#kinder gender

[langernameohnebedeutung]

Straight white men community VICIOUSLY assaulted by 1 entire movie not catering to them. Yeah it's the Barbie movie what's your point.

#It's funny how women can spend their entire educational careers reading work after work that insults their entire gender #watch basically 99% of movies side-line them. can't go through one day without hearing some misogynistic song on the radio #meanwhile white men can be broken by not enough representation in the barbie movie lmao #(especially since the barbie movie isn't even cruel or mean. it is a lot kinder than what it is satirising) #headlines

[profeminist]

"It takes a brave man to face a brave woman, and man's fear of woman's creative energy has never found an expression more clear than in the old German clamor, renewed by the Nazis, of "Kinder, Küche, Kirche" for women."

-- Pearl S. Buck

"Kinder, Küche, Kirche, or the 3 Ks, is a German slogan translated as "children, kitchen, church" used under the German Empire to describe a woman's role in society. It now has a mostly derogatory connotation, describing what is seen as an antiquated female role model in contemporary Western society."

"In a September 1934 speech to the National Socialist Women's Organization, Hitler argued that for the German woman her "world is her husband, her family, her children, and her home", a policy which was reinforced by the stress on "Kinder" and "Küche" in propaganda, and the bestowing of the Cross of Honor of the German Mother on women bearing four or more babies."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinder,_K%C3%BCche,_Kirche

#feminism #feminist #antifeminism #antifeminist #gender roles #kinder kuche kirche #sexism #sexist

[an-overgrown-greenhouse]

home is where the heart is, and ive lost both

#jrwi #jrwi fanart #jrwi riptide #jrwi edyn #edyn tidestrider #something about being the older sister (gender neutral) #oh my little brother #i wish the world had treated you kinder #that would have been nice #cricket noises

[feline-evil]

Dick or no dick confirmation Pickles was always going to be trans to me anyways; if he's swingin' somethin that's phallo babes, if he's not then his t-dick fat. What's not to get.

#metalocalypse #jay talkin #I'm sorry they wrote that awful gross little man far too likeable and relatable to on a trans level #for me not to hoot and holler and cheer for the trans pickles agenda #changes nothing about his character arc or any of the show anyone is capable of being the kind of person he is #don't make the mistake of thinking thats exclusive to cis men #his transness wouldnt change that #only adds on an extra layer to him that i think works fantastically. #Listen that dude was rejected by his family driven to drink and drugs young to escape that ran away to be in a band #is called fucking Pickles of all things and refuses to tell anyone his real last name; #over the span of four seasons and two movies he slowly starts to learn to be for others what he never had #he becomes more caring more supportive #it's not a stretch to say he undoes some of the toxic masculinity he's been keeping himself shielded behind #and learns how to be a kinder man. #all of which have no contradictions with him being trans! #In fact it doesn't take much extra thought to find ways a lot of this can line up with some trans masculine experiences #i mean. Did no one else have a younger phase where they swung as far as they could into crass rude and uncaring ways #to try and assert their masculinity only to grow and realise that you can be a man and be more caring. #Did no one else have father issues. 1 800 come on now i know those are both shared experiences a lot of us have had LOL. #at the end of the day this show aired nearly 20 years ago and is finished. we're not getting more of it #so nothing is altered nor changed if pickles is canonically trans or not ok. its fine #i mean hell i dont even need canon confirmation hes trans to me and thats all i care abt #but i think if yr getting suuuuuper weird abt needing him not to be canonically trans you have some issues #and bio essentialist ideals of gender if you think only a cis man can act like he does #again. anyone can be like that. its not exclusive. him being trans would not change him in any way shape or form lol #AND ALSO GODDDUUUGH for once i love getting to see a guy pushing 50 whos depicted as trans #do you have any idea how dire and barren it is out here. we never get to see a trans guy older than 30 and whos not a pristine model #I WANT MORE OLD SHLUBBY SHITHEAD TRANS GUYS IN MEDIA

[kafkaguy]

havin a gender crisis at the train station lol #epic

#reading some lesbian comics and marvelling at the butch experience.......... and then also going into Brain Explode Mode bcos #of how similar it is to the transmasc experience #understanding why so many trans dudes are like 'oh what im just butch or a very masculine woman' #and butches are like 'oh what if im a trans guy' #THE VENN DIAGRAMS BRO. INTERSECTIONS AND CONNECTIONS AND SHARED EXPERIENCES #we are FRIENDS but also its making me feel all . What If She Pronouns. What If More Nonbinary Than I Thought... #cos the thing IS as a bisexual i do feel like my sexuality and gender identity are so intertwined its sometimes annoying #so i cannot think of it as like Ah Yes I Like Men Therefore Im a Homosexual #its a like. i like EVERYONE therefore i am EVERYTHING cos ALL my attraction feels Gay with a capital G #im gay for women im gay for men im gay for everything in between and outside #but i dont see my attraction to women as attraction to the opposite gender cos i dont see women as Opposite or necessarily separate #and vice versa i dont see my attraction to guys as . excuse the outdated language - 'same sex attraction' #because i dont necessarily see myself as A Man . yknow? #the binary is fucked identity is everchanging and ever molding and i am just a little wavelength of light floating through space #THEREFORE. idk where i was going with this #i just think that queerness and humanity are so much more complicated than any of us realise #and sometimes it is so frustrating and tiring seeing other people like me and wjth the same experiences as me #being so conservative and so assuming and trying to generalise something so personal #i am not Doing Trans Wrong . there is no wrong to be trans imo #and i also think we need to be kinder to detransitioned people + transmasc lesbians / transfem gays + nonbinary bisexuals ok thanks bye

[looselipssinkships-x]

prehiatus pete looks a lot like my cousin did when we were like 18-20

my cousin has since come out as nonbinary and started hrt

#my poor rural midwestern grandparents got two nonbinary grandkids confused the heck out of them #anyways #those moments in life where you're okay with how things ended up and you're happy but you also know things could have been different and #sometimes you just wonder what that would've been like #sometimes i wonder if pete had been mid twenties now instead of twenty years ago and people were kinder to him if things would be different #idk #maybe im just out here #thinkin a lil too much about gender and acceptance and place and time #fall out boy #fob #pete wentz

[gestippeldedieseltreinworm]

I’m just so tired of being insulted for what I like

My music taste? Sucks

How I dress? Ugly

My haircut? Ugly

My body hair? Gross

I see all those positivity posts for butches on tumblr but nobody I know irl actually feels that way

Even if people try to be nice all they do is deny what I am

Oh you’re not masculine you’re beautiful? Like fuck off I am masculine. Why does that mean I’m automatically ugly?

#I’m so tired of gender non conformity being treated as insulting #the other day my brother said he thought lp was a man when I was wearing her merch #and he was like no offense but I really thought she was a guy #as if that’s the most horrible thing in the world #like no she does look like a man and that’s amazing #it makes her one of the most beautiful people in the world #I wish the world was kinder to butches #butch

[brainfullofbees]

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#thinking about... #i... don't know if my identity will ever be fully accepted by my family #my mom is so attached to my birth name that i just. can't bring the will to tell her not to say it anymore #she knows my pronouns but... does she use them? does she think of me as they/them? or will i always be she/her to her? #how much of my extended family would understand and accept me? how many of them would make an effort for me? #ha.......... i don't even have the courage to ask for the right name to be used at work #scared of questions... scared of judgement... of harassment... #i just want to be quiet and lay low and get my work done so i have money to live #i just #i hate that there's no way for me to be gendered correctly without outing myself #i hate that the world is the way it is and i'm scared of just existing #i wish things were easier #i wish people were kinder

[myname-isnia]

Idk why I thought the new year would suddenly bring immense change to me as a person, it was such a childish belief, I can’t believe I let myself fall for it. The years go by but I remain the messed up anxious wreck who starts crying the second she’s left alone with her thoughts. The new year won’t change anything, nothing will

#just look at me #I could very possibly graduate from school in half a year and I still don’t know what I want to do with my life #I can’t take the slightest bit of criticism or else I’ll feel like shit for a week #I need to be staring at a screen at all hours of the day because if I don’t distract myself I will break down #I’m so obsessed with pleasing people that when I can’t fulfill the simplest of requests I want to die #indulging in hobbies. things that are supposed to be enjoyable. feels like hell for me #through all my years of creating there is only one piece I can honestly say I like and am proud of #and I haven’t even touched writing since because I’m scared of not being able to reach that high again #art comes a little easier but I’m only capable of one or two pieces a month #I don’t have anyone irl whom I trust. I’m so lonely that I literally have imaginary friends. at 17 #and I still haven’t figured out my gender or what pronouns I prefer. I don’t even like the name I picked for myself #I could go on forever #I don’t know how anyone puts up with me. I know I wouldn’t if I had the choice #I keep going on and on about how I want to get better. I don’t want to be so miserable all the time #but I just don’t know how #I try to be kinder with myself and I’ve been pretty successful at it but.. it doesn’t help #I can be soft and gentle all I want. it won’t make everything else go away #so there’s nothing left for me to do but cry all alone in my apartment at 2 a.m #I guess

[kinderes]

experiencing gender but in a younger sibling way. like haha yeah I don't really have much of a gender but it's cool i'm comfy- hey what gender is that? is that your gender? can I have some :]

#kinderes ramblings #genderfree but also if you're having some then i'll have some :] hey share your gender w/ me? :] #mum said it's my turn w/ the gender #get my own? no

[ghostcradle]

i could not be further from a ‘choice feminist’ obvi but i do think the movement has bigger issues than the reasons why someone might choose to wear makeup

#like at a certain point when we discuss socialization and gender #you cross the line between it being a valuable discussion to just like… needlessly ostracizing people #and needlessly being unkind in favor of being correct #we should literally always strive to be kinder to each other that is part of organizing that is part of the movement #taqrir

[breitzbachbea]

I should put Harry more often in women's roles and women's dresses, he'd be a pretty lass, but the problem with him is that he fundamentally don't wanna be a pretty lass, I think. Yes he wants to be seen as smart and refined and he very much wants to be vulnerable with a partner, but it's not very much how he presents to the outside world.

#should wear some gay ass earrings tho #beablabbers #harry #I think as much as he would love being a pretty woman with Michele I just ... idk ... he expresses his sexuality and gender differently #Michele wants to lean in into the feminine role he was never allowed to be under his father's watchful eye #Harry just wants to be more vulnerable and kinder and softer in a way he associates with his father

[ukulelegodparent]

German saying of the day:

Andere Mütter haben auch schöne Töchter.

"other mothers also have pretty daughters"

Basically to give support to a person who just got rejected/ended a relationship

#you have no idea how much this one has been carrying me lately #like ok ok ok I'm more ok it will all be ok now but also no. I want this daughter in particular. #also i personally would always use 'töchter' here regardless of the actual preference of a person #even though you could of course always say 'Kinder' #but idk 'Töchter is gender neutral here I can't explain it #but also the amount to which ive been relying on this one lately is frankly embarrassing

[juniperandjustice]

I want a kinder world.

Just because YOU don't understand how someone else identifies or someone else's existence, that doesn't mean that you get to INVALIDATE their existence and experience of life!!!!!    You don’t have to understand someone to accept them and be kind to them.

#transphobes #transphobia #homophobia #biphobia #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #queer #gender #kindness #acceptance #a kinder world #validate #invalidate #identity #no terfs #go away transphobes #terf

[moon-o-magic]

I’m a simple man. I think abt my AU blorbo and then I draw her.

(He/Him + She/Her pronoun sets for Double-Dee!)

#Sfw #He Spittle #moon eene #You can tell when I like a character when I make them as interesting to write as possible #Trans fem + Intersex? Gender writing. Disabled from fireworks? Small talks abt being half blind and deaf #The canonical mental illness? (bc. Look at her in canon. Neurodivergent behavior) Writing abt dealing with it + being kinder to herself #eene #My art

[mothheart]

People who think neopronouns are somehow harmful to trans people and that if they clown on a 14 year old for saying they want to be called pup/pupself that they'll get the cishets to like them more all while thinking they're progressive make me just

#'its he she or they or im calling you by your first name thats all i got' tell me how this is any different from saying #theres only two genders. no really i want to know #why do you care so much what other queer people are doing. why do you hate people for doing things that make them happy. #doing things that they feel represent them in a way he she or they cannot #because its 'cringe' thats it #cry about it fucking pissbaby #cishets arent going to be any kinder or give us more rights if we treat our own people like shit. grow up #miles rambles