#domestic violence survivor

[tattoorue]

#trauma survivor #abuse survivor #narcissistic abuse #warrior #survivor #living with ptsd #PTSD #DV #domestic violent relationships #domestic violence #domestic violence survivor

[mahatka]

Hi,

I am in need of money again. I live alone, and I don't have any other way to earn something at the moment. Disability is not easy on me. Poland is in a crisis, the prices keep rising and I struggle more and more.

I just need money for food and medication, I don't need luxuries, I just want to get vegetables and bread, and live like a normal human.

The cheapest commissions I have start at 5€, but I can do simpler drawings for even 2.50€, I don't mind. One euro is 4 złoty, Polish currency, so small amounts for you mean lots to me.

It's disability pride month, but I don't feel proud, I feel miserable. I am forever grateful for all reblogs of this post, I'm not in the best situation and all kinds of help are very appreciated.

Above is the cartoon full body sheet,

And then there is the more detailed style sheet with samples and a short info card.

For more info, contact me or consult this doc:

#commissions open #cheap commissions #Help #my art #artists on tumblr #Digital art #Commission sheet #Commissions #Oc commission #fanart commissions #Lgbtq help #Disability pride #Domestic violence survivor #Disability help

[daughterofanarcissistwoman]

I took these pictures less than a day after being assaulted... you definitely can't always tell what someone's going through by looking at them

#inner child healing #domestic violence survivor

[2kii13]

"Good God, I feel your hands on me." Philadelphia - Alt-J

this was a healing/ trauma piece

((prints available))

#illustration #digital aritst #digital artist #digital drawing #procreate #CSP #domestic violence survivor #survivor #recovery #art therapy #art to cope #healing #domestic abuse #domestic abuse survivor #indie music #lyrics #artist #trauma art

[deadby420]

Next month marks a year since my partner tried to kill me and I left our marriage. A year since she brought the knife to our bed room and a year since someone has threatened me, or hit me, or thrown something at me, or screamed, or twisted my reality. It has been a year without having to force someone to live. A year where I went out and left the house more than I did in all of our relationship. A year where I actually lived.

It gets so much better. Fuck. It’s worth leaving. I promise.

#tw: dv #domestic violence #dv survivor #personal #domestic violence survivor

[xianjaneway]

It's not that I was actively considering getting in touch w/my abusers again.

It's that it's ALWAYS in the back of my mind, in the basement of my subconscious, in the thousands of daily reminders that adult children SHOULD be in a relationship w/ their parents.

That your kids SHOULD have 2 sets of grandparents.

It's that they never hit me, & they were well-off financially for a while. So, they "gave me everything."

It's that straight white Republican Jesus-loving folks think that Your Parents™ are the solution to everything, from child care to outlandish medical needs.

It's that manipulation & undercutting of one's life takes a long time to see, & most people just don't put in THAT kind of time for people they aren't related to.

So, when you write a story about a woman or a parent who is abusive AF, and grown-ass adults have PTSD episodes when they even THINK abt dealing with them, know this:

You help those of us who LIVED that scenario to keep our walls up.

You remind us that we're not crazy.

You whisper our worth in our ears.

You hug our necks with your Happily Ever Afters.

And we keep building the lives that we want, far out of the reach of their wrecking balls.

#fanfiction #good omens fanfiction #sherlock fanfic #our flag means death fanfiction #PTSD #abuse survivor #mental health #Mental abuse survivor #Domestic violence survivor

[restrainedgrace]

Aqua Tofana earrings are live in the shop with a ton of new Halloween, goth, and witch energy pieces!

#aqua tofana #poison #domestic violence awareness #domestic violence survivor #history #handmade business #earrings #goth #misandry

[henryandkalcavillsdogpack41482]

#January is stalking awareness month #domestic violence survivor

[tattoorue]

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

This video is a small glimpse.

I was in an abusive relationship for 26 years but I finally escaped. There is a huge support system out there waiting to help you. I am always here for anyone that needs to vent, escape or just have questions. Warriors stick with warriors 💜

#CrissyNotKristy #end domestic violence #stop domestic violence #domestic violence survivor #domestic violence warrior #stop wife beaters #freedom tastes good #my story #hands are not for hurting

[fourletterwords]

Just thinking about a conversation I had with my therapist recently about how I had gone to a specific event recently and still found myself looking over my shoulder, after almost 2 years, for a very specific reason.

#art #artwork #collage #collage art #beautifulbizarre #dailycollage #collageartists #dv #domestic violence survivor #domesticviolence

[khemicalrevenge]

#justice for johnny depp #justiceforjohnnydepp #justicematters #johnnydepp #captain jack sparrow #amberturd #domestic violence has no gender #domestic violence survivor #domestic violence #no gender #amber heard #objection hearsay #mega pint #support johnny depp

[oldirtykash]

TW: blood, abuse, bruising

I recently had to make a new account I got logged out of my old account.

This last year I’ve left a physically and emotionally abusive relationship, my rent is due and I’m $200 short due to him breaking into my home, busting the windows out and robbing me if anyone can assist with anything I would greatly appreciate it. I’ve also been recently fired from my job due to a nervous breakdown as a result of the stress and pressure all this has cause me, I am doing interviews this week. I’d ask family for help but I currently have none.

Venmo - Kaela-Alexis

Cash app - $KashLovesCash

#cyberbegging #ebegging #financial assistance #narcissistic abuse #escaping abuse #domestic violence survivor #I need help #signal boost #paypal #cash app #venmo me #venmoitforward #donations #please donate

[mattie-bo-baddie]

Fuck right off America.

With today’s horrific news, I need to share my story. 

I have been open about many of the things that have happened to me; the abuse I suffered, my mental health journey, but there is one part of the story that I haven’t shared publicly.

I have had an abortion.

In 2017, I found out I was pregnant. This was of course during the height of the abuse suffered at my spouse's hands. I missed my period, and while my cycle was never perfect, I never had missed it entirely. I waited until a day he was at work to take the test, and I watched in horror as that second line appeared. 

I was scared for so many reasons. I knew that he would first be furious; this was during the time we were in the title circuit, and I would be “ruining” his opportunities, because of course, it would be my fault for getting “knocked up.” I feared for the fetus inside me. This potential child had nothing but a life of abuse ahead of it. After his anger subsided, I would have no doubt that he would’ve ‘loved’ the child, but that would not stop the abuse that child would see and likely be a victim to. His claimed love for me never stopped him from abusing me. 

Even if I had found the strength to leave him, I would’ve been forever connected to him if I had had his child. I would be dealing with his anger, abuse, narcissism, and manipulation for the rest of my life. I would not allow myself or another to deal with that.

In a fit of desperation, I googled methods of inducing a miscarriage. I went so far as to attempt an “herbal remedy” used vaginally to no effect. Thankfully, I suffered no medical side-effects, unlike so many that try to induce miscarriage on their own.

I sought out the help of Planned Parenthood. I made my appointment. I went, telling him I had a doctor’s appointment with a dermatologist, cause he cared more about my ‘disgusting’ acne than any other health issues I may have had. I was right at 9 weeks, which is the cut off for a medication abortion. To have an aspiration abortion, I would’ve had to have someone there to take care of me afterwards, and I felt I had no one that I could go to, so I made the decision to go with medication despite the risks.

I will not go into the details, but I will let you know this; it was painful, it was scary, and I bled more in that next week than I have in total in my entire life. 

But most importantly, I do not regret that decision at all. 

I have no way of knowing how life would have been different now if a child had entered my life at the time, but I do know this, I would not be happy. In addition to all the reasons mentioned above, there is also the glaring fact that I do not want to be a parent. Not since my early childhood playing with dolls, did I ever want to have kids. I was just told that I should, so I thought I did. I barely have my own life in some semblance of order, and you’d have me inflict that on a child?? Fuck right off.

I have been crying today, thinking of the abuse victims like myself, caught in these horrible situations, now without access to facilities that can see to their medical needs. While my situation was horrible, and I hate that I had to sneak and lie, I still had that access, I still had a way. Current and future victims will be forced to deal with abuse and misery because they do not have rights to their own body, they will be further subjugated by abusive partners. I never thought I would see a world in which our rights, which were so valiantly fought for, are being stripped away.

Possessing a uterus does not make me, or anyone else, less. A person’s choice to have an abortion should be made by them and them alone. It is an essential reproductive health care procedure. There should be no special clause, or exceptions, no asterisks on our rights. 

#abortion rights #reproductive freedom #abortion is healthcare #domestic violence survivor

[leighlew3]

Domestic violence survivor, grandmother & nurse -- Tracy McCarter is facing murder charges for protecting herself from her abuser. Please sign the petition, and REBLOG to help spread the word so we can get these absurd charges DROPPED!

#StandWithTracy

#stand with tracy #domestic violence survivor #drop her charges

[andiwantneedlusthenrycavill41482]

Going to go on ahead and Write a Henry Cavill/Sebastian Stan Character Cross Over Fan Fiction Story for October 2022

I’m going to do this, I’m going to write a Henry Cavill/Sebastian Stan Character Cross Over Fan Fiction. I hope that would get some people excited that I actually want to attempt this or that they would be interested in reading. I’ll explain why I want to start writing and to then begin posting all throughout October.

As a Domestic Violence Survivor, I wanted to write something for Next month in October, which many people aren’t aware of also is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. I’ve come up with an idea that would be perfect for October that I have been thinking about constantly a lot more for the past few months. This story plot/idea keeps coming back or resurfacing, it’s now just begging and itching for me to get out of my head and write. Maybe more now because of current events that have gone on this past summer that have involved Violence Against Women and Roe V Wade being overturned.

It seems that if something or someone gets me angry enough to want and latch out or do something, I’ll end up venting through writing, some of my best work has been the result of that.

The title I came up with was “Obligated Burden”. Just to add some background info, I’ve had this story idea in my head for the last 9 years. Not the first time I have ever had a story stuck in my head that long. Some of my original story plots might have changed a bit after what has been going on since 2013 and becoming Sebastian Stan and Henry Cavill fans. Some writing prompts I’ve recently come across and have been saving have also given me more ideas.

One thing still does remain the same though, and that is part of the plot where it is an arranged marriage business contract deal that the two main characters are coerced to do and have no choice since they are both given legal custody of their God Children after their mother is murdered. I really don’t want to use Coercion in the title, and looked up various words for Coerce. At first, I was going to go with Obligated Requirement but then decided to go with Obligated Burden. Or maybe Coercive Burden could work, I’m not sure.

That’s my idea, I’m going to try and start plotting an outline today while I watch Top Gun 2 and The Man From U.N.C.L.E, now a bit thankful that I have and use 2 working laptops sometimes at once, one I can watch the movies in and the other can have a word document open and can work on writing.

#Henry Cavill Sebastian Stan Character Cross Over Fan Fiction #October 2022 #fan fiction writer #script writer #believe it can be done #Delaware true crime inspiration #current real life inspiration #domestic violence survivor #October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month #writing prompt ideas #potential fan fiction title #fan fiction story has been a idea stuck in my head for over 9 years #some original story plot might have changed #obligated burden #maybe coercive burden #marriage business contract deal #story plot inspired by my own experience with domestic violence events from 2013 and on