#loving aro

[zombie-jed]

#aro #aro week #aromantic #arospec #aroallo #aroace #queer #lgbtqia #loveless aro #arolovic #loving aro #aromantic spectrum

[vampchosis]

theres something so painful about being aromantic and desperately craving love, just not romantic love

i want to be loved i want to love people, i want to care for and be cared for in return, but i dread being seen in a romantic light, but nobody will care for me as much as i care for them unless its seen as romantic

#carmi rambles #aromantic #aro #arospec #loving aro

[xxstrawberrybunxx]

Aromanticism can encompass so many wide ranges of experiences, like, so many.

There's loveless and heartless aros and loving aros, aplatonic aros and aros who really value platonic love. Alloaros, aroaces, non-sam aros.

I'm a non-sam aro as in I don't consider the split-attraction model to be very important in my identity. I don't feel the need to put boundaries on romantic, sexual, and platonic love and attraction.

Someone else might also be a non-sam aro and have completely different experiences and definitions then me and that's like, totally fine!

There's no one way to define aromantic experiences and there's no one way to define aromantic love or lack-there-of. All of us reserve the right to have our own spaces and be left-the-fuck-alone tbh.

#aromantic #loveless aro #loving aro #aplatonic #non sam aro #heartless aro #aroace #alloaro #greyaromantic #greyaro #lithoromantic #litho-aro??? #object-loving that's also cool I'm that #other aros #all the aros #arrows

[my-chemical-aromance]

i love how many ppl see my qpr posts and go “yeah!!! me too!!!” and tag their partners and stuff :3 its so sweet i love that others love like me

#aro #qpr #queerplatonic #queerplatonic relationship #qpp tag #loving aro #aro positivity #lovequeer aro #aro lovecore #arolovic #queer love #queer platonic partner #queer platonic relationship #queer platonic attraction #queer platonic #aro pride

[aroacefounder]

"Stop saying love is what makes someone human!"

Okay.

Stop assuming I have any attachment to humanity just because I value love.

#bestie I'm not even a solid #voidpunk #alterhuman #loving aro #disclaimer that this is my bitter vent blog and unless we've talked before i'll probably softblock new followers

[saffigon]

Reminder to aspecs, our solidarity is our strength.

Non-SAM Aro and AroAllo solidarity Loving & Lovequeer and Loveless & Heartless solidarity AroAllo and AlloAce solidarity Romance Favorable and Romance Repulsed solidarity Sex Favorable and Sex Repulsed solidarity AroAce and AroAllo solidarity Romance Indifferent and Sex Indifferent solidarity Aplatonic and Alloplatonic Aspec solidarity Romo Aro and Heartless solidarity Partnering Polyamorous and Nonparterning / Nonamorous solidarity Amid and AroAce solidarity Cupio and Apothi solidarity Fray & Lith and Demi solidarity

Any and all aspec solidarity. We are not each other's enemy. Support each other, no matter how "opposite" your aspec identities may be.

#aromantic #aro #arospec #asexual #ace #acespec #aplatonic #apl #aplspec #nonsam aro #aroallo #alloaro #heartless aro #lovequeer aro #loveless aro #arolovic #loving aro #alloace #aroace #acearo #romo aro #amid #aromid #acemid #nonamorous #nonpartnering #nonam

[queerbatting]

happy aro week to polyamorous arospecs!

those who struggle with getting feelings for multiple partners let alone one; those whose relationship type blurs between romantic and queerplatonic/alterous and any other teritary attraction; those who are lovequeer or loveless or arolovic; those who love their metamours in a way that can't be labeled; those who face dismissal and disapproval from those who don't understand how our identities can overlap; any and every polyamorous arospec

we don't get a lot of attention despite existing on an intersection of being affected by amatonormativity, so im sending you all my appreciation 🦇

#aro week #aromantic #aro #arospec #polyam #polyamory #polyamorous #loveless #loveless aro #lovequeer #loving aro #arolovic #critter chitters

[aros-ur-lovecore]

[ID: The words "Love is what you make it" in green letters. The background is a picture of a pink cake with red heart sprinkles and cherries. The colors in the image are the same colors as the arolovic flag. There is a glitter and heart filter over the image. End ID]

Being arolovic is beautiful and every form of love has so much value. Love can be whatever you want!

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#lisedit #aro lovecore #aromantic lovecore #aro #aromantic #arolovic #loving aro #safeforaro #safe for aro #actually aro #actually aromantic #food tw #eyestrain #colored text

[tangymogais]

Happy valentines day to all the arolovics!! Sli hope y'all have a great day and enjoy all the plushies hearts and chocolates and cute little cards between friends <3

Ruby chocolates for you!!

#arolovic #loving aro #aromantic

[35tr314]

i get so sad whenever other aromantic people i follow post about hating love / romantic love or 'love loses' etc.... like, it feels so isolating, the way i hold love so close to my heart (lol), and seeing this things being said....

#i need to folkow more loving aro people....... #loving aro #arolovic #aromantic #aro #love #arolovedox #paradox aro #eu q escrevi (posts) #eu q escrevi (queer)

[pixel-mess]

yo, I wish there were more aro memes that were about loving aros/arolovics

#aro #arospec #aromantic #actually aro #aromanticism #loving aro #arolovic #stuff

[heart-pride]

Could you do a Arolovic/loving aro heart?

#arolovic #loving aro #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #pride #pride backgrounds #pride banners #pride wallpaper #pride icons #aesthetic wallpaper #heart wallpaper #heart #wallpaper #aesthetic

[muse-of-nothing]

maybe i'm too much of a homestucker & chronically online & lonely sack of shit to (metaphorically) think straight, but (in my purely subjective opinion) moirail/moirallegiance are so much better words then QPR

like, QPR is an acronym for queer/quasi-platonic relationship, which... honestly, it works for it's purpose, it's perfectly fine, there's nothing objectively wrong with it. but it sounds so cold to me. it sounds like a lab or an organization thing, which can be cool, but to me sounds so artificial

which you can argue that me liking the word moirail is stupid then because it's actually artificial compared to QPR. but it doesn't sound like it

it sounds like coming home, it sounds like care and affection, it sounds like a promise of never letting go, it sounds like a thing separate from mainstream romance and friendship and just as important

ya QPR is more well known, QPR is more flexible than moirail is/was in canon, QPR isn't related to fucking homestuck, the term QPR is important and we should keep it

but when i think of what i desire out of a relationship, i think moirail

#morails #pale romance #queerplatonic #op is rambleing #aro thoughts #loving aro

[xxstrawberrybunxx]

happy valentine’s day to all loveless and heartless aros! 

happy valentine’s day to alloaros!

happy valentine’s day to loving aros!

happy valentine’s day to love or romance repulsed, neutral, and favorable aros! 

happy valentine’s day to unlovable aros (hey)

happy candy day to aromantic who might feel left out and alienated today, and happy candy day to aromantic folks who enjoy valentine’s day (like myself) despite maybe not experiencing “love” in the same way as others. happy candy to aros who date their friends, aros who only have sexual relationships, and happy candy day to nonpartnering and partnering-adverse aros! 

also, happy valentine’s day to folks who are otherwise “love-atypical”. aroace folks (oriented and not), aplatonic folks, objectum folks, polyam and polyaffectionate folks. you’re all super epic!! 

and no matter if you love or hate this holiday, happy 50% off chocolate and flowers day in advanced! of course. 

#nik's yearly valentine's day positivity post #valentine's day #aromantic #loveless aro #heartless aro #loving aro #alloaro #aroallo #romance repulsed #romance neutral #romance favorable #unlovable aro #aroace #oriented aroace #aplatonic #objectum #polyam #polyaffectionate #feel free to add on if you'd like #this is aro focused because i am aro

[my-chemical-aromance]

qprs are so nice.

I’m dating my best friend and get to call him my marshmallow. absolutely epic.

#i stay winning #qpr #i love my qpp more than anything else in the world #lovequeer #loving aro #arolovic #queerplatonic #queer platonic attraction #queer platonic #queer platonic relationship #queer platonic partner #queer platonic love #aro

[genderqueerdykes]

some more signs i should've realized meant I'm aromantic: not understanding when people "normally" would have a romantic feeling and want to show their partner affection and having to force it/think of if other people would do it in that moment, being completely unable to tell if I'm showing too much or too little affection, feeling uncomfortable put on edge and trapped by being kissed or cuddled, not feeling anything from being told i love you and feeling guilty and broken or bad because of it, telling my ex that being told i love you was sometimes annoying and that it would have the opposite affect, waiting for my partner to have extracted adequate happiness from cuddles so i could go back to what i was doing, hating romantic eye contact and having mushy sentimental moments over insignificant daily occurrences, hating holding hands, hating any form of PDA and feeling uncomfortable having strangers observe displays of love, feeling really uncomfortable when receiving random gifts in a courtship gesture, hating being called honey baby angel lover etc...

#arospec #aromantic #aromanticism #loveless aro #loving aro