#being a big sister is not easy

[simssong]

girl bonding.

// 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘚𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘳𝘴

#being a big sister is not easy #the sims 4 #ts4 #simblr #the singers #singers6 #sims 4 stories #ts4 legacy gameplay

[admirableadmiranda]

You know what? I think people forget that Wen Qing is realistically probably in her early to mid twenties at the start of the sunshot campaign.

Like I see a lot of people make her Wei Wuxian’s age or just one to two years older, but she’s a seasoned doctor running a supervisory camp and she calls Jiang Cheng and Wei Wuxian brats and bosses Wen Ning around and suddenly this all makes a lot more sense to me if she’s actually twenty five at the time and they’re seventeen.

It certainly gives her the time to build up the reputation and skill set that she has in canon without begging the question of how she’s had the time to train as a cultivator and a doctor and deal with Wen Ruohan on top of it.

#mdzs #wen qing #yes I know that Wen chao gets one too #but she has the Yiling office before Yunmeng Jiang is disposed #whereas Wen chao gets the supervisory office that if WWX hadn’t come back from the bm would have been easy to hold #especially with the core melting hand at his side #I dunno just now I’ve considered her being eight years older than WWX and I really like that #big big sister WQ

[r0b0t1me]

been reading idw. had an epiphany

#my art #rottmnt #rottmnt movie #casey jones i must know more about you #i havent drawn it but i do think #casey looked up to and liked to hang out with april when she #wasnt busy being a commander #so a lot of that respect carries over.. i think its easy to open up to her #she also just has that big sister aura

[crowrelli]

ive had a migraine for THREE days and it just keeps getting worse

#i have like a headcold like thing again that fucking nothing is touching #steam doesnt work #caffine doesnt work #meds dont work #weed doesnt work #cutting down lights and everything helps it not flare up but like what the fuck #BUT i have to work on coms and sketches today so end me #tw illness #tw drug mention #vent tw #i dont talk about it a lot but fuck my immune system has just tanked the last few years and its honestly moved past being scary into just #straight up obnoxious and time consuming #also babe if u see this im toooootally taking it easy toooootally mhm not working at all the tag above was a lie completely ilyyyy <3 <3 <3 #feeling like the sister from the big time rush show where she gets bundled up in blankets with a vacuum sized humidifier in her face

[tvlandofficiall]

never suggest a darkner idea to me i can and will come up with a concept for an inconceivably lengthy hypothetical chapter idea surrounding them

#ooc #deltarune #was thinking about a birdcage darkner centric chapter that deals with kris' awareness of the darkners #and ralsei's awareness of the true scope of being one #i also had an idea for the red guitar and angel doll being sisters like dess and noelle ... but that idea's way less fleshed out #i just think birdcage darkner could be a really easy way to move forward a lot of nessecary plot beats #plus you could have susie and lancer doing a b plot about the closed dark worlds since that seems like their Big Plot going forward

[hella1975]

I'm not done yet but hey are you giving zuko eldest daughter trauma because I'll fucking kill you I read ONE line it's probably the first of what's to come but I'm sending the hate ask now xoxo

ofc i wouldn't do that! he's just fistfighting a saviour complex and is eternally burdened by the responsibility of raising and caring for his sister while simultaneously being a child himself and always putting himself before the worst of the war so that azula doesn't have to all the while growing more and more rage towards the situation until it all comes out in a very cataclysmic scene that i will definitely cry at when writing :)

#he's got that fiona gallagher in him #big thief rlly went to town with mythological beauty and 'there is a child inside you who is trying to raise a child in me' v tams zukocore #the funny thing about zuko and azula's relationship is that yes it's kinda wholesome but it is still ultimately fucked #and yet i find them pretty easy to write bc i literally just go 'what would me and my sister be like in this situation' #like ive said before how my sister never really stepped up as the eldest and ive always felt like we shared that role #like i'll give it to her she's better at being the eldest in certain situations and im better in others #and it's always been us helping our mum bc as capable and brilliant as my mum is she's also doing everything alone #and her temper is... not great. so me and my sister took care of each other in our own way #and by 'our own way' i mean we have NEVER had a stereotypical relationship. our age gap is too small and we're both too mean #literally zuko's ch1 quote about 'they'd never been protective of each other' is directly inspired by me and my sister #i dont feel protective of her i dont feel a need to keep her safe and happy and it's really odd bc i KNOW im supposed to but i just dont #and she doesnt for me even though she's the 'eldest'. and yet i love her and would kill and die for her #and also if we were in this situation and we were trying to shield each other #from certain horrors that we thought the other couldn't handle then we'd have to be SO CLEVER ABOUT IT #bc just like zuko with azula if i caught my sister trying to patronise me/protect me i would HIT THE ROOF #like i am thoroughly convinced there is nothing she can handle that i cant and vice versa so we'd have to be soooo slick about it #and while with zuko and azula that only holds to an extent bc azula is ultimately YEARS younger than zuko #and whatever you think of her personality she just straight up should not be exposed to certain things #(neither should zuko but yk what i mean) #it still stands and we see throughout tams the v clever ways zuko has learned to protect azula so that she doesnt catch on #like either the next chapter or the one after (probs the one after) there's a really horrific scene #that's just super dark and gory and while with a normal younger sibling you'd do something to keep their eyes on you and not on the scene #like lie to them or make it into a game or something so they're unaware of what's happening #but instead zuko sees what's happening and before azula can he quickly gets her to check their supplies and count their money or some shit #like giving her a job to acknowledge her capability and not patronise her while still shielding her from a really brutal scene #and it just goes over zuko's head that at sixteen he ALSO SHOULD NOT BE EXPOSED TO THAT #but long story short i just think that's so funny. like the fire hazards are sooo fucked and for good reason #but it literally just boils down to me and my dumbass sister #so yeah. very niche eldest daughter syndrome emanating from tams zuko #ask

[aroaceofthesea]

Agdfajsfdg i love my friends

#i just spent the day with one of my groups of friends and 🥰🥰🥰 #its rlly fucking cool bc we met over 2 years ago in a summer camp #and that summer we met a couple times like a big meeting of almost all of us #but that hasnt happened since then like we did small meetings where we were 4 or 5 sometimes we managed to be a couple more #but today we finally managed to organize a big meeting we were 13 and i loved it? #people i hadnt seen since that summer were here #i love how it felt so special but at the same time it felt super normal as if we did this every few weeks #it Definitely does not feel like i havent seen them in years at most it was a couple months wdym #we dont even talk that much in the gc we mostly just say goodmorning and goodnight every day like a 50 year olds gc or smth lol #but im so happy we did this i love how easy it is to spend time with anyone there and everything #also i love that were super cuddly with a couple of them without it being weird at all? idk i lowkey love it #also i learned a new cards game today and im so ready to kick my sisters butt at it😈😈 #anyways i love my friends and i could fucking rant about this in the gc but im too awkward for this so here it is loolll #mine #friends #life

[gardeninggraves]

watching a reaction video for encanto and immediately exiting out of it when they dont understand isabela as a character and tear her down the entire time during her song is self care

#listen. i say this as someone who isnt even a big fan of isabella #but damn bro ur really just sitting here not caring about her feelings WHEN THE ENTIRE POINT OF THE MOVIE IS THAT THEYRE ALL NOT OK #SOMETIMES WHEN PPL ARENT OK THEY REDIRECT THEIR ANGER AND WHILE ITS NOT OK YOU CANT JUST ACT LIKE SHES UNREASONABLE AND SPOILED #you cant tell me that isabella doesnt have like. the second worst anxiety in the house. she just hides it bc she has to #the golden child/ scapegoat child dynamic between isabella and mirabel isnt just like. isa being mean for no reason #they both see each other as having it easy because they 'dont have any expectations of them and therefore dont have to try' #its about realizing how hard the other is trying and that they were so much more alike than either realized #isa resented mirabel for being messy and clumsy and imperfect because isa is expected to be the perfect example of her family #she cant mess up she has to always be aware of how others percieve her and cannot show any flaws #mira resents isabella because she is trying so hard constantly to basically make up for simply existing #and despite how hard she tries its never enough. so seeing isa being (seemingly) efortlessly perfect hurts #isa is the standard she can never reach #but the truth is they are both just sisters who have spent their whole lives trying so hard to not admit that they wish they were the other #and that theyre both just people who dont have to justify their existance or pose like some perfect little doll. theyre just people #with flaws and issues and the ability to change and grow #fuck you if you hate isa this is a pro isabella blog now #i cant hear you over the sound of mirabel and isabella working through their trauma together and growing closer as sisters #encanto #mirabel madrigal #isabela madrigal #IVE BEEN SPELLING HER NAME WRONG IN THE TAGS FML #oh well i am NOT fixing that

[opens-up-4-nobody]

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#listen. im just gonna rant abt something real dumb for a sec #the framing of missing 411 stories make me so annoyed. and if u dont kno. missing 411 stories are focused on ppl who went missing in #national parks or just out in nature with no real explanation. i dont even kno why i watch these videos they just make me mad #theyre not all bad but like mother fucker do u not kno how easy it is to get lost in thr fucking woods? #theyre like: this person was an experienced hiker. they wouldnt have just done X #like no. fuck off. it only takes one bad move. one bad day. one unexpected run in and boom that's it #its not that crazy???? its not magic or bigfoot. its ppl getting confused or disoriented and panicking #i mean. obvously not in every case but fucking im like 99% sure its not spooky stuff. its just easier than youd like to think to get lost #my little sister got lost in the woods when she was like 6. she took a wrong turn on a hiking path and walked so far my dad almost turned #back bc he thought she would never get that far but there she was. one tiny blip in a big big forest and she was on a path #its so so easy to miss one tiny point out there. this also goes for places out in the desert #like sure its flat. how could a person get lost in an open space? but no fuck u. ive gotten lost walking along a 50m flat transect #i looked up and for about a minute i wasnt where i thought i was. the heat and not drinking or eating enough can really mess with you head #ugh. i dunno. one of my lab mates has done more like serious outdoors stuff. like not going back to civilization for weeks doing field #work out in Colorado. and he says there is something weird about being alone out there. like some places have a call to them. a temptation #compelling you to do things u kno r bad ideas. but i also pressed him and it seems to come from a lack of othet ppl watching you #like a lack of socal constraint enables the temptation to make reckless choices. so like i dunno it sounds more like a human thing #than the supernatural but like what do i kno? anyway. missing 411 stories make me man #mad. god. there was one i watched where the guys were like. hm they seem to happen around weird places like swamps. or around bad weather #events. so maybe these places or events cause disappearances to happen. like fucking no! do u hear what ur saying????? #the disappearences occure around places that are objectively difficult to search under conditions that delay search effort????? is ur brain #broken? the bad conditions make it hard to find ppl so u find less ppl and theyre marked as missing. jesus christ #anyway. its baffling to me. but i keep watching thr videos. probably bc i have nightmares about running into wild animals out in the woods #so im searching for like. god what not to do if i get lost in the woods. when what i shoukd do is watch survival videos rip #unrelated #ugh. also ive done some work in a national park where u would think its super super hard to get lost but our fieldwork got delayed bc ppl #had to go do search and rescue and the person was dead by the time they were found. i dont kno the details but like its a thing that #happens. its not that crazy #not to mention all the dumb fucks who fall of the cliffs every year down where i grew up. every fucking year. it happened to one of our #neighbors. he was at the bottom of this cliff for a whole day and survived. i dunno bad things happen everyday. u r not immune

[tvrningout-a]

after today, i feel that i might not be very active till friday evening bc man… packing is much harder than i thought it would be

#i feel very proud of the progress i made but whether it’s executive dysfunction or adhd that makes accomplishing tasks hard i dunno #all i know is that with my sister’s help i packed the second half of my clothing within minutes instead of an hour or more #doing something as involved as sorting through all my stuff without being distracted is just so challenging #and it’s not even a thing of motivation really?? bc i wanna get this done so i can relax #it’s just so difficult to actually/do it/ and i get so intimidated too looking at all my stuff #i start to get a big case of ‘i can’t make a decision bc there’s too many options/bc i’m overwhelmed’ #i’m sorry i’m rambling about this!! it’s just days like today that make me very aware that something that’s easy for others to do #is hard for me and i’m bothered bc i still don’t know for certainty what’s up with me so i don’t really know #how to fix it or work around it #but lemme be quiet before these tags get any longer uvu #i really hope you’ve had a lovely tuesday and i wish you an even better wednesday!! #get ready to ramble | ooc #tbd

[flovverworks]

ive been meaning to continue my drafts here for Days & gvg today had me excited so....|3[_] maybe writing will happen this time.....

#stardust speaking ! #forgot to rb a meme to my multi....💔💔💔 #leaders said todays guild should be easy win. turns out most of them were online<3 it wasnt HARD cuz they had like 1 atk. but #supportwise? VERY hard #anyway it was fun so maybe ill have the writing focus this wknd. hoho #i need to collect my screenshots & make a akira folder but thats so much work #i was sorting my phone screenshots today and i had a dialogue #where akira & figaro said かっこいい LMAO T_T its still so funny #~ and all #protags r so funny i love their differences #i talked about that before but.......... gbf vs mhyk v alchstar alrdy is so different #gran & navi r annoying. but navi is like ridiculously so #when novios like good night<3 and navi goes 😠it sure must be easy being u #LIKE HELP. GO TAKE A NAP. EAT SOMETHING #alt vices cloud garden......'what if im ur older sister:)' 'no:/ anyway wyat if im ur big bro tho' theyre so funny #akiras not annoying. akira pretends the northern wizards r destroying windows instead when they get annoyed #i lov how akiras like 'this person sounds kinda scary:( but i shouldnt think that! lets meet them first! they might be nice!' #i think the akira thing that makes me lose it the most is when they respond with something SO sweet that its just ??????????wha??????? #the amount of times ive had to put down my phone

[ayveestars]

Sera probably gets the best deal out of my ocs. There's always some insane shit going on and she just gets to be the cool scientist lady with a demon girlfriend

#i mean she's still affected by the big disasters #stella isn't exactly easy to deal with #and her sister coming back from the dead after being missing for 20+ years #but compared to the others. she's fine

[albonium]

it feels like i'm never gonna be able to move out again ahahahaha

#my work contract is a fixed term one #so that's already a big nope if you want to rent #and i don't have anyone that can be a guarantor for me #if that's even the word #my parents could but my dad doesn't want to because he literally 'doesn't want to make life easy for us' (my sister and i) #which..... i kind of get #but if they refuse then i have to use a government guarantor thing and 99% of landlords don't accept it #so ??????? #and it's not like i have been wildly stupid with money before i'm very reasonable and save every cent i can 😭😭😭😭 #i could afford to pay up several months of rent but real estate agencies don't want this either #so between all this and prices in our area being high i'm fucked #i shouldn't have moved back with my parents and kept my appartment even if it was far from here

[zouisalmightie]

whenever my mom tries to gift me clothes she either buys them multiple sizes too big or too small. and i know she does it to fuck with me, im the only daughter she does it to and out of the 4 of us im the one that has stayed a consistent size.

#like mom i know you hate that im fat but it’s been nearly 30 years you’ve gotta get over that shit my guy #she’ll be like oh i saw this and thought of you and it’s a 5xl #or she’ll be like oh this was so cute i got it for you and it’s a size 14 like hello???? #and there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a 5xl but ive never been a 5xl why would she think I’m one now??? #I’ve literally been a size 18 for years! years!!! i get bigger and smaller but im always an 18 she knows this I’ve told her this #and she’ll be like oh well it’s something to work towards if it’s smaller or we’ll sizes are strange if it’s too big #it’s so very easy to remember my size she knows all of my other sisters measurements like full body measurements it’s so annoying!!!

[wickedghxst]

i wouldn’t even want it bc the less i have to see of jason or damian the better, but it’s absolutely insane that they haven’t utilized cass for a story with either of them.

#mostly bc they hate women. but how do you have two characters desperate for their father’s attention/approval Not come to clash with - #the “perfect’’ daughter. J seeing her as a replacement that’s better than he ever was. d desperate to prove that he “deserves’’ it more #it’s Easy set up for a conflict. but nobody has done it yet??? i know why. we already stated rhey hate her. #but like. come the fuck on. her being an impossible standard to live up to. being somebody bruce trusts more than either of them. it’s easy. #brothers and sisters trying to kill eachother is a tale as old as time. but instead they always just target tim instead. #honestly it might be hard to pull of though. dad & big brother scolding them constantly might get old real quick. #especially since neither of them could ever even make her break a sweat in a fight. nor do i imagine she’d even Want to fight them. #besides. the whole “trying to save the bastard sons’’ plotline with this family gets old kinda fast. but whatever. #i still think Some interaction would be better than none if those two Have to stick around. #& she’s certainly make for a more interesting target of hate for j & d than the “normal kid who showed up one day.’’ #gets boring watching tim get his ass kicked all the time.

[dr3c0mix]

Bloody Red Roses

Yandere!Evil King x GN!Reader

CW: kidnapping, weirdo behavior, pretty mellow for now

👑 It was known throughout the land that King Alistair of the Obsidian Kingdom was a terrifying and cruel ruler. His heart held no mercy for those who opposed him.

👑 His dark magic was one to be feared, many know better than to ever go against him and his undead soldiers.

👑 Recently, he’s set his sights on your kingdom. He was planning on overthrowing a few lands and expanding his territory, and with your kingdom’s promising resources and location, he saw it as the perfect prize.

👑 But he isn’t a war mongering psychopath who declares war right then and there, no no he’s much more sophisticated than that, he’s going to kidnap the princess instead!

👑 He needed a bride anyway, so for him it’s a win/win!

👑 “Sir! We got her! We got the princess!” The door opening and the rattling of bones got Alistair’s attention. He sent a few of his skeleton soldiers to capture the princess whilst on a carriage ride through the borders of his territory.

👑 There were many guards protecting the area, but their weapons were no match for enemies who couldn’t die, and with a little bit of sleeping potion, carrying the princess away will be easy as pie.

👑 “Excellent~ and you brought her to my chambers like I told you correct?”

👑 They nod and scamper alongside the king to meet the princess

👑 “Oh princess~ are you awake ye- !!” His eyes widen and he cuts himself off. The person unconscious and tied up in his bed was indeed a royal, but the princess they were not.

👑 “What. Is. This?” He growls, the soldier’s bones rattle in fear

👑 “W-well you sai-“ “Does this look like a princess to you?! How am I going to take over their stupid kingdom if don’t have a bride!?” He scowls angrily.

👑 He hears you tossing and turning in your sleep, you let out a soft little squeak as you reposition yourself to be hugging one of his pillows.

👑 “…”

👑 “Uhm…your highness..?”

👑 “Leave. I’m done with your stupidity..I’ll deal with them myself..”

👑 The soldiers waste no time running off to who knows where as Alistair looks at you with cold eyes.

👑 “Hm…”

👑 He takes a seat by the bed, watching you as he figures out what to do with you.

👑 He’s trying to figure out a strategy, but he keeps getting distracted by your form. You looked so small and delicate, maybe he could…no that’s stupid he could never..could he?

👑 His thoughts plague him a awhile longer until he notices you waking up.

👑 Your muscles are weak, your head feels like it’s spinning, and it takes a bit for you to get back to your senses and realize what happened.

👑 You jolt awake, remember of the attack and almost scream at the sight of Alistair, but he was quick to covers your mouth and try to ease your panic. It took a while, but he managed to get you to stop fussing so he could take off your binds.

👑 “Apologies for this little..incident, I was supposed to take your sister..but now that you know my plan for your little kingdom, I have no choice but to keep you here. Perhaps I don’t need a princess to marry after all, I could just use you as ransom..” he chuckles.

👑 He sees the tea in your cup rippling in your shakes hold and scoffs, bringing his hand to hold your wrist to still your trembling “Oh don’t be so scared now, I don’t bite..”

👑 It was just supposed to be a means to make you stop shaking, but your skin…your big pitiful eyes staring up at him..he didn’t want to let go.

👑 So he kept you, for ransom of course, not for anything else..

👑 With you at his disposal, he started preparing negotiations with your kingdom to see what they’ll do to get you back.

👑 But in the mean time, he had to deal with you somehow..

👑 He settled on just letting you wander around the castle (with supervision of course)

👑 But then he starts to wonder what you do everyday, what did you even like to do? If you were staying with him, he might as well talk with you for the time being.

👑 It started off sort of awkward, he spotted you by the garden feeding some birds with two soldiers watching you. He approached and waved at the soldiers to leave them alone together. You thought you were in trouble but to your surprise, he just asked you how you were doing..

👑 “I uhm..heard you like going out here everyday..I figured I’d join you…Don’t take it the wrong way, I just had some..free time..that’s all..”

👑 The whole interaction was unusual. It wasn’t like him to be so casual and calm with someone, especially a royal of another kingdom.

👑 He enjoys the reactions you give him whenever he talks about his role as the dark king of the Obsidian Kingdom. Your nervous but polite smile masks your mortification of him, but it’s adorable to him nonetheless

👑 “What? A scared of the big bad king? How cute.”

👑 Your little talks slowly became frequent, for the king, it even became something he couldn’t help but do. What can he say? He was so used to your presence it seemed wrong to not talk to you at least once..plus he had to check to see if you weren’t planning an escape so..

👑 “Where have you been my little rose? I haven’t seen you all day.”

👑 His interest in your interactions turned to fondness the more he picked up on your cute little quirks. He takes note of the things you find funny or interesting, he brings them up in order to see that adorable little smile of yours, and that giggle, oh god that giggle…

👑 He denies it so much at first, but slowly starts to accept the fact that he wants- no, needs you with him

👑 Soon he started to want your presence even more, offering to eat meals alongside you instead of eating whenever he’s schedule allowed it, he started eating scheduled meals for you <3 we love self care guys

👑 “Of course I’m eating with you tonight. After all we never got to finish our conversation.”

👑 He loves watching you, even when simply eating or any mundane thing, you will more often than not catch him staring at you. You’re just so cute and soft! Definitely not like the snobby and overly stiff men and women he’s seen.

👑 He couldn’t have you trying to escape so what better plan than to keep you by his side 24/7? Then you’ll never be out of his sight!

👑 “What’s so wrong with letting you tag along my dear? I’m sure you’ll enjoy yourself with me.”

👑 And what if you try and sneak out from your chambers? Clearly you need to be moved to his chambers, that way he can make sure you’re behaving.

👑 Oh and of course in case you get lost, he made you a cute collar with the royal insignia on it! Isn’t it pretty? He used your favorite colors and everything!

👑 Of course he needs to fulfill his kingly duties. But how can he leave you alone for that long? No worries, you can sit right on his lap! That way you won’t have to stand for a long time and hurt your feet.

👑 And those clothes? So simple and out of style, perhaps you should wear something more fitting to his kingdom’s styles? Like a cute outfit with lace and ruffles! You look so delicate and graceful in it! He can’t help but buy you lots more outfits like that! Tis only fair for a person of your status.

👑 “How about this one? It compliments your form…what do you mean it looks too cutesy? I think it looks perfect for you.”

👑 he’s the type to not do much physical affection, but dear god does he crave both giving and receiving it. Give him a kiss or a caress of his cheek and he struggles to keep his composure and not melt to your touch

👑 Simply put, he might not seem like it (at least he thinks he does) but he can’t live without you. He couldn’t fathom the fact he was planning on trading you for a kingdom, you’re way more valuable than some puny kingdom!

👑 He even considers his original plan, you wouldn’t mind right? Besides, he bets you look absolutely exquisite in a little wedding dress~! Even if you don’t want a dress, an elegant suit would perfect on you~!

👑 “Where do you think you’re going my rose?”

It’s finally here guys ✨✨✨ I know it’s been a while but I’ve been busy with school and genshin. Anyway we got em in the end! Thank you for being so patient guys !! qwq

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