#idk it just seems unrealistic to me

[gandalfsbignaturals]

i find ppl with "men dni" on their blogs kinda... confusing. cuz like... its not enforcable?

like, what, ur gonna go thru every single blog that interacts with u and block all the men? how will u kno who the men are, even, its not like everyone puts their whole ass gender on their blog. and also, what about multigender or genderfluid peeps who are men and also women?

its just like, i dont rly see the point ig. it feels like something ppl put on their posts without really thinking about the actual ramifications

#i saw a blog today that had 'dont reblog my stuff if u let men follow u' #and im like #fuck dude do u expect all of ur followers to go thru their whole followers list and block all the men?? #again thats not rly plausible cuz how r u even gonna kno for half of them #idk it just seems unrealistic to me

[urostakako]

it seems people are already upset that tsumiki is not nice anymore, sorry you dont know her like i do

#cmon. cmon. she has every right to be violent #idk if i trust gege to allow her to be angry (which she also has every right to be?? her life has constantly been people pushing her away #and forgetting about her and her constantly being nice) but if she was nice even now it would literally make zero sense #thats not character development. its not even giving her character. its just megumi's perspective being right that shes some kind of saint #which is sooooooo boring like why would she be nice. i think she should be tired of being nice. i think she should go apeshit. as a treat #and there was so much build up about the curse put on her. making it just some thing like oh shes a sorcerer but shes not gonna do anything #about it because shes so good IS SO BORING #and really it would be unrealistic if she didnt harbor at least some negative feelings i mean megumi was always kind of an asshole right up #until she got cursed and im assuming gojo didnt pay much attention to her as he did megumi. and her mom left her for some shitty dude #why would she not be mad?? just getting stuck being a little angel after all that just makes my skin crawl #and if megumi only really considered apologizing after she got cursed i doubt he really did a lot for her when she wasnt. #so i absolutely think she should be allowed to kill people it would be a disservice if she wasnt and was just again boiled down to the #saintly girl older sister image megumi seems to have of her. so boring #or maybe its just me being an angry sister who has to be nice. but i dont really think it is #tsumiki fushiguro #jjk 211 #jjk leaks #jjk spoilers #jjk #aricouldyounot #oh and before anyone misinterprets i know megumi had some psychology going on as a kid. doesnt mean tsumiki didnt either #or that she has to be so understanding all the time and not consider her own feelings. so boring. so shitty #it mightve sounded like a joking tone when i said she should go apeshit. but i was 100% serious #anyway yeah thats it

[frankencanon]

Honestly, Zoro could be revealed to be from the Grand Line or the New World and I would not even be surprised...

Zoro is absolutely the kind of person who would accidentally wander off and then proceed to get so lost that he winds up in a different sea altogether.

Can you imagine if the Straw Hats went to the next island and the people immediately recognize Zoro on the docks?

People calling out his name and saying, "Where have you been?!"

And the other Straw Hats are like, "You're from the Grand Line?!"

And Zoro's just, "I'm from the Grand Line?!"

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Or, alternatively:

Zoro is convinced that — rather than him being from the Grand Line — Nami must've somehow managed to accidentally navigate them all the way back to the East Blue, and it's the Straw Hats who are now lost.

#roronoa zoro #one piece #op #headcanon #op fanfic #honestly i'm convinced that there's gotta be SOMETHING more to zoro's backstory... #idc how unrealistic it is #zoro's backstory/joining the crew cannot be like one episode long #most of the other characters all got entire arcs #and the one's that didn't just got it later on #nami and robin seemed to join easily at first only to get their backstory later on when they tried to leave and luffy dragged them back #similar thing with sanji though he had a bit more backstory in the beginning #even brook got the laboon reveal a bit later #idk man im convinced (hopeful) that zoro's gunna get more #it's just too weird #zoro's got plotholes man #you're telling me this random kid was just running around challenging dojos? bullshit #how did he end up in the village? how long had been running around by himself? #why was he challenging dojos? #where are his parents? #WHY WAS HE SO DIRTY #i'm like 99% certain he was homeless #how did he wind up in that position? #a homeless possibly orphaned child running around challenging dojos??????? #sus. #most homeless orphaned children will run around trying to get a job or stealing food #not challenging dojos????? #how was he getting money to eat #what was he eating #and why was he more preoccupied with challenging ppl to duels rather than SURVIVING????

[dr-gaytorius]

ok i'm a bit drunk and well. as ive mentioned ive been pining for someone for a while now. it's been really getting to me lately - like a lot. additionally, one of my closest friends gave me a tarot deck recently. i'm not particularly superstitious or spiritual or anything like that, but i think it's fun. well, i didn't really have anyone to turn to for this particular issue, so i thought "fuck it," and turned to the cards. i've done this a couple times before for this same reason, but i've become increasingly desperate and down bad as they say. i shuffled the deck excessively, indesively and feeling particuarly indefinitive. i got agitated and, well, this time i was like, OKAY, i need a flat out CLEAR and indisputable just yes or no. end all be all answer. do i or don't i. and i shit you not. immediately the sun card falls into my fucking hand. what the fuck lmao

#obviouslyyyyyy this is the answer i want but i'm still not sold tbh #like...................... it just seems really unrealistic to think he could ever reciprocate my feelings or that it will or could ever #work out idk #like.... it would just be too good too perfect to be true #like fairy tale shit you know #happy endings and riding off into the sunset... that shits not real lol #especially not for me

[seraphim-soulmate]

so how do I reconcile with just having big baby loser brain that decided I'd be mentally ill and perpetually stuck suffering instead of having just dealt with my shit in a more normal way? or is there some neuroscience that can explains that I don't have a cringefail brain but it's actually something else??

i mean. it's shame. shame I feel for struggling with things i consider i shouldn't struggle with, which i guess is kinda stupid bcs when i take a step back i realize it's understandable that im struggling with certain things ive lived through. being stuck in them doesn't entirely make sense, but I'm willing to accept that my past shaped me. not to mention that I'm also somehow kind of constantly going through really hard situations on top of also dealing with my past? but it also all (mental illness and emotional sensitivity, I mean) started with something, and my early childhood was my parents getting divorced.

but I consider that banal, plenty of parents get divorced and it doesn't mean their kid suffers from treatment-resistant depression and ptsd. I guess divorce is so normalized now that i don't consider it a valid thing to be traumatized over, at least not to the extent to which ive experienced symptoms. but I was separated from one parent, always missing one or the other, without any explanation that could make sense to a child's brain about why any of this happened and why i have to suffer because of it. can I get rid of the shame by validating the struggles I went through? would that make me feel better about having been disabled by my life experiences?

#personal #me #mental health #i don't mean this as an insult to other people who also struggle with the same shit i struggle with #its just rn im in quite an awful state and its a question that keeps replaying #but writing this out did make me realize how cruel it is to think this of myself ig #it doesnt make the thought any less extant though. #like is it that my brain and biology were structured this way? did i have a predisposition and then life events made me develop like thi #this* #its also possible its autism. but i don't know enough to know how to cope with that either. #from what I've gathered it means i actually have a genetic difference that made me more vulnerable to emotional difficulties? #i dont know what the point of finding out the answer to this is either. i guess to justify why its okay for me to be like this. #because so far it doesn't seem right. it doesnt make sense that i have this many mental issues. #maybe my expectations are unrealistic. #idk my psych at some point said i have these things in place so i wouldnt just fully lose my mind. #and i thought id gotten to a place where i didnt need dissociation as a coping tool anymore #but then more things that are super overwhelming keep happening in my life #and chronic pain plus sensory issues arent things that make you want to be present in your body either tbf

[classical-vanity]

How does one even get over existential dread

#I’ve had it all week and it’s giving me anxiety <3 #i feel like spring is always the worst for my anxiety #and idk it feels like I’m trying but it’s never good enough #(my unhealthy perfectionism yes) #and then I’m also like what even is the point to anything #and then it’s like thinking of all the people in the world and how many we are and how it’s hard for everyone #and we’re all with our own lifestyles and traditions and whatnot #that’s always overwhelming #my brain zooms out too much as my bestie put it #and I also feel like I’m failing at life #even tho that’s not really a thing ???? #25 isn’t old but it feels like I fucked up my life already which is so dumb #I know rationally a lot of things are fucked up the way my anxiety puts it #but i am still not like over it #and this isn’t like new stuff #I’ve had this sort of thought process for years and I can’t seem to get out still #do I just need to go back to obsessively reading romance again #so I’m no thoughts head empty just unrealistic scenarios #do I just gotta ride it out until I’m 30 and I’ll magically get less insane #do I just start looking for a rich husband #okay rant over #feel free to ignore me #this week’s been rough #I’ll hopefully get over this soon #tbd later

[greppelheks]

Idk why does being released from therapy feel so depressing

#im so so sad idk why i think just scared relieved exhausted etc #i actually cried in front of my therapist for the first time in 7 years #personal #i dont necessarily feel ready yet but im sure ill be fine #i want to be home and take a nap #she had me write down all the things id want in the future #and not only do they seem unrealistic but also exhausting and i dont even Want them now #TRUSTING THE PROCESSSSS #i want to want them but i just wanna sleep

[lesbians4yoohyeon]

a lot of people are thinking nancy’s gonna comphet,

ur thought?

OMFG YES. i honestly wish for this to happen but i kinda don't this so. her and jonathan are kinda set in stone (not that they're bad) but i do hope she gets to be her own person and more than just a girlfriend of someone. that might mean they'd have to break up for that? idk where their relationship is rn but that might need to happen for that 😭😭 and as for nancy actually being gay? PLEASE i wish. like i want this so bad there's so many signs of it but idc if the duffers will do multiple gay couples tbh 💀💀 big media usually never does so i don't think so... it would be in a perfect world though! 🙃

#stranger things #nancy wheeler #honestly i would love nancy being a lesbian #lesbian nancy wheeler #but idk. i get the feeling byler will be the only gay ship tbh #them doing more than one gay ship esp in the party or with the main characters seems unrealistic 🙃 #hell even one gay ship seems unrealistic tbh #but they're doing it and we're glad ❤️ #lesbian nancy wheeler will just have to stay in my ao3 searches for now 😭😭 #TO ME. ronance like each other and start dating #elmaxisms asks

[hyperfocuscentre]

idk why but the idea of cabin 7 being very lgbtq+ except for one cishet allo member who just sits in the midst of it all, a strong ally by force, is very funny to me

#by ally i mean #they know everything lgbtq #they are very educated #simply because they live in the lgbtq+ cabin #it’s very unrealistic because how are they all lgbtq #but maybe that just makes it funnier #idk #a lot of camp half blood members seem pretty lgbtq+ to me ngl #cabin 7 #apollo cabin #this is crack #i don’t actually think cabin 7 is lgbtq+ infested lmao #pjo hoo toa #percy jackson and the olympians #the heroes of olympus #the trials of apollo #pjo hoo #why cabin 7? #because that would be my cabin #so my brain is apollo cabin centric

[trans-xianxian]

did you get the earring in?

sort of 😭 I don't have any studs but I do have hoops with straight posts, but I had to sort of bend one to be able to get it at an angle where I could get it through the back of my ear, so right now I have a hoop earing sticking backwards in my ear w an earring back on it so it doesn't fall out.... I'm going to wait for my ear to calm down a little bit before taking it out and Immediately putting the other one in

#it Hurts but its not Bleeding which is honestly the most important factor to me #I got the hoop in backwards before took it out and tried to stick the other one in front ways AND IT DIDN'T WORK #so I'm letting her sit for a second #I also soaked my ear after getting it in so hopefully that'll help #idk whyyyy this is happening when I first took out the jewelry I had some trouble getting a new earring in but thats kind of expected?? #I've changed earrings 3 times since then w little issue.... #I think maybe my ear is just irritated w me because I put heacy earrings in and she's not used to that yet.... #at least now I know it hasn't closed at all thats what I was rlly worried abt #which a few hours seems unrealistically fast but my body had closed up Years old piercings overnight #anyway I'll get the intended earring in later tonight. one hopes. #ask #mewts

[gothmods]

Who wants to bet that if/when crypto dies all those crypto mining warehouses will be left in disrepair until the tech in them is unusable?

#idk the image of companies taking the L and selling off all those computers/parts seems very unrealistic to me #its more likely they'll just sit on em so as to not drive tech prices back down #companies frequently just leave shit to crumble when they go bust rather than let someone else benefit

[the-darkgod]

every once in a while you really do start to wonder at what point is the issue that im feeling depressed or is it that the world around me is slowly (quickly) burning and it feels like every consideration i might have had for my future is meaningless so like why not just sit around and watch tiktoks on my phone until the world burns down around me

#anyway its like idk everything just seems Too Big to deal with #ik everyone would say things like you should join activism groups #and do things and try to change thigns #ive read things talking about how the world isn't really as doomed as we might think it is! #theres still a way back! #but the thing is. it just seems so completely unrealistic that we'd ever care to change it back #and like. god. idk. whats the point of me trying #i feel no rage. do drive to change anything #i just feel complete emptiness #anyway im gonna try to email a therapist named danny devito tomorrow #alex speaks

[yongseungkim]

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#its been great like not being as interested in social media #but unfortunately for me that means a lot of the anxieties that came with social media have like #infiltrated real life in very real ways and its scary and i dont like it #i dont like thinking like this #these ppl are too precious to me #i try not to act on it but man are the thoughts the exact same no matter what social thing im a part of #like ive never felt truly included in online spaces or just feeling unpopular or like whatever #kinda the odd one out #and even irl it feels that way #the thing is i have good people and good friends in my life #like i know theyre not the problem #its just me and my thoughts that havent literally changed forever and like now its annoying #bc i care about these people and maybe selfishly wanna keep them in my life (?) #although based on my interactions and conversations w them it feels the same for them too yaknow like reciprocated #but i feel like these days my thoughts have really just been making me not the most fun person to be around sometimes #im not acting on them fully but like maybe slightly (?) #the closer i personally feel to people the more hurt i unintentionally get #i have such unrealistic expectations sometimes it feels #and i feel like my few attempts at trying to get closer with certain ppl one on one hasnt always went down well and like #this has to be a two way thing so i cant really blame em but it also hurts idk :( #i just feel like im always doing something wrong bc ppl never seem to like me as much as i like them ? #idk i think its the superficial things too at the end of the day that bother me more than they should #i feel like i wouldnt be missed like i have to always do the reaching out whos reaching out to me :( #there are ppl that do though and im so thankful to them but things like idk #feel like ic ould shut my phone off for a week and not see anyone and just hear from no one #which is fine i guess but it makes me feel very invisible #its been strange i have feelings im trying to reconcile but not sure how to #socializing is so hard so so so hard ive just been almost confused to a frozen amount #and its been harder these days cuz the rose tinted glasses are off like my friends do re energize me yes but i feel a lot of anxiety too #rambles

[erigold13261]

Love how some of the ships suggested in the asks (RoseBots, SongByte, and whatever is going on with Miles and his buddies) are becoming integral to the Eriverse plot

Which is weird because I usually don't care all that much for shipping. Like that's probably a surprise considering I do talk a lot more about ships now than I used to (I used to avoid it heavily with my only ship being kinda Neon and Nova, or Mint Choco Cookie and Cocoa Cookie, I didn't really ship anyone).

I kinda still don't hold it as high as other people I think. Like I don't do the more "traditional" (?) version of shipping where I am always drawing them kissing, hugging, doing very romantic things. I instead treat shipping more like two best friends deciding to live together after years of friendship and helping each other mentally.

That's probably just because of how I approaching relationships (or at least potential relationships) in my life. I never understood how people get into relationships after only knowing someone for a few months, or even married after a year or two of KNOWING the person. Not just a year or two of dating but knowing them for far longer before they started dating.

I think you can kinda see this in my view with Raz and Lili, where I was like "why the fuck are these two kids dating after knowing each other for less than like a week???" Because I just don't think that way, especially not when I was younger (I still can't believe it took me so long to realize I was aroace).

So a lot of me talking about these ships are more like, what they become in the future. I would say the only ones actually dating really early is Miles situation. I don't see Margo and Tila actually getting together until about 2-3 years after Margo moves to Vinyl City, and I don't see Yinu and Peni actually starting to date until after the timeskip sometime on their travels.

It's less that shipping is important to the Eriverse, and more that these relationships are so important and significant to the character, that they are willing to start dating at some point thanks to that closeness they feel.

Does that make sense? I much prefer the idea of people actually becoming good friends and then dating than the other way around (which isn't to say I don't enjoy that dynamic too, that is basically what happened with Purl, Cyril, and West's relationship).

Exploring crushes and the what-ifs are also fun. Like Dew and Haru's (and for a time Dew and Kayane) relationship was mainly a one sided crush on Dew's side that he put on the backburner to actually become friends with Haru and Kayane before ever attempting to actually try and date either of them (giving up on Kayane because he much rather just be friends with her than to date).

Maybe I'm weird or the odd-man-out, but I much prefer talking about general character relationships than pure ship relationships. Like even trying to talk about May, Eve, and Haym's relationship is hard for me for some reason even though I love that ship (though I am tempted to break Haym away from that ship in the timeskip and want to explore some drama there lol).

It's weird. But those ships in the ask are definitely supposed to have strong foundations that are integral to the plot that later helps those characters figure out they do perhaps care a bit more for their friend than they initially though.

#eritalks #eriverse #noart #asks #does this make sense? #like i guess it's kinda like a slowburn #but not actually? #something like that #idk #i've just read a LOT of stories #where people get married 2 years into knowing someone #and they obviously don't even know who they married #or they don't even fucking like each other #which can be great plot points to explore #but when it's every ship it gets unrealistic to me #even though that seems to be the norm irl #though don't take this as gospel at least #because i do love me a crackship here and there #and will draw characters with someone else #just to see what it would look like #how i drew like c/eline and m/ia one time #even though my otp with c/eline is defintiely z/imelu #and i see those two as monogamous #but it was fun to play with just shipping two characters #with no actual story or relationship #idk what i'm saying anymore #those relationships are supposed to be important #both to characters and to the plot #:3