#and it shouldn’t matter but like

[reverie-starlight]

I’m genuinely so sad that I don’t have any Halloween plans

#reverie rambles #I was gonna do a sleepover with my cousin but she didn’t tell me that she meant over the weekend #until Friday night #and I already had plans #so that was a bust #and it shouldn’t matter but like #it’s my favourite holiday and everyone is posting abt how much fun they had on halloweekend #and all my friends are busy already #so. I’ll be home alone all day bc I don’t have classes.

[myfriendgoo94]

Idk what i have to do to convince some of you that TRANS WOMEN ARE PEOPLE ACTUALLY. We don’t exist solely for you to figure out your kink shit. We have FUCKING FEELINGS. When you cheat on your wife with us IT COUNTS. Trans women do not exist to be fetishized by ASSHOLES who all think they are good and progressive dudes cuz they “recognize us as girls” and are “giving trans girls a chance”. You’re all MANIPULATIVE SCUMBAGS actually. “Recognizing us as girls” and only wanting us so that you can try out sucking a dick can NOT coexist. You see us as fetish objects and this is brutally clear. I’m not saying you can’t have an interest in us, or be attracted to us, but plz CONSIDER THE FACT THAT WE ARE PEOPLE WITH FEELINGS before you even say “hi”.

#if we are actually women than it shouldn’t matter what genitals we have #like at all actually #trans #transgender #trans women

[theamazingannie]

Saw someone compare password sharing to buying a clothing item and expecting everyone in their family to get the same item for free and it’s like…no. It’s like me buying a shirt and letting my sister wear the shirt when I’m not wearing it. And then being told that I am not allowed to let my sister wear the shirt anymore because she doesn’t live with me. But continue making dumb arguments on the internet, bootlicker

#netflix #like she already pays extra so two people can use the account at the same time #if one person isn’t watching there is no reason someone else shouldn’t be allowed to watch #no matter where they physically are #It’s not like we’re sharing with the entire neighborhood #the immediate family is sharing it #just like we did before my sister moved out #now she’s going to go from paying for a service five people shared to being the only one using it #and my parents are going to have to dish out more money than they did before #to use a service they has already been able to use before without the extra money #just admit that netflix is money hungry and shit and we should all drop their asses

[chandralia]

any genuine iteration I try to imagine of Ochako’s confession is her being like “you inspired and motivated me, I thought of you to guide me through my battles. But I kept it from you so I could focus on being a hero”

and Deku’s just like “oh my god I’m in love with Kacchan”

#the realization hits him like a brick ! #I just feel like no matter how you look at this… Deku’s reciprocation to her crush is lacking SEVERELY #HE IS NOT GONNA SAY ‘ME TOO’ WHEN SHE CONFESSES BE SERIOUS. #at the very least he’ll be surprised and it’ll be a ‘you shouldn’t bottle up your feelings’ thing… and then what?? #’I’m so glad you told me. let’s go out’ ??????? REALLY??? #THAT’S IT???? THAT’S THE CONCLUSION TO THIS DETRIMENTAL ARC OF HIDING A CRUSH FOR THIS LONG????? #😭😭 #THIS is what people want? the bare minimum…? #bkdk #dkbk #bakudeku #dekubaku #:’)

[shepscapades]

Hey! i’m really into the dbch story and i was wondering if doc and xisuma ever tell bdubs the specifics of why etho lost his memories, cause if they do that is prime self blaming angst for bdubs

I’m inclined to believe they don’t. Actually (and maybe I should do a small comic for this so more people see it) I imagine, once a month or a few pass and they finally return etho to bdubs as reset, I imagine they are VERY serious about warning bdubs not to try to force Etho to re-deviate— they don’t go into specifics, but they probably tell bdubs that whatever happened had to do with something that was emotionally overwhelming, and that forcing him to redeviate/not letting it happen naturally could trigger the same error. They have no idea what could happen so bdubs needs to be very careful and let Etho find himself again on his own.

Whether or not bdubs gets impatient or can only go so long before he doubts it would be that bad if he tried pushing Etho in the right direction is another story.

But yeah. I don’t think Xisuma or Doc really… tell anyone that this happened. Etho’s error seemed like a very specific one-off scenario, so it’s not something the other hermits should be trying to avoid or be careful about happening to their own android friends, and the only thing telling people would do is make them worried about the situation. All they need to know is that etho was broken and that they need to be careful with him. I don’t agree with their decision to keep what happened to themselves but I understand it I think. Xisuma “i don’t want to worry the hermits” Void and Docm “eh this isn’t the first time I’ve replaced this arm, people won’t question it” 77

#that’s a lie actually I think xisuma ends up telling Cleo :> #but only because Cleo is very smart and I think they should be close in this au :] #but no she would clock Tired Overworked Existential Crisis Xisuma in an instant #Cleo calls them both idiots and gives them big hugs and tells them they need therapy. also that they’re welcome by her place anytime to talk #it’s very sweet and healing to me #this is where “all things end’’ on Xisuma’s playlist comes in actually #oh my god I got so off topic #BDUBS IS GOING TO FEEL GUILTY NO MATTER WHAT THOUGH #like okay. technically #the reason etho shut down is because he was freaking out that everything was his fault #(last life—not giving bdubs a heart— trying to win for bdubs and then losing— coming back to s8 feeling like he can’t face bdubs—> #ending up leaving him alone when the moon hit #and bdubs was hurt by these things. no doubt #but bdubs just wants his friend back and maybe he’s a little reckless about it #bdubs hides his emotions behind cartoonish frustration and complaining but he feels bad #he feels like he should be doing more to ‘save’ etho and bring him back even though he was to #told* he shouldn’t #dbhc ask #dbhc #dbhc bdubs #dbhc etho #dbhc doc #dbhc xisuma #ask #anon

[tnnrrdchclt]

#gets me very far. i’m just going through it and annoyed at myself when i shouldn’t be because i can’t anticipate everything — #no matter how intuitive i am or regardless of how much discernment i have. #i hate being here. i feel like i made excuses in hopes of not being here and still ended up here. #i wouldn’t even call them excuses because i thought i was giving grace and clearly looks like grace at my expense is a betrayal. #i’m getting better at choosing myself. at the moment it might feel like a loss and everything feels pointless and all i want to do is cry - #i never want to feel like this again. #anyone who wants to hate me can hate me. i do not care. #i will say that since i’ve posted this - it’s nice to see other folks and their take on self awareness. almost comforting i’d say.

[gaycrittercentral]

Aw hey I never posted this one!! This is from last year but I’m still real happy with it. And it never would’ve happened except that @lillylunala was nice enough to help clean up the sketch for me!! Thanks again Lilly u da best ^^

#god I love a good snuggle. every day I long to go home and snuggle my cat and my 3000 plushies #I figure max kinda feels like a weird plushie too. but with bones #hdkdjsjhsh thinking abt how technically they shouldn’t be able to show a blush lmao it’s cute it don’t matter #sam and max #sam and max freelance police #freelance husbands #my art

[itsalwaysforyou]

hold me together.

kenny ortega, descendants 2 / holly black, red glove / nicole homer, underbelly / ada limon, a new national anthem / k c cramm, christmas eve forever / kenny ortega, descendants 3 / the crane wives, curses / silas denver melvin, let dead dogs lie / natalie wee, least of all

#descendants #descendants web weaving #jay son of jafar #mal bertha #jal #i think i have said everything i could possibly say about them #just. something about mal not telling jay she wants to go back to the isle #not even asking if he wants to go back bc she’s too afraid of the answer #he’s on sports teams and girls are fawning over him and shouldn’t he be happy? why would he want to go back? #and jay. remaining steadfast as ever in his loyalty CONSTANTLY #even when mal doesn’t tell him everything. even when she lies to everyone #he’s the first one to accept her apology. ‘you were just trying to do the right thing’ #like something about devotion corrupting. how jay just wants mal back again. no matter what she does he still loves her #(for better or for worse) #AND MAL LOOKING AT HIS FUCKING STATUE LIKE THAT!!!!!!!! #the one person who truly knows her. gone. he turned away from her before he was turned into stone #oougghhhh #and just. jays presence. the way he stands behind mal in it’s going down. waiting. #they’ve done this so many times before. they’re a well oiled machine. they’re fluid and fluent and have been doing this for a long long tim #anyway. them #jal renaissance baby!!!!!!

[sophfandoms53]

I think one of the weirdest thing to me about Helluva Boss is how they keep proving that Striker is right but at the same time they refuse to let Striker himself be right.

Someone on twitter pointed out that in Oops Striker talks about it being an embarrassment to imp kind that Fizz is a purse-dog to his over-bloated master, and then, while Striker might’ve been referring to Ozzie (although the use of over-bloated makes me wonder if he truly meant Mammon), the entirety of the next episode is all about Fizz saying fuck you to Mammon (his master) and quitting his job because he doesn’t wanna be exploited or abused anymore.

And this just reminded me how in the first season they had Striker say to Blitz “Starting with the one that treats you like a plaything.” about Stolas’ treatment towards him in Harvest Moon and then in Truth Seekers (the next episode) they literally had Stolas say “Who dare threaten my impish little plaything.”

I don’t know if this parallel is on purpose but that’s twice now where in back to back episodes in each season Striker has a made a point about the hierarchy in his episode and then the following episode goes out of its way to prove his point.

I just think it’s odd how they prove that he is right in other character’s storylines but in Striker’s own storyline he’s like not allowed to have a win despite everything around him saying he should.

#idk i just have a lot of thoughts about the way striker’s story is handled #ik it probably doesn’t matter bc he’s a villain in the narrative #but I think he’s so interesting okay😭 #i just feel like striker being a villain shouldn’t negate that he IS right #but also bc he is a villain people don’t pay attention to his dialogue and won’t notice these things #like I swear no one listened to anything he said in western energy despite him saying sm about his struggles #drives me up the walllllll #why couldn’t i be obsessed with a main character #noo the cowboy had to catch my attention #we strugging out here striker nation LMAO #helluva boss #helluva boss striker #striker helluva boss #helluva boss fizzarolli #helluva boss blitz #helluva boss blitzo #helluva boss stolas

[mermaidsirennikita]

just saw a Reddit thread that was like “I wish kindle would let us change characters’ names” and I know this sounds like a ridiculous thing to be insanely annoyed by but can’t we just read shit that isn’t perfectly catered to our tastes and desires Jesus CHRIST

#romance novel blogging #books #like the refusal to step a toe outside your comfort zone and just…. tolerate things that bug #things that honestly shouldn’t matter if the book is good!!!!

[nikki-tine]

Hey so uh… when was it ever okay to push boundaries like this??

I’ve been genuinely FREAKED by the ungodly number of people (minors specifically!!) who aren’t listening to the pinned posts/bios when it says “MINORS DO NOT INTERACT”. It’s really NOT hard to respect others, and there is NO EXCUSE for this to be happening.

Seriously, this has me both concerned and pissed off (especially considering some minors’ blogs have the “25+ don’t interact!!” stuff on it - The FUCK?? Y’all that’s textbook hypocrisy, PLEASE respect those adults like those adults would respect you). How would you all blog owners under 18 feel if someone didn’t even bother to respect your bio/pinned post? Because THAT’S how it’s feeling to adult blogs who have EXPLICITLY stated they didn’t want minors interacting with the blog (that includes likes, reblogs, comments and PLEASE for the LOVE OF GOD don’t send them asks if you are under 18!!).

This is to the point where I’m having a hard time coming up with the words to better describe how this feels as someone three years away from 30. When there are boundaries set, it’s as clear-cut as “follow them or face the consequences for disrespecting them”. Squicking out my friends who are just wishing for some semblance of respect for once in their lives is NOT COOL, and it screws ANY chance at you being able to have proper community-integrated friends after you turn 18.

Respect, even down to the bio of the blog goes BOTH. WAYS.

#sfw tickling community #sfw tickle community #This is completely ridiculous and shouldn’t even be an ISSUE in the first place!! #It doesn’t matter if your thing is to rebel or be snooty to make a point… respect needs to be had y’all #It’s really NOT that hard and all you’re doing to yourself is making it harder on yourself. #I needed to get this out because quite frankly my blood is boiling over the blatant disrespect my friends have been getting recently #Also like… dude. if you’re a minor and your blog says for people over 25 not to interact then… don’t interact with those same people?? #double-standards man…

[isbergillustration]

Local drow commits murders as hobby. Art form, even. They are available for freelance atrocities, please contact their butler for details.

#i am sick and have done nothing but sleep and play bg3 for the last… since at some point yesterday #the dark urge #bg3 #baldurs gate 3 #procreate #drawing #my art #i havent had a proper cold since before covid and i hate it so much i feel like utter shit #anyway #still trying to practise digital #partly because i can draw on ipad while kitty on lap sleepy #good wait how did it become six in the morning it was just after midnight a sec ago #this took an hour and a half and the only part i like is the shading on the foliage in the background #i did consume 4 espressos after midnight but like. that shouldn’t matter.

[princessefemmelesbian]

Well would you look at this. 😵‍💫 Because obviously if you dare say anything as wild and controversial as “lesbians don’t like men, please stop using a label that hurts us and tries to force men into our identity” you’re a raging terf radfem transmisogynist. Because obviously ONLY trans women use the bi lesbian label and it’s not like there are transfem lesbians who are rightfully against the label as well or anything and it’s not like terfs use the label to refer to cis lesbians who date trans women and why can’t you just let people identify as how they want of course lesbians like men stop the infighting already if you disagree with me that lesbians can like men then surely that’s because you’re an exclusionist gatekeeper who hates trans women.

#lesbian #anti-bi lesbian #trans women #lesbophobia #the raging hatred for lesbians on this site is getting to an all-time high tall will stop at NOTHING to gaslight us and make us out to be #hateful terf bitches for our sexuality #how many times are we going to do this same old song and dance #no i will not calm down i will be taken seriously #you CANNOT be a bi women as a lesbian idfc if you’re trans or cis #lesbians do not like men and bi women shouldn’t have to ‘oick a side’ by calling themselves lesbians #it’s absurd maddening and sad how little y’all respect us #and trans women always have a place in the lesbian community that doesn’t mean that ACTUAL MEN DO #shit #trying to frame this as ‘well you must be a terf if you are against bi lesbians’ is a shitty move and you’re not being original or clever #go fuck yourself #trans lesbians exist and are valid and the bi lesbian label hurts them just like it hurts cis lesbians if anything it hurts them more so #and i will block ANYONE who supports bi lesbians it doesn’t matter if they’re a trans woman a cis woman a trans man non-binary etc idfc #stop trying to frame this as exclusionary radfem rhetoric #bi lesbian as a term DOES support corrective rape idgas what lesbophobes like you want to say about it #that’s all goodbye #sorry but this got me mad you do not get to use transmisogyny as a clutch to spout blatant ass lesbophobia #i’m so tired of this shit #blocklist #op

[dekarios]

i must admit. i feel like i’m suffocating

#fray.txt #i miss toos so bad and idk how to talk about it cuz i feel like people expect you to get over pet death quickly #but she wasn’t just a dog to me. and even if she was. shouldn’t matter .. #i miss her guys. i don’t like being alive without her

[jae-in-a-trenchcoat]

If you believe that you have to be an og fan in a fandom to be “a real one”, you don’t belong in fandom spaces.

#I’m being 100% serious right now #this is because of a tiktok comment I saw #I genuinely don’t understand #whether you’ve been in a fandom from the beginning or join later on you still like the same thing #‘I wish more people knew/cared about this!’ #*gets popular* #’I wish less people knew/cared about this!’ #people become fans of things for a multitude of reasons and at different stages #and even if they did become a fan because it became popular later on that shouldn’t matter #ogs develop a weird superiority complex #not all! #but they are there #if you can’t handle the fact people can become fans of things whenever why are you here? #ramblings

[itspileofgoodthings]

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#the thing is. and it doesn’t matter #but like. Ken’s love for Barbie was played as a joke but it also wasn’t #and I just think that his charisma and love should have been allowed to center her more and sort of …. I don’t know #sweep her up on the wave of his charm as she headed out of Barbieland into the real world #it didn’t even HAVE to make it full on romance #because I think the sort of splitting up of Barbie and Ken as this joined identity was good and necessary #and she had this journey to becoming human she had to take first #and tbh I think it would have worked if they had ended the movie as friends #with only the hint of something more #but the simple truth is that the most consistently human thing in the movie as far as SHE was concerned #was that he really loved her! and being loved that way. Is part of being human and even part of becoming human #it’s to feel that warmth and understand it #the Gloria thing didn’t really carry enough emotional weight for me. nor did the vague girlbossery. The creator was shoehorned in #or even the touching (in itself) montage of mothers and daughters at the end #but the realest relationship Barbie had the closest thing she had to it was being loved by Ken #and if they both became human? and she stepped into that space with that warmth of love supporting her #and making her step into this wider world? that would have been something #and the thing is yes yes. He’s basically the Michael Scott of Ken’s. He’s doing the things he shouldn’t be doing in reaction to it #and he has to learn and NOT do that and realize he’s kenough #but that stupid line at the end? Where Gloria’s like ‘honey he stole your house etc. don’t feel BAD for him’ #rings hollow. especially because the General Public DID feel bad for him. He was the only one to feel bad for!!!!!!!!! #so Greta and co. Tried to make this Point about rejecting the guy who thinks you Owe him Something #But Ryan’s Ken was not really that guy! He just wasn’t! The core is too pure the love is too real! so the ending is just kinda mean #and it de-centralized her! Ironically enough!!!! Ken WANTED her to have the world. His best self did! #the movie should have let him give it to her. that is really it at the end of the day #barbie