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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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Are you a #HeartLed woman who wants to make a difference, if even a small one? Are you ready to shake off the #COVIDfunk and #socialexpectations? Are you ready to ditch #anxiety and get back out in the world? Have you changed over the past few years or have you longed for #PersonalGrowth? Do you want to be seen for who you truly are inside? Then listen, we’ve got it backwards … it isn’t rise and shine, it’s #ShineAndRise. To step into our higher abilities to impact our own lives and others positively first we have to learn how to shine our unique light. To be able to #ShineToRise is a more authentic success strategy based on who you are at your core. We’ve been living in an overloaded masculine leadership style where we first must rise to greatness to be rewarded with the spotlight. Personally, I see that as a #leadershipStrategy that just doesn’t serve most of us. As an award winning #FashionDesigner and #SpiritStyleGuide I know the power of tapping into deeply #PersonalStyle as the ultimate #lifehack because I help my Clients use it as a communication tool and healing modality. I’m offering a FREE #StyleConfidenceChallenge that will help you align, define and shine, to attract the RIGHT attention, opportunities, collaborators and clients —in just 5 days. Sign on today for some bonus secret sauce and #integration tips! My #ShineAndRiseChallenge Early Access is open - got to link in bio now! #feminineleadership #empath #emotionalhealer #confidencestylist #confidenceboost #peoplepower #girlpower #highlysensitive #sensitive #intuitive (at Themis and Thread) https://www.instagram.com/p/CqWZg9CJwvu/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 2 years

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Recently someone called me “natural” and I didn’t like it. It didn’t feel like a compliment. But it helped shine a light on a part of me I love. I coach my Clients to “Face and Embrace” all the time and that comment allowed me to practice what I preach. So here I am, no makeup, no filter, wearing my favorite color, stumbling across some asparagus shining brilliantly, naturally, wildly. I am natural. I am wild. I like to get fancy and I like to get dirty. I am professional and always learning. I am self employed and scatterbrained. I am a networker and anxiety ridden. I am a fashionista and messy. I am an adventurer and a home body. I am an environmentalist and a consumer. I am a multifaceted gem of a human just like you. If you struggle showing up in the world the way you want to be seen let’s chat! There are so many ways I can help you be seen in a way that aligns with your values and passions. Be careful though, you just might get what you wish for and have to recognize how much you love being that way and being seen that way. 🌟 🌼 🌾 #asparagusfern #asparagus #asparagusgetsme #faceandembrace #natural #naturalwoman #wild #wildwoman #nofilter #nomakeup #styleconfidence #confidence #showup #beseen #beyou #powercolor #yellow #yellowasparagus #confidencestylist #alignment #boldwomen #passingjudgment #judgingyourself #innercritic #innerdialogue #environmentalist #sustainablestylist #manysides #skindeep #godeeper (at Hector, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkMUpASvRqX/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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You’re invited! I’m getting the party started early yall! What are we celebrating? YOU! We’re celebrating YOU shining YOUR UNIQUE LIGHT. I love creating spaces to grow and spaces to celebrate that growth and I’m so excited to invite you into a very special experience. I’m a party starter and finisher from way back yall! You can join me at any time but I’d like to invite you into this experience early if you haven’t already signed up for Early Access into the Sine and Rise Challenge! Get ready to rise to new heights in success, happiness and wholeness! Your unique light is a magnet for your unique destiny. I want you help you get ready to shine that light! That’s why I’m kicking off a FREE style confidence challenge and if you haven’t yet signed up for early access jump in and do it today! Early access will get you a few potent emails to rev you up for the Shine and Rose Challenge which is designed to teach heart-led women how to align, define and shine their Personal Style to 10X their impact, influence and SELF image in 5 days. Early access is going to double your support! Sign up today through the link in bio 💋 #shineandrise #shineandrisechallenge #beuniquelyyou #dresstoexpress #selfexpression #personalstyle #stylist #sustainablestylist #designer #imageconsultant #imagecoach #stylecoach #confidencehack #confidencestylist #styleconfidence #confidencecoach #confidencechallenge #stylechallenge #personalgrowth #feminineleadership #personalstylechallenge (at Themis and Thread) https://www.instagram.com/p/CqS5YERu3zl/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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I have a secret to tell you : Your thoughts are not your own. Has this ever happened to you? Have you ever heard someone else's voice inside your head reciting one of their signature phrases? I know it happens to me all the time! I also know you're like me and sometimes you hear a critical voice inside your head ... an unseen spokesperson for low #selfesteem, poor #bodyimage, #anxiety, #impostorsyndrome, #peoplepleasing, shame, guilt, listlessness, pessimism, depression ... Sometimes those thoughts just seem to creep in, no matter how hard you try to keep them at bay - and it's not your fault! It's really hard to shake societys' unrealistic standards, expectations and judgments. We all have a lifetime of conditioning and trauma instilled into our very being, and I'm here to tell you that your thoughts are not your own. At least not all of them. Our brains seek evidence and if we had an inkling of #SelfDoubt and then someone disagrees with our work *BAM* evidence that we were wrong. Our brains are masters at connecting dots and recognizing patterns, even if that's all based on faulty evidence. See, there's no fact checker in there, and #confirmationbias *within our own minds* is a very real thing. Do yourself a favor today and give yourself a break - you deserve it. That nagging voice in the back of your head that keeps telling you you aren’t good enough is a voice that was implanted in there by someone else and *IT WAS A LIE* You’ve got this 💋 #peptalk #confidenceboost #confidencestylist #leadwithconfidence #confidencecoach #innerchatter #feminineleadership #nlp #retrainyourbrain #confidencehack #lifehack #showup #levelup #buildyourselfup #selfmade #personalgrowth #growthmindset #subconscious #subconsciousprogramming #reprogramming #deconditioning #innerbattle #selflove (at Themis and Thread) https://www.instagram.com/p/CoubDNaOl72/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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#innerChildWisdom #StickTheSticker! I said it once and I’ll say it again - plus T his one has already resonated with so many AND I’m feelin the #innerChild vibe hard * SO * Don’t ever wait to celebrate. Yesterday was my 39th birthday and I’m feelin all old and wise and shit 🤪 But seriously, as a #SpiritStyleGuide I help folks tune in to what they like and how they can best express themselves and lot of times the work we end up doing is tackling limiting beliefs and building up the #confidence to do/wear what you want. Have a #stickerCollection? PROVE IT 💥 STOP HOARDING YOUR STICKERS! What are you waiting for?! Pick a spot and STICK THE STICKER! My water bottle is one of my favorite spots to stick stickers now that I've gotten over my personal sticker block (just added a new birthday sticker this morning!) Stick em and you'll get to see them and enjoy them and show them off, isn't that the point? This goes for wearing the jewelry and fancy clothes and using the samples and sexy skincare yall - now is the time! #PSA #ConfidenceStylist #expressyourself #stickershelp #kidatheart #dontactyourage #stickerlover #stickerpeople #innerchildwork #confidenceboost (at Themis and Thread) https://www.instagram.com/p/CoBGp2oPBvd/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#innerchildwisdom #stickthesticker #innerchild #spiritstyleguide #confidence #stickercollection #psa #confidencestylist #expressyourself #stickershelp #kidatheart #dontactyourage #stickerlover #stickerpeople #innerchildwork #confidenceboost

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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Today’s my 39th birthday and my return to social media 🎉 How about some #innerchildwisdom 😘 1)Like what you like and do what you want to - sparkle shoes and a Smurfette nightgown don’t need to make sense to anyone else. 2)Smile from the inside out. Indulge in the joy of being seen and supported. #LifeHack #1 leads to #2 💥 3)Stick the sticker! 4)Light the candle! There’s no time like today! What on earth are we waiting for?!!! Our time is now! If you’d like to honor your #innerchild take a deeper dive into my “turning 39 feels” go to link in bio for the newsletter where you can find my #birthdayWish too! Thanks to all who have followed along the past several years here and IRL - and to those of you who just jumped in, I’m so super happy to have you here! Today I realized that stepping in to the role of a #SpiritStyleGuide and #ConfidenceStylist for this #heartbasedbiz was not something I’ve worked on for the past 3 years, it’s something I’ve been working on for the past 3 decades 🥰 Honored to have you here with me on this journey 💋 (at Themis and Thread) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cn-E6yeP6DA/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#innerchildwisdom #lifehack #1 #2 #innerchild #birthdaywish #spiritstyleguide #confidencestylist #heartbasedbiz

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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Knowing your #ColorPalette and celebrities who share it can be a total game changer in defining and executing your #PersonalStyle! My #FashionTherapy Clients are always surprised by my #ColorAnalysis which is a vital part to showing up in your authentic #SpiritStyle. #ColorisMyLoveLanguage and my perspective as an Artist, Designer and Stylist blends together with my passion for helping women show up to succeed within the #FashionExperience that is Fashion Therapy. By week 2 of the 6 week program Clients can start fast tracking their style through color with my professional Color Analysis and that’s just the very beginning! If you want to master communicating and healing through fashion and are ready to stop playing small and hiding let me show you all of the ways that Fashion Therapy and I can support you! Drop an emoji in your favorite color in the comments to get started! #speakincolor #liveinfullcolor #stophiding #spiritstyleguide #confidencestylist #spiritedstylesupport #imageconsultant #stylecoach #fashionguide #confidenceboost #shineandrise #showup #standout #serveyourpurpose #levelup #celebritystyle #celebritystylepalette #winterpalette #springpalette #summerpalette #autumnpalette #align #bethatbitch (at Themis and Thread) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cly_O1qP6TC/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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Pop the bubbly it’s Thanksgiving Eve! Tonight’s one of the biggest bar nights of the year (my hubby’s a musician and will be playing at @gristironbrewingco here in Hector NY tonight with @scottbeera!) and of course many of us will be in social settings for Thanksgiving, Black Friday and Small Business Saturday. Awkward conversations are bound to happen so I want to talk about my Gathering Anxiety busting line of questioning to help you Survive in Style! As someone who DESPISES small talk I want to offer this as a way to spur stimulating conversation with what you wear. Here are a couple questions I’d like to highlight and a fave conversation starter, Color Street nail strips - In preparation, ask yourself, what kind of conversations do you want to have? Do you have any conversation pieces? Clothing, jewelry or accessories that spur conversation about things you love talking about? I love fun and funky nails as a conversation piece and will be going live today at 1 in Women Supporting Women 2022 (online marketplace link in bio) doing a demo and giveaway if you’re interested. Even if you don’t get a compliment or question on a conversation piece you’re hoping to talk about YOU can just bring it up to guide a conversation or during an awkward lull. Sentence starters like “Check out my ______” and “This ______ reminds me of _________” can bring attention to that something special you’re wearing and generate joyful conversation. I’ll gladly step into conversation about my style choices over fake chit chat any day! Check out my sparkly nails! This belt buckle reminds me of fun times in high school! 🍻 🦃 💅 . . . #conversationstarter #conversationpiece #socialanxiety #gatheringanxiety #smalltalk #ditchthesmalltalk #conversationstarters #awkwardconversation #theartofconversation #confidenceboost #anxiety #confidence #confidencestylist #stylistapproved #youareanaltar #youareaportal #goddess #fashiontherapy #stylecoach #imageconsultant #confidencecoach #pregameprep (at Themis and Thread) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClTxL8_uOMw/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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This week, around the Thanksgiving table, how do you want to be seen? I know a lot of folks have anxiety about family gatherings and feeling misunderstood or judged is often at the root, so, how do you want folks to think of you this Thanksgiving? Holiday parties, family gatherings, seeing people you haven’t seen in a long time … social anxiety can wind us up and keep us distant BUT feeling confident in your body, routine and image can be powerfully helpful and I'm here to help you SURVIVE IN STYLE! "Gathering Anxiety" is one of the biggest challenges my Clients struggle with and I have tons of support to help! Check out the email I just sent (link in bio!) for my Spirit Style Guide approved line of questioning for you to think about, meditate on or even journal about while getting ready to gear up this week and into the next round of holiday events! 🪞 🦃 🍻 . . . #gatheringanxiety #anxiety #confidence #anxietybuster #confidenceboost #fashiontherapy #styleconfidence #confidencestylist #stylist #spiritstyle #spiritstyleguide #styleguide #stylecoach #confidencecoach #managinganxiety #journalingprompts #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #goingin #showup (at Themis and Thread) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClSDIpGpmIO/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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What’s your #ThanksgivingStyle? Casual, glam, cozy, posh? Here are some #stylistapproved #outfitideas to warm up some inspiration! Feelin stumped? As a #ConfidenceStylist I’m here to help! My best advice to help prepare to bust any #GatheringAnxiety is to think of how you want to be seen by the folks you’re about to encounter. Successful, transformed, mature, independent, empowered, inspiring, approachable, loving, elegant … think about how you want to be seen! When you get your answer, drop it in the comments for more support on #ShowingUp that way! #anxietybuster #styleconfidence #confidence #confidenceboost #showup #standout #holidayanxiety #anxiety (at Themis and Thread) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClMUgOkpwsJ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#thanksgivingstyle #stylistapproved #outfitideas #confidencestylist #gatheringanxiety #showingup #anxietybuster #styleconfidence #confidence #confidenceboost #showup #standout #holidayanxiety #anxiety

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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Are you tired? It’s ok to give up … on living up to someone else’s expectations that is! The holidays are fast approaching and while you will inevitably be in a social situation you don’t want to be in at some point, just remember that who you truly are is so much more interesting than whatever perceived character flaw you’re concerned about being judged for. Go ahead - read that again: Who you truly are is so much more interesting than whatever perceived character flaw you’re concerned about being judged for! Shed the shame and get in the game! I LOVE this quote from @elizabeth_gilbert_writer “At some point in a woman’s life, she just gets tired of being ashamed all the time. After that she is free to become whoever she truly is.” If you’re dreading the holidays and upcoming gatherings send me a message right now for a line of internal questioning that will supercharge your confidence so you can survive the holidays in style! DM or comment “Holiday Survival” now! 🦃 🍻 💃🏻 . . . #ashamed #shame #shedshame #confidenceboost #confidence #gather #awkward #socialanxiety #anxiety #thanksgiving #survivetheholidays #holidaysurvival #holidaysurvivalguide #surviveinstyle #femaleempowerment #nervous #getupthenerve #sociallyawkward #confidencestylist #holidaystyle #thanksgivingstyle #networking #mingling #smalltalk #survivesmalltalk #nlp #spiritstyleguide #stylecoach #expressyourself #fashiontherapy (at Themis and Thread) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClExBYavR0L/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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Having my hair washed, cut and styled this week was such a treat! Before the pandemic I had been cutting my hair myself for a long time, with a short and choppy style that I could maintain myself. I grew it out when the world locked down and when I finally scheduled my first covid haircut this spring I had to cancel it because - I GOT COVID 😳 Finally I reconnected with a local stylist and sitting in the chair with Tara was such a joy! Not sure I can make it look this good again so photo documentation will help - and the possibility of just having it styled by a professional from time to time is available to all of us. Big thanks @stylesbytara_younique, you made me feel fabulous! What a morale boost! Ladies, we’re so hard on ourselves and worry about taking care of everyone else first, but something like a new cut and style is such a simple way to treat ourselves and boost our confidence. A hairstyle is also a way we can fast track or hijack our personal style - and your personal style is communication and healing through fashion: our silent voice. Show up, speak out, take care of yourself 💋 Hair pros like Tara and fashion pros like me are here to help! 🪞 🧖🏽‍♀️ 💇‍♀️ . . . #confidenceboost #morale #selfcare #beautyrituals #fashiontherapy #healwithfashion #fashionhealing #healingfashion #hairstyle #longhairstyle #fashioncommunication #showup #selfcare #treatyourself #silentvoice #personalstyle #stylist #confidencestylist #imageconsultant #stylecoach #retailtherapy #hairtherapy #haircare https://www.instagram.com/p/Ckn3XpMubnn/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 1 year

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The veil between ours and the spirit world is thinning as we approach Halloween. At a time when lifting the veil is easiest I invite you to bravely step into your intuition and imagination. Halloween is during a special time in the seasonal transition, indicating the end of a cycle as the trees drop their leaves and we celebrate harvest and autumn. We have had a breathtakingly beautiful October here in New York’s Finger Lakes and I’ve been just smitten with it and really inspired. Meditation is wonderful way to connect with rhythms and cycles. Through my Fashion Therapy practice I create bespoke meditations for each one of my Fashion Therapy Clients. Inspired by Halloween and the meditations I’ve been creating for private Clients I am honored to present a meditation that I created just women ready to connect with themselves this Halloween. My Higher Self Halloween Meditation is designed to help you connect to spirit - to YOUR SPIRIT. A Halloween treat for you! Enjoy yourself! Higher Self Halloween Meditation link in bio! 🧘🏻‍♀️ 🌫 🍁 . . . #higherselfmeditation #halloweenmeditation #spirit #reconnect #connectwithyourself #meditationsforwomen #fallmeditation #feminineleadership #spiritsupport #coach #coachescoach #stylecoach #imageconsultant #spiritguide #spiritstyleguide #confidenceboost #confidencestylist #healingmeditation #selflove #spiritworld #lifttheveil #personalgrowth https://www.instagram.com/p/CkWdvPXvTwp/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 2 years

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You are in a class of your own. Caste + Feudalism are dead! Just like we no longer need to stick with our tribe/clan/family to literally survive, we no longer need classifications to operate. We live in a free and beautiful world. The Queen is dead and her kingdom died long before. When we talk about something being classy what we're really talking about is a class system, who's above us or below us in financial status ... High class, middle class, no class, the haves and the have nots, the rulers and the workers ... Society used to further enforce class systems with fashion for identification, which has over time morphed from availability/affordability into our current democratization of adornment. Much of this lingers in our psyche, unconscious bias passed down through generations, but now anyone can get both a peasant blouse and a crown. But is that classy? You get to decide! What's better yet, you get to share that decision with your taste and your style! Class is just a way of being ... and we're so lucky to live in an age where we get to decide our way of being in the world. Yes there are real constructs we're working on dismantling like racism and sexism and of course there are roles to play, circumstances beyond our control, expectations others have for us and even expectations we have for ourselves; But we get to choose every day what we wear and what we do. You are not a prisoner to anything but the stories you tell yourself, even if they're based on the stories someone else once told you. You are classy, you have class, you get to define what that class is, and if you're bold enough you get to express that through fashion. HMU if you want to figure out what your uniquely iconic style class looks like! 👑 ✨ 💛 . . . #class #classy #classystyle #classyfashion #styleconfidence #confidence #confidencestylist #fashioncaste #fashionclass #classism #fashiontherapy #claimyourpower #standout #breakfree #socialconstructs #highclass #lowclass #noclass #fashionidentification #caste #feudalism #classificationsystem #society #kingdom #declassify #codify #codeofconduct https://www.instagram.com/p/Cj_AlkhJ-YA/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 2 years

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Stop lying to yourself! You have great taste, style and class. There is nothing wrong with how you present yourself to the world. Fashion's merit is so subjective. As they say, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" after all. It's like any art, what one person loves, another may hate. It's all a matter of taste … and style is how you express your taste. Subtle or flamboyant, it's a dial you can turn. Maybe you don't "know your style" but you DO have it! Once you know what you like, "your taste", then you get to show that to the world in your style. We all do this every single day whether we realize it or not. There is power in claiming autonomy in this process, but you're already doing it anyways, and you always have. Maybe along the line someone made you want to shrink or dim or fit into a mold instead of fully expressing your taste in your style, it happens all the time without us even catching it. Sometimes we do catch it, and like a slap to the face it stings; Like when someone close to us vocalizes not liking how we're presenting. But that's just their taste ... not yours. Be your own beholder. What is beautiful to you? In a beauty obsessed society, be the beholder, be beholden to yourself. If beauty is in fact in the eye of the beholder, then who's eye could be more important than yours?! If you want help identifying and executing your soul aligned style that reflects your passions and values Fashion Therapy is for you! DM for a FREE Style Assessment and Spirit Style Vision from yours truly; Jesse Junko Beardslee, Fashion Designer, Confidence Stylist and authority on fashion healing and fashion communication. 💥 💋 💃🏻 #designer #stylist #flxstylist #confidencestylist #fashiondesigner #style #taste #class #stylistapproved #fallstyle #fallfashion #ootd #stylestudy #fashioninspo #learnyourstyle #branding #personalbrand #knowyourstyle #identifyyourstyle #styleconsultant #imageconsultant #spiritstyle #defineyourstyle #spiritedstylesupport #showup #shine #rise #womenrising #visibility #bebold (at Hector Handmade) https://www.instagram.com/p/CjiwxzVp_gb/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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jessejunkocreates · 2 years

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I like turquoise and red together - I don’t expect everyone to. What colors do you like? What styles do you like? In general - what do you like? Do you think you have good taste? It’s so subjective and it’s so so so personal. But it’s more than that, taste and preference reflect your spirit. When I work with a Client I want to know all about what they like and why (although, the why doesn't matter as much as the what!) It helps me connect with their spirit to draw out their authentic style; I call it Spirit Style. My Clients either know exactly what they want or they know they trust me to get them there. If I've learned anything over the past 20 years working in fashion I've learned women deserve time and space to consider what they do and don't have a taste for. I create time and space for that. Not everyone has experienced that and some need more time and space than others. If it's coming from what you, and you alone, appreciate, there is no such thing as good or bad taste. Taste is simply what you do and don't like. What do you have a taste for? There is no right or wrong; And the truth is, in a hurried world that asks women to shrink and dim and fit into molds all the time it's often easier to know what you don't like, rather than what you do like ... and that's OK too. Tap link in bio and “Stay in the Loop” to get more goodness like this sent straight to your inbox. 🤔 🥰 ❤️ . . . #spiritstyle #taste #goodtaste #badtaste #turquoiseandred #colorcombo #colortheory #colorizeyourwardrobe #fashioninspo #ootd #bebold #showup #fashiontherapy #fashionhealing #fashiondesigner #gooddesign #stylist #stylistapproved #confidencestylist #confidenceboost #peptalk #feminineleadership #safespace (at Hector Handmade) https://www.instagram.com/p/CjdE5YiAqA2/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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