#pick a support act who's supportive

[wiiildflowerrr]

#pick a support act who's supportive #meet me at the altar #5sos #5 seconds of summer #mrs all american #lover of mine #she's kinda hot #2023 #19 august #mmata

[aunmenosheteroenespanol]

2.12 Chimney Begins - 2.09 Hen Begins - 2.16 Bobby Begins Again - 7.04 Buck, Bothered and Bewildered

Tommy's family arc

#911 #911edit #911 abc #911 show #911 spoilers #911 season 7 #tommy kinard #evan buckley #evan 'buck' buckley #kinley #bucktommy #kinkley #tevan #pick a ship name you guys and thanks for picking tevan the most correct name #anyway analysis time! #looking back with Modern Knowledge tm about why tommy acts the way he does in the past... babygirl you were so closeted I'm so proud #babygirl was back there getting into narnia #he was so resistant to letting go of the pseudo-family he'd found at the 118 in chimney begins #even tho it was a good old boys club that he knew he really didn't fit into he was making himself fit because at least it was something #but then he let chimney in and then hen came around and he saw a very queer person being openly queer and not giving a fuck what they think #and I think his behavior in that episode was trying to support hen as much as he could without outing himself #because like. how do you give up years of relative safety with people who do care about you they just won't like you anymore if you're *you #then he meets buck in s7 which is like 10-20 years later timeline is fake and he's like oh. this is what unconditional family is #and he's like oh. maybe I can come back. maybe I can be part of this again somehow. maybe we've both grown enough #or at the very least he'll be close to something he never believed would really happen for him #rant over tevan my beloved tim minear pillow cold both sides god bless #my edits

[spearxwind]

You guys really need to be kinder to bugs and some of you guys with children really need to teach them empathy for the bugs as well

#sure theyre scary but a lot of them are legitimately so harmless to you #and just waving them off works #or picking them up with a paper and a cup and putting them elsewhere #idk man. im really tired of people being needlessly cruel to them #or acting quirky by saying 'well im gonna kill them anyway i hate them 🤪' congratulations on being insufferable #thunderclap #you really cannot be someone who talks about being gentle and kind and supportive and all that shit if your kindness does not extend #to other creatures. bugs included.

[theamazingannie]

Love the way people will simultaneously hate on celebrities for voicing opinions about politics because they aren’t educated enough on the topic and also condemn celebrities who don’t speak out about politics when they are clearly not the kind of person who is properly educated on the topic

#like pick a side #maybe the reason global superstar Taylor swift hasn’t spoken out about Palestine is because she is white American global superstar #and not a fucking expert on international politics #this expectation that every single person with the slightest but of a platform #should speak out on every single issue #is so unbelievably harmful #not just to the person who gets hate for no reason and also is expected to emotionally exaust themselves for your personal morality points #but because of all of the celebrities that DO speak out and clearly aren’t educated enough on the issue and spread gross propaganda #to their massive followings #like I’d rather a celebrity stay silent on politics than ruin my perception of them #because they decided to have a public opinion about something that is awful #i don’t need stranger things ruined for me because Noah Schnapp called all Palestinian supporters terrorists #i dont ask the political leanings of the clerk at the grocery store #so why do we expect this of our actors and singers #(and i only brought up Taylor cuz I just saw someone condemning her and it’s so annoying #this happens with every single political event #not everyone can be properly informed on every single issue and it’s wrong to expect them tl #i just want them to sing their silly little songs and act their silly little movies) #if they’re like an outright shitty person I want to know that #but if they’re just dumb and fall to propaganda on an issue that doesn’t affect them then just silently think wrong #and hopefully it’ll give them the chance to silently learn a better way #once they publicly post it they’re more likely to double down when called out #idk just more 2am rants ignore me as you do

[yourqueenb]

Ok I know we’re focusing on Mal rn, and I’m happy about that. But this right here would’ve been a great moment to give MC a chance to speak on how holding the team together affects her since he just commented on how hard it is. Like now you have a bit of an idea of how she feels, but you still don’t know the half of it because she had to come back, pick up the pieces, and rally everyone together again AFTER being kidnapped and held captive.

And I get that MC being gone was hard for Mal, especially since he’s my LI. But he still ultimately got to move on and pursue something he’s always wanted to do. Meanwhile MC went from saving her brother to saving the world to saving herself to being thrust right back into saving the world and her friends again!

#choices bolas #choices blades #blades of light and shadow #mal volari #playchoices #like yeah y’all support her in battle and by doing these quests with her #but where’s her emotional support #she picks everybody else up and holds the team together but who does that for her #I NEED this to be addressed #and maybe I’m being a selfish bitch by bringing all of this up when Mal has clearly been having his own issues #but I’m still salty and a little mad at him if I’m gonna be honest #he’s worried about everyone else but the damn love of his life 😤 #and I know that’s because he couldn’t stop what happened or save us #but once again maybe act a little more concerned about the actual person you couldn’t save then? #is it just me who feels this way?? #choices #choices stories you play #choices app #pixelberry studios #pixelberry

[airenyah]

oh btw i went home to my hometown yesterday and i finally showed my mom the heart killers pilot. her verdict?

"we're watching this"

#my mom is a huge first kanaphan fan and also a joongdunk supporter so i'm not surprised lmao #btw i didn't tell her anything about it #the only thing that i mentioned before i hit play was that there'd been rumors about a firstkhao mafia series/romcom #i even made sure she wouldn't see the thumbnail with JD on the poster #the way she went ''OH?? interesting!!'' when she finally saw joong in the shot where he picks up the knife that first pushed off the table #and then later ''oh this is going to be INTERESTING'' when dunk showed too lmao #it was very entertaining #the heart killers #frau mutter #airenyah plappert #mama schaut adrm #mama schaut thk #adrm #she also wants to watch leap day lmao #i mentioned that gun (who she also adores as an actor) was gonna play an autistic character #and she was like ''oh YES that sounds like a role for him'' #so i showed her the trailer (that was before we watched the heart killers trailer) and she wants to watch that one too for gun hahaha #(same tho tbh. i have this one on my watch list to revel in gun's acting lmao) #i didn't tell her about any of the other shows (yet) #there's some that i think i could watch with her but i wanna wait until the shows air before deciding whether i think she'll like it or not

[codesquire]

Joe Biden is a "better human"?

Aiding in Genocide ain't being a "better human," brah.

#dont carry any illusions #all your human righrs bullshit rings hollow if you support him #its a matter of pick your poison on who makes orders to kill whom #and again... all of these acts of aggression are without a formal declaration of war from Congress #cowboy joe is a war criminal #israel #palestine #israel/palestine

[dilfpassing]

today ive just been fixating on how emotionally neglectful (and in other ways too) my parents were while i was growing up and how its affected my development and how i relate to people now and its not doing great things for my brain

#i wish i like #looked up to my parents in some way #or had that feeling other people seem to have where they see their parents as providers and nurturers #i just had to pick up their slack growing up and fend for myself and they never really tried to offer me or my sister emotional support #i get jealous of people whose parents act like parents #and people who admire their parents #my parents are just people to me #and it makes me sad

[bluehairperson]

I don’t want to start drama but I’ve seen some concerning posts floating around about how distasteful and disappointing it is to see certain creators “support” Dorian and I hate to break it to you guys, but if you’ve ever interacted, shared or created anything regarding The Arcana you are supporting Dorian yourselves.

Being in the fandom alone is supporting Dorian by creating engagement, publicizing the game and being part of the audience they’re trying to target.

And even if you were to delete your whole blog and everything you’ve ever posted to enjoy the original game in private you would still be supporting Dorian by bringing traffic to the app they now own.

The one and only way you have to stop supporting Dorian, if you care about it so much, would be to distance yourself from the series entirely and go join another fandom. Never play the original game ever again and never interact with any fan creation regarding it from now on. 👋

#you're basically saying you dislike people supporting the company by working with it #while you yourself are supporting the company but indirectly by giving visibility to their brand #let's be coherent please #I personally don't care about dorian just like I never cared about nix hydra #but I still like the game so I'm gonna cherry pick whatever I want #and full offence but between this and continuous character and ship discourse you guys are unsufferable lol #you're murdering the fandom from the inside by being toxic af and finding the most bullshit excuses to attack artists for shit #that doesn't matter and then you turn around and whine and wonder why the fandom is dying and no one is posting anything new anymore #like MMMMMMMMMNHHHHHHH 🤔🤔🤔 #it's a mystery I wonder why #mentioning this because I also saw some discourse about dorian being awful for supporting quote unquote tOxIc and aBuSiVe ships 😨😨😨😨 #with the most basic and vanilla couple I've ever seen here #like nix hydra was never great either but I've never ever seen posts claiming that if you support them you must be an awful person #what changed exactly? #it sounds to me that you guys are just really bitter that the new quote unquote canon content is... not super good so you're trying to #vent your frustration in any way you can #which means attacking independent artists who use the platform because it's easier to reach and demolish them rather than the company itself #I log on here to recharge after a day of work and all I see is people acting like twelve year olds trying to be mean like bruh #it's literally the hom3stuck 2 fandom situation I called it #tagging this as discourse so you can blacklist it if you don't wanna be annoyed #discourse #the arcana #dorian era #not art

[shiroselia]

Friendly reminder because I’ve seen it happen before and we all should not be eager to sweep this shit under the rug just because it MIGHT (Keyword Might) end alright

If Helena (and any of the other people affected by what is almost certainly budget cuts, which is why I doubt this might actually end as well as we want it to) gets rehired, that does Not erase the fact that we have yet to hear anything official from SSE other than the fucking instagram comment that doesn’t count, because it Shouldn’t, about this situation, and that they have completely skrewed over people with the way they’ve been assumedly handled it from what we as outsiders can puzzle together, and that even if this might end up being overturned because SSE got direct confirmation that people want to spend their money on them (keyphrase Spend Money) it does not erase their actions and it doesn’t erase the shitty business principals we’re currently seeing

All of the people affected deserve better than this absolute flipflop bullshit, and we as consumers deserve an official proper announcement

#Capitalism is complex and the people working on its principles and the companies are Very complex #I'm not saying SSE are wholly good or bad #Just that we should stop pretending like we have to pick a definite side #They aren't Either Good or Bad #They're a company and they will act accordingly #And either way as consumers it's more healthy to stop pretending like you Have To and Should pick a side #Accepting the fact that this is the society we live in and that you can Never support anyone who is morally whole especially if they're #A Company #Is one of the healthiest mindsets you can develop #You should absolutely be critical of who you choose to give your money to don't get me wrong #I'm just saying that if you lose sleep over you Needing to justify your spending on a particular company #You might wanna think some reflective thoughts about that

[sluttylittlewaste]

Y'all know that the people who are going to love you the most in the world are still going to be annoyed with you at times right? That impatience and frustration are human emotions that everyone invokes in others at some point or another? That being loved as a neurodivergent person doesn't mean finding people who are never bothered by your needs or behaviors, but rather finding people whose love for you outweighs those incompatibilities? Y'all realize that sometimes you might just...talk too much on a day that your partner would prefer silence? Or make a mess on a day your roommate just cannot handle having to clean up for you? Or that in the months you spent in hermit mode you were actually unavailable to a friend who really needed your support?

Y'all understand that at times your friends/family/partner are going to have needs that misalign with yours and that BOTH OF YOU are going to have to figure out the best way to handle that?

#This is specifically about that one Instagram post #Where the guy is like “My friend and I have a flight in 40 minutes and he was supposed to pick me up an hour ago and I'm very annoyed” #and all of the comments were people saying that maybe the friend has time blindness #and this is why NTs are bad friends #and that op is being ableist for getting upset #this is also about all those posts where people say “I know shut everyone out for weeks and was totally mia” #“But being upset at me is MEAN and UNFAIR :(” #Or all of those very concerning posts about waiting for friends/partners who are always super understanding and never complain #Like guys #That's not how have having loved ones works #Are you going to run from anyone who EVER gets annoyed with you? #Anyone who isn't constantly acting as a perfect pillar of support and validation? #thoughts #let me die #if i die #queer #neurodiversity #actually mentally ill #actually ocd #oc drawing #relationships #platonic relationships #romantic relationships #emotions

[maybeamiles]

Minecraft Twitter stop canceling creators for (checks notes) talking to someone challenge (impossible).

#yalls act like my abusive best friend sometimes #the way anything can be a crime worthy of the highest order of punishment (telling everyone what a shitty person you are) #not even the dead are allowed to rest #if mcyttwitter picked who went to hell #it would be full of poor souls that liked a tweet by someone who mase the “Im neurodivergent and a minor” joke 3 years ago #whose position there is supported by evidence weaker than the spaghetti marshmallow towers i built in middle school #mcyttwt #twitter drama #cancel culture #vent post

[professorsta]

Lost my friend of 7 years literally right now, got a text ten min ago basically saying, and I quote, “I should have told you this but I don’t believe in transgenderism and can’t stand by as you mutilate your body. I hope you live a life where you don’t manipulate the body your creator gave you blah blah blah” overall this not getting trust issues thing is noooot working out well for me at the moment

#legit wtf #wtf do you do with someone who wasn’t transphobic six years ago #didn’t believe in god until forced to go to a Christian school #and literally has had girlfriends #but all of a sudden does this? a full 180?? #last time I saw you after I made a five hour car trip just to see you #you said you were a free spirit and loved mushrooms and sex and hated going to church #who literally did shrooms with me the last time I saw you #and yet this fucking happens in less than 9 months? WHAT THE FUCK?? #did they brainwash her? was she always a bigot but hid it? #was she not a bigot just slightly ignorant but that was enough for the transphobic brainwashing to begin? #7 years I was there for her #7 years I would pick up her call anytime and sit there for her for HOURS #7 years of going to your plays to support your acting cus no one else did in your friend group #I bought you a whole ass Halloween costume cus you were upset you didn’t have one !!!!!! #when I hung out with you you literally tried to break in and disrupt and teacher admission meeting with every important #person in your school #for some fucking cookies and I had to stop you #oh but now you’re a good Christian girl oh fuck off #I met you when I was 13. like fuck man that meant nothing #did they really brainwash you I feel like I lost a friend

[fiddlepickdouglas]

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#warning this is just dark depressing shit i have on my mind and i need to just scream it somewhere #i genuinely need help. i need someone professional to help unravel the shit that's running through my brain right now #it is not good that i keep imagining harming myself just to get into a fucking hospital to get things addressed #it isn't serious yet but it's getting more frequent and im really scared of what i will pick when it gets worse #im barely functioning as a human and i don't currently have the resources to help me develop better habits #i don't have a support system irl. when you drop the religion your family raised you in- #-and your friends all live 1000s of miles away it's real fucking lonely #the list of things to address with a doctor is so fucking long and i cannot afford that visit #i only work one part time job and im too stressed to do more than that how the fuck will i ever afford anything #things are so fucked rn im constantly in pain and i keep not eating enough and then my food goes bad and it's such a waste #trying to plan anything scares the shit out of me. genuinely don't know why i make plans anymore #i can't even create or keep promises about the things i said i would create and it feels so purposeless #it's like the only kind of happiness i can get is all just diving into fandom and acting like im so funny #like yeah im hilarious huh for enjoying this shit and being so loud on the on site i ever use #and then i fucking hide from the real world because i can't take an ounce of negativity or i will have a nervous breakdown #i want to be known and loved but god at what cost i do not have the sanity to open up like that #i want to be held and have someone check on ME for once. have someone be kind to me for once. #instead of swallowing everything because im so afraid of being hated instead #i shouldn't even be afraid of being hated but damn if my trauma didn't rear its ugly head #and remind me that the people who should have cared the most didn't give enough of a shit to try #and make me wanna die about it #i need to get out of this fucking room but god it's so hard to make my body move #when it's so easy to just lie here watch reruns of whatever proves im not worth a damn #my room is a mess and i was gonna do laundry and i was going to run errands today #but no apparently any time i have off work is dedicated to either distracting myself with blorbos #or wallowing in my miserable shit #and you bet it feels fucking pathetic. like i should know better. i should be better. im not. #im no good honestly. i can't even let myself scream or cry loud enough so that the roommate i don't talk to will be concerned. #why bug him when we've established being chill and knowing nothing whatsoever about each other #i can't be someone else's burden again. being a burden is what fucking kills me.

[unproduciblesmackdown]

speaking of “what else is new” the eternal genre of Takes available online or off through any platform that go like “this hangup / issue people can have can impede the success of like, connection & relationships & other aspects of someone’s life” like oh groundbreaking insight, go on. & then the conclusion is just “And That’s Bad” generally through like, criticizing any hypothetical individuals in a “have you considered that that’s bad? have you considered stopping? why haven’t you? sounds like a lack of Individual Responsibility...and maybe...You Suck??” vein like oh, again, groundbreaking. and it’s fast easy & free [sense of righteousness] i guess b/c it’s like oh i’m just helping, are you saying it’s Good / Better to have to struggle with / be impeded by xyz issues hmm? and like “here i am up on the cross >:)” satisfaction if anyone’s disagreeing lol like not only am i correct but ppl Hate it so it’s gotta be cutting edge, rather than it’s like, this is the most basic, well-trodden ground possible here. people hear about the notion of Ableism, resent the idea this might be a complicated thing to engage with requiring effort (but will also complain that idk it’s not serious b/c oh alllll people want to do is unreasonably issue a list of frowned upon language. like yes that’s all that exists and it must be frivolous vs being if nothing else an exercise in asking someone to shift their perspective / framework around taken for granted ideas) and then be like “well enough is enough (hasn’t done anything) i think this has gone too far & have we considered that it sucks to be depressed?? what about the people Dealing with other people dealing with issues who are doing everything right by being Not Mentally Ill but burdened or punished by the mental illness of others. not Their responsibility” like yes if we keep this in the realm of Individual Responsibility Apolitical Vibing then we can just call it a day. what does anyone expect the “absolutely demolishing these hypothetical Complacent mentally ill people, one issue at a time until everyone learns they should strive to be normal” to accomplish here. like oh enough, nay, Too Much consideration of Supporting anyone out here. i think it’s time we turned to voicing Disapproval & even moral judgment condemnation of these hypothetical individuals. can’t argue with that unless, what, you Want people to have problems? you think it’s good and right to potentially harm other people / make interpersonal relationships more difficult??? sounds like someone has some growing up to do 9_9 lmfao like again. just visionary & groundbreaking insights which is why this approach has kept being continuously reinvented here & everywhere else this whole time. like how would this relevantly / helpfully apply to the Reality of anyone’s situation on any side of anything. vs like well at least some people will be mad about This one, good posting

#ppl going ''hmm what a hugely complex topic tied to all other aspects of our lives...which'd be Resolved if everyone had My Common Sense'' #take it back on this site by a decade like ppl going ''trans people on tumblr are so unreasonable'' & ''tumblr's so Anti Recovery'' #the catchphrase of like. idfk ''recovering'' to a state of being nt i guess. b/c that's The Way & how it works for absolutely everyone #like of course there's gonna be idk Takes abt how to hypothetically Support ppl's struggles that'd be deemed Mental Health Issues which are #in turn at least Potentially counterproductive / unfounded/misguided but like. well throw the whole matter out then right #forget everyone in turn having to struggle through ongoing efforts to support Other People in this realm & plenty of others; theoretically #just say it Sucks of people to make other people deal with / be negatively affected by their Issues & who could disagree? toxicity gang?? #or even just the vague implication that if it's Extra Effort put on Normal People who are acting correctly then that's bad too #cue any ideas that like. if friends are too much effort in [pick any way you could interpret that] it's Bad #or really if they're Any effort it can be seen as bad. you Are a romcom protagonist & friends Are unconditional nonstop backup #i think if going ''have you considered that you suck'' at people hard enough would bestow w/e concept of perf Mental Health uponst them #then we'd've been all set by now...and does everyone really think that the like. call it mainstream ideas abt Good Relationships and/or #Good Communication are universal & objective & immutable & everyone agrees on those standards already right now #and like. A Post doesn't have to be something someone thinks applies to everyone / isn't abt their personal experiences but #the way plenty of shit is phrased in posts Pwning the concept of someone being Too Anxious or sm shit you Know it's meant to be general lol #and even then of course it doesn't have to be like ''any random post must be dedicated to real; specific support or it's worthless'' #but people clearly also like. are like yep this is on principle; ideally this will Affect people & they'll Get Right #(i mean probably it's more just about their own satisfaction in feeling totally justified while Also getting inevitable negative reaction) #but also like you know what. someone's Issues may not be contained within the realm of what either You *or* They can control #that like all issues of what provides ppl material support / meets their material needs are matters of Mental Health Support or what have u #like pointing out that shit like healthcare & housing & accessibility are matters of suicide prevention... #like yeah of course individual responsibility is relevant in everything but there's broader concepts of Responsibility beyond that #only addressing the individual responsibility in any matter is the flattest easiest shit you can do. why else is it so popular lol #and going ''but have we tried ascribing personal failures / inferiority into ppl struggling w/issues????'' yes. we have & continue to do so #like 95% of my life including now i am beset every day w/someone who absolute Won't take personal responsibility ever & yea it sucks #but i'm not like. making that ''wow this sucks a ton'' experience my like Worldview lmfao this isn't now my Personal Policy abt shit #going ''have we considered that anything but deliberately punishing Mental Illness just Enables/Encourages their destructive vibes??'' yes. #''well if everyone just accepted their Personal Responsibility in all ways this & any other matter would be completely resolved forever??'' #then by that framework if anyone goes ''well that's not quite it'' you can go ''sounds like someone isn't accepting their Responsibility'' #checkmate Individuals...

[yutadori]

i know that confrontation can be super scary, given that it's something i avoided for a majority of my life, but sometimes it's necessary.... sometimes feeling that anxiety is worth it, especially when it comes to things like standing up for your friends and showing them they have support when they're confronting someone who has hurt them

like.... an ex-friend fucked over two of my friends recently and he never acknowledged it or apologized to either of them. now, almost two months later, he sent a message to our gc asking if we wanted to hang out because he was going to be in the area from tomorrow to friday... which is super short notice, especially since all of us either work / go to school.... it was also insane because he COMPLETELY ignored what happened ???

so in response my friend (who was affected) wrote a set of paragraphs expressing that she was upset and how he wronged her and our other friend, and ended it by saying that if he wants to hang out he needs to let us know in advance instead of informing us last min like he always does -__- my other friend (who was affected) sent a msg right after, and i sent a message of agreement. this leaves one friend within the group, and she didn't say Anything...... the four of us (excluding the ex-friend) were talking in a gc about it, and when i sent my response, my friend (who hadn't said anything yet) was like 'aw man now /i/ have to say something' LIKE GIRL WHAT???

it annoyed me soooo bad because she made it seem like a chore... what i even sent wasn't even that long, it was literally just one sentence lol and that's because it didn't feel like it was my place to say something long since i wasn't directly affected, but i Still wanted to show support for my friends. so i asked her why she didn't want to say anything, and i wasn't confrontational in the way that i asked, and her response was simply 'eh cause i dont want to LOL' like -____- dont piss me offffff wtf

idk it's just so baffling to me how she can be so nonchalant... she agrees that what he did to our friends was fucked and she was even pissed about it herself, but when it came to ACTUALLY saying something to him directly, she didn't want to say anything.... and she even followed up her message to us by saying that if he wants to hang out, he has to reach out to her directly... what... wtf.... what the hell are you saying..........

#IT PISSED ME OFF SO BAD #me and my friend (the one who spoke up first) were so pissed oh my god #and this isnt the first time shes done something like this where she decided not to speak up because something didn't happen to her #but it happened to our friend #and it's like girl . #no offense but we werent even THAT close to that guy so its not like a situation where she really feels like she has to pick one over the o #other #so for her to not offer even just a bit of support is CRAZY #idk how you can still remain friends with someone who fucked over your friends.... #or even like . not want to step up for them #like . wtf #she ended up not saying anything and im just so gfdhsgkjdfsdfsghdfs #her answer felt so petulant omg..... #ss #it's also extra infuriating because she's always talked big and acts tough and says that shes basically a ride or die #BUT THEN ITS LIKE WAIT YOU CAN EVEN SEND ONE LITTLE TEXT ???????? TO SUPPORT YOUR FRIENDS???? #biting gnawing chewing my hand