I would personally like to thank all the gen x and elder millennials who allowed me to be the “kid” in all of my favorite fandom spaces 15+ years ago because lord knows if I was anything like the youth in some of my newer fandoms I should have been blocked by at least 2/3 of my faves
not putting this on that last reblog, but like, relevant to it - i feel like a lot of people have an extremely bad relationship to death. specifically, in a way thats very cultural and not innate.
i mean, how much has already been talked about with how uncomfortable people are with thinking about the meat that theyre eating came from something alive, and how they dont want any reminders of it? this is a recent change, and a very specific geographic change as well. people are suddenly a lot more squeamish around death, even necessary death. not just of predation but of animals dying at all, even in cases where the animal needs to be put down for quality of life reasons. it feels like its gotten a lot worse lately, of people trying to keep animals alive long past they should have been humanely put down, just because they cannot possibly deal with the fact of death.
it sort of feels the same way for human death as well. i mean, just look at the order of the good death and what they talk about, with how the removal of death as a natural and normal part of our lives seemingly only makes the hurt of it all the worse.
it feels like people are even less familiar with animals and less familiar with the messy parts of being alive, so far removed from nature, that they get even more freaked out by just the simplest, most basic parts of it. it feels like how people have gotten way more afraid of insects and spiders now that theres a greater degree of separation forced between us and the natural world. and because of this, it now makes the ongoing ecological crisis all the worse, because fear makes it so much harder to save what we have.
This video is about 8 minutes long, but it is well worth watching to the end. This is why we must share the Good News of Jesus whenever we can, because someone may need to hear that message.
Friend, if you need to hear this today, Jesus loves you so very much, and He always will. Nothing can ever separate you from His love (Romans 8:38-39). Amen! 🙌
Another day of swifties being way too invested and over involved in Taylor’s life.
I have read a portion of Scott’s email but stopped reading halfway through. But from what I’m seeing online.. I mean is any of this new info? So the Swift family are total Capitalists (capital C)? We’ve known this for years. So Taylor’s parents may not have always had an amicable relationship - while on the verge of or going through a divorce. I mean we don’t need to know that (and shouldn’t??) but it’s hardly shocking. A parent feeling like their teenage kid doesn’t appreciate them or recognise all the things they do to support them - mindblowing.
Another day of overanalysing minuscule things Taylor has said, and changing the meaning of song lyrics to fit the current narrative - that Scott is an abusive father/husband. Apparently Tolerate It is about Scott now - funny how it was about Joe last week?? Maybe we just need to accept that we really have no clue what’s going on in Taylor’s life (and I feel more and more that the stuff we do know about Taylor is a very carefully crafted public persona - again not very shocking).
Honestly, the only thing that matters right now in the year 2023, Taylor stills has a very public and seemingly positive relationship with her father. Taylor is not a teenager anymore, she is a woman in her 30’s, she can decide if/how she continues to have a relationship with her parents. Scott - along with Andrea - constantly attend her shows, and the family were all at the Chiefs game just a few days ago. Whatever may have happened 20 years ago they at least have a somewhat amicable relationship now. Considering this is all in relation to a court case I’m going to hazard a guess that Taylor has known about these emails for a while- so clearly she’s not too angry at her Dad? If she (or Andrea) didn’t know, or are actually more resentful/angry then they’re willing to let us know - that’s fine, that’s their prerogative. Because it’s their family.
it really sucks how you can’t even be a mildly to extremely quirky person (doubly so for people with visible disabilities or mental illness symptoms that manifest in “weird” ways) in public anymore because people dying for attention on the clock app have to turn you living your life into a spectacle,, leave weird people in public alone
Re: your follow up post, ig. I’m second gen ish Taiwanese American, aspec, and gender wobbly (she/they, I think?? Still working on that bit). I’ve always felt on the lines between categories. Not really this, not really that. Close enough to be perceived as a thing, but not really. I love dbd for the entertainment value, ofc. But what makes it the best of best, imo, is that you do put so much thought in the dialogue, and that dbd is so intensely relatable in ways I don’t usually see. Thank you.
not really this, not really that. not allowed a voice, being told to go away, this is not for you. nothing is for you. oh, hmm... you belong over there, told x2
(let's not get into the 'degree' of chinese-ness, too with the contention between taiwanese vs mainland vs hk, and then for mainland we have our own bs. you'll never be a thing. you're expected to embrace that freedom, the lack of 'leash', the individuality as an american. but of course, you're never american enough, either.)
i love all the readers of dbd, and of course with all things we have favorites. there is a special place in my heart for the ones that reach out and tell me that i wrote something that connected with them. not to be petty and catty - but because i've spent my years seeking those connections and not finding them - you'll be hard pressed to find something like dbd (~ she's not like other girls~ kidding but not kidding)
and for me...
it's like coming home, to know i'm not alone out there. so thank you for reading 🥰
huge pet peeve is when theres a video and someone in the video or the person filming is laughing and then u look in the comments to see a bunch of people complaining about the person laughing/telling them to shut up. why do you hate the joy of others. why are you evil. anyway people who film things that bring them joy and laugh while filming keep it up ily
If you watch only one inspirational video this year, watch this one. This is your Heavenly Father's love letter to you, using verses from His Word, which was written for you, to show you just how much He loves you. Amen! ❤️🌹🙌
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Some of my favorite excerpts from Tom Bryant's Not the Life It Seems: The True Lives of My Chemical Romance (Part 14)
"There was a key moment when the set turned around. Gerard slowed the pace and took a minute to address the crowd, drawing upon the band's recent experiences with the Daily Mail. 'They wrote an article calling people who listen to our music or fans of us a cult,' he yelled from the stage to the very people the Daily Mail was talking about. 'They called us a fucking cult. Do you believe how fucking ignorant that is? And that we promote self-harm and suicide in our lyrics. Do you fucking believe that? So we're here to tell you that you, our fans out there, are not a fucking cult but an army! And that nothing is worth hurting yourself over. Nothing is worth taking your life over. Do you understand?'
And with that, he began to shout, 'Fuck the Daily Mail! Fuck the Daily Mail! Fuck! The! Daily! Mail!'. The entire Reading crowd joined him, a vast chant of 'Fuck the Daily Mail' roaring out across the festival site, a rallying cry for everyone there.
The bottling became a long and distant memory, while the chant itself has become an iconic Reading festival moment. My Chemical Romance would not forget the level of abuse that greeted them, nor would they forget the support they left with.
As they walked from the stage, Gerard made himself a promise: he would never return to the festival unless he was headlining it."