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Hey everyone, with all the hate that’s been posted lately in the “#pluralgang” hashtag, please do what you can to keep yourself and your system safe.
We recommend blocking any user who tags their posts both with “#pluralgang” and “#endos fuck off” or some variation of an endo hate tag. These people are desperate for negative attention, itching to start fights, and trying to build themselves up by tearing others down. It’s best to not engage with them at all, just block!
It’s extremely likely that these folks will eventually get bored and move on if we don’t give them the attention they’re looking for. The TikTokers who moved here are most likely just fishing for hate content to rack up views on their TikTok accounts anyway. Please look after yourselves and keep your systems safe from unnecessary harm!
And as a quick reminder, on this blog we love and support systems of all origins, no exceptions!! Y’all are real, you’re valid and lovely, and we promise you DO make the plural community a better place simply by existing in it.
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bardic-inspo · 15 days
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*takes your face and holds it tenderly*
You were not made just to suffer. You are more. You are so much more than your hardest moments. 💜
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xxlovelynovaxx · 7 months
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Remaking this post to be safe for all systems (because quite frankly gatekeeping positivity love and support just shows your true colors
to fictives who:
- absolutely despise their source, due to trauma or otherwise
- whos source is an active trigger for them
- who have separated from source due to issues surrounding source
- who cant see source the same ever again due to traumatic incidents
- who actively avoid fans of their source
- who enjoy their source but actively avoid the community
- who just generally dont like source
I love you. I understand. It's so hard but you'll get through it. Even if it's difficult.
I promise.
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cerebralabyss · 7 months
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“how was your day yesterday?”
see i would tell you but i actually can’t remember because i didn’t exist yesterday my buddy named Bill was living in my body for me and i don’t know what he did
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thelunastusco · 11 months
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In case any system out there needs to hear this:
We’re a system. We’ve been a system for over 30 years.
When we first began interacting with each other, before we had words for it, it was a bit murky. We were very young, and didn’t really understand not to talk about it. We were shamed and scared into silence. Things got really bad after that, for a long time.
Then we found a community, and words for what we were experiencing! And things started getting better! It took time, effort, and a lot of trial and error. It was sometimes stressful, sometimes scary. There are still some things we don’t understand, even after 10+ years of having words for those things and a community to talk to about it. But it did get better. And it’s no longer scary.
Being a system now is so much better. There’s so many more resources than there were even just five, ten years ago. There’s bots, and apps. It is becoming less stigmatized, slowly. And at this point, just within ourselves, we’re so much more comfortable and sure with ourselves. It’s just a natural thing, like blinking. We don’t even think about it a lot. We just are.
We love being a system. We love one another, fiercely.
And we wish the same for all other systems, and plural folk.
Keep existing. Keep communicating. Keep forming community, and asking questions. Stay curious. Forgive yourself (and/or other sysmates) for breakdowns, failures, and mistakes. Celebrate your successes and happy moments. Keep existing.
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fortheloveofpiggy · 7 months
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I want more system friends
Let’s be friends if:
You’re a traumagenic system
You’re a endogenic system
You’re a mixed origin system
You’re a fictive heavy system
You’re not a fictive heavy system
You’re a small system
You’re a large system
You’re a poly-fragmented system
You’re a system who has no idea how many members you have
If your fictives identity with their source
If your fictives don’t identify with their source
If your system has very distinct and formed alters
If your systems alters aren’t as formed or distinct
If you have lots of amnesia
If you have none to little amnesia
If you’re a neurodivergent system
If you aren’t a neurodivergent system
If you are a white system
If you are a black system
If you are a Hispanic/Latino system
If you are a Asian system
If you are a mixed system
If you are an indigenous system
If you are a poc system in general
If you have high support for your system
If you have low support for your system
If you have lots of communication in your system
If your system as low communication
If you are any form of system no matter how your system works copes and functions
Let’s be friends
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jellylich-collective · 5 months
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We're confused on why anti-endos seem to hate the idea of someone having headmates because they wanted to??? Like alters such as protectors, caretakers, and more are there to help the system, hence the name protectors and caretakers. If someone wants people like this in their head, why not just let them??? If it's helping them make their life better and less lonely, why get mad over it? BEING PLURAL DOESN'T HAVE TO BE COMPLETELY TRAUMATIC AND TERRIBLE!!
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suckmyarschkarte · 6 months
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"wooww!"
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disordered system culture is telling your therapist "we aren't plural, we made it all up" then realizing what you just said
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i saw a stupid post full of exclusionism and was. tired anyways shoutout to system members who are transfem, transmasc, transneutral, and/or any other trans modality i'm forgetting - whether it "matches" with the body or not we put up with so much bullshit sometimes
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bubblyaquarium · 2 months
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this is an official request for any and all systems / plural folk to info dump about their plurality to us
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i hope you as a system are able to get to a place someday where you're healed enough to unlearn your ableist behaviors regarding misinformation about system origin, since i understand its usually a coping mechanism/lack of education on the topic that leads people to support 'endos' /gen
lol this made us chuckle. it’s not a coping mechanism, it’s not a lack of education (we have studied dissociative disorders extensively), and it’s not ableist to… *checks notes* trust people to know what’s going on in their own bodies and minds?
you don’t really have any care for us and you don’t really care about our healing progress if you come into our inbox to spread hurtful messages like this. how about try to have some genuine, open-minded, thoughtful discussions with some actually endogenic systems so *you* can educate yourself a bit more?
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naarinn · 1 month
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It's so beautiful! Endo ate this
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theweebsystem · 11 days
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I love you endos
I love you tulpas
I love you non-traumagenics
I love you schizophrenic plurals
I love you psychotic plurals
I love you cluster B plurals
I love you plurals ❤️
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[ID: A black banner with a purple border and text that says "Sysmeds DNI". End ID]
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twiigthetwiink · 10 days
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protectors are like cats in the way that if they don’t vibe with you we don’t trust you anymore and also we adore them no matter how much of a bitch they are when they’re done with someone
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wxrmeaterz · 3 months
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so since discovering we have DID taking care of our 30+ plants has honestly been quite difficult and we've unfortunately neglected them a lot (thankfully none have died)
this is going somewhere i promise
do some other systems have tips to help cope with doing tasks? we have PDA so it would help if this advice is autism friendly!
-Mori (they/bun)
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