#but I sure as hell am no lesbian 😂

[mattatouile]

It's Pride Month so let me tell you about my journey with my sexuality, and what a supportive family can mean:

I grew up in the EXTREMELY RURAL Bible Belt/gulf coast of the United States. My parents sort of ...nominally took us to Baptist Church until I was about 8.

However, despite being homeschooled in the woods and briefly being church people, my parents were not bigots. When I was six, I asked my mom if Elton John was married to Kiki Dee because I saw their music video together and my mom sort of took a breath and said that some boys want to marry and kiss other boys instead of girls, and that's what gay meant. And Friends introduced me to lesbianism so like, I kind of got it early on. I shrugged and said okay. This was 1994.

I spent 25 years of my life thinking that my fascination/affection for breasts and desire to maybe make out with other girls was just what ALL girls were like. Why would you not want to kiss other girls????? Baffling. But my default was still heterosexuality. I am very femme presenting. I enjoy a lot of stereotypical hetero things. Had a crush on my karate sensei (he was BEAUTIFUL and GOOFY and KIND) and then I had like five years of emotional fluffing with a queer man which was a mess in retrospect.

And then. I moved out of Louisiana.

I met someone (a bad idea woman, but a woman) and had my first torrid and horrible relationship. But that's fine. She introduced my wife. She's the reason I came out to myself and my parents.

My mom was concerned. For reasons that weren't really my sexuality, but which I read that way for a while and it hurt but I knew it wasn't personal it was just a shock. She didn't argue or convince me, she just didn't send me a rainbow cake immediately. And she wanted to be the one to tell my father who was working overseas, and wanted to wait for him to be home to do it.

His response? "Yeah, that checks out." 😂😂🥹 After that she was chill as could be. Idk I guess she psyched herself out about my dad of all people.

He almost immediately bought rainbow Crocs to wear around at his job to support his gay daughter.

My siblings all responded with a shade of either "didn't you always say you wanted to make out with Scully?" Or "huh, I thought it would be [my younger sister]."

I choose the label of lesbian for myself right now, because it's easier than "wlw who sometimes I like the looks of a guy but would rather have a colonoscopy than a conversation with him."

Do I have some trauma from being told I was disgusting just for supporting queer rights in my hometown? Probably.

I guess the point of this is, it wasn't even easy for me to come out, and I KNEW my parents would be totally fine with it. I cannot imagine how long it would've taken me to get to that point without a supportive family and open household. Like I really might've just been the spinster aunt who was "too picky" instead of being happily married to my wife. She's the best. My family is the best. My stepkid's are queer as hell, and we've done everything in our power to make sure they know any identity will be respected and supported and our families have joined us in that.

It's not hard, y'all. And I'm so sorry for everyone who is not treated this way. I love you. My parents love you. My mother would give you the biggest hug and a delicious meal. My dad would do that thing where he rubs his big toes together and tries not to cry because it hurts him that people have to live without support and love. You would be welcome in our home and hopefully shown what family should be.

I hope every single queer person on this site finds family. Family isn't blood. Family is safety. Family is support. Family is knowing that you are cared for, no matter your identity, who you love, etc.

Happy Pride everyone. And if it's not a Happy Pride for you yet, I hope some day you get to know that joy.

#happy pride #pride month #queer

[saveourskinship]

Thankathankathank youuuuu @akorah for the tag 🥰

Three Ships:

Dramione. Because kissing someone furiously while grumpily saying "You. It's you. It's always you but... Why does it have to be you" is my jam, bread, butter, marmalade and vegemite [marmite if you're heathen ie smutty]

Zutara. Because they make each other better. They move each other forward. Because fire. Because water. Because lightning. Because ice. Because scars. Because healing. Because because because.

Skam and Beadie. This is cheating because they are original characters I am writing. They are not even a couple but God help me am I the hell leaving space to write my own fanfiction about them. Maybe an HEA where they don't all die at the end. *shrugs*

First Ship:

In anything: Barbie and Action Man. Before I was even in school my sister and I would steal our brother's Action Man as Barbie's partner. Ken's job was Beach. Our Barbie needed a man with a plan.

In media: Sora/Kairi from Kingdom Hearts. I used to devour fanfic about them. Shout out to the one which sticks in my brain and introduced me to My Chemical Romance when Kairi got married to Squall because of something to do with Mickey being an little shitprick which I think was because of some soul signature nonsense? I can't remember and anyway Demolition Lovers was their wedding song and the bane of my mother's existence - Save's Emo Phase was born.

Last Song:

Girls Like You - The Naked and Famous (shit, this is actually a lie, but it's the last 'proper' song I listened to since I don't count the demo I'm making for my friend's satire girlpunk band she decided to create last night as a real song yet. It just has boop-boop-boops. Night Lunch can pull off songs with only doof-doofs and boom-booms. I cannot. So the demo won't be real until Sasha does the drums at least.)

Last Movie:

What A Girl Wants. Look. It's Amanda Bynes. I love Amanda Bynes. It is also Colin Firth and blue blood upper crust English vibes (done poorly, sure, but still). The last chapter of rose-petal compliments is needing all the help I can get it right now.

Currently Reading:

Harrow the Ninth - Tamsyn Muir

Lesbian necromancers in space. Need there be another reason?

Currently Watching:

Jujitsu Kaisen Season Two (Gojo, my love. I salivate, I wither, I breathe so much ecstasy I lack oxygen and die.)

Taskmaster NZ (rewatch. Like, no shade to my country or anything [said under the world's largest umbrella] but fuck we're shit.)

Last Thing I Wrote:

Like, as in finished? Because otherwise it would be this, right?

I wrote delivery instructions for a food order earlier today. Can't have done it very well because the driver still got confused and had to call me.

In terms of Things with Titles that are Complete™️, then an original folktale called.... fuck, what did I call it? I can't remember. It's about an unnamed protagonist and a boatman though. Still waiting on my rejection emails from the magazines I've submitted it to 😂

Currently Writing:

Let's skip over the arseholiness of me saying that I'm currently writing this again, shall we? (Let's not turtles-all-the-way-down my mentioning it either.)

Okay. Here we go:-

rose-petal compliments: dramione. Quiet luxury, Hermione is wealthy. Set in the Muggle world.

sacreligious inferences of a midnight paradise: dramione. Trope soup. Marriage law/fake dating/date or die. (Plus a bunch more tropes because why not?)

The Absolute and Total Defeat of One Draco Malfoy. Multi-ship. Crack. Crack from crest to cunt.

What's Owed When. Dramione. Unexpected Pregnancy. France. Delectomancy. Draco pines so hard he's basically a forest.

foil&fall. Tansy (Teddy Lupin/Pansy Parkinson). Fluff. Epistolary.

Untitled warfic. Dramione. My attempt at All Plot, No Vibes. Yes, you read that right. I'm trying to write something with NO VIBES ALL PLOT. (Draw a pentagram and sage for me, I bloody need it.)

The Environmental Suicide Club. Original YA speculative fiction. This is the one Skam and Beadie are from. Grief. Environmentalism. Nihilism. Set one generation in the future. Everyone dies at the end. A Fun, Very Good Time! Completely unmarketable! Wheeee!

Untitled socmed. Theomione. Writing this one with @they-call-me-megs A bunch of fun and one we return to when we're struggling for inspiration elsewhere.

Aster, the Star-Sailor. Original children's series. Sci-fi, pirate adventure. Came from writing the Tansy and I fell in love with it. Thanks, Pansy.

Fate and Free Will series. Urban fantasy six-book series. Currently undertaking a massive rework of the structure.

wander/wonder. A Luna Lovegood POV story Christmas visual novel. Story is written and am hoping I can finish the video in time for December.

There are a few more but these are the ones I work on a least a little bit every week.

Tagging @they-call-me-megs @thusatlas @paandreablack

#save's unhinged life #writing #fanfic #congrats on getting here gods i can blather on can't i

[pussyistheforbiddenfruit]

People don’t realise how much of bisexual bigotry has been normalised. Especially lesbians. Manfucking is a big topic in lesbian spaces because lesbians & their kind heartedness led to them allowing bisexuals to colonise their sexuality & spaces. Nongoldstars are the majority because bisexual women are the majority. Goldstars are rare because female homosexuals are rare. Heterosexuals dont need to sleep with the same sex to figure out that they’re straight. They have no DESIRE to. Their sexuality is simple, black and white. It is the same thing for homosexuals. It is only bisexuals that experiment. But because they’re so fucking obnoxiously loud, people genuinely think experimenting is the norm for ALL sexualities, lol nope. Not at all. Sorry, you seem sweet but nongoldstars are bisexual women & there will be no discussion because they absolutely resent lesbians & hate lesbians simply existing.

Hi! Thank for you the anon ask i love getting them!

i mostly agree with u on the non-goldstars being bisexual cause it made me think? Sex is a process you have to first build sexual tension, kiss, undress, then fuck, my teenage self couldnt even think of doing the first two how the hell did these "lesbians" manage to do all four steps?

I live in a homophobic country, my family dossnt take my sexual orientation seriously and i have been encouraged by many ppl to "try out dudes first to make sure im gay" but i have felt "convinced or pressured" to do it, just annoyed and disgusted, how the fuck did these privilaged western "lesbians" even do it, ew

But knowing how some women can be extremely weak minded and absolute doormats i would understand that she might overlook her disgust and endure it (i guess) the majority of non-goldstars are bisexuals, your right like 99% of them lol. I could understand one male in highschool (i guess) but alot of them be having sex with multiple males, getting married and pregnant too?? Like girl just stop it your not a lesbian how the fuck did u let a male get you pregnant?? 😂🤚

Its also annoying as hell how Manfucking and Dick has been the centered in the online "Lesbian" Community whether it may be fake or real., its sucks how the only sexuality that doesnt center men and have women in it ppl are ruining it, this dick obsessed world is so annoying i swear.

And of course they would hate us silly!! How dear we not suck and swallow dick like real grown women do!! 💅🏽 How dear we not waste our lives for males who would only give us dirty homes 😌, shit stained boxers for us to wash 😍,bad sex 🥵, and snotty nosed kids to take care of 🙏🏽 as well as stress and most likely abuse, what kind of women wouldnt want that? Cooking and cleaning for manchildren, underdeveloped, incomplete XXs and ape-like creatures?? 😒😒 dumb bitches am i right??

Absolute foolishness i swear thank the goddess herself im blessed to be a lesbian, a goldstar one too lol, they be so delusional about males i swear.

Also the most likely reason why experimenting is the norm cause a lot of ppl are serectly bi only 19% of bi are out to their friends and family so they are ALOT more of them that we don't know of.

Cause it's not just sneakdicking "lesbians", they are down low "straight" dudes, bicurious "straight" girls, and "gay" men serectly sleeping with women too, just a bunch of confused bisexuals who wanna stick to the societal rules and roleplay their favorite orientation and lifestyle.

[just-another-fanfiction-writer]

For your character ask, I’d love to see your breakdown on Natty or Imelda!!

Thank you for asking! 😍

Let's talk about Imelda! 🥰️💚

How I feel about this character I find Imelda really interesting! In general I really like characters, where they start off seeming pretty mean and full of themselves, but they slowly start to appreciate the MC and actually respect them. I feel like by the end of the game, if anyone would try to talk shit about my MC, Imelda would defend them like "I am the only one allowed to talk shit about them!" 😂 And I mean...the sapphic energy is off the charts with her 🤭❤️️

All the people I ship romantically with this character Generally girls, I personally like to ship her with Poppy. They'd be a terrific duo for sure! I'm not against Imelda x Anne either, but somehow I see Anne being into our goofy Garreth more 🤔

My non-romantic OTP for this character My MC Harriet and Imelda! As I said before, they'll be best friends by the end of the game and I find that "I'm the only one allowed to talk shit about them!" absolutely hilarious 😂 I do imagine her also being a bit of a wingman for lil ol' Harriet. Hitting Seb's head 24/7 like "What the hell did you do now?!", whenever she notices those two idiots are avoiding each other 😂

My unpopular opinion about this character I don't really think my opinions about her are really unpopular. I see a lot of people loving her and also seeing her as lesbian, soooo...yeah Maybe it's a bit more unpopular that I see her getting really awkward and flustered around Poppy. Like Poppy is the only one she gets intimidated, therefore explaining the crush Imelda has on her 🤭

One thing I wish would happen / had happened with this character in canon. With any character in this game, I wish we would've had more interactions with them and also could've seen more interactions between other NPCs. I think she has a lot of potential like many characters 🥺️💚

#ask game #ask mia

[noodleddragon]

Going through the motions of figuring out who you are is always ok.

Please don't let anyone else hold you to unnecessary standards of purity.

#got that 'are you a gold star lesbian' ask again #probably a bot #but what an unnecessary and cruel distinction #once again #with feeling #fuck terfs #fuck biphobes #if you're queer in any regard you don't have to explain squat #you're valid #also that ask was hilarious because technically I've never slept with a man! #but I sure as hell am no lesbian 😂

[celestialholz]

Celestial Live-Reacts: STP 2.4, 'Watcher'

Two-week no spoiler streak! What the fuck! Could not be me usually 😂

Shall we begin, darlings?

You really should keep your vineyard watered Picard dear, look at the state of it 🙃

Where you at broooo

Poor Rios, bless him ❤

Concerned!Picard is my whole jam 😍

Naughty, naughty cloaking device, Riker would be very cross

Jean-Luc 'History' Picard

... Did they just give him a canon reason to sound English? 😂

Baby!card 😍😍

'Non, Je Ne Regrette Rien' was his childhood song? And it played during the Ock-toborg Queen invading? ... And she said "look up"????? Excuse me ma'am 🤔🤔

"Lost in the past, in more ways than one." He just has such a poetic way of speaking, I love him so much ❤

"Thinking is my rest" - oh, mood

"Milk, chocolate, hot" 😂

Dixon Hill reference! ❤

... They've got three days? And Rios has gotten himself shoved in a detention cell, jesus christ my guy 🙄

... Aaaand titles!

Best Star Trek theme ever, no I am not accepting criticism at this time 😊😊 It took the lovely, quiet nostalgia of the first and stuck an epic orchestra in it, shit is glorious 😍😍

IT'S THE GUY. ON THE BUS. WITH HIS TERRIBLE MUSIC. Oh my god 😂😂 Major plus points for the reference, minor minus for the fact that Raffi didn't shove him through the bus wall

"Losing him was not your fault." Most supportive not-quite-girlfriend ever 😍

What is it with Picard ditching women this season 🤣

... Anyone else getting invested in Borg Queen/Jurati? New ship????? ❤🤔

"Have a good night plotting, or whatever Borg Queens do" 😆

Ten Forward Avenue, oh my god 😆

Young Guinan! With a dog! I love them 😍😍

"You're a lot older than my usual thieves. Not settled into retirement yet?" "Believe me, I'm trying" 😂 You absolute liar Picard, you would hate it and you know it 😉

Guinan. With a gun. Not to be gay on main but jesus fuck oh my god ❤😍👁👄👁

"I hate everything." "But you hide it so well" 😂

Oh Rios darling, nooo 🤣

Wasted for the second week in a row, rest in power king ✊

These two are adorable together, I could ship it ❤

BEST GIRL LUNAR LOOK AT HER LITTLE FACE. 😍😍😍

This whole chat's wholesome as fuck ❤

Guinan is the Watcher, then?

Nuuuu Lunar, stay 😭

His face, bless his mechanical heart 😍

Niiiice bit of script flip ❤

Time sickness... not a thing in TNG, though?

Raffi stealing a cop car. The wlws are winning this episode 👏

"I have no idea how this got here" 😂

GTA VI: Grand Theft Lesbians 😍

This is worse than me attempting to drive and that's saying something

This entire scene is fucking incredible. "Truck. Truck. TRUCK!" 😂😂

Oh Agnes sweetheart, no

Guinan this whole episode be like ???????? 'fuck you future man', an icon 😍

Jean-Luc 'Sanctity of Time' Picard

"History's darkest moments can be a tipping point for change", beautiful ❤

Rios and the doc is top tier, hope they do something meaningful with it

"The hell's a Ferengi?" 😆

... I'm just going to say it, Rios is the best non-Qcard person in this show 😂 This speech to the ICE guy's fucking brilliant.

"I can't be sure because nobody can explain it to me" - me thinking about whatever the fuck Q's doing this series

"If I kill somebody, it's on you." "You could try not aiming for them" 😂😂

... It's not just me, is it? The Queen wants to fuck Agnes, right? 😆

"To be in plain view yet unafraid - there's great strength in that" - Queenie taking speech lessons from our resident legend 😍

"Betrayal is an anagram of 'believe me'" ... you sure though 😂

This banter is wondrous

"Help now, and what do I get?" "Me." My god ladies, get a room

GTA chase, ayyyyy ❤

Great plan ladies, truly inspirational 😆

... Hold on, she's not the Watcher?

"Oldest and dearest friend" - my heart. ❤😍

The Watcher is a woman, though...

"You aren't the real deal, she'll probably bite your eyelids off." "... That's nice" 😂

Creepy child? Possession?

Human Laris? Weird smoke box thing? ... What the fuck?

Oh hello space husband, took your goddamn time getting here 😍😍

Niiiice little Europa jacket, and the white drip though??? I'm getting 'ageing homosexual on a Florida golf course' vibes, I'm not mad ❤😍😏

"You can't do it, and ya know it. Oh sure, you played the game for a while, when nothing was at stake, when the only challenge was fooling everybody into thinking you had the nerve. But now it's real, and the fear's choking you. Well, here's the truth - you can't do it. People are gonna die, and now your fear, your doubt, is the loudest voice in your head." Excuse me sir whaaaaat

... Who is he talking to? Because Prime tells me that's Picard's ancestor, but she clearly can't see him... is this about himself? Jean-Luc? Are we fucking mirroring again? Is the idea of Q going to a random cafe to speak through an ancestor of his about the man he loves clouding my judgement??? ... Probably, yes. Is that what Q-uick Qcard's going to be about this week anyway? Almost fucking certainly 😂

... Hold on, IS he talking to her? Is that the idea, that he clicks and reverses her decision to go to space, so this whole bullshit doesn't go down at all? 🤔 Seems extreme...

HE CAN'T CLICK IT?! Oh fuck, what have you done my dude 😭 What kind of shit has to be going down for the omnipotent guy to be unable to magic his way out? Mark me down as scared... and horny, because silver fox de Lancie in casual wear 👁👄👁

"That's unexpected... and most unfortunate..." Picard, please come and save your lovestruck idiot of a husband from himself, jesus christ 😭

... Daaaaaamn. I am fucking fascinated. 👀

Celestial Rating: 8/10.

Once again, we have some beautiful and dynamic relationships, interspersed with some welcome humour, although on a slower pace this week - but Q raises this from a seven all on his own. What the fucking fuck is going on???

#star trek picard 2.4 #star trek picard spoilers #qcard #jean-luc picard #q of the continuum #cristobal rios #seven of nine #raffi musiker #agnes jurati #the borg queen #next week on picard: john de lancie is given eighteen more chances to be enigmatic as fuck and celestial's head explodes #this shit is WILD #celestial live reacts #celestial reviews

[billiewena]

okay thinking more about your s13 dagon and miriam raising jack idea.... who do you think would be the more protective parent like somehow i imagine miriam being like let him sit up on the roof with glowing eyes like a gargoyle and dagon is like come down here young man. i just think dagon might the one acting more like an angel sometimes and miriam being like a mischievous demon with letting jack get away with all kinds of antics 😂 anyways i would love to hear more about your headcanons for this au!!!! moarrrr

​​YES HELLO I AM LISTENING (post this is referencing before I continue in case anyone just got here, join the miriam/dagon agenda lesbian good omens agenda today!)

look, they will definitely both be the bad influence parents in their own way but in a world where dagon realized lucifer was using both her and jack (and turned against him, which is a BIG thing for a prince of hell to do) what WOULD that look like? what would she be like? we know that dagon is protective and helpful in her own weird, “I don’t REALLY care” way from her time with kelly (going with her to the doctor, getting her everything from vitamins to pillows, “your baby can save us all”, etc.)

(and not to sidestep and dagonkelly for a second, but she really WAS the ideal attentive parent until cas got tapped in — and even if it was because lucifer asked to, she was invested in this kid’s well-being too and planned on looking out for them because she knew kelly was a goner once jack was born. cas and dagon both knew this kid was destined for great things and actually put in the effort to help jack be born healthy & safe while lucifer was off being a useless deadbeat swooping in the last minute)

so back to the present — now she’s realized the truth, I can definitely see dagon being very protective and worried about jack now that she knows that they’re nothing but a ridiculously sweet, well-moraled kid that reminds her way too much of kelly and her unshakeable goodness. and since this is the secret good s12 where dagon didn’t try to kill cas and died (#rip), I feel like jack would remember that dagon looked over them and their mom and trust her. and dagon knows how lucifer can be more than anyone so she’ll have extra reason to keep them away from all of that.

(there’s also layers to the fact that in this AU dagon would go from rooting for lucifer jr. to wipe out all the angels to trusting and liking one, so that’s gotta be complicated)

meanwhile, MIRIAM. what little we do know about miriam is that she simply does not care anymore. the angels have been on fruitless mission after mission, trying to preserve the last of her kind, and now all of their hope is in this kid since jack can create angels. she vandalizes dean’s car, she stabs the sheriff’s kid without hesitating, when she’s cornered and about to be killed she says “fuck it” and stabs jack anyways. she has zero filter and impulsive control. so 1000% agreed, yes, she definitely would be the one egging jack on to see how crazy psycho that kid can go.

anyways, tl;dr miriam is the chaotic gay aunt/parent encouraging jack to use their abilities to get them out of tough situations (similar to dean encouraging jack to be a battering ram against doors, except miriam is an angel and can get more creative because she knows what angels are capable of) and the one instantly killing anyone who dares threaten them. meanwhile, dagon makes sure they're all safe first before rolling her eyes and asking if they want to get ice cream after.

#do you ever go to answer an ask and end up opening up a google doc instead #I think about spn characters who were in 5-20 mins of supernatural a normal amount #anyways thank u again fellow miriam stan you are SO right for this ask #sapphicnatural #magon #diriam #dagonmiriam #miriamdagon #spn dagon #spn miriam #asks #miragon

[mothmans-cumrag]

Rewatching A Taste of Armageddon be like

dafuq kinda uniform is this

oh come on jim since when do you care about rules

I love how Spirk don’t even have to talk to understand each other

he said he’ll only tale a few secuirity ppl w/ him why does he take Spock??? for emotional security??

now these outfits are more than ridiculous

I mean it is kinda better to fight with computers I guess, but still wtf

“I do not approve. I understand” is honestly such an important statement, bc just bc you get why someone is doing what they’re doing doesn’t mean you condone their actions or would do the same in their position and I love Spock for stating the difference and aaaaaaaaaaah

tfw your ship has been classified as “destroyed”

omg Bones is worrying about his boyfriends </3

plssss get that this isn’t him

Scotty and Bones are SUCH loyal ppl

Spock using his telepathy bc the writers couldn’t find any other way to get them out lol

“Sir, there is a multilegged creature crawling on your shoulder” goddamnit Spock I just cackled so fucking hard my neighbours probably think I’m a witch 😂😂😂

I love how he’s just... walking away like he didn’t just stun some guard

“There are no buts” excuse you have you seen Jim Kirk from behind??

Why the fuck you lying? Why you always lying Mmh oh my god, stop fucking lying!

damn, Scotty!

damn, Bones!

DAMN, SCOTTY!

“The haggis is in the fire for sure” is that something people say? I have literally never heard anyone use that expression

omg he said “barbarian” and I was looking at the subtitles and read “lesbian” like hell yea Jim is such a lesbian

“knock her down and sit on her if you must” Spock instructing lesbianism is probably my new religion

Spock is the sassiest mf in the entire fucking universe

“I’m a barbarian, you said it yourself” ok calm down sweetie

“I didn’t start it [...] but I am liable to finish it” didn’t I tell you to calm down

yayyy peace

“it was a calculated risk” bitch no it wasn’t

“you almost make me believe in luck” “Why Mr. Spock, you almost make me believe in miracles” AAAAAAH GAY! THIS IS SO GAY! THIS IS LITREALLY THE GAYEST SHIT I’VE EVERHEARD AND I’M GAY MYSELF!

#st #star trek #tos #star trek tos #tw swearing #tw emojis #spirk #spones #mckirk #mcspirk #leaf rewatches

[max--phillips]

awww your mom sounds like such a lovely lady 💕 also like congrats on starting the process to get T! that's also super exciting !! hopefully it's a fairly painless process :,)

hell yeah for chill parents!

(-touch starved anon- which is now feeling a little bit like a self own fjslfksl)

Shes v cool and I’m extremely lucky that she is my mom tbh, like. When I came out as a lesbian she was like “ok do you want the nice response or the genuine response” and I was like “genuine???” and she just looked at me and went “I know.” And I was like WOW THANKS FOR THE HEADS UP SKFJDBFJDBSJS

Also my dad is cool too he’s just clueless?? Gkbkfbdnsk like I’m pretty sure if I came out to him specifically he’d be like “ok cool. What are you talking about” so my mom sorta filters it for me 😭😂

THANKFULLY even tho I’m not 100% positive on state laws here (which is wild for me to say out loud, that’s probably something I should know lmao) I’ve found an entire gender health program at a local hospital so I’m fairly certain I’ll be able to have any like. Crazy letters or doctors notes or whatever needed in order to get the treatments I’m looking for. Like, they have a psychiatrist on staff for that kind of thing. And for being in Indiana, a notoriously deep red Republican state and the spawning place of Mike Pence (derogatory), that’s. Extremely progressive, so !!

Anyway re: painless, insert joke about injections here

Also I too am touch starved, it just be like that tbh gkgndbfnsnsma

#tori answers questions #max answers questions #anonymous #touch starved anon

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

I came out as aroace to my sister a couple of months ago and she basically told me I wasn’t aro and to not label myself. Well now I’ve realized that I’m actually an ace lesbian and I want to come out to my family on Coming Out Day but the fact that I told her I’m aroace and she said I’m not and turns out I’m actually not is giving me a lot of additional anxiety about coming out. Do you have any advice about coming out again? Also any advice in general for coming out? My dad is sort of (1/2)

“homophobic but I don’t think I’d be in any danger if I came out. Gay people are just barely ever talked about so I don’t really know what to expect from him). And well my mom seems like the type to immediately text all her relatives & make a Facebook post about how she has a lesbian daughter which would make family reunions awkward. I feel like I should come out though cause I’m sort of out at school & my sister goes to the same school & I don’t want her hearing from someone else. (2/2)”

First, I just wanna say sorry that you’re sister reacted that way to your initial coming out. That’s not okay, and I’m sorry you had to deal with that 😟

Now, if you’re worried about your sister finding out that you’re an ace lesbian from someone else, I would come out to her again and explain that it’s just difficult to figure out sexuality because, well, it is. But as for the rest of your family… Iunno, you say you don’t think you’d be in any danger, but I worry that they’ll still make you feel like garbage for your identity, which isn’t fair to you. If you think you can handle the awkwardness at reunions and the possible harassment/discrimination you’ll face from your family for being an ace lesbian, then come out to everyone. But if you’re worried that how they might treat you after you come out will negatively and greatly affect your mental health, please don’t come out to them. Your sister? Maybe. Everyone else? Not so sure. Your mental health and safety are the most important here; please try to watch out for yourself and take care of yourself. 

If you DO come out to everyone and they don’t react well/don’t understand, try showing them some posts about being ace and being a lesbian. Try to explain to them that there’s nothing wrong with your identity and that it’s just more complicated for some people. Hell, if you do come out to them and can’t get through to them, you can message me again and tell me what they’ve said, and I’ll try to reason with them as well and you can have them read what I’ve said. You can even show them this ask if you think it would help. Whatever you need, I can try to help 😊

As for coming out in general, my main advice is stay safe and protect your mental health as much as you can. Don’t come out to people who you think will out you to everyone else and put you in a potentially dangerous situation. Be ready to deal with questions because people may not understand your identity. Try to stay civil if people don’t understand, but if they’re getting hateful or hostile, leave the situation if you can. Do not engage with people who just want to make you feel bad for not being straight. Last advice: be proud of who you are, of the fact that you came out, and of your strength and courage to come out. Be proud of you for doing something that is INCREDIBLY hard, INCREDIBLY terrifying, and INCREDIBLY freeing. And if you don’t come out, you still have the right to be proud of who you are. There’s no weakness in staying closeted either, so please never think that. Whatever your reason, there’s nothing wrong with not coming out. But either way, I, for one, am very proud of you and admire your strength, and I hope you’ll feel the same way about yourself 💓💕💖💞💗

I’m sorry this answer is kind of all over the place. I’m on nerve drugs for the nerve damage in my legs, so I tend to get disorganized and ramble….a lot 😂 But I hope this helped some! Feel free to send me more asks or private messages if you have any other questions or wanna say anything else or whatever you need really! 💞

#asks #my asks #coming out #national coming out day #ace lesbian #ace #asexual #lesbian

[caribbean-ace]

Since i’m on a roll i’ve also decided to watch Legends Of Tomorrow 7x03 aka the 100th episode! I’m excited because this show somehow manages to keep up with my expectations; OG’s are coming back and i’m guessing i’ll have so much fun watching this. I haven’t checked anything because i want to be surprised so all i know is that old characters are returning this week but that’s about it. Anyways spoiler alert:

1. Lesbian moms and their child + lmao Astra annoyed by Gideon + i love how Spooner knows stuff and Astra is like i love that you know this but i’ll pretend i’ll be annoyed + this is so funny i swear😂 + the only show makes a pie relevant and break a human + Esperastra adventure😏 + Jax! Why is he speaking in a british accent? + AVA and Bishop! + she looks so good + i’m wondering what the hell happened? Oh that explains the accent

2. Poor Gideon + bickering girlfriends™️ + lmao Spooner is such a mood + kidnap recruited😂 + our Ava😍 + Gideon’s face😂😂😂 like don’t be so grumpy geez + RAY😍 i missed that sunshine so much + lmao they are so confused + ah yes i remember they were a thing + vandal savage, that’s a name + impressed gf’s™️ + lmao Sara foreshadowing at its finest + profesor Steiner😍😍 i’ve missed them so much + i am in love with Gideon that’s it + i love how they lowkey are happy with the singing + oh boyyy this is crazy

3. Lmao Spooner needs to keep Astra in check + captain Gideon it suits her + lmao this is so funny + oh Rip is heree + Astra is annoyed at british people + Spooner was ready to go off + captain cold going off too + oh boy this is bad + oh this is bad x2 + lmao this is baaaad + :( let’s protect Gideon from evil gideon + Steiner’s death was so painful :( + oh boy it’s a strong parallel with Ava’s storyline + Esperastra going off vs. wonder twins + lmao i’m loving this team up + oh boyyy + i love them fightinggg i’ve missed this + beebo’s back + can Ava wrap her hands around my neck? Just for science + Spooner and Astra calming Gideon down😍 + Noraaaaa😍 + that avalance kiss tho + lmao Gary😂 + BOOK CLUB😍 babies gossiping is a mood + bros are back😍 + “babe this is for you” 😍😍😍 they are so cute + and she has such an amazing voice wtf + Gideon is the MVP of this episode

4. Yayy do we get to keep human!Gideon? + i can imagine Spooner and Gideon ganging up against Astra to annoy her + YESSSS HUMAN GIDEON IS HERE TO STAY! + oh boy this is bad + i don’t get it… wasn’t Bishop dead? This is going to be a crazy season for sure

Wow that episode brought back so many memories and it made me tear up just a little. I’m so excited for human!Gideon to be part of the team. Also i can’t wait to see everyone’s reaction to Gideon being a human now lol

#cw legends of tomorrow #legends of tomorrow spoilers #legends of tomorrow #ale watches legends of tomorrow #ava sharpe #sara lance #zari tarazi #behrad tarazi #spooner cruz #astra logue #nate heywood #gary green #gideon

[theythemsam]

When I saw that video with "who you'd bring back", your tags are what I instantly thought. 😂 Like... not the lesbian IT girl or the jewish deaf woman, or any of the Wayward Sisters, or Rufus Turner, or Ellen and Jo... or even Gordon (who Jared is still 'twitter' friends with) no... just a bunch of white dudes... one of whom is alive and part of a main plot point so... like...

He’s just like “I’d like Bobby, John, Gabriel, Chuck, Young!John, and Adam come back” like… Bobby came back (AU but still!), John came back (Time travel but still!), Gabriel came back (was killed again but still!), Chuck IS back (and now the big bad!), just young!John and Adam haven’t been back yet… but Adam i could buy bc he could work with the “souls released from hell” plottwist.

I half expected him to go “Also Crowley and Balthazar” bc then he’s just the voice of fandom looooving white dudes and i think then he’d have listed all the major ones asdfghj.

You know who’d make sense for season 15 to bring back? Bela! (soul from hell! either as an amazing big bad or an ally, I’d love both!) MEG!!! (Rachel Miner even said she’d love to see Meg back in a wheelchair, what if her vessel somehow gets brought back to life and then we’d get awesome disability rep /by a disabled actress/). Charlie (who’s AU version is still alive, Where Is She?) Wayward Sisters (since it doesnt look as if we’ll get the spin off, at least tie their story up a little bit… pls just gimme something!). GORDON!!!! (maybe he learned about his definition of monstrosity in purgatory a bit… or hes just ready to still chomp the hell outta Sams neck). 

I would also love Rufus, Ellen and Jo, Eileen (PLS PLS PLS!! still so upset about her death) and theres definitely others im forgetting. Like if we can have Chuck raising monsters, can we have Jack raising hunters, and maybe not (just) white cishet men?

Oh also Max is still out there? Knowing magic and stuff? Being gay and wonderful and also what happened with Alicia? The people (ME) want to know. Bring back my gay witch son! 

And I am not saying they have to bring everyone back, god knows the season is not long enough to do everything I dream off… But since J2 said they’d like some old dead characters back and the writers said there’ll be call backs, I just wish it would be diverse characters. Not more white cishet men to add to the main rooster of white cishet men that TFW 2.0 + gang already is.

Although, lbr if they dont bring back the Marks /again/ I’m already counting that as a win for me personally, I have never been more tired of two characters (like Lucifer/Nick had his turn, pls stay dead now, and Crowley should have been dead for ages before he died, please. no more.).

And lmao I know that was a joke, but I’m sure if Ruby does come back in Genevieves form y’all can hire a baby sitter, Jared, y’all have enough money, y’all even have extended family, y’all can find a damn way if Gen wants to come back on the show… Yiketh…

Or… and that’s a wild bet i’m making here… you know what’d be sexy after 15 years of this damn TV series? Just one (1) transgender character… please… not a ~i have no gender, im an angel~ bs, just like one actual human transgender character, please portrayed by a transgender actor, that’d be sweet af. Preferably they wouldn’t die or get slaughtered terribly and maybe be there to help out the boys for like an episode and then get to go their own seperate alive ways, that’d be cool! 

Hey @ spn writers: also i have like a whole script written/planned out for how Bela could come back, if you wanna talk, I can give you some tips, ideas, how to execute it. Abuse survivors deserve better stories than anything you’ve given them in 14 seasons. I deserve better.

#wank for ts #i still cant believe that this show is 15 seasons long and they havent had ONE TRANS CHARACTER #not even one one-off character that just appears for an episode when especially in a show about the supernatural and living on societies ma #margins it would so much more sense to have non cishet characters just exist bc they already live outside society a bit #so they would be more likely to be out and themselves #and especially with supernatural means of story telling like that could be so interesting!!!! #this got looooong #sorry im just very passionate #anonymous #asks #sam babbles

[caribbean-ace]

Legends are back once again and boy that came sooner than expected BUT i’m glad they are back, this is the chaotic energy i need in my life. Legends of Tomorrow 7x01 (i can’t believe we’re going on 7 seasons🥲) spoilers ahead:

1. Ava and Sara are FUCKING MARRIED YES! + right they are stuck on Texas + yeah too good to be true😂 there’s no break for them + lmaoo + can we point out Ava’s flawless hair? + lmao they are so chaotic i love them + Ava is a brilliant baby + Tarazi bonding time + uuuhh honeymoon😏 + my esperastra content is rising hell yesss! + time bureau nerds😂 + Astra and Spooner are like: nope we’re out of here

2. They are so chaotic, i love it + himbo and lesbian tag team + bro Sara looks so good + Nate being smooth as usual, no surprises there + poor Gary lol + way too easy + lmao Gloria is back and they are just trying to play it cool

3. This is how Human!Gideon appears? + Astra looks so badass doing spells + oh no no no + worried gfs😏😏 + the soft “hey” from Astra melt my heart + a pocket dimension in hell + poor Ava :( + wives being soft😍😍😍 + Ava is like i don’t feel comfortable doing this and the rest is like yes let’s go and do crime + lmao this show it’s all over the place

4. WIVES DOING CRIME TOGETHER I’M IN + i am in love with this + the lady is so on bord with this + THE BULLETS BLONDS + lmao people is clapping for them + oh my god this is so messed up + LMAO I’M AVA + “did we break Ava?” Uh yes you did lol + Ava is a serial killer😏 + i love how Astra and Spooner stayed + “we need you” 😏😏😏😏 best friend? Sure + you’re girlfriends come on + they love each other + OH MY GOD GIDEON lmao and she’s naked😂

Fun fun fun episode to come back, this show never disappoints and somehow it keeps getting better. I can’t wait to see how they are going to get back into the timeline and how are they going to fix all the mess created. The Bullet Blondes, it sounds good i guess that’s the way we’re refering to them now lol

#cw legends of tomorrow #legends of tomorrow #ale watches legends of tomorrow #legends of tomorrow spoilers #ava sharpe #sara lance #gary green #spooner cruz #nate heywood #astra logue #zari tarazi #behrad tarazi