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[modernerrors]

Objectivity not Psychopathy

The Good Psychopath's Guide to Success By: Andy McNab, Kevin Dutton Dear Kevin Dutton, I love the objective story-telling of McNab and others like him, but our belittled, dominated sons of mothers, DO have non-objective, lustful/emotional needs for a female.

Objective normality:

There are a few men who don’t allow that gullible side to have power over their actions around women, who use that self-control and discipline to guide their thinking, even around women. One well-known man, I follow, who has that mindset, was also in the SAS reserves, is my human encouragement in this over-powered female era, even though -I would argue -his mindset is a bit messed up by the half century-old feminist zeitgeist. Suffragettes and feminism is one of the main delusions of this age [in my humble, and not very popular opinion- but that’s another bugbear for a different time!] But going back to this so-called psychopathy when yet another woman gets that space in McNab’s life, where the psychopathy then? It ain’t there in that situation, because he has not mastered it. I’m just using that as an example of my title.

Objectivity not Psychopathy As with all human beings, our outward man [non gender specific – scriptural use] is extremely affected by nurture, or lack of good nurture. Scripturally, along with other forms of therapeutic efforts, we may understand that our inner man [again, my Scriptural use of this concept] is also affected by our family spiritual/soul-tie legacy. So that is the beginnings of our human make-up, even before we reach an age of understanding/consent/self-awareness. Without going in to specifics of other spiritual adversities, we respond to life from the above foundations. Jeremiah 1:5 “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you…” We all have that basis in our acceptance of who we are, and what we are here for.

Many parents do not have a lovely nurturing personality within them. This helps us understand why so many of us fall short of being a happy, well-balanced, confident individual. Nurture – or lack of it – produces our main responses to life. No blame needs to be spread about, just an understanding of the forces against many of us on this earth.

So when I have observed the ability of some people to go about the world with an innate friendliness and expectancy [and consequently: receiving] of friendliness, I can understand why this was never my own foundational experience. Not only that, but I observed that when I spoke plain truth in my own objective and unfettered exposition, I managed to upset people. Yet when I listened to their own explanation of my ‘mistaken’ opinions, I found that they were speaking from their own emotional disposition, but yet it actually backed up my own words, but the interpretation is individualistic. That is the conflict: emotion versus objectivity. I can see the big picture, i.e. my mind encapsulates memory of events and results of said events. Whereas, I have come to understand that most people can only receive the immediate as truth. They generally fall down on keeping a perspective of the big picture. To me that again speaks of emotional response to immediate events versus the inevitability of THE BIG PICTURE. Restrictive emotional response, versus objectivity [unblinkered-by emotional subjectivity]. I used to think my personality was psychopathic, but I have come to understand, that God’s formation of my personality was not different to others, in that I’m not a rogue element in this life!! Psalms 139 13 For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb.

I don’t believe God’s formation was psychopathy, but objectivity, and it is a characteristic which is not often put into a person.

Dutton's last questionnaire:

how good are you at uncoupling behaviour from emotion?

My point precisely

#Andy McNab #Kevin Dutton #Objectivity #femalepower #SAS #psychopathy

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Kevin McNab (AUS) and CUTE GIRL, the new 7yo eventing world champion

#mondial du lion #lion d'angers #eventing #kevin mcnab #cute girl #cross country #world breeding championships

[spencer-reids-adventures]

anyone else a fan of both buffy the vampire slayer and criminal minds?

8x8 the wheels on the bus // 4x14 cold comfort // 8x12 zugzwang

6x7 once more with feeling // 5x2 real me // 7x15 get it done

#xander harris #kevin lynch #nicholas brendon #harmony kendall #brooke lombardini #mercedes mcnab #dawn summers #diane turner #michelle trachtenberg #buffy the vampire slayer #btvs #criminal minds #cm 8x8 the wheels on the bus #cm 4x14 cold comfort #cm 8x12 zugzwang #btvs 6x7 once more with feeling #btvs 5x2 real me #btvs 7x15 get it done #cm comparison sets

[coolladydot]

ABC-ul psihopatului 2 (recenzie)

ABC-ul psihopatului 2 (recenzie) Igiena mentală este esențială. Viciile și slăbiciunile sunt ca niște bacterii psihologice. Dacă dau de un mediu poprice, se vor înmulți; asta în absența unei structuri și dacă lași distracția să te întrerupă.

Autor: Kevin Dutton și Andy McNab

Editura: Globo, București

An apariție: 2018

Numă pagini: 253

Traducere: Răzvan Lerescu

Titlul original: Sorted! The Good Psychopath’s Guide to Bossing Your Life. How to win your everyday battles, 2015

Avem o întrebare pentru voi:

De câte ori credeți că cineva încearcă să vă convingă?

Din momentul în care vă treziți dimineața până când puneți…

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#abc-ul psihopatului 2 #abc-ul psihopatului de succes #Andy McNab #dezvoltare personala #idei și sfaturi pentru o viață mai buna #Kevin Dutton #psihologie #psihopat #psihopat de succes

[thatpaintedpony]

Also huge congrats to Kevin McNab and Don Quidam (aka Donkey Dan) for pulling out an absolutely stellar performance after being pulled in from the reserve. Definitely a combination to look out for!

[xanyoules]

Aspiring To Be A ‘Good’ Psychopath

Since studying psychology, it’s been hard to pinpoint a specific area that I love the most. There comes a point you’re encouraged to pick a discipline. Are you a neuroscientist? Are you a social psychologist? Perhaps a statistician? Personally, there’s too much out there that fascinates me for me to pin down a specific area. Maybe I will in time, but for now, I’m enjoying exploring all psychology has to offer.

One debate we come back to time after time is the validity and consequences of labels. Medical professionals have the ability to label a human being, usually according to a medical model, and that label has a lot of power. It can both liberate and oppress. I was curious about how labelling works and if there’s scope for expanding a label despite popular stereotypes and myths. I decided to research psychopathy, after all, who isn’t morbidly fascinated by psychopaths? I began to read Kevin Dutton, a British psychologist who specialises in psychopathy. His pop-psychology books, ‘The Wisdom of Psychopaths’ and a collaborative project resulting in ‘How To Be a Good Psychopath’ (written with Andy McNab) were some of the first literature I’ve read that suggests psychopathy could be a neutral phenomena or even good.

Dutton’s argument rests on the fact that the traits that define psychopathy are traits we all can cultivate and they are not inherently bad traits. They include: ruthlessness, fearlessness, mental toughness, charm, persuasiveness and a lack of conscience and empathy. In ‘The Wisdom of Psychopaths’, Dutton looks at how if someone from a low socioeconomic background or with challenges in life experiences these traits, they are more likely to develop into a ‘bad’ psychopath simply due to their environment. If you are fearless, ruthless, and are by no fault of your own living in an extremely deprived area, you may turn to criminality to advance your situation. However these traits when linked with more affluent settings can be a great advantage. The charming CEO? The persuasive City broker? The ruthless lawyer? The difference lies in whether you are privileged or oppressed.

Dutton and McNab’s collaboration whilst easy to read and mildly amusing gets a little tiresome after a while, drifting away from actual psychological insight and into boorish, macho banter. I would still recommend it if you have an open mind, enjoy psychological discourse and would like to hone your (good) psychopathic skills! I’m cursed with something diagnosed psychopaths are lacking: emotions. I feel everything on a deep, intense level that rocks me to my core. Psychopaths can feel but it is extremely unlikely they will feel remorse or depressive emotions. Some neuroscientific research suggests psychopaths have less activity in the amygdala, the part of the brain responsible for the emotion of anxiety and fear. This is what can lead to psychopaths constantly chasing the next thrill; they aren’t scared of the consequences and are always looking for excitement.

A prisoner in Broadmoor Hospital, England tells Dutton: “I have to feel good. Feeling good is an emergency for me.” However, his psychopathy and personal actions have led to him being a patient in a high-security psychiatric setting, so we can already infer this emergency was causing harm in the outside world. Yet, the quote stuck with me. All too often (in my experience and many other millennials) we can forget to prioritise feeling good.

Here are the self-growth points I took away from Dutton’s insights.

A Good Psychopath:

Lives in the moment. Psychopaths don’t plan! They live in here and now. Dutton even talks about how this trait is linked to the current trend of mindfulness. So … that email? Those cross words with my BFF? I’ve already moved on — good psychopath style.

Doesn’t take it personally. Dwelling on an insult or perceived injustice towards you for hours, days, or even longer is simply giving your energy to something or someone for no good reason.

Funnily enough, a good psychopath is agreeable. Non-psychopaths will fight a corner for their whole lives. Psychopaths, because they don’t things personally, can agree with you even if they think your idea is trash. They’ll end up doing what they want anyway, so why waste time in an argument?

Is rational. They can step outside of the moment and put emotions to a side, therefore less likely to get into a verbal-bust up or have their ego bruised (it’s unlikely they’d be feeling the way many of us do in heightened situations anyway, especially those of us who are atypical/non-neurotypical). They won’t be feeling hurt, upset, angry, frustrated, anxious, fearful.

Has fun! A good psychopath likes to have a laugh. They love charming people and they enjoy people admiring them but their whole self worth doesn’t rest on if others like them or not. Psychopaths actually don’t care. They’re uber-confident.

I don’t always manage to achieve these goals. Like with any form of self-care, practice can take time.

Concluding, I would argue that yes, there is such a thing as a good psychopath. I know I am not one and never will be due to those pesky emotions and my ridiculously overactive amygdala. Some of my personal growth goals are related to being grounded, more present and less reactive. I’ve made progress with these over the past couple of years and I believe the actions I’m taking forward from Dutton’s work will contribute to my journey. I also have a few friends who, if not are good psychopaths, irr on the side of good psychopathy and inspire me with their pearls of wisdom. They insist “playing the game”, chilling out, cutting your losses and jumping into the next big thing is worth it. Whilst I’m good at these in theory, I’m always left with an emotional hangover: I can get stuck with feelings and anxieties, a need to constantly defend myself, overthink something or worry of other people’s perceptions of me. I’m working on replacing that inner critic’s voice with an inner good, kind psychopath. Instead of “ugh, now they hate you. You’ll never get past this” I’m working to implement a “aw shucks, that’s awkward. Never mind. You did your best, kid. No hard feelings. Let’s crack on!”

Much better, isn’t it? I hope you can find your inner Good Psychopath too.

#psychology #psychopathy #mental health #self care #self growth #personal growth #goals #self reflection #good psychopath #labels #kevin dutton #psychopath #psycho #writblr #writing #academia #research #academic

[kevinalstad]

Slash and the Bleeding Hearts - band pic circa early 80′s 

Bio by Slash and the Bleeding Hearts Drummer George Miller: I started the band around 1979 with singer Barry Sainchuck.Barry and I played together in a band called Gallery and when that band folded, we started Slash and The Bleeding Hearts. We added guitarist Kevin Alstad, and Bassist Gary Law (R.I.P.). And off we went doing the same as all the bands starting out back then. Taking on big dept buying PA systems and light gear, but without that we would not have been able to get many gigs. Around 1981/1982 Barry decided it was starting to take up a little more time then he had to give so we started to look for his replacement. Eventually finding Mark Boutiller as the singer and also adding rhythm guitarist/ keyboard Kelly McCarthy. Along with sound man Bill Kennedy (R.I.P). Shortly thereafter bassists Gary left the band and we added Eugeene Goertzen who had just finished playing in local band Patch. I was very familiar with Gene as he and I also played in Gallery together, so the rhythm section came together in a hurry.One of the bands big turns was when we opened for a show at the U OF A. I think it was the first gig with the new members. The room went absolutely crazy.After that we were booked solid going from struggling playing low profile bars to crowds of 500 to1000 people and lining up local clubs every weekend.As things went on and we decided that were going to take the band on the road Gene was not able to continue as he had started his own business with his brother, so we parted ways and added bass player Don Airchuck. (R.I.P.). Not long after Don came on board Kevin was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma and had to leave the band for treatment. He beat the cancer and was back to his normal self about a year later. In the meantime we replaced Kevin with Brent McNab, (R.I.P.) and replaced Don with Frank Juskiw (R.I.P.) We worked hard on trying to get a record deal but were never able to find the one we wanted and a few years later Slash was finished and we all went our separate ways but always stayed close to each other. Slash was like a family to all of us and to this day still is to this day.The Band ended around 1984. Had a Reunion show in 1990 at the Convention Inn South and will have another Reunion show on September 14, 2019 at Shaker’s Road House.

#slashandthebleedinghearts canadianband 1980s edmonton

[lovinmullen]

42, 43, and 46!! 💐💖

42.) favourite books:

mal.... that’s so cute of you to think so highly of me but like- you know i can’t read!!!!!! please show some respect😔😭💔💔

on a real though i think i’d have to say brothers in arms by geraint jones or the good psychopaths guide to success by andy mcnab and kevin dutton (i know that one sounds bad but i read it for my psych class and it’s honestly so interesting!!!)

43.) favourite song ever:

probably breakeven by the script :’))) not only is that an ABSOLUTE BANGER!!!!! but they where the first band i saw live so they hold a special place in my heart :’)) (i used to have the fattest crush on Danny O’Donoghue but we SHAN’T TALK ABOUT THAT)

46.) what my last text says:

it’s far too long and embarrassing to quote but it was me ranting about one of my favourite tiktokers who’s account got deactivated to my friend jess :’(

#if your for you page is military tiktok? you know who the fuck im on about lmao #he was so peng😔 #DHSJSJSGHS im joking obviosuly the situation is so sticky and im very sad for him and what the tik tok he posted might do to his career but #as an ethics student like i can see both sides- #but also a dishonourable discharge is treated the same as a criminal record and your life? being completly fucked over because of a drunken #joke... when EVERYONE IN THAT FIELD would have that kinda humour?? shit man.... #nE way!!!! thank you mal you’re wonderful!!!! im sorry im so late getting back to this :( #love you <33333 #mal: a powerful talented bitch with fred vibes i’d do anything for #tom.answers

[barbaraa217gray]

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Kevin McNab and CUTE GIRL, the new 7yo eventing world champion

#just a very cute horse indeed #cute girl #kevin mcnab #eventing #world breeding championships #lion d'angers #mondial du lion

[frankieyen]

Tagged by @hello-my-name-is-sharpshooter ( Thank you)

relationship status : single forever

favorite color: idk, I think pale colors

3 favorite foods: pasta, salad and

fries

last song i listened to: Rammstein - Sonne

last movie I watched: Charlie and the Chocolate Factory

3 favorite shows: Dexter, The White Princess, Stranger Things

3 favorite bands: Rammstein, Panic! at the Disco, The Neighborhood

book I’m reading: Sorted! The Good Psychopath’s Guide to Bossing Your Life by Kevin Dutton and Andy McNab

I tag @puff20202020 @gventli @thoughts-homicidal

[lost-soul-suicide]

Dzięki, że wpadłeś. A teraz wypierdalaj.

Kevin Dutton, Andy McNab- "Odkryj w sobie psychopatę"

#cytat #książka #psychopata #psychopatia #wypierdalaj

[coolladydot]

ABC-ul psihopatului de succes (recenzie)

ABC-ul psihopatului de succes (recenzie) E important totuși să te lupți pentru tine. Și asta în viața de zi cu zi. Dacă stai tot timpul și înduri, făcând ce vor ceilalți și nu ce vrei tu, atunci n-o să știi niciodată cine ești cu adevărat.

Autor: Dr. Kevin Dutton și Andy McNab

Editura: Globo

An apariție: 2015, București

Număr pagini: 403

Traducător: Răzvan Lerescu

Titlul original: The Good Psychopath’s Guide to Succes How to use your inner psychopath to get the most out of life

În viață, te poți feri de succes în multe feluri. Dar, dacă vreți să fiți siguri, puteți să dați o șansă amânării.

Amânarea poate fi…

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[kapmog]

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[babyjamiebarnes]

tag game

Rules: choose any three fandoms (in random order) and answer the questions. Then tag some friends. I was tagged by @tomhollandisdaddy2003 (I still don’t know why you’re following me holy shit)

I choose

Marvel

Criminal Minds

Psych

The First Character You Loved

Peter Parker (if we’re including the 2002 movie) or Tony Stark - Spider-Man got me hooked on superheroes, Iron Man got me hooked on Marvel

Spencer Reid - he’s such a dork I love him so much

Shawn Spencer - duh

The Character You Never Expected To Love

Bruce Banner - I love Mark Ruffalo but Hulk never really interested me until recently

Hotchner - I honestly didn’t like Hotch for a few seasons but when Jack became more prevalent in his life omg I fell in love

Henry Spencer - I mean... I didn’t have an answer so I went with Henry because he was kind of a dick in the first season

The Character You Relate To The Most

Baby Groot - I just wanna be small and have a good time

Penelope Garcia - she’s so kooky and wonderful

Buzz McNab - lmao

The Character You’d Slap

Tony and Steve - be fucking nice to each other

Prentiss - stop leaving please

Shawn - sometimes he just needs to be slapped honestly

Three Favorite Character (In order of preference)

Sam Wilson, Peggy Carter, Clint Barton

Spencer Reid, Penelope Garcia, Derek Morgan

Gus, Shawn Spencer, Woody

A Character You Liked At First But Not Anymore  

literally none

A Character You Didn’t Like At First But Now Do

Vision - I’m still on the rocks with Vision but he’s growing on me

Erin Strauss - she was so mean to the team but the way Hotch treated her in the end made me feel so bad for her

Yang - she literally almost killed Shawn’s mom but she’s such a fun character

3 otp’s (in order of preference)

Steve + Peggy, Bucky + Nat, Pepper + Tony

Derek + Garcia (platonic), Spencer + JJ (platonic), Kevin + Garcia

Shawn + Jules, Lassie + Marlowe, Henry + Madeleine

Tags

I don’t really talk to anyone on this blog yet so I’m just tagging @protectjamesbarnes lmao sorry dude

#about me #tag game

[criss1941]

23, 29, 40 😊😘💕

23. Who is your favourite author of all time? Damn this a hard one, I think I'm gonna go with Kevin Dutton. His book The Good Psycopath's Guide to Success, I've read far too many times as you probably know😕. But I love his writing style. I suppose I should also say Andy McNab who co-authors quite a few words his books. 29. What book are you currently reading? I'm currently rereading the Harry Potter series and am Prisoner of Azkaban. 40. What's the weirdest book you have read? As in my last answer I'm still struggle to answer this, but I looked through my books again and found 1001 ridiculous ways to die by David Southwell. And it's got some weird shit in it. Thanks for the ask lovely 😘

#me