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fireylesbianhell · 1 year
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when people (i am people. it’s me.) imagine Nico having powers over grief i think of Will’s never discussed fatal flaw, and i think that it’s that he can’t let go
i think his flaw is something with grief, and being stuck in the past almost. it’s being stagnant and static and unable to properly have especially negative emotions because he has to be people’s rock. he’s sunshine boy and he’s your doctor. He needs to be reliable, he sees his friends die every day, if he breaks down then nothing is stable anymore, nothing is keeping anything afloat.
but the idea of nico, a son of hades, who’s experienced grief like he has and was unable to move on and unable to do what Will can’t do, helping him come to terms with his loss and to “accept his darkness” like persephone said to him.
A first nudge from nico and some support from Kayla and Austin especially (and maybe Drew, the Stoll’s and Clarisse if you headcannon them as friends) he’s able to to it, he cries over the people he lost and he’s angry and selfish about the fact they’re gone and starts to grieve properly.
He starts to change and starts finding little moments of progress everywhere he looks. even though his demons aren’t little actual creatures following him around unlike his boyfriend, he does start comming to term similarly. He’s begun tearing the walls down and talking and letting himself cry on someone else’s shoulder. he lets go and starts to let himself be not okay.
#tsats spoilers#pjo spoilers#spoilers#the sun and the star spoilers#okay i know it’s not that spoiler-ey but i wanna be careful#also because this is how i interpret the ending for them a lot and i dont want someone who’s not read it to take this and run with it#this is all post book#just idk i feel like Will’s Fatal Flaw is underdiscussed along with many apollo children#but the idea of him specially having trouble moving on and grieving as one#works so well for him and fits his behavior at his worst#fits how he reacts to those bad situations#and from a charater standpoint works well with nicos issue of holding grudges#stagnancy is their issue but they both confront it in bad ways#but in ways the other can help them#Will helps nico calm down and realize it’s not his fault#nico helps will grieve and properly let go#Will’s doctor truama and need to take care of everyone and his not cracking until he’s literally in a river of greif and mistakes#like he never showed his stance to death and how he felt about loosing campers before until literal torture#HES THE FIRST ONE TO SHRUG OFF LETTING AMPHITHEMIS GO AND NOT LIKE. FEELING OVER THAY#another post i saw explained much better than i did the whole “having to save someone worth saving’ doctor mentality if letting people go#and it fits how will was there#anyways i’m just having so many angsty thoughts about him he’s Not Okay#but i like to see TSATS as a book about getting better#that’s the theme i pulled i guess#esp with everything about Nyx#and the coco puffs#nyx can’t move on but bob does. nico does. will does. It’s all about change.#nico di angelo#Will Solace#Solangelo
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b1acksh33p999 · 2 months
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March 2024 horoscope: 🍀
🔥Aries: This month is going to amp up the pressure in order to make sure you address any residual bad habits that are preventing you from completely leaving the past behind. With the way the planetary setup is this month, Aries will be shifting into Mercury on March 10th, putting a sense of urgency on all issues that directly result from underdeveloped communication or internalized insecurity. With Pluto and mars being in the most harmonious aspects to Aries this month, the only thing that will help ease the tension is change, and action. My advice to you is make sure you’re on top of your tasks, and have a firm relationship with self-accountability for the best chances at success. Stagnancy isn’t an option, it’s game time!
⛰️Taurus: The transits this month are actually very harmonious for Taurus. With the moon starting out in opposition to your natal Sun – many may find themselves realizing how they have accomplished goals set up from the past, which will increase your confidence and feelings of security. However, it will be their ability to push past obstacles and change for the betterment of themselves that genuinely sticks with them throughout the events of the month. With Jupiter starting out in 11° Taurus, this will cause a soft aspect to Pluto causing possibilities of windfall repayments of karma. This can come in many forms which will be personally identifiable as repayment for earlier kindness, or generosity. My advice to you is to continue paying forward with kindness, and stay humble. This will simply confirm that you are worthy of the abundance, and blessings on the way!
🌬️Gemini: This month is going to push you to finally confront your feelings towards an unresolved issue, and may even bring some Geminis to the point of rage when trying to stay avoidant to making the necessary changes. The most harmonious aspects will be from the Aries in transit, which will cross the Sun, moon, and mercury; while Aries stays in North Node, and Chiron for the entire month. When viewing these energetic trends as a whole – my advice to you is to bring the truth to the surface, or face living a lie. Now is not the time to avoid hard conversations, or big changes you’ve been needing to make; get it done!
🌊Cancer: Cancers this month might find themselves battling with how much attention they are or aren’t getting! With the moon starting out in a trine to your natal sun – this will result in many Cancers being unsatisfied with the level of attention they’re currently getting from those around them. This frustration should subside as we approach the full moon in Libra on March 25th, and Jupiter lands in avatar gate 15° Taurus; this will be a point of reflection when it comes to the transformation made both physically, mentally, and financially in the last year. My advice to you is to use the healing energy of the full moon this month to complete healing your trauma, and start having confidence in yourself as a leader. Where you’re headed isn’t where you’ve been, it’s time for new places, and new faces!
🔥Leo: If I could give you one word this month Leo, it’s metamorphosis. You’ve been making steady changes towards the life you’ve always wanted, but now you may find yourself realizing you have an itch for a physical transformation! With the abundance of fire energy in transit this month, while crossing the nodes; nothing not meant for you will be able to survive in your inner circle of trust this month. A special highlight for Leo is March 20th – when sun shifts into Aries, while moon sits in conjunction with your natal Sun; this can be an amazing day for matters of ambition. However, be careful of the possibility of consequences from losing your temper. Trial changes in fashion or beauty are heavily supported for Leo during this time – especially if it helps them feel more in tune with their higher self, and feel more connected to empowerment in their role as a leader. It’s out with the old and in with the new!
⛰️Virgo: This month is going to provide you with an opportunity to upgrade your living situation, but not without hard work and focus! With the most harmonious aspects to Virgo this month falling in trines with Jupiter, and Uranus in Taurus – the road ahead for you will provide only opportunities to expand your current hopes, dreams, and wishes; not without first having to fight for your right to attain exactly what you have always wanted. With the harmonious sextile made in transit by the Sun in Pisces until March 20th, this will be the most effective time to do whatever work needs to be done in order to upgrade your living situation, housing, finances, or self-care routine. When the Sun moves into Aries, the fun-loving support from the Sun will form an uncomfortable aspect to Virgo. This can easily present as impatience, or a quick temper. As long as the details and work have been accomplished prior to the 20th, I wouldn’t worry about this aspect. Other ways this abundance of fire energy can be interpreted is by trying new things, or entering a new phase in life. The full moon this month will have you feeling more social than normal – pay attention to those you speak to or meet on the 25th, you may discover you have a guardian angel crossing your path. Get to work now, and relax later!
🌬️Libra: This month is going to shake up everything you know about love, and communication! With the south node in conjunction with your natal sun – libras have been living in a window of karmic repayment, most of which has just been funneled back into the betterment and growth of libra’s spiritual self. With oppositions being made to libra by transit sun, moon, and mercury at various times (some overlapping), this month will provide libras with hidden insights, and information they’ve never been privy to before. As we approach the full moon on the 25th, Libras will feel the tensions boiling over about what needs to be let go of in order to achieve the beautiful life they dream about. My advice to you is to write a checklist of things you need to let go of or change for your own future fulfillment. Then revisit this checklist on March 31st and see how much progress you’ve made. The eclipse in April is going to be the explosive turning point to a transition that started in January 2022, and will continue until January 2025. During this period bravery, courage, action, and authenticity will be rewarded generously!
🌊Scorpio: This month is going to start off rather emotionally, due to the transit moon starting out in conjunction to your Sun sign; may have you feeling irritated or on edge from the beginning. The good news is that this frustration should pass by March 10th, and develop into harnessed ambition by the mercury transition into Aries. Mars is ruled by Aries, and Scorpio (however, Scorpio also rules Pluto!) and by the heavy mars influence by the transit Aries this month; the cool, controlled co ruler Scorpio will feel cool as a cucumber while staying on task without skipping a beat. My advice to you this month is to take some extra time for self-care to help reset your social meter if you’re feeling overwhelmed. You can accomplish anything with persistence and a great plan, and this month will show you how you already set yourself up for success!
🔥Sagittarius: This month is going to be a continuation of the shift you’ve been in over the past few months, but now there’s no looking back! With the favoring energies being in the trine between the transit Aries, and your natal sun; this pushes the perspective of change through an optimistic lens stemmed from your deep love for learning! My advice to you this month is to grow to the challenge that you want to accomplish; whatever knowledge, effort, or burning of bridges is necessary in order to become the person who’s up for the challenge is what you’re being called to transform into. Sagittarius has been heavily affected by the shift in Pluto from Capricorn into Aquarius, and now there is no denying the changes made to their lives in just a year of it being in the transition of embracing the authentic self. For some, that may have resulted in huge core memories being made during the past year, or finally embracing their truest self. This month is all about doing the work to make you feel more comfortable with some of the consequences of your choices. Keep going, you know it’s worth it!
⛰️Capricorn: This month is going to put pressure on your need to reevaluate your long-term goals, and work/life balance. With the transit Jupiter and Uranus in a trine with your natal Sun, this is going to help expand and offer opportunities and surprises especially in the areas of personal finance, and recognition in professional life. My advice to you is to plan a trip or something that helps keep you connected with why you work so hard. A common misconception about Capricorn is that they “love to work,” and that’s not necessarily true; Capricorns are more likely to choose work they enjoy, but they work for the freedom and financial security that comes with working regularly. With the supporting energies, Capricorns will find themselves eager to shake things up; so, make sure you have a realistic long-term vision when making decisions this month!
🌬️Aquarius: This month is going to expand your entire horizon! With transit Pluto in conjunction with your Sun – being supported by a trine of fiery Aries throughout the month, this will provide multiple upgrades for Aquarius this month. The first begins Mercury’ shift into Aries on March 10th, which will aid Aquarius in any matters involving communication; with resources to help expand on problem areas that could also be highlighted this month. The second big upgrade will come from the shift of the Sun from Pisces into Aries on the 20th, which will bring forth more consistent energy to actually work on tasks and goals easily. A highlight for Aquarius being on March 15th, when transit mars in Aquarius makes a trine with transit moon in Gemini, increasing the likelihood of an epiphany or deep emotional awakening. Get ready for an amazing month with a lot of energy, motivation, and deeper emotional understanding!
🌊Pisces: this month you will be fueled by your own internal vision! With the month starting with transit Sun, Mercury, Neptune, and Saturn all in Pisces – their new level of introspective, intuitive vision is seemingly undeniable for anyone who’s around a Pisces; and so are the changes they’ve made! For the last year and a half Pisces has been asked to look inward for the answers to what’s been limiting them. Now, they’ve made changes, and can see where they are headed. For others this change isn’t going to be easy to identify, in fact they may not see the evidence of these mental shifts for another year. With this sharpened intuitive perspective, topics like right and wrong are easily identifiable even when reflecting back on their own behaviors. My advice to you this month is to embrace the internal vision, and lead by example. It could be helpful to keep a dream journal since many Pisces will be receiving important guidance in the form of dreams. Keep an eye out for signs!
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sonxflight-a2 · 4 years
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Would you kill me if I asked you to do all the emoji thing for hanryou lol 😝
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☯ Send Me An Emoji ║ @kathexismania ☯
😤 - Something about your muse that makes mine angry
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“His recklessness and obstinacy have always been the cause for my frustration, but... Nowadays, I doubt I can actually get angry at him in particular - no matter how stupidly stubborn he may occasionally act, my discontent grows out of worry and care rather than annoyance or ire itself. Even in the time of parting or disagreements, our bond doesn’t cease - if anything, the only reason I ever confront Hanzo is the desire for him to heed to my voice a bit more often. To remember that I wish him good and to know that he deserves the share of peace and love, no matter of his opposing beliefs. And this is the matter about which I will stay uncompromisingly persisting...”
😰 - Something about your muse that worries mine
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“The very same matters I just mentioned, plus I can add here his morbid willingness. This whole nonsensical concept of ‘life isn’t meant for everybody’... He says it’s no one’s mindset but his own, yet knowing his past and trusting the experience of mine... I nonetheless believe it was long-ingrained within him by outer forces and most likely without his inital realization. I wouldn’t be surprised if once he believed oneself to be some kind of instrument, a tool of certain authority rather than actual human being. I am more than sure his late wife brought him a certain enlightenment about it, and I can only thank her for that... ”
🤥 - Whether my muse thinks yours is an honest person
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“He is. At times, even brutally so, which I believe causes people think he’s crude and unthoughtful, while in reality it’s quite otherwise... At least, when it comes to the ones my husband is close with. Let this be something I got used to, it's not the best quality once you need to reach a certain goal with cautious mean, especially when the right person is already wary towards the men of our profession. Guess in this case professional partnership adds to the pros of shared workfield...”
😈 - If my muse has dirty thoughts about yours
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“We are highly active, willingly married couple... Why won’t you try and guess?”
💩- A mean thought my muse has about your muse
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“Hasashi, I love you, but damn I swear I'll kick your ass myself if you will do that again... Something like this, the train of such thoughts is usually pretty similar when it comes to me.”
👌 - Something my muse finds amazing/impressive about your muse
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“The fact he embarked on the path of atonement and is determined to follow it with no askew is already more than worthy of admiration. Let his motives being somewhat selfish and price he paid terrifying, not many would be willing to go through such drastic change. For good or bad, his willpower in general never stops to amaze me. Even though we both think we met our match when it comes to each other’s volition...”
👍 - Something that my muse approves about your muse or thought they have done very well
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“I can’t thank him enough for helping me to finally deal with the downside of my restrainment. The treatment of wounds, any wounds, can be quite hurtful and requiring of the certain anesthetic... My emotional stagnancy wasn’t exclusion. Despite me being absolutely pissed at the whole damn world the morning after our ‘cooperative therapy’, I’ve never felt so relieved in ten years as I did feel later, like it was some kind of abscess upon my very heart getting opened at last. For this and many other things that was brought by our relationship, I will always be grateful...”
😘 - How my muse shows affection to yours and if it’s different from how they show affection to everyone else
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“I guess I'm way more... physical when it comes to Hanzo, in the mean I barely mind and even tend to initiate the occasional tactile contact in spite of the risk to catch a prying eye. While the most of our affections will always happen behind the close doors, at times I cannot help but yearn for something as allegedly simple as the hold of his hand. Makes me feel like some shy adolescent boy, yet all the same there’s something lovely and beauteous in the moment his palm or fingers take a returning hold of mine.”
📺 - What show my muse thinks yours will enjoy watching (together, or just in general)
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“Our work schedule doesn’t allow to us pay that much attention to movie industry these days, but I don’t remember us ever watching the movies of Akira Kurosawa. Then again, it can be easily fixed during our joint days off...”
💀 - Whether my muse thinks yours is dangerous and how dangerous
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“We are both dangerous, in various meaning of this word and when we need to be... Neither of us has a peaceful past nor serene field of work, so becoming a reciprocal menace in reaction to the threat can be vital for the sake of survival, either of our loved ones or our own. Men like us... They will do anything possible in order to protect the people they love. Regardless if this will require them to sacrifice their own live or take the one of their enemy...”
👑 - Whether mine thinks your muse is of high social status and/or whether they respect them in such a way
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“It’s no need to mention I’ve fallen in love with my husband for who he is as a person... Honestly, I’ve never paid that much attention to the status issue. Furthermore, growing up in highly esteemed family and being surrounded by peers like mine, I know well such matter can serve as the force of deception - I cannot tell how often I had to encounter the spoiled brat who believed they allowed to do whatever they want because of their parents’ money, and how the look of their faces changed once they realized the boy who dared to resist them is no less rich. Respect is to be earned, regardless if you’re some kind of modern prince or the child of simple worker. Unfortunately, the crowd tends to believe otherwise...”
🥃 - How many shots of strong liquor my muse thinks yours can take before passing out
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“I think the better question will be how many bottles... Then again, it can depend on his current condition, because it’s either just a few shots or a whole damn gallon not being enough to put him to rest.”
🎁 - What my muse will get yours for a present
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“Well, it’s for him to know at his Birthday... Or any other day I will decide to make him a certain gift. After all, does the present really stays an actual present if you know what you’ll be given beforehand?”
🍿 - What my muse thinks is entertaining about yours
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“We challenge each other. Motorbike race, the contest of dry humor and sassiness or... other matters of our life together, it’s nice to have a worthy opponent for a friendly brawl. Though my husband may be a sore loser at times, in my view it’s a win-win situation either way, for I enjoy the process as much as the possible victory.”
📚 - What my muse thinks your muse’s usual reading material consists of (a specific genre, smutty literature, etc.)
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“Does operation reports count? It’s been a while since I saw Hanzo reading an actual book rather than work’s material, but I can't and will not make a complaint in relation to this - our job requires such a responsibility. All the same, his workaholism causes the stir my concern, no matter how hypocritical this may sound...”
🍽 - What kind of table manner my muse assumes yours to have on first meeting them
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“Not the best question to ask when it comes to our couple. Recalling how tense and cranky our relations were at the very start, I doubt either of us tried to think much about each other - it was only about getting my work done as soon as possible and be over with it until the next visit. Now, I think we both were too hurting and too headstrong to see anything else aside of established images. In a way, this makes feel thankful for that hostage incident...”
🏆 - What my muse thinks of your muse regarding a specific achievement yours have
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“Specific? Oh well, I believe you should name an exact one then. There’s actually a lot I can be proud of in relation to my husband and people may have a different opinion towards what to count as some sort of achievement. High career rank and well-build physical form is usually the first to be noticed...”
⚔️ - If my muse wants to have a fight with yours
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“Sigh... No. Actually, I question if I ever truly wanted to fight or harm him in any way... No matter how much I treaten to kick his ass, due to his recklessness or during another of our sparring sessions. If anything, I’m still sorry for how prejustly I could treat Hanzo back in the days. Pretty sure he feels the same...”
⚰️ - What my muse will say at your muse’s funeral
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“I... don’t want to think about that, all the more answer on this question. The death of beloved one is something you cannot and should not plan or even imagine - it brings no use and only gives a rise to unnecessary ache. Regardless of how morbidly curious one’s mind can be, it reality you won’t ever be ready for this kind of things. The thought itself is devastating enough...”
💎 - The most valuable object my muse can willingly give your muse
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“Whatever he’d need from me... We can act grumpy about us stealing each other’s clothes, but in reality it’s really that simple.”
📣 - Something my muse will say in defense of your muse being unfairly accused
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“A few would dare to make any of such accusations about my husband right in front of him, yet there were some attempts behind his back I was drastic to prevent. As a rule, people doing that lack certain intelligence along with caution and know nothing of Hanzo and what he had to come through, while I on the contrary manage to possess a sufficient data about my opponents in order for them to be quick to hold their tongues once they’re clever enough. One shall think twice before opening their mouth...”
💃🏿 - Whether my muse would want to dance with yours
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“We already did, and it was quite a pleasant suprise for me to learn he’s capable of waltzing around without any actual preparation. I wouldn’t mind if he’ll express the wish to do it again once we will have a spare time or will pay a visit to Sakai’s familial residence - there’s very specific beatitude can be found in the instants you’re circling around the dance hall within the hold of your beloved.”
👗 - Whether mine thinks your muse looks good in their usual clothing/their chosen clothing style
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“He does... Albeit, as long as he’s safe and sound, he looks good for my vision either way. In the eyes of beholder and all that, you know?”
🎻- If my muse thinks yours can play an instrument, or what it is
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“I’m aware Hanzo doesn’t play any. Althought, as much as I don’t mind being the only musically inclined person in our pair, it would be interesting to see him learning... Knowing his tastes, a guitar would probably suit him well.”
🎲 - If mine thinks your muse’s luck is good or bad
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“I don’t know... I’ve never believed much in luck anyway, however, I believe its concept is far from being so simple... Much as one’s morals, the fortune can be incredibly relative and versatile.”
💰 - If my muse will pay the ransom for your muse if they’re kidnapped
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“I think Hanzo would rather want me to find the bastards who kidnapped him and bring the frigidity of justice upon their rotten heads. Not to mention, it’s unlikely someone would be foolish enough to attempt doing this to the commander of Special Team, at least not for the money...”
✉️ - Whether my muse would want to keep in contact with yours if they are apart
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“We’re husbands... The answer is kind of obvious, don’t you think?”
👀 - The most interesting/memorable rumor my muse has heard about yours
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“When we just started dating and yet had to reveal our relationships... Some of my former colleagues and the members of his squadron asked if we finally found a lady friends, which was especially amusing to hear when we appeared to be in the same room. Yeah, one gruff six-something-feet tall brawny girlfriend I was happy to become a spouse for, heh...”
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gg-astrology · 5 years
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Hello hello!! It’s been a while since my last ask! So here I am... with a new question.... so, Jupiter is gonna go in retrograde next week and I was wondering how it’ll be felt? Like for people with a direct Jupiter placement or for those of us who have it in Rx in our natal chart?
Hey Bere!! 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡 Yes, we’ll be going back to direct on August 11th and it’s happening on the 10th?? of April?? pheW 🧡🧡
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Sagittarius Jupiter rx 2019 ⬇️
For this year’s Jupiter rx, it’s gonna be kinda potent since it’ll be stationing on a fixed star (Lesath) as well, so we’re ✈️ gonna have to face somethings that needs addressing! First with the fixed star – watch out for biting tongue, biting words that may be un-needed/un-heeded– it’s the tail end of the scorpian’s stinger. Accidents can also occur, and if ‘oh noes’ happens on a larger scale – take your time, evaluate your resource. Release your frustration (without harming others) and then go about it with an open-mind (and focus– learn the lessons). 
Jupiter is the planet of expansion and generosity, having it in retrograde we may sometimes be more self-serving, self-protective (give too much or guard/give too little) and will have to face issues that has to do with how we treat/bit others without thinking (our influence on others and how that affects us socially). 
Shaking things off as if it’s ‘mY oPiniOn’ or wanting to ‘shine’ (because you’ll want to benefic light of Sagittarius on you– but there’s so many spotlights, and perhaps you’re feed into the obsession of comparing yourself to other things.) Feeling challenged by other’s successes/happiness: ‘what am I doing wrong? why am I not getting the result I desire?’ can also occur as it progresses. 
If you promise too much– or if you act without thinking of consequences (either guarding yourself from opinions too much, or sharing too much generosity) —others may take advantage of you or try to impose themselves onto you (morally) as well (so balance is the key here)   
Appropriation, opinions, what to do and what not to do. What the ‘bigger message’ is--- we may be forced to evaluate carelessness in situations, our own perspective/stances that can be wrong (both sides). Carelessness with each other, as well as general restlessness that can cause an escalation in situations as well. Biases-- once again, is common. And often times we may already see discourses blown out of proportion and scale because then EVERYBODY has an opinion and may often think that they are right.
Competitiveness, feeling repulsed (or just a stern this aint it) ‘less than’ and biases may be high, stressors can cause excesses– but the lack of expansion/stagnancy can also causes emotional triggers such as jealousy, envy, discrimination and obsession (in some cases). 
Please make sure not to act out in ways that stops you from LEARNING what could potentially help you. Digging your feet into the ground and adamantly shaking your head, refusing to hear things others are saying until you could be heard FIRST may be common as well. 
Working through some restriction/greed in ourselves, that’s stopping us from expanding in the way that we’re supposed to be (broadly, freely, continuing to grow progressively, generously)  – defensiveness is common even if it’s not meant to occur sometimes. And passive-aggression can happen if we don’t address the problem openly as well.
The thing here is– we’re forced to confront some of the ‘darker’ side to ourselves and accept them without bias. It does not make you a ‘bad’ person to feel these things, and in order to cope with that well– you’ll have to talk about it and be open-minded to it too.
It’s important to realize these are lessons will need some introspection and patience, taking the time to evaluate what you feel, how you feel, and address them in an open manner without resorting to malevolent means (lashing out/keeping it in too much). 
Moodiness, greed and our overall opinionated (without caring for the otherside/selfishness) can occur – it’s important to note and talk about the things that we may feel and what it does to us internally. If we feel a certain way, how to expel those thoughts/energy outwards and then set back into being healthily open-minded again.
It’s not about suppressing these feelings, but rather it’s about learning and adding onto the repertoire of how well we handle our misguidance and ‘not up to par’-ness.  
On an ending note: please note that not everyone/others are trash-dumps for your emotions/opinions/bias as well. Try to take this as a BIGGER lesson on how to accept yourself, and how to work through things that may occur in a healthy and inclusive way. Being excluding of certain things, or finding yourself repelled to people/opinions/situations can be common. But yeah! 🧡 It’s a period of growth, patience and learning 🧡
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jtdg15 · 4 years
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The Venus Signs
It’s taken me a while to get around to this, but alas here we are! These are the Venus Signs. For those of you who don’t know, Venus is the planet of love and beauty; it governs our relationships and how we see beauty in the world. If you don’t know your Venus Sign, just use any natal chart calculator online! Without further a do, lets go!
Aries: PASSION. PASSION. PASSION. Wow, like I don’t even know how to reiterate that. Aries Venus is the most passionate Venus sign of the zodiac, and once the develop a crush, well, it’s over. They will stop at nothing to make it known to their partner or lover that they are completely enamored by just their very presence. Aries Venus loves an adventurous romance, once where it feels like every day is something new and exciting. On the other hand, this can be a very negative trait for Aries Venus as they find themselves bored once the “honeymoon” phase is over. They crave intensity and are fueled by excitement, so once they see an issue or sense boredom, they are turned off and tend to run. Aries Venus, love is not all about the excitement, but about the hard work that comes after. 
Taurus: Venus rules the sign of Taurus (as well as Libra,) so the energy of Venus flows freely here. Taurus Venus loves to take their time in relationships and they LOVE to be coddled and shown copious amounts of affection. They are naturally homebodies and when it comes to dates, they’d rather spend their time at home with their significant other with a simple meal rather than lavish spendings at a fancy restaurant. Venus is exalted when in the sign of Taurus, meaning that Taurus Venus is naturally sensual and enjoys sex (but not in the way that Aries or Sagittarius enjoy it.) They crave intimacy at a deeper level and have a hard time with meaningless hook ups. At the same time, Taurus Venus can become very jealous and clingy and may attach a lot of their self worth to their lover. Taurus Venus, love is not meant to complete you, but to help you grow as your own person. 
Gemini: The most social of all the Venus Signs. Gemini Venus loves having their relationship on display for all to see (and admire.) They are naturally social so having Venus in Gemini only exudes this quality. Gemini Venus is very inquisitive and craves an intellectual, yet attractive partner. They may sometimes go for looks a little too fast and are dissapointed when their lover doesn’t live up to the image they had in their heads. They enjoy keeping things fresh and try to go out as much as possible. While they like to have fun, this placement can be a bit tricky to pin down as they their mentality about love is constantly shifting and they are constantly looking for some type of stimulation, both mentally and intimately. Gemini Venus, being in a relationship shouldn’t feel like being pinned down. 
Cancer Venus: Cancer Venus always craves such a deep emotional connection above anything else. While physical attraction and sex are important to them, they care more about how they’re treated and how their families are treated. This Venus placement is very in tune with their emotions and will be able to easily read their partners. They are prone to become very suspicious and overthink a lot which may tend to lead the relationship to fall apart. As well as this, Cancer Venus can be prone to being emotionally manipulative and if faced with a confrontation, they may try to guilt trip their partner. Cancer Venus, your emotional intelligence does not give you permission to manipulate your partners feelings.
Leo Venus: Much like Scorpio, Leo Venus takes pleasure in having a lot of sex, but unlike Scorpio Venus, Leo Venus doesn’t necessarily crave it as deeply. Leo Venus will almost always feel the need to publicize their relationship and show off their partner, but this can be dulled depending on other placements in the chart. They value fun and want to see their partner laugh. In turn, they also want someone who can make them laugh or someone who continuously shows them the brighter side of things. Leo Venus enjoys being showered with affection and while this isn’t necessarily a bad thing, it can come across as being conceited. They want to be shown that they are loved, both physically and verbally. They also tend to shower their lover in compliments and affection, which can become easily overwhelming depending on the partners Venus placement. Leo Venus, learn to keep your personal affairs and love life private. Your life isn’t up for everyone else’s entertainment. 
Virgo Venus: Venus is in Fall in the sign of Virgo, meaning that Venus struggles while under this sign. Virgo is a mutable Earth sign meaning that even though they are meant to be more adaptable than most signs, they struggle with this quality due to Venus being in fall gere. Essentially, Virgo Venus (and Sun) will have a hard time allowing themselves to be open with the people they care about. They may also find it hard to open up to their own sexual nature. Virgo Venus needs to feel as if they are wanted or being valued for the hard work they put into a relationship. Much like a Leo venus, this position craves acknowledgement, but instead of craving this from a place of ego, this stems from a fear of inadequacy. Virgo Venus wants to please their partner, even if it means throwing their own self needs away. Virgo Venus must learn that while being of service to the ones you love is admirable, life is about giving and recovering; make sure that you are being given the love and attention you need as well!
Libra Venus: Venus is also ruled by Libra which gives Libra Venus a bit of a hopeless romantic vibe. While this may sound a bit odd, Libra Venus doesn’t always have the healthy balance of reality vs fantasy some may expect from the sign associated with balance. Libra Venus seems to confuse wether or not they are in love or if they are in love with the IDEA of love (which can prove frustrating for their partners.) Libra Venus may also hold very high expectations for their potential partners which can add to their “hopeless romantic” vibe as they may feel no one will ever live up to the image of their ideal relationship they’ve created within their heads. A positive about this placement though, is that these natives seem to value empathy quite a bit and may be more accepting and loving of people in general (this can also be seen in Taurus Venus!) In general, Libra Venusians need to learn to decipher their own emotional needs before jumping in the deep end and getting hurt (or hurting others.)
Scorpio Venus: One of the more misunderstood Venus placements (along with Aqua,) Scorpio Venus is arguably the most emotionally in depth of the Venus signs. The thing with these natives is that they will not show these emotional depths unless it is pulled from them or unless something intense enough pushes them to crack. Scorpio Venus enjoys being with people who have been hurt and who display a deep emotional side to them, and while this may sound morbid, Scorpio Venus needs to see this in a potential lover in order to fully trust them. Scorpio Venus tend to have a bad string in relationships and so they look to other people who have been hurt to find some sort of understanding. Natives with this placement though, are prone to jealousy and mood swings. Scorpio Venus must learn that emotional depth and pain do not always coincide and that they can form deep meaningful relationships with people who haven’t been through as much as them!
Sag Venus: Unfortunately Sag Venus had a bad rep of being unable to commit when in relationships, and while this isn’t always the case, many Sag Venusians do have this issue. This stems from Sag’s innate nature to want change and to crave new experiences. Sag Venus is very adventurous and they want to explore before completely settling on one person (which can cause them to lose mainly potentially long lasting relationships.) Sag Venus does have many positives, as this placement (when they do settle down) will always try to keep things fresh! They will constantly want to go to new places, try new foods, change up their style or the ambiance of their home! This placement is very funny and may always be making jokes. Sag Venus, stagnancy is okay! Don’t rush through life, allow yourself to stop and enjoy what life is giving you in the moment!
Cap Venus: Natives here are very family oriented and seems to always be looking for a long term/committed relationship. Cap Venus seems to also struggle in a similar sense to Virgo Venus, as they constantly want to feel as if their being of service to their partners, but Cap Venus is not afraid to cut off a relationship. This placement enjoys privacy in a relationship as they feel overt displays of affection can be “inappropriate” and they enjoy the quiet intimacy of being alone with one another. Cap Venus may also have a hard time truly expressing how they feel with their partner because they feel as though they should handle their personal problems on their own. This placement is very hard on themselves and hates to hurt their partner (indirectly or directly.) Cap Venus, it’s okay to voice how you feel within relationships! Relationships are a two way street, speak up about how you feel!
Aquarius Venus: Aqua Venus, the second most misunderstood Venus Sign (in my opinion.) Aqua Venus has a notorious history of analyzing and intelectualizing their emotions to the point where they come off as either very aloof or very cold. Aqua Venus in general may seem detached, and this is not because they don’t care or are “emotionless” but because they like to observe people (yes, even their loved ones) Aqua Venus is a little like Scorpio Venus in the sense that they may have a hard time trusting people and fully opening up to them; they need to know their potential partners true intentions before commiting to anything. Aqua Venus does seem to be a bit of a loner and a lot of Aqua Venusians do stay single, but their affections are directed elsewhere and tend to be focused on Humanitarian Needs. Aqua Venus rarely opens up and it’s hard to read how they truly feel, but when faced with a situation that they know they need to be honest and open in, they will break down their walls. Aqua Venusians need to learn that even though they may try to analyze their emotions to get the “best outcome” they can’t control everything and need to let themselves experience their full range of emotions
Pisces Venus: Finally we have Pisces Venus, who shares a similar “hopeless romantic” mindset as Libra Venus. Pisces Venus has a tendency of falling for people who aren’t good for them, but this is because of Pisces natural affinity to the 12th House. These placements tend to end up in relationships with people who struggle with substance abuse. Pisces Venus is also prone to become emotionally overwhelmed as they are very empathic by nature. Pisces Venus is definitely able to be there for there partner emotionally, but may lack a steady head to keep a long term relationship. Pisces Venus are able to read their partners emotions very well and are almost always able to identify when something is wrong (which can be both a bit of a blessing and a curse) Pisces Venus, it’s okay to be on your own, a relationship won’t give you the love that you can give to yourself!
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