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nandostateofmind · 1 year

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I wanted to Lose Alone………..

Being Afraid of Competing………..

I wrote a goal list for 2023. On that list was competing twice for this calendar year. I was so fucking afraid. Mostly afraid because I got my ass handed to me the first tournament I attended and I was really down about it. There’s this thing about me, however, that I hate to be afraid of anything. So, when I’m afraid most of the time I just run directly at it because I would rather go out on my shield, on my own terms. It’s like if you were going to get jumped and have your ass beat anyway, why comply with the ones looking to hurt you? You going to get your ass beat anyway, might as well start swinging and fuck it. You wont win but they not going home saying boy that was easy either. So, with that logic I signed up for the tournament at the last minute. Thursday night I signed up for Saturday.

My wife and daughter wanted to go. I asked them not to. I didn’t want the additional pressure since I felt I was going to lose like and I felt like my victory was in deciding to go at all. So, I asked her if she wouldn’t go. I was going to allow my son to go because, first and foremost he does jiujitsu so he has a better understanding of what he is actually seeing on the mats. Secondly, for my son, I wanted him to understand that doing things despite being afraid is a good thing. I wanted him to understand losing with grace. During the car ride he paused for a moment and asked me, “hey dad are you afraid?” I said to him absolutely I am terrified and my stomach has been hurting for two days thinking about it. I said but I don’t like being afraid ever so I like to go at it head on and win or lose know that I went out there and tried my best regard of the outcome I could be proud of myself for trying my best.

Then there was my friend and sometimes teacher and (apparently as of now) my tournament coach. I didn’t want him to come with me because I lost so poorly the first time out. He came with me to my first tournament and thankfully another of his students came as well. So, with the other student there it took some pressure off of me because even if I lost and he won at least it wasn’t a wasted trip for my friend. This time however, it was only me competing. God bless him because he is definitely going to heaven but this man insisted he would come coach me and went as far as to take a bus to Philadelphia to come coach me through this ordeal. I just didn’t want the pressure of disappointing him twice. I hold him in super high esteem as a human but as a jiujitsu person it really gets crazy. See black belts in jiujitsu are magicians, especially at my academy. Its hard sometimes to even feel like we are practicing the same martial art when you experience what they are doing to perfectly. All of this added to the pressure. I wanted to lose alone.

I have an extremely supportive friend who trains with me assists me on techniques and generally encourages me to continuously improve. He was a recent brown belt recipient and he was feeling the nerves of competition at his new rank. He encouraged me to go out there and try my best. I’m grateful he said that because that what I ultimately did I went out there and tried my best. First match, I went out there and I was so nervous and I zero game plan except to try and score early and give myself a cushion to work for a submission. I told myself just listen to my coach and allow him to be my remote control whatever he says I will attempt to do. I ran, did jumping jacks, and pushups before the match to make sure I could get some of the nerves out. Than the match began, he pulled guard I passed got to side control position scored, went to mount scored, but then I began overthinking. I was swept out of position ended up playing bottom closed guard. Then he passed my guard and I spent the remainder of the minutes remaining making sure he couldn’t score on me since I felt extremely confident he couldn’t submit me. I won on points.

Second match came. Before it began I told my coach I’m just happy I came to compete getting a win in the first match was just a little whipped cream on this situation. He said you know you could win this whole thing, right? We didn’t come here not to lose we came here to win! For the first time since even considering competing I felt like, oh shit I could win this motherfucker! So that’s when the confidence began I stepped on the mats a new man. My coach’s game plan worked magically. I won by submission an Americana from the mount. I rolled off with the fist pump of victory. High fived my son. Hugged my coach. Texted my wife. In the grand scheme of things, it meant nothing. But for my it was a sign that I was getting better and that I conquered that fear even if only for the day. I also got my second stripe on the belt awesome moment for me.

If life works out even close to the way I would like, one day I will be a black belt one day. I will be the new brown belt worried about competing at my new rank. I will be the black belt helping a student at a tournament who is shitting himself. I will be on those mats helping out the new kid feel comfortable and one of the family in the gym like it was done for me by my coach. I hope he’s there the day I get promoted to black belt because some percentage of that was earned by him too. And all the guys and professors at the gym beating my ass all the time making me better with each roll. So maybe I was looking at it wrong I was never going to lose alone even if I had gone by myself I had the whole crew behind me. Like my coach said to me, there’s no losing you either or you learn. But that day I happened to win, I’m grateful.

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handmadebybainsy · 2 years

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ckfightlife · 2 years

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abelbjj · 2 years

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h0llier0se · 2 years

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bjjexpertblog · 11 months

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Exploring the Thriving Jiu-Jitsu Scene in Anchorage

Introduction :

Anchorage, the largest city in Alaska, may not be the first place that comes to mind when you think of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ). However, beneath its rugged exterior, Anchorage houses a vibrant and thriving BJJ community. In this blog, we will delve into the world of Jiu Jitsu in Anchorage, highlighting its growth, training opportunities, and the benefits it offers.

Growing Popularity of Jiu-Jitsu in Anchorage :

Over the past decade, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu has experienced a significant surge in popularity worldwide, and Anchorage is no exception. With its emphasis on leverage and technique rather than physical strength, BJJ appeals to a diverse range of individuals, from fitness enthusiasts to martial arts practitioners. Anchorage has witnessed the establishment of numerous BJJ academies and training centers, offering top-notch instruction for all ages and skill levels.

Training Opportunities and Facilities :

Anchorage boasts a variety of training opportunities for Jiu-Jitsu enthusiasts. Several reputable BJJ academies in the city offer classes taught by experienced black belt instructors. These academies provide a welcoming environment where students can learn and refine their techniques, regardless of their level of expertise. Additionally, many gyms in Anchorage incorporate Jiu-Jitsu into their martial arts programs, giving individuals the chance to explore different disciplines under one roof.

Benefits of Practicing Jiu-Jitsu in Anchorage :

Engaging in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu in Anchorage goes beyond physical fitness. It fosters mental discipline, self-confidence, and personal growth. BJJ promotes problem-solving skills, stress relief, and camaraderie among practitioners. Whether you are seeking self-defense training, a new fitness regimen, or a supportive community, Jiu-Jitsu in Anchorage has something to offer everyone.

Conclusion :

As the popularity of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu continues to rise globally, Anchorage has emerged as an unexpected hub for BJJ training. With its growing number of academies and training facilities, the city provides a welcoming and dynamic environment for individuals to immerse themselves in the art and benefits of Jiu-Jitsu.

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hartbjjandmma · 1 year

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Congrats to @aceansley on her much deserved and earn Brown Belt! She is an absolute stud of a person. A true go getter in this world, with an unrelenting will. Ansley won worlds and pans at purple and took the number 1 ranked spot in the world in her weight, age and division. It’s time to move up. ⬆️ to Brown Belt! Congrats Ansley! You are such a great role model to everyone around you. Keep going and keep pushing towards your goals. #hartbjj #hartbjjandmma #bjj #bjjbrownbelt #team #family #bjjfamily #hardwork #bjjlifestyle #bjjcompetitor #bjjcompetition #jiujitsu #jiujitsuwomen #strongwomen #conshohocken #conshy #perserverance #strongwilled https://www.instagram.com/p/CqgUKpzJUt_/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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bluebeltcourse · 1 year

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The Significance of the Blue Belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ) is a martial art and combat sport that originated in Brazil in the early 20th century. It is a grappling-based martial art that focuses on ground fighting and submission techniques. One of the key milestones in the BJJ grading system is the award of the blue belt. In this article, we will discuss the significance of the blue belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.

The blue belt is the second rank in the Brazilian Jiu Jitsu system, and it is a significant milestone in a practitioner's journey. It signifies that the practitioner has gained a certain level of proficiency in the art and has developed a solid foundation in the fundamentals of BJJ. At this level, practitioners are expected to have a good understanding of the techniques and concepts of BJJ, as well as a strong grasp of the principles of leverage, timing, and distance.

Earning the blue belt in BJJ is not an easy feat. It requires consistent training, dedication, and perseverance. Typically, it takes around two to three years of regular training to earn the blue belt. During this time, practitioners are expected to develop a deep understanding of the art, and to be able to apply their techniques effectively in sparring situations.

Once a practitioner has earned their blue belt, they are considered to be an intermediate-level student in BJJ. They have demonstrated a solid understanding of the art, and are expected to continue to develop their skills and knowledge as they progress towards higher levels of proficiency.

In addition to its significance as a milestone in the BJJ grading system, the blue belt is also an important symbol of accomplishment and dedication in the martial arts community. It represents the hard work and effort that a practitioner has put into their training, and is a source of pride and motivation for many BJJ practitioners.

In conclusion, the blue belt is a significant milestone in the Brazilian Jiu Jitsu grading system. It represents a practitioner's proficiency in the fundamentals of the art, and is a symbol of their dedication and hard work. Earning a blue belt in BJJ is not easy, but it is a rewarding achievement that marks the beginning of a practitioner's journey towards higher levels of proficiency and mastery in the art.

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xatrose · 1 year

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billbjj · 1 year

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First NoGi Class of the year went great 👊 #physicalfitness #nogi #fitness #selfdefense #training #bjj #jiujitsu #jujitsu #2022 #world #discipline #respect #bjjfamily #jiujitsuforeveryone #bjjlifestyle (at Bill Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu Martial Arts & Fitness) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm-gZGCrLGf/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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clpthelabel · 1 year

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@kaderuotolo is a BEAST on the mats 🔥🔥🔥 @ruotolobrothersjiujitsu @rvcasport @rvcabrasil @onechampionship #kaderuotolo #ruotolobrothers #bjj #bjjlifestyle #bjjgirls #bjjlife #bjjfamily #bjjtraining #bjjedits #bjjmemes #rvcasport https://www.instagram.com/p/CmVQ0UtOrMV/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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outenthelightsnixbesser · 1 year

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Neon Samurai rashies in youth and adult cuts 🤙 https://www.etsy.com/shop/OutenTheLights?ref=simple-shop-header-name&listing_id=1313879796&search_query=Neon #bjj #bjjkids #jiujitsu #life #bjjlifestyle #bjjgirls #brazilianjiujitsu #bjjlife #jiujitsulifestyle #jiujitsukids #mma #oss #grappling #nogi #bjjfamily #ibjjf #bjjmotivation #martialarts #jiujitsulife #kidsbjj #jiujitsuparatodos #selfdefense #bjjforlife #fitness #bjjtraining #blackbelt #artesuave #nogikids #wrestling #outen_the_lights https://www.instagram.com/p/ClT50VMJf2u/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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handmadebybainsy · 7 months

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ckfightlife · 2 years

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Monday grind• @saraangelonbjj 📸 @mikaellaangelon 🔥🔥🔥🥋🥋🥋 #renzograciebjj #renzogracie #renzogracieteam #bjjkids #bjjkid #nogi #nogijiujitsu #jiujitsu #heelhook #leglocks #jiujitsukids #jiujitsuinfantil #bjjfamily #teamrenzogracie #jiujitsufamily #jiujitsusavedmylife #bjjtraining #bjjkidsclass #bjj4life #ufc #blackbelts #paiefilha #leglocker #blackbelt #bjjvideo #thiagoangelon #mondaymotivation #mikaellaangelon #graciejiujitsu (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/ChAQ2tMr_jP/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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universal-health-care · 2 years

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Oral Mart vampire fang mouthguard fits @vmoraisbjj perfectly and this unique design totally looks his teeth. OralMart.com Amazon.com/OralMart #bjj #bjjlifestyle #bjjlife #bjjgirls #bjj4life #ibjjf #bjjkids #bjjforlife #bjjfamily #bjjmotivation #bjjstyle #bjjtraining #bjjmemes #bjjgirl #cbjj #bjjwomen #bjjblackbelt #bjjgi #bjjfighter #bjjnogi #bjjlove #bjjvideos #kidsbjj #bjjtechnique #bjjeveryday #bjjdrills #bjjproblems #bjj4ever #bjjforeveryone #bjjmeme https://www.instagram.com/p/Ch4gAILuDK-/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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henryagallar · 2 years

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Legendary Rigan Machado putting on a great seminar and promoting MMA/ BJJ pioneer coach Marc Laimon to 5th degree black belt. So well deserved. Congrats Marc!

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