#planning a wedding. so.

[unopenablebox]

doing evil behaviors (looking up different methods of engagement ring sourcing to try to identify the most ethical one)

#as far as i can tell it's 'a vintage ring' followed closely by 'a vintage ring you have melted down into a different ring' #but that means i have to find a vintage ring and vintage [anything] hunting rapidly becomes a task of fractal complexity #that exhausts me until i give up #lab gems ... seem ... fine but i'm not sure how the labor conditions are for workers in them and not making a lot of research progress #'ethically sourced' gold seems nice but is hard to verify effectively and 'ethically sourced' silver might... not exist? unclear #now of course my girlfriend is a biosafety level 3 infectious diseases researcher who handwashes and adds and removes #gloves hundreds of times a day #and so this is going to be a not-actually-very-frequently-worn item #which only makes me feel more evil about it all. #we're‚ like‚ engaged in the sense that we have agreed we want to get married and my whole family knows we're planning on it #we're not engaged in the sense that their family doesn't know we're planning on it and we're not making it public or actually #planning a wedding. so. #acquiring a ring is like the least relevant part of this whole exercise and as mentioned will almost never even be used. so im fixating

[ew-selfish-art]

Dp x Dc AU: Jason and Jazz have been dating for a while and... Danny presumes that because he knows about Jason being Red Hood that Jason knows about Phantom. 

Danny got a text randomly in the afternoon from Jazz’s boyfriend. Which was inherently a strange experience considering Jason was typically dead asleep in the afternoon from all his ‘evening shifts’ and Jazz was in class. Stranger, the message just asked if Danny would be free to meet up today for a short chat. Jason doesn’t reply to Danny’s response of “Anything for my sister’s BOO <3.” 

Normally, Jason would start launching into a rant about Danny’s coffee choice being too like his little brother’s when they met at cafes- right now Jason looks deadly serious. 

“Look. I’ll cut to the chase of it all. I want to ask Jazz to marry me and well, your folks are shitty but it feels weird to not ask for permission.” 

“...Okay?” 

“So do I have permission?” Jason asks, a bit of a glare and Danny can see the RedHood’s famous attitude peeking out with the abundance of anxiety Jason must be feeling. 

“I mean, Yeah! She loves you and I know she’s been subliminally messaging you to find your balls and ask her already.” Danny rolls his eyes and laughs. His brother-in-law to be sure was a strange guy, but he liked him all the more because of it. 

Jason sighs in relief and his normal literature nerd, easy going and plucky ‘cool guy’ attitude comes back. They start chatting about the ring he bought for her, how they’re probably going to have to do a small wedding with his family members to appease his grandpa figure. Its all very cute and optimistic. 

“Love it! She mentioned your grandpa’s rose garden before and that’ll be perfect for human family events before the big ceremony.” 

“Big Ceremony?” Jason sounds unsure of where the conversation is going. 

“Yeah, you know. Plus now that I’m thinking about it, it’s probably for the best that you asked me, the observants would totally turn this into like, an interdimensional faux pa or something if I don’t give them a heads up.” Danny laughs at the idea of it causing an incident, but he can see Jason straighten his shoulders and his eyes attempt to pierce through him. 

“Danny. What the fuck are you talking about?” Jason looks more pissed than he looks concerned, and Danny is just confused. 

“Cause... You Know.” 

“If you don’t give me a real answer I’m going to-” At least Jason was taking deep breaths. 

“Hey man, chill out! I guess Jazz keeps it on the DL but my night shift has-” 

“Night shift? You’re an engineer.” Jason cuts him off and the fact sounds accusatory. 

“And I’m the Ghost King? You knew this?” Danny relents, he hated saying it out loud cause it sounded lame, but he’s not sure why Jason is so up in arms all of a sudden. Jason looked like he might have an aneurysm and Danny knows his expression is declaring Jason is the biggest Dumbass in the world. 

“Danny ...what the fuck are you trying to say to me right now?” 

“That you and Jazz have to have a royal wedding in the Infinite Realms or my counsel and advisors will throw an absolute fit.” 

Jason doesn’t reply so Danny decides to add “You know, ‘cause my title translates to the Family’s royal lineage and if you marry Jazz you’ll become a Prince. I guess you don’t technically have to have a big wedding but if you don’t it’ll just mean shit loads of paperwork and a huge fucking headache on my end. Which I can survive but... I’m sensing that you’re frustrated. Let’s call Jazz.” 

“Let’s do that.” Jason sounds like he’s being strangled. Danny thinks it’s a bit dramatic but is excited to help Jazz wedding plan. 

#dpxdc #dcxdp #dc x dp #dp x dc #dc crossover #danny phantom #dp crossover #Ghost King Danny #Royal family weddings #Jason was never told about danny being Phantom or being the ghost king #Red hood and Phantom have worked together in the past so Danny assumed his identity was out the window #without confirming if Jason actually knew #Danny assumes that his sister would have talked about it #Jazz can't talk about the observants without feeling murderous rage so she just doesnt lmao #Jazz swears that Jason knew about Danny being Phantom #This doesn't delay wedding planning #anger management #jasonxjazz #jazz x jason #long post

[nightswatchdisbandmentera]

You know what, props to Jon Snow for being the greatest wedding planner of all time. My boy managed to arrange a wedding that broke like every social norm in the north, between groups that have warred for MILLENIA!! and officiated by a foreign religion! Crazy that no one died like there wasn’t wasn’t even a lil scuffle. Some people can’t even get through a wedding without murdering their guest which btw indicates a lack of skill on the planner’s side I'm afraid. After the events of the past year, his services are desperately needed because how were people getting anything done before him??

#jon snow #asoiaf #valyrianscrolls #I know a lucrative career for ol boy if the whole nights watch thing doesn’t work out actually #yalls wanting your faves to make it to the end and have happy weddings #better pray jon makes it out alive so he can plan them 🤨

[25shadesoffebruary]

They finally beat us.

#wedding plan #wedding plan the series #love in the air #love in the air the series #phayurain #payurain #bossnoeul #nouel nuttarat #boss chaikamon #thai bl #bl series #asian lgbtq dramas #asianlgbtqdramas #25shadesedit #ive missed them so much

[itsallaboutbl]

LomNuea wedding ceremony ❤❤ (for @negrowhat 💕)

+ bonus

#wedding plan #wedding plan the series #weddingplanedit #wedding plan special episode #lom x nuea #lomnuea #sailom x namnuea #sunny wannarat #pak naphat #sunnypak #lextag #userpharawee #rintrack #userrlaura #anialook #usertaeminie #tosnimeat #bldramaedit #mygifs* #gif requests #HELLO I AM SO SORRY IT TOOK SO LONG TO MAKE THIS!!!! #BUT!!!! IT'S FINALLY HERE!! i hope you like this! and i hope it's what you wanted 😬🙈🥰 #THANKS FOR REQUESTING!! #btw you're the best and ily 💕

[upsidedog]

i am so charmed by a lumax wedding because it’s not even something max thought would happen. like she assumed weddings were something the girl makes happen and the guy puts up with. and because she had no desire for one, so there’s no reason it would happen.

among other things weddings are an exorbitant and performative show of love, max loves lucas and she doesn’t care whether or not other people know or believe this. at it’s best marriage to her has been a representation of failed dreams and at it’s worst it’s been a tool to manipulate people who need to get away to stay. maybe they will get married for the tax benefits, she thinks.

this is until max and lucas are older and living together, they’re chilling on the couch and lucas mentions his family has been asking when he’s planning to propose and if that’s something max even wants? max doesn’t care, she doesn’t plan on going anywhere, a certificate won’t change anything and she's not crazy about parties. she doesn’t ask how he feels, he brings it up, that “actually i want a wedding.”

that is saying the least, lucas wants a wedding more than anything. he loves max and he doesn’t need to prove that to anyone, but he’s happy and he wants to share that with others! he wants to work with max to make marriage a positive thing to them, he wants to celebrate their love, everything they’ve been through. also, hell, he’s only human, he wants to show off! he wants to dress really cool and go to a really cool place and show the world know how awesome he and his girlfriend are. HIS WIFE!!!

most of all, lucas wants the moment near the end of the night, where the party’s getting loud and everybody wants his attention, but max asks if he wants to get out of there and he says yes. not out out, just outside the venue. it’s dark and the once booming music is now faint, they sit and catch up, complain about their families, laugh about their friends. max holds lucas’s hand and plays with his wedding ring, she whispers something sweet before asking him to dance. it’s the best part of the night and nobody will know about it but them.

suddenly max decides she wants a wedding.

#lumax #max mayfield #lucas sinclair #stranger things #to be clear i think it isn't really that max becomes excited for a wedding - i think it's more that she is incredibly touched by what it #means to lucas and wants to give that to him #i don't think she would ever be crazy about all that attention on her but she loves that it makes lucas happy and loves how much he cares #about her #and i also think lucas is aware of this. he loves weddings and the idea of being married is romantic and beautiful to him and he loves that #max understands where he's coming from and feels loved by his explination but also he knows it's something he will enjoy more and that's ok #lucas would be a very good wedding planner #also they would have this discussion then formulate oppisite plans catering to the other's love language #lucas would be like 'i'm gonna do something so private and sweet for max to propose' and max would be like 'i am going to go all out in #public to propose' and luckily max gets to hers first because it was way harder to do #nonetheless i am being cheesy ignore me

[keebokuun]

I gave up on page 2 but hope you enjoy anyways <33

#danganronpa #danganronpa trigger happy havoc #dr #makoto naegi #kyoko kirigiri #naegiri #i love drawing comics but man does it take time #anyways I’m already planning another 💀 #Wedding naegiri comic here we go hehe #IDK if I’ll pull thru this time tho cause it’s a longer story in my head so far at least

[dickfuckk]

Thinking about stede excitedly planning “a big fuckery” with the crew. The goal? To win over ed

#he would go through a whole wedding planning #he would be so annoying and cringefail about it too <3 #ed wouldnt be able to resist him #ofmd #our flag means death

[gale-force-storm]

I've been thinking recently about Gale, and how much of a romantic he is. He says he wishes he had time to do things properly, when he tells you he loves you. As though he has a specific idea in his head of what wooing and romancing were meant to look like.

Which lead me to wondering what kinds of things he might have imagined for himself when he was young, before Mystra fully got her claws in him.

Did Morena read him fairy tales - beautiful stories of romance and true love and happy endings? Did he find such stories himself, as he devoured book after book? Did he graduate to romance novels eventually, stories full of passion and adventure? Did he see elegant couples about town, and imagine one day being among them?

Did he daydream about heartfelt declarations? Of grand weddings? Of sweeping some future beloved off their feet and riding off into the sunset? Did he dream about building a life with someone? Did he imagine having kids? We know he's had mortal lovers before - were they mere dalliances, or something more? Did he dream of someday proposing to any of them? Of finding his own happy ending?

How many dreams did he give up, in devoting himself to Mystra? How many ideas about his future were sacrificed at her alter in return for her favor, and her promises which turned out to be empty?

How many dreams, once left forgotten in the dusty corners of his heart and mind, is he able to consider again, having found someone who loves and accepts him as an equal? Someone who he's actually able to pursue those fantasies with?

#gale dekarios #gale of waterdeep #headcanons #there's no way all those romantic notions popped out of nowhere once he met tav #and it's not like he'd be able to indulge in any of that sort of thing with mystra #but the things he does once he starts actually trying to romance you #the way he proposes - so quickly yet almost by accident #and he's so excited about planning the wedding! #like obviously he's so so happy regardless of the specific romance ending #as long as he's with the person he loves he's over the moon #but idk. i just can't help but think of all the things he might've imagined growing up that he's only just now getting to consider again

[lumiereandcogsworth]

THAT MAN HAS A SECRET!🫵

#look at his fucking face. i’m so DONE #when they filmed this….. he was literally planning a wedding #goodbye🤪 #smosh #smosh mouth #shayne topp #amanda lehan canto #shourtney #op

[wanderlust-in-my-soul]

Lom caresses Nuea five times and one time Nuea caresses Lom

#wedding plan #wedding plan the series #lom x nuea #lomnuea #sailom x namnuea #this episode was such a heartbreak #I loved it! #and damn Lom is so soft with Nuea #thai bl #thai series #thai drama #bl drama #bl series #asianlgbtqdrama #myedit

[batfamhyperfixation]

Tim and Bernard go to Wayne Manor for a family dinner after the events of this post (this is Bernard's first family dinner)

Alfred: *opens the door for them*

Bernard, following Tim in: Hello Sir, nice to meet you, Tim has told me so much about you *shakes Alfred's hand*

Alfred: *beaming* nice to meet you too

*Tim leads them into the dining room where he goes over and hugs Bruce, Bernard following at Tim's heels before shaking Bruce's hand*

Bruce: nice to finally have you over for dinner Bernard

Bernard: thank you for inviting me

*Tim interlocking his fingers with Bernard as he leads them to where they are going to sit*

*other members of the family trickle in before dinner is starting, only for Damian to sit down right across from the two of them wearing a 'Mothman Convention 2017' shirt that looks suspiciously like the one that Bernard seems to have misplaced after the events of the previous post*

*Bernard almost chokes on his drink when he sees it. He had this plan that no matter what he would be the nice normal completely-sane boyfriend tonight, so he is slowly losing his shit cause how do you casually ask your BOYFRIEND'S BROTHER who you have never officially met if he STOLE and is wearing the shirt you got at a MOTHMAN CONVENTION without looking absolutely nuts*

*Bernard is over here losing his cool, almost knocking his cup over and jumping every time someone starts talking, finally Tim just gives him the little eyebrow raise that translates to 'what is your problem babe?' and Bernard does the come here a second hand motion*

Bernard, whispering to Tim: I think your brother is wearing my shirt

*Tim's eyes snap across the table at Damian's chest and he recognizes the shirt instantly. He gives Damian a piercing glare to which Damian just does the one face*

Said one face:

Bruce, the ever keen detective, clearly noticing this whole ordeal: Is something wrong

The entire table goes quiet and turns towards Tim and Bernard, Bernard's eyes go wide as he looks at Tim, he shakes his head like a 'no please don't' gesture at Tim*

Tim: Damian stole Bernard's shirt

*Damian's eyes go wide as he looks down at his shirt then back to Bernard and Tim; the rest of the table is reading the shirt and when Bruce asks 'what's Mothman?', Bernard shrinks in his chair, face completely red*

Damian, not wanting to explain that he thought it was Tim's and how he raided Tim's closet for 'premature hand-me-downs': Tim and Bernard are living together

Bruce, turning so fast to Tim, suddenly in protective dad mode: Excuse me?

Damian, sealing the deal: and they sleep in the same bed

Bruce: EXCUSE ME, NUH UH, THIS WHOLE BOAT THING IS OVER YOU ARE MOVING BACK INTO THE MANOR, NO I DONT CARE IF YOU ARE AN ADULT YOU ARE STILL MY SON AND YOU ARE NOT LIVING WITH BERNARD UNTIL YOU TWO ARE MARRIED

Tim, not backing down: Well I guess we have our weekend plans, should we expect to see you at the wedding?

Bernard:

#bruce comes to an agreement that they can live together if they promise to come over for family dinners at least once a week and they dont #get hitched yet so bruce had adequate time to plan a whole wedding cause you know bruce would be even more into planning it then they are #long post #like really long #sorry i just kinda took off with it #batkids #batfam #bat family #tim drake #bruce wayne #incorrect batfamily quotes #damian wayne #bernard dowd #timber #timbern

[cynomain69]

this ones pre-relationship haino but u can read it as kavehaino or kavehno or kavetham if u like just follow ur heart u know

#al haitham #cyno #kaveh #haino #cytham #this is like the story kaveh recounts in his toast to haino wedding #he gets drunk and insists on a speech even though haithams one rule for the wedding was NO SPEECHES #haitham when he can back up his outrages claims of friendship with evidence #vs haitham when hes just working on delulu wishful thinking #hes already planning their life together hes like ten steps ahaed how was he supposed to remember he and cyno are still enemies w benefits #no not even that yet #no benefits yet... #just #casual work aquaintances oh god hes so far behind

[25shadesoffebruary]

💍👨‍❤️‍👨

#wedding plan #wedding plan the series #love in the air #love in the air the series #phayurain #payurain #rainpayu #bossnoeul #boss chaikamon #noeul nuttarat #bl series #thai bl #asian lgbtq dramas #asianlgbtqdramas #25shadesedit #REAL TEARS I LOVE THEM SO FUCKING MUCH SOMEONE SEDATE ME

[bird-inacage]

A Prapaisky Gifset | The Return of the Newly-Weds (Wedding Plan EP3)

God marriage looks good on you two. Our beautiful, glowing, iconic husbands. I will never get over the way Prapai looks at Sky, always with an immense degree of fondness.

Also, I love how Pai's expression just screamed 'honey, we've done way worse.' And follows that up with "Wanna kiss too?" The shameless dork.

#wedding plan #wedding plan the series #love in the air #love in the air series #prapaisky #paisky #prapai x sky #sky x prapai #fortpeat #peat wasuthorn #fort thitipong #thank you god for giving us pai in a motorcycle jacket #we needed a reminder of how smokin' he looks in that get up #HUSBANDS #MARRIED #back from the honeymoon??? #i appreciate these LITA cameos so much

[rayandgay]

If he doesn't call, then you call him first. You're not gonna loose your coolness.

#between us #betweenusedit #between us the series #winteam #win x team #teamwin #team x win #bounprem #win x wiew #bl drama #bl series #thai bl #thai drama #asianlgbtqdramas #asiandramasource #lgbtedit #i love this so much glsl #sorry to say win but wiew does in fact know it all! #he's also planning your wedding as you're speaking #my gifs