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theshadowrealmitself · 2 years
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Imagine Danny being controlled by a new villain and his usual enemies have to team up with his friends to stop him. They're both impressed and terrified by how well Danny does at being evil...until they realize that he's been going easy on them when he's a hero.
This kind of thing is my favorite, I love it when heroes are portrayed as stronger than the villains, kindness is not a weakness, but is, in fact, a mercy, and they all better start running
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strniohoeee · 5 months
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Could you write a Matt x fem y/n where she gets overwhelmed with life (or something like that) and she tries to hide it from Matt. She fails miserably and in telling him what’s wrong she has a panic attack, so he has to guide her through it. Like kind of angsty in the beginning but very fluffy in the end? If that’s okay with you?
Trapped
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Pairing: Matt Sturniolo X Female Reader
Synopsis: Y/N is struggling to balance her stressful life without realizing it. Unable to figure out what’s wrong some questions from Matt make her spiral and panic takes placeđŸ—Łïž
Warnings⚠: None it’s just short 😭
Song for the imagine: Silver Soul- Beach House
Trap
(Past tense) Trapped
Verb
Prevent (someone) from escaping from a place
Lately my mind has been clouded by this overwhelming feeling of stress. I’m not usually a stressed person, but when I do find myself getting overwhelmed I handle it well.
But right now in this moment I wasn’t sure what was wrong and why I couldn’t control these feelings. I suppose it’s true that stress is a silent killer.
I couldn’t really pinpoint why my mind was racing and I felt this impending doom waiting for me. Like I was on the brink of snapping?
To make matters worse I’ve been distancing myself from Matt and his brothers because I didn’t want to seem like a buzz kill. Constantly plagued by the “what’s wrong” was making me annoyed. Because I simply couldn’t say what was wrong because I didn’t even know.
Matt had come over to my apartment to spend the night with me. I felt horrible because he was so excited and I just wanted peace and quiet, and to go to sleep.
I was being such a bitch, and I tried not to be but it was becoming very hard. My mind was constantly racing and for what? I had no idea
.
“Baby are you okay?” Matt asked me, snapping me out of my trance
“Huh what?” I said looking at him
“Well I’ve been talking to you and you haven’t said a thing” he said furrowing his brows at me
“I’m- I’m sorry” I said shaking my head
“Are you sure you’re okay? You seem off” he replied rubbing my arm
“Yes Matt I’m fine” I said sternly kind of brushing his arm off of me
“Oh uhh I’m sorry” he said snatching his hand back
“Listen I’m sorry I’m just not feeling the best today” I said rubbing my forehead
“Would you like to talk about it?” He asked repositioning himself on the couch
“What is there to talk about when I don’t even know what’s going on in my brain” I said frustrated
“I’m not trying to make you upset so we don’t have to talk about” he said looking at me
“I’m sorry, okay, it’s not you I promise. I’m just stressed” I said back to him
“Well baby what are you stressed about?” He asked reading my face for an answer
“Matt I don’t know okay” I said feeling my heart beat quicken
“It’s okay” he said rubbing my knee which caused my anxiety to spike even more
His over analyzing of the situation made my brain go haywire. Anxious thoughts infiltrating my mind.
“I’m just stressed about a lot
..my content, and then my part time job and then also juggling school, and then my mom called me the other day to say that my dog is probably dying, and I have tons of bills and so much stuff to do and such little time” I said my chest rising and falling
“It’s okay to feel that way. You’re young and you’re doing a lot and living on your own isn’t easy” he said tucking my hair behind my ear
“And the warranty is up for my car so I have to call and purchase it again, and my manager has been trying to get a meeting in with me, and I have to fly back home in two weeks”
“and
.and
..why does my chest feel like it’s tightening?” I suddenly blurted out the last part
“Y/N, you have to calm down okay. You’re freaking yourself out just breathe” Matt said sitting up
“I can’t breathe and my hearing is going out, my vision seems blurry? Am I going to pass out?? Why can’t I breathe Matt?” I said breathing quickly and erratically
“Listen to me, okay listen to my voice. You’re having a panic attack. You need to focus on your breathing and calm down” he said grabbing my hands and sitting in front of me
“I can’t” I said staring blankly as tears ran down my face
“Yes you can baby” he said
“Why am I crying?” I asked trying to breathe
“You’re having a breakdown, you’re going to be okay just do as I say” he replied back
“Remember when I took you to the cape and we went to that river?” He asked me
“Yes” I said shakily
“Okay now breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth” he said wiping my tears
“Well remember how beautiful it looked, and how vibrant the tree were
.we sat down on a rock and you put your feet in the water” he said to me
“Yes I remember” I replied blinking my tears away
“And you tried to count the rocks in the water but you couldn’t” he said
“Yeah there were too many I kept messing up” I said laughing a bit
“And then you just focused on the water running through your feet, and you said that-“ I cut him off
“I said that it felt like silk running along my skin” I replied smiling at him
“Exactly, and you said the wind blowing through your hair made you feel like a main character in a movie” he replied laughing
“Yes I remember” I said laughing
“And do you remember who was there with you?” He asked and to this I furrowed my eyebrows
“Of course Matt, it was you” I said looking at him
“Exactly, I will be with you no matter what. I will always be by your side” he said kissing my knuckles
I had calmed down and my mind had cleared. Finally coming to my senses at what just happened. My body and mind feeling exhausted
“Thank you Matt” I said smiling at him
“Always my love. I’ll always be here for you. You should never let yourself get this way. If you ever feel any amount of stress just tell me I can help you” he said rubbing my cheek with his thumb
“I’m sorry I just don’t want to seem like a burden” I replied looking down
“You’re never a burden. Because when I’m stressed you’re always there to help me and I want you to do the same” he told me
“Okay Matt I will. I promise” I said leaning into his chest after he sat back on the couch
“Listen, you're doing well enough to quit your part time job, and if you ever need any money for anything just let me know okay. I want to help you! I’ll fly with you back home, and I'll go to the dealership to get the warranty package for your car again. Let’s look at your calendar together and schedule the meeting with your manager. And I can help be your study buddy for your courses” he replied rubbing my shoulders
“Thank you Matt I really appreciate it” I said melting into his touch
“This is what I’m here for! To be there for you always” he replied kissing my shoulder
“I love you” I said
“I love you too” he replied back
I looked over my shoulder and he placed a kiss on my lips. A kiss that let me know how loved I was
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The End
Hiiiii I hope you enjoyed this one! I have two stories similar to this on my page, so I tried my best to make it different😭😭 I love yall and I hope you enjoyed this oneđŸ„čđŸ–€đŸ–€
-JđŸ’…đŸœ
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astr0exe · 2 months
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hear me out, male reader and oliver quick đŸ˜€ oliver quick being his usual controlling self even when it comes to the bedroom AAKAKAKAKAKAKAKKAK and reader just loving every second of it, no matter all the teasing and overstim <3
dom!oliver is so fucking yummy lols !! love saltburn sgsksbsndsj also loved writing this sorry its taken me so long ml <3 HOPE U LIKE IT đŸ©¶đŸ«¶đŸ»
// CW : tm!reader , overstim , controlling!oliver , choking , subspace (??) , weird ending 😭 (there is aftercare!!)
Oliver was known for being, creepy, manipulative and dominating. His whole being controlled you completely and you loved every second. You didn’t have to think, to make decisions. No, you were too cute to use your brain, happily letting Oliver do all the stressful stuff for you. He was always like this, his hand constantly touching you. Firm on your back, holding your hand or gripping your thigh through your pants.
He was especially dominating during sex, his fingers abusing your insides and your cock. Jackhammering his thick digits into you until your legs try to close as they shake and you squeal loudly, your eyes rolling back. He would always coax at least two orgasms from you so you are soft and pliable for him when he fucks you. Your brain fuzzy and muddled from the delirious pleasure he makes you feel. His hand on your neck holding you down, making him feel powerful and in control. You can see it in his eyes, even through your hazy mind, the way he stares down at you as if you are his prey. His toy.
You’re nearly unconscious by the time Oliver decides to finally give you the cock you have been being for incoherently. He is merciless with his pace, shoving his thick cock into your sore cunt with no remorse. His hips making a loud noise against yours but it’s barely heard due to the obscene noises of your obviously soaking hole. Your moans are mere whispers, your throat hoarse, even more so with the grip on your neck Oliver has. His groans are loud and his hips unwavering as he forces yet another orgasm out of you. Tearing it from your being as cum with a strangled noise.
His low laugh is audible, laughing at your disheveled state, wondering how you are going to explain to your best friend, Farleigh, why you look so
 broken. But so delectable. His cock is deep in you as he teases your cock, urging you to cum again
 And you do, your whole body quivering from pure overstimulation as your legs close around Oliver’s waist. His orgasm follows on closely his cum painting your stomach as you pant and huff, begging for any air Oliver may allow you.
He gets off you, throwing some tissues onto the bed and getting dressed, you eyes are clouded as you see him leave, your state of mind completely shattered as you can’t gather yourself or your thoughts. But he comes back, as he always promises he does. In his hands are some chocolate, a crunchie. And a water bottle, cold with condensation on the bottle which he pushes onto your neck mischievously.
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little-miss-dilf-lover · 11 months
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omggg!! i like never request anything but you responded to my last one ab tan and it made my dayyyyyy 😭💗. btw, that's literally my bf i'm never getting tired of him so here's another one if you have a chance
hear me out *again*
perhaps tangerine is stressed out about some stuff that’s causing him to be distant. reader noticed this and obviously she comforts him!! maybe a little lemon cameo too!! this isn’t super detailed but i hope you get itđŸ„°.
your writing is keeping me alive stinkđŸ€­đŸ«Ą!
- 🧬
hii!! ahhh that’s literally so sweet!? me too, will never get tired of him. I love it, such a cute idea! stop itđŸ„č thank you! your lovely comments do the same for me. thank you for requesting, hope you like it💌 and sorry this took longer than planned, been ill last couple days
distance
tangerine x fem reader
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Tangerine is naturally a very closed-off guy. He isn't exactly the type that can talk about his feelings and share what's on his mind or what's bothering him. He often felt like a burden for sharing his thoughts and doubts, so he preferred to keep them to himself, usually by distancing himself.
He hated the vulnerability of it all, how intimate it felt to share his genuine feelings and concerns. But ever since he started dating you, he's been trying to correct his way of thinking. He wanted to change for you, be a better man for you, but he also wanted to change for himself. He knew you'd never judge him for his thoughts, though he couldn't help but resort to his old habits of projection and isolation. He wanted to be honest with you, but it was much harder than he thought.
Sometimes you knew him better than he knew himself, so when you noticed him avert from your company and distance himself, you knew something was bothering him. You had to be careful when approaching the topic, as you didn't want to pressurise or distress him any further. You thought softly easing him in would lead to the best outcome, so you make your way to the kitchen and make him a tea to his exact taste in his favourite mug, then collect a pack of biscuits from your secret stash.
You slowly walk into the living room with tea and biscuits in hand, where you see him lying on the sofa, staring aimlessly at the tv.
"Hey," you say quietly, not wanting to startle him. "Thought you might want this," you smile, extending the mug towards him.
He takes it from you with a soft nod, sitting up, a wry smile lining his lips. "Cheers," 
"What you uh— what you watching?" you ask. 
"I dunno," he lightly chuckles, searching for the controller. "rugby, I don't know— can't remember," 
"Mind if I join?" you sweetly ask, nodding to the space beside him. 
"Go on," he softly grins.
You sit next to him, subtly scooting over, cuddling into his side as you drape a blanket over both of you. You look up at him, your features soft and understanding as you cup his cheek, angling his face to yours, bringing him back to you when you notice him divert from your gaze.
"Everything okay?" you ask, entangling your hand in his.
"Yeah," he nods, his words unconvincing.
"What's going on? You don't seem like yourself," you sweetly press, your thumb stroking over the back of his hand. "You can tell me,"
"I know," he softly sighs, glancing at the tv, trying to avoid your questioning. "Just—“ he starts, shaking his head. "We got updates for our mission in a couple weeks, and it's stressing me out. It's-- it ain't a good country, that's all. And it just—" he pinches the bridge of his nose, shaking his head as if to get rid of an uneasy thought. "I don't want something happening, you know," he exhales, kissing the crown of your head. "I don't want to leave you alone... if something happens," he frowns, hugging you tighter as if the action was to reassure him. 
"Aw honey," you whisper, squeezing his hand. "Why didn't you tell me sooner? That couldn't have been an easy thing to keep to yourself," you softly smile, your eyebrows knitting together as you analyse him. You didn't want to lie or tell him what you thought he wanted to hear, so you didn't say anything else. You choose to snuggle into him, holding him close as if to comfort his thoughts. "Okay, here's an idea," you start, watching his eyes soften with intrigue. "We order a fuck tonne of food; pizza, pasta, noodles, kebab— whatever you want. And we invite Lem over, and we can just pig out on the sofa and— and watch shitty tv and drink beer? That sound good?" you smile. 
A genuine grin creeps on his lips as he looks down at you on his chest. "I like it. Sounds good," he kisses your forehead, brushing a few strands of hair behind your ear. "Only if we can get curry. I've been fucking dying for one," chuckling.
Even though it was such a simple thing to say, you could tell he was starting to feel better about the situation. 
"We can order as much curry as you want," you smile and reach up to kiss his cheek. "Anything you want."
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n4talia-chaparro · 12 days
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"Omg 5 days without posting?! Lmao so funny."
Yeah I get it >|:/
I wanted to make this post cuz a lot of you were so "CoNcERnEd" about me and the allegations made by the anons. And well in case people wanna find "info". I kinda don't care if people wanna keep attacking me and shit but yk. I have to speak up and explain.
So I wanna start by saying that what I did last Thursday and Friday was very retarded and dumb of me and I highly apologize once again. I was not in the right mindset and it was never my intention to ignore anyone's advice. I have been mentally unstable and stressed that I couldn't focus. Yeah. I was having anger issues and a meltdown. I couldn't control them so I'm apologizing for the way I acted that time without thinking straight. It's not easy to be a CU artist because of what's happening and I admit it's not easy for me to be perfect like you guys wanted me to be. I tried everything yet you guys seem to judge and shove words in my damn throat.
About the allegations... the anons were also after one of my moots so I wanted to explain and debunk them. It's giving me a headache and overwhelming the living shit out of me.
(BTW pls I do NOT encourage harassment or any sort of threats to anyone mentioned in this post)
The grooming: this allegation is false. I'm sick of seeing them throwing the allegations around like it was some sort of volleyball-type shit. (I'm A MINOR !!! Not a adult-)
The reason why they were spreading those is because of my grooming situation I had a few years ago when I had 9-11 (and UNSUPERVISED). It all started on amino and I met my groomer. (I'm calling them M cuz yea). M and I were close friends and we used to talk. My groomer was a Krupp x Melvin shipper, a pro-shipper obviously, they would force me to do NSFW roleplay and art based on their favorite ship. (Keep this in mind I was younger at that time and I never knew how to say no to them) and they even guilt-trip me and stuff just make me feel bad and well. They would often force me to ship them too...yikes...
One day we argued and their friends decided to cause drama in the group chat. They pointed fingers at me and called me a predator. Again I was 9. I wasn't aware of what proshipping is until age 12. A lot of shit happened. I got threats, harassment, etc. And at the age of 13-14 I was groomed by someone different um yayy...:/// I was never taught about the internet safety.
And that's where the "Natty is a groomer" bullshit came from :/
I'm 16 now and to this day I keep receiving those rape threats and stuff over my past and then seeing people spreading those is dumb. The anon even went to Linavloger's blog to send a rape threat and told her I was gonna groom her. This is fucking disrespectful. Lina is Younger than me, she's fucking 13. I find it disgusting that you guys choose to tell her that. It's gross for fuck's sake. What is your problem????? For the love of God stop spreading that allegation. Not only you are making me uncomfortable but also the others who were involved. Literally, stop.
My trauma is not for you to joke with it or use it as a shield. It's gross that people are making fun of me for that. No I mean yeah. My past wasn't great because I met people who already sexualized me too many times but it doesn't mean you have to bring it up and tell everyone about it. :"(
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The sexualization: The anon mentioned that I sexualized Harold in one of my videos which is again funny yet bullshit because according to them it was because of a pride month pin and small accessories..
When I say pin i meant this- 😭
Like I'm so sorry but how is this sexualizing him? It's a Pride Month pin. A PIN. How the fuck can yall be this stupid. It was an old video and you took it so seriously????? Like what???? Have you read the 12th book??? There's no way you think it's sexualization when it's Harold with an MLM pin.
This also goes to the AGERE subject. I do NOT normalize nor promote ddlg. There's a difference between ddlg/ageplay and an ACTUAL coping mechanism and I'm tired of hearing this bullshit over again like stfu so uh.
Ddlg/ageplay is where random ass adults roleplay as children and do weird shit.
Agere on the other hand is where someone reverts to a young mindset to cope with trauma, stress, severe illness, or disorders. (Mainly a safe way to cope ofc)
These are the differences between them. You cannot just tell me it's the same shit dawg. 😭
The "ripping off" thingy: another thing that I wanna address is about the au :/
The anons that I dealt with were just infini-tree fans/supporters and tree house members. Well idk. They may sound like whiney little cunts but still-- my AU does NOT have any similarity with THAT. Why would I steal ideas from someone who BLOCKED me for no reason and sent her fans after me??? No really how? How can a blocked user steal ideas if they can't see, or interact with the post (like & reblog)? Be real y'all. You may seem ridiculous if you believed those anons cuz none of them didn't pull the evidence out of their ass. 💀
"You need to apologize to her" for what? Dawg I didn't do jack shit to her in the first place LMAO yeah like--- don't get me started on that bs again. I don't wanna hear her damn name, I don't wanna know anything about her aus and shiii-- or anything related to her in my inbox or dm. I do NOT wanna have anything to do with that individual. End of the story. Not trying to be harsh, rude, or anything but like. It's annoying. I don't like to be compared to anyone or deal with the same bullshit.
Mhm yea like man. Idk what else I need to debunk but pls don't believe those anons dawg.
You can't even ask for proof cuz they don't gave any đŸ„°đŸ„°đŸ’€đŸ’€đŸ’€â€Œïžâ€Œïžâ€ŒïžđŸ˜­đŸ˜­đŸ˜­ LOL IMAGINE FABRICATING ALLEGATIONS Y'ALL ARE SO DUMB đŸ—Łâ€Œïžâ€Œïžâ€ŒïžđŸ”„đŸ”„đŸ”„
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nonbinarydeity · 1 year
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Give Up Control
This is gonna be a lot to read but PLEASE read it, it's so important, I can not stress this enough.
Holy shit. I just completely connected to my subconscious mind. I literally heard them talking to me, saying the nicest things; I realized somewhere deep inside of me that they have my best interests in mind, and I just gave up control completely.
I'm actually in shock writing this. I didn't realize it, but doing this is actually the best thing I could have ever done for myself. In giving up control, I allowed my subconscious to literally Speedrun the process of manifesting, but it didn't manifest things, it manifested feelings and this knowledge that I am a godly being.
I cannot describe to you how good I feel. It literally feels like my trauma, my pain, my fear, etc has been washed away. The moment I gave my subconscious control, it started washing out all of my old programming and it replaced it with love and acceptance. I feel so free like? I'm so much happier than I've ever felt.
How I gave up control
So what happened was, I was trying to get into the void state, and while doing so I was letting go of my outer world. I think I was one step away from it when my subconscious mind popped into my head and started telling me what I good job I was doing, and it told me that all I had to do this whole time was let go of the outer world, thus giving up control of my reality (let go of control, whatever is attaching you to the idea of needing control, let go of it). I literally disconnected from reality while doing this. I could feel and hear it, but I knew that it wasn't nearly as real as me if that makes sense??
Then it asked me what I wanted. And I stg I was gonna say the void state but then I realized that that's what was holding me back. I wanted so much and I had no idea how to get it; trying to get it made it feel farther away so I kept trying and failing and trying and... Let's just say I've broken that cycle.
So anyways, instead of asking it for the void, I just asked what it wanted, and this wave of happiness shot through me, and I knew I did the right thing.
What happened after I let go (why I think everyone should try this!!)
My subconscious mind literally walked me through the process of letting go of my trauma you guys. Like it literally helped me get into the correct states and everything. I felt resistance to some of the stuff (literally my ego was trying to stop it, like the fear and everything yk?), but I let go of that too and let my subconscious do it's work and oh. my. god. I feel so much freer, so much more powerful, so much happier and I can't even describe it fully.
I definitely don't feel done with this process, I know I probably have a few more sessions of this to go before I'm fully healed from everything, but even in one go I feel SO MUCH BETTER (I cannot stress this enough). I know that I'm in control but I also know that when it comes to actually getting what I want, it's a higher part of me that's doing it. Like it's me in the driver's seat, but it's not this earthly me, it's beyond that.
Anyways I hope this makes sense but I swear you all HAVE to try this. Like just lay down and meditate and ask your subconscious to help you let go of your need for control, and let them guide you through everything. Don't ask for anything besides their help and let them give you what you REALLY want (to heal, to love, to be free, etc). It'll be 1000% worth it, I promise 😭💕
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leejenowrld · 5 months
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i’ve been thinking what if jeno and y/n had a fight :(((
yeah i was thinking about this too!! let me give you some background info and some fun facts. so they’re relationship has gotten a lot stronger over the years, they’re very in love and have very good communication, verbally and non verbally, they make it a habit to talk about everything on their minds and they know each other so well that they can tell what the other is thinking/wants by the mere expression on their face or the look in their eye
but like any strong couple, they argue, they fight, it’s normal and it’s healthy. a healthy relationship needs arguing or else it becomes unhealthy. they’re human at the end of the day and it’s completely normal. they have unserious bickering and fights, little things, like yn gets very very stressed out and under pressure and she will become very snappy with jeno and be kinda rude 😭😭 when he’s just there doing nothing. it’s not deep because jeno doesn’t react to it and just waits till she calms down and she will always says sorry :( she knows when she’s in the wrong and he appreciates that, these are never serious fights. they fight about what any couple will, just pointless fights out started out of boredom and to wind each other up
but more serious fights
 yeah it has happened
one time yn just had enough of jeno getting high and dunk so regularly. she just felt as though she couldn’t deal with it and that it was making it difficult for her to be around him. she even locked him in their room once and refused to let him out until he calmed down. it did lead to a big fight :(( she refused to sleep next to him for a few days and they just didn’t talk, it wasn’t a loud fight, they wasn’t shouting at each other, it was a silent one where yn just expressed her disappointment. but they solved through it!! one night jeno just came into the bed and she didn’t try to move him away, they cuddled and he said sorry. he said that was going to be better for her and that he’d calm down on the substances, that he’d try to control it and that he would never make her feel disappointed again :(( it was a promise that he kept as he still does dive into all that stuff but it was never like before, he is controlled with it and he does take care of himself, she’s always there to take care of him too :(( she hates all that stuff but she will always be by his side and will always make sure it doesn’t get out of hand
and with yn making jeno angry :(( yeah it’s happened. the thing with yn is, even though she has confidence and has learned to love herself more, she still has moments of insecurity and vulnerability :(( she needs a lot of reassurance and jeno is always there to give it to her and he doesn’t mind, he knows what she’s like and that it’s unrealistic to expect her to change completely, she’s a shy person at nature. <3 he loves her for her. but she gets really jealous :(( once jeno was just talking to some of the girls hes friends with, nothing too extreme, just talking casually like friends and yn tried to deny it and tried to not let it bother her but it did :(( she hated it. she hates the sight and she hates how it makes her feel. it led to a big fight and jeno didn’t understand what he did wrong :(( but it was also resolved !! they talked and she explained herself, he did find it tricky to understand her but he knows that his girlfriend is his no 1 priority and that’s all that matters. he will do his best to reassure her and just explain to her, these girls are only my friends, you’re the love of my life and nothing and no one is ever gonna change that. rather it leading to an even bigger fight, he knows that all he has to do is explain himself and reassure her, it works.
all in all, they’re like any couple, they love a lot and they fight, they fight have the typical old married couple by the time they become a bit older 😭 but most important thing is that their relationship is thriving and is healthy. they have so much love for one another
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neobora · 1 year
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i want to change. i cried just rn. i'm just wasting my time w trying to manifest my desires. i don't know how to change this fucking situation because i dwelled on the fact i have the most terrible circumstances and because of that my subsconcious got used to it. I don't know how to get out of my comfort zone and victim mindset. I have been consuming information for years and do nothing but feel sorry for myself and thinking i'm in a hopeless situation. I know this isn't going to get me anywhere, but I don't know how to get out of this mentality. i just want to fucking beat myself up i'm so stupid. i'm tired of my same routine. i woke up. i go to the tumblr. i go to the reddit. i go to the amino and read 83928 things everyday. sometimes i feel like i'm crazy and all of those loa manifwst stuff or not real.
did i overcomplicated loa😭
oh dear😭 give yourself a break, honestly! manifesting isnt supposed to be stressful, but fulfilling. again, the only change that will be reflected is a change in SELF. you can see how well the 3d is doing it’s job at reflecting you rn. but it doesn‘t matter who the outer world says you are, you can ALWAYS change within just by deciding to. do you want to live like this? no. then stop! make it clear to you that you are the ONLY CREATOR and the only one who is being reflected. take responsibility for creating what you see outside of you, which also means that you can change SELF anytime you want to. imagination is the only reality and the only time that exists is NOW, self doesnt care about your past, it only cares about NOW. who are you right now? that will reflect.
i know it can be tough completely changing self, often youre even scared of letting go and assuming nothing can hurt you. at one point i even realized i was scared of actually seeing a change in the 3d. but that fear is created by you and no one can stop giving it so much credit except you.
stop consuming so much info, it‘s all the same anyways. choose desire, assume you have it, persist, done. the only thing that helped me really was actually FEELING LIKE I AM IN CONTROL OVER MY MIND. you can read anything you want, as many times as you want but you won‘t get it if you don‘t feel it true. edward art’s reddit series honestly helped me so much, but i actually feel different about the lines now than when i started reading it because i started giving MYSELF, my INNER SELF all the power. but tbh nothing on tumblr really explains it in as much detail as this series, it really gets the point across. if you want to read something about the loa, then go for this instead of posts that just repeat themselves. especially the posts about fear are eye-opening.
honestly in my opinion it doesn‘t matter what your subconscious does nor should you worry about it, it accepts literally ANYTHING to be true if you have faith. there is no past and no future, it doesnt matter. the only thing there is to do is change self and stick with it, no matter what happens. you are the only one who can save yourself.
again, no one can tell you how to feel, or feel for you, you have to give yourself the freedom of feeling but yourself. you are always able to change, it just depends on wether you decide to or not. decide to change and stick with it, no matter what. once you actually internalise that you create everything so you do not have to feel (identify with) your fears and doubts, but can instead feel (know) that you ALREADY ARE WHAT YOU WANT TO BE IN IMAGINATION, it gets easier and easier. but you must have the courage not to look back and fall into old states. why? because you don’t want to! fall in love with your new state and leaving gets harder and harder. but when you do, remind yourself that the 3d is literally just your mind. you don’t have to identify with anything you don‘t like. from there you can create what you WANT.
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khaleesiofalicante · 9 months
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same annie as before, i hope you don't mind me asking, but do you have tips on stress dandruff? something that isn't "reduce stress" because i signed up for the stress and will continue in it for another 2 years 😭
bro my dermatologist said "reduce stress" and i was like "bro be for real 😭😭😭"
Some of the things that actually work and help for me:
prescription shampoo (not head and shoulders or whatever. this is like proper medical shampoo). I got mine prescribed from the dermatologist - but now i buy it over the counter. You can google some stuff and see if it works for you. But i'd recommend going to a derm since the shampoo depends on your scalp type etc. You only have to use it once a week and it doesn't get rid of the dandruff - but rather removes the flakes easily. I usually comb them out thoroughly after I have a shower using the shampoo. I use regular shampoo for rest of the week.
Oil your hair once a week - i do this anyway but this helps - especially if you have dry or itchy scalp and live in a country with warm weather. You can usually oil your hair and massage it nicely into your scalp (very important!) and shower in 2-3 hours. I usually leave it on for the whole day. PS - You can simply use coconut oil. But I use herbal oils that have properties that are good for scalps with dandruff. (like neem or tea tree oil)
home remedies - there are a lot of home remedies that work (including the above). I use neem leaves and the fenugreek method. I only have time to do it once a month or so, but if you can do it at least once a week. They are both actually in controlling dandruff. You can find out how to use them here + some other home remedies as well.
Hope this helps, bebe.
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b3achysurfur · 7 months
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yo hey logang member here
just wanted to lyk i actually dont care if you dislike logan, i have characters i dislike too like thats ok i just feel like this all turned into petty drama that wasnt needed 😭 i disagree with some stuff you said (like that one comment about understanding how logans parents didnt want him) but i guess i just wanted to clarify i myself dont have any true ill intent towards you i just think this whole situation is kinda stupid and wanted to clarify that so have a nice day ig- i blocked immediately because i didnt want to see more drama but here i am lmaoo
i personally like logan because he contributes to the group, keeps a level head in tough situations(like standing up for barons other victim) and can make a decision under alot of pressure (like shooting the phantom) and i think he has alot of potential but feel free to debate
hi , idk what happened but the logang has started interacting with me again. did someone make a post or did y’all js get curious? I genuinely wanna know 😣 but you guys are welcomed here !!
um but yeah I agree. thing is I never started this account to troll or start drama/discourse. the account was so that I could separate my main and sbg content and it’d be more organized. I had been posting Logan hate before hand, and a lot of ppl found my posts funny/agreed so I just continued it here. you guys just got rlly mad for no reason. I get that some of the jokes I made were a little harsh, but at the end of the day it was never that serious. I do apologize if I stressed anyone out, but this whole thing is so silly. I’m use to bigger fandoms being more aggressive, and even the sbg TikTok fandom is pretty blunt, so I didn’t think you guys would take my jokes so personally. but you live and you learn.
also I appreciate you being so kind! I understand that many ppl just blocked me bc they didn’t want to waste their energy on smth silly / js assumed it was bait content. which is totally fair! like I’ve said in other posts, I have no ill will towards anybody I’ve interacted with, regardless of how the conversation we had went down. If I’ve said smth that’s upset you, my dms are always open to chat or js tag me in a post/comment and I’ll talk with you. Sometimes I can be a bit rude, but I promise it’s not personal at all. The only person I hate is Logan fields. Not you guys. Even if your a logang member (funny y’all took a liking to that name btw 😭).
I will continue to post Logan slander, and I can’t promise that I’ll tone my content down all the way, so if that’s not for you then you’re welcomed to block me or the Logan hate tag. I use like the same 4 Logan hate tags so it’s not gonna be a sneak attack. Also even though I post logan hate, I AM ALWAYS OPEN TO DEBATING. I’m very open-minded and will change my opinion if you make a good point that I can’t refute. I just have not run into anyone who could do that yet.
okay now for the fun stuff. You said you like Logan because he contributes to the group, but I disagree. I feel like Logan has contributed least to the group. When you say “he keeps level-headed”, I feel the opposite. Logan is very shy and timid, and he gets scared very easily. Logan is very easy to persuade and intimate, which is why he got bullied in the first place. Although he stood up to Barron, he wasn’t level headed at all. He was clouded with rage (which in part has to do with the phantoms) but shows he cannot control his emotions well. In many offical arts + earlier chapters, Logan is seen crying / hesitating constantly. Yes he has a reason to be terrified, but you cannot say he is level headed. Especially compared to everyone else. I’m not sure how I feel about him being able to make decisions under pressure. I think Logan is good at analyzing situations. Thats why he was able to come up with multiple theories about the phantom world. But I feel like in order to say he makes good decisions under pressure, he’d have to actually put these decisions into action. Logan is still very hesitant though and I don’t want to base his character off of one scene, especially because I’ve talked about why I feel like that scene was a cover up and not genuine. Most of the time Logan follows the instructions and commands of others. He actually buckles under pressure imo. like when they were fighting before getting the car, Logan would’ve never mentioned he was scared if Tyler had not spoken first. He would’ve just followed everyone else due to peer pressure. Logan always acts second. I honestly believe if he had saw Aiden on the roof he would’ve never even considered using his gun because he avoids situations that have a lot of pressure and responsibility. So no, I don’t believe Logan makes good decisions under pressure. Again that’s just my opinion and I’m down to talk about it more! but if you do want to debate pls js reblog this or put another ask in bc the comment word limit is so annoying 😭
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fantasy-costco · 1 year
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I'm sorry you're facing so much dental work, it's never fun! :( I've had a lot of procedures because my dental hygiene was terrible as a kid and I used to really hate going. off the top of my head I've had way too many fillings to count, got a root canal when I was like 11, had two baby teeth removed due to decay and two adult ones out for orthodontic treatment
 and my wisdoms are looming on the horizon 😑 sisyphusean task honestly.
I actually don't mind the dentist now that I've got on top of caring for my teeth, but the needles are 100% the worst part! I'd recommend you let your dentist know you have a needle phobia if you can. mine knows I pass out every time and works around it when possible (last year he drilled and replaced a cracked filling without numbing me first. I didn't feel a thing. absolute madman). the needle is genuinely the worst part, but I mean that in a good way! if you can brave the 30 seconds of the needle sting you literally will not feel anything else for the rest of the procedure. you may feel pressure or vibration from the tools but zero pain. I'd recommend having something you can focus on to remove your mind from the situation - I still remember what I daydreamed about when I got my upper molars out 11 years ago 😭
I know it's impossible to logic your way out of phobias but you can get through it! it's totally worth it to get your teeth back to good condition. I hope your healing is swift and the rest of your weekend isn't too stressful due to this 💗💗💗
Thank you!!! Yeah I've gotten a couple fillings in the past (actually one of the problems is that a filling came out and I wasn't able to get it fixed for a while) and the needle is the main thing I'm scared about. My fiancée will be there for emotional support which will hopefully help, and I called ahead and let the office know about my phobias so hopefully the dentist is prepared for All That (I always feel so bad after crying and panicking in front of a doctor/dentist cause I know they're trying to help me but I just can't control the phobia yknow? But they're professionals so I think they probably understand)
I'm worried about exactly how much work I'm going to need done but like you said I know it will be totally worth it to be able to like. Smile without putting my hand over my face and stuff. I am genuinely excited to get this all over with
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starleska · 1 year
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Hello! I'm one of the people who made a request and I just wanted to apologize. I shouldn't have taken from granted that you write for everyone, haha- This... Is embarrasing- Don't worry at all and thank you for let us know how requests make you feel! Again, I'm so sorry if seeing so many requests made you stressed, I didn't mean to contribute to that uneasiness! If you are okay with sharing headcanons though, please let me know! I have a few in store that may be of your interest, hehe! Again, if you are not okay with that either it's also totally okay! Have a lovely day! 💘
😭😭😭😭😭 oh angel, thank you so much!!! but please, don't feel any need to apologise - you haven't done anything wrong, neither has anyone else!! i promise đŸ„° i really, really appreciate that you spent the time to send in a request, and doubly so for being so kind and considerate and responding! i'm gonna get a little bit personal under the cut;;
honestly, don't worry yourself at all - this is totally a me problem. i reckon a lot of mentally ill fandom creatives can relate to this: trauma stuff i won't get into can manifest in compulsive people-pleasing, even in spaces that are supposed to be stress-relieving, like fandom! when i used to run that other blog, i would spend hours making content that i didn't really want to make. you end up creating because it makes others happy, so you feel useful, and as an apology for existing: like, a living tax. and that is not a healthy way to live 💖 one of the hardest things you learn in therapy is that you are ultimately in control of your own boundaries, and you don't have to reply to anything online. you don't have to answer an ask, or fill out a request, or participate in a prompt, or make a gift, or give your opinion on a specific topic...yet, it's still so tough to let go of the idea that you're being rude if you say no to a request. but it's never a personal slight! all of the asks in my ask box right now are full of so much love, and passion, and creativity, and i often wish i was one of those people who pumps out ten drabbles a day and can fulfil everyone's deepest, darkest fantasies. but i've been down that road, and it just...isn't for me 😅 i've spent years crafting what i think most will agree is a wholly self-indulgent space, where i get to gush about whatever weird-ass fictional show or character seizes the autism in the right way. that makes me really happy, and it makes me even happier knowing that other people are drawn to it đŸ„° i really love interacting with people who have similarly strange interests - and i came in expecting 'Big' Jack Horner to be another niche choice (oh, how wrong i was 😂). i will admit the times where i've accidentally created content for a hugely popular character (looking at you, Warren the Eagle) i have become overwhelmed quickly by the sheer volume and demand. however - this burnout it something i have to manage. i don't believe anyone is imposing on me by sending asks about something they really enjoy!! it's very silly of me to be intimidated by lots of people being excited about a cool, sexy character and wanting to hear my thoughts about him. i'm trying to remember that it's normal for people to have a backlog of requests, and that we're allowed to just...let it sit, or say no, if we don't want to answer. that's okay! tldr; you are very sweet and you've made me feel a lot less stressed about all of this;;; it's my own fault for doing so much in such a short space of time! i'm gonna keep your words in mind and try responding at a more measured pace. i would absolutely love to hear about your Jack headcanons if you're happy to share đŸ„°đŸ’–
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here2bbtstrash · 2 years
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Hi, Em! I was feeling nosy today, so I read your about me, and now I have a random question that I hope you don't mind answering lmao
I was diagnosed with ADHD as a kid, but I gradually stopped presenting symptoms as I grew up. Now it's coming back to bite my ass again cause I'm god's favorite child, I guess. So, on a scale of 1 to 10, how annoying is having ADHD as an adult? Cause I've been stressing about not stressing enough about the things I need to get done and, as a result, I end up doing nothing, which stresses me out even more 😭
PHEWWWWW OH MAN do i know that feeling well lmao. so i have been medicated before but i'm not currently taking anything, and i would definitely say i go through phases where my adhd feels more and less under control. it can even change day to day. some days are a 1 and some are a 10 and most fall somewhere in between. i'd say today was like a 4? i focused really hard at work and got a lot done, but i felt absolutely WIPED afterwards bc i had to push so hard lol
idk if you want advice but i'll babble, some things i've found that help me generally are:
focus music (i like pulling up lofi bts on youtube bc lyrics in any language are too distracting, or i'll do ambient noise, or video game soundtracks)
lighting specific candles when i'm focusing so my brain associates that scent with 'ok time to not fuck around'
the pomodoro method (or if that feels like too much, "just 5 minutes" - set a 5 minute timer and tell yourself you only have to do the thing for 5 minutes, most of the time you'll finish it before the timer goes off OR you'll realize it's not that bad bc now you've gotten started and you're in the flow)
regular exercise (even just going for walks!)
having a consistent sleep schedule
not over-caffeinating (i am bad at this one)
asking for help!!!!! (also bad at this one đŸ„Ž)
trying to get outside and see the sun daily
making to-do lists even if i have to write them down in 5 places
following the dopamine (aka - DO WHAT SOUNDS FUN !!)
taking baby steps and actually celebrating them
productive procrastination (ie: put off the thing i REALLY don't wanna do by doing some other stuff that doesn't sound as impossible)
allowing my rest time to TRULY be rest (by giving myself permission to do nothing and not feel guilty)
embracing the good days and doing my best to ride out the bad ones
and above everything: BEING KIND TO MYSELF BECAUSE BEING NEURODIVERGENT IS REALLY FUCKING HARD AND THE WORLD WAS NOT BUILT FOR US AND WE'RE DOING OUR BEST
wow if you didn't know i had adhd before you could definitely tell just based on how chaotic that list is 💀 i hope some/any of that helps?? you are very much not alone my friend and i am always here to talk about the struggles of being an adult with adhd 💜 please be kind to yourself! you got this!!!
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phoenixofheaven · 2 years
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Surprise!! Two hypokits in a day! This is Duskfur, the hypokit of Crookedjaw and Voleclaw. This wasn't an ask btw. The pair came to mind and I had to get it down somewhere lol 😭 I messed up in some places, but I think she came out cute!
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She was the smallest kit Crookedjaw had ever seen. He blamed himself for most of it. Her pelt was exactly like his. “Now your shame is plain for all to see.” Mapleshade was hissing in his ear. “No wonder no one knew,” he whispered, ignoring her. “She’s so tiny.” He had meant to keep it in his head, but when everyone turned towards him he knew that he had actually said the words. “Is she okay?” he asked. “I didn’t-” Brambleberry smiled. “No, she’s perfectly fine. She just needs her father 
 and a name too.”
Crookedjaw settled himself next to the kit. She shifted, then pressed her face into his fur. “I’ll be right back.” Crookedjaw looked up to see Brambleberry leaving the nursery. “Crookedjaw, darling, why didn’t you say anything?” Shimmerpelt was staring at him in sympathy. “We thought you were dying last night.” Crookedjaw closed his eyes. He didn’t even remember last night. “What are you going to name her?” the queen asked. Before he could answer, someone else entered the nursery. Crookedjaw was dismayed to see it was his mother.
She looked at him, then at the kit. “They’re talking about you outside,” she said. “They’re wondering who the kit’s other parent is.” Crookedjaw flinched and looked away. He and Voleclaw were already on rocky ground after their 
 last few interactions. He wasn’t going to strain that relationship further. “Rainflower, please,” Shimmerpelt hissed. “Don’t ask that right now. He just woke up. Not to mention how rude you are being.” Rainflower glared at her. “But I would like to know how my son ruined his reputation.” Crookedjaw narrowed his eyes. “The other parent 
 is my business,” he growled. “As for my reputation 
 have I ruined it in the clan’s eyes or your eyes?” Rainflower’s lips curled and she hissed. “You should go now,” Crookedjaw said. “I don’t feel well and I have a kit to care for. I don’t need you stressing me out any more.” Rainflower spat and stalked away.
Crookedjaw looked back down at the kit. She didn’t look like she had heard the conversation at all. She was curled up so tightly against him. “She’ll ruin you,” Mapleshade’s voice hissed. “She’ll ruin your destiny.” Crookedjaw frowned. Did she really think that? How would his own kit ruin his life? The clan had to get over their suspicions eventually. They stopped caring about Willowbreeze and Graypool’s parentage long ago. Who was to say that wouldn’t be the case for his kit? Soon, her past would not matter. She would grow up happy and loved, he’d make sure of that. He pressed his muzzle into her cheek. “Duskkit,” he whispered. To some, it might be a strange name. He honestly couldn’t think of anything other than the night she was born. Nightkit and Twilightkit didn’t seem to fit her at all. So Dusk would do.
He closed his eyes, wondering if Mapleshade would pay him a visit. He honestly could care less about what she thought. Whether or not Duskkit had halted his destiny, he still loved her. “Sorry, Mapleshade. She is not yours to control.”
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Fun fact: In the first draft of this story, Rainflower was supposed to have said more and worse stuff. Shimmerpelt would kinda throw hands (paws?) with Rainflower in order for her to stop harassing Crookedjaw and get her to leave. It kinda became too long so I changed it up. So if Rainflower pisses u off while reading this, keep that in mind ;)
I honestly might write that as a side story just because I can't stand her lmao đŸ˜€
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1d1195 · 2 months
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It's so normal to have anxiety in general when thinking about kids! I never really saw myself being a mom or anything like that BUT that doesn't mean i cant feel for you and sympathize with your concerns! And it makes sense that you would feel jealous that the people around you can do this because it's basically been your dream and sometimes it can be hard to see others "living" it. But your concerns in terms of financial stability is SO VALID especially with how things are right now! I always joke around how i could not have a kid "in the economy" but its very concerning because I could not image the amount of STRESS this would induce. And I think it's normal to have these fears especially since you lived through it growing up! You already having that mindset of being somewhat stable before you start a family just goes to show that you will be just fine no matter how your journey there will look like. Your parents being able to meet and enjoy your children is kinda out of your control but it's such a valid feeling. But still that pressure shouldn't dictate your timing because in the end you will have to go through the process along side your partner!
NEVER BE SORRY FOR RANTING MY LOVE!!! When Is say that you can literally tell me anything you are comfortable sharing, I mean it! It does not bother me at all. if anything thank you for sharing this with me (and anyone who reads these!). It feels nice to vent and this will never bother me. Of course I have my own stuff going on but that doesn't mean it prevents completely to be there for others especially ones that I care about!
College life has been very painful for me lol idk maybe i'll have a different outlook on it in a few years since I do have alot more to live and experience lol
Even if you get grumpy sometimes that's okay, I STILL LOVE YOU SAM!!!-💜
I bet we have a few readers of our pen-pal letters 😂 You are the literal best! I'm sure you know the same goes for me. I love to hear about your life and I don't mind the venting or ranting either. I just know that it's not always the best to lay it all out for you--especially if you're not in the headspace for it! Today my mom trauma dumped on me and I was so overwhelmed I just wanted to 😭
To be fair!!!! I didn't have your horrid quarter-system classes so I think if my college did that I would have a VERY different outlook on how I felt about college. But regardless, I'm very hopeful for you. I wish I had a more exciting social life and I feel like you do just based on a few things you've told me about hanging out with friends and such! I feel like I missed out on some things getting a bf toward the end of college (and I graduated a little early too so I really short changed myself as well on that front). But he's a homebody too. I love him, obviously, but I always wanted my Friends moment where I lived with my bff and made friends with our cute neighbors or something! 💕
I LOVE YOU
xoxo
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What's uppp! Luv ur blog and i got curious with the matchups so i'd like to request a matchup for MHA!
Also just to recognize my ask, I'd like to go with đŸȘ©
So let's get to myself:
I'm female and go by she/her. Also i’m straight.
Appearance:
1,80 (5'11/6'0?), chubby, brown eyes, dark red (colored) mid length hair, usual ear piercings, one nose piercing on the side and a lip piercing (ashley), big ahh feet and hands LMAOOO.
Style:
Ijust can't decide so i switch it a lot. Either it's streetwear, punk or something elegant/ sweet (wild combo ik). My room looks pretty natural (lots of plants and wood etc.) since i need something that keeps me down to earth 💀
Music taste:
Big ass spectrum but let's try. Luv rock/hardrock/ metal, enjoy techno from time to time. The usual tiktok songs,.. Tbh anything that's very loud or makes my headphones vibrate 10/10. From time to time i do enjoy the calm/classical music but only if i REALLY feel like it.
Fav current songs if it helps:
Black No. 1 from Type O Negative
Fucking Your Ghost In Chains of Ice from Leviathan (pls ignore the title 😭)
prayer1 from april27
Nightmare from plenka
Stay from Narrow Head
Wicked Game from Chris Isaak
Personality:
I've seen others mention it so; aries sun, pisces moon, virgo rising and ENTP.
honestly think it fits just not AS serious. People often mention i look rather intimidating at first which is understandable since i can seem uninterested and reserved but when talking to me i really love making others laugh, as well as laughing myself. Honestly my love language (combined with aggressive love). Love to goof around but i like to seem more closed off at first.
It makes things more interesting. Very personal emotions i like to only keep for myself (like most ig). I isolate pretty quickly and don't mind it since I've always been more independent and alone (not at all badly, i like the peace around me while enjoying the chaos inside my head đŸ«ŠđŸ˜­).
I've actually never been in an relationship but based on other experiences i like both to be in control and let someone have control.
definitely not the type to only have one thing.
Likes:
Swimming, MUSIC, analyzing, watching trash tv and cooking shows (i just love judging people < /3), reading on my phone ig though i don't read many books irl, gaming from time to time, eating LMAO, adrenaline boosting stuff like rollercoasters,...
Dislikes:
Cooking (ironically), bugs that have this hard shell on them (scared shitless, can't deal with them biches), morning breath, no motivation days, people that don't have their own personality (i get annoyed easily)
so yeah idk if this is too long or short or whatever.
I'd be happy if you would match me but if you don't feel like it that's totally fine love <3 don't stress, take ur time.
Hi đŸȘ©Anon! Thank you for your request! Sorry it took a while. I hope you like your matchup!
In My Hero Academia, I match you with...
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You and Shoto are the “intimidating but actually just reserved” couple of UA. People are often too scared to approach you, especially when you’re together but once they get to know you, they enjoy your company.
Shoto loves the more goofy side of you, especially since it brings out his sillier side as well. He feels honoured that you’re comfortable enough with him that you feel you can let that more private side of you out.
Enjoys watching tv with you and just relaxing in general. He doesn’t mind what you get up to, as long as you’re spending time together.
Shoto’s surprisingly good at motivating you when you’re struggling to find the energy to do anything. He’s been there before and knows how annoying it is.
Gets rid of bugs for you. He’s happy to either take them outside or just kill them depending on which you would prefer. If it’s a particularly large bug, he might baulk a bit but he’ll push his own concerns aside to help you out.
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