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SOME SONG LYRICS THAT ARE TOO CLOSE TO MY HEART<3 (Pt.1)

"And loving is hard. It don't always work. You just try your best not to get hurt. I used to be mad but now I know, sometimes it's better to let someone go." -Older by Sasha Alex Sloan.

"These images they sell, Maybe none of it is real and I could love the way I feel." -Pretty's on the inside by Chloe Adams.

"Do you ever get a little bit tired of life? Like you're not really happy, but you don't wanna die. Like a numb little bug that's gotta survive. That's gotta survive." -Numb little bug by Em Beihold.

"Nothing's forever. Nothing's as good as it seems." -Hope ur ok by Olivia Rodrigo.

"All the numbers in my mind are set out to ruin my life, I don't wanna let them win but they just might. And I know this is a problem that I'm improperly solving." -Math by Sara Kays.

"I guess I could say I've learned to live this way. But it's still hard to find- reasons to stay alive. Accepting I'm pointless isn't the hardest when it's so completely obvious. My questions are countless looking for answers , so far I'm clueless. Go back to sleep. I reach for me but I'm not there. It's so lonely but who cares? It's fine it's okay. I'll die anyway." -I'll die anyway by girl in red.

" Kids are still depressed when you dress them up. " -Sippy Cup by Melanie Martinez.

" Now she's terrified of growing older losing what's left of her youth. She'd reminisce about the sound of bliss before she knew the truth." - Ms. Protagonist by J. Maya.

" If I'm pretty, will you like me? They say beauty makes boys happy. I've been starving myself , carving skin until my bones are showing. Teach me how to be okay. I don't wanna downplay my emotions. They say beauty is vain, you'll only be happy if you look a certain way. " -Prom Queen by Beach Bunny.

"The prom queen looks real pretty but inside she hates her life. And the boy that starts on Varsity's dad doesn't treat him right. The quite girl that's in the corner has so much more to say, if only their minds weren't so damn opaque. She's the life of every party but she sits alone at lunch. Her reflection shows her ribcage but she thinks she weights too much.And they call each other best friends when it's a forbidden crush, one that their parents would never approve of. Isn't it sad the way it works that we think we're the only ones who hurt? So just breathe for a second. I know you're feeling so damn helpless. But before you do something reckless REMEMBER- magazines have editors and makeup does the devil's work. Don't cry cuz you're not her. She's staying up all night scars to cover.And everything seems fine when it's not yours but darling magazine have editors and everyone's a little hurt. " -Devil's Work by Andi.

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HOW TO BE ATTRACTIVE!

"I am too ugly to be attractive." Seriously? Is that what your mindset is? You don't have to be pretty to be attractive babe. Just follow these points-

CONFIDENCE BABY!

Be confident about what you're saying. And most importantly DON'T SAY WRONG THINGS CONFIDENTLY. Verify yourself before speaking. And if you are wrong, correct it rather than arguing just to prove yourself right. Again not everyone will like your confident personality. It's okay. Confidence is not "they will like me", confidence is "I'll be fine if they don't". Tho it's just a quote from google, it is true.

INVEST IN YOUR APPEARANCE!

Find your aesthetic. Know what suits you the best. Try various clothes unless and until you really think it's the best for you. Seek inspiration from people you like. Go through pinterest or Instagram to get ideas. Also remember QUALITY OVER QUANTITY. There's no need to buy dozens of clothes. Appearance is not only about the way you dress. It's about how you carry your style. If you are putting on makeup do it faultlessly. And it's also fine if you don't want to put on makeup. But if you are doing it DO IT RIGHT. As I said in my first point , be confident. That's what makes you more attractive.

RESPECT OTHERS!

BEING RUDE IS NOT COOL! DISRESPECTING OTHERS IS NOT COOL! It takes courage to be kind. Just because someone has a different taste or a different opinion doesn't mean you have to hate them. You don't have to agree with them but be respectful. Your discourteous behavior makes you unattractive. Nowadays people think acting cold and rude is attractive. Bruh- you don't have to be Wednesday Addams (I never liked her anyways). Be like Enid! She was way more charming than Wednesday.

Ohk now some extra tips....

Smile more.

Respond to others.

Be a good listener. (Don't just keep talking. Learn how to listen) .

Maintain eye contact.

Speak positive.

Maintain a good posture.

Yo! That's it! Now you're attractive af! <3

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HOW TO BE YOUR OWN THERAPIST

Uhh! I never understood this "therapy" thing. Google says "treatment intended to relieve or heal a disorder".Well to understand this practically, I went to a therapist (tho it was my mom who forced me). No I don't suffer from depression or some mental illness. So it went like this-

She asked me everything about my personal life! Like EVERYTHING! Not elaborating the situation but yeah I felt really uncomfortable.

Note- I am not blaming the therapist. She was just doing her job. It didn't work for me doesn't mean it will not work for you.

So after than session I never ever went to a therapist again. Actually I don't know why my mom took me to a therapist. Nvm I don't care.

Soooooo after this incident I decided I WILL BE MY OWN THERAPIST! Let me tell you how to do it-

SET YOUR PRIORITIES! YOU DON'T OWE ANYONE!

You like that? Get it. You want to do that? Do it. You wanna wear that? Wear it. Ohk ohk I know it's not that easy but hear me up. For example You LOVE to eat chocolates but you're afraid of gaining weight. It's ok. Eat that one packet and exercise a little more today! You want to wear that dress but you're not confident enough? Gurl! You're confident. You just don't know it yet. WEAR IT! And if you're worried about what will people think, well no one cares actually. Everyone is busy with their own life. The one who is talking about you is way more insecure than you.

GO BACK TO YOUR CHILDHOOD!

Ohk this really worked for me! You see, whenever I feel sad or lonely I go back to my childhood days. For example I LOVE Doraemon. Without Doraemon my childhood would be incomplete. So everytime I feel sad I watch Doraemon. LOL. It reminds me of the blissful days of my childhood. Doesn't matter if it's a cartoon, song, movie or show. If you loved it as a kid watch it or hear it again. Trust me you'll feel better.

LISTEN TO SONGS THAT DESCRIBE YOU!

"Everyone is loving that song,I have to love it too".NO.JUST NO. If it's not your type you don't have to follow the trend. Find your type of music. The music that describes you. One of the songs I really relate to is "Machine Learning by J. Maya".She is not a famous artist. Does it matter tho? I love the song that's it. Why would I care if the artist is famous or not? Ohk now that doesn't mean you can't like famous songs. I just want to say if it's your type hear it and if it's not DON'T. No one will scold you. LoL.

SLEEP!

Ohk this one is so basic. Please! Sleep! You need rest. Sleeping heals a lot of problems. I know you are busy. I know you don't have enough time to sleep. I know sometimes even if you have time you can't sleep.CHILL! Like if you usually sleep 5 hrs daily then today make it 6 hrs! No matter what. Make it 6 hrs. Doesn't matter what time of the day. And after some days make it 7 hrs. It will take time. Slowly but surely you'll do it.

Huhhh! That's it. That's how you heal yourself. And anyways therapy is expensive. Lmao. Treat yourself for free. Haha. Bye<3

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