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the-t-boy-king · 9 months

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Tips from your trans big brother: Packing

Alright homies, it's time for packer talk. A quick trigger warning. Most packers look like penises. If you don't want to hear about that, keep on moving. Please take care of yourself and I hope you will have a nice day/night! Packer talk under the cut.

So what is packing? Packing is when a trans man, (such as myself) or a trans masculine person uses something like padding or a packer to make a bulge in their pants. Some people use it as a way to fight bottom dysphoria, others use it to help pass, and there are many reasons why someone might want to pack.

There are 3 types of packers based on what they are used for. I'll run through them right now and I'll give recommendations and leave links for them. I'll then go over packing gear. Buckle up homies, it's going to be a long post.

Soft Packers

To start with we have soft packers. It's a packer that is made to look like you have a bulge in your pants. It can't be used for anything else. Soft packers are normally made with two types of material: elastomer/thermal gel and silicone.

Elastomer/thermal gel. This type of material is very soft and squishy. It's not very durable. It can tear easily and you can't really sanitize it the normal way ie with boiling water because it will melt.

People who have sensitive skin can break out due to the material so it's not recommended to wear it against the body without a barrier for long periods of time. You can use packing underwear or a packing pouch to keep a barrier between the packer and your skin. You also have to powder it so it's not sticky.

Silicone is more durable, firmer and less stretchy, and will last you a lifetime if you handle it with care. These are a lot easier to clean and sanitize since for the most part you can run them through the dishwasher or boil it in water (unless the company you get it from tells you otherwise that is).

For soft packers I recommend there are two. The 1st one is a Mr.Limpy . It's made of the elastomer material, but it is a great way to test to see if packing is something you want to do. The second one I recommend is the Classic Silicone packer from AXOLOM. I just got it a few days ago and I already love it. It bends down itself so it makes packing so much easier.

STPs packers

Stand to pee, or STPs are just as the name implies. It's a packer that helps people to stand to pee. These can help trans guys who have dysphoria when it comes to sitting to pee. It can also help them feel safer in the men's bathroom. STPs are hollow, a bowl at the end, and a shaft to pee with. Often you can use a STP both for packing and peeing but some are better than others. Packing with these can be a bit harder since they are firmer. It's because they can keep their shape when peeing.

These are made of silicone, and since you are using them to pee with, you need to sanitize them so you don't give yourself a UTI. When using a STP for the 1st time, I recommend starting in the shower 1st naked then slowly moving up to using a toilets/ urinals because trust me, you'll pee on yourself.

STPs are harder to recommend since everyone is built differently when it comes to where your urethra is and how fast you pee. Hell, I haven't fully mastered my own STPs. However, I have a STP Freely from Transguy Supply and I've been getting better at it.

Pack and Play Packers

Pack and play packers are packers that can be used for sex. You can often find 3 in 1 which is packer, STP and play. It mostly comes down to if your packer comes with a rod that can be put inside of your packer to make it stiff enough to penetrate. I haven't used one yet so I can't recommend one but you can use STP Freely as a pack and play as long as you buy the rod that goes in it.

Packing Gear

Packing gear is a thing that are made to make packing easier. There are 3 many types: packing underwear, packing harness and packing pouch. These are thing that will hold your packer in place and prevent it from falling out of your pants.

With packing underwear there's two types. Normal packing underwear that comes with a built in pouch that will hold the packer in your underwear. STP underwear is made with STPs in mind. They come with a O ring that'll hold the shaft in place when peeing and come with a button fly you can open so you can pee.

I personally use the Sport Packing Pouch. It's a pouch you put your packer in and pin to your underwear to keep in place. As for STP underwear I use the Cake Bandit underwear. Keep in mind that packing underwear is expensive. However you can make your own by sewing a pouch into underwear you already have.

So that's about it when it comes to packing. Packers come in all shapes and sizes, so it's up to you how big you want your dummy peen to be. Keep in mind that most cis guys' penises are about 3-4 inch when soft so you don't have to use a 8 inch packer. Bigger is not always better. Packing is a deeply personal thing so do whatever feel right to you. Good luck on your packing journey!

With love, Miles, your trans older brother.

#miles talks #transgender #transmasc #trans men #packing ftm #packers

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tis-i-espresso-magpie · 11 months

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packing’s all fun and games ‘till your cat tries to steal your dick

#Ftm #transmasc moment #genderfluid #lgbtqia #Packing Ftm #I swear the minute I put it down her eyes lit up (evily)

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leckmeinestiefel · 3 months

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I packed with a pair of socks and it made me horny

Okay then

#okay then #i mean at least it didnt make my dysphoria worse #ftm #🤷🏻‍♂️#packing #packing ftm #trans

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nothorses · 21 days

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i think i cracked the code on converting regular underwear into packing underwear:

easily

using only a pair of sacrificial underwear

looks good (inside and out!), AND

keeps ur packer firmly and comfortably in place

if there is interest I can be persuaded to share my secrets

#transmasc #resource #packing #ftm #trans men

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luvrbunni · 7 months

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i have such a thing for praise it makes me INSANE i cannot hear a guy say 'good boy' in any context without getting crazy turned on.. I'll get exactly one compliment and I'll start getting worked up over it because I'm very stupid and very easy..

#yeah no so basically i found out that birth control is like real life heat suppressants #and also im a little bit (a lot) forgetful and i kept forgetting to buy a new pack and now ive become insane again #also yeah hi again!#mlm nsft #nsft mlm #gay nsft #ftm nsft #trans nsft #nsft trans #ftm mlm #t4t nsft #transmasc nsft #ftm ns/fw

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boytransmission · 5 months

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Hello everyone. Butch dyke bulge upon ye

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transgenderpolls · 2 months

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#trans #transgender #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #tucking #packing #polls #submission

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the-t-boy-king · 9 months

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STP Tips from your trans big brother

Hey ya'll. I thought I should share some STP tips I have learned over the last couple of months I learned while trying to use my own STP.

Quick trigger warning: I will be showing actual pictures of the STPs I use and they are prosthetic penises so they will look like a penis. If you're uncomfortable with that, please keep scrolling.

So I use a STP Freely and the XL version of it from Tansguy supply Is pictured here:

This one is the uncut version. The shaft is about 4 inches long from the top, 3 inches from the bottom, inside the cup is 3.5 inches, and outside is 4 inches.

This is the Freely XL cut version. The shaft is 5 inches from the top,4.5 inches from the bottom, inside the cup is 3.5 inches, and the outer cup is 4 inches.

Tips for beginners

I'm going to be upfront and say that I'm still learning myself. I have peed with a few times successfully at home. I have not taken it in public yet nor have I used the STP boxers I got yet. . However, I have learned a lot from my trial and error and I want to pass those onto y'all.

To start with, try to find your urethra. I know it can be hard for some due to dysphoria but if you can, try to find it. Knowing where it is can be a big help. When you do find it, try to place the STP in a position where you will being peeing into the shaft rather then the funnel. The shaft is what your aiming for, the funnel is there to catch any pee that doesn't go down the shaft. If your position is too high, it'll spill over the top and the sides, if too low it'll spill from the back. Try to control how fast you're peeing. If you pee too fast, it'll fill up and spill. On some of them, you can cut the hole in which the peeing goes through bigger. The Freely XL has a bigger pee hole so if you pee fast, the XL might help.

I highly recommend starting in the shower naked because you'll pee on yourself and it's a pain to have to keep changing your pants and underwear. Make sure the water is off so you can feel where you're spilling from. Plus it's easier to clean up the mess since you just have to turn on the water. Once you feel confident in peeing the shower, you can move to the toilet naked. You should have a towel down in case you pee on yourself and the floor. Once you got it naked. Try it with boxers. Try to have ones that open in the front so you can poke the shaft through. Again, once you got it with boxers, try wearing both boxers and pants.

Once you're ready to go in public, try to wear dark pants in case you make a mess. Dark pants are the best at hiding wet spots. Also drink lots of water because it will dilute your pee and make it smell less like pee. In public you can start in a stall and work your way up to a urinal.

Packing with STP

STPs can be harder to pack with since they are stiffer than soft packers so they can hold their shape when you need to pee. There's a few ways to pack. I'll add a picture of the different packing ways but I'll also explain them. These apply to both soft packers and STPs.

Packing down is where you take the shaft of the STP and put it down over the balls. This way makes the biggest bulge so unless you're trying to make it really noticeable, i don't recommend this one.

Packing up is where you take the shaft and put it straight up. This way makes the bulge more manageable, but it can be a bit uncomfortable depending on what pants you're wearing.

Packing left/right is taking the shaft and putting it along your hip. I have never done this style, so I can't say if it's good or not.

You can use normal underwear with STPs, but they have to be tight to keep the packing position. I recommend get STP underwear because they have an o-right to keep the STP in place.

Cleaning

You want to keep STPs clean since you can get a UTI from it, and it can start to smell bad fast. If you're able, give it a quick rinse in the sink. If not, use toilet paper to get the outside and possibly the inside of it dry. You can put it on the top rack of your dishwasher or boil it to sanitize it. You can also use hot water and mild soap to clean it.

That's all the tips I know and learned from others. Good luck and happy pissing!

With love, Miles, your trans big brother.

#miles talks #transgender #nonbinary #transmasc #trans men #packing ftm #stp ftm #ftm stp

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moonfableflor · 1 year

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I love you binders I love you breast prosthetics I love you packers I love you tucking I love you stps I love you top surgery I love you bottom surgery I love you hormone therapy I love you growing hair out I love you cutting hair short I love you shaving I love you experimenting with gender and presentation I love you transness I love you trans people I love you I love you I love you

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nothorses · 19 days

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where do you buy your packers?

I've only bought the one mr. limpy from transguysupply. I really like it, though; the size and shape is perfect, and it has a nice weight to it. I just recommend skipping the powder they sell, because it is quite literally just corn starch. like that's the only ingredient. It's super overpriced for no fucking reason.

I started playing around with DIY packing underwear ideas because I originally got a super basic harness with that packer, and it's always been such an annoying hassle (and it never stays in place!!) that I barely ever actually packed, which means constant low-level dysphoria. Packing underwear is expensive as hell, and I'm really picky about underwear- so far I've only really liked meundies, and they are ALSO super expensive- so I decided to recycle some old pairs I don't use anymore to make something I'm actually likely to pack with on a consistent basis.

I've been packing pretty much every day since I started doing that, so maybe I'll buy more packers at some point!

#resources #packing #ftm #transmasc

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eastmagda · 8 months

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DIY Packing boxers

If you’re like me, there’s no way you’re buying a fancy packer strap. So here’s a super simple tutorial on how I sewed some of my boxers to fit my packer!

Pls excuse my shitty illustrations I drew them with a sharpie and I’m sleepy rn.

Step 1. Get a pair of boxers with an open fly. The open fly is important because it gives you two layers of fabric to sew a pocket.

Step 2. Sew a little pocket for your packer to sit in. Make sure you position/plan it correctly before sewing so your packer sits in a natural place in your pants.

Step 3. (Inside view yolo) Cut a little hole on the top through the first layer of cloth on the inside only. This is so you can slip your packer inside the little pocket you have just sewn.

That’s it! Im no professional seamstress but I’m a punk, and DIY till I die. Packing is for everyone!!

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cripple-punk-dad · 2 years

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Hey!

Some trans men/trans mascs can do, and will:

-Treat their packers like prosthetics

-treat their packers as an extension of their own body

-Buy packers in crazy colors because who doesn't want a blue dick I MEAN C'MON

-See their packers as a sometimes thing for special occasions

-wear them every day

-Buy a packer that is as realistic as possible

-buy a massive packer because why the hell not

Basically what I'm getting at with this is:

Packing is such an under-acknowledged part of trans masc culture and I think that's really sad because it's actually really heartwarming to see all the tutorials and stories and tips and tricks and different attitudes surrounding packing. I dunno I'm just spitballing but I love it and I think it deserves more attention

#trans men #trans masc #ftm #packers #packing #ftm packing #trans packing #transmasc positivity #trans men positivity

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batbitestoys · 5 months

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