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ask-gorgonzolatheclown · 1 year

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W-what..? I mean at one point we were just a soul before-

Oh no, I don't like where this is goi-

-Coffee Anon ☕️

" Hm? What? I'm sorry sport, did you not like the answer? "

" I guess there's a joke to be made here, after you get what you want you don't want it! Hahahaha! "

#Cheesed to meet you~!#everyone: I'm sick of this dude #I'd say wonder who it is but cmon #i love him tho i cannot wait to be ominious #this blog literally is “tower thoughts”#guised as a oc ask blog

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garrettwrites · 8 months

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When someone tells you they don't like hugs, that's not an invitation for you to "cure them". It is not a "you" thing, although sometimes it might be. You thinking "they have to get used to it" because "your hugs are different" and "that's how you show love" is not a valid argument. Hugging them out of the blue as a goodbye is not cool either. Fuck off.

#ok to rb in case someone is in the same boat but thinks the post is too personal #this friend of mine...#pretends he's great but can't respect one basic thing #he's lucky I have grown to control my emotions and not lash out #i hate it #don't hug me or touch me end of line #i am honest to god feeling sick #this dude and I have history where I borderline felt incapable of saying no and had sex with him #afterwards I told him how I felt #yet he still pulls this shit #hugs make me sick to my stomach I don't even hug my family #and I really don't wanna hug a man who pretty much made me hate sex (for myself) as a whole #i feel disgusting rn #twice he hugged me and got mad when I refused to hug him again #even after I already told him I hated it #then asks if I'm scared of him because of that like you piece of shit I wanna rip my skin out where you touched it #I may pretend to everyone that I'm a strong confident man but good lord #sometimes I wish I had an over protective boyfriend so he could kick him in the teeth over this shit #it's ridiculous I know but fuck #apologies if you read all these tags but I over drank after this and none of my friends are awake and I needed to vent #garrett.text

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ink-asunder · 1 year

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People need to treat systems better.

People need to treat trauma survivors better.

People need to treat disabled people better.

I don't fucking care about "no one's entitled to anyone's attention or company" anymore. If you walk away from someone having an episode, you're scum. If you ghost someone because they are chronically or terminally ill, you're a bad friend. If your only support of trauma survivors lies in bossing them around and holding them to standards of perfection or whatever you think a trauma survivor should "act like," you're NOT in the right.

If people on tumblr can make posts about having the decency to make eye contact with homeless people, and long, ranting posts about commenting on fanfictions that you like (which is the LEAST important thing in the fucking world, I'm not sorry), then they need to reckon with the fact that treating everyone in the exact same way is literally oppressive. It's ableist, it's sanist, it's oppression.

I cannot compromise my sleep schedule or dietary restrictions. I cannot sit in at one of your theatre shows. I cannot help that I literally can't remember your names and pronouns. I CANNOT compromise my boundaries relating to my trauma.

Someone who is a system cannot control their switches. They cannot control who is fronting. They cannot control how disoriented they are at any given time. You shouldn't just up and abandon someone who was having a grand mal seizure, so why would you think it's okay to do such a thing to any ill or neurodivergent person HAVING AN EPISODE? Or treating disabled, neurodivergent, or chronically ill people like their needs are "too much" or like they're bad people just because they can't keep up with YOUR standards of what makes a "good person"?

If people have unique needs, you need to assess and accept that if you're going to choose to be their friend. Don't expect them to grow out of it, amd don't make it out to be "their fault" for "never changing." You're the one who became their friend in the first place. You shouldn't have done that to begin with if they weren't good enough for you.

#fuck me dude i just got 6 hrs of sleep last night because i was up until 4am helping my brother deal with this EXACT THING #I'm fucking sick of screaming into the void about this and being met with silence #it happened in 2020 and it keeps happening.#some people have cluster b disorders. some schizospec people have bad memory blocks.#some ppl have psychotic episodes triggered by learning about anything outside of their direct experience.#some systems have a high social output/intake because they literally have 6 people in there with their own social meters.#some people switch at inconvenient times. some people have alters that annoy you. some people have meltdowns in front of you.#everyone has their limits. you don't have to stay with anyone. but at the same time it's a matter of decency.#treat everyone with humanity.#you don't get to act like you have any moral high ground if you're not patient and understanding when shit hits the fan.#vent #long post #disability #ableism #chronic illness #ptsd #cluster b #trauma survivor #did/osdd

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spinjitsuburst · 5 months

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Hello fellow sick and in bed ninjago fan—

What other snake-like features carried on over to Jay? Does his tail rattle in warning? Does he have infrared radiation vision? Is his hearing or sense of smell/taste heightened?

Did Prime Empire leave any other lasting abilities?

And how many times has Jay jumped off a roof in training only to realize he doesn’t have a video game double-jump anymore?

NOOOOO my condolences fellow sick ninja

this has nothing to do with jay but in order to see if i could find fun snake facts for this i googled "cool snake features" and was met with "some snakes can fly." so. that's terrifying!

anyways! a lot of Jay's more snake-like features are purely cosmetic. I considered giving him a venomous bite but Jay WILL be biting people in self-defense in my fic (tournament of elements and skybound at LEAST will have scenes of jay using his fangs) and i felt that would make him a bit too OP. So mostly the changes are cosmetic! His tail does rattle though - he's in full control of it, and it tends to rattle when he's feeling anxious or angry.

Prime Empire didn't give Jay any lasting powers - he has abilities in the game that he has to get used to living without now. Luckily he wanted to GENUINELY learn combat and ninja skills so Okino has trained him throughout his life in the game, so he's not starting completely from scratch when he leaves

and yes. Jay's had to get patched up quite a few times from trying to do things he can't do anymore, including faceplanting walls and shit after attempting maneuvers like double-jumps HGKJDFHJGK

#MAN being sick sucks i hope you feel better soon dude!!#i'm so mad cuz this week is the busy week at my job i work at a bakery in the US so of course everyone wants thanksgiving treats #and im SO MAD THAT IM SICK I FEEL BAD #anyways #ninjago #cabinet man au #ask #spinjitsu screams #jay

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runescapemum · 9 days

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some of you "leftists" will see a dude suffering mentally and physically under capitalism and be like "mmm should've introspected harder or maybe tried not being born bad and irredeemable" and call that praxis

#a lot of self described leftists have their principles fly directly out the window when they have to apply them to a dude that isn't #a special little uwu bean #rly frustrating to read some posts that come up on my For You page #monolithic thinking is so poisonous to the mind #how can we expect men to be better if we can't make space in our hearts FOR them to be better #this is why everyone hates us #we offer them no solutions only condemnation and ire #and no this is not apologia for genuinely awful men #like my father and grandfather abused me emotionally and physically my entire childhood and my entire life is fucked as a result #I have been targeted and assaulted by men for being openly and obviously queer and unapologetic about it #but I cannot hold those experiences as being indicative of a whole group #it goes against every principle I hold as a leftist and I'm so sick of the cognitive dissonance that exists in leftists spaces #when we discuss this topic

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blujayonthewing · 24 days

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weird to be a person with anxiety and also, separately, a person with a lifelong fascination with wilderness survival

I feel like people catch wind of my desire to have, like, a backcountry water filter or multiple firemaking methods with me for car camping or day-hiking or whatever else and think I'm catastrophizing and overpreparing because of The Neuroses but I can't emphasize enough that I don't actually have any fears about The Shit Hitting The Fan or whatever preppers are on about, I just really really really like the idea of drinking out of a river or building a little fire

#one time my friend was regaling us with the absolute fucking shitshow of the outdoor music festival she had just SURVIVED #and how among other things people were getting sick because the sanitation situation was Dire and the water was contaminated #and I made some side comment to justin about my backcountry filter #and she was like-- very seriously and emphatically-- 'no it wouldn't have been like this if it wasn't so mismanaged'#and like-- I'm not gonna derail your story to talk about this instead but yeah dude I know #tbh it would never in a million years have occurred to me that a music fest might be a fucking cholera risk #my anxiety is different flavored than that #I just would have been really excited in the same situation to be unaffected because of My Proclivities lmao #everyone around MY little campsite has safe and fresh water because I am a little weirdo 😌#not 'better bring these things... might have to use them 😰' but 'better bring these things... might have to use them 👀'#about me

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strangesickness · 3 months

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it has been so weird getting into live action film in the past little while because prior to late 2023 i was basically only into video games, comics, and cartoons (i have pretty bad face blindness so i can find it difficult to follow live action movies, especially if characters have similar hair or clothes. top gun maverick was a NIGHTMARE for me), and now i'm like? recognizing actors? it's kind of weird to think that when i'm my parents age kids aren't going to know who. chris evans or like. finn wolfhard are. and i'm going to do the exact same thing my parents always do like "what? you don't know who chris evans is? he's only captain america!" and the kid is going to be like... "why would i know who captain america is...? that movie came out before i was even born... no one cares about captain america these days gramps" and then i'll go to bingo or something and cry about it.

#but like. realizing i can just. recall some actors names???#like. i had a few moments where i was like “who played that guy” and i didn't even have to look up “[character name] actor"#i just knew???#which has been like. really weird #i am chronically uncaring about celebrities #i've just never taken an interest #it gets me similar looks to the ones i get when i say “i don't have tiktok”#people will show me a picture of a popular musician and even if its one i listen to i'm like... dude idk who that is #like if you're thinking of like “big celebrities” that EVERYONE knows? i probably do not. except like taylor swift and notable politicians #and jerry seinfeld #but that has more to do with my dad having like every episode of seinfeld memorized than it does anything else #posts afflicted with a strange sickness #this is about knives out btw #i just watched knives out for the first time since it came out and i recognized chris evans AND jaden martell #i also recognized daniel craig and katherine langford but i couldn't remember their names lol #one of the reasons i didn't enjoy watching live action films for a long time is that i have really bad face blindness #if a movie has more than one 20-40yr old attractive white guy in it who dress similarly i will be completely unable to tell them apart /srs #and this makes understanding the plot of a lot of movies incredibly difficult #all of this is to say i spent all of knives out convinced that michael shannon was woody harrelson but they don't even look alike tbh

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seakrisp · 1 year

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Wenclair is literally It's own thing at this point.

Like, seriously, It It's own fandom at this point, people literally have no reason to see actual show, to get into It... That's wild.

it's a thing that can still happen like cmon, not every relationship/love interest of the main character can be confirmed through THE FIRST SEASON, where the writers may explore the WORLD BUILDING AND CHARACTER INTRODUCTION or even something else. Hell Wednesday probably won't end up with anyone that's something that might happen but we won't know only time will tell.

I mean i think when a fandom has a really popular ship its GONNA have like a sub community of it. and I don't u think ur generalizing the whole wenclair community too much? 😭😭 like yeah there are gonna be some of those ppl who expect only the wenclair moments which is a shame if they didn't come for the show but yk who am I to tell them how to watch something.

i dont think it's wild, it's very common in the internet. how about you just not look for wenclair related stuff, anon.. 😭😭

#I dont mean to be mean but yk I'm just saying I hope i dont come across as is #like dude what were u expecting me to say I like the ship!#I like so many ships that aren't canon yet I enjoy the character for what they are and the show for what it is #yes I'm talking about lightcannon and arkco. until proven otherwise AND even proven otherwise ill enjoy my ship #this includes wenclair #anyway Im done talking about this im sick #I hope everyone else who reads this is having a better day than me #seajjae rambles #seajae answers #ask answered

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typical-simplelove · 1 year

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#for people who say “religious beliefs” are the reason they don't support lgbtq+ people and are catholic/Christian #<- this belief goes against the Christian church and Christian Bible #part of being a Christian is supporting everyone #and something j learned over the past few years of catholic school religion class is that anyone who says that the Bible is their reason #for not supporting a certain group of people IS COMMITTING A HERESY #the Bible is never to be used as a reason not to support someone or show respect or love #so to relate to tonight's hockey news that dude is further enforcing a heresy which goes against Christian doctrines #I'm just sick of christians/catholics hiding behind their faith when the reality is that their faith is supportive of everyone #we're supposed to be supportive and unfortunately a lot of members of the church don't recognize that #so if anyone ever hears someone saying their Christian God doesn't like lgbtq+ people you can tell them that their flat out wrong #God always says that we should love everyone and gay people ARE STILL God's children #this is my religion rant for the evening thanks for reading this far #*they're

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retiredcultistredux · 9 months

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Kirby! Dont belive in his lies! - lollipop anon

Kirby managed to make his way out of Clover's grasp, and he began running with a newfound determination.

...Something had changed yet again. One of Kirby's eyes had become red, and he was acting very...impulsively. His voice even seemed to change a bit here and there, and there was a weird shadow behind him. Definitely a bad sign.

...Not to mention he'd switched his attention from Prince Fluff over to Hyness directly. Someone should probably stop him.