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chrisgeneering624 · 1 year
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GUYS DONT CLICK THIS LINK THEY DONT WANT TO HOOK UP WITH YOU 😭😭😭
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violent138 · 1 year
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One day, when my sleeve was sticky with blood,
I asked a friend how she knew she was in love.
She talked about the caterpillars she'd eaten,
About the way her heart was beating.
There was a light in her eyes,
And a longing in her sighs.
Nodding, I played along,
Pretending I didn't hate this song,
Nothing in those golden words,
Told me why I liked the hurt.
Why I stayed, longed, wanted,
Someone that didn't think I counted.
Why I was putting pressure,
On a leaking fissure,
Slicing and dicing out bits of me,
Until I looked how you wanted it to be.
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boyalasco · 2 years
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5 Tips to Stay Safe Online: A Beginner's Guide to Living a Safer Digital Life
5 Tips to Stay Safe Online: A Beginner’s Guide to Living a Safer Digital Life
Important Tips To Stay Safe Online ‍Online safety is a big deal in the digital world. It’s an unfortunate truth that the internet is not a safe place. Hackers, cybercriminals, and other malicious actors can find ways to take advantage of users who are uneducated about the internet security and online privacy. If you  are concerned about keeping your data private while browsing the web, there are…
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pixlokita · 4 months
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I feel like ? I gotta remind people it’s ok to unfollow a blog when it upsets you in any way >> like if I ever do that sure, you can let me know if it was anything I did personally I’d appreciate it but if you just don’t enjoy something it’s ok to unfollow ;w; can’t stress enough how important it is to put your mental health first 👌
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gen-z-superheroes · 8 months
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"Stopncii.org is a free tool designed to support victims of Non-Consensual Intimate Image (NCII) abuse."
"Revenge Porn Helpline is a UK service supporting adults (aged 18+) who are experiencing intimate image abuse, also known as, revenge porn."
"Take It Down (ncmec.org) is for people who have images or videos of themselves nude, partially nude, or in sexually explicit situations taken when they were under the age of 18 that they believe have been or will be shared online."
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cemeterything · 1 year
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"online friendships aren't real friendships" shut the fuck up i literally have custom heart emojis for all my friends on discord
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wispscribbles · 1 month
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hi i just discovered your beautiful art so i obviously needed to scroll down your whole blog to catch up on everything you posted haha
i just wanted to say that i got way too emotional after reading that post of yours regarding mw3 and your mental health… on one hand i’m so sorry that you felt that way, but on the other i feel it with my whole heart
ghoap content especially for me helped me these past few months with my mental health in ways i would never have expected, it was my solace and inspiration, i started working out too and got back into drawing, got a lot better at it as well!
but unfortunately i get way too fixated on fictional stuff and there comes a time that my brain switches up and connects the things i liked and comforted me with things that make me extremely uncomfortable and stressed out, especially if i fall down a fandom rabbit hole that i would never have searched up, beacuse i know myself, i know my limits and triggers but i feel like i’m not a part of the fandom if i don’t like and interact with every single headcanon, art and ship
these past days i was really down because of that, and the things i read (why did i do that???) and now when i think of ghoap i think of that stuff and im scared that i alienated myself from the one thing that made me happy
but discovering your art and with that your post reminded me that im not alone in these feelings, even if it’s not the same exactly, and i wanted to thank you, for sharing your thoughts that time i guess haha <33
((sorry for rambling))
Long reply under 'keep reading' !! CW: talk of triggers and MCD
Always feel free to ramble my way!!! How nice you could find some comfort in my art and ghoap stuff. Especially in my mw3 post. I've been considering deleting it a few times, but hearing it maybe helped to read in some way makes me happy I left it up.
I get where you're coming from - I very much use these fictional characters as a safe space, but ppl view them very differently. There's room for it all, "don't like, don't interact" is very much a policy I agree with. It's important to mute words and be aware of your own triggers as you browse stuff in this fandom, because there's such a wide variety of stuff out there. You do NOT have to interact and agree with every thought people have on this ship, that's impossible and super stressful. There's plenty of stuff and headcanons I don't vibe with. There are no 'requirements' that you have to meet in order to enjoy fiction.
It's part of why I enjoy ghoap - that their dynamic resonates and has sparked so much creativity and outlets for so many - but it also means there's gonna be a lot of stuff u don't necessarily agree with or feel comfortable with. For example, a lot of folks use the MCD in mw3 as a way to explore grief, which I think is really cool, but on a bad day that could potentially get my brain in a bad headspace, so I only check out that art and those fics when I feel okay. There's also a bunch of stuff I'd never want to interact with, and that’s fine !!
I'm personally quite vanilla and a sucker for exploring the softer, more domestic aspects of these characters. It's what brings me joy. I know there are parts of this fandom who don’t vibe with what I make at all, and would call it untrue to the characters. Some creators enjoy exploring the more violent or toxic sides to the source material. That's just how it is, we all need different things from fiction. As long as we're capable of chilling in our respective sandboxes, then all's good.
But if you're like me, and enjoy the softer things, then definitely be aware and careful while exploring this ship and fandom. I've seen takes on these characters that are so far removed from how I view them, that they're basically the complete opposite, and it can leave a very bad taste, especially if you're the type to hinge your safe space on fiction.
Just... be mindful of yourself and your potential triggers, be respectful and don't interact with things that make you uncomfortable to the point of feeling unsafe. Shape your own online experience to your best ability.
Hope you're doing okay and still find joy in ghoap <3
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littleesister · 29 days
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Tickle rp - green and red flags
Hello dears, I’ve recently had a few conversations with my new lers and lees. And I wanted to make a checklist on how to stay safe during rp
Remember consent is given before, after and during all types of intimacy, so here are a few examples:
Before:
Age and pronouns
What names and nicknames may be used
Ask about boundaries
Decide what spots are going to be tickled
Spots that are gonna be avoided
What tools to use or avoid
Restraints, pinning and how close the lee and ler should be
If both parties should have a safe word
During:
ONLY tickle or mention spots that have been chosen
ONLY use tools and nicknames that have been chosen
Regularly check in and ask questions
Give options for breaks and changing position or technique
Respect safe words and boundaries
If someone changes their mind about a spot stop and talk about it
After:
Cuddles and reassurances
Relax and talk about calming things while both parties recollect themselves
Don’t evaluate instantly since both parties are still full of dopamine and the brain needs time to come down from a high and flustered mood
After a few minutes or even the next day evaluate how the session went for both parties
Stay in contact and don’t just disappear after you’ve gotten what you wanted
Tips for the ler:
Remember you are in a position of power and it’s your responsibility to be in charge since your lee is in a different headspace at the moment. Be carful not to go with the flow. The lee might say yes or keep giggling if you ask them something but afterwards they might regret it. In a flustered headspace you can’t think straight nor consent to a new thing. So that’s why boundaries were sett before. Stick to the script!
Tips for lees
Be on the lookout is your ler asking for boundaries, checking in and staying on track. Are they prioritizing your wants and needs? Do you feel safe to be vulnerable or does it feel forced? If you at any point get an icky or uncomfortable feeling, use a safe word and speak out. You can change your options before, after and during. But remember it’s harder to change something afterwards so speak up. And if you feel like you can’t be open with your ler, then why are you with them!
Please stay safe and rember people lie all the time online and in real life about their age, personality and intentions. If at any point someone feels disingenuous you have two options:
confront them
or
ignore them
A few last tips
Don’t laugh at or make an overstepping of a boundary into a joke, you’re valid to sett a stop and guidelines so don’t discredit yourself.
If an apology is mostly self centered and not taking your feelings into account it’s not genuine.
You don’t owe anyone anything: no pictures, no roleplay, no reactions and no time.
Be aware of gaslighting, manipulation, narcissistic and psychopathic tendencies and how to spot these actions.
Say no, use safe words, speak up, ignore, ghost, leave behind and move on, you deserve only the best
If someone makes you feel uncomfortable they aren’t worthy of your time and that’s period!
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floralcavern · 11 days
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Meeting with an online friend in a couple of days. While I trust him, safety is important, so, hey, mini PSA. Here are tips to stay safe when meeting up with an online friend:
•Bring someone you trust and know irl with you. For example, I’m bringing my older brother with me.
•Bring any form of self defense. Pepper pray, a pocket knife, hell, maybe even some brass knuckles, you never know.
•Meet them in a public area. That way if they try anything, there will be too many people.
•Please make sure plenty of other people in your irl life know you’re meeting up with them. I’ve told several of my friends about it, so they know who to track down if I get attacked.
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sleepanonymous · 8 months
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Just a gentle reminder because I refuse to get caught up in fandom drama and make a huge post. Aside from the official Sleep Token accounts:
Vessel does not have public social media and will not contact you.
II does not have public social media and will not contact you.
III no longer has public social media and will not contact you.
IV does not have public social media and will not contact you.
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dr-amnesia · 2 months
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SPREAD THE NEWS ABOUT KOSA
I just found out about this. I don't have a lot of information about it, but its a horrible fucking internet bill and we need to stop it. If you don't know about it yet, please look on the tag for information. We need to spread this or a lot of people, especially minors, are going to be hurt.
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jowobaby · 7 months
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I’m driving a couple states to stay with my friend and his wife and after two years of being buddies he didn’t know how Yuri on Ice obsessed I am.
So I’m bringing my bluray and we are gonna watch it and I’m not expecting him to LOVE it but who couldn’t like this anime, right? Anyway he’s a forward thinking 49 year old so WISH ME LUCK
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mrmistopher · 10 days
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Be wary of Discord
Discord users have been selling your server data to website Spy.Pet to allow a cryptocurrency service where, with payment and giving them ID, you are able to access messages from users across hundreds of servers.
NDon't stand idly. Keep making posts and messaging about this and spread the word. This is a danger to the privacy of many and an open pathway for people to weaponize messages of yours. Stay safe!
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