#HR 1655

[coochiequeens]

The man who wanted to help kids undergo medical transition now wants to remove measures protecting kids from pedos.

A trans-identified male politician who drafted a bill declaring Minnesota a “refuge state” for the medical transitioning of minors has proposed an amendment to state legislation removing a stipulation that prohibits “sexual attachment to children” from being classified as a protected sexual orientation.

Leigh Finke, 41, is an elected Representative to Minnesota House District 66A and is cited as a chief author of HF 1655, a bill which seeks to establish gender identity as a protected category and aims to remove rights act sections of existing legislation “that allow for discrimination based on sexual orientation.”

Among the Minnesota Statutes amended by the bill is a subdivision that defines the term “sexual orientation” as having “sexual attachment to another person without regard to the sex of that person.” One characteristic explicitly stated as excluded from the definition is “a physical or sexual attachment to children by an adult.” Under Finke’s proposed HF 1655, this protective clause would be removed.

Finke was elected as a state representative last year after campaigning on a platform which largely consisted of guaranteeing medical interventions for gender non-conforming minors, including drugs which halt puberty, while referring to this demographic as “trans youth.”

Finke held several rallies for “trans kids” in the months leading up to the voting date, and the first bill that he authored as an elected official, the Trans Refuge Bill, or HF 146, allows minors from outside the state to receive puberty blockers and hormones within Minnesota. The bill was passed on April 24 and allows the state courts to have “temporary emergency jurisdiction” over children who enter Minnesota “to obtain gender-affirming health care.”

Finke was also involved in the production of two books intended as a resource for teens and parents on the topic of gender identity. Published in 2020, Queerfully and Wonderfully Made: A Guide for LGBTQ+ Christian Teens, targeted at youth aged 12 to 17 years old, tells readers that parents who do not accept a child as “queer” are not considering the child’s best interest.

“If your parents do not accept you and your queerness, then they do not know what’s best for you… Just because they love you does not mean they know what is best for you,” the passage states.

In a Facebook post just after the book’s publication, Finke shared a photo of the excerpt, emphasizing that “this chapter from my book is the most important thing I’ve ever written… Trans and non-binary and queer and gay and lesbian and bi young people: Don’t listen to your parents!”

Another passage, labeled “Adults Can Be (And Often Are) Wrong,” asserts that minors should “limit contact with any adult” who does not affirm their “queerness.” He also recommends that under-18s visit “queer sex shops” in order to get advice, presumably from adults, on breast binding and genital tucking.

When discussing the age at which children may begin to identify as the opposite sex, Finke cites research on same-sex attraction which found that participants, on average, said they first realized their orientation at eleven years old. “Transgender and gender non-conforming people often feel a disconnect between their self and their body even earlier in life,” it is stated, “but age doesn’t really matter.”

Disturbingly, in May of 2020, Finke lamented the death of pederast sympathizer Larry Kramer. 

Kramer, a gay men’s rights activist and the founder of the AIDS Coalition To Unleash Power (ACTUP), is prominently featured on the website of the North American Man-Boy Love Association where he is quoted as saying “in cases where children do have sex with their homosexual elders … the child desires the activity, and perhaps even solicits it.”

Finke has also made statements in support of rioting and posted an image to his Facebook profile suggesting that it is necessary to “arm trans people.” He mentioned the potential for violence during a speech at Hamline Methodist in reference to a “torrent of anti-trans legislation” which seeks to restrict medical interventions for minors. Finke stated it was necessary to “protect trans kids,” and asserted that in the near future, “there will be more riots.”

On April 21, Finke took to Twitter to boast of having assisted in inciting a disruptive crowd of demonstrators who showed up at the Minnesota House to support his “trans refuge” bill allowing children from out of state to receive puberty blockers and hormones.

Last month, Finke was awarded the title of Woman of the Year by USA Today. He was chosen as an honoree on the basis that he is “the first transgender legislator in the state’s House of Representatives, fighting to build a better future for trans youth.”

By Genevieve Gluck

Genevieve is the Co-Founder of Reduxx, and the outlet's Chief Investigative Journalist with a focused interest in pornography, sexual predators, and fetish subcultures. She is the creator of the podcast Women's Voices, which features news commentary and interviews regarding women's rights.

#USA #Minnesota #keep Leigh Finke away from minors #HR 1655 #HF 146 #Trans Refuge Bill #A grown man telling kids to not listen to their parents #A grown man advising minors to visit a sex shop #He was a friend of Larry Kramer

[penahana]

Hari kemarin, saya coba share kriteria memilih calon imam idaman. Kali ini, saya akan coba share tentang niat-niat dalam menikah. Sebenarnya sadari ataupun tidak, bab ini sering di tempatkan pada awal pembahasan. Kenapa? Karena bahasan inilah menjadi penentu, apakah perjuangan separuh agama kita benar-benar untuk ibadah mengharap rida Allah ataukah yang lainnya.

Banyak yang mau menikah, tapi tidak paham makna dan keutamaan nikah. Sedikit banget yang mau belajar ilmu pranikah, memikirkan mau melakukan hal apa setelah menikah, ataupun dapat doorprize apa setelah menikah.

Banyak yang gak paham ilmu ini, sampai akhirnya jemput sekedar jemput. Hal itu sangat berbahaya, karena bisa menghilangkan rasa ketika penjemputan dan menimbulkan kelelahan.

Mengutip salah satu hadist,

dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu bahwasanya Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda tentang tiga golongan yang pasti mendapat pertolongan Allah. Di antaranya,

وَالنَّاكِحُ الَّذِي يُرِيدُ الْعَفَافَ

“… seorang yang menikah karena ingin menjaga kesuciannya.” (HR. An Nasai no. 3218, At Tirmidzi 1655)

Nah, dari hadist di atas, itu salah satu niatan menikah. Pastikan niat menikah untuk menjaga kesucian agar Allah tolong.

Lalu, kenapa saya tuliskan 150 kebaikan buat menikah? Temen-temen perlu kita pahami, rumusan dan hakikat tertinggi dalam beragama adalah niat. Jika hal tersebut tidak ada di dalamnya, maka runtuhlah semua amaliah-amaliah di dalamnya.

Para salafus shalih di jaman dulu, mereka akan mengumpulkan 150 niat sebelum menikah. Berkaca dari hal itu, maka dibuatlah 150 kebaikan menikah. Memupuk diri memiliki niatan kuat, lurus dan murni.

Satu diantaranya sudah di sebutkan yaitu menikah untuk menjaga kesucian. Apa saja niatan lainnya?

1. Duhai Allah, saya niat menikah untuk terhindar dari zina.

2. Ya Allah, saya niat menikah untuk menjaga kedekatan dengan Mu.

3. Ya Allah, saya niat menikah untuk saling memotivasi dalam kebaikan dan kebermanfaatan.

4. Ya Rabb, saya niat menikah untuk membentuk keluarga yang memiliki karakter Qur'ani, Rabbani yang di ridai oleh Engkau.

5. Ya Allah, saya niat menikah untuk menjalankan sunnah kekasihMu, Rasulullah SAW.

6. Ya Rabb, saya niat menikah untuk memiliki banyak anak, karena ketika memiliki banyak anak/katurunan akan menjadi umat yang di banggakan Rasulullah di akhirat kelak.

7. Ya Rabb, saya niat menikah untuk memiliki anak soleh dan solehah, yang menjadi generasi madani dan menjadi juru dakwah kekasihmu, Rasulullah SAW.

8. Ya Allah, saya niat menikah untuk berkhidmat pada suami. Melayani suami sepenuh hati dan berusaha menjadi istri yang taat dan patuh pada suami.

9. Ya Rabb, saya niat menikah agar bisa menjadi teman berjuang suami dalam dakwah.

10. Ya Rabb, saya niat menikah untuk menjadi bunda terbaik, yang mampu memahami, mengayomi, dan mendukung anak-anaknya kelak.

Dan niatan lainnya yang tidak bisa saya tuliskan di sini. Niatan ini masih dalam proses penulisan, dan belum tuntas. Baru 60 kebaikan yang tertulis.

Bukan karena sulit. Namun,  penaku tak mampu menuliskannya, seperti ada getaran hebat di dalam hati, betapa mulia dan agungnya sebuah pernikahan.

Momen sakral untuk dua jiwa yang di persatukan karena landasan cinta kepada Rabb-Nya. Semoga dengan terus menambah dan mengupgrade niat menikah, Allah pertemukan  dengan salah satu hambanya yang memiliki niatan yang sama. Aamiin...

#sumber online class intensif pranikah bersama Ustad Yosi, bahasan the power of marriage.

#cinta #menikah #nikah #pernikahan #niatmenikah #kebaikanmenikah #penahana

[nypdparking]

Location: 84th Precinct Complaint: 1655 Response Time: 1 hr 20 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1656 Response Time: 50 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1657 Response Time: 1 hr 41 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1658 Response Time: 48 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1659 Response Time: 1 hr 44 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1660 Response Time: 47 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1661 Response Time: 32 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1662 Response Time: 1 hr 2 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1663 Response Time: 47 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1664 Response Time: 21 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1665 Response Time: 1 hr 0 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ---------- Complaint: 1666 Response Time: 20 mins "The Police Department responded to the complaint and determined that police action was not necessary." ----------

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1655 hrs | 8th january, 2020 | day 28/100

i wanted to work out today, but my treadmill died. also, how does time work? because i could only complete three mini chapters today, and that's just not enough before examinations.

I have four hours of math to do, so rip my sanity and my brain. i hope i don't die.

song of the day : awnko ki kothin // chandrabindu

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[usamah]

Dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu, ia berkata bahwa Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallambersabda:

“Ada tiga orang yang akan mendapatkan pertolongan Allah: (1) orang yang berjihad di jalan Allah, (2) orang yang menikah demi menjaga kesucian dirinya, (3) budak mukatab yang ingin membebaskan dirinya.”

(HR. An-Nasa’i, no. 3218; Tirmidzi, no. 1655; Ibnu Majah, no. 2518)

Allah maha tahu apa yang terbaik untuk hambanya, selama niatnya untuk beribadah agar menjadi orang yang bertaqwa.

-Bandung, 14 Ramadhan 1442H

[aperrywilliams]

A Normal Conversation Ch06 (Spencer Reid x Maxine Brenner)

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Chapter 6: Max, why him?

Summary: Max is uncomfortable with some things in her life

Word Count: 1655

Rating: General Audiences

A/N: We have all had doubts in life, right?

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Max considered herself delighted about how things are going. In her opinion the afternoon had been more than pleasant. It's undeniable that are some tension between them, but it surprised her how good they could start a conversation and flow for hours. Spencer, despite his shyness, manage to hook and relax talking about many things. Of course, his facts and statistics is always present, but Max don't mind that. She thinks this detail on him was adorably tender, nerdy and sexy at the same time.

He is an old fashion educated man. He offers his help to you for stand up from a chair, he offers to pay the bill at the coffee shop, he opens the door of cab. "Something tremendously strange for men of my generation" thought Max.

That day, without a doubt, the agreement of both to take things slowly brought more relaxation and lowered the tension. There was no need to rush things. They had only met a week ago and that still gave room for many things. There were many things they didn’t know about each other and they would discover them over time. For now, date like those was enough for her. Not speeding things up was important to Max. Her previous relationships and impulsiveness in life had brought her many tears and annoyances. She was determined to make it different from now on. “I'm grown-up now” she told herself. She couldn’t but laugh as she remembered how she flinched when Spencer said goodbye with a kiss on her cheek that night. The idea made her question about her "maturity". That man seemed so harmless and strange, but at the same time he looks very sexy and she couldn’t ignore that fact.

Max couldn't bet on whether things would be "on track" or would simply remain as a good memory and anecdote in the future, like many of his other past relationships. Why should it be different with Spencer? Not because their first encounter was fortuitous and pleasant at the same time, it'll became like a fairy tale relationship. “Remember Max, he works at the FBI. He sees the world's misery almost every day. How normal could his life be after all?” she asked herself, shrugging and without an answer.

For her side, she thinks that Spencer thought she was a "too normal" woman and that could be an interest but just in a particular moment in his life. "It clearly it doesn't guarantee anything," she told herself. "But what does it matter?" She ended her reflection with a much less thoughtful observation: "he looks amazing in a suit ... and I thought that only men wearing leather jackets could make me sigh" she mused.

"Okay Max, enough for today" said while started preparing dinner because hungry was hitting her. With plate ready, picked up one book to go over some things she was thinking of doing in classes the following week. She read while eating. When she finished, put the book down, washed the dishes and went to the bathroom to get ready and go to bed. Leaning her head on the pillow, immediately fell into a deep sleep.

The following days a new working week started at school. Max thought teaching was something she liked but she would like to have other instances too. Children are adorable, but the world of schools is much more than just teaching and doesn't like that as much. Nor was she had many options. Her degree in Art do not open as many doors as she would have liked. She also liked her independence, so it was not an option to stop working.

Every time she thought about it got depressed a bit, feeling herself a little tied hands in this matter. But at the same time she thought was being ungrateful in life, and that caused her a conflict. "Is it wrong to want more?" sometimes wondered herself.

That week the questions came back with more recurrence. It was time for quarterly planning at school, and it was usual for those days to take work to home after her job time. Precisely that night after dinner she was focused on planning the 3rd grade course. Trying to fit the activities that she could do with the subjects that it was supposed to cover and it didn't fit. Max was frustrated and tired.

"This is killing me! Damn it!" said closing her laptop abruptly. Closed her eyes and tried to focus on breathing. Must needed to calm down. In that exactly moment her cell phone rang. It was Spencer. When she saw the phone remembered had not responded to the message he had sent early in the morning. They hadn't spoken on the phone since the weekend, either. She realized how focused she was on the work those days. Picked up the phone and answered. "Hi Spencer ..." said in a voice of tiredness that couldn't hide. Spencer noticed it immediately.

"Hi Max. Are you okay?"

"Hi… yes. Yes, I’m ok… I'm just a little tired…"

"If you're too tired I can call you tomorrow..." Spencer didn't want to make Max uncomfortable.

"No. It’s ok. I had just stopped working… I think I need a little disconnection”. Max said with a sigh.

"And I thought I was the workaholic..." Spencer tried to joke on the other side of the line. But Max didn’t laugh. Spencer got worried. "Are you sure everything is okay?". Max began to breathe with a little difficulty due to the anxiety was feeling at the moment.

“Have you ever felt that there are things you do just because you have no choice, but then you realize that perhaps you do have options but you are too afraid to explore them?” said Max. Spencer could swore she let out a sob.

“I think I know what you mean… it’s not easy to explore other options when fear paralyzes you. It's like... bolding to something different...". He said speaking in a softly tone trying to capture her mood. "Max, what's going on? I listen you overwhelmed...". Max sighed again trying to regain her mood.

"I do not know. Today has been one of those days when I question everything: my decisions, my work, how I have led my life... virtually everything! It really sucks…”

"Do you want to talk about it?" Spencer said in a soft and gentle voice. Max didn't want to sound like a hysterical nonconformist, but she couldn't help but feel overwhelmed.

"Swear to me if I tell you, you won't end up thinking that I'm a bad person…" said Max.

"I think I could never think that ... but if it makes you feel better, I swear it" Spencer said.

Max started talking about her job, about the decisions she had made in college. How difficult was to be able to become independent from her parents, how much liked her independence, how loved children but life at school was absorbing her more than she could realize, how much wanted to be able to use her skills in other way and how limited she feel. Spencer listened quietly and carefully. When Max spat out everything it was stuck in her chest, Spencer began to speak.

“I know we don't know each other very much… yet. And if you allow me the confidence… I could say with almost complete certainty what you need is to make a change, at least in your work. And it is curious I say it, because I have the same fear of changes. What strikes me is it seems that in other aspects of your life it is easier for you to let go things…”

"Yes, I also unknow myself sometimes... I feel in the rest of the things I struggle myself less, but when it comes to this... I don't know, it beats me…"

"I know the feeling..." Spencer said.

"But you like your job..." said Max.

"I love it!... and I think you also like yours. Only there are times when we are overwhelmed more than we should”. Spencer said it with a sigh and thinking what he had just said.

"No, no, no... Spencer, don't do it. The one who is having doubts here is me and its should not be contagious. Maybe I shouldn't have told you this…” Max said with concern.

"Don´t worry, I’m ok... and of course you should tell me! I was concerned about the voice you answered the phone with… I was really worried” Spencer said.

"Thanks for listening me, I feel a little better..." Max said with complete sincerity.

"You don’t need to thank to me. Although I think this is only a sign of one thing…” Spencer said. Max doesn’t know why he said it but she needed to ask.

"Yes? ... sign of what?" Max asked curiously.

"That we should have our second date" said Spencer. Max couldn't help but laugh on the other end of the phone.

"Is Dr. Reid asking me out?" she teased.

"Yes, Dr. Reid is asking you out. Although I think this time he should be smarter and invite you for lunch” said Spencer remembering his bad idea of coffee without lunch.

"Yes. I like the idea. Can you tomorrow ?, I have a class space between 12:00 and 15:00 hrs ”

"It seems perfect for me. I’ll pick you up in your school tomorrow”

"It would be great" said Max.

"Excellent. At 12:00 I’ll be there… now try to rest, I think you have worked a lot today”.

"Yes, I will do that. I'll go to bed right now, I can't take another second with the laptop. Good night Spencer”

"Good night, Max". They both hung up the phone. Max smiled and thought “Okay Spencer, this invitation came out better than the last one. It seems like you are a quick study” said when was preparing to go to bed.

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[skippyv20]

💜💜💜🙏🏻🙏🏻PG INTERPRETATION OF MM ANON🙏🏻🙏🏻💜💜💜

MM Anon

MM ANON ……… “ I don’t want to go back!!!”…… “ get him a title”………… “ a monthly periodical” ……… “mental health and well-being” ……… A brief synopsis LG……… “ I’ve prepared a small dossier ma’am”…… “One has no choice”……… “I’ll contemplate it”………… “ Somewhere warm Catherine”……… keep a low profile ………… he’ll do what he’s told!!!! ………… perhaps a state visit??………… “springtime with Boris in harmony” ……… “Mmmmmm, god help us”.

💜💜💜🙏🏻🙏🏻🍾🍾🥂🥂HAPPY NEW YEAR MM ANON 🥂🥂🍾🍾🙏🏻🙏🏻💜💜💜

JANUARY 1/2020

RIDDLE #157

1620 hrs CST

“ I don’t want to go back!!!”…… “ get him a title”………… “ a monthly periodical”

Madam refuses as does NOT WANT TO GO BACK TO THE PALACE OR BE NEAR ANY OF THE BRF  THEM! IS SHE IN CANADA….NO…IS SHE IN AMERICA…..NO….IS SHE IN ISTANBUL…..MAYBE……DEFINITELY USED THE AEGEAN SEA AS BACKDROP FOR THE NEW PHOTOSHOPPED PHOTO!!  SHE IS DEMANDING A TITLE FOR ARCHIFICIAL!!  CRAZINESS ABOUNDS!! WE KNOW MADAM READS ALLEGEDLY FINANCIAL TIMES AS SHE OFTEN TWITTERS THUS.HOWEVER SINCE SHE WAS REFUSED ENTRY TO CANADA,  MADAM ALLEGEDLY HAS BEEN UNABLE TO HAVE OR PROCURE ARTIFICIAL INSEMINATION , FROZEN EMBRYOS ETC....

  “mental health USED Aand well-being” 

WHAT IS USED A?? THINGS ARE BEING DONE FOR THE BABY, AND FOR HARRY MENTAL HEALTH AND WELL BEING. IS A FOR ARCHIE? SHE IS GOING TO TRY TO  USING MENTAL HEALTH AS A DEFENCE. USED HAS MANY ACRONOYMS, UNITED STATES ED.?? 

I ADMIT IT KIDS, I AM STUMPED WITH USED Aand. THE A IS ARCHIE BUT AS FOR THE REST…..I DO NOT KNOW!

 A brief synopsis LG……… “ I’ve prepared a small dossier ma’am”…… “One has no choice”……… “I’ll contemplate it”

HMTQ IN DISCUSSIONS WITH LG REQUESTING A BRIEFING UPDATE FROM LG.  LG HAS PREPARED A DOSSIER ON MADAMS ACTIVITIES AND TRAVELS, JUST ALL THE EVIL NONSENSE SHE HAS BEEN UP TO! HMTQ READING IT AND FEELS SPEAKING IN THIRD PERSON FORM AS THE MONARCH, ONS HAS NO CHOICE, MEANING SHE HAS NO CHOICE BUT TO ACT, THE DETAILS IN THE DOSSIER INDICATE MAJOR SERIOUS CONCERNS, LIKE INTERNATIONAL OR NATIONAL SECURITY IMPLICATIONS. HMTQ HAS NOT MADE FINAL DECISION AND IS THINKING ON THE MATTER!!THIS MUST BE EXTREMELY CONCERNING!!

 “ Somewhere warm Catherine”……… keep a low profile 

WILLIAM IS SUGGESTING A WARM TRIP SOMEWHERE LOWKEY TO HAVE A REST , A BABY MOON IF YOU LIKE😁😁😁😁😁AS COUPLES DO BEFORE THE ARRIVAL OF A NEW BABY.

HOWEVER I TRULY THINK THIS IS WILLIAM  TALKING TO CATHERINE ABOUT HARRY, HE IS SOMEWHERE WARM, WITH CLOSE FRIENDS, ENGLISH 🌹AND RPO’S!! KEEPING A VERY LOW PROFILE!!

 he’ll do what he’s told!!!! ………… perhaps a state visit??………… “springtime with Boris in harmony” ……… “Mmmmmm, god help us”.

PRINCE CHARLES AND HMTQ, SPEAKING OF PA AS HE WILL NOW HAVE TO DO AS HE IS TOLD, HIS PORTFOLIO AND PRIVY PURSE FUNDING  IS GONE, SO SAD. SUGGESTING AN OFFICIAL STATE  VISIT FOR WHOM, HARRY?? HARRY TO REINFORCE HIS ROLE AS A ROYAL FAMILY MEMBER ONCE THINGS COME OUT ABOUT MADAM OR IS HMTQ SUGGESTING A VISIT FROM PRESIDENT TRUMP TO MEET WITH BOJO AND VISIT THE U.K. I KNOW THIS SOUNDS PREPOSTEROUS BUT I AM WINGING IT HERE. THERE ARE CONCERNS RE HOW BOJO WILL MANAGE AS PM, AND LOOMING BREXIT, HOW WILL THINGS GO IN THE SPRINGTIME. PRAYING FOR GOD’S HELP, ANTICIPATING THE CHALLENGES.

1655 hrsCST

GSTQAOBC 🇨🇦

Thank you PG....hmmm...much to ponder.  Much appreciated....😊💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

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Diskusi Pra Nikah @nikahsyari @diklatnikah Tema: Menikah Cepat Atau Menikah Tepat. Oleh ustad: Taufik Zulfahmi, M.A. Ada beberapa nasihat yang bisa dilakukan, agar kebahgiaan anda semakin berkah dan anda tidak dihantui dengan perasaan takut kehilangannya, 1. Rasa Tawakal Kepada Allah. وَمَنْ يَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ فَهُوَ حَسْبُهُ “Barangsiapa yang bertawakkal kepada Allah, maka Dia akan memberi kecukupan baginya.” (QS. at-Thalaq: 3) Kedepankan perasaan tawakkal, setiap anda menghadapi kenyataan yang tidak pasti. Pasrahkan kepada Allah, dalam setiap upaya untuk kebahagiaan anda. 2. Hadirkan Semangat Niat untuk Menjaga Kehormatan Ketika anda menikah dalam rangka mencari yang halal, maka pernikahan anda bernilai ibadah. Itulah, anda berhak mendapatan pertolongan dari Allah. Dalam hadis dari Abu Hurairah Radhiyallahu ‘anhu, Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, ثَلاَثَةٌ حَقٌّ عَلَى اللَّهِ عَوْنُهُمُ الْمُجَاهِدُ فِى سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ وَالْمُكَاتَبُ الَّذِى يُرِيدُ الأَدَاءَ وَالنَّاكِحُ الَّذِى يُرِيدُ الْعَفَافَ Ada tiga orang, Allah berhak membantunya: Orang yang berjihad di jalan Allah, budak yang melakukan transaksi mukatabah (menebus dirinya), dan orang yang menikah karena ingin menjaga kehormatan. (HR. Nasai 1655, Turmudzi 1756, dan dihasankan al-Albani). 3. Pahami hak dan kewajiban Bagian inilah yang paling penting. Masing-masing pasangan harus memahami hak dan kewajiban masing-masing. Setiap keluarga berpeluang menjadi keluarga yang baik, ketika masing-masing memenuhi semua yang menjadi tanggung jawabnya. Maa syaa Allah Barakallah kak @az_fath19 yang udah mau berbagi catatan nya❤ #asolstais_elkaffah #diklatnikah https://www.instagram.com/p/B_mLzRvDIJA/?igshid=bjxhojrz6afc

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Book Review | GOOD OMENS, by Neil Gaiman & Terry Pratchett

Book Review | GOOD OMENS, by Neil Gaiman & Terry Pratchett

Good Omens, by Terry Pratchett & Neil Gaiman

Publish Date: May 1, 1990 Published by: William Morrow/HarperCollins Audiobook Narrated by: Martin Jarvis Length: 12 hrs 33 min (412 pages) Genre: Fantasy My Rating: ★★★☆☆ (3 out of 5 stars)

Synopsis:

According to The Nice and Accurate Prophecies of Agnes Nutter, Witch (the world’s only completely accurate book of prophecies, written in 1655, before she…

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Arkansas Bill to Prohibit Domestic Abusers from Owning Firearms

Arkansas Bill to Prohibit Domestic Abusers from Owning Firearms

Federal law and all states have laws that prohibit felons from owning a gun, with varying degrees of success. An Arkansas Democrat has introduced HR 1655, a bill which seeks to prevent anyone who has been convicted of misdemeanor domestic abuse from owning a gun.

Many states already have laws similar to this one regarding a conviction of domestic abuse – or “violent misdemeanors.” One problem…

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▶️Apa Benar Menikah Membuka Pintu Rezeki?◀️ ㅤㅤ Banyak yang sudah membuktikan bahwa dengan menikah akan terbuka pintu rezeki. Awalnya cuma hidup pas-pasan dengan gaji pas-pasan dan hidup di rumah kontrakan yang sempit serta makan yang pas-pasan. Ternyata Allah beri kelapangan setelah kesempitan. Karena Allah menolong setiap orang yang menikah yang ingin menjaga kesucian dirinya. ㅤㅤ ㅤㅤ 📗 Dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu, ia berkata bahwa Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, ㅤㅤ ㅤㅤ ثَلَاثَةٌ كُلُّهُمْ حَقٌّ عَلَى اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ عَوْنُهُ الْمُجَاهِدُ فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ وَالنَّاكِحُ الَّذِي يُرِيدُ الْعَفَافَ وَالْمُكَاتَبُ الَّذِي يُرِيدُ الْأَدَاءَ ㅤㅤ ㅤㅤ “Ada tiga orang yang akan mendapatkan pertolongan Allah: 1️⃣ orang yang berjihad di jalan Allah, 2️⃣ orang yang menikah demi menjaga kesucian dirinya, 3️⃣ budak mukatab yang ingin membebaskan dirinya.” (HR. An-Nasa’i, no. 3218; Tirmidzi, no. 1655; Ibnu Majah, no. 2518. Al-Hafizh Abu Thahir mengatakan bahwa sanad hadits ini hasan). ㅤㅤ https://www.instagram.com/p/Bm9zSGxDocK/

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#QuoteOfTheDay (20210515): “Aku ingin mengungkapkan rasa kasihku padamu melalui kata-kata, jadi aku menyebutmu dalam semua doaku.” (Abu Mahira) Jangan meremehkan doa suami-istri yang menikah karena Allah. Allah pasti akan menurunkan pertolongan. Rasulullah ﷺ bersabda, “Ada tiga golongan manusia yang berhak mendapat pertolongan Allah. Yaitu, mujahid fisabilillah, budak yang menebus dirinya supaya merdeka, dan orang yang menikah karena ingin memelihara kehormatannya.” (HR. At-Tirmidzi: 1655) “Ya Allah, jadikanlah mawaddah dan rahmah antara aku dan istriku yang terbaik. Jadikanlah kelembutan dan kesabaran antara aku dan istriku yang paling sempurna. Ya Allah, bahagiakan ia bersamaku dan bahagiakan aku bersamanya, janganlah Kau haramkan aku dari keberadaanya di dunia dan di surga abadi. Dan tunjukkan kami untuk menepati setiap yang Engkau cintai dan ridhai, ya Allah ya Karim.” #Dua #Pray #Express #Love #Married #Allah #Shake #Help #Milad #Wife #LDR Telegram Channel: https://t.me/xQoTD https://www.instagram.com/p/CO3hvrFAClb/?igshid=1ayx2d6fw3dmi

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1655 hrs | 16th january, 2021 | day 36/100

faced with the inevitability of winging exams, i don't know what to do. i try to get work done, to try and complete chapters, but it seems like an insurmountable task.

i gave @flowersinherlungs their birthday gift today, and i am so glad they liked it. i wish i could be with them on their birthday also, but life just,,, sux.

song of the day : raag baageshree // me

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Restu Keluarga 01

Hari ini tiba-tiba saja saya kepikiran untuk menulis surat. Surat yang saya tujukan untuk mereka yang selama ini telah membersamaiku. Mereka yang katanya ingin sekali melihatku bahagia. Keluarga. Sungguh memiliki kalian adalah anugrah terbesar dalam hidup saya. Dimana saya tumbuh dan memanen banyak hikmah dan pelajaran.

Nggak terasa yah om, tante, bu, kak Anti bentar lagi masuk quarter life crisis loh. Yeay, Alhamdulillah. Yang kata orang the golden agenya fase awal kedewasaan. Rasanya mau nangis, hehehe. Dari 24 tahun umur saya habiskan, kalian selalu ada disamping saya memberikan warna hingga membentukku menjadi seorang perempuan tangguh seperti sekarang. Sekali lagi makasih.

Kak Anti sayang kalian semua. Ummmuaaaaach

Banyak hal yang kemudian membawa saya merenungi banyak hal. Kalau bukan karena kehebatan didikan kedisiplinan, kemandirian dari seorang bapak Aji, kelembutan dan kesabaran dari Mama Aji, kasih sayang yang tulus dari tante Aji Idang, yang mewarnai masa kecilku dengan begitu indah, mungkin Anti nggak bakalan pernah ada dengan kepribadian seperti ini.

Tetiba rindu bapak Aji, mama Aji dan tante Aji. Ahhh, air mata merembes kayak hujan deras sekarang. Peluk dan cium serta doa-doa terbaik untuk mereka. Juga ibu, om, tante, kakak-kakakku semuanya. Terimah kasih sudah sejauh ini sabar menghadapi kekerasan kepala Anti. Anti yang suka lawan orang tua, Anti yang tidak pernah mengerti keluarga. Anti yang ini. Anti yang itu. Hehehe. Maafkan yah!

Anti tahu kalau Anti dikeluarga dikenal keras. Itu karena Anti hidup dengan prinsip yang jelas.

Anti punya orientasi yang kadang dianggap aneh oleh sebagian keluarga. Orientasi yang sebenarnya Anti rawat agar bisa membawa Anti ke syurgaNya insya Allah.

Berjilbab lebar, bercadar bahkan sampai keinginan untuk menikah, benar-benar membuat saya hari ini belajar banyak hal. Membuat Anti lebih dewasa dengan berbagai penolakan disana-sini yang kadang sudah tak bisa dibendung dengan bergunung-gunung judgement, bullying, kata-kata yang menyakitkan hati. Tapi Anti mah kuat InsyaAllah. Udah kebal sama yang namanya penolakan. Kalapun semua manusia menjauh, Anti selalu punya Allah. Hanya bisa nepuk-nepuk dada sambil bilang ke hati sendiri. Sabar yah Anti sayang, ini mah ujian. Sementara aja. Allah pengen lihat Anti bisa ndak melewatinya. Karena ada jaminan pahala diujung perjalanan nanti.

Mungkin om, tante dan kakakku nggak pernah bayangin gimana rasanya harus bersembunyi dari acara pernikahan kakak sendiri. Diusir dari rumah. Dianggap pembangkang, durhaka. Mungkin semuanya nggak pernah rasain bagaimana harus survive diluar sana, menyicil motor, berdagang sana sini. Mungkin semuanya nggak pernah rasain bagiamana berjalan sepotong jalan hanya untuk menghemat biaya ke tempat tarbiyah karena motor disita. Mungkin semuanya nggak pernah rasain kan? Hehehe. Tahu gimana rasanya? Rasanya nikmat banget. Kalian mungkin mengira aku nangis menye-menye? Hehehe.

Namun sungguh disitulah titik puncak kebahagian. Selalu ada Allah yang membersamaiku tatkala satu persatu dari kalian seolah acuh dan tak memperdulikanku.

Keraguan demi keraguan bermunculan. Ahh, cadarmu bikin masa depanmu suram Anti. “Hey, Mau jadi apa kamu nanti? Penjual telur keliling?”

Rasanya nyesek banget kalau ingat itu semua. Tapi Alhamdulillah dengan keimanan yang Allah titipkan, segalanya Allah mudahkan. Hingga pekerjaan menjadi wali santri, wali kelas, wali tahfidz, dan memiliki anak santri yang selalu mendoakanku adalah kebahagiaan yang tak terkira.

Hari ini setiap orang mengejar kebahagiaan kan yah. Namun sayang Kebahagiaan yang mereka kira ada di balik tembok kokoh rumah mewah dengan seabrek fasilitasnya, kebahagiaan dengan gelar, pekerjaan dan gaji prestisius, kebahagiaan dengan kesempurnaan keluarga punya anak,kebahagiaan karena memiliki kekayaan berdigit-digit di atm, punya sawah kebun berhektar-hektar sebenarnya hanyalah kebahagiaan-kebahgiaan yang semu. Hanya sementara saja.

Karena kebahagiaan yang sesungguhnya ada pada ketaatan kita kepada Allah.

Dan itu sudah saya buktikan sendiri. Bagaimana hati senantiasa tenang dengan membaca kalamya, pikiran selalu jernih karena berprasangka baik kepada seseorang, bagimana akhlak terbentuk karena sedemikan takutnya kita kepada Allah. Fafiruru Ilallah. Segala permasalahan kembalikan semuanya pada Allah. Yakinki sama pertolongannya Allah.

Hari ini mungkin beban hidup kita berlebih membuat kepala serasa ingin pecah saja. Mendapati dapur yang mungkin berbulan-bulan tak berasap.

Hari ini mungkin kekecewaan kita sudah berada diambang batas, membuat dada sesak tak tertahankan.

Dan boleh jadi hari ingin sekali rasanya kita berlari menjauh dari hiruk pikuk dunia yang begitu melelahkan.

Namun ingatlah satu hal, bahwa tempat menumpahkan segala keresahan terbaik adalah dengan bermunajat dan menggunung lembahkan doa kepada Allah.

Allah tahu keadaan hambahNya. Dan biasanya pertolongan Allah ada di detik-detik terakhir. Jangan pernah berkurang keyakinan kita kepada Allah. Selalu, ingatlah selalu Allah tidak pernah memberikan ujian diluar batas kesanggupan hambahnya. Tata niat lagi. Sudahkah Allah menjadi yang pertama? Ayuk berprasangka baik atas segala ketetapnNya.

Anti yang sedikit ilmu ini, mohon maaf jika sudah lancang menggurui, sudah lancang meminta, sudah lancang membuat kalian semua pusing. Anti minta maaf.

Hari ini Anti cuma kepingin ketuk hati orang-orang yang dikeraskan oleh ego mereka sendiri. Came on! Addunnia mata ul gurur. Hidup ini sementaraji kasian. Isi dengan banyak melakukan kebaikan. Dan salah satu kebaikan terbesar adalah membantu kebahagiaan seseorang.

Ketika ada yang berniat menikah misalnya. Jangan dipersulit dan dikekang. Orang yang memilih dan memutuskan untuk menikah pun tentu melalui serangkaian kontemplasi dengan dirinya sendiri.

Bukannya menikah adalah ibadah? Membantu mereka adalah pahala kan?

Dari Anas bin Malik radhiyallahu ‘anhu, ia berkata bahwa Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ العَبْدُ فَقَدْ كَمَّلَ نَصْفَ الدِّيْنِ ، فَلْيَتَّقِ اللهَ فِي النِّصْفِ البَاقِي

“Jika seseorang menikah, maka ia telah menyempurnakan separuh agamanya. Karenanya, bertakwalah pada Allah pada separuh yang lainnya.” (HR. Al Baihaqi dalam Syu’abul Iman. “

Mungkin akan ada sebagian yang nyinyir.

“Kenapa sekali moko kah dek? Kebelet sekali menikah! Ampunma saya!”

“ Allahu Rabbi, sungguh engkau tahu niat-niat hambahmu. Allahu mustaan. Allah yang paling tahu kemana niat ia bawa.”

Kakak sayang, sini adik bisikan satu hal. Bahwa pernikahan memiliki keutamaan yang sangat banyak. Saya mendapatkan ilmunya di majelis tarbiyah yang saban hari kalian kira sebagai tempat kumpulnya teroris. Kak dengan nikah berarti seseorang membentengi diri dari godaan syaithon, membentengi diri dari syahwat dan lebih menundukkan pandangan.”

(1) Menikah akan membuat seseorang lebih merasakan ketenangan.

Coba renungkan ayat berikut, Allah Ta’ala berfirman,

وَمِنْ ءَايَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا

“Dan di antara tanda-tanda kekuasaan-Nya ialah Dia menciptakan untukmu isteri-isteri dari jenismu sendiri, supaya kamu cenderung dan merasa tenteram kepadanya.” (QS. Ar-Ruum:21).

Lihatlah ayat ini menyebutkan bahwa menikah akan lebih tentram karena adanya pendamping. Al Mawardi dalam An Nukat wal ‘Uyun berkata mengenai ayat tersebut, “Mereka akan begitu tenang ketika berada di samping pendamping mereka karena Allah memberikan pada nikah tersebut ketentraman yang tidak didapati pada yang lainnya.” Sungguh faedah yang menenangkan jiwa setiap pemuda.

(2) Jangan khawatir, Allah yang akan mencukupkan rizki

Dari segi finansial sebenarnya sudah cukup, namun selalu timbul was-was jika ingin menikah. Was-was yang muncul, “Apa bisa rizki saya mencukupi kebutuhan anak istri?” Jika seperti itu, maka renungkanlah ayat berikut ini,

وَأَنكِحُوا اْلأَيَامَى مِنكُمْ وَالصَّالِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَآئِكُمْ إِن يَكُونُوا فُقَرَآءَ يُغْنِهِمُ اللهُ مِن فَضْلِهِ وَاللهُ وَاسِعٌ عَلِيمٌ

“Dan kawinkanlah orang-orang yang sendirian di antara kamu, dan orang-orang yang layak (berkawin) dari hamba-hamba sahayamu yang lelaki dan hamba-hamba sahayamu yang perempuan. Jika mereka miskin Allah akan memampukan mereka dengan karunia-Nya. Dan Allah Maha luas (pemberian-Nya) lagi Maha Mengetahui.” (QS. An Nuur: 32). Nikah adalah suatu ketaatan. Dan tidak mungkin Allah membiarkan hamba-Nya sengsara ketika mereka ingin berbuat kebaikan semisal menikah.

Di antara tafsiran Surat An Nur ayat 32 di atas adalah: jika kalian itu miskin maka Allah yang akan mencukupi rizki kalian. Boleh jadi Allah mencukupinya dengan memberi sifat qona’ah (selalu merasa cukup) dan boleh jadi pula Allah mengumpulkan dua rizki sekaligus (Lihat An Nukat wal ‘Uyun). Jika miskin saja, Allah akan cukupi rizkinya. Bagaimana lagi jika yang bujang sudah berkecukupan dan kaya?

Dari ayat di atas, Ibnu Mas’ud radhiyallahu ‘anhu berkata,

التمسوا الغنى في النكاح

“Carilah kaya (hidup berkecukupan) dengan menikah.” (Lihat Tafsir Al Qur’an Al ‘Azhim mengenai tafsir ayat di atas).

Disebutkan pula dalam hadits bahwa Allah akan senantiasa menolong orang yang ingin menjaga kesucian dirinya lewat menikah. Dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu bahwasanya Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda tentang tiga golongan yang pasti mendapat pertolongan Allah. Di antaranya,

وَالنَّاكِحُ الَّذِي يُرِيدُ الْعَفَافَ

“… seorang yang menikah karena ingin menjaga kesuciannya.” (HR. An Nasai no. 3218, At Tirmidzi no. 1655. Syaikh Al Albani mengatakan bahwa hadits ini hasan). Ahmad bin Syu’aib Al Khurasani An Nasai membawakan hadits tersebut dalam Bab “Pertolongan Allah bagi orang yang nikah yang ingin menjaga kesucian dirinya”. Jika Allah telah menjanjikan demikian, itu berarti pasti. Maka mengapa mesti ragu?

(3) Orang yang menikah berarti menjalankan sunnah para Rasul

Allah Ta’ala berfirman,

وَلَقَدْ أَرْسَلْنَا رُسُلاً مِن قَبْلِكَ وَجَعَلْنَا لَهُمْ أَزْوَاجًا وَذُرِّيَّةً

“Dan sesungguhnya Kami telah mengutus beberapa Rasul sebelum kamu dan Kami memberikan kepada mereka istri-istri dan keturunan.” (QS. Ar Ra’du: 38). Ini menunjukkan bahwa para rasul itu menikah dan memiliki keturunan.

Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

أَرْبَعٌ مِنْ سُنَنِ الْمُرْسَلِينَ الْحَيَاءُ وَالتَّعَطُّرُ وَالسِّوَاكُ وَالنِّكَاحُ

“Empat perkara yang termasuk sunnah para rasul, yaitu sifat malu, memakai wewangian, bersiwak dan menikah.” (HR. Tirmidzi no. 1080 dan Ahmad 5/421. Hadits ini dho’if sebagaimana kata Syaikh Al Albani dan Syaikh Syu’aib Al Arnauth. Namun makna hadits ini sudah didukung oleh ayat Al Qur’an yang disebutkan sebelumnya)

(4) Menikah lebih akan menjaga kemaluan dan menundukkan pandangan

Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

يَا مَعْشَرَ الشَّبَابِ مَنِ اسْتَطَاعَ مِنْكُمُ الْبَاءَةَ فَلْيَتَزَوَّجْ فَإِنَّهُ أَغَضُّ لِلْبَصَرِ وَأَحْصَنُ لِلْفَرْجِ وَمَنْ لَمْ يَسْتَطِعْ فَعَلَيْهِ بِالصَّوْمِ فَإِنَّهُ لَهُ وِجَاءٌ

“Wahai para pemuda, barangsiapa yang memiliki baa-ah[1], maka menikahlah. Karena itu lebih akan menundukkan pandangan dan lebih menjaga kemaluan. Barangsiapa yang belum mampu, maka berpuasalah karena puasa itu bagai obat pengekang baginya.” (HR. Bukhari no. 5065 dan Muslim no. 1400).

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Makassar 21 Februari 2018

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