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seangelfish · 9 months

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Hi there!! I really like your Hypmic fics so far, they're truly amazing!!

So uhm.. can i request a headcanon for samatoki with a younger sister??

She's like in high school and has a little anxiety or depression.

You can add a little, short scenario at the end if you can! Thank you?

Thank you so much! I’m so excited to write more Hypmic fics!! o(≧▽≦)o I like this request a lot, and I love the Aohitsugi siblings. However, there might be some angst here because I actually want this to be realistic if he were to have an even younger sister. Tbh, I wasn't really sure how to write this, but I hope you enjoy reading anyway! ♡

Samatoki Aohitsugi w/ a younger sister

Genres/types: Headcanons (a bit of angst, fluff)

Word count: 1,810

Plot/summary: You’re Samatoki’s youngest sister, age 15/16, who still attends high school. Because of your brother’s line of work, you barely see him, resulting in neglect; and because of your older sister’s disappearance, you’ve developed depression. Being in this family pains you, but Samatoki tries to make it up to you.

UPDATE: Rewrote some stuff. I felt like I wrote this too much like a story than actual headcanons, sorry!

— You're his youngest sister, his only family left. The day Nemu went missing, he became even more protective of you. Because he's an infamous yakuza and leader of MAD TRIGGER CREW, he does his best to keep you hidden. He doesn't want to take the risk of having any of his enemies find out about your existence.

— As a result, you barely see him. Sure, he calls and texts you everyday and sends you money to take care of yourself, but it's just not the same. You used to share this apartment with Nemu, but she's no longer here with you anymore, so it feels even more lonely.

— Everyday is the same. He texts you good morning if he's too busy to call. You eat breakfast by yourself. You walk yourself to school. When the school day is over, you return home to be greeted by silence. You cook dinner for yourself, knowing that there's no one to share it with. Then Samatoki would call you to ask you how you are, to wish you goodnight.

— Some nights, you'd cry yourself to sleep. By time, you've developed depression. Living like this took a huge toll on you. Sometimes you'd stay outside late, worrying your older brother when you won't pick up his calls. You don't do much outside anyway. You just sit by the river, taking in the fresh air.

— Samatoki is always thinking of you though. He wonders what you’re doing, whether you’re holding up. He always looks forward to calling you. He loves listening to your voice.

— But every second of the day, your mind would flashback to the time when the three of you Aohitsugi siblings were together, when Samatoki would ruffle your hair, when Nemu would hug you. You missed those times so much.

— So you looked forward to your brother's calls too. He'd call you at exactly 8 in the morning and at night. You'd sit by your phone waiting for it to ring.

"Hey, (Y/N). How are you doing? How's school today? Are you eating well?"

"Yes, I'm fine, nii-chan. I've cooked myself tonkatsu for dinner today."

"Haha, that's good. As long as it isn't instant noodles. Ah, I wish I could eat dinner with you."

You were silent for a while before saying, "Then eat dinner with me."

"(Y/N), you know I can't—"

"Nii-chan, I can't stand this anymore!" you cry. "I miss you so much. I miss nee-chan too. It's so lonely here... I just want to eat breakfast with you, I want you to greet me when I come home from school, and I want us to cook dinner together! Why can't I just have a normal life with you? I understand why you've made your choices, but I hate how it has come to this."

Samatoki flinches at your words because he understands how you're feeling, but because of his line of work, he just can't be there for you physically.

"(Y/N), I'm sorry... there's nothing that I can do," he says softly.

"...I know."

— But he also knows that he can't just leave you alone like that. He's been having these thoughts linger in the back of his mind for weeks, months even. It was fine leaving you alone before since you had Nemu with you, but Samatoki knows he can't leave you stranded for any longer. To make matters worse, he knows you have depression, so he tries his best to supply you with the best medication and calls you everyday, facetimes you when he isn't busy too.

— After that interaction with your brother, you've stopped picking up his calls on time. This worries him a lot. He knows that you've been doing this before, but he's even more anxious now that you've poured your heart out to him. You haven't picked up your phone for what seems to be ten minutes, but he's already running around Yokohama trying to find you.

"(Y/N)!" he yells.

"Nii-chan...?" you say, looking up at the tall figure from the bottom of the hill.

Samatoki is relieved to see that you're okay. He runs down the hill and embraces you into a tight hug. You return the hug without hesitation as he strokes your hair gently.

"Stop wondering around at night," he hisses. "I was so worried."

You bury your head in his chest. "Sorry" was the only word you could say.

He shakes his head. "No, I should be sorry... I was trying to protect you, but I never really thought about how this would impact you. I wish Nemu was here... she'd know what to do."

"Mhm, I wish that too."

He sighs, still embracing you, never wanting to let you go. Despite the fact you were 15/16, he still thought of you as the child he had to spoon-feed, the child he had to put into bed. In his eyes, you were still that little kid that would pester him to read you your favourite bedtime story.

"(Y/N), I can't live with you the way we both want to," he states. "But I will try to visit you more often. I promise you."

You're not sure how he's going to do that, but he never breaks his promises, so you agree.

— The next time you leave school, he's there waiting outside the gates for you. You didn't recognise that it was him at first due to the stupid disguise he decided to wear, but you were happy to see him nevertheless.

"Nii-chan!" you exclaim, jumping into his arms. "You're here!"

"Yep, I'm here," he says, hugging you back.

— So, that's his plan. From then on, Samatoki hangs out with you in his disguise. He still can't live with you in your apartment as he doesn't want to take the risk, but he's willing to make up for all the lost time by taking you to eat breakfast outside, by picking you up after school, and when he is feeling a little bit risky, he just MIGHT join you for dinner.

"Nii-chan, this is how you cut carrots. Watch carefully, okay?"

"Yes, sensei!"

The two of you prepare the table with the food you have cooked together. You say your thanks before digging in.

"This looks good," Samatoki compliments, pinching your cheek playfully. "You really do know how to cook."

"You should give yourself credit, nii-chan. You helped too!"

He laughs and you follow suit. It's nice to finally eat dinner with him under the same roof. Even if you only have this hour with him, it really feels like you're living a normal life for once.

— He notices how you're a lot happier these days, and this makes him happy too.

– He cares more about your depression than you do. Of course, you were taking care of yourself more than before, but he is frantic about your wellbeing.

"You're taking your meds everyday, right?" he asks. "Make sure you don't miss a day."

"Nii-chan, you're always reminding me anyway," you say. "I'm taking them, don't worry."

– He's surprisingly affectionate, not only with his words, but with his actions too. He likes wrapping his arm around you and ruffling your hair. Nowadays, you see him twice or thrice a week, so he'd hug you during those times too. He never misses an opportunity to kiss your forehead either. You were his dear sister that he loves.

"I love you."

"I love you too, nii-chan."

— He's always so busy leading his subordinates and taking care of Yokohama, but he always looks forward to spending his time with you.

– Since he is able to see you more often nowadays, he's always trying to find a gift for you. He knows you so well that he ends up getting you something you really like.

– Morning and nighttime calls have improved since then too. He'd talk about what he has done with the other members of MTC like how Rio keeps offering him his cooked food. You'd laugh at his stories for which he enjoys your laugher.

– For nighttime calls, he'd stay on the line until you fall asleep. He just wants you to actually go to bed on time.

– Yet when you do hang out in person, he'd take you shopping and you'd eat out together too. You'd force him to try out the family activities Yokohama has to offer. He has to admit that it was pretty fun.

– Whenever he's with you, all he wants to do is spoil you, and because of his status, he is able to do so. He'll give you anything you ask for, no questions asked.

– Because of your age, you don't want to hold hands with him, but he kind of wishes that you did. He reminisces the days when he'd hold your hand when you were younger alongside Nemu too.

— He only wants to see you smile, to be truly happy. He promises you that he'll find Nemu, and that he'll continue to give you the best life he could never have. This time, he'll be there for you in the flesh, to wipe away your tears, to hold you like he used to when you were just a kid.

— Because you're his youngest sister, his only family left after all.

[Extra]

You woke up to the doorbell ringing. As you approached the front door, you checked the peep hole to see who it was. It was the delivery man. You opened the door for him and you were suddenly presented a big bouquet of flowers.

"Order for (Y/N) Aohitsugi," the delivery man states.

"Yes, that's me," you say, astonished at how big the bouquet was.

He hands it over to you, wishing you a good day before taking his leave. You stand there for a while, speechless. You were brought back into reality when your phone began ringing.

Closing the door, you brought the flowers into the kitchen where you placed them on the table. Before you picked up the phone, you caught a glimpse of a card attached to the flowers' stems, it read:

'Happy birthday, (Y/N).

Love, your big brother, Samatoki.'

You beamed happily. So, these were from Samatoki! Of course they were! You were so infatuated with the flowers he had gotten you, you had forgotten to pick up the phone.

"Sorry, nii-chan! I just got your flowers. They're so pretty. Thank you so much!"

"Haha, I'm glad you like them," he says, and you could even hear the smile he has on his face. "Happy birthday, (Y/N). You're 17 now, right? You're growing up so fast, you better calm down."

You laugh at this, and so does he.

"I love you," he continues. "I'll see you later, okay?"

"Yes, nii-chan. I can't wait to see you today!"

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todayisawthewhxlewxrld · 3 months

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I was just doing my nightly routine of “sad emo depressed “you can’t fix a broken heart”🖤🥀” music so I can sleep like a new born baby

Me after my “sad emo depressed “you can’t fix a broken heart”🖤🥀” music

And then it occurred to me that these two songs are so insanely Y/N and Megumi coded I feel the need to explain it right now.

I just threw out the love of my dreams - weezer:

This is Y/Ns literal anthem idec. Sure to me when I just listen to the song I typically feel like it’s more about a breakup since it says “I just threw out the love of my dreams” and “want for him to stay” as in hes leaving bc they aren’t tgth anymore but flip it and reverse it and you get a whole new meaning, if you focus on different words. The first line imma focus on is “never before have I felt this way” well we know that for a fact Why Enn(Y/N I’ll do anything but call Y/N Y/N these days‼️)is literally emotionally constipated like she’s unable to work out why they feels the way they do because they’ve never felt that way before about anyone, esp someone they’re meant to hate. And let’s go back a little to the start of the song when it says “I’m so tall can’t get over me I’m so low can’t get under me” and “I must be made of steel” they also really represent Why Enn and again, they’ve been emotionally inept thus far, they’re a stubborn person and they stand their ground, people can’t move them yk? And then the “for I just threw out the love of my dreams” if we take this in a new light, look at it differently, Why Enn knows deep down they like megumi but they refuse to admit this fact and that’s leading to complications in their current relationship which could COULD ultimately wedge a gap between them. Also the “even though my love is a world a way” is kinda megumi coded bc Why Enn be so delusion I think they be living on planet zog Gaddamn🙏😭

I don’t smoke - Mitski

Again, the meaning of this song is absolutely not this, but idk music is music and I’d be damned if it wasn’t up for interpretation. Anyway this song is the EPITOME of megumi for many reasons, first the most obvious part of the song “if you need to be mean be mean to me” this is megumi coded bc he literally didn’t care WHAT Why Enn did to him so long as they acknowledged him, he also just wanted to help them the best he could. Another part of this song is “being with you makes the flame burn good” again, so megumi, bc as I already mentioned he would do anything at one point so long as they acknowledge him. Another line, tbh all of them show the same thing bc that’s kinda what the song is about “you can lean on my arm as you break my heart” again, being told by the “love of your life” (quotes bc at this point it wasn’t set in stone) to not play a joke on them is pretty painful but he still took it and literally bounced back yk like a king🙏🙏

Okay anyway i think this should be more of a message to me bc instead of putting this much analysis into a song why don’t i do this for my literature revision‼️‼️🤣🤣🤣🙁 sorry for the long ask I needed to get this out into the world (or onto smth just out of my head)

BAE BAE BAE BAE COLLAPSES TO MY KNEES AND HAS A HEART ATTACK OH MY GODDDD UR FUCKING MIND????? THE WAY THESE R SO ACCURATE ??? i adore u . i adore when people psychoanalyze and assign characters or situations songs i’m going to eat ur brain . i was hyped and nodding and agreeing the whole time i was reading this… thank u…

#axel answers ☆⋆｡𖦹°‧★#axel answers// abi

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teenage-mutant-ninja-freak · 11 months

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Can we have some headcannons of mob Mikey having and raising a child with him? I seen that you had one for mob Donnie and it was amazing

Thank you so much! And gosh my mob! Donnie one was like 2 years ago, I can't believe people still read my old stuff, wow.

Having and raising a kid with mob! Mikey

He's shocked when you tell him you're pregnant, Like really shocked.

"Are we ready for this?"

But the fear very quickly turns into excitement

He becomes a little obsessive about the biological side of it

how a baby is you and him mixed together into a person, what could be more special than that?

Becomes protective of you almost to a fault,

won't let you drive anywhere, won't let you go out alone, gets super involved in your diet and starts telling you how you can't even drink decaf coffee because it could still hurt the baby

You are being controlled well and truly

but you get it, this baby is his everything along with you, he wants to make sure the both of you are safe and healthy

but you still need to do something about him

You have to sit him down and tell him to back the fuck off a little

he's thrown, completely

"I just need us to do what's best for the baby!"

"While you still drink and smoke and can go outside the house?? I feel like I'm living in a cage, Mikey!"

That really snaps him out of it

but also depresses him a lot

he remembers what it's like to live in a cage, he's actually quite hurt by what you said

you end up saying sorry and so does he, he's a lot more relaxed after that

you still see the occasional pained look when he sees you cooking eggs and you have to remind him that the baby is fine and so are you!

Oh when the little kid arrives...

He's practically a changed man

I mean, he's not as hostile to people, he's not as willing to start fights, he even talks about getting out of the business with his brothers

"How am I supposed to take care of a kid if I'm doing time?"

his crazy unhinged side is still there, but it's transformed into a dad unhinged crazy side.

Like the weird and wonderful games he comes up with to play with the kid

He's truly a gifted father, can go a little too far though

saw a kid pull his kid's hair on the playground and you saw him reach for his gun

you didn't need to say anything, he remembered he can't just kill a 3 year old for being a 3 year old but he's so damn ready to throw down for you and that baby.

#mob! mikey #mob mikey #the mob! boys #the mob boys #mob! dads #mob dads #mob! kids #mob kids #mob! mikey hc's #mob mikey hcs

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youre-ackermine · 1 year

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1. gun to your head, you gotta save one of them and the other's going to die : levi or hange? 😈

2. who's your fave metal band/artist of all times, and which type of metal do you enjoy most?

3. how do you handle hange's fate most days and does it vary? are you more Team Denial or have you accepted it because you think it's a fitting ending for their character, or anything in between?

yeah i'm curious and i can't sleep either hehehe

Krikkit 🙂

Thanks for asking ! Sorry to reply so late, but I finally fell asleep earlier than expected 😴

*****

1/ I should have known you would ask a tricky question like this, you evil moot lmao !!

[speaking of canon characters here] According to my preferences -even if I almost love both of them equally by now- you could fairly expect me to choose Levi, but I would save Hange ! [Disclaimer : me not saying Levi's life is not valuable, don't misinterpret my words, people, please & thank you]

Besides Hange's fighting skills, their brains still have so much to offer to Humanity after war, in terms of progress, knowledge, improvement, technology, based on their scientific experimentation & enthusiastic curiosity. Their kindness & heartwarming sunshine personality would spread positivity & comfort around them as well, helping those close to them cope with their griefs & heal their emotional wounds. [But this would be so cruel, as I imagine they would mourn Levi for years & -secretly- hate me so much for choosing them over him 😭😭😭]

2/ My musical tastes are basically goth (mainly old school lmao) & metal since I was 12 yo. As far as metal is concerned, I used to listen to Rammstein & Marilyn Manson A .F*CKING .LOT !!

But as I grow older, my interest focuses on Black Metal, especially Satyricon [Dark Medieval Times & Nemesis Divina are my all times fav BM albums] & I recently experienced musical epiphany thanks to @stellar-smth 's advice : I literally fell in love with the Swiss band BORGNE omg I love their music so much !! If someone is interested, I can send the link to my Spotify playlist 🤘

3/ Oh my, this one pierces right through my kokoro 💔 I DON'T handle their fate AT ALL, I can't ! The more we get close to March 3rd, the more I get depressed. After reading chapter 132, I cried for 2 full hours at least, I couldn't stop, even after re-realizing they were a fictional character. So when I'll watch the animated scene...

I'd say I'm somewhere in between. The way Hange sacrifices themself of their own free will to save their comrades - & thus humanity- totally fits the character imo. It's no surprise they follow their convictions & beliefs until the very end. Once again, I'll say they are the real hero of the story as they SAVE EVERYBODY ELSE'S ASS for f*ck's sake !!!

On the other hand, I wish they could survive the Rumbling & live a peaceful life with Levi 💚💜😢 So I'm more than often Team Denial & read so so much fics where they're both alive & happy together, I also focus on what happened during the 4 years time lapse in the story [mainly Levihan working together, lovingly taking care of their growing brats together, increasing their bond/love just being together all the time & so on & so forth, Levihan living rent free in my mind 24/7 tbh] Also : Hange is the most underrated character in snk, even more than Levi, & we need a f*cking back story for them please I'm on my knees begging you Isayama 🛐

*****

I hope you finally fell asleep, I don't know how you can survive your long shifts !!

Thanks for passing by, always a pleasure to see Krikkit in my notifs ❤️

Mwah kith 😘

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BONUS : RANDOM SHIT

The two dorks Valentine's Day gifts they found for each other [just to cheer up the mood]

Since I'm also a dork, here's a Levihan kiss 💚💜

#val has mail 💌#random asks ❓#lovely moots 💕#krikkit 🔥#this is krikkit 🔥#aot spoilers #snk spoilers #attack on titan spoilers #hange zoe #levihan

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gynandromorph · 10 months

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Hi more Jessie questions,

Thanks a lot for the 'powers are what you can write' post, that's let me wrap my head around the power a lot more. It's not so much about something being impossible to do, it's about it being impossible to write. That being said, Jessie can create life or at least a feasible simulacrum of life. What happens if Jessie goes 'this is a 100% identical copy of me who would think and act the same way I would in any given situation'? Is there an upper limit to that? Because it's easy to write 'And then the 8000 or 9000 Jessies rolled up into a ball and went to fuck your mother' but since this is a comic, authorship has both a written and visual component. I think even the best artists have a balking limit of how many figures they want to draw interacting in space together (I am not an artist, so if I am wrong please say). Alternatively, would Jessie even allow a copy of herself time to know it is alive (cus I can tell you if I could make a copy of myself with no consequences I'd kill it just for kicks)?

And,

This is less a Jessie question and more a question about the Ants, that being how does the Ant cult work? The Ants have a connection to God that is closer than any religion in history ever did. Do they take advantage of this? Like do the Ants go directly to God to ask about problems, or is that seen as rude? Do the Ants take personal moral stances on what Jessie does, or do they assume that what Jessie does is good? One of the main reasons that I started worshipping the Gods is because they are capricious petty assholes who care more about saving face than doing the right thing. That humanness spoke to me. Would people in-universe worship Jessie for her extremely flawed use of the power of divinity? Would this worship be separate from the Ant cult, or would the Ant cult accept others as part of its fold?

And,

I'm sorry if these asks are too long, but your work seriously gets into a craw of my brain that nothing has ever crawed into before. I read through all of Fresh Meat in a depressive haze the other night and loved it. My mind's response to self-harm thoughts is now Lupe's speech about how cutting is addictive. I'm reading through Dropout right now and fucking loving it. I know Catharsis isn't done yet but I want to say what's out right now has really helped me. The way you write the interaction between Felix's mind and meatspace has made me realize enough about my mind that I'm trying to get in contact with a Nuropysch to get some testing done. It helped me realize that talking in your head with the people there is dissociating, and that's what I've been doing for a lot of my life. I hope Catharsis will be completed, but even if it isn't, I want you to know that I'm very grateful for the stuff you've put out there so far. All the stuff you make is fucking great. Straight up. Jessie is the vector for the craw as well, and the Jessie questions are so long cus I have a lot of thoughts in my head about her and your work and everything! Please keep creating. You create fantastic art.

Yes, the story explores imagination and its limits. We often think of our imaginations as unlimited, but that is an illusion produced by our own ignorance. A lot to unpack here.

Jessie can easily create copies of herself. They would come more intuitively than writing other characters, if they were pure replications of herself, because they require no extra thought. She would never make a copy of herself without drastic contingencies to make it subservient to her and prevent the copy from being able to overpower her or override the restrictions placed upon her powers — essentially, this would be a different character who looks like her more than a clone, at that point.

The thing about art is that it does not need to be literally true — only believable. No need to draw 9,000 Jessies, as 1,000 would likely not even fit onto one page. The illusion of 9,000 Jessies is all that is necessary.

A fun little fact is that Jessie doesn't know that is in a comic; she just doesn't think much of it. For all she knows, the visuals around her are imaginings in the head of someone reading a written book, or even in her own head. She only thinks of herself as in a written novel, even though she is open to the idea that the story is part of a larger medium, such as a movie or comic

For the cult: only the leader is an ant; the cult itself is an open religion and mixed-species. I'm thinking of calling them the Original Character Society or the Book Club at the moment... Something alluding to the fictional story element.

That said, no one would bring their personal problems directly to Jessie unless they had something even worse than a death wish. Jessie is a patently unhinged God, and, despite the cult's best effort to understand her and make their exchanges with her predictable, clearly unable to be predicted.

Unlike an invisible, unreactive God, Jessie is conscious, and can change her actions based on observation and prediction, like any person. She can intuit how she is expected to react and actively choose a different behavior intentionally — and she often does.

She has given them kid gloves to be handled with through Twiddler's reappropriation, and to encroach on her personal time and space on one's own terms instead, likely in the hopes of getting better results, is a cascade of transgressions begging for judgment.

The cult does interact with her directly, but largely first when it is small, and looking for her permission to exist, in a time when she is feeling strain on her relationships; or when she personally decides to engage with them. Its primary function as it grows larger is grooming members who want things from her to interact in successful ways by studying her behavior, keeping track of her moods, documenting which prayers she answers, forming scripts (later congealed into liturgy) to indirectly pray to her, and nurturing a positive image of her.

Due to the cult's primary function being successfully obtaining benefits from Jessie, liking her as a god is not necessary. I think there are many selfish members who think the world would be better off without her, but want things, and will gladly grovel for them if it's likely to work. Like any religion, there are a variety of opinions about Jessie, with some being positive, apathetic, horny, sycophantic, hateful, etc. The official position of the sect itself is not necessarily that everything Jessie does or says is good, but it is always true — this is specifically said as what she does is always "right." It's assumed by default what she does is good, but Jessie herself can say things she's done are bad, and that would be TRUE, canonically. I personally imagine that most opinions of her are not positive in the cult — either neutral or negative.

There are very likely some odd worshipers outside of the cult, but I would consider them casual worshipers, mostly invoking Jessie as a symbol or idol more than as an actual god who can respond to them.

Glad my work could help. Keep in mind that all people can have dialogues in their head — it's why "parts work" and inner family systems therapy works for people with or without dissociative parts. Like most mental illnesses, DID and other major dissociative disorders are simply normal brain functions which have veered to some extreme that has become dysfunctional or detrimental. I do hope that your testing is elucidating, but doctors in such a field are extremely prone to error, so don't give up on your gut instincts if they persist.

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lilisouless · 3 months

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Also you're not a failure, don't think that way, I may understand how you're feeling as I'm currently failing uni bc of depression, but you're not a failure okay, and your job position doesn't measure your worthiness to live, there is so much else in life than work. I'm sure your family doesn't care about this as long as you're alive and healthy that's all that matter, you're still young, you will have plenty job opportunities later on, and you still have time to find your passion, (also I'm sorry to say this but that psychiatrist was a massive prick and totally wrong I don't know where they got that degree...) but my point is, it's sometimes difficult to find something in which you're passionate about or really talented but you will don't worry, keep trying new things or maybe sometimes you will randomly start something you never considered or thought about, bc of coincidences in your life, something far from anything you might have expected and it will be great and you will love it like nothing else before. But until then you should not stress yourself about this, you don't need a "true calling" to enjoy your life, and pressure to find it is no good, there is plenty of things to enjoy, also the discovery and the journey is really such an awesome part of life, you don't need a big meaning to live, sometimes the most important are the small moments and small things so no need to beat yourself up

Also as your mental health is no good, you should allow yourself the time to breathe and rest bc if you're not feeling okay, you might not realise how something makes you passionate or not, it's hard to feel passionate when you feel like everything is wrong, even something you used to really enjoy can seem dull, so take care of yourself, and you'll see as you'll get better, your mind will clear and it'll be easier for you to think about what you truly want to do, as a job or passion. Take times to try new things you didn't have the opportunity before, new hobbies, anything you want, without any pressure of results or success, but just bc you want to. Really prioritise your well being and things will fall into places, don't worry. So no pressure about any of this, just take one step at a time, just live day by day, breathe and rest, see your friends, your family, take a walk outside, whatever can help you but your recovery is not a to do list, it should not feel pressuring or stressful, just take your time and you will get there, you will get better, I'm sending you all my support and wishing you the best, you're not alone, we're with you, I'm with you ❤️

first of, thank you for taking the time to write all of that for me. I didn't respond right away because i didn't have the energy to read all and the two weeks left was because i was busy with something that needed to be solved to make me calm down (my posts here were on breaks) . But i was set on a response as soon as i felt fine, i really hope you are right about me finding my real passion, i sometimes do get a feeling of emptiness about it, so i really thank you want to make me feel better.

Also, i hope you feel better for your uni situation, i had a school terapist seen me (not the one i mentioned on the post) but i don't know if you are that lucky, i hope you can either recover or feel better so you could go on and heal ❤

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galaxywarp · 2 years

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sitting in the bathtub at 11 in the morning and feeling a random burning desire to say something I’ve been wanting to say for awhile

most of you already know that im in recovery from a severe fentanyl/heroin addiction. as of today, im over 2 and a half years clean from it

but. It hasn’t been the only drug I’ve struggled with. and after dropping noncommittal hints about it for months im randomly feeling brave enough to admit that I was using meth for a long time after getting off of fentanyl to combat the withdrawal symptoms

and …. It’s only recently that I’ve been able to make real strides towards getting off of that as well

and I’m kind of tired of pretending this problem doesn’t exist, because it makes it so much harder to reach out for help when I need it, and it leads to me isolating and keeping secrets that ultimately just keep me sick

meth helped a lot when I first started , you know? The physical symptoms of fentanyl withdrawal were complete agony, but the mental affects were also excruciating. I was so depressed. Constantly sad. Constantly tired. No motivation whatsoever to even be alive — I could barely take care of myself as far as eating and sleeping, but I still had to work and finish my degree and PRETEND like I didn’t want to die all the time so that loved ones wouldn’t worry

and then I found meth. and suddenly I had energy!!! I could do things again! I was productive and sociable and enjoying even remedial tasks!! Everything felt great and it was easy, for awhile, to successfully pretend like I was back to being a functional human being

until it stopped working. and it started hurting. and I didn’t sleep for weeks, and my brain went on the fritz from how much I was exhausting and abusing the chemicals it needed to be stable. I fell into trances where I would self harm for hours on end. I would freak out and cry until I threw up. I cycled between being totally catatonic and insanely energetic. And my mind and body suffered a lot of damage that I tried to deny was happening because I was terrified of facing whoever it was that I was without drugs.

It had been so long, so many years…I was so scared of being sober when I had spent so much time hiding inside the familiar numbness of drugs. I didn’t know how to exist without them. I didn’t know if I could

But here we are. Here I am. Almost a solid month clean from it all. And I feel ……. Good. I feel stable. I feel genuinely content most days, and it’s such a blissful thing to know that it’s truly how I feel and not being artificially fabricated by some drug.

I’m sorry for hiding this for so long. I was scared and ashamed, and I didn’t want to admit to anyone — including myself — that addiction is not something I have “gotten over”, but instead it’s going to be a lifelong struggle with ups and downs and setbacks and imperfections

but ..that’s what it means to be human, I suppose.

if you read this, thank you for listening.

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inessencedevided · 2 years

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Hey there (an update)

So in my last post I called my recent absence from tumblr an "unofficial hiatus" and it honestly made me realise for the first time that I'd just kinda up and vanished a few ... months ago (i think? At this point?) And I owe whoever cares enough to have noticed an explanation

So for a time now, I haven't been feeling well. Sometime during the hight of the pandemic, things started going downhill with my mental health. It was pretty gradual and slow and not exactly linear so for a time i found it easy to ignore. Sure, the bad days outnumbered the good but i was still functional, i did my work and all that and i even found some joy in fandom spaces, so it couldn’t have been that bad right?

Wrong. I'll spare you the details but around march/april of this year the "functioning" bit and the "found some joy" bit ceased being true and i was in a depressive episode for some weeks during which my biggest achievement was just making it through to the other side

Things got better. I found a therapist (turns out I've got depression triggered by burn out), I got the deadlines on my univeristy papers extended, i tried to take breaks (that's fucking hard), i tried changing my habits and to give myself time (that's harder), i went on a solo trip to ireland (about a month ago. worth every penny and so needed).

It was honestly an unconscious decision, but I think I also needed to take a break from tumblr and online fandom in general. For a while, I could not feel joy at the things that used to be my bright spots on dark days. interacting with them and not feeling that just reminded me of how empty I felt in general. It made me feel afraid that I'd lost something vital to myself and so I avoided fandom altogether

Again, it wasn't a conscious decision but still, I now regret that I didn't at least write this message way earlier to tell the people I've met over this website that I'd be gone for a while. I've met so many great people here and sometimes even worked with them on fandom projects and I'm very sorry I abandoned those friendships for a while (if you think this might be directed at you, it is!)

Going forward, I will still be less active than I used to be. I'm still recovering and I've noticed that offline activities (mostly just taking long-ass walks and sewing) are more conductive to my mental health than online stuff, especially because I'm working on my degree again and that already means I've got a lot of screentime each day. But I won't be completely MIA anymore

If you've read this far, thank you! Feel free to shoot me a message. Even if it takes me a few days to answer, i promise i will! 💚

#personal #sophie rambles #blog stuff

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tbh-entp · 10 months

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Hi I really need ur help. I’m an entp and I already suffer from overthinking and shit (I don’t know if it’s normal for us entp to do that but yeah:)” anyways since the summer of 2020 I went through emotional abuse because I was stupid enough to stay in a toxic relationship for too long with my ex he gaslighted the shit out of me and betrayed me (it was an 8 year long friendship before it happened) . I went through a depression and I think that I was traumatized because I’ve never been this low in my life. Long story short I literally doubt every single choice I do, I feel like disorganized you know I don’t know how to come back to my normal mindset you know the confident one who don’t overthink and just has good ideas. I literally overthink everything like every single thing actions I do and thoughts I get and I don’t even know why I think I’m starting to fall into a depression again and losing myself again because of this. From a fellow entp to another If u know anything about how we work or anything about a loop or anything what dows it sound like because I don’t know shit right now I’m anywhere but in the moment and It frightenes me but I can’t do much about it. I literally overanalyze every single thing and can’t get rid of it. Every anxious thought I get is creating another to a chain where I don’t even know what the problem is. Thank u If you’ve read this far :( xxx

Hi! I'm sorry you're going through this. And I'm sorry it's taken me so long to answer! My inbox always has stuff in it and I don't answer nearly enough of them.

No one deserves to go through emotional abuse, and I'm happy for you that you're out of this relationship! It can be such a destabilizing thing as well to be out of a relationship as well, especially given how long it lasted.

I haven't dealt necessarily with what you did, but I have had a nice share of depression and trauma during the covid years. (I became very scared all of the time essentially... and I'm still unlearning this) I've learned some things from my experiences, though I'm certain that there are more and maybe some more fitting ones for you.

The main thing is just to be kind to yourself.

Now when I'm sad or struggling to do things, I'm just like ok, treat-yoself, it's a sleeping day. And I let it be without forcing myself to act like I'm doing better and also trying not to feel worse for not being at 100% (or even 50%) every day. Forgive yourself.

I try to give myself high-fives for even the smallest things that I accomplish. (I drove recently, and I rarely drive these days (esp in the country I live in) and I was scared, and I did it, and I'm proud!) (I sent an email that was freaking me out, and I'm proud!)

Find someone to talk to also maybe-- feel free to message me if you want. But when I was alone during covid, I got into the habit of leaving voice messages. So even talking to yourself could be helpful. Or writing also!

Pay attention to what you like and enjoy for when you're really feeling down. I have a list that I keep on my phone--sometimes I'm really blurred up and I don't remember to look at it. But sometimes I do remember to check the list, and it reminds me to put on the Great British Baking Show or Taskmaster, or maybe take care of my plants-- this really helps reground me to myself and what i enjoy purely.

If you can afford it, therapy is the thing these days. (But as someone who couldn't afford it for so long (especially because it can be hard to find the right therapist), it's very doable to make changes without it)

Also taking some time to breathe and pause and smell the air is great too. I'm crap at meditation but I do some stretches sometimes and it's good for the brain.

This is what I got! But you deserve love from both yourself and other people.

Sending all of my love xx

#wildly due to covid i became very afraid of death #which i knew many people who passed #and i was living very far away from home in a country where i didn't speak the language and alone #also the blm movement was going on (which i'm black #and this affects me a lot)#and also the 2020 election in the US #and so mentally lol i was wil'n #i put a lot of effort now into facing my fears though to overcome this fear of suddenly dying #but ya lol i was on a stand up paddle two weeks ago #just sitting (someone else was paddling) and i'm sitting there shaking like a madman #and to think that i was struggling to go outside to going to being on a stand up paddle three years later #it's not even that risky but i'm scared of so much stuff now #and i'm proud of this #answered #tw: depression

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pjisskullourful · 2 years

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Warning : Long ass comment, but fucking necessary!

“Use me” has made an impact in my mind , big time.

I love the storyline, you are not afraid to tell a real vulnerable story where serious mental health is discussed and smutty love is being made.

Here are some of the best parts and why:

“before somewhat composing himself to come at you with another ‘hear me out…’ the conversations you set up are so relatable and believable. And funny , let’s not forget.

You were Ethan’s partner in crime.

“I miss your face.” He said, instead of adding another imaginary way to best Isaia the deejay. “You’re so pretty when you laugh.”

You were close enough to the bed that you could place one knee down, ready to brace yourself for when you truly started to melt at his touch.

“Is this what you were wanting- more, like this?”

(The whole “ Do you want it like this?” sequence.)

“Look at me while you come…”

“Try me.”

“You told yourself that you would message him properly when you felt better. But that moment never came”.

I totally felt this, being in such a position once…

“He could see it, he could see your disorder.” That frightening moment when you show someone close that major weakness that’s dominating your existence. I so felt that moment as well.

“All that I need is for you to let me help.” Those are critical words when you let someone in to help you out. Brief window of a mixture of fright, exhaustion, acceptance and gratitude all in a matter of minutes… you’ve captured that so so well.

The whole bit where he opens up about his feelings and is dying to share more with her in his life but is not sure how to be with her, to take care of her without being to imposing. That is so lovely and sweetly written. Melted on the spot.

Weaving WiKi-Torchio into the story by randomly letting him tell knowledge of a country or it’s habits and explaining things… such an Ethan thing to do.

“Make love to me.”

Ugh… I’m sorry… I like the Dom Damiano stories you write very much… and I so much enjoy the gaybaes of our rainbow family when they get nasty and really down and dirty… love that!…. but to be really honest… vanilla smut has my heart… I love it when it gets a bit dangerous… but vanilla wins… always

“I missed this.” He whispered, trailing the tips of his fingers down the side of your face.

‘Cause I’m looking at the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen and she’s about to come, just for me.”

The thing is… y/n is no longer supposed to be my name… I imagine it to be a character… it is so well written… things build up inside my head… like how she looks ( spoiler.. nothing even close to how I look), how she lives, what her friends look like, how they move… I know fan fic is supposed to be focused on the fantasy of the reader but your writing is moving way beyond that fact…

And last but not least…

After that last fuck, as he confesses he no longer wants to be fuck buddies anymore but really wants to take care of her… *chef’s kiss*

I’m so invested in your writing. This story is definitely no.1 in my list of favorites coming out of your pen. Up there with Gay enough and the puppy stories and some of the Stained sheets.

I’m re-reading most of them regularly and enjoy them every time.

End of rant… carry on!

wow this has nourished me, worth its weight in gold. thankyou so verrrry much ❣️ thank you for getting exactly what this fic was, for understanding my perspective

thankyou for complimenting the humour. really truly means a lot to me. humour& the funny is something that im always grateful when people appreciate it. i think writing something funny is far more difficult than writing something that appeals as sexy. also kat is a funny motherfucker so writing a character for her sans humour would have been doing her a disservice. & i wanted to use the humour as a sign of the characters wellness, to show her as witty, sassy, crude & very vibrant- before the depression takes her down, to create a contrast that could be pickedup on by the reader in a show not tell kinda way, hopefully

thankyousomuch for shouting out the torchiapedia of it all!! as soon as i watched episode two i was like 'well this has to be in every fic' cos its something so perfectly ethan& i was really happy with how i could work that in

the mindset of 'message him when i feel better' is verymuch how i operate & my family dont appreciate it

thankyou thank you THANK YOU❣️ im gonna be rereading this comment ❣️

#have i mentioned they're my fav lurker?

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dearestones · 1 year

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Hetalia Matchup: Belarus

Warnings: Fluff, mentions of transphobia, mentions of mental illness.

@stinkylittleanon Request: HI THERE!!! I requested a matchup for Marble Hornets months ago from you and I saw that you write for Hetalia?!?!? Can I request a hetalia matchup? I don't have a preference for gender! My name is Toby, I'm a trans dude and I've got wavy blonde hair and gray eyes! I'd say my better traits are kind, understanding, funny, listener, and patient, but my negative traits would have to be timid, oblivious, fearful, and a bit too positive. My hobbies are cosplaying, video games, and sleeping! I have an interest in creepy things but also cute! I do have autism, adhd, and depression so I guess that's important to mention! I have no idea how many words this is so I'm sorry if it's over 300! (Copy and pasted!)

Welcome back! After reading through your description, I believe that you best pair well with Belarus!

Even though Belarus is a Nation who is not as warm or as pleasant as the rest of her colleagues, she can be soft and kind if you take the time to get to know her better.

Her crass and blunt nature marks her as a person who generally likes to keep to herself, but even she desires companionship. When she first meets you, she becomes quite attached. As a person who is more than accustomed to being considered as an “outsider”, she feels empathetic and understanding when you tell her that you’re trans. She has no preference for gender when it comes to paramours, which means she’ll treat you just as kindly as she would any of her other lovers. That said, if she finds out that there is someone out there who has called you slurs or has threatened violence against you because of your gender, she will knock them out.

(It’s up to you if they either end up in the hospital or six feet under the ground).

Depending on where you’re at in your transition, she’ll be there to help you with your shots (if you want), accompany you for top surgery (if you desire), or simply make sure that you’re comfortable and safe in the clothes that you wear.

If you act too sappy around her as thanks for her help, she’ll brush you aside because she’s a Nation and she’s too old for such weird nonsense like transphobia. And no, she’s definitely not smiling in relief that you’re all right and that she’s doing her best as your lover.

Belarus thanks you for all of your positive characteristics. She will not deny that she’s very rude and impatient at times, which can be at odds with your overall disposition of someone who is far more mild than her. However, she finds your presence soothing, almost like a balm against the unfeeling nature of the universe. She’ll beg you, sometimes, to make her laugh—although, she’ll make it seem like she doesn’t care at all. Other times, she likes it when you listen to her because you get this look in your eyes, almost as if she is the only person in the universe. You make her feel loved.

In return, because of your timid and oblivious nature, Belarus will play a more proactive role as your protector. If you’re caught up in a situation that doesn’t make you comfortable or you need her strength in times of great need, she will definitely fly to your rescue. Prepare for your enemies to be obliterated into dust: Belarus does not play around and her glare is enough to eat through sheet metal.

Furthermore, if you’re self-conscious of your timidity, don’t worry about it, Belarus will gladly help you achieve a sense of confidence. She’ll put you through the ringer by exposing you to uncomfortable scenarios that will gradually increase in severity (with your permission, of course), until you become more confident. Coddling you could be an easier alternative and it makes Belarus happy to know that she could protect you since she’s such a small Nation in the grand scheme of things, but it’s far more satisfying to guide you into becoming a better version of yourself.

As for your positive nature, who told you that too much positivity was a bad thing? As a veteran of too many wars and a witness to too much bloodshed, Belarus believes that the best way to live through centuries is to carry within oneself a sense of hope. If that means being too positive, then Belarus is more than willing to accept it. While at first glance you might think that Belarus might be irritated at your positivity, it’s quite the opposite. It’s the people who prefer to delve into the bleak side of things, she tells you whenever you doubt yourself, and reject all hope that generates hopelessness. And hopelessness in all its forms has never helped anybody.

Can Belarus cosplay with you? She got these weird cat ear headphones from Poland as a gag gift last year, so… Please? She’s a cute Nation, but it’s rare that she goes out of her way to dress up and be cuter than normal. Please do a couples cosplay with her, you’ll render her speechless and her usual scowl on her face will be replaced with such an adorable expression of awe.

You also like creepy things? As a fan of the occult, Belarus will definitely take a stab at reading your palm or even digging up her favorite set of tarot cards just for you. She’s had decades of experience with tarot readings, so be careful if her interpretations start coming true!

If you have any medications or appointments to help you with your mental health, Belarus will definitely be the one to remind you. She’ll put your pills into a weekly pill organizer, remind you when to refill your prescriptions, and even accompany you to appointments just to make sure that you make it to and from home safely. Again, you’ll think she might be annoyed that she’s taking so much time out of her schedule to make sure that you’re okay, but she’ll tell you that it’s far more troublesome for you to neglect your mental health. She loves you for you and that includes all the little and major things that make you up. Don’t doubt her loyalty to you.

All in all, as long as you’re patient and willing to break through Belarus’ tough exterior, you’ll gain a loving partner in Belarus. She is loyal beyond all understanding, but she is willing to call you out if the occasion ever arises. Furthermore, you help soften her edges and provide much happiness and love in her life. All in all, if the both of you work things through, your relationship will deepen and become more and more meaningful in time.

If you want to donate a Ko-Fi, feel free https://ko-fi.com/devintrinidad.

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mrsvercetti · 1 year

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Greetings and salutations, hope I don’t bother you to much. I’m not sure if you do Yandere matchups, otherwise let this be regular. May I please have a romantic Yandere matchup for fnaf? Maybe tmnt if you do two. I use they/it/he pronouns and I’m pansexual with a preference to masculinity. My Myers Briggs type is INFJ and Enneagram type is 4. My star sign is Taurus, moon sign is Gemini. Im about 4’11..not to happy about it. I’m rather introverted, and can be considered not a people person. I’m into dressing in all black and taking a liking to gruesome and morbid things like slashers, Tim Burton, death games, true crime documentaries, and anatomy. I also like to visit abandoned hospitals and houses just for fun, along with playing quite a few escape rooms. I just have a genuine comfort in the uncomfortable. I get a lot of monikers from friends in family like "discount babydemonx", "doomer boy kinnie", and "Remake of Daria" before. I’ve come to the conclusion I just scare people off. In reality, I’m intimidated by everyone around me and find it hard to start conversing, which may or may not come off as rude to people. When I finally become comfortable with someone I start to become really sarcastic and joke around with them with witty banter. Most of my humor comes off really insulting, but I’ll apologize and say it’s a joke if it becomes a problem. Even though, I do have a lot of problems with understanding social cues. Lots of people don’t like me or stay away from me because of my rude behavior. I’m not good with overly sensitive or overly annoying people at all because of that, and I can’t stand kids. Idiocy can get on my nerves too sometimes. I’m a huge animal person though. I have my moments where I can get really feisty, or very quiet and closed off. I’ve been told I’m also a laidback person. I’m the type of person that has lots of opinions on things but I keep them to myself and bottle them up. If pushed far enough I’ll become unforgiving, and aggressive. Especially with the types mentioned above. I find the most comfort in just being in my room drawing, reading and or listening to music ( Deftones, Arch Enemy, MurderDolls, Slipknot, Rob Zombie,,, sometimes Will Wood, McCafferty, Jazmin Bean or Mother Mother, etc. ), or even occasionally playing video games or reading and talking about Greek mythology. I also speak some Japanese. My interests tend to be very restricted, and I shut down easily getting into new things. I’m a plushie maniac and when I fall asleep you can always see me cuddled up to one of them. I find it because I’m really touch starved. I’m guilty of being very submissive and maybe even masochistic- and a bit of a pyromaniac. I suffer from autism, GERD, depression and anxiety. I have stims where I bite the inside of my cheek, pull my hair, crack or pop my bones, fidget with my fingers or a toy or bounce my leg. I even hiss or squeal when I’m upset. I’ve also been developing a eating disorder. If you do get to this, thanks for your time. - coii

A/N: I am sooo sorry for taking too long to answer this request 😖😖😖. I was having exams and life was hectic. Also, there was a bit of procrastination and my mental health wasn't really great. So yeah, I was a hot mess. Anyways, here is your matchup request! I hope you enjoy! 😊 (Also, I apologize if there is any grammar mistakes.)

WARNING: YANDERE THEMES, MENTIONS OF MURDER

FNAF MATCHUP

I PAIR YOU UP WITH....

Nightmare

Nightmare would be an amazing match for you.

He’s a scary dude and is not known for having any romantic interest or any general liking towards anyone. He’s only known for tormenting people.

Him having a special attachment towards you might be concerning at first (Because he maybe planning to torture you as well.) But after some time, he shows is affectionate and caring side.

He’s a yandere to the EXTREME!

He doesn’t talk a lot. So, you might be the one to start the conversation.

He’s an extremely possessive guy. He hates it or gets annoyed when you stare at other people.

He can be a little rough and can get jealous super easily.

If you’re going anywhere, he’d like to tag along with you since he can get a little clingy.

Especially when you’re going to any abandoned places. Who knows? Going there must be dangerous. He must protect you at all cost.

He likes how people get intimidated by you. He would think that assholes would stay away from you. But if they don’t, they won’t see another light of day.

He would get super violent towards people who hurt you in any way.

He can teleport, so their death will be really quick.

He’ll literally do anything to make you happy. If you really hate someone and he knows about it, he’ll kill that person in the most brutal way possible and will bring to you. So yeah… watch out for that…

Will kill or hurt anyone who hurts you. Even if it is by accident. He doesn't understand the word “accident” so, you might wanna teach him.

Wherever you go and you come back home, he’ll ask you a bunch of questions like: “How did your day go?”, “Did anyone hurt you?”, “Should I come along next time?” etc.

Isn’t really good at romance, so he does things that you’ll like. Like helping you out with stuff, buying you things, etc.

He likes your sarcasm and enjoys your jokes. But the only thing is, don’t joke about the time when he was human. He will snap at you if you do.

He admires your feistiness and often comments about it. He would say “You’re so cute” every time you’re being feisty.

If you’re being closed off or very quiet. He’ll leave you alone if you need space. Otherwise, he’d constantly ask you if you’re okay.

He’ll help you in any way he can. If your house is messy, he’d clean it up for you.

He’ll play your favorite music when you’re feeling down.

He would watch you play video games. He’s not gonna play it with you since he’s too big to even hold a controller or a mouse. He’s huge. Like, above 7 foot. And his hands are too big. A mouse could be half the size of his pinkie. But, he’s gonna stand behind you and watch you play

He would tease you about your height. Not too much though since he doesn’t want to make you upset.

You could teach him Japanese and about Greek Mythologies. He finds interest in it.

Sometimes, he would teleport into a clothes store and just try to find a cute black colored outfit for you. He’ll do this when you’re asleep and the store is closed. He would of course trash the security systems.

In the morning he’ll be like “Hey, I went to the store last night and found a cute outfit. I was wondering if you could try it on.”

It doesn’t have to be clothes. It can be plushies since you’re a plushie maniac.

He’s known for staring at people for an uncomfortable amount of time. He’ll stare at you when you’re sleeping which will scare the living fuck out of you. Since he’ll be in the dark and his eyes will glow red.

He finds it adorable when you’re cuddling with your plushies. He’ll ask you one day on why you’re doing it. If you say you’re touch starved, he’ll try to cuddle with you.

He’ll cuddle with you very gently since he has sharp claws and doesn’t want you cut you.

Since he’s very possessive, he thoroughly enjoys you being submissive.

He is no stranger when it comes to mental health. He used to be human once and when his life was taken away, all he knew was violence and darkness. He no longer felt love from someone else. He doesn’t know where his family is or even remember their names or how they looked like. That deeply hurts him and he blames himself for that. For being too late to contact his family. Let them know that their child is still alive, in this giant tormenting suit.

Overall, he’s just someone who wants to be loved and someone who wants to give someone all his love and attention. He found you and he instantly knew you were the one. He could mess up a few things sometimes and he will learn what to do and what not to do when doing those mistakes.

He can be moody sometimes and if he’s in a terrible mood, he’ll lock you up in your room. He doesn’t want see anyone when he’s not doing good.

If you start to feel uncomfortable or annoyed by him for too long, he will snap. He lost his most of his humanity and all the affection that he if giving you is that small little piece that is left within him. Once again, he is a yandere. If you live with him, you’ll have to adapt with whatever he’s doing. If you don't want to, you’ll die. Choice is yours.

TMNT MATCHUP

I PAIR YOU UP WITH...

Raphael

From the TMNT universe, Raphael would be an amazing match for you

You and Raphael share similar interests, which is why he fell for you. He hasn't met anyone like him other than Casey Jones.

This man gets EXTREMELY jealous. More than Nightmare and that’s a big problem.

He’s basically the type to follow you ANYWHERE you go.

Will get extremely angry and jealous if he sees you with any of his brother or even Casey. If he spots you with them, you will be barred from entering into the lair.

He would be reluctant to teach you ninjutsu. It would take a LOT of pleading. He’s afraid that if he did teach you ninjutsu, you would soon be strong enough to knock him down and run away from him.

Be careful when you are joking and don’t get too personal. He will snap at you (Just like nightmare).

He can be a total dick and can be quite frustrating, but there is this soft and gooey side of him that’ll literally melt you.

He would spoil you with affection, gifts and surprises. He would give you all of his attention at any time.

He can be romantic and learned many things to make you happy. He learned how to cook so he could make you your favorite food, got into fandoms that you like etc.

He is very good at consoling someone and if you feel down or upset, he would stay by your side and make you feel better.

He basically goes all heart eyes if he sees you being feisty. That is super attractive to him.

He likes to draw with you and that’s probably one of his favorite things to do with you.

He LOVES to cuddle and will cuddle you for hours!

He also finds enjoyment when he’s reading for you.

Will thoroughly enjoy exploring abandoned places with you.

He knows how to take care of someone, physically and mentally. He has 3 brothers and he has taken care of them multiple times. If you are hurt in any way, be prepared to be treated like a 4-year-old that is being treated by an overprotective mother.

He would even hesitate to hurt or kill anyone who hurts you. But can understand if it was caused by accident and not on purpose.

He will come with you in a heartbeat if you ask him if he could come along. Like, you wouldn’t even wanna ask him sometimes, he would grab your arm and say “let’s go!”

He will let you babysit “Spike” before he got mutated. He’ll let you babysit Chompy as well.

He is basically a 50-50. 50% soft and cuddly boyfriend and 50% I’m gonna chain you up and make you mine type.

#yandere!tmnt matchup #yandere!fnaf matchup #tmnt matchups #fnaf matchups #yandere matchup

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harley-style · 2 years

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Reading the Homestuck Epilogues 6 [MEAT] (prt. 11-15)

So far, we have the normal Homestuck experience in the meat route, which is certainly a feeling. There's always that sense of foreboding in the future, but it's not all bad!

SPOILER ALERT: I rant. a lot. I have a lot of feelings about these sets of parts and it shows by the length. Thank god I'm putting it under the cut, because it really is fucking LONG.

NOTE: Instead of the usual 10 part reaction, I'm cutting it down to 5 because I got very heated about part 12 and i need to shave the length of this down. Sorry y'all.

read previous part here!

So, hilarious start, right off the bat. Yes, John, you're stuck. You are, essentially, homestuck. Haha. A motorcycle jumps off from the canyon, the crowd goes wild with dismay, and mass-unaliving. They're there until someone unloads them from the house trap juju, also they're in separate rooms. Hm. Would you call this scenario being grounded from the timeline? From canon?

John admits he thinks he has depression which is a huge step forward for him, but I'm also kind of a jerk, so I say "huh, ya think?" By the way admitting you aren't ok is very valid and appreciate yourself more for taking that step back-forward you beautiful person you. Don't mind my being a dick on the matter, I love Egbert and I love bullying them *gently*. Fuck anyone who invalidates your feelings. Find a support system that works for you, because you absolutely deserve it.

Oh we're right back with the political clap shit aight. Dave what the fuck are you on. Is economics the only thing you care about? Really?

Also I think Jane has a good point about restricting grist alchemy for "growth", but I'd be more concerned if she closed off EVERY avenue about it. Like, some people might really need a helping hand yanno? But also, alchemizing your way to progress is...really fucking disastrous in the long run. I'm just saying. Again, not happy with the way Jane handles everything, but some points can be argued for surface-wise.

Props to Jade for being the smartest person in the room. But also are you fucking STILL on the relationship thing? Hm. Well, this is the MEAT route, it could work out. I like the DaveJadeKat ship, just not as much as Davesprite/Jade or DavepetaJade obvsly. But also, I think they all should like reflect on past selves, a little? Karkat, I believe, still owes Jade an apology for being a dick to her. Yes I know he's mellowed out and I'm not sure if he did it in the OG homestuck, but my point is that I want them to have a reflection session or something. You know, a down-to-earth discussion. But who am I kidding, these people are dumbasses.

Jade burns them hard lol. At least this Jade says "you can say no", but also, she's right, Dave and Karkat are like, boring since they haven't really done anything exciting after winning the game. Like they've settled, which is sweet from a realistic perspective, but Homestuck is meant to have dynamic and fun characters, both of which Davekat presently, canonically...isn't. Is this why people are fed up with Davekat? Bc they're boring?

But seriously Karkat and Dave's inability to fucking be real for a second and consider their relationships without proverbially flipping off the handle is fucking nuts. Guys. Guys just skip the bullshit, please. Don't deflect, don't self-flagellate. I don't even care if you guys are just "friends" and you're "uncomfortable with labelling your relationship" right now, just be honest. For the record, not wanting to put an immediate endgame label for your relationship is totally valid, but you're both stupid for not fucking THINKING about it and not setting clear boundaries. It's giving Jade and the rest of the gang (and fans) weird signals.

Aaaand this is why I fucking want these three to fucking talk about how they're going to go about their dating scheme. Jade seems pretty intent on going pitch with Karkat, because that is how she understands Karkat to operate under, which is...honestly, something she likely got wrong. I personally don't think Karkat is capable of holding any pitch related quadrant, except maybe as a step-in for the ashen one. It's been discussed by multiple people, but I'll summarize it as: Karkat is likely aquadrantic the way typical romance is for trolls is like being gay to heterosexual relationships are for humans. Fundamentally incapable of intercepting. I could go on about how Karkat just exists outside the perceived sexuality/romantic tendencies for troll society, but basically, Karkat is the troll's version of gay. Y'know, aquadrantic.

JUST KISS YOU FUCKING IDIOTS. UGH.

Oh my god I'm just at part thirteen. Did I seriously spend that much time on the DaveJadeKat Dilemma? I did, shit.

This just in, Vriska opens the Juju and is immediately ready to fight a bitch. Or to see the ending, I dunno. Point is, she's there and she wants to look badass.

Ohhh, so there ARE some things godtiers can't come back from. I wonder if you need to completely obliterate the body to prevent resurrection.

Epilogue three starts with Jake and Jane, interesting.

WHY IS JANE SO FUCKING HORNY EVERYTIME. OH MY GOD. Well, no, not horny, just incredibly forward and suggestive and I just. Jane. Please. You have more class than this.

I have to remind myself that they're adults. They're adults. Far be it from me to judge them for making decisions I don't particularly agree with. Jake kissing Jane, though, sends all kinds of bells ringing in my head right now. Especially because he keeps?? Remembering Dirk? Jesus christ you guys have problems.

"You can't be nice to Jake" another point to Goddamn It, Dirk! No, you don't know what you're doing, you fucking fool.

Commercial break! We're back with the Lord English battle, which is ironically blessedly absent of all the double entendre, mental backflipping, emotional upheaval bullshit that's going on in Earth C. Please, can we stay here? Forever?

Rose is Dead. Oh boy. Here we go. Did John even tell Jade the green sun was gone? Shit, he didn't, did he. Oh well. Jade is gone too. Kabonkers. At least Dave is still here? Poor guy. He lost his friends. Jesus, he's genuinely terrified. Dear god I feel bad for all of them.

Davepeta is here to save all our collective asses and is very much deserving of the title MVP. For all of Davesprite's whining about not being the alpha Dave, I'd say Davepeta's the real Alpha Champ. Alpha Chad, if you will.

Did John just get vored.

No I'm not sorry about that phrasing.

LMAO DAVEPETA SAID IT NOT ME

Oh yowch, he got chomped on the chest. RIP John Egbert, you will be sorely missed.

>Don't fucking die" is a rather strong statement, it reeks of characterism. But who is speaking? John, or...Dirk?

Oh yikes, it's Dave's turn to get decapitated.

Once again, Davepeta proving they are the MVP. But they are technically a Mary Sue, someone who's so unbelievably perfect because they're a combined fused state of two delightfully flawed characters...hm. You should go watch optimisticDuelist's Kernel Sprite vid, it says a lot about Davepeta.

But, uh, what about John? He's still there stuck with a tooth in his chest, bleeding, and looking like shit.

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Hello. I haven’t reached out to you before but I’m beside myself with worry and would love your advice. Tw: sexual abuse, suicide. If you prefer to just ignore this ask on that basis, please do.

My good friend has been married to her husband for 8 years. She has a 13 yo from a different father who is not in the picture, and her husband legally adopted her. They also have an 8 year old. He has major depression and is on medication. Has always been an accomplished person and good father.

This weekend her 13 yo woke up from a nap to find him with his hand down her pants. She ran and locked herself in the bathroom. He went to the basement and attempted suicide. My friend found him, police came. He’s now in a psychiatric hospital and has a family member flying in to help him in a few days, but til then is on his own. He apparently is being released tomorrow.

Needless to say my friend is broken, horrified, in complete despair. Yet, she is worried about him and thinks when they release him he will attempt to take his life again. As a friend I obviously want her to stay far away from him, but I also know she doesn’t want him dead. And despite what he’s done, neither do her kids. He has no friends or family nearby.

I don’t know how to help her to keep her and everyone safe, but also be empathetic to her worry about him. I just don’t know how to be supportive in this situation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance. ❤️

Going to publish this with a massive TRIGGER WARNING just for anyone else who may read this.

First of all lovely I am so sorry you are experiencing this dilemma and my heart goes out to you and your friend and also her 13yo. This is an awful situation and so so difficult.

I completely understand your friends predicament and also yours, wanting to empathise but wanting to keep your friend away.

I honestly think that as mucb as your friend will want to be there for this man to stop him from potentially taking his own life, her 13yo is more important and needs protecting first and foremost. Your friend needs to prioritise her 13yo rather than worrying about this man. Of course this is more difficult than I'm making it sound but as far as I can see its the only option?

I suppose all you can do as her friend is help her find a support network that will get the child help and care/support.

It is concerning that this man is just being let go when he is not just a danger to himself but to a child as well. I would encourage your friend to remember that his decisions are not her responsibility and just keep reminding her that she has plenty of support. I would just listen to her concerns and worries as best you can and try to guide her to charities that can help.

There are charities that will be able to help the 13yo, charities that will be able to offer your friend support herself and also charities that she can direct her partner to for support. I would direct you to some but I kmow in the UK most women's shelters and SA DV charities are localised.

But I really can't emphasise enough that the child needs prioritising here.

Of course it's really difficult for everyone involved and must be so hard for you to navigate. I think being there for your friend and helping her navigate the situation and finding support is the best thing you can do for now.

Is there family that can be contacted to come and get him? I feel like this isn't your friends responsibility and that the authorities to be dealing with.

If it had happened to me I'd be cutting that man off for sure. Immediately. But I understand your friends predicament.

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[Forgive my confusion as fresh off the boat first timer i heard of the event purely from a friend so you can definitely take all the time you need with this one and im good with any month/part placement its just something ive been curious about for a while]

My MBTI is (According to this one result from this psychology website) ISTJ-A

My birthday is 01/15 (Im a Caprisun aka Capricorn and my chinese zodiac is rabbit,im not to to involve with starry things so forgive me for not knowing the rising sun/moon things)

Personality traits (this is a combination of me and from an outsider perspective such as family/friends to avoid bias): i can be described as witty,hard working (when i actually put in the effort to focus) quite selfish (in a sense of boundaries and putting your wellbeing first aswell allowing yourself to compassionate with yourself),Sensitive (strong emotions tend too overwhelm me) and i bottle up my feelings as much as possible until it simmers over or explodes in broken sobs and chest pains,Absolutely hilarious(According to sis),An absolute vibe aswell a good care taker (From Sis's BFF whom since i knew from childhood), somewhat down to earth,naive lots to learn but never turns away from criticism,always willing to learn and change,Blunt brutally so (to the point im forced to work on getting a filter). Am i traumatized?? yes absolutely (thank Archons for therapy) i was raised in a way similar to wanderer (especially on the mother side of the severe neglect ive cut her off completely) which is why i can relate to him very well (is it healthy for me?? most likely no but then again no idea) i wasn't allowed to express myself leaving me depressed and anxious and immensely introverted (or an indoor cat) due to bullying and unable to stand up for myself and also treated like a baby and un-diagnosed with ADHD (crazy i know) and PTSD aswell so many other things i will not get into that makes complex humans you know,COMPLEX,according to family im the absolute sweetheart (again....idk why they think that when i can be a menace) and i care too much but i act like i dont just to keep myself under control and it leads to misunderstanding with other people sometimes.Sometimes i dont feel human at all (as in i sometimes questions my place in society or the reasons of my existence but would rather eat glass than confide in some) my biggest weakness is communication or lack thereof im the type who would suffer in silence and simply wish to pass on without alerting anyone.

ok thats it thats all you're getting from me.

If you read this far Then bless have some cookies 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪

Favorite characters??? Definitely Neuvillette, the rizz man himself, WANDERER (i main him nor he never leaves my team) Heizou {He's actually the one with the highest friendship point despite not being used at all ever since wanderer came into the scene},Alhaitham {i prefer being rational as much as possible than to dwell in my emotions despite being fully aware its unhealthy} and Chongyun (before wanderer YunYun was the one whom i spoiled the most with the best artifacts and high weapons).

Ok annnd thats all again im so sorry for this possibly late submission or early (i have no clue on what im doing to be 100% honest with you) please if you felt uncomfortable at any moment in time do not hesitate to let me know (my dms are always open) and reject it without second thoughts and thank you so much for reading this far (have more sweets and coffee🍡🍡☕☕) you definitely earned yourself a new follower because your writing is fantastic im just eating it all right up NOMNOMNOM it is MUAH perfection.

hey anon! <3 sorry but i'm not currently accepting requests! they'll open next on 1st april, with a different set of rules and events!

thanks for your lovely compliment on my writing! it's always a motivation to work on more <3

#anon <3 #genshin

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