#i just....was neutral abt him

[softd0m-charlie]

i see a lot of posts about letting your autistic partner ramble about something while you touch them/give them head/fuck them/whatever, and i approve of that, definitely. 10/10.

but i would like to propose: autistic dom who infodumps to you while they're making you feel good and makes you pay attention to what they're saying the whole time. they're touching you in all the right places, going at just the right rhythm with just the right amount of pressure and it's driving you fucking crazy, all while they're rambling casually about whatever their current interest is like nothing's even happening.

every time you say something small to acknowledge what they're saying, like "mhm", "right", "yeah," or something like that, their movements get a little more intense as a reward for paying attention. but if you get lost in the pleasure and forget to engage with what they're telling you for too long, they go "sorry, are you not listening anymore? alright, i guess I'll stop then." and you have to beg for it if you want them to keep going.

#has anyone started an infodumping kink yet #bc i will be the first #my bf loves when I'm telling him abt a hyperfixation while I'm inside him <3 #ftm nsft #t4t nsft #trans nsft #ftm t4t #ftm dom #ftm top #gender neutral nsft #nsft t4t #t4t mlm #autistic #nsft #autistic nsft #sexualizing autism #infodumping #queer nsft #queer ns/fw #nsft trans #gay nsft #lgbt nsft #mlm nsft #nsft ftm #tboy nsft #gender neutral post #gender neutral dom #nblm nsft #is this just a way to condition u to pay attention when I'm infodumping? maybe. maybe not

[sirspeep]

buggy being presented as sinister, evil and most of all an actual threat is so weird to me. like, i forgot there was ever a time when he wasn't just constantly rolling nat20s on deception checks against the entire world & accidentally joining a dilf throuple.

#one piece #just finished ep2 and im neutral on this new series so far #a bit bummed abt all the things they changed but i get it #and the core themes/character traits seem to be the same so far #EXCEPT FOR LUFFY SAYING YOU FIGHT GOOD TO ZORO #LIKE NO HE LIKES HIM BC HE HELPED A GIRL NOT BC OF THE FIGHTING SKILLS #sorry im calm again #im going back in‚ i want to see my little boy (sanji) #siv speaks #opla spoilers

[iinryer]

thinking about buck having no issue with storms and rain after everything, thinking about the rest of the 118 carrying that for him instead…

#i just think that he never even had time to feel scared… #he was there and then he wasn’t #I don’t think his fears about all of it have to be connected to the rain and lightning #I think he has a whole other basket of problems and issues gjfhdfb but I think the concept of him being neutral abt the rain is fascinating #iinryer talk

[asaethiel]

some adam-centric sketch page bits

#the raven cycle #trc #adam parrish #henry cheng #pynch #fanart #digital #may23 #actual art #on first read i was neutral abt henry bc his character does just feel so shoehorned in. and i still agree w that #but this time around i was actually so so endeared by him..!! this obnoxious little high school queer!!! #gets high and watches game walkthroughs on YT. has trouble translating his thoughts into words. fuckin madonna shirt+boxers outfit. #he's perfect #anyway. adam's my fav tho if u couldn't tell. the forest magician imagery rlly got me #+i read opal!! so cute so funny! #opal as their cat who they have to kick out of the room before they get frisky bc otherwise she'll just sit there staring at them like 👁️

[greenlaut]

on the way ! ✩°｡⋆⸜ 🎧

#todays art is brought to u by greenleaf is projecting bcs he wants to wear long skirts #clothes for me is just very gender neutral so i have no qualms abt putting men in skirts #tbh one time i wore a hoodie + skirt combo like aragorn. lemme tell u. its so cosy #also aragorns ring is the ring of barahir lmaoaoao #haldir is there bcs i miss him #i hc leggy to be left armed archer so thats why his glove is at the left hand #theyre otw to get pastries after class from a new deli that aragorn found #except my man forgot the way so now theyre kinda lost and looking at gmaps #gimli saw a tall blond wearing green while walking n immediately recognises leggy so he says hi #legolas is a gay mess so he panicked instead of saying hi back #my art #tolkien #lord of the rings #LOTR #LoTR modern AU #haldir #legolas #aragorn #lord of the rings modern au #gimli #gimli x legolas #legolas x gimli #haldir of lorien #legolas greenleaf #aragorn son of arathorn #tolkien books #jrr tolkien #gimli gloinson

[lovely-hikari-cosplay]

I’m taking a Comics class this semester and we read through The Sandman: Preludes & Nocturnes 😳

#IDK MAN something any Morpheus just clicks with me #Immediately I was like ‘Why he kinda…?’ and he grew on me throughout the comic #The story itself reminds me of SMT with the callbacks to other mythology and religion and Morpheus himself being rather neutral in alignment #Like dreams can be sweet they can be scary or they can be rather mundane and he doesn’t use his powers to manipulate anyone (yet) #I might read more after this semester of over #but for NOW he’s my new Freak obsession I love him #dc sandman #neil gaiman sandman #dc comics #the sandman #morpheus #traditional art #sketchbook #medium: mechanical pencil #bc I drew all of these this week between lectures LMAO #my art #typo * abt in the first tag LOL

[kazbiter]

kavinsky's death is actually the closing arc in a great tragedy to me bc his actions throughout the story are mostly just him practically begging for someone to be on his side, to care about him, to even just look at him. his father tried to kill him, his mother is completely uninterested. he can dream himself as many people as he wants, but they will only ever think of him because he made them to do so. the dream pack are just physical manifestations of his desire to not be alone in the world, to have someone, anyone, connected to him. he so desperately tries to draw some sort of emotion out of ronan, good bad or ugly, because the intense similarities they share mean that he's the only person who might be willing to look long enough to see him. and when it doesn't work, when he realizes it can't, that this world is not for him and he is not going to be a part of it in a way that involves anyone else, he decides that everyone is going to look at least this once. they will all see the finale if nothing else. genuinely doomed from the start. and how truly devastating that is in comparison to the core group the story focuses on, characters that even at their lowest and darkest and meanest and absolute worst have others there with them. characters that always have someone looking for them. dying is a boring side of a life that has nothing inside of it.

#4th of July got me this year girls (gender neutral) #also I'm contractually obligated to mention that he was so so funny #a few of his strengths: #1. hilarious #2. leader of ronsey nation #3. thrower of parties that involve fun for the whole family (minus the dream battle and suicide that one time) #but actually tho why do I feel like they mentioned like. families going to those parties. #anyways I'm getting SOOOOOO off track #did someone say trc famous adjective lonesome #and when u think abt the fact one of his worst acts was taking Matthew.... someone he KNEW ronan cared about above all #ohhhhh OWWWWW #like yeah obviously that was terrible and evil of him I'm not saying he's innocent or even nessecarily good #I'm just saying that he's fucking tragic #like so desperate for someone to look that he doesn't even care what he has to do to make it happen #this took me like 1.5 hrs to write btw I had so many things I wanted to say but it's almost midnight and I want to post it on His Day #the raven cycle #joseph kavinsky #the dream theives #kavinsky #trc kavinsky

[guideaus]

i dont think the comic version's end of nimona is negative specifically because the villain she happens to attach herself to is a villain by label only. blackheart is pretty much the kindest and most noble character in the book, if she happened to associate with anyone else, she probably would have been different, her killing everyone in the beginning wasnt exactly fake and i think she couldve easily been influenced to actually be worse if it was an actual villain, lol.

but a big thing in the comic is that no matter how many times nimona is evasive, lies, threatens him, gets aggressive, whatever, blackheart still forgives her and unconditionally supports her and thats what helps her in the end. him keeping this attitude

and her being able to reflect on all his actions, even if he did end up hurting her in the end, is what helps her go on a new path thats not focused on fearing the possibility of being hurt because shes different

#personal #nimona #she retaliates HARD against any kind offer from blackheart though. even in the end #her actions of interpreting an offer of help from a kind person who hasnt harmed her so far as a threat is bad. its a fearful response #that i think she learns to work on overcoming in the end #the end is a turning point for her. in a hopeful way #the movie gives her the reason of choosing to be w him bc everyone else now hates him as well #while i guess the comic is like that too? i cant definitively say the movie was bc of society vs the comic or not #theres no way of her knowing if boldheart did just randomly decide to kill the queen lol. while in the comic hes kinda like... not winning #theres no dead monarch there until nimona kills the king. she just suddenly shows up and its anyone's guess why #and boldheart kind of has less of an excuse. the comic nimona could be conflating his actions into villainy as she speaks abt herself #so idk. if blackheart was like 'sure lets kill everybody' idk if she wouldnt be pursuaded from it. she truly doesnt want to but also could #think lol. shes very neutral imo

[individuating]

Hi

#.me #umineko spoilers #umineko #im very open to questions comments criticisms concerns tomatoes thrown at me or possibly a bouquet of roses #i can explain basically all of these. left kumasawa and nanjo out bc we dont know shit abt their relationships btw #i cld have left maria out too but i felt bad #was very tempted to put natsuhi in lesbian but keeping the failmarriage together was too funny #also good/bad alignment choices are based on many factors…def wld have put some characters in neutral if i had the space #also hideyoshi wld be in good het too i just didnt want him third wheeling krauss & natsuhi

[linesfromzaun]

For the dialogue thing:

"Will you please desist with the Old Man thing? I'm only 41 for pity's sake."

Ooh I love this thank you for sending this in!!!

Rating: G

Tags: calling Silco and old man, fluff, cuddling

You both were too exhausted to make it to your shared bedroom. After an eventful, yet successful mission, you both finished your reports and collapsed on the worn out sofa in Silco’s office. Silco had managed to rest his head on your chest, and was listening to your heartbeat. You were becoming sleepy incredibly fast, feeling Silco’s dexterous digits glide comforting patterns on your exposed skin. Your fingers card in his peppered locks, and you subconsciously hum to yourself.

“My little lovely old man.”

You feel Silco’s head turn to look at you, and he gives your sides a squeeze. “Will you please desist with the “Old Man” thing? I’m only 41 for pity’s sake.” You heavy eyelids flutter open and you pull him closer to you.

“‘S not a bad thing to get old, Sil. You’re pretty like this.” Your eyes close once more and you feel him slightly crawl up your body.

“You think I’m… pretty because I am old?” Your eyes lock on his, and he sees the admiration in your eyes.

“You’ll always be handsome, beautiful, pretty, or, gorgeous to me.” You pull him back to your tired form, giving his head a few kisses. “I love you the way you are and what you’ll look like years from now, white hair or just more streaks of it.” You feel Silco’s arms wrap around you and sigh softly. “I love you, Silco, goodnight.”

“I love you too, my darling.”

#thought abt the new edits of him being completely white haired #also I just woke up so I’m in a soft mood. #silco #arcane silco #silco my beloved #silco x reader #silco fanfic #silco x female reader #silco x y/n #silco one shot #arcane #silco x gender neutral reader #silco x male reader

[mattodore]

taking personality tests so i can fill out mattodore's google doc templates and you do have to laugh a little bit at how predictable these results are

theo getting neutral good and matthias getting chaotic evil like yeah... that's them 😌

#went to post this on main and stopped myself #oc stuff needs to go here!!! on the oc blog!! i just need to force myself to post here until i get over the avpd 🚶 #river dipping #oc extras #theodore doe #matthias evanoff #echthroi #i figured theo would be closer to chaotic than lawful but i feel good abt the answers i gave for him so! #i think my perception of his night activities was sullying my view because when i stopped to think about it it's like... well duh. #neutral is the best option for him without question! like the slight lean towards lawful definitely tracks too. #lawful makes more sense as he is definitely a rule follower due to his upbringing... i mean he doesn't stray far from his parents' hand yk? #like chaotic just really isn't him in any other sense than that he abuses substances and himself and is pretty reckless wrt his wellbeing #............i have nothing to say about matthias's result because like. well. it's matthias............................... #what other answer is there for him 😭😭😭 #chaotic evil is sexy tho i'll say that <3 #i have to redo the mbti tests next......................... the answer i got for theo yesterday was all wrong i was gobsmacked #iirc he got logistician or something...? like 😭 that is NOT my man!!! get him out of there!!!!!! #his parents would definitely be celebrating that result tho. like considering everything 😭

[toastsnaffler]

in a hilarious turn of events my flatmate didn't even know I use any pronouns....

#i thought when she was talking abt how her parents thought i was gonna come out as trans and kept checking my name/pronouns- #that the joke was that im ALREADY trans but in ways they dont know abt.... but nope she genuinely didnt know 🤭 #to be fair. i dont rly let anyone in on my gender business unless we're close enough to be dating or its an anonymous online space #like im legally cis and thats fine. idc abt ppl using my name + she/her bc thats not my gender identity its just AN identity that i use- #to navigate the world without ppl being fucking nosy bc i pass as + am sociopolitically treated as a woman (if butch lol) #to ppl who are friends ill joke that my gender is dyke (true) and to friends whose gender falls on a similar spectrum- #or who are transmasc ill talk a little more honestly abt it bc theyre usually able to understand better than anyone else #other butch dykes w a weird gender going on are the only motherfuckers who actually Get It but theyre hard to come by tbh #to be frank i dont fucking know whats going on w my gender. and i dont rly care enough to do the introspection to figure it out rn #i have so many other problems in my life and im lucky that most of my beef w gender can be solved by presenting butch + binding #and using any pronouns around other queer ppl. its actually incredibly funny to me when ppl she/her me bc its like tch. this chump hasnt #unlocked my level of gender yet. pronouns and names in general are so far disconnected from the way i exist in the world... #its just smth thats fun for me to play around with + makes me feel weird sometimes but in ways i havent distilled yet yknow #and this has been my approach to gender for like?? 4-5 years now??? and likely will continue to be for a long while.. #anyway. its not actually that surprising my flatmate doesnt know bc shes cis so ive never felt compelled to have a deeper conversation #abt gender with her. but also i could sweeaaar its been mentioned bc almost all our other friends are trans lol #and also ive been introducing myself at queer sports socials w any pronouns and i swear i talked abt that w her..... whatever #and my pronouns are on discord and shes def seen my tumblr before but maybe i didnt have them in my bio at the time... i digress #i kind of prefer cis ppl she/hering me tbh. theyre not able to they them or he him or whatever else me in a way that matters..... #altho i do find it fascinating when she or other ppl elect to use neutral or masculine terms for me. raising an eyebrow and taking notes #like when she got a job and joked abt me being her househusband.. pulling up the fem/masc tally chart and chalking a line up #a la nona the ninth.... ive been trying to figure out whos inhabiting this body my entire fucking life with no luck girl #ANYWAY just smth to think abt. im so tired i think my brain is gonna start seeping out my eyeballs #im gonna watch some more pluto and read and then -> 🛌 #another 6:30 start tomorrow woohoo #.diaries #zzzzz

[dungeons-and-dragon-age]

"Fenris is hard to friend with a pro-mage Hawke" to YOU. Liam gets him though

#it doesnt look that high but rn i dont even have varric maxed out; and he's the one i constantly get approval with x'd #but genuinely i was surprised when i heard so many ppl say they had trouble befriending him with a pro mage hawke #cus i bring him along p regularly even to mage centered quests and i still get max approval by the end of the game #well. liam *is* vocal against blood magic so that helps probably #tho the first time i played he was way more neutral on it (at the beginning at least) and i still max friended him #and tbf he gets less eager abt it in act 3 but at the same time hes the most open/willing abt supporting them in act 2 #guess liam is just built different xdd #laya plays dragon age #da2 #getting to the point now where approval does matter so i gotta start paying at least a little attention to who i bring where lol #so far im on track with everyone i think so no need to get finicky about it just yet~

[snackleggg]

A doctor who headcanon I have is that Gallifreyan doesn't have gendered pronouns. It's all in the neutral.

One of the biggest obsticals the Doctor had when learning new languages so they didn't have to rely on a translation circuit all the time was learning how gendered pronouns worked and how to apply them to themselves and others based on the planet.

#when the first doctor came to earth he stubbornly referred to himself with gender neutral pronouns and only switched to the masculine ones #because all the humans were referring to him by them #also explains why the doctor had trouble adjusting their language to being a woman #its not that they forget their body is different its that they forget they have to adjust their language to the change #bill: but you still can your selves timeLORDS #12: *too tired to explain that in Gallifreyan the pronoun to their species name is gender neutral and that lord was just the closest #equivilant in english but that lady can be used interchangeably as well* shut up #i had more to say abt this than i thought #was just having Thoughts™️ #doctor who #doctor who headcanon

[dsgustng]

Thinking about how transphobes are always like "debate with me! Justify your existence to me! Explain why you're mad! Make this make sense to me!" But you can be as levelheaded and straightforward as possible, you can beat yourself down and make yourself small and nonthreatening or you can be stern and hold your ground. You can post countless sources and news articles. You can give them statistics. Undeniable proof. But they just don't fuckin care. And the second we become mad and aggressive they use it against us. They say they don't take us seriously because we're too sensitive and irrational. But that's a lie. They won't listen to us or take us seriously no matter how we act because they just fucking hate us! There is nothing we can possibly do to be better to these people.

#thinking abt how like. someone i was friends with in highschool posted on Facebook a meme abt trans people getting mad at Hogwarts legacy #and he seemed to believe he was neutral leaning and open minded #but when i pointed out why people were mad and posted articles with sources and very thoroughly explained myself #coincidentally all of my comments with proof to back my argument kept disappearing 🤔 only leaving the comments where i was arguing #and he was all like 'i just dont understand why your mad but youre allowed to feel this way' deleting all my attempts to educate him #getting laugh reacted and his friends coming into the conversation sending me transphobic propoganda and mocking me #and he didnt delete those comments. of course not #and im sure none of those people thought they were transphobic. im sure all of them thought they were allies or whatever the fuck #idk man im like shutting down latley i dont have the energy to debate with people and sit there being patient with them #im sick of talking to brick walls im sick of having to justify my existence #im sick of people treating me notably worse at work when im wearing my nametag #im sick of being scared and frustrated all the time meanwhile im called irrational and reactive for being scared and frustrated #transphobia

[caruliaa]

one of the worst phenomena in fandom is when theres a character that everyone loves so much and thinks is the greatest guy ever who only ever does nice good things and then some other people start to point out examples of that not being true and then their narrative starts being that that character sucks forever so much and is only ever awful and the worst and we cant have any nuance about literally anything ever yayyy yipee !!!

#atla fans acknowledge that iroh is both textually a neaunced character and at times written in a shitty way / to do shitty things while #still being potrayed as in the right instead of either just uncritically hating him or uncritically loving him challenge !! (impossible) #extra hard challenge mode! thin atla fans acknowledge that part of the shitty ways that iroh is written includes the amnt of #fatphobic jokes tht r made at his experience that arent portrayed as being particularly wrong/the audience is meant to find funny #(extra impossible !!! theyll rb posts making fun of someone pointing that out instead 🤩🤩🤩🤩 !!!) #<- ill include that in the text of this post in a rb too but also i think there shld be just a fandom neutral version of this #i dont evne care that much abt iroh omggg like hes fine good presence in zukos life kinda shitty at times w how hes written w/e #its just that you guys literally dont even know how to be normal about anything . ever . !! #flappy rambles #like can we have some nuance please for once. and if ur gonna have the negative side of the black of white view of a character #AT LEAST ACKNOWLEDGE THE FATPHOBIA SURROUNDING HOW THEYRE WRITTEN ??? MAYBE ?? FOR ONCE ??