#being the oldest sibling in the family

[tizeline]

I bet raph goes like 🤯 whenever April go big sis mode but Donnie AND leo snickers at his reaction as well.

Bro is NOT prepared for the little brother treatment!

#being the oldest sibling in the family #plus being expected to act mature and handle a lot of responsibilities from a very young age #PLUS being way bigger than most kids his age even amongst yokai where there is a lot of diversity in the way that people look #has led to Raph being VERY unfamiliar with being treated like the kid he is for a very long time now #get babied idiot #Tiz Sep AU #tizel talk #tizel art #my art #digital art #tmnt #rottmnt #teenage mutant ninja turtles #rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #rottmnt au #raphael #april o'neil #leonardo #donatello #rottmnt raph #rottmnt april #rottmnt leo #rottmnt donnie

[canon-gabriel-quotes]

I'm not on t yet and it's already so bad. how to prepare

Prepare? Nuh uh. It just happens.

The rabid animal phase does go away, sort of.

The level stays mostly the same but you learn to ignore it.

If you can do it, exercising helps.

But when it hits randomly at the worst moment I’m sorry there is nothing to be done LMAO

#also you will be so hungry #hungrier than u ever thought possible #that part does mostly go away #I’m sorry idk what else to tell ya #idk how different hrt is compared to ur body just doin it #like idk how sudden it is. i guess it depends on what dose ur on #it’s just like. oh ok i guess that’s happening now well alrighty #also the mind and body disconnect WILL HAPPEN #ur body just starts doing shit and ur sitting there like damn I gotta study for this quiz #that also… doesn’t go away but #ok what I’m trying to say is after like uhh 2 years you’ll just be used to the bullshit #GOOD LUCK.. #how did this become the topic of anons recently i feel like a middle school teacher 😭 #is this what being the oldest sibling is like idk im the family baby but no one told me shit LOL #ask #asks #non voice post

[spock-smokes-weed]

Not to keep adding ideas to the ever-growing pile I have, but I do think a lot about a fic of Sanji’s siblings coming crashing back into his life once he’s settled down in the All Blue.

Like Sanji is living his dream. He’s got his restaurant, he’s got Zoro, he’s got three beautiful children, he’s got his found family in the crew and the baratie. He’s fully thriving and BAM a big ass ship shows up one day and out pops his siblings looking for him.

And he so fucking mad because he never wanted to see any of them again. He especially didn’t want his kids within 100 miles of them. But they roll up to his restaurant (or house, depending what kind of narrative tension you want to have) and say “dad’s dead. Come home for his funeral”

Aaaaand that’s all I got.  

#one piece #vinsmoke sanji #I haven’t gotten to whole cake yet so this idea isn’t fully formed until I do #since I don’t know the fully context of sanji’s dynamic with his siblings #but as someone who HAS siblings (the same amount that sanji has actually) #I’m always compelled by fucked up sibling relationships and reflection in adulthood #and maybe being able to repair things once your parents are dead #also sanji struggling to be open and honest with his children about his family #and being so scared for them when it comes to his siblings #idk I’m just spit balling here #mari is my main zosan oc but I do have the other two #sora and ryuji #and I think it would be really interesting to do some stuff with like #mari being the oldest and being more aware of what the adults want to keep from them #and having to be the strong older sister #since she’s the oldest by like five years

[ohitslen]

OKAY VASHWOOD KIDS ON THE HEAD THIS AFTERNOON HHNNG

While I do think that them having kids of their own is super cute and such a nice thing for them both, I am personally a Vash and Wolfwood adopting children truther. Best part is it was Not Even On Purpose.

The times are less aggressive, their lives are less violent (compared to before) and they are both a lot more free. They aren’t used to living a settled life, in spite of finally having a little home of their own at the outskirts of December.

They still travel around without an aim or clear purpose most often than not. They would visit old friends and the times they decided to stay in a place for a bit longer would either be at Home or the Hopeland Orphanage.

They like it that way. It’s familiar and they don’t have to watch for their heads as much as they did before. They are finally experiencing a much more gentler life of their own.

I imagine them stumbling with some kids, let’s say three, that live on their own in one of their trips. They offer to bring them to the Hopeland Orphanage like they usually do to orphaned kids, so they can live more peacefully. They accept after some more convincing.

During that trip they get to live a bit more closely with the children compared to the way they do with the kids back at the orphanage. They love them oh they do, with all their heart, but the closeness they experience with everyone at the orphanage is more of a caretaker sort of approach and nothing as intimate as taking care of them so personally.

The bumpy trip basically obligated them to be more close to the kids, spending nights and days with them, protecting them from danger, cooking meals for their little group of five, spending a few days in different towns to unwind and buy more resources. It was nice, traveling together like that (even if it did get a little dangerous every now and then when they stumbled upon a fight or two).

The kids start to get very attached to them, and both Vash and Wolfwood admittedly were feeling the same way too. They knew they couldn’t keep the kids, not with their wanderers life style and the danger that was still always present (not as terrible as before, but trouble would always be a part of them as it seemed).

Once they got to December to finally leave the kids at the Orphanage, they decide it’s a good time for them to have one of their long stays at the orphanage until their next trip. All of the kids love them both, and they return the sentiment as well. However, it’s evident how their closeness was bigger with the kids they just traveled around with. They knew a bit more about each other with more precision, they were a bit more affectionate with them, the kids would look for Wolfwood and Vash so they could spend more time together. It wasn’t rare for the kids to go and sleep with either of them at night or taking naps with them, but those three particular children would always sleep with them, all snuggled up and warm in their embrace.

It was nice, it almost felt like a little family of their own. Wolfwood remembers how nice it was to live in the orphanage with the other kids, and Vash loved his time with Rem and Knives when they were little, not to mention the people at Home later on, but neither of them really had a grasp of something in their lives they could call wholly theirs, something stable, something constant.

Their stay at the orphanage lasted from their usual month and a half to two months, and then three, until they thought it was a good time for some time of their own back at their little house (living with so many kids always around the corner didn’t provide much space for privacy, much less now that the three kids would follow them as if they were their shadows).

The kids were disappointed and a little sad that their time to leave had come already, even if they had stayed longer than what they usually did this time. Their three little kids were the ones that looked the most anguished from them all, and neither Nick or Vash missed that detail.

When they arrived to their home, they cleaned first, the dust had settled in their house and they could barely move without gusts of it coming to invade their lungs. After they quickly got rid of the most they could they finally got to rest and get some alone time of their own.

The days passed, and the quiet time between them was appreciated, but it felt a bit too quiet. They had quickly grown used to the noise that came with being around the kids in that short time. Maybe it was thanks to the fact that their lives were much kinder now, but something inside of them itched at the thought of not having the kids by their side, of not being together.

They knew what it was after sparing it a second to think of it a bit more.

“You know, I think it would be nice if we stay in here for a bit longer” Vash said out of the blue one day while they were making breakfast together, a soft and genuine smile hanging on his face.

“Yeah, I was thinking the same thing” Wolfwood answered back with a smile of his own, focused at chopping a portion of vegetables a bit too big for two people, it was probably enough to feed five mouths perhaps.

#they adopt the three of them at the end #and none of them are siblings. they are just three random kids that decided to stick together. #I imagine the younger being about three or four and the oldest about eleven or twelve #yk what maybe they -will- have their own offspring (yes I will use that term OQNWN) a little later down the line #and the three kids would love their new little baby sibling so much they would protect them with their lives #and it’s a sweet sight because they all finally have the family they always wished to have #the kids at the orphanage are like their extended family too. treating them like their kids as well #but it’s a little different when you live with the gremlins 24/7 #they would still travel. but less often and for less longer #avoiding trouble at all costs. and the kids like it. traveling together getting to know new places and all. family trip! #I just think they deserve to have a little happy family of their own. it’s even sweeter when you think that they are all adopted in some way #imagine how fucking cool it would be to have so many plant aunts and extended family in the orphanage #they are a huge family in their own way and they are happy #delulu hours are always open #trigun #vash the stampede #nicholas d wolfwood #vashwood #vash #wolfwood #nicholas trigun #lenssi writes #trigun fanfiction #if you will. just kind of. it’s not fleshed out it’s just a very vague thought it occurred to me while I was eating a churro

[callmebrutus]

ramon if you've read my posts yesterday give a sign/j

#these letters man #they broke me #abd killed my entire family #he LOVES BEING A KID #BEING HIS DAD'S BABY #HE'S THEIRS LITTLE BABY #MAYBE HE'S ONE OF THE OLDEST SIBLINGS #MAYBE HE'S THE TALLEST #BUT HE'S STILL A CHILD #qsmp #qsmp ramon #qsmp eggs #ramon the egg

[nativehueofresolution]

poll time! stewy is most often portrayed as an only child in fics, but i'm curious to see how widespread that hc is. the appeal of the only child hc seems to be making him more of a foil to kendall/the other roys, who are eternally caught up in their sibling war. but of course, in the sibling show, the other side also has stuff to offer to.

i've also noticed a smaller trend of fics showing stewy being raised as an only child, but technically having siblings that he didn't grow up with for whatever reason - age gaps, half siblings, family estrangement, or death of a sibling are some of examples i've seen.

so, time to share, and please feel free to add your thoughts/headcanons in the tags and replies:

#stewy hosseini #kenstewy #succession #personally i tend to like the functional only child option #i do think there's interesting drama from him being the only child in this sibling centered world #but i also feel like too often it gets used as a lazy way for annoying people to not develop his family life #if he's just a straight up only child #whereas if he has siblings in some way but didn't grow up with them it keeps that but also opens up more possibilities #i think there's also a bit of a ken parallel with like. ken being the oldest boy being a lie that's also true #and you could do the same thing with stewy being an only child asterisk not actually an only child #i tend to think of him as having much older siblings who he didn't grow up with #because he's my fave and i can project onto him if i want lol #but also he's 40 and his dad is 95 so math wise i think much older siblings also easily fits #but i do wonder if the only child hc took off more thanks to the popularity of tsd #(tho that series i would consider an ex of only child stewy done well personally) #anyways these tags are a rambling mess. #kaitlin speaks #polls

[yardsards]

my pet headcanon that has 0 evidence is that post canon emira gets music lessons from raine

both of her siblings got to have mentors and i think she could use an outlet to express herself as well as a positive adult figure to go to outside of her family

#eliot posts #toh #the owl house #emira blight #raine whispers #emira deserved more #i know why she didn't get much screentime bc there was limited time and she's a side character #but the fact that her twin brother got more than her. augh. #there's so much that Fascinates me abt her but especially like #the way she's got parentified oldest daughter syndrome despite her being a twin and gender roles not rlly mattering in this world #and like yeah we see her getting along w her father in the epilogue #but i personally imagine that she actually took longer to start to trust him than her siblings did #and i think she could really use an adult in her corner in the meantime before her dad fully proved himself to her #(as well as after that as well bc kids need more than just their parents) #and raine seems like they could provide nice support for her #as well as being one of the few good adults that doesn't have a direct tie to any of her other family members #bc i think she needs something outside of her siblings #i mightve talked abt this headcanon before but im Thinking abt it again

[cinna-bunnie]

not me and my manager trauma bonding over mommy issues 💀💕 i love her aksksk oof i had to go smoke and Think after this one

i love when our one on ones are basically like lol i don't have much 2 talk about this wk and we get like 40m to hang n talk after getting work stuff out the way. she is such a sweetie and so fun (❁´◡`❁)

#i talked about my intro 2 adulthood and what it was like around before/when i left home and how my sis was just 10 when i left #so we never rly got to be close n i just started talking 2 her this year. but the last thing i told my mom was she lost her son forever #and that she better not fuck up with my sister - and she took it to heart fr which was Great for my sister. #she grew up v loved and supported and idk as the eldest u have complicated feelings being the experiment child. #and as an older sibling u are genuinely happy ur younger sibling has it so much better but there's this disconnect where u both have #Very very different feelings about ur mom and family in general ig. but it's from having lived different lives and idk. #she relates though 😔💕 oldest sibs rly b dealing w moms that tear them down then watch w bittersweet feelings that ur sibs get a better #life. my life itself is fine lol im kinda stoned (⁠｡⁠ﾉ⁠ω⁠＼⁠｡⁠) but like. a good loving childhood. support. community n never feeling like #there's Nothing for u here. she's turning 21 in December it's crazy how time flies. I'm glad she's doing good but I'm just thinking about #how we had Very different lives and stuff going on in our late teens 😮‍💨 #bless my manager fr i'm glad we got to get into it !! 😹 i can see why i miss her when we don't get to meet for the week

[monkee-mobile]

Show-Mike has such horrible object permanence issues with people or something like when people aren’t in his direct line of sight and he thinks they just disappeared or when he’s talking to someone and realizes they’re not the way he’s facing. Like, I know it’s a silly gag but I took it very seriously when I was a kid, I wanted to know if he was okay.

All it makes me think of now is Mike not being able to sleep by himself or he thinks that he’s completely alone, even if there’s his friends around the room. Also that boy is not touch-avoidant, I see him labeled as such in a lot of fan things, and that’s fine, I see why cause of his overall personality, but any time anyone is hurt or anything Mike’s got his hands all over them checking for cracks or something.

Not to mention how the Monkees are always just shoved up against each other in general. They move in a bouncy clump like some kind of mass of electrons.

Anyway, just thoughts.

I just want the Monkees to cuddle all the time, it helps my emotional well-being, and I just can’t get this out of my head.

#the monkees #mike nesmith #show-verse #headcanons??? #peter tork #davy jones #micky dolenz #Mike as a kid definitely had a hard time sleeping alone #i guess in the show he says he had a big family and I always see him as the if not one of the oldest #so maybe his siblings being there helped

[quietwingsinthesky]

if the human au doctors are siblings (or at least, if some of them are), i wholeheartedly believe that their ages should go by doctor number. twelve IS younger than ten and eleven, he is just so stressed out all the time that he went grey at 19.

#thirteen and fifteen…. babies of the family…. #maybe they’re all adopted or whatever but the point is that the youngest human!doctors should be the most recent ones because itd be funny #sorry just thinking about. nuwho doctor siblings all being wrangled by nine (<- oldest) #they are all such little shits. they would such good disaster young adults. absolutely not functional in the slightest. #they’re all packed into a waffle house at 3 in the morning running on spite and coffee. #(most of them anyway. ten passed out on nine’s shoulder like 20 minutes ago and no one has managed to wake him up yet.) #(11 is taking his meal apart before he eats it and picking out the bits he won’t eat and hidjng them on 12’s plate.) #they would be good siblings. #human!sibling!doctors au

[martianclown]

Since we don't know much of anything about Argyle or his family I'm going to headcanon him having a big family and a lot of siblings in which he is the oldest brother and his siblings are all middle school age or younger.

He works at surfer boy pizza to help out his parents because he's a good boy. The house probably gets chaotic so that's why he hangs out with Jonathan so much but he loves his family to bits

#Argyle stranger things #Argyle #I also headcanon him being first or second generation Mexican American in his family. Por qué no? #this is only coming from personal experience as a first gen oldest sibling #i only have one sibling tho

[mayonnaise-sock]

portgas d ace sometimes reminds me of michael afton.

#one piece #portgas d ace #five nights at freddy's #fnaf #michael afton #i can’t explain it #it’s like #the oldest brother who was angry and always trying to prove a point or smth #the death of a younger sibling forces makes a turning point in his life #for ace it was sabo ‘dying’ meaning he had to be a better older brother to luffy #and for michael he literally killed his little brother and went ‘oh shit i just killed my little brother i will never be ok again and this #will weigh on my concious for the rest of my life’ #also something about michael being collateral damage personified resonates so much with my idea of ace #as was executed not for being a pirate #but for being the pirate king’s son #it was always in the back of his mind that his dad was a ‘demon’ regardless of if it was true or not #and they both died because of it #ace was well… y’know #and michael died in a fire with his his family and family friends to put an end to william #idk something about them

[ocymoron]

And there he stands, Dabi—his big brother— wreathed in flames every shade of blue with this strange look on his face.

His lips downturned and pressed together tightly, trembling. His furrowed brows and scrunched nose. It’s an unfamiliar face, one that he only remembers through cracked doors. No tears fall— they don’t even form, they can’t— but his older brother still looks like he’s holding them back.

“I’m proud of you.”

The air is heavy between them. It feels weighed down by emotions too complicated to name— grief, it’s grief— and he doesn’t know how to respond so he doesn’t.

But it’s fine because his older brother— Touya-nii— keeps talking, voice choked.

“I wish I could’ve known you.”

#lol made myself cry while writing #def an AU where Dabi goes villain solely to take down Endeavor #and all the hate he has towards his family turns into guilt for not being there #with them #the guilt of being the oldest and escaping an abusive household knowing you’re abandoning your younger siblings to the same fate #dabi todoroki #dabi #mha dabi #touya todoroki #shoto todoroki #mha #bnha #no cause Dabi first seeing Shoto in person during the camp training thing and it JUST then hitting him how much of his little brothers life- #-he’s missed. Like his baby brother is all grown up now and he missed it #the dialogue was hard and im not really happy with how the proud line is worded #but this is was written at 4am while crying so im cutting myself some slack #something is better than nothing #not idea when this confrontation is set in timeline bc I made it solely with intention to hurt

[hyp3rsh0ck]

Fusion: Woaaaah pipe bomb.... so cool...

Hydra, who is actually concerned about Fusion for once: WAIT FUSION NO-

Fusion: I wonder what happens if i touch i- *Explodes*

#battlebots #yes its literally that miku pipe bomb meme #hydra #fusion #fuck it all of the Whyachi bots are family with the OG Whyachi being a single father and SOW being the oldest #Fusion has youngest sibling privileges tho

[mcl-mia]

//anyways. here's my designs for zeus and hiro's dads from a retainer's duty. have some dilfs. and some head canons because why the fuck not.

if i had to give them first names i think it would be like. thor brundle and seiji tachibana. idk. i'm open to suggestions. but for now that's what i'm going to call them

thor lost his leg in an assassination attempt a few years before zeus was born. seiji was in hinomoto, taking care of his parents' estate (they recently passed away), so he was completely absent. it would have been perfectly planned if not for the fact that thor is a fearsome wizard in his own right. seiji has never forgiven himself for not being there to protect his liege. thor insists it wasn't his fault.

thor has several prosthetics because he's obnoxiously rich, but the lily one is his favorite. he likes matching his leg to the rest of his outfit. many of his pants also have been tailored to accommodate his amputation.

seiji is very straight laced, thor is not. seiji is also very gullible when it comes to thor, and thor is great at distracting him. thor has been like this since they were kids.

seiji is still way more connected to hinomoto than his children are, as he was born there. he's still learning about queensblade's culture, but still keeps many hinomotan traditions alive in his family. thor and seiji both are fluent in hinomotan.

have the energy of a married couple and should absolutely be fucking on the dl but seiji is too much of an oblivious tight ass so it would never happen. thor loves his wife, but he loved seiji first so any time thor makes a joke about them being together he always has to no homo it out of respect for his wife. his wife is totally cool with it though, she knows. seiji does love thor in the same way, but represses it. he's a little bit too, uh, traditional. and also loves his wife. it's very tragic. :( but the sexual tension is THROUGH THE ROOF!!!

seiji is also skilled in battojutsu and was hiro's primary teacher.

thor's specialty is light magic, in contrast to his son.

zeus gets a lot of his fashion taste from his father. THOR OWNED THE LOOK FIRST.

thor and his wife are like, the most supportive parents in the world. genuinely great and very charismatic. seiji is a lot more strict than his wife, so hiro has always been a little bit of a momma's boy. kureha is a daddy's girl ofc. zeus, lulu, and belle are all very close to their mom and dad.

seiji rarely swears in english, but will cuss up a storm in hinomotan. thor almost never swears, especially in public.

#not mcl #wizardess heart #mia draws #yes the top image is from the scene in zeus and hiro's wedding. #[hides face] maybe i made them a little... TOO dilfy...................... #i wanna design their whole families.... but................. #in fact i think once of these days i'd like to do designs for like. all of the missing siblings we haven't seen #like yukiya's 100 million younger siblings (i seem to remember him being the oldest of 7??? could be wrong.) #one day....

[8241991]

im never going to sympathize with the 'don't leave your loved ones in a nursing home' sentiment because anyone who says that quite clearly has never had the ability to establish reasonable boundaries after being violated multiple times. if my mom treated me the way that my grandmother treated her while she was growing up i would 100% have zero qualms about her being put in a nursing home subsisting solely on medicaid and social security. especially because my mom is the only one out of my grandmother's three kids who feels obligated to take care of her at this point.

#my grandmother is a crotchety abusive bigoted old woman who put her oldest daughter through hell #her oldest daughter being my mom. who now has to live with her because my aunt's husband is a selfish asshole who doesn't care about #my aunt's family. and my uncle is the youngest sibling who hasn't had any major responsibility his whole life.