If your interactions do not feel meaningful, it might be worth asking yourself what you want from them, and what you can do to help push them to a deeper level. What is it you need from a connection? Are you over-idealizing it? Or is this just finding fault with yourself with your 6-ness, and using your 7 wing to idolize and always feel a little frustrated that nothing ever seems wonderful enough? It's normal for a 6w7 to wonder what's wrong with them, to feel bad about themselves, to blame themselves for not having a deeper connection to others, and yet to have no capacity to express what exactly is missing, becase it's an intangible desire out of their frustration -- it's not real but a thought, a chronic dissatisfaction with life not being "enough."

When someone matters to you, you tend to be more serious in your approach to them and careful in what you say to them. Having some doubts about a significant other being committed is normal for a 6. It's important to think about these things before you get too serious with this person, since a 6 is always going to need to feel secure, and a 7 significant other needs to take this into account in how they treat the 6. 6s typically do not like open relationships where the other person is free to be with other people, because of the anxiety it causes them about being replaced. It's important to both honor and recognize your own likely needs (to think about what they might be and believe you have a right to them) and to consider the person you are with and their natural tendencies. You cannot pin down or force a 7 to stay in one place any more than you can magically get over your need for security and emotional rawness in a relationship.

Anyway, any thoughts on being more mindful with time I spend with others? In Enneagram terms, I’ve been thinking about it as I need more rejection (i.e. “this isn’t something I want, goodbye!”) I’ve also been thinking about every other day or so, just taking a day for myself to consider what I want and do something more deliberate, like read a book, write poetry, sing, etc. But I tend to just end up scrolling or lounging around.

You need to set up boundaries for yourself, so you do the things you think about doing rather than just think about doing them—in other words, shut off your laptop or turn off your phone, and be more present and deliberate in what you are doing. If you want to read more, read for twenty minutes first thing in the morning or some other convenient time. It’s easier to start small, and a habit will build out of it, and then you may find that your book is so interesting, you keep going for longer than twenty minutes. Or you could commit to writing two lines of poetry a day, and find that sparks your creativity and you write six. Commit to a small change and it will lead to bigger things.

#question #mbti #enneagram

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CF for the relationship meme!

UHHHHH. So they aren't together, persay, but we can treat the business relationship like any other more significant type of relationship. Also C isn't mine so sorry if he's ooc.

Who starts most fights?

Both of them in a way. F is more likely to bring up an issue but C turns a discussion into a fight. It's probably something stupid.

Who is more likely to storm out during a fight?

F would get annoyed and leave but... F doesn't leave so probably C.

Who is more likely to cry during a fight?

Neither of them I don't think. Whatever they're fighting over it probably isn't worth tears.

Who surrenders at the end of most fights?

F usually. Whatever C wanted to do is worth fighting over, he usually justs lets it be.

Who is more likely to throw things in fights?

C. F is non violent. C is liable to grab the nearest object and toss it in a random direction to emphasize his point.

Who is more likely to bring up past mistakes?

F could make a whole folder of all the shit C has fucked up. He did, actually, and everytime C has a terrible idea he gets it out.

Who is louder in fights?

C, again F doesn't get agressive. If C needs to get his point across he'll yell.

Who is more likely to blame the other?

Depends on the situation. Either way neither of them are taking the blame.

Who is more likely to blame themselves?

Again, neither of them are taking blame.

Who is more likely to give the silent treatment?

They are both petty and will try and ignore one and other in hopes that that works somehow.

Who gets jealous more easily?

C weirdly enough. For some reason he doesn't like when F chooses to smoke with/bang K instead of him. He doesn't like F as anything other than a business partner and fuck buddy but he finds K's existence slightly threatening. He doesn't care if F goes on dates or dose stupid couple things with her it's on the drugs and sex he has an issue with. Perhaps he feels that because he values K's relationship more that everytime F dose something with her that he'd normally do with C, C feels unimportant? Who knows.

Who is angered more easily?

Both of them honestly. F can get really pissy when he's sober but C can blow things out of proportions.

Who is more likely to break off the relationship?

F has told C to leave before. He's told him it's over until C stops being an ass. That's probably the closest equivalent.

Who is more likely to threaten to leave?

C will threaten to "leave the operation" (ignore him for a day) and "snitch and go into witness protection" (tell Roger and move to a dorm furth away from F's) over a fight he started.

Who is more likely to actually leave?

F has other people to fill C's shoes. If he ever gets too much of an issue he'll abandon him, but the benefits of C outweigh the irritation.

Who is more likely to forget the other first?

I don't think they'll forget eachother. C might disregard the fiasco later in life as a weird first job, but F will probably be cursing whoever came to replace C. That and he'll miss the intimate moments. C is definitely one of rhe more skilled of F's boy partners and afterwards he isn't affectionate, persay, but he's the only one of F's hookups that'll let him stay the night with no drugs involved (I mean, they will be, because it's F, but they don't have to be)

#ask meme answers #F and C #ooc posts #I don't think the two like eachother enough but the idea of them cuddling is very cute #I need to sleep holy shittt #you can tell I am sleep deprived because of the minor hints of fluff #I find C and F's relationship to be incredibly funny #I feel like they are both conning eachother #like they are both sleezy business men and they are also both a very concerned individual listening to their shady practices #I don't know. tired. love these little guys

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𝙰𝙽𝙾𝙽𝚈𝙼𝙾𝚄𝚂 𝙰𝚂𝙺𝙴𝙳 : 20 & 21

20. HAS YOUR VIEW OF YOUR MUSE CHANGED WHILE WRITING THEM? : maybe a little ! maybe a lot ! it’s weird - i feel like a lot of what i started with of ginny has remained the same and that i wouldn’t enjoy writing her so much if those foundations had changed by alot, but a few things have definitely shifted ( and i think those shifts were for the better ). i don’t think anything changed in the sense of like... getting retconned or sent in a different direction with no explanation. i don’t think i reworked her in any significant way, actually. a lot of them feel like organic character development moments, and where i got with her is infinitely more interesting than if she’d been confronted with the same stuff and not evolved as a person at all.

the biggest example that i can think of ( and it’s something i used to talk about a lot ) was the connection to harry : when i started writing ginny, i did so under the idea that for ginny, harry was it. that if, like, true love existed or whatever, he was hers, and she was never going to love anyone like that again. i wrote ginny as believing that too, and i used to mention it in passing a lot and delve into it with lex and sam a lot, in private - ginny had accepted that she would probably be able to live a very long and fulfilling life, and that might have eventually included settling down with someone in a life partner sort of way, but she was never going to be in a long term romantic relationship again and she was never going to ‘replace’ harry like that, in her life. she felt like he was waiting on her, and she was definitely waiting on him. that changed, but it happened v naturally ! i started noticing how ginny herself was growing as a person and kind of... like... maturing ? the thought process itself started to look very naive to me and to ginny, and it was kind of fun to like. start with this idea so ingrained in her character and then see her learn that’s not how life and love and all that works in real time.

21. WHAT IS ONE THING YOU LOVE ABOUT YOUR MUSE & ONE THING YOU DISLIKE? : one thing i love about ginny is that she is. so stubborn. and so loving. and so defined by stubbornly loving everyone in her life with SUCH ferocity that she lets that eclipse everything else. i don’t get to talk enough about this, but she’s the type of character who would burn the entire world for one person, and given all of her other personality traits - and the fact that like, at her core, she IS a really good person - it adds this really important layer to her that i’m very obsessed with. i don’t think it comes across. but i think about ginny and her brand of loving so much. one thing i dislike is. i’m struggling a bit. but i’m gonna go with the fact that ginny as a character i think is more, like... quippy than i can manage. i think she’s probably snarkier and better with said snark than i can really capture as a writer, but i try<3 and that’s all i got<3 because i am a ginny weasley stan first and foremost<3

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proarbcanterbury1 · 1 year

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Tree Topping in Kaiapoi

Trees enhance the beauty of your home and landscape and add property value. They also help keep the community safe by reducing noise, pollution and lowering air pollution. Unfortunately, some homeowners and tree care practitioners promote a practice called Tree Topping. This method involves indiscriminate (internodal) cuts that are not made in relationship to the trees's health or structural integrity.

Cost

Trees are a beautiful addition to any property, they provide shade and privacy and help absorb excess CO2 in the air. Having trees on your property also improves the overall value of your home, so it’s important to keep them healthy and beautiful.

Tree pruning is a crucial part of keeping your tree happy and healthy. Professional arborists have the experience and expertise to properly prune your trees and keep them safe and beautiful.

However, there are a few things to consider before you begin pruning. The best way to find a qualified arborist in your area is by visiting the website of the national arborist association.

The cost of a professional pruning will depend on the size and type of tree. For example, a large oak or pine will require more work than a smaller twilight maple.

A professional tree Tree Removal Christchurch will know how to properly prune your tree without damaging it, so you’ll save time and money in the long run. Depending on the species of your tree, proper pruning will reduce its height, remove limbs that block views or interfere with utility wires and help your tree grow into the perfect shape it was meant to be.

Topping is when you cut off a tree’s top branches to reduce its height. Some people use this method when the tree is too tall for their taste, or if it is interfering with their views or utility lines.

The tree grows back rapidly in an attempt to replace the missing leaves and nutrients, but it’s hard for a topped tree to recover its original height. This results in a weaker, shorter, and more fragile tree that is vulnerable to disease and insect infestation.

Another dangerous effect of topping is that the resulting wounds make it easier for rot to spread. When this happens, a topped tree is at risk of falling and causing damage to your home, car or other structures.

Tree topping is a costly mistake, as it requires frequent trimming and removal of the shortened limbs. It can also create a safety hazard, as the weakened, unattractive branches are more likely to fall in a storm or cause injury to people and pets.

Benefits

Trees provide a great deal of shade, help with air Tree Felling Christchurch the look and feel of your home. They also help absorb excess CO2 in the atmosphere. As they mature, they need pruning to maintain their health and beauty. When trees get too tall, homeowners often choose to top them.

This practice involves removing large branches from the top of the tree, leaving the lateral limbs intact. The goal is to reduce the height of a tree without causing any damage to other parts of the structure or risking the safety of people or property around it.

Unfortunately, some homeowners and a few tree care professionals make the mistake of topping trees. They believe that by reducing the height of a tree, it will decrease the likelihood of it falling over in a storm. However, topping has many negative consequences that can result in long-term damage and even death of a tree.

First, a tree’s crown is damaged by topping. Topping removes a significant amount of leaf-bearing crown, which reduces the tree’s ability to photosynthesize and manufacture food. It also leaves wounds that are slow to heal and increase the likelihood of pests and disease forming on the tree.

Second, new limb growth that forms as a result of topping is weakly attached to the main branch. This makes regrowth more prone to breakage. This type of regrowth is often seen as dense and full but may be less attractive than the original branches that were removed.

Third, the exposed limbs are a potential safety hazard in a storm as they increase the chance of branches breaking. This is especially true when a tree is topped near a house or other structures where a fall could cause serious injury.

Fourth, the limbs are open to pest and disease attack since they are not enclosed by the main trunk or a protective canopy. This can lead to rot and other decay issues.

Trees can be a wonderful addition to your Kaiapoi property, but they should be properly cared for in order to remain healthy and safe. This is why it’s important to work with a knowledgeable and certified arborist when you need tree maintenance or tree removal services. The right professionals can offer a wide range of services and will be able to help you keep your trees in good shape for years to come.

Safety

Trees add a beautiful touch to your Kaiapoi property and are also essential to the environment. They help keep the air clean, prevent storms and provide shade for your family and friends. To keep your trees in good condition, call an arborist who can perform the necessary pruning and maintenance. A professional arborist is well-versed in reducing the height of trees and can advise you on how to do this safely.

A reputable tree service company in Kaiapoi, Canterbury, New Zealand will be able to assess the health of your trees and provide services to maintain them. They can prune and trim trees, remove hazardous limbs, prune hedges and shrubs and perform other residential tree services. They may also work with landscape contractors to create a seamless garden design. When choosing a tree service professional, look for one who is familiar with the local climate and plant life in your area. They will be able to tell you when it is safe to plant trees, where the best locations are and what type of tree care will be needed.

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alsjeblieft-zeg · 1 year

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085 of 2023

Have you dated both sexes?

No, only guys.

Who was your most painful breakup with?

My first ex.

How many exes do you have?

Two.

How many of your exes do you still talk to?

Just Nielsje. We’re still great friends.

Do you believe in breaks?

Like, on and off? Nope, don’t play with me.

Has anyone ever cheated on you?

Yeah, my first ex. He was doing it to make me feel worthless.

Have you ever cheated on a significant other?

No. I don’t see the point if I’m not interested in having sex even with my own husband.

In relationships, do you tend to be the clingy one?

Rather the opposite. I like my space.

What was the last dance you learned to do?

I don’t learn dances, why even.

Was the last movie you watched a sequel?

I don’t watch movies.

How long ago did you last text someone?

This evening, my dad.

Did they ever text you back?

Obviously.

When was the last time you went out for food? What did you get?

Last year, with friends in Brussels. I got waterzooi as usual.

When was the last time you were jet lagged?

Never. I’ve never changed the time zone.

Do any type of bugs ever come inside your house? What kind?

Yeah, the usual ones. Spiders, mosquitoes, flies.

Have you ever wanted to stay in a place forever? What was the place?

My hometown.

How long was the longest survey you ever took?

500 questions or so.

Do you think you’ll see the last person you kissed again?

He’s sitting next to me.

Has an ex recently come back into your life?

No, me and Nielsje never lost touch with each other.

Who is one person you wish you could talk to right now?

My sister.

What’s the last thing you lost? Did you find it yet?

One of my piercings, had to have it replaced.

Are you excited for anything in July?

Maybe it will be possible to visit my parents.

When is the next vacation you’re taking?

Hopefully in summer.

What’s one book you want to read?

There are too many on my list.

What’s the last shocking thing you heard?

That our Dutch neighbour was supposed to be arrested. They caught him.

Do you know anyone who is a homewrecker?

Not in person.

Has anyone ever said they love your accent?

Yeah, Nielsje. He’s Dutch, so our accents differ dramatically, even though we both speak the same language. He’s, like, the only Dutch person who doesn’t make fun of how we speak in West Flanders :D

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plistaffing · 1 year

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Is Temporary Staffing A Great Solution To Achieve Business Goals?

Using temporary staffing services to fill positions can be a great way to achieve your business goals. Not only does it save time and energy, it also saves money. This is because there is no longer a need for in-house human resources to do the hiring.

Job Satisfaction Metrics

Keeping your best employees satisfied is the biggest challenge for business owners. Tracking employee satisfaction metrics can help you understand how your workers feel about their jobs. It can also help you avoid employee churn. In addition, a happier workforce can lead to more dedicated customers, as people who enjoy their work are likely to be enthusiastic, energetic, and committed to their work.

Turnover is one of the biggest costs for any organization. Lower turnover leads to less disruption, greater cohesion, and greater productivity. But when a company's turnover rate is high, it can be a sign of overworked employees, high absenteeism, and even burnout.

Also, read about 4 Reasons Why Use Temporary Staffing Services

Reduces the Time It Takes To Fill a Position

Using a temporary staffing solution can help companies fill short-term positions, such as for major projects, or for seasonal or vacation needs. The benefits of this type of hiring method include flexibility, lower costs, and greater stability.

It can be difficult to determine how long a certain process will take. Fortunately, modern hiring software can help companies pull analytics from their data to provide real-time information about the hiring process. The time it takes to fill a position is a good metric to know for your business. It is also an important benchmark for planning and recruiting. It serves as a warning if the process is taking too long.

The time it takes to fill varies by position, department, and industry. For instance, a senior economist position may take 45 days to replace. However, if you hire a data scientist, it might take a month or more. In order to reduce the time it takes to fill a position, you should make sure you are tracking it and adjusting your processes accordingly.

Also, read about How Does a Temporary Placement Solutions Make Money?

Saves Time, Energy, and Money

Using temporary staffing is a great way to help you achieve your business goals. It can help you cut costs, avoid risks, and boost productivity. The advantages of using temporary workers are many, including the ability to fill scheduling gaps and a chance to try out a potential new hire. For small businesses, a full-time employee can be too expensive. They may lack the expertise to meet their company's needs. The upfront cost of hiring a new person can be more than offset by the savings in benefits and overhead costs.

The cost of training a new hire can be significant. In addition, a new employee will need time to develop relationships with other members of the team. On the other hand, a temporary worker can be brought in to supplement the workforce without requiring additional training or supervision.

Temporary staffing is a great solution if you need a temporary employee for a short period of time, such as a holiday season. In addition to saving money, this type of hire can be a useful way to assess a candidate's skills and attitude. So, it can be clearly defined that the use of Temporary Staffing is A Great Solution to Achieve Business Goals. Many businesses are taking the help of temporary staffing companies in Cleveland, Ohio.

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jeanfrancoisgeschwind · 2 years

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Jean-Francois Geschwind What You Need To Do If You Have Cancer

Jean-Francois Geschwind Expert tips provider. Cancer has become a common disease among many people in today's society. Cancer is caused by carcinogens, cancer causing agents in our very environment. Doing certain activities can expose people to more carcinogens than others, leading to a better chance of having cancer. The advice in this article will show you how to avoid cancer causing carcinogens.

Vitamin C is a natural enemy to cancer. Vitamin C tricks tumors into thinking they are getting sugar, which cancer cells feed on. When cancer uses vitamin C as an energy source, The vitamin begins to destroy cancer cells, thus slowing down their multiplication. In turn, the growth of tumors can be slowed down.

It is important to learn as much about cancer as possible when you are diagnosed with it. There are things that can be done to make the symptoms more manageable at times but you need to take the prerogative to learn what they are and incorporate them into your life.

If you have been diagnosed with cancer and are a smoker, you need to quit right away. The ingredients in cigarettes have been proven to have very bad side effects on the body and for someone that is battling cancer they can be very detrimental. It is important to quit as soon as possible to have a fighting chance against the cancer.

Here is a great tip that will help you prevent cancer. Filter any tap water that you plan on consuming. Tap water may contain many carcinogens, such as arsenic. A carbon filter attached to the faucet or a filter pitcher can remove these carcinogens from the water before you consume them, leaving you healthy.

Jean-Francois Geschwind Qualified tips provider. Try to avoid alternative and holistic remedies alone to fight cancer if you have it. Steve Jobs is a great example of holistic remedies failing. Medical professionals insist that modern medicine and surgery would have saved his life. It can save your life too, if you have cancer. Don't replace modern medicine with voodoo.

Eating a diet high in grapes can help you to prevent certain types of cancer. The polyphenols and resveratrol contained in grapes can help prevent the damage of cells and also the growth of cancer. You can receive the benefits of grapes by eating them whole or drinking juice, but avoid the concentrated stuff with added sugar.

Keeping a journal of what you hear from doctors and/or how you personally plan to fight the disease is a good idea. You can often become confused and especially discouraged when fighting cancer, so having some notes to refer to can help you remember the steps you had planned on taking to beat the disease.

If you have cancer, you will need help from many people. You should embrace them as part of your healing process. For example, you will meet a team of medical specialists and even other patients. You need people to support you through this fight, and you should do your best to establish good relationships.

Understand that individuals who are battling cancer will need some time to themselves. Respect their wishes and do not force your presence on them if they need time to reflect and relax. You can also help by giving other visitors a signal to leave when your friend is getting tired.

Drink pomegranate juice on a regular basis. Have at least 16 ounces a day for it to be effective. Pomegranate juice has a great deal of anti-cancer agents including polyphenols, isoflavones and ellagic acid. Several studies have shown a significant decrease in cancer risk and some studies even imply that it can slow cancer down.

Purchase mouthwash. Cancer treatment, including chemotherapy, will often cause you to form painful mouth ulcers. Mouthwash will help prevent these from occurring over time. Invest in a soft toothbrush as well, as regular tooth care can also impact the formation of mouth ulcers. These items will give you the added benefit of having fresh breath each day!

Get regular mammograms starting at age 40. Early detection is the best way to win the battle against breast cancer. If you are from a high risk family, you may want to discuss starting earlier than 40 for regular screenings. This is going to give you the best chance at beating it.

Many people do not think to protect their lips when they are out in the sun. No matter the season or the length of time you are going to be in the sun, take the time to apply lip balm. Be sure that the balm that you choose has a good SPF level to protect your lips.

It is important for women who are receiving cancer treatment to not get pregnant. Chemotherapy and radiation can cause serious birth effects in fetuses. If you are already pregnant and find out that you have cancer, your doctor may be able to find alternate treatments that are safe for you and your fetus.

Make time to go outside and enjoy the fresh air. Your cancer treatments may make it impossible for you to exercise, but spending time outside will help you feel refreshed and rejuvenated. If you can walk or participate in a light jog do that as well. Exercise is important to the healing process.

Take the initiative and learn as much as you can about your disease. Do not hesitate to ask your Doctor questions. The better you understand your disease the better you will be equipped for the battle of your life. Knowledge is power and the more you have the better!

It is important for cancer patients to know that there is financial help available. Going through cancer treatments may cause you to lose your job and leave you struggling financially. For instance, the American Cancer Society had offices throughout the country that can help you with making sure your bills are paid.

Jean-Francois Geschwind Skilled tips provider. As stated before, cancer is a common disease in today's society. Our own environment contains cancer causing agents, known as carcinogens. Some activities, such as cigarette smoking, can expose people to more carcinogens, increasing the chances of getting cancer. If you remember the advice in this article, you can avoid cancer causing carcinogens.

#Jean-Francois Geschwind

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