#it's literally none of our business

[theold-ultraviolence]

You guys are so fucking weird about Joseph Quinn and then wonder why he seems different now than how he was two years ago, my god

#joseph quinn #browsing through his tag is an experience™️ #it is literally none of our business what goes through his head 24/7 #you’re forgetting how bad it got when he got crazy overnight success when st4 came out #he’s been doxxed harassed stalked and god knows what else #of course he was bound to change #he’s only human and his privacy has been severely disturbed #I said it before two years ago and I’ll say it again #he’s been treated like a SHOW PONY #when he’s an ACTOR #can we please just #celebrate the roles he’s getting and not get weird about him as a person or his personal life PLEASE

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

#its none of our business Until It Literally Is! #waiting patiently and acting as though i have seen nothing i know nothing #rambles from the bog #but also im frothing at the fucking mouth :]c

[uncanny-tranny]

"The average person will not care if trans people exist in the same spaces as them," and, "some of the most powerful people are of the opinion that trans people must be separated from society, thus, it's important to not stop your allyship with 'I don't care'" are both true.

It is good that so many cis people don't care enough about who is trans and who isn't, that isn't solely what will save us. It's important to stop people in power from affecting the lives of trans people, from preventing them from pushing us out of every space and opportunity they can.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #ally advice #transphobia #transphobia tw #i've come across many a cis person who literally doesn't care what trans people do or do not do and i appreciate the viewpoint of... #...'it isn't my business so i don't make it my business'... #...HOWEVER i do not think that alone is sufficient when it comes to ensuring trans peoples safety... #...because obviously people in power have immense interest in making the lives of trans people either impossible or very hard... #...and that isn't going to stop unless we make it stop #i'm not trying to say that if you're cis and you don't find other people's transness your business you are wrong and terrible by the way... #...what i AM saying is that trans people are still in material danger the longer people have the power to make our lives hell y'know #as far as i'm concerned the whole 'it ain't my business' can often be a good response to transness #in that you recognize that it isn't your place. i do the same thing even though i'm tranS #because even though i am trans it is STILL none of my business who's trans and who's getting what surgery or whatever

[plague-parade]

genuinely people need to start curating their dash experiences more. you dont like a person? block them. you think theyre mean? block them. dont like a topic? blacklist it.

it is your responsibility to curate what you see and dont see on a platform like tumblr that doesnt have an algorithm. follow blogs you like, topics you like, and block and ignore the ones that you dont. it is that easy.

#brought to you by ‘cripplepunks are meanies’ just fucking block them if you think theyre mean. #we’re allowed to be mean and angry on our own personal blogs like it is literally None Of Your Business #actually i will tag it bc its annoying me so much #cripplepunk #cpunk #cripple punk #cpunk discourse #cripplepunk discourse #cripple punk discourse

[localemofreak]

Yall Joseph Quinn rumor blogs make me hurl.

Idc- stay mad and stay out of his private life.

😘🖕

#joseph quinn #joe quinn #localemofreak #like- stfu. #y’all make me want to do things to myself I swear. #I only stan Joseph Quinn news blogs- which focus on his work- not his personal life. #y’all aren’t cool- treat him like a fucking human being my god. #my 13th reason fr. #stay mad bc I decide to treat a celeb like a human 🙀 #BTW HE ISNT DATING ANYBODY- STOP THAT DUMB SHIT BRO 💀💀 #and even if he was dating somebody- literally none of our business.

[sukugo]

thinking about anakin-posting-thirst-traps-on-tumblr dream, i have more thoughts!

what if anakin one day decides to record himself as he fucks himself on a dildo and, being the dumb, reckless teen he is (who was absolutely taught holonet safety, but nonetheless ignores it), shares it online.

and while i love the scenario where obi-wan finds the video and immediately realizes it's anakin. and it fucks him up

there’s a second scenario im really into (kinda unlikely bc i feel obi-wan would be able to tell anakin apart from a strand of hair, really, BUT for the sake of the idea, let’s IGNORE THAT) where obi-wan browsing galactic pornhub, comes across a camboy. he’s a human jedi padawan. he doesn't show his face.

and while obi-wan usu just ignores the jedi category that stares so blaringly at him, and who considers himself above watching jedi padawan porn, of all things.

he can't stop looking at this one. he finds himself so unusually attracted to him.

bc he looks so much like anakin.

his physique is so similar to what he imagines anakin's to be under his thick, loose robes.

and while he doesn't show his face. there's sometimes a few blond hairs peeking from the back of his neck.

and. his padawan braid. the wretched, alluring thing has a shade so similar to anakin’s, falls at his heaving chest so titillatingly, bounces as the boy's hand moves to thrust the dildo in and out of his hole

and it's such a stupid video. doesn’t even have that many views. obi-wan doesn't even know how he came across it. the title is literally something like ‘vid 1’

and the boy is not even that experienced. his hands are clumsy, and they blunder and shake while he strokes his small dick, rubs the tip with the base of his palm.

he's awkward and gangly and the videos don't even have audio in them. which is pathetic really, obi-wan is getting off to the stupidest, shittiest amateur porn vids that don’t even have sound. no moans, no grunts or whimpers, which would at least make the videos somewhat alright.

still. obi-wan has never felt himself come as fast as he has to those vids. has never gotten so hot with anything like he has with that boy’s vids.

and he knows. he knows. he knows why.

so yes, they may not have any audio, but he does fill in the sounds. with the voice of his padawan. imagines them to be similar to when they spar and anakin growls at his saber. or the content moans when he eats his favorite treats. he fills them in. his mind does, unconsciously. and so perfectly.

and so, obi-wan becomes a regular watcher of the boy's. checks for new videos everyday. waits and hopes for more.

(he even notices the way he does get slightly better at pleasuring himself through each video he uploads. though he never loses the boyish impatience, the desperation, the awkwardness)

it becomes obi-wan's guilty pleasure. the only way for him to somewhat satiate the ill desire that burns inside him

#BOY THAT'S UR PADAWAN U'RE GETTING OFF TO #sdfjhfkjsdf what's the thing? out of the frying pan into the fire lmaoooo #obi-wan: hmm i can't masturbte to thoughts of anakin. perhaps i should watch p.orn instead #obi-wan: ends up literally masturbting to VIDEOS of anakin instead #why's anakin posting vids of himself on galactic pornhub? idk that's none of our business #sw #obikin #ns4w #f.txt #i like the idea of obi-wan feeling like he’s cheating on anakin somehow. which makes no sense. #considering his feelings for anakin remain such an enclosed part of him. and anakin doesn’t know them #much less are they actually in a relationship.

[ganja-hq]

It's genuinely so stupid to imply that one cannot be a martyr and also mentally ill

#im not speculating on Aaron's mental health bc it's literally none of my business but even if he was. so fucking what? #like genuinely do you think mentally ill people cant make their own decisions? does mental illness exclude one of being an activist? #most of our generation can be classified as mentally ill #being critical of the systems we exist under can be and is very often classified as mental illness #it is a mostly meaningless categorization when the ruling class can apply it to whoever they see fit #ganja talks #free palestine

[moregraceful]

@patrichornkissed THANK you for this WONDERFUL THOUGHT JOURNEY!!! under a cut

who came out first -- matty came out to brady first but brady came out to their parents + young sister first. matty came out to their extended family first but brady came out to all their shared friends first. it absolutely was the most headass competition after that initial fear when brady came out to matty, a couple months after matty came out to her.

not to eldest-daughter code matty but sometimes u set an example for your younger siblings and the things that brady had been wrestling with that felt too big and too much suddenly felt accessible and manageable. once she reconciled that with herself, she came out to matty, and the two of them engaged in the world's stupidest game of one-up-womanship. this caused so many problems in their personal life and they loved every minute of the chaos.

did quinn and brady get married immediately -- SORT OF. they get married when quinn graduates college. childhood sweethearts, broke up in college when quinn went to umich and brady went to a state school. and yk how it goes with teenagers going to college they're like, this CANNOT work bc now we are ADULTS in COLLEGE, we need to SEE OTHER PEOPLE because young love ISN'T REAL, and then brady makes it through one year of college and goes this SUCKS!!! academically and emotionally, drops out after one year. spends a year bouncing around trying to make her life work without quinn and having an low-stakes but meaningless fling with timmy from her beer league team. and her life DOES NOT MAKE SENSE without quinn. so in quinn's junior year she comes back to quinn and is like hello. you are the love of my life. i want to be with you forever. and quinn has been in a strange little polycule with various swedes and americans and he's like ...yeah. no. i miss you too. this is great but it's not right.

and then they're together for the rest of their lives, hanging out and doing whatever. getting married literally like two months after quinn graduates. they spent about five minutes trying to plan a wedding and get bored and annoyed and then handed it off to brady's mom, who has a blast bc she has realized that matty is at least twenty to thirty years off of being functional enough to get married and brady is going to be way less fussy.

important wedding notes because i am an incurable romantic when it comes to parties:

takes place at some random lake in michigan, no one really cares about the ceremony except parents and grandparents, the reception is in a big banquet hall but the afterparty is in a barn, matty and timmy hook up in a random shed, it's magical, everyone has a GREAT time, including matty, up until she hooks up with timmy

elias and brock and thatcher are there, deeply involved in day of wedding prep and making sure everything goes according to plan and they're so helpful and so competent, and no cishet family member realizes they're quinn's ex-polycule for a solid six hours, like until WELL into reception, at which point it's too late for anyone to say anything

the tkachuk sisters are brady's bridesmaids, the hughes bros are quinn's best men. obvi. the hughes bros are the ones crying during brady's deeply stupid vows though

quinn wears a suit and he looks so handsome. brady wears a dress but the hemline is literally mid-thigh and it has no sleeves. she is a bombshell ofc

brady and quinn's first dance is to "suga suga" by baby bash. the closing song in the afterparty (post-reception) is "moment's silence (common tongue)" by hozier which brady picked and quinn didn't look at the lyrics beforehand. and is thankfully too drunk to notice, but luke and taryn do and they're both so stressed out by their older siblings having oral sex that they leave immediately with matty beniers, and josh norris to go sober up in a denny's at like 2am lol.

sorry i know you are anti-marriage, but i love to think about queer weddings bc the only lesbian wedding i've been to was so clean and heterosexual that it makes me actively sad to think about lmao. brady and quinn's wedding is like...bro queer

does matty ever get her shit together -- like. a dozen years in the future after her final trainwreck relationship with leon. it takes a lot of therapy bc while she came out first to brady, she never really felt safe or comfortable as herself around anyone BUT brady. and obvi brady cannot be there every moment of her life. and part of the reason every relationship she's in ends up being kind of a wreck because she hates herself so much but covers it up with so much bravado and big energy and zero honesty or emotional intimacy. like u cannot be inauthentic in a relationship and expect it to work out yk?? but then she meets sasha (i changed my mind, they use any pronouns) who is like ok. i am willing to try this. i am very attracted to you and i could fall in love with you easily. but you NEED to figure your shit out if you want this to work in the long term.

and no one has ever made that kind commitment to matty, so she tries her hardest to reconcile the parts of herself that are ugly and cruel to herself, and turn it into love. and it takes like. over a decade. because she's also a corporate lawyer. but she finally gets there in the end 😭

sasha is quite happy to live in sin for several years lol he grows heirloom vegetables and works on a farm doing most of their farmstand and farmer's market stuff bc they are gentle and kind, but she's also like yeah now that i'm dating someone in corporate law, i do not have to worry that much. so he waits for matty to get right with herself, and she raises some heirloom chickens that matty does his therapy homework with. a fun (???) digression

thank you for asking!!!!! i love them 😭😭😭

#butch transfem brady #to your other point abt when all your children are queer. i think often abt how i came out as queer before my literal gay parents did #and i think that colored a lot of the way i see the world and interact with queerness and queer identity #among other things lol like never being able to trust myself to read people as queer or straight accurately. my gaydar is nonexistent #but like sometimes all your kids are queer! don't worry about it! and the hughes parents and tkachuk parents discussed it together #landed on: how our dumbass beautiful children identify is simply none of our business and we don't understand and that's ok #and now just watch them go through trainwreck relationships or get on prep or get married to their childhood sweetheart and they're like #👍 are ya winning kids? #unfortunate birdcage fanfictions #rpf for ts

[finch-kid]

green day fans try not be weird about billie aging/not aging challenge (impossible)

#the way he ages (or anyone for that matter) is literally none of our business #shut up #green day #billie joe armstrong #the bird man cant shut up

[x-v4mp3y3lin3r-x]

if you're deconstructing your ideas of binary gender and binary sex— you also have to deconstruct your ideas of binary sexuality and romantic attraction, too, fyi

#'are you saying homosexuals don't really exist??!?!!?!' no. please use your brain. #im saying it literally doesn't matter if a lesbian dates someone who YOU perceive as a man. #because the people in that relationship know more than you. #and human experience does not exist in a binary. #you have to accept that sometimes other people will experience life differently than you do #this also goes for gays and bis and pans and aces and aros. #the only people who get to define their experiences are them. #so no I don't really care if a gay man says his true love is a woman and he means it. #i still consider him gay. because he knows himself and his partner better than i know how to perceive them both #and how someone else identifies is none of my business. #that woman may be only part woman. or only perceived as a woman. or only sometimes a woman. or always both woman and man. #there's so many ways to be human. you have to learn to take other queers at face value and not question them #when you question if someone is 'REALLY gay' or 'REALLY trans' or 'REALLY bi'; you're thinking with the mindset of an oppressor #you do not need to gatekeep queerness. queerness is not a limited resource. queer people are not your enemies. #learn to empathize and embrace experiences unlike yours. be a better ally to the people in your own community instead of immediately - #- searching for ways to cast them out. be better. stop thinking like our oppressors. queer people do not need to rationalize ourselves for - #- anyone. they don't owe you an explanation. you cannot take their 'gay card' away.

[butchviking]

u ever follow a fandom blog and they seem to be passing under everyone's radar but you've seen them express feminist ideas a handful of times and maybe they're even anti-porn or anti-prostitution and you've seen them rb from one of *your* mutuals once or twice and youve followed them for a long time and theyve never followed back but theyve never blocked u either and youve just. observed the way they talk and do not talk about certain topics. n ur just sitting there very very quietly thinking oh man. u need to watch yourself soooo bad. cause if i can tell what u are then sooner or later someone else is gonna notice too 😬

#like i literally wanna message being like PLEASE BE CAREFUL but. its none of my business #girl ive seen this happen before... #they will figure u out and then they will say 'oh my god it was right under our noses the whole time how did we not notice'

[shenyaanigans]

i know very little abt the stanley cup discourse so maybe im wrong but all the posts i keep seeing about it seem to just be making fun of people/calling them sad for liking to collect stanley cups and tbh i think you guys are being mean for no reason lol

#kat chats #like none of the discourse posts seem to be about like. idk stanley cup business practices or manufacturing #like the discourse posts abt apple for example that point out how they are destroying congo #like the posts telling ppl not to buy the newest iphone center that #but literally all i've seen is just people being like omg it's SO sad that these white people are staking out a target for a cup release #and like. i guess if you wanted to bring up that it's a starbucks collab an starbucks is a morally bankrupt company-- #--currently facing a grassroots consumer boycott and buying starbucks branded items to show off is advertising for them #like SURE again i think if the discourse was about this and was centering how starbucks is anti-union & targets pro-ceasefire workers #then yeah i'd be on board #but for real every post i see about it is just 'what if we were mean over a vaguely harmless thing bc its a white person thing' #and idk man. there are worse constructions of whiteness than liking these stupid looking stanley cups #it's the same with the live laugh love shit like LISTEN. is it vapid and ugly? yes #but people are allowed to like vapid and ugly things that's not a crime #and as i grow older i find myself liking less and less this bullying works mentality. #like what if we put our energy towards things that mattered. like protecting palestinians and advocating for an end to occupation #u know? #anyways. sorry again if somehow stanley cups are a racist dogwhistle #but insofar as i know their only sin is that they're fucking ugly

[cowboyscrypt]

personally hate the push from people outside of ones system to make their fictives apologize for source actions. like that is None of your business and you should stay out of it bc you dont know them and fictives are not their source.

#no such thing as an 'evil' alter. theyre simply just people existing. and them being forgiven for source actions is between our system only #we just got a weird anon abt it. idk. #personally id never defend this person for any reason bc of his relation to me but you dont know him from the outside. #you dont know if hes different. you dont know if hes atoned. you dont know if he remembers that or not. #you cant judge an alter youve never met. whos never even fronted publically for that matter. you dont know him so be normal. #thats between me and him and our other sourcemates in our sys. #ugh idk. just. as a host it grinds my gears. #regardless of who they are to me or what theyve done in source theyre still a system member and i have a job to stick up for them. #cowboy's crypt #-- cassidy #im gonna go to bed i think i dont need to be arguing with anons about my headmates. #literally none of your business and its a privilege you even know we're a system

[zhalar]

hate that i have to come out. i hate that!!! i hate that if i want to experience a modicum of gender peace for these upcoming two years i have to tell my new teachers that im nonbinary and would like to use [this name] even though none of my official papers have it on them, and probably wont, cuz its not A Name that i can confidently believe will pass the naming convention.. laws... of this country. I HATE THAT I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO PLEAD MY CASE AND EXPLAIN MYSELF. im trying to construct this message that i’ve got no idea will even be read or noted just to have it in my student record somewhere that “hey im SOOOO sorry but if its not a problem to you i would love to feel like a human person even on a name-basis during my studies and im MORE than fine to be otherwise (mis)gendered as long as its not a problem to YOUUUUU also i know that my legal name is literally on show in every school email and profile so whatever i say here matters none cause everyone will only see that clearly gendered name and not give a flying fuck about this “”nickname”” im trying to get going since its not my LEEEGAAALL name but thats also so fine with me if i could Just get the clear to sign my emails and whatsapp messages with my preferred name thankyouuu :)” 

sorry im always complaining here it gets ANNOYING. im mostly trying to get my own brain straight about this matter. uhggh BUT ITS SO AWKWARD TO WRITE THAT MESSAGE. i dont want to explain myself but i also dont! want! to make a scene!!!! im so pissed off at myself for not opening my DAMN MOUTH when the group-wide introductions happened this week. shoulda just bit the bullet and said ive got [this] name in official papers but would prefer to be called särmä. literally could feel the nerve escaping my body when it came to my turn. fucking hell

(EDIT ive calmed down. i didnt send the message fuck this noise, im just gonna hope that i’ll get it out face to face this next week [biting through glass])

#i dont know man. im like 90% sure one of the classmates is a trans dude which. poggers as hell considering where we are #(hes got trans-flag color beads in his shoelaces and i may have seen a binder but genuinely none of my business its just smile to me) #so me coming out nonbinary shouldnt be a big deal . hopefully. but being binary trans and nonbinary are still kinda different things #for some 50yo man to wrap his mind around. clearly. when they keep referring to our group as boys and girls (men and women) exclusively #this would all be so much easier if i'd just changed my name legally and come clean to anyone in my daytoday life. bet id be more confident #introducing myself as särmä to strangers that way #särmäs sermons #its always this flavor with me lol #ALSO YEAH LMAO FUCK. FUUUCK picking my name i didnt foresee that särmä is a Work Word that people in this field Use <3 #did not fucking occur to me that o yeah woodworking = maths = geometry I FEEL SO SILLYYYYYY AND NOT IN THE FUN WAYYYYY #i could just use the regular ol finnish almanac name that ive got for situations like this one but its so clearly Male that im even LESS #confident trying to get near strangers call me that in a work/school environment #i love you trans people who take up space and are upfront and loud about your transness youre literally everything to me. #one day im gonna be like you.

[barbiegirldream]

love her tbh https://twitter.com/emkay_boo/status/1650619231959138304?s=46&t=_d_fehPx5b3pglFSMcHz3A

I am going to find whoever asked Mina if she is dating Dream and hang them by their ankles and bleed them out through their throat

#like what the fuck is wrong with people #it’s literally none of our business #going into that woman’s chat to ask her about a man while she streams #fucking freak better count their days

[taintedcigs]

ofc now toxic swifties are invading taylors privacy and her private life and her family business....

#i have a headache everyday bc of some of u #its literally none of our business but ok #taylor swift #also tbh i didnt read the whole thing bc i honestly dc #its their business