#you are perpetuating transphobia

[lostryu]

once again i am crawling out of my den to tell you all that if someone says “women” on a post, and your thoughts automatically jump to “they must be excluding trans women” you do not think trans women are women.

like just saying, your default of women clearly does not include trans women. otherwise you wouldn’t get so tilted if someone says ‘women’ and not ‘women and trans women’. you are acting like trans women are a subset of actual women and it’s disgusting.

and if you wanna cry terf psy-op or whatever, let me be very frank when i say that you need to grow up. its not people’s responsibility to have a huge disclaimer on every post to pander to your lack of critical thought.

#transphobia #trans women are women #like there are psy-ops on this site #but the word women is not the dogwhistle you think it is #the same goes for the word men #if you read men in a post and automatically assume they mean trans women #you aren’t the ally you think you are #you are perpetuating transphobia

[armoralor]

people obsessed with cishet ships: You see this character that's a man? Well, every woman around him is secretly in love with him. Each and every one want to settle down with him, buy a house, and raise a nuclear family.

normal fandom enjoyers: Sure, I guess. But maybe some of them are just friends? Like, platonic non-romantic companionship? Not all of those women seem to be interested in that kind of thing. Plus, what if some of those women are queer and trans; surly not all of them want to marry and have kids either.

people obsessed with cishet ships: Why do you hate women!?? Why do you hate mothers? You're such a misogynist for saying women can't be soft and motherly. Why does every women have to be a lesbian???? Why are you pushing an agenda? I'm going to throw up, this is so gross. You pointing this out is bullying!!!! And YOU'RE transphobic for wanting a character to be a lesbian. People who like shipping straight characters need to come together in SOLIDARITY because of these MEAN gays.

#fetishizing gay men occasionally on the side (when they don't get in the way of your main cishet ship) does NOT make you an ally #i am begging everyone to do some self reflection and learn about Compulsory Heterosexuality #+ examine why you have such intense reactions to lesbians & queer folks #bo katan kryze #the mandalorian #bo-katan kryze #sabine wren #ahsoka #star wars #rebels #din djarin #and if i hear any more shit against lesbians that “ohhh they started transphobia” I WILL FUCKING LOSE MY MIND #LESBIANS HAVE THE HIGHEST ACCEPTANCE OF TRANS FOLKS SO FUCK OFF WITH THAT SHIT #TERFs and transphobic assholes sadly exist within every every demographic grouping #because iT'S WHAT THE PATRIARCHY PERPETUATES AS “NORMAL” YOU DONUTS #fandom wank #discourse #salt #text post #ezra bridger

[spitblaze]

if you genuinely think that transmascs and trans men trying to talk about their issues with their own terms is transmisogynistic or 'mens rights activism 2.0' i genuinely and kindly invite you to maybe like. idk. consider that someone identifying with masculinity doesnt prevent them from facing unique forms of descrimination

#spitblaze says things #i dont want to be mean i just genuinely do not know why people see trans dudes talking in their own spaces about their own problems #and assume this is an attack on trans women for some reason #ps if you say 'trans men dont face unique issues its all just misogyny' #i geniunely wholeheartedly invite you to talk to trans men and transmascs in real life and not on the internet #im not the smartest person here. im not the most experienced #but i feel like downplaying our issues as 'garden variety transphobia and misogyny' is. ill say it. a little transphobic #trans people are not immune to perpetuating transphobia 👍

[pirateswhore]

remember how a few years ago gender neutral bathrooms were all the rage and everyone was advocating for them but then people realised it would include trans people too so they did a 180° and went back to "bathrooms must be protected and used as safe spaces for women at all costs <3 🥺".

sod off. say you're transphobic and sod the fuck off.

#tw sex abuse #transphobia #tw sex assault #but i was openly assaulted in the school's girl bathroom by a classmate #he feeely walked in and harrased me MULTIPLE TIMES #if you think a sign is ever going stop assault from happening you're fucking stupid #men dont NEED an excuse or permission to assault women they just do it and society fucking lets them #rape/sex assault is a social issue first n foremost & as long as we continue to support and perpetuate rape culture it's going to exist #no trans person is going to assault you they just want to piss sharon #no rapist is going to cross dress in order to disguise themselves #not when assaults already happen in broad daylight in front of people and no one bats an eye #all your transphobia does is hurt trans people and whoever doesn't fit your fucked up image of what “man” and “women” are #stop pretending its about protecting women when you dont actually give a fuck about them

[twunkzilla]

Once you meet like cishet dudes that are actually cool and you can dudebro around its the funnest shit I'm like dude imagine for every birthday as a kid you just got barbie dolls and dollar store nail polish and they were like broooo that sounds awful I know your pain

#my straight boy friends are lowkey gay as fuck but #being the person i am i have an easier time with cis men than women #just cause cis men are much more overt with transphobia and they tend to see how im like them and appreciate my aggro male rigomoroll #with women i feel like ahhh im out of place youre all bathed and shit #you keep your voices at an even speaking level 😭😭 #jk straight cis girls scare the shit out of me and they tend to think im like them for some reason so ill see them make shit up and project #deffo been traumatized by both cisgenders but i think i focus more on trauma from women cause it lasts so long #with gossipping and snitching and making shit up to their boyfriends #so with men it was usually one and done id get my ass kicked but the cycle was perpetuated by their crusty girls #god theyre like fucking symbiotic species #anyway no hate all genders are valid both real men and women and cis men and women

[dawningfairytale]

hey, hey, joanne. why, in your publishing career, have you used your gender neutral name and a male name? doesn't that mean you're forcing yourself into male spaces? why don't you want to be perceived as the gender you were assigned at birth?

#anti jkr #fuck jkr #anti jk rowling #fuck jk rowling #tw jkr #tw jk rowling #tw transphobia #please let me know if i need to add a trigger #also please let me know if i've said anything out of line #unless you're a terf in which case fuck off i have the block button ready #please note: #i am not suggesting that jkr is trans #because that would be suggesting that trans people are responsible for their own oppression #which is not the case. that is a harmful stereotype about all queer people and i do not want to perpetuate it. what i am saying is that jkr #this far oversimplifies the deep issues with her rhetoric #and there are many sources by trans people which i urge you to seek out. anyway #point is #fuck jkr.)

[relativelyfvcked]

people will put cis women and transmascs in the same group wrt transphobia and not see the problem

#'ohhh im so distrusting of transmascs and their nondescript transphobia' yeah and we're tired of being told we're transphobic #never actually a mention of perpetuated transphobia just hypotheticals. #yall are way too online #somehow other trans people pose a greater threat to you than the cis people that would love to kill us. ok. fucking idiots

[mothlm]

Hm. Don't think I like the term theyfab

#any time someone identifies someone they dislike by their AGAB i think transphobia #ironic bc the post in question is about transmisogyny #you lost me when you implied all TME people perpetuating transmisogyny are 'bitchy lesbians' #vague #a.txt

[houseofpurplestars]

"I am always astounded by how often Ray Blanchard’s autogynephilia theory is cited or invoked, given that it has been so resoundingly refuted in the research literature."

Wow okay apparently some of yall need some help so pls read this.

#trans #cw transphobia #literally saw someone use this term for sylki #like #look you can critique without perpetuating harmful outdated ideas mmkay? #loki

[mattressdemon]

i noticed some (cis) ppl have unfollowed me following my posting about harry potter. it must be very uncomfortable to have someone dislike something you feel is a part of you.

#im not complaining they're doing me and them a favor #but js maybe you should think about why you say you're an ally but draw the line at the desire to participate in consumerism w/ hp and rowli #i don't care if you like harry potter #it's hard to love something and not be able to enjoy it as openly as you want #what i care about is the harm you are perpetuating by lining her pockets #harry potter #antisemitism #transphobia #notes

[armoralor]

some folks are discussing fandom infighting, but I haven’t still seen any examples of wolfwren stans sending hate. I scrolled through every comment on the Ahsoka casts’ posts (yes all of them) and the only hate I saw was homophobia aimed at wolfwren.

does anyone have examples & links to wolfwren fans being toxic? so we as a community can block them + make sure they understand they aren’t welcome in the fandom? I have dozens of tangible examples of the vile hate people have sent to wolfwren stans (x x x) and a long list of transphobes/homophobes if anyone wants a block list.

#wolfwren #to be completely honest #I’m tired of the “both sides” argument once again when I can’t find any actual hate towards cishet ships #and i mean actual HATE & not silly “RIP [shipname here]” or “those characters are fam not romantic.” #so if someone is doing it I want to know so we can prevent them from being in the community because they are not welcome. #also- don't forget being called homophobic is *not* the same as discriminated against for being gay. #yes it hurts to be queer and called homophobic BUT that doesn't mean you weren't being homophobic. anyone can perpetuate harm #just like any women can be misogynist & have internalized misogyny- any member of the LGBTQIA+ can perpetuate homophobia + transphobia. #nobody gets an “out” for being in the community. if you are queer and called homophobic it's perhaps time to reflect #on if you do happen to have any unchecked biases from the comphet society around you. #text

[dihalect]

the notes on here do sometimes make me feel like my brain is being grated into mush. but somehow twitter manages to be twenty times worse

#txt #gonna be describing transphobia/transmisogyny and a skosh of racism ahead #someone: ‘’ppl can dress however they want. but this ‘femboy’ cis guy streamer shouldn’t be making trap jokes. #that’s perpetuating notions that put trans women in real danger.’’ #the replies: #‘’saying men shouldnt wear dresses isnt the woke pro trans take you think it is sweetie’’ #(<- please learn to read) #‘’trans women arent dying bc some dude wore a skirt’’ <- again. please learn to read #‘’you need therapy’’ x20 #‘’why are the BLACKS and the TRANS always making their shit other ppls problem’’ #‘’no. STEALTH DATING. which trans people ceaselesssly promote. is what gets trans women killed’’ #(<- i have been in the trans community for 10 years and have heard of ppl doing this like. twice. and only learned the term from. this tweet #) #and loads more. so much more

[platinumsupa]

Debated even making a post about this, but it really sucks that the oversexulization of trans women is treated like online micro-discourse. Transfeminity being seen purely as sexual is the basis fueling a HUGE percentage of the transphobia sweeping through the US and UK. Behind almost every single bathroom bill and legislation defining being trans as obscene is a politician saying something akin to “we need to protect womens spaces from dangerous biological males who will sneak in and sexually assault them.” People automatically assuming trans women to be sexual predators is exactly why groomer became the go-to insult on the right.

So of course trans women on tumblr get mad when you say “why are you posting about misogyny when we could be fucking? 😋” or respond to them asking you to be normal about trans women with a “YESSS I LOVE GIRLCOCK step on me tgirls 😍” It’s perpetuating the same problem in the other direction.

[tchaikovsgay]

this might be a controversial opinion but i think we unnecessarily platform terfs way too much. people cant even make a fun harmless trans post without people jumping on to be like "yeah, fuck terfs!" and its like. severely not about that at all

tumblr terfs love attention. they feed off of it, ESPECIALLY negative attention which is what some of yall are constantly giving them. if you dont want them interacting with your blog or w/e, thats fine, of course you dont! but everyone quietly blocking them while focusing on trans positivity would be way more beneficial than making the focus entirely about giving them the attention that theyre frothing at the mouth for

and frankly the focus on terfs takes away from conversations about casual transphobia that exists outside of just radical feminism. not everyone hides their transphobia under the guise of being a super feminist, and saying "fuck terfs" makes people feel like theyre above ever perpetuating transphobia, which is DEFINITELY not true

#maybe its time we replaced 'terfs dni' with 'trans safe' or 'trans positive' or something like that #idk ive never had terfs dni on my blog and i never have an issue with them interacting because i just #post supportively abt trans people #its that easy honestly #rant

[avi-on-jumblr]

awful tweet warning:

Before I describe everything that's wrong with this tweet, let me transcribe Stephen Fry's words:

I am Stephen Fry, and I am a Jew. The great Irish thinker and writer Conor Cruise O'Brien once said that antisemitism is a light sleeper. Well, it seems to have woken up of late. The horrendous events of October 7th, and the Israeli response, seem to have stirred up this ancient hatred. It's agonizing to see all violence and destruction that is unfolding, and the terrible loss of life on both sides brings me an overwhelming sadness and heartache. But whatever our opinions on what is happening, there can be no excuse for the behaviour of some of our citizens. Since October the 7th, there have been 50 separate reported incidents of antisemitism every single day in London alone, an increase of 1350%, according to the Metropolitan police. Shop windows smashed, stars of David and swastikas daubed on walls of Jewish properties, synagogues, and cemeteries. Jewish schools have been forced to close. There is real fear stalking the Jewish neighbourhoods of Britain. Jewish people here are becoming fearful of showing themselves, in Britain, in 2023.

(Then it cuts off.)

For those who still don't know why this tweet was ignorant and inane, let me explain.

"To hear him conflate antiZionism with antisemitism has shocked me."

Guess how many times Stephen Fry mentions zionism? Zero! Guess how many times he mentions the country of Israel? Zero! (Unless you count "the Israeli response" which is unrelated to the existence of the country, or Zionism at all.) What this person is saying, is that they consider the smashing of shop windows, and the vandalism and marking of Jewish property, to be anti-Zionism. Considering they are an anti-Zionist, by following their logic, we can conclude that they not only believe this destruction and harassment is acceptable, but they believe it is ethical.

Further, they accuse him of showing no care for the Palestinians, even though he explicitly states that the loss of life on both sides brings him overwhelming sadness.

Finally, they accuse him of "[Centring] people in this country". It is disturbing that this person believes one cannot be concerned over two issues at a time. It perpetuates the idea that we can only talk about the "worst oppression" and talking about anything else means you are complicit in "silencing" someone else. If this were true, we would not be allowed to talk about Gaza either, or Ukraine, or police brutality, racism, islamophobia, homophobia, transphobia, and so on and so on, because clearly there are other issues with hundreds of thousands more deaths, and millions more displacements, so why bring attention to it ever?

Unfortunately, people are not talking about those countries, like Syria, Yemen, Ethiopia, Congo, and more, and anyone who does is spammed with "free Palestine" comments. In fact, the most I've heard people talking about Sudan is when these TikTok geopolitical experts attempt to spam the Palestinian flag and get it wrong.

This is not new. This is obviously not new. I have seen tweets like these every single day in the hundreds for the last 80 days. It is not surprising that people think smashing windows is "anti-zionism", nor that they think it good. It is not surprising that they hear a Jew speak, and experience shock and disgust, regardless of what we say.

I do wonder if they would regard anything short of a second Holocaust as antisemitism.

#antisemitism #i/p #jumblr #israel #palestine #stephen fry #israel palestine conflict #leftist antisemitism #gaza #avi posts

[exploding-car-hammer]

now that i've spammed and am for sure getting fucking banned, i will talk about Matt and why what he did is fucking disgusting and horrendous

many transgender individuals have had safe for work selfies and other pictures of themselves taken down or flagged on account of being nsfw. this is blatant transphobia due to multiple reasons

1. tagging something related to transgender individuals as nsfw when it is clearly sfw helps to perpetuate the bigoted myth that being transgender is a fetish or kink

2. by censoring our existence you are actively preventing us from even trying to defend ourselves from bigotry or attempting to correct stereotypes or harmful misinformation

recently the incidents have crossed the boundary even farther than usual with the banning of predstrogen. she had the thing described above happen to her because it had been mass reported by terfs and other transphobic individuals. after having the photo taken down she made a joke about wishing the ceo of tumblr @photomatt (im for some reason not allowed to tag him anymore) wash in a car crash involving explosions and hammers. he took this joke seriously and decided to do 2 things

1. ban her because he couldn't take a joke amd he couldn't handle having his transphobia called out

2. threatened to call the fbi on her because he couldn't take a joke and couldn't handle being called out

now i don't know if you know this but organizations like the fbi don't particularly have a great history with minorities. so calling them is basically equivalent to Matt walking up to her and shooting her in the face. if the fbi was called it wouldn't be a raid or a peaceful capture, it would be an execution.

and now we move on to what is currently happening. multiple users have been banned for joking about the situation or discussing it and he's attempting to hide evidence of his actions while also lying about what happened. his defensive statements only make him look worse because of his lies and other reasons such as referring to pred as "it" (according to her bio pred uses she/him). this is extreme transphobia and it needs to be pointed out, called out, and discussed. if these things happen we could hopefully see Matt pay for his actions (there's a legitimate legal case against him btw just pointing that out).

anyways im going to be posting this to my cohost and tranfem social accounts because im probably getting banned and i would like what i said here to be preserved.

don't be quiet.

your voice is important in this situation

#photomatt #trans #transgender #lgtbtq