#cis people shut the fuck up challenge

[toyourliking]

oh my goooooddddd this dumb cunt i unfollowed a while ago is getting pissy cause more people are unfollowing her.... cause she recently said she thinks there should be more road blocks and red tape surrounding gender affirming care to "protect children"

like damn die, maybe

#i wanted to see if she ever responded to the ask i sent but saw this instead lol #cis people shut the fuck up challenge #she's the one who asked what the difference between being transgender and trans-racial is. 😶 #she just very suddenly went off the deep-end it was very strange

[ozymoron]

dude its always "be yourself" till youre trans and now suddenly oh i get to nitpick every little thing about you oh that gesture was very feminine made you look like a girl oh youre wearing a shirt thats cream coloured? seems a little feminine to me oh you paint your nails? so youre a girl after all like ???? youre giving me mixed messages here am i meant to be myself or am i meant to conform to your idea of what a man is in order to be accepted as one by you

#⚠️ #one time after i came out my mum saw me lounging around in a black t shirt and she was like oh it made you look like a man thinking it was #compliment but dude i got so mad i was like for fuck sake is that seriously what i have to do to be considered a man is lounge around in a #black t shirt??? lounging around is masculine???? what???????? #i was also just a very angry person in general but still that really confuses me #had a psychiatrist note down shit about my appearance saying whether they thought it was feminine or masculine (they thought it was all #feminine) which was fucking crazy cause i went in for an adhd diagnosis #people just find out youre trans and suddenly start acting like experts on whats feminine and whats masculine and what makes you either #gender like shut the fuck up #can also come from people who they themselves accept some cis men are feminine and some cis women are masculine but suddenly as soon as you #try to transition now you have to be masculine or be feminine or youre not valid in their eyes #its fucking crazy #like if i showed them a dude with long hair theyd be like thats a dude with long hair but as soon as i have my hair long im told to cut it #i can show them a dude in a skirt and theyd probably laugh thinking its funny or some bullshit but theyd still think its a dude in a skirt #but if i wear a skirt suddenly im a girl #i know at the root of all this they truly believe people cant switch genders cause in their minds sex and gender is the same but still its #so annoying especially when they pretend to be accepting or think theyre being accepting and when you challenge them on their transphobia #they get all mad at you and act like youre being rude for criticizing them for doing the bare minimum whilst also just continuing to be #transphobic #like yeah you use my correct name but when im not around you use she/her for me and you say i **want** to be a boy instead of i am a boy bu #when i talk to you about this suddenly im the bad guy like its my fault youre using language for me thats transphobic #like ok man. whatever. #sorry for asking you to be a decent fucking human being toward me and treat me with respect #its like people just treat trans peoples gender like something they can just dismiss like its nothing liek we're just playing pretend or #something #like god its frustrating. i need to cut my mum out of my life fr

[transactinides]

no experience more miserable than looking at comments under manga chapters featuring trans characters T-T

#cis people who know nothing beyond what theyre shown in propaganda shut the fuck up challenge etc

[cloudselkie]

Ah, so Helena Bonham Carter supports TERFs as well. Good to know.

#fuck terfs #fuck people who defend terfs #fuck helena bohnam carter #white cis women shut the fuck up challenge

[agust-dyke]

i’m banning cis people from using the words “identify as”

#cis people shut the fuck up for once challenge

[greentea-mp3]

Look at this shit oh my god.

He hasn't responded yet but this is kinda ridiculous.

#abortion rights #abortion rights are human rights #roe vs. wade #roe v wade #people are so fucking dumb #cis men shut the hell up challenge #tiktok comments

[crashed-keys]

i love when ppl blame nonbinary ppl for transphobia like ah yes it’s my fault specifically that people who hate transgender people and not. you know. the people who are fucking transphobic

#adri.txt #anyways truscum shut the fuck up challenge cis people do not care about you!! they won’t care if you kiss up to them!!

[genderkoolaid]

still fucking pissed about the way im being treated by my professor. she basically told me to my face that my trans experiences & opinions were too advanced and complicated for our class, & that she had to teach them the basics...

and what exactly are those basics? cis people. cis experiences. cis opinions. this is not intersectionality. "basic feminism" should not mean white cis feminism. & i feel like she is projecting onto my classmates, many of whom seem very interested in what I have to say. one cis boy in my class even tried raising questions about nonbinary people based on those in his life, and she shut him down because she refused to understand what he was talking about. she's just fucking obsessed with her idea of feminism while trying to feel like an intersectional ally yet the minute ANYONE brings up trans people when she doesn't want them to, she throws a little fit.

just. when exactly are cis people supposed to learn about us? i am used to having to explain transness to cis people. i am willing to do that! i am willing to simplify it if need be! but cis adults & older teens can handle being challenged a little bit. in fact I'd say it's pretty healthy for them to be introduced to trans theory as part of their introduction to feminism, especially in an age where transness is a major part of the ongoing culture war. but noooo god forbid this cis woman's ego is challenged in the slightest. god forbid i have an original thought about gender that i didn't get from her fucking textbook

#she almost made me cry today + frankly if i was younger and more alone #and less aware of how my autism + autistic trauma makes me vulnerable to manipulation #i would be more angry at myself than at her #m. #this is pretty personal but y'all can reblog if you stay chill abt it

[forlorn-crows]

Crow my love will you pretty please tell me all about how Rain fucks Swiss' mouth the night Swiss kneels for him on stage? <3

i cant stop thinking about it. swiss was made to kneel for rain, i think. made to let rain tower over him and fuck his face 'til he's dazed and bleary-eyed. but he's gotta be smug about it too, right?

in a crazy turn of events, rain is cis for once. i know, i can't believe it either. crow writing rain with dick and balls? unheard of. and yet, here we are. mainly bc i am unwell about the idea of rain having a knot.

anyway. woe facefucking w/tiny mention of oral knotting be upon ye. this ones also for @askingforthesun >:)

EDIT: now w/a companion art piece by the wonderful @floating-goblin-art❤️

“Just like that,” Rain groans, pulling Swiss closer by the hair until his nose nudges the little nest of curls at the base of his cock. “Yeah, take it all.”

Swiss hums around him, sending a shiver up his spine. Still smirking despite a mouthful of cock and water ghoul slick coating his throat. 

It’s unfair, really. But it turns Rain on like no other. Confidence and desire cutting him deep through that hazel-eyed gaze. Swiss’ throat milking him for all he’s got while he grabs at Rain’s perky ass. And the noises. Lucifer, the noises he makes, all of them rumbling through his core. Straight-up sinful.

Rain loves every minute that Swiss spends kneeling for him.

“Bet you hmpf wanted to do this on stage. Get my cock out for all those people. Show them how feral you can really be, huh?” Swiss’ eyes flutter when Rain grips his locs tighter, but he holds steady. Humming an affirmative and muffled uh huh while tonguing along the underside of his length. Pushing his lips flush to his groin and swallowing hard.

Rain swears and tosses his head back, knees going a little weak. “Lucifer, your mouth . . .” 

Swiss pulls off with a pop, wiping the drool from his chin and stroking him with a coy look. Fangs out and far too handsome for his own good.

“You’d like that wouldn’t you, you dirty voyeur.” He gives a lick to Rain’s dripping tip, flat over the slit like he’s tasting a popsicle. And again, squeezing from base to tip so milky-white pre dribbles onto his tongue. Rain’s eyes roll back against his will, tingling right down to his toes at the sight of his own slick pooling in Swiss’ mouth. 

The multi ghoul swallows, licking his lips. “You’re so easy, rainbow,” he chides. “Get’cha wobbly over a few strokes.”

“Shut up,” Rain bites back. But it's a token protest, given how his fingers start loosening their grip on Swiss’ locs the longer he pumps his fist. 

He snorts. “You like my dirty mouth,” he says, pitching his voice lower on purpose so Rain’s stomach will swoop. “Just as good talking as it is taking, isn’t it?”

He shakes his head, biting back a groan. He regains the grip on his hair and takes a step forward, caging in Swiss’ body between and under his legs, looming over him just enough that he has to put a hand behind him for balance. Rain’s tail snaps behind him, eyes darkening as he brings his gaze back down. Cool and calculating. Swiss challenges it, of course, grinning as he strokes his cock over the long column of his throat.

“Put it back in,” the water ghoul hisses. Control seeping back into his voice, that commanding tone Swiss loves so much. Rain bats his hand away and replaces it with his own, cupping the multi’s chin with the other. Digging his thumb into the side of his jaw until he relents, opening wide and letting his tongue loll out. Ready and waiting to be fed.

“That’s better,” he lilts. “And you say I’m easy.” Rain doesn’t give him space to reply, immediately rubbing the dusky lilac head of his cock over the flat of his tongue, letting his taste buds push the foreskin back and forth a little before sinking back in.  

Swiss gags like he does every time his cock pushes past the back of his throat, muscles trying to force Rain out despite the eager way he takes him down. But he likes the tension, the resistance. Leans into it as he thrusts all the way down to the base with a satisfied sigh. 

Rain looks down his nose at him. Cocking his head when Swiss makes the smallest of noises. “Do you want me to really use you, pretty boy?” he asks, voice sharp and equally as saccharine. “Make you take it until you can’t anymore?”

The multi ghoul’s eyebrows dart up in the middle as a visible wave of arousal runs down his spine. A puff of air rushing out of his nose and color rising to his cheeks. He’s weak for this, and Rain knows it���abuses the fact, really, when it’s time to get his way. 

Swiss is a big ghoul, though; he can take it, masochist that he is. So he hums a sound that means yes, nodding as much as he can with Rain holding his face steady. 

He knows Swiss is hard in his pants without even looking. 

“Good,” he purrs, brushing a stray tear off of his cheek. A bit of softness before he starts thrusting in earnest, aiming to fuck his throat raw. Get his balls slapping against his chin and coated in Swiss’ desperate drool. Inch by wet inch, over and over until Swiss really gives in.

When Rain’s knot inevitably swells some time later, he tells him, reedy, wounded, and oh so desperate, to take it. Not fucking stopping. That’s it—squeeze it. Can’t stop. Lucifer, take it, you have to—all of it, Swiss, all of it.

#mmm rulti #ask #miasma #ficlet #the band ghost #ghost fanfic #the band ghost fanfic #rulti #swiss ghoul #rain ghoul #swiss/rain #rain/swiss #rain x swiss #swiss x rain #swiss army ghoul

[count-horror-xx]

White feminist and terfs shut the fuck up challenge

In all seriousness tho were yall dropped on your fucking heads or something? The woman is talking about HER experience with girl hood not fucking everyone else's experience, like does she need to add "this is my experience in girl hood as a trans woman but I know each experience is different" to the song in order for yall to get that? I swear white women want the spotlight all to themselves and assume this song is about them and cry their white tears like they do with everyone else. THIS SONG ISNT ABOUT YOU HOW CLEAR DOES DYLAN HAVE TO FUCKING MAKE THAT not to mention cis woman make self depreciating stereotypical "I'm just a girl 🥺🎀" jokes all the fucking time, but when a trans woman makes a song about her girlhood just so happened to experience typical femininity you want to tear her down, as if trans woman aren't (most of the time not always-) socially forced to fit stereotypical femininity in order for society to deem them as "passing" fuck yall I hate tik tok "feminist"

Edit: here's some of the lyrics

The term "dolls" is for trans woman and she saying girls like me obviously talking about trans woman YOU PEOPLE HAVE NO BASIC UNDERSTANDING BRO 💀 SHE WAS NEVER TALKING ABOUT YALL, Yall just want to be part of a conversation you ain't even apart of let alone the topic.

#dylan mulvaney #transphobia #trans woman #trans women #trans women are valid #trans girl #trans girls #transgirl #transgender #anti terf post #fuck terfs #terfs #white feminism #feminist #feminism #trans issues #transfem #trans power #i hate terfs #i hate it here #lgbt pride #lgbtq rights #lgbt #lgbtq #trans #trans rights #trans masc #trans male #trans man #trans guy

[a-faggot-with-opinions]

That one time in high school when I was trying to describe my OC, who I had decided to make agender, there was a cis girl sitting in the group. A different cis person asked what agender meant and I began to explain… only to be cut off by the cis girl going “Barbie doll anatomy 🤪”. Like goddamn I can’t even inform people about nonbinary existence with a fucking fictional character. Given how she knew I was trans and would casually and almost playfully find ways to misgender me, I shouldn’t expect better but it’s still frustrating.

There’s also the time I was in college and our professor posed the question for the class “how would society be different if we found a way to reproduce without sperm and just aborted all male babies and let all the men die off.” I pointed out that this wouldn’t actually kill off all the men as trans men would still exist under his hypothetical, essentially saying that this is an impossible task without being excessively cruel. A cis woman (different from the first one) responded by saying trans men actually wouldn’t exist because there would be no reason for us to. I did not get a chance to respond as others started chiming in so nobody knows how much that response pissed me off. Why do these people think I transitioned. Motherfucker I’d still transition if we lived in a matriarchy straight out of a hardcore bdsm femdom fantasy and I hate submitting lmfao.

Cis people shut the fuck up challenge (impossible)

#asks #cis people shut the fuck up tuesday

[qweerhet]

every time some asshole starts pseudointellectually spouting off about “femme nonbinary people” having privilege because we don’t challenge the gender binary my varsex ass wants to stand them in front of me sporting tits and a beard at a bus stop so they can see the kind of response i actually get to Just Existing Visibly

“femme” and “nonbinary” does not equal sex-conforming, you absolute fucking jackasses, and i don’t know where the idea that nonbinary inherently equals sex-conforming and non-transitioning comes from, but legitimately the only sex-conforming nonbinary people i have ever met have also been middle-class and white, which is a pretty vast minority of the trans community

i am so fucking fed up. binary people will write these pseudointellectual thinkpieces a hair’s length away from calling us trenders and sorting us into different genders based on birth assignment, and the entire queer internet will eat it up because the very idea that a large portion of nonbinary people could be varsex and subject to incredible societal violence because of it is fucking foreign to y’all i guess

the amount of violence i’ve faced from binary people regardless of if they’re cis or trans mean that i just kind of have to laugh when some binary thinkpiece writer starts spewing shit about how there is no material violence faced by nonbinary people that’s worth articulating separately from that faced by binary trans people

yeah, of course you’d think that, you’re either doing the violence or benefiting from its existence, shut up

[winterwerewolf]

Coming to terms with being a man.

I am certainly not the first to bring it up and I will not be the last but: The hardest part for me personally as a trans man is not the fact that I experience severe gender dysphoria, it's the fact that being male/masc or a man has been so severely demonized by queer people that were supposed to be my friends, my found family, that it steered me right back into an even bigger closet for 8 years. Yeah. 8 fucking years. I knew I was a man when I was 12 years old and aside from the obvious hostility I faced because of garbage cishet people it was even worse through non-cis, non-het and non-cishet people.

I see others like me trying to raise awareness for this issue only to be shut down as someone who "whines and bitches" or even "tries to separate and divide the community". Every time an issue is brought up by trans men we are accused of "looking for issues where there are none", we are accused of "attempting separatism" and accused of "stealing other peoples spotlight" by OTHER queer people no less and all of this gets sort of covered up. As if queer people cannot be evil. As if being queer and specifically being trans somehow absolves you from being a massive bitch and asshole towards other trans people.

You do not have to punch me in the face to make clear you want me to face/experience violence. You don't have to say "I hate trans men in particular" for me to know that you do. When I found the Hashtag Transmisandry and Transandrophobia I cried tears of joy because there was finally a group of other men and mascs who have very similar experiences to mine. I am thanking y'all on my knees and kissing your hands for being brave enough to share these awful experiences even when faced with hostility and scrutiny and even though retelling also means reliving them to some extent. My point here is: Queer people who are hostile towards me have always had this weird victimhood complex of "I was affected by the patriarchy therefore it is my right to hate men." When I dared to point out that I also have experiences with the patriarchy (as does every member of society btw, there are no people unaffected, they are just affected in different ways) I was told to shut up and sit down because I could not possibly understand what it feels like to be raised in a misogynistic society. As if I am not viewed as a woman by transphobes and alike. As if I was not raised "like a girl". As if I had no fucking first hand experience and still do because I do not "pass".

I was there in the boat with you and you decided that, no, actually I never fucking was because what, it challenges your narrative about trans men experiencing zero oppression?

Anyways, this is long and ramble-y enough as it is so to finalize this emotional mess: Fuck TERFs, TIRFs and Baeddals or whatever y'all decide to name your cute little hateful-group next for making me feel like I have no voice, no right to love myself, like I am somehow rotten through and through. Fuck you so hard.

#misandry #transmisandry #transandrophobia #transphobia in queer spaces exists even from other trans people and I am tired of pretending that it doesn't because it is not #expressed through someone punching me in the face and calling me a slur #other transpeople can be transphobic and it does not reduce itself to internalized transphobia #this is not a goddamn jab at transfemmes btw so fuck outta here w your “just say you hate transwomen lol” and your bad faith argument #a lot of people that were shitting on me for being a man were non-binary or otherwise gnc #lets not pretend being queer makes you inherently good and supportive of other queer people aight

[listlessnessss]

i don’t always get political w it because i do feel like questions of desire and legitimacy pollute the logistics, i’m not about to beg trutrans (that now is taken to mean ‘no longer pretrans/repressed’, btw) people for things when i need to be a better “cis”ally to them, and i’m only sorting out desire and legitimacy. i understand how politically and personally offputting i can be, as a concept, to actual trans ppl. yet of course those desires are deeply political in nature, but i don’t see how politics can be just this stand-in for desire that alludes to desire when transmasculine desire is a thing that doesn’t yet exist politically because it’s denied/dismissed as something else or actively derided as the purview of [some kind of privilege]. i was a tiktok theyfab in 2020-22 and often saw people’s transmasculine desire dissected apart down to each of its components and exposed for how fucked up their desires are, all the things (fatphobic, racist, a white-woman fragility moment, homophobic, transmisogynistic) but the thing is, i don’t even think that *all* of those critiques are unwarranted, but one is left to wonder… since i assume everyone “in my orbit”(that’s what it’s called, i think, lmao) on here is at least tertiarily involved with the project of creating a coherent if-and-only-if, divergent-not-convergent, transmasculine sense of meaning/narrative where one is severely lacking or entirely absent (think: why is there no ftm whipping girl? and take it as a challenge) without being this logical so-as-follows ‘mirror counterpart’ to transfemininity NOR incredibly butch cis women, because those sets of comparisons are bound in many important ways to be false, to not apply. this is where the TQ complaint of ‘erasure’ is a real thing, even if 14 y/o’s feeling invalidated in the moment don’t exactly articulate its further implications very well. my point is/was when i was deep in tiktok theyfabbery, is a perfect feminist politic a mandatory prerequisite to creating such a narrative? (think about the particular moral mandate along the lines of ‘being a man is about respecting women’: yes, yes absolutely you need to, but without it, does one cease to be a man? or are you now this empty, voided, “masc-not-butch” “nonbinary is just a negation, it’s not a thing” person having your white woman moments, having your cake and eating it too) everyone agrees that the edgy teenage phase of many newer trans people is offputting and uncanny, albeit necessary for growth and development, but i do wonder if coming out the other end of transmasculinity therefore becomes this careful disavowal, deliberately manufactured to be apolitical and uncontroversial, and if political, aligned with feminism the way lesbians are. i also find the tMRA shit, (MRAshit wrapped in a toothpaste flag) to be weird and offputting and not ideal politically and evidence of a total unawareness of how one is perceived. thinking about that tweet that said “it is not up to ftms to fix masculinity, go to the gym lol” and if you want, you should, you can, but an implication is that by virtue of who we are and what we want, we are particularly ill-equipped to be able to simultaneously take it seriously wrt ourselves while also being capable of meaningfully contributing to philosophy, discourse, (culture) politics without leaving ourselves behind in some way. if that’s not the other classic TQ complaint of “infantilization”, then i’m not sure what is. it’s put up or shut up, and if you knew me, you’d find that i shut up in real life, as is ideal while i’m in a proto- state and still politically uncanny and incoherent. while i myself am a gaymaxxer(my cope is that i’m in part like this because i’m gay-male-ideated not because i WNBAM),

i found that i became far more robustly left wing and feminist and all that once i stopped trying to think about myself as a cis woman, once i listened to disk horse on “toxic masculinity” and “male loneliness epidemic” shit, i see some breadtuber spaces as having struggled with creating a similar meaning/story for cis men that isn’t just anti-woman. i also heard there that pre-leftist cis men were afraid of, but had to make peace with, the supposed threat that transfemininity posed to the security of their gender identity and expression, and of those who remain men, some get to realize that they’re queer. I heard quite deep and meaningful comparisons made between cis women’s and trans women’s lives and struggles for meaning. the matrix style gender theory, “fuck gender, be a woman”, was all of our redpill, however hard to swallow. but of nobody’s fault but my own, i was at this time beginning to not internally identify as a woman, and realized that there’s no such thing as a transmasculine redpill. still no story, still no sense of meaning, still I should learn to feel/be the butch or be like the other girls and okay with that, a thing i’m just not and never was. transmasculine desire is still shameful and unspeakable as is the opposite in any other part of life and the political landscape—

i can identify this problem, yes, but i’m not smart enough nor in real life enough nor materially affected enough to be an ideal candidate to begin to create the solution, but i think the boy hypno content is a step in the right direction, for sure, though there may yet be unforeseen social/political consequences.

#TQ brainrot #blogpost #ftm repressor #and here i am acting like a TQ on tumblr for the first time as a 20something who thought tumblr was dumb when i was a teenager

[maiswrld222]

cis people shut the fuck up challenge failed

trans people stop playing victim in every situation challenge failed miserably

[familiaralien]

I think the most nonsense part of numbnuts insisting cis is a slur is other marginalized groups also have terminology for "not part of X group". Its super obvious people arguing that words is a slur are just trying to use their position of power over trans people to silence them.

For example if I was being a little antisemitic dipship and a Jewish person replied to me with something like "Gentiles learn to shut the fuck up: challenged impossible" I couldn't insist (in good faith) that gentile is a slur. Like it be self evident I'm just trying to derail the topic of addressing my (hypothetical) antisemitism by being arguably even more bigoted toward Jews. A word that just means "not Jewish" is clearly not offensive even if the person using it did so in anger.

Basically in summary a slur is suppose to be disparaging in of itself! Feeling uncomfortable with the notion of not being seen as the default and sole "correct" human experience is not actually being disparaged: that's just you being a sensitive little snowflake that needs to suck it up.

#transphobia #antisemitism #Also you'll notice they're quite an overlap between ppl that insist they're pro free speech and ppl trying to basically ban the word cis #its almost like most people are only pro being able to hurt minorities at their leisure and otherwise don't care about their supposed cause