(Anon from before) Thanks! I am doing better now. I think it was the cultural difference + me not doing voice inflections right (I used to "sound like a robot"). That specific complaint (me being "sarcastic") stopped about a year after I moved. Also, yeah, last night I was anxious about my job interview and stayed up super late distracting myself haha. Interview went blah, but I got it over with at least. Thanks for sharing your story too, the meltdown involving the cops sounded scary 馃槰. That is sweet how you relate to Nagito. I relate to Kazuichi for similar reasons myself
I'm happy to hear for certain things are better, and honestly fair I'd be super nervous hope you get the job anon!
I can't relate since I'm on the younger side, but even then I'm grades behind what I'm meant to be so I won't be having to worry about interviews for a while, I don't think? Kind of in the middle of growing up stages if that makes sense, trying to get rid of learned helplessness lol. I don't like saying I'm young though since I hate being underestimated usually, and also, associated with others my age who I feel like I'm not at the same maturity level with.
To be honest, I still sometimes feel trapped when not being able to explain how I feel or be understood but at least I don't scream anymore since I have the luxury at knowing enough words to attempt expressing myself, although for the two people angrily talking at me once I can't say the same for lol.
actually I'm kind of having one of those days today where I'm struggling to understand how I feel, like kind of feel like there's a block in my head preventing me from describing it, as well as my tummy and back hurt, and I'm in the waiting room for the dentist so uhhh today is NOT my day 馃拃
ANYWAYS personal stuff aside, I definitely never thought I'd get to the point where I'd understand Nagito well enough to where I can say I relate to him to a degree, but I am happy that I can and am able to identify how he makes me feel. Hajime and Nagito both have relatable traits honestly Lol. I'd love to hear about what makes Kazuichi relatable to you!
Thank you for the asks Anon! I enjoy them a lot :)
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ok hi haha lol I dont rly feel like going in circles in my head forever trying to figure out whether, among other "smaller" things, being left alone in a room w only media as a child and not feeling like I had even a semblance of a personality for most of my life counts as "trauma"
a lot of these parts of me are new, I'm just recently putting names to them and it feels as though I'm developing facets of personalities in my mid 20s after a lifetime of either feeling like I'm basically just ADHD in a person, an amalgamation of kins shoved into a body, or something made of guilt Also shoved into a body.
I don't like, claim to know what this means. but I don't think a lot of my current mutuals would feel comfortable interacting w me bc I don't necessarily believe in the black and white of what plurality is. I'm not able or planning on getting any formal diagnosis and while I'm discussing this w my therapist they're very much not one to pathologize
I definitely don't feel like one person but I dont think id count for most of you as a "system" as the different parts of me feel as though theyre still developing. take all of this as you will, I'm not going to stress my body out more by trying to figure out "what" I am as I've been doing that my whole life and I'm kinda tired of it.
I know that I'm not entirely one thing and feel Enough like multiple things for myself, but blurred in a lot of ways. like some sort of gem with many different facets.
not sure where to go w this tbh take this how you will. im not comfortable saying I'm leaning one way or the other regarding system discourse, (<- not a phrase i want to use but the best shorthand i have) as I genuinely don't believe the human brain is nearly that black and white.
I'm both "me" and very much not "me" at times. idk what this means but ik I'm not comfortable saying im just pandora and im not sure im "allowed" to say im a system and im not sure if it matters, or should matter, regarding friends. im going to be like this regardless, id unfollow me if this grey area im likely to stay in bothers you
if you don't want me refollowing I'd probably block, too, as my memory is bad
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i know its unrealistic and nonsense to feel bad bc im not as good as i could be within a hobby bc a hobby is supposed to be fun and occupy your time but i cant for the life of me not feel guilty about not drawing and not improving
like.. i have most of the resources. i often have the time. i have almost a thousand pictures in my reference folder to be used to practice and learn. i have an internet connection to be inspired and learn from those better than me and yet... i just don't feel like drawing. and i mean drawing something grand.. not just the dozens of doodles and oc refsheets i keep churning.. i want to do standalone pieces like i used to and look at them fondly and feel proud of something. but i just dont have the flame to do it for months and months on end
i mean obviously this is much more likely to happen when it has been your primary hobby for over like 7 years contrary to, say, webpage coding which i just started to learn like a year ago. what's keeping me from wanting to draw though? its so frustrating to know you Have the Potential to be a good artist and knowing How you could become more but just.. not feeling like it. and telling urself im gonna draw tomorrow and tomorrow comes and its one of those days you'd rather stare at a wall the whole afternoon and it just keeps going and going and you stay stumped
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