Leave Neil alone plzzzz. If Crowley was girl-shaped then Uriel said "your girlfriend in the dark glasses" with the same tone in the same situation. The point is that the DEMON Crowley is Azi's something-friend. And that Uriel is usually aggressive as well. This particular phrase wasn't about homophobia, its about their anger.
“We wanted somebody imposing who you would actually believe could intimidate Morpheus and she does it just by being incredibly sweet and you’re always certain that she is far and away the most dangerous person on the screen at any point”
Nail Gaiman talking about Gwendoline Christie in the new The Sandman trailer