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[vaspider]

Friend of mine from RL reached out like "hey I logged into Tumblr and went to try to find you so I searched vaspider and uhhh are you okay" and I'm just like, yeah, man, I have no idea what you're talking about.

So I'm gonna say this bc I have to say it every so often: Yeah, I know there are a bunch of people on here who have me living rent-free in the haterade brew of their brains.

No, I don't care.

It doesn't actually matter. Please understand that. It doesn't affect my actual life in any way. Every so often, people make me aware of someone who is stirring up a particularly noxious batch of haterade. And then?

I block them. I block their buddies who piled in on the post. I block the people who mindlessly reblog posts calling me whatever words are supposed to incite Tumblr's favorite current moral panic. I block all of them. This process takes maybe five minutes. At most. Usually, it takes a lot less.

And then - and this is the key part - I never think about any of those people ever again.

Nobody is required to like me, or to read what I write, or anything of the sort, and I'm not required to recognize that they exist. One of those two things happens, and it isn't me recognizing or remembering any of the people who spend so many thought cycles thinking about how I'm a [current scary word here].

I recommend this method for dealing with people who have nothing better going on in their lives than running around sending I SAW VASPIDER DANCING AT THE DEVIL'S MASS asks to anyone who reblogs a post with me in it or whatever. Try it. Genuinely. Just block anybody where the vibes are even slightly off - including me, sure. I assure you that if I ever notice - which is highly unlikely - I will not care. The only way I'd ever notice is if I try to like one of your posts and can't, in which case... I block you, bc if you don't want to talk to me, then cool, I'll respect that and make sure it's mutual.

And I move on with my life, and I never think about that person again.

So like, who wins in this situation? Some old dyke just minding his own business, or the people investing lots of time and energy and emotion in hating someone who doesn't remember that they exist?

#🤷🏻‍♂️

[pinene]

Howdy!

#face #gay bear #gay beard #🤷🏻‍♂️

[swearwolfcola]

“A heart’s a heavy burden”

#finishedpieces #howls moving castle #howl pendragon #howl jenkins pendragon #howls moving castle art #howl x sophie #sophie hatter #howl and sophie #🤷🏻‍♂️

[hanzajesthanza]

the reason geregis works is that they are both middle aged men with lines on their face who previously severely struggled with intense suicidal ideation and they’re still grappling with facing the tragic reality that they’re unable to save everyone and to be human is inherently to suffer and kill mercilessly. also they have gay dream sex

#s: the anthropomorphism speaks through me #txt #geregis #geralt x regis #🤷🏻‍♂️

[icarus-star]

#🤷🏻‍♂️ #mine #i made this 💋 #i ❤ rory culkin #rory culkin #rory culkin x reader #charlie walker #scream 4 #danny cooper #intruders 2015

[askurameshiyusuke]

who do, or would, you ship your friends with?

Not one of us knows how to handle a ship, so maybe some kind of boat captain. This guy's probably available. That hook-hand thing could be interesting.

Just kidding, I know what you mean. I'm not that tragically old. I ship Hiei with a good night's sleep. Those bags under his eyes are dark enough to rival his twisted little soul (said with love, I promise). Kuwabara's been in a long-term relationship with success and I ship it hard. Success looks good on him.

And lastly, not that I'm holding my breath for this one, I ship Kurama with a goddamn sense of self-preservation. If I never have to see him get stabbed and/or sliced in the gut again, it'll be too friggin soon.

#in all seriousness #no one. #because i don't ship people in my life with other people #🤷🏻‍♂️ #yusuke urameshi #yu yu hakusho #yyh rp #yyh rp blog

[rystiel]

textpostnatural

#made these to post on tiktok like a Freak but i’m gonna post them here too (like a freak) #hello tumblr here’s my contribution to spn as text posts #spn #supernatural #sam winchester #dean winchester #castiel #jack kline #crowley #uhh #crowley supernatural #🤷🏻‍♂️ #destiel #drowley

[corviidaze]

could i humbly request 5A or 2F Silco for the expressions challenge pls 🙏🏼

i did 2F already and both u and @sherwood-forests wanted A5 so i included some other action sketches for u <33

#here comes the ✨content✨ #ill prob color those at some point but #🤷🏻‍♂️ #hope u enjoy <33 #my art #silco #silco fanart #silco art #arcane #league of legends arcane #arcane fanart #arcane art #silco arcane #art #traditional art #watercolor #ask #ask game #corvid’s chaos

[gravedigg]

A wip of Astarion and my first Tav that I’ll probably never get around to finishing, so I might as well toss it on here.

#I got lost in the sauce with the details on his clothes and then ran out of steam #🤷🏻‍♂️ #bg3 #bg3 fanart #bg3 tav #astarion #astarion acunin #baldurs gate 3 #tw: blood #my art

[t-800]

NINE INCH NAILS - HELP ME I AM IN HELL — 1993, dir. Eric Goode & Serge Becker

#nine inch nails #nin #help me i am in hell #broken #music video #1990s #90s #industrial music #gifs #not sfw #🤷🏻‍♂️

[wiha-jun]

CARLOS CUEVAS 

by MARTA MAS

#carlos cuevas #🤷🏻‍♂️ #*

[professoroaksboytoy]

Move to a remote location and go completely off the grid or just stick it out and go to work tomorrow?

#🤷🏻‍♂️

[shurveer]

@hassen-dilruba011019 thinks you can't get high on sallt m can🤷🏻‍♂️

#m high #🤷🏻‍♂️

[illsadboy]

E anche oggi sono collassato con la sigaretta accesa e ho bruciato l’ennesima coperta Dio can, ma quando imparerò(?) penso il giorno che prenderò fuoco letteralmente!

#pezzi di vita #riflessioni #pensieri #bruciare #sigarette #tossicodipendenza #storie di vita #🤷🏻‍♂️ #😮‍💨 #smoking 🚬