#they even have same glasses

[myuminji]

the bride walked down the aisle to where the groom stood, and there they exchanged their vows in front of the altar...

#what do you mean this isn't how it goes? The flower girls are there to throw flower petals and wedding bouquets ready on their hands too... #just twt having collective breakdowns over them as usual #it's interesting that both played the role of the bride and the groom at the same time. #only they can pull it off I swear #trigun #trigun maximum #vash the stampede #nicholas d wolfwood #trigun maximum spoilers #vashwood #ish? #actually not really it's just the narrative that plays out like that #myuminjiart #just wanna point out my art a few things: the wine as bouquet. vash holding a shot glass also as bouquet. #vash trying to smile even if he says it's impossible. he tried. #the confetti thrown by the orphanage children...as if they're flower girl throwing flower petals for them....

[puppetmaster13u]

have a very early wip of a tea party :>

This is @phoenixcatch7 's Possessed Doll Au

#idk why but I was hit with the vivid image of the puppets holding a music box that guides whoever they're calling to down through the caves #Each song different yet the same for each of them #Behold Bruce's first time to the Dollhouse lol #Idk if it's canon to Phoenix's but honestly I like to think that the first doll Bruce encountered was the one that'd eventually be robin #Since he was a child when he fell down in the well and into the tunnels beneath #batman au #bruce wayne #possessed doll au #possessed puppet au #sketch #art #First time down there it's more cave like but as time goes on it shifts #Some of it from them working on stuff and others on its own #The table getting longer and larger as the family grows even if not there yet #The puppets know when to emerge from the shadows and join the others at the table #I like to think the patriarch puppet is damaged the first time Bruce goes down #maybe mimicking a certain father's wounds before he died but maybe not still debating that #god i love this au #Honestly their eyes are empty like sockets because they don't have the lights or glass yet #just darkness :)

[bruhstation]

you deserved better from me than an oversized uniform and a world full of troubles

#this is tugs #tugs zorran #tugs zip #fortezza bigg city #senjart #quick doodle before bed (1 am) #when you're only 18 and got force-fed a world full of crime and shady hard-to-trust folks #and the middle aged man that you adore and treat as a paragon of salvation is distant and cannot love you ''normally'' #while the person that berates you is the one that genuinely loves you but your brain automatically registers any ''insult'' as ''bad'' #and you don't know that he cares for you #family'd so hard they started to develop genuine traditional family problems #we're not beating the complicated doomed familyhood allegations with this one 😂😂😂 #the faint ''have to'' in the background is like. #''do I care for you because my boss handed you to me as part of my duty'' #vs #''do I care for you because I don't want you to end up like me even though I am NOT warm or nice'' #also them without their hats. the one thing all z-stacks have in common that indicates them being from the same group #theres lots of details and themes and whatnot in this doodle but my brain is a mush..... erm..... have fun staring #(fixes my glasses and grins like an ape)

[muckyschmuck]

of course u make another creature and of course u put glasses on it

#it doesnt even need glasses like at all #my art #oc art #digital art #traditional art #for like one... #doodlings #ears progressively get bigger and bigger #dumb fops #try to design a vile thing that isnt just johnny 2 challenge fucking impossible #TRY TO DESING A CHARACTER WITHOUT A MIDDLE PART CHALLENGE #FUCKING IMPOSSILED #or glasses #anyway only beast in a 500 mile radius with a cellphone #damn bitch how do u have furry same face syndrome #i think its juts i have no many fucking things theyre bound to start looking samey IDK idc i love him #at least its not another DEAD CORPSE CHARACTER #I MEANT SO MANY NOT NO MANY

[quietwingsinthesky]

thinks about the master & the doctor cuddling thinks about them cuddling thinks about them cuddling thinks about them cuddlign thinks-

#its a vrry specific flavor of cuddling its like. #its exhausted. first of all. and its lonely. #its the kind of cuddling that starts because one of you literally flopped on top of the other and wouldnt move #and then started squirming to become an even bigger hiderance than they already were if they were being ignored #its a puppy pile of two. they are in the weirdest most uncomfortable looking positions imaginable #you look at them and you think ‘this is how glass sculptures would cuddle if glass sculptures had feelings and were touch-starved’ #its a cuddle that might end with one of them putting the other in a full body lock for whatever reason. either to keep them from running #or because they had a nightmare. they do have nightmares you know. and they aren’t fun to sleep next to. the best comfort is a good defense #its the kind of cuddling where one of them is awake for too long. breathing slowly so they dont disturb their partner and staring. #memorizing. taking note of every difference since last time. #its the kind of cuddling where even if you walked in on them at a point where while they were asleep theyd scooted apart and weren’t #touching anymore. you’d still notice that they’re practically mirror images. curled up the same way and facing each other. until one of them #kicks in their sleep and disturbs the illusion. but still. #you get me? #and also theres biting.

[muppetcube]

I love thirteenrose as a concept (Canon Rose Tyler being sapphic, gay relationship they cant get away with erasing bc its ROSE FUCKING TYLER), but in practice i have a really hard time telling white women apart sometimes and it gets confusing

#im so sorry to all of my thirteenrose fans out here but take my glasses away i CANNOT tell them apart a good 70% of the time #thirteenrose #doctor who #rose tyler #thirteenth doctor #honestly tho i do lover thirteenrose the same amount i love any timepetals ship (even though i def have my biases #canon or otherwise) #anyway here's how eightrose and twelverose can still win (delusion)

[emarie-stone]

Glass Onion is such a fun movie but it doesn't pull its punches, either. The way it sets up Andi as the cold, stand-offish character and Miles as the benevolent, rich hippie. Then the twist happens and the perspective changes. We know Andi is actually Helen and we learn that Helen is angry and grieving and scared. We learn that Miles is not benevolent but manipulative - and his friends very much believe they will lose that friendship/money if they don't go along with his ideas. (They saw him kick Andi from their company, even when they don't know she's dead.)

And I love Peg. I love that she's the only thing keeping Birdie Jay in line, but she can't even DO that. Birdie is dumb, but she's smart enough to have a secret phone for years and Peg doesn't know. When she lists her resume, it's "Birdie, Birdie, a brief stint with retail and Birdie again." So there was a moment when Peg knew Birdie was trouble and left, but still went back (presumably for money or status or just because retail sucks.) But that decision to go back, to humor the rich and stupid is going to ruin Peg in the end. And it's just so delicious.

And the scientist! Lionel! He's smart, he takes the pandemic seriously, he knows Klear is dangerous. But he still chooses Miles' money and he's still going to be ruined because of it. He was a school teacher! Of course he chose Miles' basically unlimited bank account.

It's great. The two characters I sympathize with the most are both shown to have at least some notion that they shouldn't be doing what they're doing. Which is why I like them! And they are not spared when Miles' empire comes crashing down. They threw their lot in with him and so will fall when he falls.

#Glass Onion #Glass Onion Spoilers #Yes it's been out for a year but I rewatched it and it's still great #There's probably something to be said about none of the characters being spared in the end but I don't have time to get into that #Andi walked away and lost her life #Helen lost her sister and made enemies of powerful people #even if she doesn't have an empire to lose she won't be the same after this #All the assistants like Peg are going to lose their jobs at minimum or even be forced to take the fall with them #Like this is not a ride into the sunset happy ending #duke is still dead but maybe that's for the best lol

[comradekatara]

ba sing se university's hottest and weirdest professor

#id in alt text #avatar the last airbender #atla #sokka #art #mart #oldergaang #postwargaang #sokkademia #i'll answer the rest of ur hot takes later btw #but feel free to send more if u want #and i'll get to them eventually #probably tomorrow #anyway #dont even get me STARTED on professor sokka #(do actually. i have many thoughts) #it makes me so bad that no one but me understands the importance of this older sokka design specifically #i see older sokka and im like ok but where are his glasses!!!!!! his jewelry!!!!!! his pretty outfits!!!!!!!! #(same goes for katara minus the glasses btw. they are HOT FASHIONISTAS give them ACCESSORIES) #but it's also important that older sokka has eyebags and scars and a perpetual five oclock shadow #that is a man who gets no sleep #that is a man with 500 different jobs and 200 different mental illnesses #being the only sokka understander in the entire world is such a heavy burden but someones gotta do it i guess

[tatonslice]

any ai fans out there

actually any puyotet fans out there at all. hi i love this dog

#i have work to do' #and im drawing dogboy instead #my dear friend boomer293 if you see this im sorry <3 #i dont rlly knowhow i want to draw this guy tbh #hes an old blorbo of mine and i mean really old cause back then i didnt know how to draw anthro #i do now #so im trying to make up for my old art even though i never posted it anywhere #puyo puyo tetris #puyo puyo tetris ai #ppt ai #puyo puyo tetris 2 #taton's art #the 'characters in glasses love doing the same 5 poses' is a joke with a target audience of 3 people. and im one of them

[zeb-z]

Crosshair as the Ice Vulture. A survivalist, who picks at scraps because he has to. Looked up at with disdain and no small amount of fear, but ultimately dismissed as a real threat to the Empire. Persistent as he flies above head, as he sticks to a goal.

And lonely, so lonely, facing up against an Imperial Lieutenant that sees him as nothing but a tool. Feeling like he was abandoned by his brothers, shunned by his peers. Circling his path on his own. So tragically, terribly alone.

#things that have the same emotional mental physical feeling of chewing glass #the shot of the vulture over his head. the music. I’m hhfhdhehfhdhhe #seen the argument that the empire is the vulture. always circling. uncaring and inevitable. i can see it but nah it’s more crosshair #ruthless persistent hunting crosshair who’s finally diving down for the kill. finally fighting back even if it means his death #tbb #the bad batch #the bad batch spoilers #sw #Star Wars #z speaks

[lacefuneral]

i think stede's adorable little milf glasses

(figure 1. stede's adorable little milf glasses)

are not merely reading glasses, but full-blown prescription-grade lenses that he steadily refuses to wear because he had a hard enough time as a (gay) (autistic) child and didn't need the added mockery of needing a device to see in the 18th century, when glasses were not common devices yet

considering how this man deemed it necessary to have an entire LIBRARY on board, his penchant for escapism, and, again his history of being bullied, i think its reasonable to assume that stede has spent most of his life reading. that a lot of that reading, too, occurred by candlelight, and that this has rapidly deteriorated his vision

rather than wear glasses, though, even as an adult, he simply goes through the world with blurry vision, only bringing out his glasses for rare occasions. he doesn't even READ with them on, even though it would greatly help him. he has a mental block about using them, and they often collect dust in a drawer

#ofmd #i myself am a man with HORRIBLE vision that does not wear my glasses #i only utilize them when i go outside - because they are transition lenses #and of course when i was still in school and had to read a whiteboard or powerpoint from afar #but even as i type these tags - my astigmatism is presenting me with a blur #i spend a lot of time squinting. opening and closing my individual eyes #adjusting my brightness #doing everything BUT grabbing my glasses #and while i WAS bullied for being a gay autistic youth - my glasses never factored in #my reasons for not wearing them are purely forgetfulness and neuroticism #''but i don't NEED to see indoors'' i reason #stede however is a fucking pirate captain. put those milfspecs on #you need to see ships! you need to see during fights! identify loot! #also they are adorable #my glasses do not have that same charm #nor could i pull off the round spectacle thing

[smile-files]

natural wavy hair vs rich kid perm

#dandy's doodles #inanimate insanity #ii #ii clover #ii nickel #ii humie #ii gjinka #ii humanized #my most recent nickel gjinka didn't properly convey the rich jewish private school jerk i was trying to convey... #so i ditched the glasses and gave him a perm and 'fancy' sneakers #every rich boy in middle school had this exact haircut. it drove me nuts #don't know why i didn't give it to him from the get-go #and clover's the same as always. i don't even have a stock outfit for her #i just throw on something that she would wear! it's funny #i hope you like them :)

[h7jfangirl]

TGS'S ENDING PREDICTION

TGS IT'S GONNA END WITH EVERYONE DYING BY NATURAL CUASES AND THEN THEY ARE GONNA RE-BORN IN THE ACTUAL WORLD, SO THEY CAN ACTUALLY LIVE THEIR LIFES WITH MORE FREEDOM. BEFORE DYING JEKYLL AND HYDE WILL FINALLY ACCEPT EACH OTHER SO THEY WILL BECOME THE SAME PERSON, OR RE BORN AS TWINS AND JEKYLL WILL FIND ROBERT AND THEN THEY FALL IN LOVE BUT NOW THEY CAN ACTUALLY SHOW THEIR AFFECTION AND AND AAAa

#I HAVE NO IDEA HOW IS THIS GONNA END OR WHERE IS GOING #BECAUSE JEKYLL AND HYDE SHOULD ACCEPT THEMSELFS BUT THE THING IT'S THAT THEY SEEN TO LOOK SO DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHER #THEY CAN'T EVEN TRY TO PRETEND TO BE THE OTHER WHEN THEY ARE LITERALLY THE SAME PERSON #BUT UNTIL WHAT POINT???? #LIKE THEIR BODY IT'S FALLING APART NOW #the glass scientists #tgs #tgs jekyll #tgs update #tgs hyde #sorry for my bad english #henry jekyll #tgs laynon

[fox-mulder-gets-pegged]

Rewatched the episode of House MD where Kutner dies and I honestly think instead of killing his character off, they should have said that Kutner got a job as physician to then President Barack Obama and that's why he was leaving. Objectively funnier since his actor did leave the show to work for Obama and I know it would have driven House nuts that Kutner was ditching to go play doctor with the President instead of getting verbally abused for House's amusement.

#house md #house md spoilers #i mean #the show is like a decade old but Kutner's death is kind of a big spoiler #lawrence kutner #but like #u KNOW Taub and Foreman would be seething with jealousy #kutner shows up one morning like hey guys i got a new job! I'll miss you! #and house makes some bitchy comment about who would be crazy enough to hire the guy who set a patient on fire #and Kutner is like the president did lol #thirteen would find Foreman's undying rage HILARIOUS im sure #i like to hc that Kutner is her Little Buddy™ #Taub would be ready to kill someone #and House is mad bc well its p much impossible for him to meddle #can't very well intimidate and terrorize the president into not hiring one of ur emotional support ducklings bc ur jealous #wilson and cuddy c plot (Kutner's political career is the b plot patients are a plot obviously) #where they have to desperately try to prevent house from being arrested for domestic terrorism (stalking the president) #but yeah they should have just given Kutner the same reason his actor had for leaving #bc i think it would make Taub kill himself out of rage and Foreman would be chewing glass and House is going to end up on a watch list #meanwhile Thirteen is so proud of her emotional support Little Guy™ even if she's too busy talking Taub and Foreman off the ledge #to properly congratulate him #im objectively correct and kind of want to write this as an au fic

[swinging-stars-from-satellites]

uh oh <- thought too hard about Hum Hallelujah again

#''I love you in the same way there's a chapel in a hospital'' gets really upsetting when you think about how none of the others knew #until after the fact. and even then patrick only knew becayse he had to take over tour logistics #like. there were no hospital waiting room prayers. no moment in the stained glass light. just mad scrambling and not understanding #gosh frick I'm practically writing rpf in my own tags but listen. listen I do still on some level think that there's another POV in hum #remix of YOUR guts... peter only one of you got your stomach pumped. the hospital chapel line is just so clearly #a different POV in my mind. it's just so.... #sorry y'all have to see this I'm putting it here instead of wordvomiting it into robin's DMs #Lu rambles #fob #my roman empire....

[riverofrainbows]

Lately I'm hearing a lot about PDA and autism (PDA = pathological demand avoidance) and it's very good that people become more aware of it and are able to learn more about their own needs. However i often see it framed as like a type of autism, as in PDA autism that's just this thing that happens randomly.

But it isn't just a flavour of autism or something that comes from who-knows-what, it's a trauma response. To having forced yourself to do so much shit that goes against your needs, to feeling like you have to/having to force yourself to do things that go over your capacity, that disregard your needs and do harm to you. Including things where people don't even know their own needs and can't communicate them.

It's a trauma response caused by a lack of autonomy and accommodations (from yourself for whatever reason and your environment). To the point where having to do anything, hearing any demand causes this message of doom to your nervous system

And there is a very simple but not easy solution to it, with the potential of even a cure: Do not force yourself to do anything until your nervous system has healed. Now this is very hard to be able to do, which is the difficult part, because most of us aren't in an environment where we can do that, often have to work etc to survive and don't have people support us for a few years while we do not acquiesce to any demand. Additionally, many of us don't even know how to honor our needs because we trampled all over them for years, were forced to mask them and might not even know what they are or how to recognise them in ourselves.

A possible way to at least some healing of our nervous system is getting to know our needs and working on meeting them better, to try and build down the mask and only conciously use it where necessary but for example not at home or in a safe space, and try to have as many safe spaces to unmask as possible. You might only be able to start while completely alone but even that helps. Another point is decomposition time, soup time as i call it. Where we take however much time we have available, preferably at least a couple days, whenever we can, and do not force ourselves to do anything, even hobbies or getting out of pyjamas, except staying alive, and just drift like driftwood. This also massively helps with autistic burnout.

One additional tipp to recognising our suppressed needs and wants is that when you think "Oh i want this" but immediately shut yourself down: try to recognise this happening and ask yourself "Why can't i do this?" and if you don't have a good reason why not, try doing the thing you want. Might be something as simple as a juice packet or be some leftover rule from childhood. Similar for "I don't look forward to that": if you don't have a reason why you have to do it, and do it exactly this way, consider not doing it. For example you don't have to go to an outing you are very uncomfortable at. You don't have to do the dishes a certain way even tho it's awful sensory wise. Try finding those small impulses and listening to them. It gets easier over time.

This PDA trauma response is also one of the factors of executive dysfunction. Especially for things like when we can't even do our own hobbies or plans we had that we enjoy. Other reasons for executive dysfunction are difficulty transition tasks, sensory issues that make us avoid a task, pending decisions related to the tasks, unknown elements of a task, or not wanting to interrupt the current activity such as listening to music or watching a show (especially since these are big tools for escapism and distraction/coping to keep emotional distress at bay or otherwise aid in emotional regulation).

Btw this whole essay is built on my own experiences, i am not a psychologist or professionally qualified in some other way. So do take this with some critical thinking as my sources are "it's in my head" and we should never take (mental) health advice on the internet without thinking about whether it makes sense and applies to us, and do additional research if any questions or doubts or further thoughts come up.

#own post #if i need to go to the toilet or get a glass of water but i don't want to do it if i have to stop my show then i will just take it with me #even if i watch it on the laptop and not my phone i will just haul the laptop to the bathroom for two minutes #can highly recommend #i have had this issue with forcing myself to do things made so much more poignant because i also became physically disabled but would force #myslef to push through it and hide it from ny surroundings as well. it made me quickly realise my limits tho #and i had the opportunity to not fulfill many demands thanks to my parents and the free time of semester breaks #and unmasking at about the same time #so this whole post speaks from personal experience