#so what do i know

[waltj]

i haven't found january particularly long but also only dimly remember a time when it was not january

#t. #so what do i know

[hyenabeanz]

i swear I can feel my bones crumbling to dust every time I'm reminded how young The Owl House fandom is lmao. Which is fine, obviously; it's a kid's cartoon. But I see posts with Raine and Eda tagged as senior citizens and have read fics where their physical condition reads as practically geriatric.

Y'all, after the time skip, they're like, late forties max. CALM DOWN.

#Old queers? Sure. Senior queers?! No #It doesn't help that Raine went full white so early. But having a Puritan possess your body is gonna leave some damage #The owl house #Raine whispers #Eda Clawthorne #Toh meta #But I wanted to put the crying laugh emoji on this post which I've heard is not hip with the kids anymore #So what do I know #Maybe I too am a senior citizen #Discounts plz

[arguablysomaya]

god tua fucked up by not having s2 be the 7 back in their childhood. i could literally picture crystal clear how it would work: they'd all be in their adult bodies when we're watching from their perspective then an outsider would enter the room and it would reveal they're children

#its so goddamn clear bruh #but honestly i havent watched tua in years #so what do i know #shut up somaya #tua #the umbrella academy

[preciouspatriots]

now wtf is going on over on that firefighter show? bc this scene exists and you’re telling me buddie isn’t canon? like i’m stunned.

#i’ve never watched a minute of it #so what do i know #but i’ve been rooting for them for years #and this is like cruel #bc that’s more tension then i’ve seen in a LONG TIME LMFAO #911 abc #buddie

[anonymous-venting-space]

I might be too AroAce for this, but why is it that whenever I see stuff about someone cheating on their partner, fictional or otherwise, it’s always more focused on the fact they had sex with (and/or dated) someone else and not that they lied to their partner?

Like I said, I’m way too Ace to understand why sex is a big deal, but lying is bad for any sort of relationship.

You can cheat in a friendship; if your friend explicitly states they don’t want you to hang out with a certain person, and you go behind their back to hang out with that person, that’s cheating.

People don’t care about their friendships enough to see it that way, but it’s essentially the same; you’re breaking the trust in your relationship with someone by purposefully lying, manipulating and/or gaslighting them to go against an established boundary in the relationship.

friendships just don’t get the same level of respect that romantic and/or sexual relationships get, so it’s okay to “cheat” in friendships. (boundaries are also not always discussed enough in friendships, so there’s a bit more leeway in “cheating”)

The betrayal is the lies and deception, not the actual act of sleeping with someone else, but I tend to see people get way more worked up about the act and not the effort they took to do it.

Also, this is a side tangent, but why do they say anyone who cheats is a horrible person, but it’s the plot of several romances? Every Hallmark movie about the city girl with her boring boyfriend who falls in love with the hometown hunk, and kisses him at some point before breaking it off with the boyfriend, that’s cheating. But it’s ok, because it’s “true love.”

Like, if you’re not in love/attracted to your partner anymore, don’t cheat on them; maybe try and communicate with them, and if you’re no longer right for each other, break off the relationship.

But also, if you’re in an abusive relationship, and cannot safely break off the relationship, absolutely do what you need to do to stay safe, and if that includes “cheating” go ahead.

I’m not saying cheating’s ok, but I also understand certain reasons why someone might. I don’t know, I’m just saying it’s a weird double standard.

I don’t know, I think I was going somewhere with this, but now I forgot. Anyways, in conclusion, I don’t understand why people care about sex and romance, and cheating is, in my opinion, more nuanced than, I think, people give it credit.

#vent #tw cheating #i was going somewhere with this #I just don’t remember #like cheating is cheating no way around it but I feel like people can be too quick to judge and people can cheat with good reason #but that doesn’t mean they weren’t cheating #something something good people can do bad things and that doesn’t mean they’re bad people #likewise bad people can do good things and that doesn’t make them good people #but also ‘good’ and ‘bad’ can be a bit subjective #and in the end we’re all just humans trying to make it through the orderly chaos we call life #so what do I know

[merchantarthurn]

astarion planning exactly nothing ever is so funny cos we'll be in his vampire lord master's house and he'll be like "the plan is we find cazador and then we kill cazador. no further thoughts" and i'll be like "darling did you at least pack holy water this morning"

#it's less funny when you realise that 'planning' and 'expecting the future to go your way' sort of go hand in hand #and over time he probably stopped thinking ahead entirely to cope #don't worry dear i put it in your backpack this morning #in the end my Plan with my radiant damage stacked party went to shit so we went with his plan #so what do i know

[maddies-chronicles]

having mutuals on tumblr is actually treating me better than having an irl friend group ever did

#then again my friends were assholes #so what do i know

[lancewiththeantlers]

‘Never trust how you feel about your life after 9pm’ yes yes fine and good.

But also do not trust how you feel about your life before midday because that is when the despair steps into the stark light of day and becomes exponentially worse than the familiar late night melancholy.

What I’m saying is there’s an hour or two sized window of mid-afternoon where maybe there’ll be a bit of hope, unless you’ve got a headache, in which case the entire day is a write-off.

#what the hell is this #it was an amusing shitpost in my head #but that head is riddled with pain from having woken In The Despair Hours #so what do I know #average lance behaviour

[incorrect-hs-quotes]

Dirk: Movie pirating sites are like horses

Dirk: Each one unique. Some wild, some tame. When they open new tabs you have to pet them and say "sshhh easy there". You have to feed them treats from your hand

#homestuck #incorrect homestuck quotes #dirk strider #mod terezi #this feels like a weird excuse to do pony rp with lil hal #but hey i'm not the guy who uploaded his brain into a pair of shades #so what do i know

[lab-trash]

Oliver, watching The Little Mermaid 2: Wow, that dog is old. Kaz: Oh, yeah, huh. Chase: Well, dogs live about 10-13 human years. Kaz: Oh, shit, that dog's gonna die soon. Oliver: Well, I was just thinking about Sebastian. Kaz: Well, y'know, turtles-- Nope Oliver: Turtles??? Kaz, laughing: As soon as it came out of my mouth... I knew I was wrong... like... Sebastian's not a turtle you dumb fuck! Oliver: Are you okay right now? Kaz: What I meant to say was 'lobsters.' Lobsters live a long time. Chase: Oliver: Chase: Sebastian is a crab. Kaz: Kaz: Ohhhh, yeahhhh!

#source: my life #source: tumblr #i was kaz :') #my sick ass is watching the little mermaid 2 with my sister #lab rats elite force #lab rats #mighty med #chase davenport #incorrect quotes #kaz mm #kaz lref #oliver mm #oliver lref #thought people might enjoy this #i think it's funny #but yknow #i'm also sick and loopy #so what do i know

[the-fatal-impact]

Is someone still believing DA4 will be any good?

#da4 #Dragon Age 4 #Bioware #Dragon Age #all hope should be gone by now #but ppl still bought Diablo 4 just so they can put negative review on Steam #so what do i know #random thoughts

[margle]

I think frank centric episodes have some kinda special sauce because so far I think frank shoots every member of the gang and frank vs russia have been the best episodes of the season. theyve felt the most consistently funny, had the best pacing and had the most dee :)

frank shoots is in first place because I didnt like rlly like the uncle jack stuff.

im being optimistic but I do think the next three episodes are going to be rlly strong as well :)

#this post is just a vessel for me to talk about how much I liked frank shoots #its the one ive rewatched the most so far #I liked the others as well #but shoots was so so good #iasip #hiding this at the bottom of my notes but ive been kinda disappointed with some of the execution of the jokes this season #some problems with subtlety I guess #but idk because the frank episodes arent subtle and they work really well #so what do I know #also this is all opinion and im biased because of dee

[thundergrace]

I learned something about Mariah Carey today

#mariah carey #american dad #lego movie #so random #she occasionally wakes up and thinks i wanna do *a little* acting today #she's a damn good actress though #shame she doesn't do more of it #then again i thought later in her acting career Beyoncé was really good #but let everyone else tell it she was trash #so what do i know

[dionysus-complex]

I don’t think I’d necessarily like living in New York but there’s a part of me that feels like I need to experience it at least once

#then again I didn’t think I’d like la and accepted a phd offer here anyways and 4 years later I mostly love it on the days I don’t hate it #so what do I know #and lots of family and friends seem to be moving there or talking about it

[crazyplantkid]

i don’t know how far my reach is but here in Aotearoa, we have a time honoured tradition. Crate Day. Where on the first saturday of december (first saturday of summer here in the southern hemisphere) you buy a crate of beer (12 bottles (750mls each (9 litres of beer))) and you start at midday and you have until midnight to finish them (1 bottle per hour) but beer is gross as hell so some people do two boxes (of rtds) (24 bottles/cans of a Ready To Drink)

but i am a little baby light weight

and so my flatmate and i decided to just split a bottle of prosecco and make mimosas. but then we realised that was only 3-4 standards each. so we got red bull and decided to vodka redbulls. and then we realised we had both opened a v (energy drink in nz) so i have currently drunk 2 vodka redbulls and half a bottle of wine and one vodka v.

i was having an excellent time listening and jamming to 2010’s tunes. i decided to make people food

then two other girls came over

they didn’t eat any of my food

and now it’s not 2010’s music it’s music i don’t like

and it flatmate who i was drinking with is talking to the other girls more and ignoring me and my additions to the conversation

and now i’m not having fun anymore :( i just want to jam out to white girl music as i down a bottle of wine

is that too much to ask :(

#vodka #red bull #vodka redbull #prosecco #mimosa #crate day #aotearoa #new zealand #new zealand has a terrible drinking culture and crate day is a perfect example of our unhealthy relationship with alcohol #because if you don’t drink a crate ’you’re a pussy’ #aotearoa needs to look in the mirror and realise we have a problem #there’s no way this isn’t related to our unhealthily high rates of suicide #i’m a little tipsy though #and my stomach feels bad #so what do i know #drunk #and lonely

[doublel27]

OKAY BUT WHAT IF they save the voicemail for when Carlos!whump is happening and we hear it being a voiceover while the paramedic crew is trying to save him

You know, I keep dreaming they'll bring back deleted scenes and they...don't. Pour one out for our hopes and dreams of having a flashback to Owen in TK's room over the ice storm at any point during the back half of season three.

So maybe? Maybe.

Counterpoint: TK just stream of consciousness babbling at Carlos to try and keep him awake as the paramedic team works on him. Just a whole bunch of "baby"s with a vareity of things that Carlos has to live for stringing the "baby" together.

#tarlos #season 4 speculation #tk strand #carlos reyes #anon ask #anon reply #doublel27 talks #i'm just saying #we've never actually seen tk like lose it lose it #it could be fun #or soulcrushing #but then i think soulcrushing is fun #so what do i know