#in most cases

[biteofcherry]

One of the many many reasons I love tumblr fics and get annoyed by most of the published so called hot romances, is that in the fics the mmc desires and/or falls for the reader(heroine) for who she is. For how she acts, the traits she possesses - be it sassy bratting, or sweet shy innocence, or fierce loyalty.

Yes, there comes the desire for her body, as well. But the noticing of the body parts and assessing attractiveness comes after something else has drawn his attention.

The books I've been trying to read recently all have the same fucking annoying problem of making the main OFC a beauty desired by all. Not beauty discovered through lenses of feelings for the person, but physical attractiveness right from the start. Even when they attempt to write the OFC as a "quiet mouse" there is always the description of how hot she is and how she compels other men attention.

And it's so fucking repelling. To me, at least. Because I simply don't connect with that.

Can't those authors fucking stop with the "she's desirable for him, because she's a standard beauty and others find her attractive too"? 😒

Ughh, I just love you tumblr and ao3 writers so so much!!! ❤️

#istg those published romances are more frustrating than enjoyable #in most cases #not all because of course there are some who did really good #but they are like very rare pearls #le sigh

[mangora]

Some people say that they don’t like certain TD characters because they were being mean in episode abc or are a bad friend to xyz and like, yeah, okay that’s not good morally, and while I personally love immoral characters I can understand why they come across as fully unlikable to some people. But also, I think it makes sense that they’re mean. If a grown man made me sleep in a cabin with no AC in the dead of summer surrounded by bugs (or monsters) for several months, and only let me eat dirt and mashed potatoes, and had me do life-threatening stunts every few days, and let my peers humiliate me on international TV or humiliated me himself, and I was surrounded by people I either clash with or would inevitably be separated from if I befriended them, and I couldn’t participate in any of my hobbies during this time or leave this shitty camp, and I was contractually obligated not to leave and even come back several times if requested, and I didn’t even get out of school for this, and I almost died several times, and my home life and mental health probably sucked even before this, and all my relationship/friendship issues were immortalized on network television forever, and I likely didn’t even win the show, and I didn’t get paid for this otherwise, and I was also 16 during all of this…then yeah, I’d probably get pretty mean too.

#and the award for the longest run-on sentence goes to: #alex’s td rambles #also I think this goes for them just generally being emotionally distressed. like yeah of course they are #you tried to explode them and kill them with sharks and then made fun of them in front of millions of people #like idk. maybe I’d start freaking out and mistreating people around me if I was constantly on edge also #not saying it’s okay but there’s definitely a reason like these characters arent innately evil they’ve been pushed to their limit #in most cases

[hyyyperfixated]

i'll be into a girl and it makes me all mushy and romantic but i think a guys cute and it makes me homicidal

#In Most Cases #caroline is talking

[twelvedaysinaugust]

Why do you ever thought, among the other ‘relationship’, that Hamille could be real?

Thank you! I wasn’t in the fandom during that time

I’m not sure it was real, to be fair. I was also taking a break from fandom during the time Harry was dating Camille, so I didn’t really experience much of it firsthand. But I think it’s interesting that Camille was written into the official narrative of Harry’s life (by Harry!) in a way his previous relationships were not. Her voice is included on “Cherry” and he referred to her as his girlfriend (after the fact). And in that way, it did stand out to me and come across as… emotionally authentic.

However, I don’t think we as fans could ever know what relationships are “real” versus “not real.” People make a lot of arbitrary distinctions like if a relationship of Harry’s is “too public” it’s bound to be fake (hence why his relationship with Camille was more believable to some people). And the list goes on. But we really have no way of knowing any of that. I think, in most cases, it would be impossible to distinguish between a real relationship and a fake one. Would a real relationship that’s being leveraged for PR look markedly different from a fake one, for example? Would a romantic relationship look worlds away from a bearding relationship where the parties are good friends and enjoy spending time together? And there’s a whole lot of grey area in between. So I’m probably not the best person to ask about the girlfriends because, while I have a position, I also think anything is possible and we as fans have no way of knowing.

#I do think a lot Harry’s relationships lack that… emotional authenticity #which is why I kind of struggle to believe them #and by that I don’t mean that there’s any ill will between him and the women #but he seems kind of like a passenger along for the ride #in most cases #like it’s all something happening to him and around him #and the Rolling Stone article where Olivia was interviewed and referred to as Harry’s girlfriend #but never mentioned by Harry himself #is kind of what I mean #I’m not expressing myself well #because Harry definitely has agency and I don’t think he’s a passive actor in his life or career #at all #but there is something thats hard to reconcile about a lot of his public relationships I think #and I’m choosing to call it emotional authenticity #for lack of a better word

[loverboybrightsideghost]

live like there is no tomorrow. however, if today goes really fucking poorly, remember that there is still always tomorrow

#in most cases #bluebird.txt #violaposting #<- feeling guilty about having. enjoyed my break. #it's FINE #i can fuck up in rehearsal tomorrow. i hate knowing i will fuck up and not being able to do anything about it #bc i CAN do something. i can lose sleep and i can practice till i can't move and i can cry and stress until my brain explodes #but all that just makes the problem worse #so ill just do my best in my rehearsal w waht i got rn. and then i have a free hour afterwards to practice. and i have more time later on #did i make the most of today. perhaps not. but tomorrow hasn't happened yet so no one knows. #i can plan stuff out #i can get better #and no one is going to kill me for this #i will be fine. eventually at some point.

[unerringcaprition]

idk how i feel abt the word "chaser" caus i rember when i was young and having trans thoughts i was worried abt being a "chaser" n stuff n also i think it can be kinda fine for cis ppl to have a fascination with trans ppl mayb? actually idk idk! eh i think i just havent had much experience with chasers altho tbf the little i have kinda weird so idk bweh

#idk its probly ok 2 be a chaser if ur transgender i think #in most cases #probly weird in some cases tho #ugh i just dont like the word in this context tho its weird #like it makes sense in some contexts but in others its likeeee idk

[daggryet]

Looked up Bungo Stray Dogs to see who your favorites were, why is Nikolaj Gogol, famous Russian author, part of the cast? 😭

he's allied with fyodor dostoevsky

#ask #anon #it's a whole thing with their powers being named after famous literary works and the characters have the author of that book's name #in most cases #i haven't looked most of them up because it's like. i'm not really watching to learn more about literature #obviously a lot you recognise but some you don't

[littlemizzlinguistics]

Studying linguistics is actually so wonderful because when you explain youth slang to older professors, instead of complaining about how "your generation can't speak right/ you're butchering the language" they light up and go “really? That’s so wonderful! What an innovative construction! Isn't language wonderful?"

#linguistics #gen z slang #english #as people in the reblog pointed out! #most gen z slang comes from (or was appropriated from) aave #honestly I was just excited to talk about how people in my field actually get excited about non standard uses of English #instead of ridiculing speakers #and I tagged incorrectly and didn’t point out the very real issues of language and power and appropriation inherent in modern slang #in that much of it was appropriated #and even that which experiences language change in the wider culture still originated in aave #aave is just as linguistically valid as any other English dialect because it is a proper language #and the grammar is incredible!!! #habitual be is fantastic and an excellent example of how a richer case system or a certain case can render an adverb unnecessary #and the phonology is just beautiful #anyway I’m very sorry #I fucked up

[svkhky]

it’s a friendly game what’re you saying fuck him for 😭

#adri watches hockey #i condone shitting on the refs #in most cases #this is not most cases

[merpiko]

thinking about how one of my irls said i got the benefits of being gay without being gay

#im more into media with queer themes/relationships than straight media #but im straight. women kisser exclusively #i argue that gay people just make better content and have better taste than straight people #in most cases

[caramelldansenu]

#art #fanart #drawing #cult of the lamb #cotl narinder #i think about the fact that it's the middle child a lot its the funniest thing ever #like damn bitch this is the most intense case of middle child syndrome I've ever seen

[ruporas]

dragon meat, you, and me

#marcille donato #falin touden #farcille #dungeon meshi #delicious in dungeon #tw blood #tw body horror #tw gore #as a normal farcille fan this revival has been on my mind since i first read it and getting to watch it is like yippee!! #like messy revivals are everything - the consequences that will haunt u for the rest of the time they are alive #the initial hopeful moments where it all seemed well but quickly descend to That not being the case - losing not only the bit of evidence #evidence that your dream may work out but also someone you deeply care about in the process… marcille my Beloved #ofc wholly thruout the journey - at the forefront of it - getting falin back was the most crucial point but so wuickly :(( it was lost #on the other end its crazy to think about the compoments of falin now - human - dragon (dungeon) - marcille’s magic and desperation #the food the crew cooked (digested) - she is made of many parts!! #also i did not realize how medical it feels to draw smth like this. i dont usually explore the inner parts or use a lot of blood #in my work so rendering everything and looking up refs it felt quite magical (?) #ruporas art

[spitblaze]

'the human body is perfect god doesnt make mistakes' what about wisdom teeth then. huh. gonna let those bastards grow in and fuck up your jaw for god. didnt think so

#spitblaze says things #i know they CAN grow in without issue but that is. for the most part. not the case #doin numbers

[esotericrapture]

during the pandemic I was lucky and was doing some volunteer work rather than being in quarantine, essential personal and all that (hurricanes and wildfires didn't stop)

in 2021 I left that job and for 3 years I have done nothing since cause some of that said work exacerbated and added new quirks to my already funky brain

I feel like that's just an excuse but my therapists and medical professionals have told me otherwise

In particular I can't drive which fucks everything up when you live in that nightmare section of suburbia where you can't walk anywhere and the only thing around are strip malls with pricy restaurants

Though there is a library close by that I frequent, it's not one of the two where events happen where I might talk with other humans (beyond the common courtesy talk)

I've also gotten so highstrung i act fucking aggressively or panic when i start talking to literally anyone for more than the 5 second chat with a store clerk

I need to find people I can parasite their automobility for and I'm plenty likeable so it shouldn't be a problem once I get to an activity (it's taken me years of therapy to somewhat believe that, let me indulge that particular delusion and truth)

I'll start by screaming here, and by trying to actually showcase my stories online, still, even that will be a problem cause of my aforementioned funky brain

I don't know what the point of this was, maybe its just noise, and it's definitely an invitation for communication, but it's unlikely many or any will see this (or they/you will be anxious too)

It's also likely I'll be too frightened to do anything about potential first contact and delete this account before I end up engaging with you native aliens (humans but my brain is funky and I don't understand y'all sometimes, least of all myself)

Anywho, I think my messages are open. I'm pretty chill I think, if you want to be a dick that's fine too.

As for things to talk about i think I'm a standard nerd with a little more travel experience than most.

/End incessant droning

#mental health #ramblings #social shit #idk how to tag this #I'm socially stunted online #so i dont use emojis #except to perform or indicate insincere humor #im adhd #ive done a lot of different things #for one week or less #in most cases #but still #...this tagging function is fun #im probably using it wrong lol #am i? #i have had access to a bunch of things though family #and a pushy parent who wanted me to do things

[chloesimaginationthings]

Everyone “hates” Mike in the FNAF movie..

#myart #chloesimagination #comic #fnaf #mike schmidt #fnaf vanessa #vanessa shelly #vanessa afton #jeremiah fnaf #fnaf max #Cindy fnaf #fnaf movie #fnaf fanart #five nights at freddy's #THIS is another unserious comic btw #BUT I JUST find it funny we’re told thru the whole FNAF movie that like #everyone hates Mike he has no friends most people are angry at him #then a good portion of the folks who actually meet Mike #just genuinely like him #or in some cases like Cindy the ice cream girl straight up have a crush on him #Mike has some unspoken rizz to him idk #everyone loves a sleepy guy 🩵 #what makes it funnier is Mike doesn’t even pick up at all people like him #that one ‘meet the Robinson’s’ bit #love you Mike Schmidt you’re so funny 💜💜

[tarnussy]

Nokstella, Eternal City

#elden ring #nokstella #eldenringedit #gamingedit #dailysoulsborne #tarnussygif #dark fantasy #mine #soulsborne #fromsoftware #gif #video game #dailygaming #gamingscenery #nokstella eternal city #architecture #these are supposed to be very sharp and crisp on most devices #though on some older phones they can look blurry (on mine too) because they are big. if that's the case open them up separately