#no proof you were even there

[prettywitchybabykitty]

all of the things that you love,

were lost when your hard drive was burst

all of the love for your child,

will end up in folders and files

#and I declare myself a god cut off my head so! #prettywitchybabykitty #why do i miss them? i need to move on! #2 years of photos gone all because i forgot to eject the flash drive out correctly :( #no proof you were even there #would it have hurt you to stop by and say hi when you came to town? #the embers of our friendship were already smothering out then #can you blame me for pulling the plug? #when did you notice? did you ever? #i hope you enjoy it out there with your cuckoo #no bed rot but really out there with the people you deserve the best #see you space cowboy im tired of you living here rent free #i hope i see you on the street one day where we talk about our wives over brunch #stay safe old friend

[littlecrittereli]

enjoy this compilation I made of Chris succumbing to the instincts of the creature power suit

#wild kratts #chris kratt #martin kratt #kratt brothers #absolutely running with the headcannon that he's just more prone to this happening #actually no fuck you guys its not even a headcannon its literally canon #this video is PROOF #like sure it happens to Martin sometimes too #but just look at him HE ALMOST ATE A CARCASS #Martin just being FED UP is going to make me lose it #love that he spent the entire cheetah racer episode as a gazelle and no one bothered him #they were like in a death match with Zach and instead of helping out he was off eating grass and they were just like... yeah let him be #Chrizelle is nothing but vibes i love it

[beatleswings]

PAUL McCARTNEY being interviewed by a Swedish news company where he makes a joke about the 'Paul is Dead' rumors. August 7, 1972.

#pffffft! paul you goof #i love that he can joke about this #even though there were and sadly still are people who will take this clip and believe it to be proof lmfaooo #and of course there's lin looking gorgeous as always #my beautiful queen! #paul mccartney #linda mccartney #1970s #70s #1972 #my gifs #beatlesedit #thebeatlesedit #wingsedit #beatlegirlsedit #adding that tag since lin is in this!

[starry-bi-sky]

miscellaneous danyal al ghul things

specifically about the danyal al ghul from my post/prompt here and i wanna get my misc. headcanons/thoughts on him (especially in his early stay with the fentons) out here before i make any other danyal al ghul aus

list under the cut because whoops this got longer than i expected. which really i should have expected

the Fentons are unaffiliated with the League, which was perfect for Danny faking his death.

he struggles with empathy. Empathy was not taught nor encouraged while he was with the League, so it's a skill that's been pretty stunted. At 15 he's better at empathizing with people, but he still struggles with it. He's pretty bad at reassuring/comforting people and usually acts as an emotional rubber duck for Sam and Tucker to vent to if need be. He sometimes offers blunt and sometimes mean opinions, especially if its about another person.

Sam and Tucker do not know he's an ex-assassin, they are however, pretty positive that he used to be part of an eco-fascist cult with a focus on martial arts?? They've been helping him tone down some of his more,,, extreme views on humanity ever since they caught wind of his more extreme ideologies.

He and Sam are still avid environmentalists and feed into each other quite a bit. They spend plenty of time at protests and pestering the school into more eco-friendly options.

Dash is not dead on the sole fact that Danny knew he had to lay low in Amity Park and killing someone was not, in fact, 'laying low'.

he did, however, traumatize him when Dash first tried to bully him. Safe to say, Danny is not bullied at school and neither are Sam and Tucker.

Danny didn't make any friends in his first year at Amity Park. He was surly, grumpy, standoffish, more stubborn than Sam, and pretty self-important about himself. Jazz was trying to teach him against these things, but she is a 12 year old unaffiliated with the League. Danny did not respect her nor listen to a word she said. It wasn't until like, year two that he finally started paying to mind what she was saying and slowly started to improve on himself

Sam approached him first, he rebuffed her quite harshly, and then Danny approached her sometime afterward when he overheard her talking about environmental rights. Sam completely ignored him though when he agreed with her, and Danny had to later learn that he needed to apologize for being rude to her when they first met. He did so eventually, and they started to talk more with Tucker and Sam.

Danny's a bit more reserved than he is in canon, although he steadily learns how to act as a regular teenager when he's out in public. He's a bit more friendlier at least, although when he's around Sam and Tucker he drops the act. He still has a somewhat formal way of talking, it's just become more casual after a lot of ribbing from Sam and Tucker. When he's angry or annoyed he starts talking poshly though.

His humor is relatively the same as in canon, if somehow dryer and more insulting at some points

Those rare moments where he gets really pissed usually ends up with him insulting someone in arabic or any of the other languages he picked up from the league. He is the go-to for Tucker's Spanish homework. (Tucker makes that mistake and learns that Danny is a very strict teacher)

while Danny doesn't view the Fentons as his parents, even five years after living with them, he does respect them to some amount. He respects them enough at least that when Vlad Masters comes sniffing around, he is suitably offended on both Maddie and Jack's behalf. And when he finds out Vlad was the one who tried to kill Jack and tried to tell him to renounce him as his father/parental guardian, danny threw a suitably sharp object at him and insulted him quite horrendously

Vlad still wants him as his kid. In fact perhaps even moreso after this.

Danny trains with Maddie to keep up with his training. It's not quite the same but it prevents him from getting completely rusty

Sam and Tucker know that Danny has a little brother, but nothing else beyond that other than Danny cares about him quite a lot and that he got his facial scar from keeping him safe.

Danny cares about Sam, Tucker, and Jazz quite a bit, but he struggles to convey it. Especially early on when he realized he cared about them and like instinct started being harsher to them and more critical of their actions. This resulted in quite a few arguments with Sam and Tucker and Jazz until he got sat down and told outright that the way he was treating them wasn't okay. It's a process he's still trying to unlearn even at 15. He has become kinder towards them as a result, and has begun looking for what they did right rather than what they did wrong.

He harbors a lot of guilt over how he treated Damian in the League, and its a pretty big conflict he has with himself since he's torn between telling himself it was for the best to make sure Damian survived the League, and feeling like crap over how harsh/critical of Damian he was and realizing that he probably could have come up with a better way of training him despite being a child himself at the time. Danny comes to the realization that more than anything, that he just wants to apologize.

His ghost form, specifically is outfit, is a combination of his hazmat suit and his uniform from the league, and he carries a sword with him. He also doesn't know how to react to Dani, honestly. Although it is fair to say that he figures out she's a clone instantly because of her whole 'I'm your third cousin once removed' thing and he freaks out. She spills the beans pretty quickly after that. And Danny is pretty skittish around her - or the equivalent of skittish. Her being younger than him kinda reminds him of Damian, so he's uncomfortable by her presence but learns to warm up to her.

#dpxdc #dp x dc #dp x dc crossover #danny fenton is not the ghost king #dpxdc crossover #dpdc #dpxdc headcanons #dp x dc headcanons #danyal al ghul: exists #me: lets give him emotional constipation :) as a treat #older brother danny #sam+tucker: dude... were you part of a cult???? danny: excuse me? sam+tucker: were you. part of a cult #danny: it was not a *cult--* sam+tucker: oh my god you were part of a cult. that explains sO MUCH #danny is pr morally grey even at 15. he's starting to get the hang of this 'human life' thing though! he thinks. #but he is still the embodiment of that tiktok audio 'why dont we just kill these fucking people' even if he keeps it to himself sometimes #sam+tucker+jazz: dont litter danny: yes of course thats obvious s+t+j: okay then dont *kill* danny: now you've lost me #danny nearly stabbed dash when they first met. more accurately he nearly took off his finger like the train scene from the mummy movie 2 #with alex and that big guard guy who stabbed the table in between his fingers. “woah.” “Tt. i missed” #late night starry posts #not proof read and thus there will prolly be mistakes

[claireclaymore]

"Katniss did so little for Peeta"

What the hell!!!

She wanted die for him! Kill for him! Accepted be the Mockingjay to save him!

When he came back brainwashed and hating her, the girl was literally suicidal! And when he got better, a single conversation with him made her get out of her depressive state and start living again!

How this is little?!!!

#what you guys want from her??? #the trilogy isn't a proof enough #i am so fucking done with those Peeta stans #everlark #she gave absolutely everything #Peeta Mellark #katniss everdeen #seriously people need to stop to read MJ I took every single word as true #Katniss is traumatized #and hopeless #of course she would be fatalist #she wanted die people #her “cruelty” against hijack!Peeta wasn't never this serious #They were being mean with each other #she never literally hate him as she claim #why did she kiss and hug a guy she hates??? #and then marry him #sex with him #children with him #and even confirm she loves him #Katniss Everdeen

[skitskatdacat63]

2012 Malaysian Grand Prix - Sebastian Vettel & Fernando Alonso

#it is like always palable shock whenever i notice how significant their height dif is #by significant i mean theyre both small to me so seeing that seb is actually noticeably taller is so ????????? #logically i know hes taller but still. it doesnt feel right #it just is not noticeable usually bcs theyre both often around taller men so to see proof of it breaks me #okay about these. they seemed pretty friendly with each other in early 2012 ngl 🥺 #its one thing being friendly when youre on a podium or something bcs its courtesy even if theres tension imo #but them walking together randomly hehehehe 🤭🤭🤭 #i wonder what they were talking about. i think they were prob going to the drivers meeting tbh #aaahh also there were other pics(but imago watermark ugh) and theyre just walking so close...pressed shoulder to shoulder #EEEEEEEEE seb always looks so pleased and happy and giggly to be talking to him #every day a catie in your area gets taken over by looking through vettonso pics. it is truly an epidemic. #you can only save her by talking to her about vettonso. ...might make it worse though. #sebastian vettel #fernando alonso #vettonso #f1 #formula 1 #formula one #we do a little bit of f1 #2012 malaysian gp #I LOVE MALAYSIAN GP SO MUCH BRING IT BACK ALL MY FAV PICS ARE FROM SEPANG AAAGAHHHH

[sojutrait]

well… on the bright side cowboy carter will be getting that aoty

#i blame MIDnights winning that grammy so now she thinks that’s what we wanna hear #it sounds like an ai generated version of being funny in a foreign language which. given the subject matter is very funny #favorite lyric: matty healy telling lucy dacus he’s going to kill himself #i fully gasp laughed #but in all seriousness fave song is so long london #‘you swore that you loved me but where were the clues i died on the alter waiting for the proof’ she remembered how to lock in #also but daddy i love him but even before listening i knew that was gonna be a banger #music #soju shut up

[hand-face-chan]

I'm only halfway though Hbomberguy's new video and I dont know if this is a universal experience but my main horrified takeaway from hbomb's plagiarism video so far is that one of my highschools TAUGHT AN ENTIRE CLASS OF 13 YEAR OLDS TO PLAGIARISE. LIKE, ON PURPOSE.

I ended up moving to a much better highschool, but my first highschool essentially taught us to "write" essays by reading what someone else had written and then write what they said again but putting it "into your own words". Which in practice was teaching us to change, for example, "the works of Shakespeare were regarded by many as the first popular art form" to "Shakespeare's plays have been said by some to be the first example of popular media". One teacher actually told us that the process of writing an essay was "saying what the people you've researched have said, in a way where it sounds like you said it".

Like. The tactics that actual plagiarists use to hide the fact that they were stealing. An actual teacher tried to teach me to do that.

#hbomberguy #im so glad i left that school early the next year. it definitely would have gotten worse. #i literally didnt learn what a bibliography was until grade 9 because of how shit my first highschool was. #at the same time if a student wrote a paper that was 'too good' even if it was orginal theyd accuse them of stealing without proof #like i wrote a completely original paper and got the note 'this is very good - did you write it all yourself?' #fuck you man. yes i did. despite you trying to teach me to do the opposite #they accused me of getting my parents to write it for me. i had to show them everything i researched and my dad lost it at them #this was also the same school where they took every kid with a disability out of maths regardless of if they were good at maths or not #and taught them shapes like they were fucking three years old #i remember hanging out in the maths with all the other autistic kids and prentending to have never seen a triangle before for a joke #and while thats really bad and abelist. the non-disabled kids were still being taught addition and division like they were 8 and not 12 #the whole thing was a massive fuck up shit fest. it took the year 7 maths teacher leaving for us to all get the same maths class #and we STILL werent being taught to an age appropriate level because we missed so much grade 7 maths it had to be caught up in grade 8 #i would burn it down but its not a highschool anymore lol

[goldenpinof]

wait what even counts as a demon phannie anymore? Bc it used to be the tinhatters who truly believed they were together but now that they've made it...you know...pretty obvious they are, I'm not sure what's considered "demon" behavior anymore

idk, people who ask dnp personal questions about their relationship directly? maybe that's a line i'd draw today, mostly because it's just annoying. like, it's not a crime, but just... why.

since dnp are together, the whole old definition doesn't make sense. but i guess, what people do with the fact that dnp are together still can divide us into groups?

fyi, i don't consider pointing out "they are touching" a demon behaviour. i saw someone trying to claim that it was (during gamingmas or spooky week). and whoever it was, fuck you. dnp know what they are doing. we're all collectively just having fun. phannies should be studied. if you think about what we post and how we phrase things for too long, you're gonna go mental. there's so much sarcasm and jokes in it. and some people are trying to weaponise it against us. sad, but honestly? i don't really care.

#'truly believed they are together' is this play about me? 😂 i never identified as a demon phannie. bro 2009-2010 exists #you don't have to believe. just read. #also you don't have to try to proof anything and scream about it either. throughout their history it was kinda obvious (LABELS ASIDE) #like i started fully watching them from January 2017 probably. and never did it cross my mind that they weren't together at that point #and the more lore you find the more you just nod along. because it makes sense! (apart from Dan's bs in 2012) #but even his reaction makes sense (now even more) #anyway. i'm not openning this discussion. #i was just trying to explain why me thinking they were together even in 2017 didn't make me a demon phannie #answered #phandom

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

SOMEONE MADE A TIKTOK EDIT WITH YOUR ART!!!!

I was watching a Welcome Home tiktok compilation [cause I don't have tiktok] and I just seen your art and was so surprised-

Here's the tiktok comp it was in! The tiktok with the edit of your art starts at 2:45!

IM LAUGHING SO HARD WHAT THE FUCK

i don't know how to feel beyond Way Too Perceived and also Wheezing

#ASBDCJACKLNDFKSDV WHAT why why why #i thought my scribbles were tiktok/edit-proof..... #im surprised too dude what. huh! what!!! why! #i would have... liked to be asked if my fanart could be used for edits... #i mean the answer is Yeah I Guess. Why Not #but also its nice to be asked! it gives me Mental Preparation for seeing my stuff breaking containment!!! #lemme tell you before going to the timestamp i was NOT expecting it to be laughingstock the fUck- #and its the little 'comic' thing i dont even like all that much smh.... #rambles from the bog #half me is like: oh huh! weird #and the other half is: well i need to crawl into a hole and take everything with me. im too Seen #somehow it feels like a stranger walked into my house & took snacks from my fridge and then Left w/o a word #like hey. i wasnt gonna eat that but hey. #gently swatting the person who made the 'tok with a very floppy and oversized sunhat #did they credit??? probably not huh #for the brief horrible window i had tiktok i rarely saw edits crediting the art used #which is. i gotta say. pretty rude!

[lucalicatteart]

-- Poorly Constructed Enchanted Tool --

A small tool carved from a fruit tree seed. Energy to power the enchantment has seemingly run-out long ago, and the method of recharging is unknown - but, based on the appearance, it's very likely that this was once used for detecting magic. Usually, looking through the glass center would highlight areas of higher magical energy concentration present in the viewer's environment, even if they were otherwise obscured to the naked eye. While this form of enchantment itself is highly advanced, the craftsmanship of the item is far less neat or complex than what might be typically seen in similar devices. It may have been made as part of training/practice, or as a hasty replacement for a previous tool that had broken.

#written from the perspective of some fantasy traveler who checks all of the local thrift-stores and lost & found places for every #town they visit - looking for interesting items and documenting them or something #In reality - just another one of my goofy little avocado pit carvings lol. Still working on inlaying little stones in them and stuff #I don't really have the tools to make super intricate stuff but doing little plain swirly patterns is still fine enough lol. #WORKING ON NEW POLL ADVENTURE also I know I know it's been months.. I have been Busy and struck by the evils of summer #But like I mentioned in the previous one I do want to at LEAST finish the quest with the egg lol #ANYWAY. #Things like this would plausibly exist in Nanyevimi (my fantasy world) but wouldn't be very common as - like mentioned- this would be an #extremely advanced enchantment. REALLY advanced mages could sense magic around them (to varying degrees of pinpoint accuracy of location #) without even having to use any external device. But for a majority of people there's really no way to know someone is using magic near #you unless you either see visual proof or if it's strong enough to feel effects from it (since magic is kind of like radiation in that the #higher energy/more of it youre exposed to the more it damages you/can make you sick/etc.) and even then most people would just be like #'hmm why do I feel so nauseous and bad out of nowhere?' likely wouldn't directly think to link it to magic. Thus the only really reliable w #way isto just hone your senses over like 500 years as you become an expert mage - OR use enchantments like these. But a 'sense magic' encha #ntment is not as common as a just 'magic is not allowed here' enchantment. If you wanted to prevent magic from being usedin a space #it's easier to just put up a broad barrier enchantment around that space than to have some sort of Magic Sensor to pick out if it's being #done and then handle each individual case of it . etc. etc. These sort of things can have their uses (especially for people investigating #things or trying to be secretive about detecting something etc.) but are less common - especially in this form (where visuals are used. itd #be more likely to jsut have like 'piece of metal that gets warm or cool depending on magic nearby'.) ANWAY so this is why it's a notable #object. Though a majority of the realm is not very magic literate - if you were a researcher or a mage and found this at a pawn shop you'd #definitely be like 'oohhh!! :0 inch resting... ' if not you might just be like 'oh cool necklace!' lol #also love the quick 2min ''costume'' for the image of it being used. literally just 'wrap yourself in scarves from the waist up' and slap o #a wig and ears lol #on this blog I guess since it's worldbuilding related and technically art.. maybe more like crafting? I should have a crafts tag lol.. hmm

[lecliss]

I'll never be able to take the theory that Vincent is Sephiroth's real father seriously cuz I cannot stress enough how important I think it is to the plot that Vincent wanted to fuck Lucrecia and did not get to.

#once again i jest but now i have to actually talk about it #like. okay we have no proof of any actual timeline for the dirge flashbacks other than. it was at least 30 years ago #so who knows how long they were at the manor. could have been weeks before The Incident. or months. or maybe a full year! who knows #but to me a timeline of like. they fucked and like a week later vincent found The Evidence and lucercia had her little breakdown #AND THEN EXTREMELY QUICKLY SHE AGREED TO THE EXPERIMENT AND IT COULD GO ONE OF TWO WAYS #1. she knew she was pregnant and thats why she agreed to the experiment cuz there was already a usable subject #and therefore she must have fucked hojo like a week after she fucked vincent AND THATS STUPID FAST FOR THESE EVENTS #or 2. she didnt know. agreed to the experiment. fucked hojo. and therefore thought seph was hojo's and NOT vincent's #AND BY THE WAY. i dont even actually believe hojo fucked either!!! cuz theyre both scientists so why wouldnt they think IVF was the best way #okay. well.... hojo is canonically a fucked up little freak. so. he might have taken the opportunity to... get in there. #also when did ivf even start being a thing? cuz that may play a factor into this if nomura even considered that #well either way lets just unfortunately assume hojo got in there #ITS STILL AN ODDLY FAST TIMELINE #also. fuck man doesnt lucrecia have a later line in dirge where she actually says shes in love with hojo? or something along those lines #IMPLYING ITS BEEN AWHILE SINCE SHE HAD THE FALLING OUT WITH VINCENT. YOU WOULDNT FUCK THE GUY AFTER ALL THAT SHIT #AND WHILE CLAIMING TO LOVE/CURRENTLY FALLING IN LOVE WITH HOJO!!!! LIKE CMON MAN!!!! SHE SUCKS BUT SHES NOT THAT KIND OF A MESS #i dont think vincent would fuck her until they sorted out their issues anyway and that CLEARLY didnt happen. #its VITAL that that did not happen!!!! #its just. if vincent and lucrecia fucked. everything would have had to happen EXTREMELY fast within like a 2 week timespan #and im just talking about up to when vincent learns shes partaking in the experiment. it was probably another week or two until vincent died #SO. logically it must have been like #fall in love->learn about the gimoire incident->refuse to speak to vincent->get obsessed with hojo->fall in love(?) #and then thats where i think its ambiguous on did the experiment become an idea before or after seph started to exist? #like chicken or the egg ya know. experiment idea or sephiroth zygote? #that feels fucked up to say. im so fucking sorry to seph to talk about this. yeah sorry i have to debate who fucked your mom bro #god imagine telling him that. like not even as a reveal thing cuz he knows who his father is. just like as a sick joke. your mom joke. #NO OH M Y GOD I HAVE A QUESTION NOW #in accordance to him having a photo of lucrecia in ever crisis. after he reads that jenova is an ancient (incorrect btw) #does he think that picture is still her? what about when he takes jenova's body from the lab???? #oh my god 30 tag limit. FUCK. i need like a rant blog for all this vincent talk now. my brain is going a mile a minute

[panharmonium]

something about how yamato’s immediate and instinctive first reaction is to call out for itachi when all twelve of these coffins (including the ones containing asuma and hayate) open up at exactly the same time is really hitting me in a certain way right now

#naruto #team ro #a true equal #* #something about how it's preceded by naruto calling out for nagato #because naruto isn't calling out for nagato as an enemy now but as a friend #something about how this filler arc is supposed to take place directly AFTER the five kage summit #aka after 'madara' tells kakashi and yamato the truth about the uchiha massacre #something about how even if kakashi and yamato aren't sure yet whether 'madara' was just lying to destabilize the leaf at the outset of war #still. the minute yamato sees itachi. it's like this #and then kabuto whisks itachi's casket away before yamato can get to him #before yamato can ask 'is it true is that true is that what happened to you' #like. i am constantly thinking about this. i am constantly thinking about how urgent itachi becomes in S14 #when naruto says that kakashi and yamato heard 'madara's' story too but don't yet have any proof that it's true #(''then PLEASE naruto; you MUSTN'T tell anyone about this! you cannot let the uchiha clan's name be tarnished!'') #and i'm thinking about how itachi reacts like this because he KNOWS kakashi and yamato won't cover this up the way he wants them to #if they ever got the proof they were looking for (which naruto now has; in the form of itachi's confirmation of what happened) #they would never sit back and let this go #so itachi begs naruto NOT to tell them; not to give them what they need in order to clear his name #because he knows they would do it #he was their comrade. and he knows that kakashi's people - anbu or otherwise - never leave a comrade behind #(this is coincidentally reason 983745 why the naruto ending is TERRIBLE and shockingly inconsistent with the rest of the story but) #(i have already talked about that enough.) #(the only thing i'm interested in talking about here is how much kakashi and yamato care) #(and how clearly itachi recognizes that) #(so much so that he does everything in his power to make sure they never have enough information to help him) #(both before his defection and after his death.)

[loumands]

With every blocklist 90% of the supposed 'receipts' consist just of fans of color venting in their own blogs. Some people in this fandom really are like i can accept racism and child erotica but draw the line at poc expressing any anger over it

#latest post i saw they even had screenshots of black fans affectionately joking about jacob's haircut #and were trying to make it seem like those fans hate jacob and his wife... #it's almost like you don't have any proof these poc fans are actually harassing anyone #iwtvposting #.txt

[crescentfool]

with the year coming to a close, i hope that anyone who's reflecting about how the year went remembers to be kind and fair to themselves with how you evaluate the year as a whole.

i think there are definitely times when life throws things that are... Not So Great at you. whether if it's some external circumstance that surprised you, or maybe your mentality wasn't at it's best. i wish for anyone who's encountered those kinds of challenges to be able to triumph over them and be able to say that they got through it.

heck, it might still be a work in progress even though you've kept chipping away at it, and that's ok! the results will show themselves eventually as you work through it! and i hope that we can all remember to be patient with ourselves as we go through these processes (learning, healing, etc.), because damn, it can be frustrating when you feel like you're "not there yet."

knowing that life can be rough at times, i think it's unfair to yourself (and others) to discount and downplay any progress you've made this year- whether if it's something that you did for the first time, or maybe you came to a new understanding and insight that you didn't have in the previous year.

it's not to say that you should undermine the validity of your experience with hardship, but to take the time to remind yourself what makes life worth living. to recall what moments were the most satisfying to you- and use it to strengthen your resolve for the next year and beyond. no amount of hardship will ever take away from the fact that you deserve to have hope that things will get better.

i hope that looking back on the year, you don't leave out the things you cherish. that you can remember the good that came this year. whether if the small victories are things like meeting someone new, trying something out for the first time, or making some strides in a long-term project/obligation...!

i wish everyone a happy new year! may it be prosperous, and that your life can move in a direction that's close to what you want out of life. you're all going to do great! remember to congratulate yourself for what you did well! despite everything, you're still here, and that's wonderful. never forget that!

#lizzy speaks #hello everyone. i know that there are *checks calendar* still 20 days left of december and 2023 #but i've had a lot of strong emotions and feelings i've had to sort through as i've been thinking about how 2023 went for me #so a lot of what i've written here comes from the perspective of someone in their early 20s #it's like... a crash and burn from when you were a teenager thinking that you know everything #and realizing how big the world is and how many responsibilities there are #all while a feeling of overwhelm looms over as you try to sift your way through the world and adjust your understanding of it #for me i've definitely had an underlying thought that 'you should have your shit together by now why aren't you there yet' #and it's! not motivating! at all! to think that way. and it's made me more than ever want to be a friend to myself. to extend a patient- #kind voice to myself that reminds me that others are also trying to navigate these feelings and to accept that i'm not going to have an- #instantaneous understanding of how one goes about adulthood. and neither will they. even if they look 'put together.' #like... these people have also undergone similar stresses and along the way figured out how to navigate through that space #and personally i've found peace in knowing that there are people who are older than me. trusting that they've dealt with these things too i #some shape or form and that them living... being here.. is proof that we shall be fine in the end and that we will move past what plagues- #our mind. there's definitely been some... anger i've had this year that. school didnt teach me these things or skills!! i was so mad lol #but hey if we are little guys who are living on planet earth for the first time we shouldn't condemn ourselves to an unrealistic standard- #of going through life and being able to instantly do everything 'correctly' and know how everything works #i'm still working on improving that patience... and also trying to put in the work to understand these things. #in the midst of a very tough week for me i was tempted to say that 'nothing happened this year it was not productive' #but then i was like. that's. objectively not true if you just look at other things. also theres worth in life outside of 'productivity' #...i think i passed 20 tags at this point. but like. my favorite thing about 2023 was meeting so many cool awesome people! #who would've known that funny lil squid game could bring so many connections and friendships i cherish! #thank you so much! for being a part of my life and changing me for the better! for giving me many fond memories! #and i'm very grateful to anyone who supported me and my art this year... for sticking around even though i wished i could do more #it means the world to me knowing that there's proof that i exist and have touched someone's life in a positive way! thank you! truly! #ANYWAY. happy early new year. i hope everyone can nourish a friend in their head that extends acceptance and patience to themselves #as we try and make sense of the world together. there will be things that we don't understand yet! but one day we will! and it'll be like #wow! look how far i came! i'm okay! i'm alive! yipee! thank you for reading this post i made to get my feelings out! have a nice day!

[fromtheseventhhell]

Something that's still so crazy to me about this is how intentionally they misinterpreted my point. They used tags that weren't mine but they cropped it in a specific way to frame it as part of my original point. Now, I don't see anything wrong with these tags, but I can guarantee they went looking for tags that they knew would get them a bigger reaction. They had an issue with my post but didn't have any valid reason to be angry at it, so they decided to ignore the point I actually made. Their DNI list tells me exactly why they got so mad at my post though.

A hit dog will holler and they didn't like their behavior being called out for what it is. They're exactly the kind of stansa who hates the idea of Arya and Dany getting along and tries to frame fans of the two as somehow misogynistic. Their entire blog proved my point and they went even further by turning this into an opportunity to put down Dany and Arya, even though my original post said nothing about Sansa. They want to be in the "right" so badly but they don't want to give up unfairly hating characters and harassing their fans. Hilarious. Still, this whole thing is really a nice metaphor for how they read the books; taking things out of context and reframing them to fit their narrative.

#anti sansa stans #anti arya bs #anti daenerys bs #fandom nonsense #still waiting on actually proof that Arya + Dany stans hate on other female characters and their fans #they really thought they gagged me when all they did was prove my point #and then they were too scared to even interact with me so they had to screenshot and repost with my username still visible what a loser #lol I just know they wanted to get me harassed but literally wtf are they going to say? shit talk Arya and Dany stans and prove my point?? #they got mad at me for pointing out how they act like you can't make this shit up